Kauntala wanga wamasiku agunda 89 lero, ndipo sabata ikubwerayi ndakonzekera kuthawa usiku ndi mkazi wanga wazaka 23. Ndinganene kuti ndikuthokoza Mphamvu yanga Yapamwamba kuti ndaphunzira zambiri panthawiyi, ndawona zopindulitsa zambiri, ndakumanapo ndi anthu ambiri abwino (pafupifupi komanso mu Real Life), ndipo ndakumanapo ndi kusintha kwa zizolowezi za tsiku ndi tsiku zomwe zapanga kusiyana kwenikweni.
Ndikulankhula ndi m'modzi mwa AP anga m'mawa uno, adayankha kuti kulephera kwa anthu ogonana ndi zolaula kudali zaka za m'ma 90s (percentile), ndipo pambuyo pake adazindikira kuti ndakhala wokwatiwa kwa nthawi yayitali bwanji anati "Mukuyesa zovuta zambiri bwana. Ndikufunika kupita ku Vegas. ”
Mndandanda wazida zomwe ndimayika zili pano. Ndikamakumbukira m'miyezi itatu yapitayi, zinthu zingapo zimawoneka zofunikira kwambiri kuti ndidzichiritse, ndikuwonetsa zowonetsa zamakhalidwe omwe amafooketsa kutha kwanga.
Dongosolo
Inde ndili ndi ndondomeko yolemba momwe ndingakhalire zolaula- komanso osachita maliseche. Ngati mukungoyamba kumene, nayi Dongosolo lamasiku 7 kwa inu(podcast ndi ndondomeko). Ndimagwiritsa ntchito Dongosolo lamasiku 30 likupezeka pano (kanema ndi ulalo wa PDF). Pali zotsatira zomveka zobwereranso komanso mphotho yomveka ya mwezi wopambana (mwachitsanzo, chikondwerero usiku wonse). Pali mindandanda yazodziwitsa malo osatetezeka ndi zoyambitsa, komanso momwe ndingathetsere malowa ndi zoyambitsa.
Othandizira Kuyankha.
Ayi, uyu si woyang'anira wanga woti andigwiritsire ntchito kukawauza, izi zili ngati mnzanga yemwe nditha kuyankhula naye, kutumiza imelo ndi kutumizirana mameseji pafupipafupi, ndikuthandizana. Ndimagawana ndondomeko yanga yamwezi ndi AP wanga, pali zingapo zomwe ndimalumikizana nazo, ndipo ndizofunika kwambiri. Inde ndikumvetsetsa kuti anthu ambiri pano alowetsedwa, ali ndi nkhawa, kapena ali munthawi yomwe amawona kuti sangayanjane ndi ena kuti achire. Komabe pali zabwino zambiri pakukambirana ndi ena mu Moyo Weniweni, ndikamapereka lingaliro loti ndigwire nawo miyoyo ya ena ndikutanthauza. Ndimadziwa bwino zifukwa zomwe ndakhala ndikuzimvapo kale. Ndizopweteketsa mtima komanso zomvetsa chisoni kuti ndiziwerenga m'magazini pano zaka 3, 4 kapena 5 (ndipo nthawi zina kupitilira apo) pomwe amuna akumalimbanabe ndikutha nthawi ndi nthawi. Kuthetsa vutoli sikophweka, ndipo kumafunika kugwira ntchito, mosakayikira za izi. Ndipo ngati chinsinsi chakuchira, kodi muli ndi anthu omwe mungawaitane kanthawi kochepa mukakopeka ndikuchita zoyendera pakati? Ngati simukuyimbira anthu pafupipafupi kuti mulankhule za momwe mukuchira, simudzayitananso anthu omwe akufunikira thandizo.
kuphunzira
Mutha kuphunzira tani powerenga mabuku, ndikuwerenga zokumana nazo za ena pano pamsonkhano uno, komanso kutenga nawo mbali pamisonkhano yamagulu monga AAP or SAA. Ndili ndi buku lachisanu ndi chiwiri kuti ndichiritsidwe ndi zolaula, ndipo nditha kuwerengera Big Book la AA ndi Green Book la SAA ngati mabuku anga apamwamba oti ndithandizire. Pali ena ambiri omwe athandizidwadi kwambiri - Kuchokera mu Shadows ndi The Final Freedom akubwera m'maganizo. Ndili ndi mabuku ena anayi kapena asanu omwe afola, ndipo ndikufuna kupitiliza izi popeza nthawi zonse pamakhala zambiri zoti ndiphunzire pochira chifukwa ndimagwira nawo ntchito kuti ndichiritse. Komanso Zolaula Zolaula za Porn wakhala kiyi miyezi itatu yapitayi; sabata yatha ndidamaliza Gawo 255 ndipo ndili wachisoni kuti palibe magawo omwe atsala. Palinso ena pankhani yokhudza zolaula, koma palibe chomwe chingalimbikitse pakadali pano.
Zizolowezi Zatsiku ndi Tsiku
Ndachepetsa, ndikugwiritsa ntchito njira zapa media, komanso zamagetsi zamagetsi. Palibe owonera TV, osachedwa usiku pamaso pa kompyuta ikusefukira pa intaneti, osawerenga nkhani, kuwona kwa Amish Hour kuyambira 9 kapena 930pm mpaka ndikagone (makamaka 1030 kapena 11pm). Nthawi yogwiritsira ntchito kuwerenga, kulemba, kuganiza, kapena kucheza ndi abale anu. Ndikadzuka, ndimakhala pa intaneti; komabe ndikuchita nawo pano komanso pamsonkhano wa PAA Daily Journey ngati chizolowezi chatsiku ndi tsiku, kapena cholingana ndi ma AP. Izi zimamveka kuti ndizokhazikika, ndipo sangalalani ndikusinthako kwambiri. Chizolowezi china chatsiku ndi tsiku chimakhala kuyenda kwakutali m'mawa komanso madzulo ambiri, ndikakhala ndekha ndimamvera ma podcast.
Mapindu Owonedwa
Chabwino, zitatha zonsezi, ndapindulanji? Pongoyambira, ukwati wopulumutsidwa womwe wapulumuka pamavuto ndipo uli wamphamvu kuposa kale.
Chachikulu kwambiri, kunena mosabisa, ndi moyo wathu wogonana.
Zambiri zagawidwa zomwe sizinafotokozedwe kwazaka zopitilira 20. Kuthamangitsidwa kwakanthawi, chinthu chomwe ndidakumana nacho kwa zaka pafupifupi 15, changotayika patangotha milungu ingapo. Ndipo malingaliro ogonana amakhala otanganidwa kwambiri ndi mnzake, zomwe zimapangitsa kusiyana kotere.
Kunja kwa chipinda chogona malingaliro anga ndikuchita zinthu ndizosiyana - sindimangokhala chabe.
Kuntchito, kulimba mtima ndi kumveka komwe kunalibe kale, komanso nthawi yabwino pamene ndidayamba gawo latsopano miyezi ingapo ndisanayambe ulendowu. Kunyumba, cholinga cholumikizirana ndi ana anga, komanso kuwona mtima ndikazindikira kuchuluka kwa mabodza omwe ndidafalitsa ndikadakonda zolaula ndikubisala. Ku bungwe lodzipereka, kufunitsitsa kupereka, osayembekeza kubweranso kapena kudandaula za momwe zinthu zimachitikira, ndikufunitsitsa kukhala gawo la yankho, m'malo mongodandaula.
Ngati mukungoyamba kumene ndikuwerenga izi, nditha kunena kuti ndizovuta koma ndizothandiza. Mutha kukhala kuti mudali achichepere kwambiri nthawi yomaliza yomwe mudalibe PMO, ndikukhala opanda PMO mudzazindikira zinthu zatsopano, ndikukhala ndi moyo watsopano.
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