Ndili ndi masiku 90 zolaula komanso maliseche kwaulere. Ndiyo miyezi itatu. Sindikudziwa kwenikweni m'miyezi iwiri yapitayi - zakhala zachilendo ndipo sindiphonya. Zasintha chiyani munthawi ino ndipo zikufanana bwanji?
- Ndimagonabe koma ndimakonda kwambiri ndipo ndimakondwera nazo. Ndi mkazi wanga nawonso. Tili ndi ana aang'ono awiri koma timayembekezera nthawi yomwe timakhala limodzi komanso magawo atali, ochezeka komanso osangalatsa.
- Ndili ndi nthawi yambiri yochitira zinthu zabwino. Nthawi yomwe ndimagwiritsa ntchito intaneti pa ma camu tsopano ndiyoganiza zantchito, ndikupanga bizinesi yanga (yomwe ndimalekerera) komanso chidwi ndi zinthu zomwe ndidaiwala zomwe ndidali nazo.
- Ndimakhala womasuka ndekha komanso ndimakhala ndi anthu otani. Sindikumvanso chisoni. Kulowerera mu makamu ndikuthamangitsa nthawi yaulere kuti ndigwiritse ntchito makamu kumandisiya ndikumverera kopanda kanthu ndikumva kutayika. Ndikadandaula nthawi yomwe ndataya maola ambiri yomwe ikadatha kugwiritsidwa ntchito pazinthu zina zowonjezereka. Ndimakhala womasuka ndikakhala ndi anthu popeza sindimamva kuti ndine woyenera ndipo kudzidalira kwanga kumatha. Kutsiriza nthawi yamakina kumathetsanso zovuta izi - sizimasowa kwathunthu (aliyense amadzimvera chisoni nthawi zina) koma ndizosavuta kuthana nazo.
Ndinazisiya bwanji? Ndinadziwa choyambitsa changa. Choyambitsa changa chinali pandekha, ndikudziwa kuti ndinali ndi maola awiri kapena atatu ndekha mnyumba. Aliyense atangochoka zinali zomwezo - ndinali pa intaneti ndipo ndimayang'ana. Chifukwa chake m'malo mokhala ndekha ndimakhala wotanganidwa. Ndinaonetsetsa kuti sindikhala ndekha mwezi woyamba. Ndipo ndikadakhala kuti ndidatsimikizika kuti ndibwera pano ndikulemba m'malo mwake.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndiri pano tsopano. Sindinakhale ndekha kunyumba pafupifupi mwezi kotero kuti tsopano, ndabwera, ndidzagawana ndipo zimandithandiza. Zonse ndizosintha zizolowezi. Ndife zolengedwa zachizolowezi ndipo timabwereza zochitika, ngakhale zitatiwononga. Okalamba timakhala ovuta kwambiri kuwasintha koma titha kutero. Ndimakonda kwambiri makamu ndipo ndikudziwa kuti ndikabwereranso kwa iwo ndikayambiranso zizolowezi zanga zakale koma ndikapatula nthawi yayitali ndimayenera kukhala ndi zizolowezi zina zatsopano zomwe zimandipangitsa kumva bwino. Ndiye chifukwa chake ndimamatira.
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