Kotero patatha masiku 200 opanda PMO ndipo pambuyo pake pokhapokha 3 nthawi ya MO, ndikuyang'ana pa kugonana kwabwino. Izi zinayambika ndi gawo la 3 MO, chifukwa ndinatha kuimirira ndi malingaliro kokha koyamba zaka 15 +. Ichi chinali chizindikiro choyamba cha machiritso ndipo ine ndinangozipeza izo kupyolera mu (zongoganizira zolakwika) MO.
Kuchokera nthawi imeneyo ndinazindikira kuti zolaula sizoipa, koma malingaliro anga ali.
Kotero kuti ndithane ndi malingaliro oipawo, ndinayamba kusokoneza malingaliro oipa ndi zomwe ndimaganiza kuti ndizomwe ndimagonana zogonana zogonana. Izi zinaphatikizapo ine kuyang'ana ndikugwira akazi, atagona moyandikana ndi iye, kumverera chikondi chake ndi kusagwirizana kwambiri ndi kugonana kulikonse.
Mfundo yakuti ndikuwonetseratu izi zikuwonekera m'maganizo anga inandiuza zambiri za zomwe ndikufunadi. Ndikufuna kukhala ndi chibwenzi komanso kukondana kwambiri ndi amayi komanso kugonana ndikumaliza. Ichi ndi choonadi chozama, chodziwika mwa kudziletsa kwa PMO!
Kotero nthawi yoyamba yomwe ine ndinayesa malingaliro abwino awa, iwo anapha kwenikweni kudzutsa kwanga. Ndili wokonzeka kutsegulidwa ndimisala yamisala komanso nkhani zosavomerezeka, malingaliro olumikizana mwachizolowezi sanandichitire chilichonse ... poyamba.
Potero ndikupitirizabe njira yatsopano yolandirira choonadi changa potsatira zosowa zanga zogonana ndi kuyesera kuti ndikhale ndi malingaliro, ndikuganiza kuti ndondomekoyi ikumveka bwino. Nthano zanga zatsopano ndi ine ndikugona kumunda wouma, dzuwa, ndi akazi ndikugwira dzanja lake kapena kugwira pa ntchafu yake. Ndilo lingaliro la kugwirizana kwakukulu, chitetezo chachikulu ndi kumvetsetsa. Kumene ine ndikuvomerezedwa monga kwathunthu ndikukondedwa. Ndipo timayanjana nawo momasuka kwambiri.
Ndipo malingaliro atsopanowa amandipatsa ine agulugufe mmimba mwanga !!! Ndimadzutsa misala!
Ndakhala ndikugwiritsa ntchito kugonana / PMO kwa zaka zambiri chifukwa sindinaphunzirepo luso lofuna kupeza mtundu umenewu, kotero kugwiritsa ntchito PMO kumandipatsa njira yotsika mtengo komanso yothandiza.
Panopo ndikukumana ndi zovuta izi !! Ndipo iyi ndi nthawi yoyamba mu moyo wanga ndakhala ndikuziwona izi zikuchitika!
Lero ine ndinali pa webusaiti yogulitsa zovala. Ndasewera ndi "zovala za amuna", koma malowa akusweka ndipo amawaphatikiza akazi mu masewera a masewera. Panali chitsanzo chomwe chimagwirizanitsa zofuna zanga ndipo sindingathe kumangomutsitsa ndikukongoletsa thupi lake. Ndinayima ndikuyamba kufalitsa.
Zomwe ndidazindikira ndikulemba ndikuti nditha kuwona izi ndikukhala m'malo moganizira zachiwerewere, nditha kuyesa kuyang'ana zomwe ndikulakalaka kupyola pa chithunzichi. Chifukwa chake ndidabwerera ku webusayiti, ndidapezanso chithunzicho ndikuyang'ana kwambiri pa nkhani yomwe ndimamanga m'mutu mwanga ndikumamuyang'ana. Ndipo ndinadabwa…. ndizo zomwe malingaliro anga okhudzana ndi kugonana amawonetsera !! Sindikuganiza kuti ndakhala ndikuthamangitsa zachiwerewere, ndikuganiza kuti ndakhala ndikuthamangitsa chitetezo cham'maganizo komanso kulumikizana, koma kuwopa kuchipeza pamoyo weniweni, kotero PMO inali yankho losavuta.
Ndapatsa umunthu khalidweli. Ine ndinamupatsa iye kalembedwe, ine ndinamupatsa iye nkhani. Ndinkaganiza kuti amandikonda ndipo timagwirizana, komanso kuti mtsikanayo ndi amene adzakhale pansi mu Udzu ndi ine ndikupanga kuti ndikumverera kuti ndimamukondera komanso ali wotetezeka.
N'zoona kuti pali chilakolako chofuna kumukakamiza, koma ambiri omwe ndikusankha ndikufunafuna wina yemwe amawoneka ngati angagwirizane ndi mtundu umenewo. Osati mkazi wovuta, osati mkazi amene amagona mozungulira ndi anthu ambiri, osati hule, koma munthu wokongola yemwe amatha kumvetsa ine ndipo tikhoza kukhala pamodzi.
Ichi chinali chachikulu chotsegula maso kwa ine !!! Ndipo gawo lotsatira lachirendo changa ndikulingalira malingaliro amenewo ndi kuwafufuza iwo mu moyo weniweni. Ndipo ngati zowonongeka zogonana zowonongeka zimabwerera mmbuyo (momwe zidzakhalira chifukwa ndili ndi zaka 20 + zomwe ndikuzidziwa nazo) Ndikhoza kusinthana ndi malingaliro abwino ndikuyamba kuwona zolaula ndikukweza zokhudzana ndi zilakolako zanga osati zowonongeka Zakale.
Ndipo gwiritsani ntchito zomwe zili m'mutu mwanga zomwe zimandichititsa kuti ndipulumutse dziko lenileni ndikulowa malo opanga malingaliro a PMO.
LINK - Zatsopano zogonana zokhudzana ndi kugonana zinayambika popanda PMO.
by MasterRoshi
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