Zaka 30 - Ndili ngati wachinyamata kachiwiri, ndipo mkazi wanga salinso wogonana kuti akwaniritse malingaliro anga olakwika otumizidwa ndi zolaula

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Tumizani -  Mwamuna wanga ali ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula / kugonana ndipo sindikudziwa momwe ndingamuthandizire. Ndikumva kutayika mu izi ndikusowa chiyembekezo.

Osatsimikiza ngati iyi ndi malo omwe angatumize ndipo mwamuna wanga akhoza kukhala kwinakwake pagulu lino, koma sindikudziwa kuti ndipiti chomwe ndikufunseni. Kulira pamene ndikulemba izi. Ali ndi chizoloŵezi cholaula zolaula kuyambira ali wachinyamata ndipo anali wotseguka pa izo pamene ife tinakumana koyamba ndi zomwe anali kuchita za izo. Koma, ndinali wosalankhula ndipo sindinamvetse momwe zinakhudzira ubongo wake kapena ubale wathu. Tonse tinali anamwali pamene tinakwatirana, koma ndinazindikira kuti pali zinthu zambiri zomwe anali kuyembekezera kuti sindikumva nazo. Kuthamanga zaka 8 zaukwati ndipo zayamba kukudziŵa kuti nkhaniyi yakhala ikupezekapo ndipo ndi njovu yayikulu ya pinki m'chipinda chomwe sindikudziwa momwe ndingayandikire. Zimapweteka kwambiri. Ndimamva ngati zolaula zimabedwa mwamuna wanga ali ndi vuto lililonse labwino, chifukwa m'malo mogwira ntchito, amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi maliseche monga mankhwala. Kodi zimawoneka bwanji kukhala ndi thanzi labwino muukwati wathu? Atatha kuchita zolaula kwa miyezi yowerengeka, ndinayamba kumangokhalira kumangokhalira kuchita zinthu zolaula komanso kumangomaliza. Kodi pali sub reddit chifukwa abwenzi a zolaula amadwala? Kodi ndichita chiyani kuti ndibweretse ufulu wa ubale wathu? Ndikumva wotayika kwambiri. Zikomo chifukwa cha malangizo anu. -mkazi wachikondi

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Monga bambo yemwe wachita nawo zachiwerewere kapena zolaula ndimamva kuti nditha kupereka malingaliro anga kuposa malangizo. Maganizo a aliyense amagwira ntchito mosiyanasiyana kuti zomwe zimandigwira zitha kumugwirira ntchito.

Kuleza mtima ndi kulankhulana ndizofunikira, zolaula zili ndi njira zowonetsera zoyembekezeka zosagonana, zooneka, zakuthupi komanso ngakhale zochitika. Chilengedwe china chokhalira chokweza chimene mwana aliyense amatha kuziwona. Chilichonse chodabwitsa monga momwe chingakhalire chikhoza kukhala chimodzimodzi chakale chakale ndipo chimene chimayendera zolaula zomwe poyamba mwazi wanu wophika kulakalaka zingakhale zosasangalatsa ndi zosasangalatsa kotero kuti mupite mwakuya mpaka mwakuya mpaka simudziwa zomwe zikukuchitikirani.

Ndinali wofunitsitsa kugonana wamba kuti ndikufuna kukondana ndi mkazi wanga wokongola. bwanji moyo wanga sunali ngati mavidiyo komwe ndimabwera kunyumba komwe ndimakonda zachiwerewere? Zimanditsogolera ku kumwa kwambiri, kusowa chikondi, kufunafuna azimayi ena. Ndinali chisokonezo chokwanira, ndinasiya kuwona mkazi wanga ngati bwenzi langa ndipo m'malo mwake ndimagonana ndipo ndimatha kunena kuti tsoka ndi ine moyo wanga wogonana umayamwa chifukwa sindikubwera kunyumba yogona, kumayembekezera kwathunthu komanso kuganiza zenizeni .

Nthawi iliyonse yomwe tinagonana ndikulephera kugonana, mutu wanga sunali weniweni "Ndingathe bwanji kukhala wofanana ndi zolaula"? cholinga china chofuna kukondweretsa.

Mkazi wanga amandidziwa ndipo nditasiya chizolowezi choipa ichi zinthu zidayamba kusintha koipa koyambirira koma bwino. Cholinga chofuna kutengeka mtima chidabwera kwa ine ndipo mwamwayi analibe chilichonse, ndinatembenukira chosowa changa chonse, ndinkafuna chilakolako chakumva kwakanthawi m'moyo… ngati galu mukutentha ndimakhala pa iye osayima, ndinkangokhalira kukwiya komanso kutekeseka koma posakhalitsa zonse zidangochoka.

Palibenso kusatetezeka kapena kuyembekezera, sindikusamala zomwe anthu ena akuchita ndi ziwalo zawo, sindikufanizira moyo wanga wa kugonana ndi chirichonse, sindikufanizira ubale wanga ndi ochita maseŵera. Mukapeza chisangalalo chenicheni chonse chomwe mumaganizira ndi munthu ameneyo panthawiyi ndikuwapangitsa kukhala osangalala popanda chisamaliro padziko lapansi.

Zimatengera kudziletsa kwambiri ngati mwamuna wanu akufuna kupanga kusintha kumeneku akufuna kuti azichita yekha, kuleza mtima, kulankhulana ndi chikondi ndicho chinsinsi, musakhale kompyuta yake chifukwa zimamupatsa zomwe akuganiza kuti amafunikira mpaka iyo isagwirenso ntchito ndipo iyenera kusunthira pa china.

Kugonana kunandithandiza kwambiri, ndizovuta kukumbukira nthawi zina zomwe zimatikakamiza pachiyambi koma ndinapita ku malo omwe ndinakondwera nawo / kukondana kwanga kukonda masewera enieni ndikukondwereranso ku chiyanjano changa (palibe chosokoneza chilichonse Zithunzi zolaula) zinkaonetsa zithunzi zosiyana kapena zovomerezeka za kugonana usiku watsogolo zina zowonjezera nthawi yambiri ndikugwira ntchito mobwerezabwereza ndikubwera kunyumba zosangalatsa zambiri ndi chilakolako chakuthupi kwa mkazi wanga.

Kumapeto kwa tsiku ndilo kusankha kwake, ali ndi mphamvu zobwezera moyo wake kuti asakhale ndi moyo wabwino, sangapeze tsogolo labwino komanso ubale ngati akudziyesa kuti asiye koma akupita kumadzi osambira nthawi zambiri. ayenera kukhala omasuka ndi oona mtima pa momwe akumvera ndipo muyenera kukhala oona mtima za momwe zimakupangitsani kumva.

Pulogalamu yaumwini yakusiya:

Chisangalalo cha chilengedwe mwa chikondi chenicheni ngakhale kumpsompsona poyerekezera ndi kugonana kwa m'kamwa pofuna kuyesa kukonzekera kugonana. (Ndili ngati kachiwiri kachiwiri ku 30) adzakwaniritsa zozizwitsa zabwino (zachipatala) komanso zowoneka bwino.

Ndimalemekeza, ndimakonda komanso ndimakhumba mkazi wanga kwathunthu, iye si chinthu chogonana kuti akwaniritse malingaliro anga olakwika otumizidwa ndi zolaula & kumusangalatsa zimandibweretsera chisangalalo poyerekeza ndi momwe ndingadyetsere malingaliro anga.

Ndayamba kudziyesa ndekha sindimadzimva kuti sindinagwedezeke ndi 14 inch wiener, ndilibe zitsulo kapena zovuta za kavalo wothamanga, sindidziyerekezera ndekha ndi zovuta zenizeni za kuchita, musaganize kuti chirichonse chimangokondwera nthawiyo.

Ndapeza kudzoza kobisika ndi nthawi yanga ... zabwino, zamphamvu, testosterone zolimbikitsidwa, malingaliro amalingaliro ndimangomverera kuti ndine mwamuna wabwino komanso mwamuna wabwino.

Pomalizira ku mapeto anga, ndikukufunirani mwayi, ndikukuyamikirani chifukwa chosamusiya koma moona mtima atakhala chizoloŵezi chake moyo wake udzasintha bwino, malinga ngati iwo ndi amayi ena omwe amamvetsera iye ndi moyo wake Padzakhala chimwemwe pakati pa chimwemwe chanu palimodzi.

Kugonana kungakhale kuganiza pakati pa anthu a 2 omwe alipo, mumangofunika kukhala pamaganizo ndi mwathupi.