Monga mutu wanga umanenanso, nditayesera maulendo ambiri ndikulephera kutalika kwa 2017 komanso 2018 koyambirira, ndachita. Ndapita masiku 90 opanda PMO.
Pa masiku 90 apitawa, ndaziwona zonse; Zokwera bwino komanso momwe mumamvera sizingatheke, ndipo dziko lapansi ndi oyisitara wanu. Pokumana ndi kutaya mtima komwe mumamverera ngati chidutswa chopanda pake pomwe simungathe kudziyang'ana pagalasi, ndi chilichonse chapakati.
Chomwe ndinganene ndichakuti mosasamala za zapamwamba, chinthu chomwe chasintha kwambiri ndikuti tsopano ndikudzidalira komanso ndikulimba mtima. Porn inali cholepheretsa chachikulu kwambiri m'moyo wanga ndipo idawononga chidaliro changa komanso kudzidalira kwa 5 zaka zapitazo pamene ndinali kusekondale mu kalasi 9. Mutha kunena kuti iyi inali nthawi yomwe ndimafunika kulimba mtima kwambiri. Ndisanayambe zolaula ndinali munthu wanzeru, wokonda kucheza komanso woseketsa yemwe anali ndi anzanga ambiri komanso ndimachita nsanje kwambiri.
Nthawi ina nditayamba kuzolowera zinthu zomwe ndi pomwe zinthu zimayamba kusintha ndipo kusungika kwanga kumayamba kudyedwa pang'onopang'ono, mkati mopitilira kusintha kwa mahormoni. Pamwamba pa izi ndimapezeka kuti ndikuyesera udzu. Chinsinsi cha tsoka lol.
Chosangalatsa ndichakuti ndikumbukira Koyamba Koyamba ndidadzikayikira ndekha. Inali nthawi yopuma kusukulu pomwe palibe mnzanga aliyense pa nthawiyo amene amafuna kuti adzandilandira. Mphindi ino ndikanamatira ndi ine ndipo zimangokulirakulira ndipo ndisanadziwe, ndinali wokhumudwa.
Zizindikiro zanga kusukulu zatsika ndipo kumwa mankhwalawa kunachuluka, zomwe zimapangitsa kutsika komwe kumapitilira kwa zaka pafupifupi 3. Gulu la 10 ndi 11 kwa ine (16yo ndi 17yo) zinali zowonadi zaka zoyipa kwambiri m'moyo wanga.
2016 chinali chaka chosintha. Apa mpamene msuwani wanga anamwalira chifukwa cha mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Ndimamva ngati wotayika, wosungulumwa, sindinamvepo kuti ndidakwanira kuyambira ndichichepere koma kukhumudwa kwanga kudawonetsa izi. Komabe ndidakumana ndi mlangizi wanga woyamba komanso mnzake wapamtima chaka chimenecho. Anali wamkulu kundiposa zaka 7 ndipo adaona kena kake mwa ine, ndipo sizinali zenizeni momwe adandithandizira komanso kundithandiza. Anandipatsa malangizo ndikusintha moyo wanga. M'gawo lomaliza la 2016 ndidaganiza zotenga maphunziro anga kusukulu mozama. Ndidakhoza bwino ndikupita kuyunivesite kuti ndikaphunzire zomwe ndimafuna kuphunzira.
Zolaula sizinayime komabe, kusungulumwa kwanga kunakulitsidwa ku yunivesite kwakanthawi. Pamwamba pa ichi ndimasuta ndudu, zomwe zimangokulitsa manyazi omwe ndimamverera.
Apa ndipamene ndidazindikira kuti ndili ndi vuto ndipo ndidayesera kuti ndisiye kangapo konse, mu 2017
Nditha kupitiliza mpaka muyaya, ndipo 2017 idatangwanitsanso yokha koma ndikufuna kutsimikiza. Kuyambira Epulo chaka chino ndidaganiza zodzisamalira chifukwa sindingathe kukhalabe ovuta ngakhale nditakhala ndi chibwenzi chiti. Pambuyo pake ndinabwera koyamba ndi bwenzi langa lapamtima pa 76.
Ndikungofuna kunena kuti nofap yabwezeretsa munthu wokondwa yemwe ndinali m'mbuyomo. Ndikugwirabe ntchito zolakwitsa zanga koma ndasintha kakhumi. Tsopano ndili ndi ulemu, ndipo ndazindikira kuti anthu adzakuyang'ana momwe umadzionera.
Tsiku lililonse linali lovuta kwa ine ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndicho chinsinsi cha nofap (ndi moyo); Kutenga TSIKU LIMODZI NTHAWI YINA. Nditha kusaka mozama "nofap day 37" kapena 'nofap day 62' pa google ndipo ndikadakhala wolimbikitsidwa ndikulimbikitsidwa kapena kumvera chisoni nkhani zomwe anthuwa adagawana. Tsiku lililonse anthu monga inu ndi ine. Ndinapitilizabe chizolowezi mpaka tsiku 90 ndipo ndidapitilira.
Paulendo, ndidalira ndekha kwa nthawi yoyamba. Apa ndipamene ndidazindikira kufunikira kodzikonda komanso momwe SUDZAKHALIRA kukhala pamtendere ngati sudzikonda wekha. Ndidali ndi malingaliro oti "ndikadzakwaniritsa izi kenako NDidzadzikonda ndekha .." Ayi. Ndizosiyana.
Ndipo pamenepa ndimaliza Essay yanga. Izi mwina ndi chimodzi chomaliza chomwe ndapanga pa tsambali. Ndili ndi moyo wonse kuti ndikhale ndi zinthu zina zofunika kuchita pamlingo. Nanunso. Muziyang'anira zinthuzi, pomwe nthawi yomweyo mukuchita zomwe mukufuna kuchita. Mumangokhala kamodzi kokha ndipo muyenera kungoyesa. Ichi chidzakhala chowonetsera cha 2018 yanga; CHAKA CHOMWE NDIMATSITSIRA ZABWINO ZABWINO.
Zikomo chifukwa chosasangalatsa komanso pamsonkhanowu. Mwapulumutsa, ndikusintha, ndikupanga moyo wanga zonse nthawi imodzi. Kwakhala kuli kuphulika.
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