Ndimangofuna kugawana nkhani yanga, chifukwa ndiyothandiza kapena yothandiza.
Ine ndi mnzanga takhala masiku osawerengeka a 30, ndipo zasintha ubale wathu SIGNIFICANTLY kuti ukhale wabwino. Kwa iye, makamaka, kusiya zolaula kwasintha pang'ono.
Mu chaka chatha, ndidazindikira zizindikiro zomwe ndimaganiza kuti zingakhale zolaula. Munthawi imeneyi, ndidazindikira kuti kudzidalira kwanga kukuchepa. Zinkandiwonjezera nkhawa kuti mnzanga nthawi zonse amangofunafuna azimayi amaliseche pa intaneti.
Mkati mwanga ndinayamba kudzifananitsa ndi azimayi awa, ndikumva kuti ndine wopanda ntchito. IMHO: kupezeka kwa zolaula, kuphatikiza zolaula zolaula pa Instagram ndizowopsa. Ndikukhulupirira zimalimbikitsa kutsutsana ndi azimayi, ndipo zimabweretsa ziyembekezo zosafunikira za momwe matupi enieni azimayi amawonekera. Zachidziwikire, popeza mitundu yambiri ya Instagram imapangidwa kwambiri, kuyatsa, ndi kujambulidwa. Palibe amene angakwaniritse chiyembekezo chimenecho.
Komabe, zolaula zimamveka ngati njovu yayikulu mchipinda chomwe chinali ubale wabwino. Ndinkadziwa kuti anabisala kapena kunama kuti amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Zinandipangitsa kuti ndisamamukhulupirire, ndipo, moona mtima, ndimanyansidwa naye. Zinandipangitsanso kudzidalira panthawi yogonana, kuti sindinali "wokwanira," kuti thupi langa silinali "lotentha mokwanira." Zolaula nthawi zonse zinali pomwepo, pakati pathu.
Pomaliza, pafupifupi masiku 40 apitawo ndidakambirana naye nkhaniyi. Zowonadi, anali wokonda zolaula, ndipo tinali ndi nthawi yayitali yolankhula, yovuta komanso yokwiya. Ndinamuuza kuti pamapeto pake sindingathe kukhala pachibwenzi ndi wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Sindinasamale ngati izi zindipangitsa kukhala "wopanda nzeru." Ndimakonda zogonana komanso zogonana, koma sindimakonda zolaula. Zowononga paubwenzi wathu zinali zowonekeratu. Ndinali ndi moyo wophatikizapo zolaula.
Wokondedwa wanga adakwiya poyamba, koma adagwirizana kuti asiye kugwiritsa ntchito. Anayambanso kulankhula ndi wothandizira za zolaula. Masabata awiri otsatira anali ovuta. Sindinadziwe ngati ndingamudalire, kupita mtsogolo. Koma timangokhalira kukambirana, kuzikambirana mosiyanasiyana, ndi zina zambiri. Ndinadziwa kuti ayenera kuzipereka yekha, osati ine ndekha. Ndinkaganiza ngati izi zingatheke.
Lero anandiuza kuti sanawonepo zolaula masiku opitilira 30, ndikuti akumva ngati munthu wina. Amamva ngati maso ake atseguka. Anatinso samadzimva ngati "creeper" kapena "wotayika" koma monga wochita nawo moyo wake. Anati kugonana kwake kwadzutsidwa, ndipo ali wokondwa kufufuza zakugonana pakati pathu.
Moyo wathu wogonana ndiwabwinonso. tsopano zikuwonekeratu kuti ali pachibwenzi kwambiri ndipo adadzutsidwa panthawi yogonana, zomwe sizinali choncho kale. Ndipo, ndimakhala wolimba mtima ndi thupi langa. Palinso kukhulupirirana ndi kuwona mtima ndi kulumikizana mu ubale wathu kuposa kale lonse.
Ndikhulupilira tikupitiliza njira imeneyi. Zithunzi zolaula ndiye njira yoti mukhale.
LINK - 30 + masiku owonera zolaula; anasintha ubale wathu
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