Ndazindikira zinthu zingapo, ndipo ndimafuna kugawana zomwe zapezedwa zomwe sizikambidwa zambiri pagululi. Kudzuka ndikosavuta kwambiri. Monga munthu yemwe amakhala ndi nkhawa kwa nthawi yayitali, kudzuka m'mamawa kupita kuntchito ndizovuta kwambiri masana, ndipo kugona nthawi yayitali nthawi zambiri zimakhala bwino kwambiri.
Popeza nofap ndimangodzuka ndimphamvu kwambiri - thupi langa limandidzutsa ndisanafike alamu. Izi ndizabwinoko kuposa khofi aliyense, kapena china chilichonse chosalimbikitsa. Nofap ndiyofunika chifukwa cha ichi chokha
Nofap anali kusiyana pakati pa ine ndi munthu wina aliyense amene ndinamuwona. Ndimagwira ntchito yabwino, ndili ndi thanzi labwino, ndili ndi banja labwino koma nthawi zonse ndimamva kuti pali kusiyana pakati pa ine ndi anyamata ena, zomwe sindinathe kuziyika. Ndimayang'ana kwa omwe ndimawalemekeza ndikuganiza kuti sindingakhale abwino ngati iwowo. Nofap imandipangitsa kumva - ndili wabwino ngati wina aliyense, ndipo ndipanga bulu wanga kukwaniritsa zolinga zanga kuti tsiku lina ndikadzakwaniritsa zolinga zanga, ndili ndi ufulu woyenda mutu wanga utakwezedwa. Ndikumva ngati 'wabwinobwino' ndipo sindingagulitse malingaliro awa padziko lapansi, osatinso za fap.
Ndinasiyana ndi mtsikana chaka chapitacho chifukwa adayamba kuwona wina, ndipo ndidazindikira dzulo kuti apita kukakhala naye. Monga msungwana yekhayo amene ndakhala ndikumukonda, ndikudziwa kuti ndikadakhala ndikuphwanyidwa mwachizolowezi, ndimakhala tsiku lonse ndikumunamizira iye ndi chibwenzi chake pa facebook, kuganiza zolakwika, ndikupanga chilichonse chosemphana ndi ulemu. Sindikunamizira kuti nkhanizi sizinandikhudze, koma ndidasankha kuti zisandivutitse ndikuzigwiritsa ntchito kupatsira moyo wanga ndikakhala kuti ndilibe cholinga. Zambiri mwa izi zikukhudzana ndi kuganiza bwino ndikukhala ndi malingaliro abwino, koma ndikumva kuti nofap ili ndi gawo lofunika kuchita.
Mfundo yomwe ndikuyesera kunena ndiyakuti chifukwa ndinali pa nofap komanso chifukwa ndinali ndi malingaliro athanzi, nditamva nkhaniyi dzulo, ndinayiyankha ngati munthu ndipo ndinapitilizabe kugwira ntchito molimbika pamoyo wanga. Ndani akudziwa zovuta zomwe zikubwera mawa, ndipo nofap idandilola kuti ndikumane ndi zomwe ndikadasokonekera mwanjira yabwino.
Ngakhale akunja akuvutika kuti akhulupirire zomwe zachitika, nazi zina zomwe zikuwonetsa kuti ndizothandiza. Kwa ambiri a ife pano kukula ndiye gwero lalikulu la chisangalalo chabwino chomwe timakumana nacho tsiku ndi tsiku, komanso kwa ambiri aife opanda zibwenzi kapena zibwenzi - gwero lathu lokhalo lomasulidwa. Mwa kupewa zomwe mumakonda tsikulo ndikuyembekeza kuti mawa liziwala chifukwa cha izi, mukuwuza malingaliro anu kuti mukuyang'anira moyo wanu.
(Ndikudziwa kuti ndi nkhani yayitali koma ndimayenera kuchichotsa pachifuwa panga, ndipo uwu ndi umodzi mwamadera olimbikitsa kwambiri komanso olimbikitsa pa intaneti omwe ndawona. Nthawi zambiri ndikadakhala wotsutsana ndikugawana china chonga ichi pa intaneti, koma moyo ndi waufupi kwambiri osadandaula za zinthu zopusa monga choncho nthawi zonse.Ndikuyembekeza kukhala munthu wotsimikiza chifukwa, ngakhale ndimadana ndi momwe amagulitsidwira monga zomwe zapezedwa posachedwa kapena mapiritsi azodabwitsa, ndimakhulupiriradi nthanthi yomwe idayambitsa ndinali ndi nthawi m'moyo wanga pomwe ndimangoganiza zoyipa ndipo ndizomwe zimandichitikira zokhazo zomwe zidandichitikira. Mfundo m'moyo wanga zomwe sindinalole kuti kusalabadira kundigwire ndikudzikakamiza kuti ndikhale ndi chiyembekezo, chabwino zimandichitikira nthawi zonse. Zikondwerero zowerenga)
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