Chabwino abale, ndabwera kudzakufotokozerani masiku 90! Ngakhale mwaukadaulo ndikukhulupirira kuti ndatsala pang'ono pafupifupi maola 3.5 koma ndikhala kuti ndagona nthawi imeneyo. Chifukwa chake, nazi.
Zinthu zomwe ndazindikira:
Kuda nkhawa kwakanthawi kulibe komwe ndidakumana nako kwazaka 30+! Kuda nkhawa kumakhalabe kumbuyo koma osati kutsogolo. Zimangokhala ngati "china" mchipinda koma osandipanikiza nthawi zonse.
Kukula kwa tsitsi kumafanana. Ndinayamba kutaya tsitsi langa zaka 20+ zapitazo ndisanakule kotero kuti ndizabwinobwino kwambiri, koma ndiyenera kumeta ndekha mwachangu poyerekeza ndi zomwe ndimakonda.
Zokambirana ndi anthu ena zimandichititsa chidwi kapena sizimandisangalatsa. Ndine wokondweretsa anthu kwa moyo wanga wonse yemwe adadziyerekeza ndekha, LOTI! Tsopano, ngati msonkhanowu ukundisangalatsa, ndimadya ndipo ngati satero, ndimasiyana ndikudzidalira osachita mantha.
Kumvetsetsa kwanga kwamalingaliro kuli bwino kwambiri! Ndimakumbukira zinthu ndipo ndikalakwitsa, sizowononga monga kale. Apanso, mwina amalumikizana ndi nkhawa ikuchepa. Kusakhala wosaiwalitsa kwandilola kuti ndizisunga zochitika zazikulu m'miyoyo ya anthu zomwe ndingagwiritse ntchito pokambirana mtsogolo.
Ndikulankhulabe pang'onopang'ono, kuyeza, ndikuwerengera m'malo mongokhalirakungoyenda. Mawu ndi ozama. Kukambirana kumamveka bwino komanso kosavuta. Ndakhala ndikupita patsogolo mokwanira kuuza abwana anga kuti ali ndi ngongole nane nkhomaliro ndipo adavomera, lol! Sindikadakhala ndikutsogolera zaka zapitazo koma tsopano ndili ndi malingaliro oti ndani amapatsa af * co m'malo mongokhala ndi nkhawa zakukhumudwitsa wina. Sindine wokwiya, ndikudziwa zomwe ndizovomerezeka, koma sindidandaula zakukhumudwitsa kapena kukhumudwitsa anthu.
Pemphani zolimbikitsa za pmo & edging koma zimadza ndi mafunde. Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zimachitika chifukwa chokhala ndi chilakolako chogonana m'malo molakalaka "kumasulidwa" ngati mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
Ndimasilira azimayi tsopano ndipo ndimacheza ndi malingaliro komanso mosavuta. Ndikuwona anthu akuyankhula nane mobwerezabwereza, sindikumva kuti ndili pafupi ndi anthu monga momwe ndinkakhalira. Anthu amakonda kwambiri ine.
Pomaliza, sindimafuna "kupita ndi kutuluka" ndikutsata anthu ena. Ngati ndikufuna kuchita zinazake, ndimazichita. Ndili ndi ntchito yatsopano yoyenda mozungulira tsiku lonse ndipo sabata yanga yoyamba ndalandira mayamiko potenga zinthu zomwe zidatsalira kwa nthawi yayitali ndisanafike. Ndimati izi ndikuwonjezera mphamvu zanga ndikumvetsetsa zinthu mwachangu chifukwa ndili ndi malingaliro omveka bwino.
Ndizo za masiku 90 ndipo Ngati mwawerenga izi, ZIKOMO! Nonse muli izi ndipo ndikulimbana. Mukulimbana ndi misala yanu. Mukulimbana ndi zizolowezi zosokoneza bongo. Kumenyera miyoyo yanu kuti ikhale yabwinoko ndipo ndichovuta kwambiri chomwe mungakumane nacho.
Ngati mukukumana ndi zovuta zina, nyamukani ndikuyambiranso. Phunzirani, kupita patsogolo, ndikupita patsogolo. Izi ndizovuta, osati zopinga. Ngati mukufuna thandizo, funsani. Tabwera limodzi ndipo tikuyenera kulephera tokha.
TILI-TILI NDI-IZI!
LINK - Tsiku 90 - Kusintha
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