Kotero mpaka nditakwanitsa zaka makumi awiri ndinayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Kuyambira zaka makumi awiri mphambu zisanu ndi ziwiri mphambu zisanu ndi zitatu ndimagwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupifupi katatu kapena kanayi pa sabata (mwina zisanu mpaka zisanu kumapeto) kwa mphindi khumi mpaka makumi awiri pa nthawi. Pa nthawi imeneyi ndinadzipangitsa kuti ndiziyankha zolaula pa intaneti. Ngakhale ndimatha kuchita zomwe ndikufuna pakamwa ndili ndi zaka makumi atatu, ndikutsimikiza malingaliro anga anali atayamba kale kuyambiranso zolaula. Pafupifupi chaka chimodzi ndi miyezi ingapo pambuyo pake, ndidazindikira kuti ndasiya kuyimilira mwadzidzidzi ndipo ndimakhala ndi mavuto akudzutsa akazi ndikakhala pachibwenzi. Panali panthawiyi pamene ndinali kufunafuna mayankho omwe ndinaphunzira za PIED ndikuyamba ulendo wanga wopanda PMO. Tsoka ilo nthawiyo inagwirizana ndi kukanidwa kopweteka ndi mzimayi atalumikizana bwino.
Kukula kwa zomwe ndidadzichitira ndekha mwa zosankha zanga ndi zizolowezi zanga kudatsala pang'ono kuswa. Ndinavutika maganizo ndi kugona tulo, kutaya mapaundi khumi pamwezi. Zolakalaka zanga zazikulu m'moyo ndinali wokwatirana naye, moyo wathanzi wogonana, ndipo pamapeto pake ana ndipo tidaganiza zaka makumi atatu ndi chimodzi ndawononga mwayiwo pamoyo wanga wonse. Mwamwayi, abwenzi angapo komanso bambo anga adandithandiziranso panthawiyi. Kwa miyezi ingapo yotsatira ndinapitiliza kupewa zolaula ndipo ndimayesetsa kuchepetsa maliseche komanso zolaula. Ndinagwiritsa ntchito nthawiyo kuphunzira za zonse zomwe ndimayenera kupereka monga munthu komanso mnzake yemwe ndingakhale naye pachibwenzi komanso kuti nditsimikizire kufunafuna anzanga abwino.
Ndiye zodabwitsa kwa ine ndidakumana ndi munthu wina wosangalatsa kwambiri kudzera pulogalamu. Ndipo zabwinoko analibe vuto kulowa nane paulendo wanga wopanda PMO! Miyezi ingapo, tinkakhala ndi zolembera zomwe zimandilepheretsa kusokonekera pamodzi, komanso ndidayamba kuwona kupita patsogolo kwenikweni. Tsopano, miyezi ingapo pambuyo pake, ndikhoza kunena kuti ngati sindinachiritse kuchokera ku PIED kuposa momwe ndiriri kale ndikadakhala ndi moyo wosangalala wogonana.
Ndaphunzira zambiri pantchitoyi ndipo ndikuthokoza kwambiri, koma uthenga waukulu womwe ndikadakhala nawo kwa ena, kupatula kuopsa kokhala pachibwenzi ndi zolaula, ndi uthenga wa chiyembekezo. Ngati ndikanatha kuyambiranso namwali wanga, ubongo wazaka makumi atatu mphambu ziwiri kuchokera pomwe ndimangokhalira zolaula ndikungodzutsa anthu enieni ndiye ndimamva ngati aliyense angathe!
Zikomo kwambiri kwa Gary Wilson, Gabe Deem ndi mpingo wa Noah omwe adandilimbikitsa kwambiri!
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