Chifukwa chake izi zimawoneka ngati zopenga kwa ena, koma ndili ndi malingaliro ovomerezeka ngati zolaula zimapangitsa anthu kukhala ndi dysphoria. Ndikuwona zolaula komanso zolaula ndawonapo anthu angapo akutchula momwe zolaula zasinthira kugonana kwawo komanso malingaliro awo.
Ndine munthu wowongoka, koma ndimakhala ndikunama ngati ndikanati zolaula sizinandipangitse kuganiza zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nthawi zina. Ndimadzifunsa ngati nthawi zambiri zitha kukupangitsani kukayikira amuna kapena akazi anu? Kodi mukuganiza kuti anthu ena atengeka ndi izi? Mwachitsanzo anthu omwe ali ndi zovuta zina kapena zovuta? Ndidachita kafukufuku pang'ono ndipo sindinapeze maphunziro aliwonse omwe apangidwa pankhaniyi. Ndikuganiza kuti ndichifukwa chakuti funsoli ndi loletsa ndipo kafukufuku wokhudza zolaula ndi ochepa.
Koma ndinapeza chidziwitso cha reddit ichi chokhudza kugonana kwa akazi komanso zolaula. Mwamunayo anali akuganiza zakusintha kwa mkazi. Komabe, anali ndi nkhawa kuti anali kutengeka ndi chizolowezi chake cha zolaula / zokakamizidwa-zachikazi. Adalemba funsoli pa substransgender subreddit. Ambiri mwa anthu omwe adayankha anali transgender ndipo adaganiza kuti lingaliro loti porn ikhoza kusintha chizindikiritso chako ndi yopusa. Ndili ndi chidwi kudziwa ngati zolaula zikuganiza kuti zolaula ndi chifukwa chani kuli anthu ambiri a LGBTQ masiku ano. Kodi anthu omwe akunena kuti porn ili ndi mwayi 0% wosintha munthu kuti akane?
Yankhani ndi wodalakhali
Monga munthu yemwe wakumanapo ndi izi pansi pamiyezi ingapo yapitayo: inde, mosagwirizana inde.
Ndinali munthu wowongoka kwa zaka 29 zoyambirira za moyo wanga, popanda funso. Sindikufuna kwenikweni za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zolaula, ndi zina zambiri. Ndinkakonda kuuza anthu kuti "sindinachite zolaula, ngakhale nditayesapo." Chomwe chiri chowona: Ndinayesa, popanda mantha kapena manyazi, kuyesa anyamata ena, ndipo ndinazindikira kuti sizinali kwenikweni kwa ine. Ndimakonda atsikana, ndipo zili bwino.
Komabe, chaka chatha, zokonda zanga zolaula zasintha kwambiri, ndikugwirizana ndi zomwe zinali kupititsa patsogolo chizindikiritso changa chakugonana, osati m'njira yabwino.
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti pali cholakwika chilichonse ndi transgenderism kapena jysphoria yokhayo, inde. Koma ndimadziwa, mwachilengedwe, kuti zomwe zimandichitikira sizinali zachilengedwe konse. Zinali zodzipangira ndekha, moona mtima - ndimatha kudzimva kuti ndikukankhira malire pazomwe ndimagonana, kuyesera kuti ndikwaniritse izi, kuti ndikwaniritse zonyansa zakunja, ndipo pambali pake panali gawo lomwe malingaliro anga "abwinobwino" sangakhale konse khalani bwino naye, ndipo ndikudziwa izi tsopano. Ndinali kumenya ubongo wanga m'njira yachilendo.
Chifukwa cha momwe ndimadziwira / ndimakhala ndi moyo, inde, ndikuganiza izi zitha kuchitikira wina, ngakhale sindingathe kuyankhula ndi zokumana nazo za ena.
Funso loti ngati zolaula zadzetsa kuchuluka kwa LBGTQ ndizovuta kwambiri komanso zaminga. Limakhala funso kapena ngati kuchuluka kwa anthu a LBGTQ kumaimira (a) kuvomereza kwachikhalidwe cha anthu omwe adalipo kale, zomwe zimapangitsa kuwonjezeka kwa ziwerengero, kapena (b) zotsatira za chikhalidwe cholakwika chogonana chomwe chimapangitsa anthu kukhala ochulukirapo osokonezeka kuposa momwe akanakhalira. Palibe amene angaganize zoganizira za kuthekera kwa (b), kuphatikizidwamo, ndipo sindikutsimikiza kuti ndizowona. Ndi lingaliro losasangalatsa komanso lowopsa, ndipo lomwe ndilosatheka kuyeza mwamphamvu panthawiyi chifukwa chakusowa kwa zolaula, zomwe zimakhudza ubongo, komanso kuchuluka kwa anthu osagonana pazaka XNUMX zapitazi. Momwe ziliri, ine (amene mwachiwonekere ndilibe ulamuliro wolankhulapo pa izi, ndimangoyenda pa intaneti ndiye tengani izi ndi mchere wamchere) ndikukayikira kuti kuli pakati. Ndizodziwikiratu kuti kunja kuno kuli anthu omwe ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, transgender, non-binary, etc etc amen; Izi ndi zomwe iwo ali, ndi momwe anabadwira, ndipo uku ndi kukula kwake, ndipo ndili bwino. Komabe, ndikukayikira kuti kutsindika kwambiri ndikuwunikira anthu osazolowerekawa, kuphatikiza kuchuluka kwa zolaula komanso kuwonetsa chikhalidwe, kwapangitsa kuti anthu ambiri adzizindikiritse ndi maguluwa kuposa momwe zingakhalire. Ndikutanthauza, Anthu aku America amaganiza kuti 20% ya anthu ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, pomwe kwenikweni ali ngati 5%. Izi sizitanthauza kuti sibwino kuchita chiwerewere — kungoti anthu samamvetsetsa anthu ena.
Yankhani ndi alireza
INDE!
Ndili ndi zaka 14 kapena 15 ndipo ndinali nditangozindikira zolaula, ndinali munthu wokonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ndidazolowera kwambiri kotero kuti zidapangitsa kuti ndikhale ndi chidwi chokhala mkazi.
Mwamwayi masiku amenewo ali kumbuyo kwanga tsopano.
Yankhani ndimakeik2
Monga mayi wachiwerewere yemwe walimbana ndi vutoli kuyambira zaka 11, ngakhale tsopano ndili ndi miyezi pafupifupi 2 yoyera (zokwera ndi zotsika pazaka 12 zapitazi), nthawi zina ndimapezabe mwayi wokhudzana ndi jenda yanga. Sindikudziwa ngati ndingakhale wofunitsitsa kuti nthawi zina ndikhale wamwamuna 100% kuchokera ku zolaula, koma ndikuganiza kuti zimathandizira.
Izi sizingakhale zotsutsana. Pali anyamata ochulukirapo omwe adadzaza ndi transgenderism kuti popanda vuto avomereza kuti ayamwa zolaula, zolaula kwambiri komanso zolaula. Pali mtundu wonse wa zolaula za 'sissy hypno'.
Yankhani ndiAlireza
Inde ndikukhulupirira kuti izi ndizovomerezeka. M'makhalidwe anga ogwiritsira ntchito zolaula zakale zomwe ndimakonda kuchita nazo chidwi ndimakonda kuwona azimayi akuzolowera ndipo zimandipangitsa kukhumba kuti ndikadakhala mkazi nthawi zina kuti ndikhale wofatsa komanso wokonda zosangalatsa za thupi kuti andigwiritse ntchito ndi anthu ena. Ndinadzigulitsanso zovala za akazi ochepa ndipo ndidadzipangira kamodzi. Mwinanso zikadapitilira zikadapanda kuti bwenzi langa ndikumva kuwawa zonse. Ndikuganiza kuti zolaula ndi zomwe zidapangitsa pa zonsezo. Komabe sindine wowongoka ndipo sizomwe mungatsutsire ndekha.
Yankhani ndi HaylingZar 1996
Ndikuganiza kuti ndizotheka. Ganizirani izi - mukamaonera zolaula komanso kuseweretsa maliseche, mukukonzekeretsa ubongo wanu kuti mukhale ndi chidwi china. Ngakhale mutangowonera zolaula zowongoka, mukudzikonzekeretsa kuti musangalatsidwe ndi akazi komanso amuna. Potsirizira pake, izi zitha kufika poti ubongo mwachilengedwe umalumikizana ndikuwona mbolo itadzutsa, ngakhale kwa munthu yemwe amadziona ngati wowongoka. Zotsatira zake, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso kungapangitse munthu kukayikira za kugonana kwawo m'njira yomwe mwina sanakhaleko kale.
Yankhani ndi Zosakanikirana
Ngati mumakonda kusangalalira ndi zithunzi zazitali kwanthawi yayitali, mumadziphunzitsa nokha kuphatikiza zinthu zomwe mumawona ndizosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa. Ndipo mutha kumangoganiza zongoganiza za chinthu chomwe chinali pamawu amenewo, mwachitsanzo mbolo (kapena voyeurism, ma kink osiyanasiyana, ndi zina).
Reddit ndi ma forum osiyanasiyana amasefukira ndi ulusi pomwe anyamata amafunsa ngati angakhale achiwerewere / bi. Ndipo nthawi zambiri imakhala nkhani yofanana. Iwo samakopeka kwenikweni kapena amakhala anyamata, amangoyatsidwa ndi ma dick / cum, chifukwa akhala akuzunza zolaula.
Yankhani ndi j_wodzudzula
Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zitha kuchitika, ndikutanthauza kuti mukuyang'ana amuna ena akubwera mobwereza bwereza. zolaula zimakhala zoipa kwambiri, ndipo ana amayamba azaka 8 zolaula
Yankhani ndi ktreektree
Mitundu yonse yolaula imapangidwa ndimankhwala osokoneza bongo monga zotsatira ndi zida zoganizira izi. Mitunduyi kapena yotchedwa "mindfuck" / "mindwash" "chisokonezo" yapangidwa kuti ichite zomwe mumanena.
Yankhani ndi Zonunkhira_Zilean
Zithunzi zolaula zimayambitsa mavuto amisala osiyanasiyana, zitha kukhala zotheka kuti dysphoria ya amuna ndi akazi ndi amodzi mwa iwo, makamaka ngati mukuwonetsedwa zolaula zaka zakubadwa (ndipo ndani masiku ano)
Yankhani ndi PachawanMayama
Ndinayesa kukhala ndi amuna nditatengeka kwambiri ndi lingaliro lakukhala ndi chisangalalo chomwe ndimawona azimayi zolaula. Sanayende bwino. Sizinali zoyipa koma sizinali mwa ine, chinali chiyembekezo chopangidwa ndi zolaula.
Yankhani ndi castawayacc28388444
Inde, OP, ndidakumana ndi vuto ili, nditangoyamba kumene mitundu ina yosokoneza, ndidayamba kuwonera zolaula za amuna okhaokha ndikuwonera zolaula za 11 mulimonse .. ndinkafuna kukhala transgender wosokonekera ndi mnyamata. Nthawi zonse ndikuloleni ndikuuzeni, ndine 100% wowongoka ndipo ndakhalapo ndi akazi ndipo sindinayambe ndagonana ndi amuna ndisanachite zolaula… kuganiza zakupsompsonana kapena kugonana ndi mnyamata zimandisokoneza ndikundipangitsa kudwala. Simuli achiwerewere ngati izi zidayamba kuchokera pakuwona zolaula, mukadakhala amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, "mungodziwa" kumverera. Zolaula zimasokoneza malingaliro ako, ndipo chifukwa cha chikondi cha Mulungu, chonde chonde khalani kutali ndi sissy hypnosis uku ndiye kowopsa kwambiri. Sindingathe kupitako tsiku osakhumudwa chifukwa chowonera zinyalala zonsezo kapena ndikamva mawu oti "transgender" kapena china chilichonse, zikumbukiro zoyipazi zimachitika. Kuyambiranso kumatenga nthawi yayitali kuposa masiku 90, mwa zomwe ndidakumana nazo zidatenga chaka kuwonjezera masiku onse ndipo sindinapezenso bwino. Ndayipanso moyipa. Zabwino zonse op.
LINK - Kodi ndizotheka kuti zolaula zipangitse munthu kukhala ndi dysphoria ya jenda?
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