Kumayambiriro kwa chaka chino, ndimkawerenga za zoyipa zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha zolaula, choncho ndidaganiza zowona ngati ndingaleke kuwonera, ngakhale sindinaganize kuti ndili ndi vuto. Sindikudziwa kuti zakhala bwanji kuyambira pomwe ndidasiya, koma miyezi ingapo ndiyeso yabwino. M'mbuyomu, ndikagonana, ndimakhala ndi vuto losamaliza nthawi yayitali (ndimatha maola ambiri), ngakhale kutaya chidwi pakati. Zimandivuta kuti ndisamangokhalira kuchita zinthu zenizeni, koma izi sizinali zovuta ngakhale ndikuonera zolaula.
Chiyambireni kuchotsa zolaula, ndatha kumaliza nthawi yokwanira, osapanga zomwe zinandichitikira ine ndi anzanga. Ndatha kuzibwezeretsa posachedwa, popeza ndimamva kuti kugonana kwanga kwachilengedwe (kwa anthu enieni, osati nyenyezi zolaula) kwasintha kwambiri. Ndadzipeza kuti ndimakhala wotseguka kwambiri ku kinks zomwe amayi andiuza, zomwe ndikadaziwombera nthawi yomweyo popeza sindinawawone pa zolaula, sindimaganiza kuti anali "abwinobwino".
Kuchotsa kapena kuchepetsa zolaula kumatha kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zabwino kwa inu komanso kwa anthu omwe mumakhala nawo pafupi. Ndikukhulupirira kuti zokumana nazo zitha kukhala zolimbikitsa komanso zolimbikitsa kwa anthu omwe akulimbana ndi izi, zabwino zonse kwa inu nonse!
LINK - Kodi kuchotsa zolaula kwandithandiza bwanji pa moyo wanga wogonana
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