Hei nonse, masabata angapo apitawa ndidafika masiku 90 ndipo ndidati ndikuuzeni nkhani yanga komanso momwe moyo wanga wasinthira. Sindinakhale nayo nthawi ndi sukulu ndipo sabata ino ndinali akuchira opaleshoni koma tsopano ndine wokonzeka kunena, pepani ndadutsa masiku 90.
Ndisananene nkhani yanga, ndipereka mndandanda wa Positive, Neutral and Negative. Tsopano awa ndi machitidwe anga omvera, ngati anu atsopano, simudzawona zomwe zidandichitikira zikukuchitikirani. Aliyense ndi wosiyana, inde, ndinali ndi zovuta zina.
Uku ndi kugonjera kwanga kwa masiku 90 PMO
Chenjezo: Ndine wachisoni pang'ono ndikumva chisoni chifukwa cha kupindika kapena kalembedwe kalikonse.
Zomwe:
- Palibenso chifukwa chobwererera kapena kuwonera zolaula: Sindikulakalakanso, kupumula kwake osasowa kuda nkhawa ngati wina akubwera kunyumba, simuyenera kuda nkhawa kuti mbiri yanu yakuda. Moyo wanu wangokhala woyera.
- Kuthandizidwa ndi nkhawa yamagulu: Tsopano anthu akunena kuti nkhawa zawo zachikhalidwe zimatheratu ndipo tsopano agulugufe awo atatha masiku 90. Izi sizinachitike kwa ine, koma ndili bwino kwambiri. Ndidakali woipa kwambiri, ndili ndi vuto ndi zoyankhula zazing'ono ndikudziyambitsa ndekha koma pasanathe masiku 90, ndikutsutseni ndinali woyipa. Nthawi iliyonse ndikalankhula ndi munthu wina watsopano, nkhope yanga imakhala yofiira ndipo ndimakhala chete osalankhula chilichonse, zomwe ayenera kuchita ndikungonena kuti. Koma tsopano ndimakhala womasuka ndikakhala pagulu.
- Kusintha kodziletsa: Ndikhoza kudziletsa ndekha ndi chilichonse. Kuyesedwa kumakhala kosavuta kwambiri kuwongolera; izi ndizothandiza makamaka kwa ine chifukwa posachedwapa ndakhala ndikuyesera kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Ndine wotetezeka ndipo sindikuchita zoyipa zilizonse koma panali nthawi zina zomwe ndikadakhala kuti ndikuledzera koma sindinatero… chifukwa chodziletsa kwanga kwatsopano
- Nditha kulankhula ndi akazi tsopano: Sindine wosalala, koma osachepera tsopano ndikumva ngati ndili ndi mwayi, izi zimalumikizana ndi nkhawa yamagulu.
Osatinso:
- Osatinso zovuta mwadzidzidzi: Sindikupezanso maboner mwachisawawa ... ndizo zonse. Si chinthu choyipa koma sichabwino kwenikweni, nthawi zina ndimaganiza kuti dick wanga sagwira ntchito ndipo izi zidachitika kwambiri masiku a 90. Izi zikuwoneka ngati zabwinobwino; Umu ndi m'mene ndidasinthiratu. Ndimaganiza kuti dick wanga wasweka kotero ndimayang'ana zolaula kuti ndiwone ngati zikugwira ntchito, ndipo mwachiwonekere zakhala zikugwira, ndiye ndidabwezedwanso tsiku 0.
- Sindikusamalanso: Izi zikuwoneka zokhumudwitsa koma NDILI BWINO. Zomwe ndikutanthauza ndikuti, sindikusamala zomwe anthu amaganiza za ine, sindikusamala zazing'ono zazing'ono komanso nkhawa zambiri zatha. Zomwe izi sizilowerera ndale chifukwa sindisamalanso za sukulu kapena thupi langa chifukwa sindisamala. Sindimadzipha kapena chilichonse, ndimakonda moyo, abale ndi abwenzi koma sindikudziwa… Sindikusamala.
Zoipa:
- Mphamvu yanga: Zomwe ndikutanthauza ndi nthawi yomwe zimanditengera kuti ndikhutire (pepani ndi TMI koma ndimaganiza kuti izi zikuyenera kunenedwa). Nthawi iliyonse ndikabwereranso ndimakhala masekondi 30-40 pamwamba, ndipo sikokokomeza. Sindikudandaula za izi koma ndikudziwa kuti ndikamadzakhala ndi mtsikana, zikhala zovuta
- Maloto am'madzi ndi oopsa komanso odabwitsa: Ndili ndi maloto onyowa nthawi zambiri ndipo ndizodabwitsa komanso zoseketsa. Sindikulota ngakhale zinthu zogonana; Ndimangotulutsa umuna ndipo sizimva bwino. Sizopweteka koma sizabwino, asanakwanitse zaka 90 zomwe anali nazo pano amangondidzutsa ndili wokwiya komanso wothira.
- Kuyimitsidwa Ndilibe tanthauzo la izi, mwina osasamala za thupi langa koma pafupi ndi masiku a 90 ndidangoyima… Sindikudziwa chifukwa chake.
- Palibe zazikulu: Ichi ndiye chachikulu kwambiri, ndipo mwina ndikulakwitsa kwanga koma chilichonse chomwe ndidalemba chinali chakuti "Ndili ndi mphamvu zoposa tsopano!", "Ndinali wamisala, tsopano ndine mwana wodziwika kusukulu" "Masiku 90 ndipo tsopano ndili ndi 12 atsikana !! ”. Inde, ndikukokomeza koma mukudziwa zomwe ndikutanthauza. Ndinali wopanda nzeru kukhulupirira kuti zinthu ngati izi zitha kundichitikira, ndinawona kusintha kwina pamoyo wanga, sikunapindulitsidwe ndikukweza.
Kutsiliza ndi izi, osapita mu izi kuti mukhale wamkulu koma mulowe mu izi chifukwa mukufuna moyo wanu kukhala waukhondo komanso wowoneka bwino.
Zikomo chifukwa chothandizidwa, pepani chifukwa chazitali. Tikukondani nonse
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