Kotero, ine ndakhala pano, ndikulemba pa laputopu yanga zaka 4+ zoyera kuchokera ku nofap, pafupi kupita ku chithunzi, ndikuwona bwenzi langa lodabwitsa. Ndimakhala momwe ndimafunira ndikumakhala ndimacheza ndi omwe ndikufuna, sindine kapolo ndine womasuka komanso wodalitsika.
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti ndizidzikuza, ndi momwe nofap yanditengera (ngati mukufuna thandizo muzimasuka kuti munditumizire ine panokha)
Osati kale kwambiri (zaka 5 zapitazo), ndinali nditakhala ndekha, ndikudandaula, ndikudzipha ndipo ndangobwereranso, zinanditengera mphamvu kuti ndisasiye ndipo sindinathe kupeza njira yopulumukira. Zikuwoneka kuti moyo wanga wonse nditha kukhala ndekha, ndikumangokhala vuto langa lokhalo. Ndipo panthawiyi ndinali nditavomera.
Koma ndidaganiza zoyesanso kachiwirinso ndikupereka zonse zomwe ndinali nazo, ndidaganiza kuti zilibe kanthu kuti ndibwerezabwereza kangati kuchita izi mpaka kumapeto.
Ndidayesa, malingaliro amachitidwe, ndikuyang'ana kwa alangizi ndi makochi ndikudzimanga kuyambira pansi mpaka tsiku lina lomwe ndidapanga.
Ndinakhala woyera kwa miyezi yopitilira 9 popanda cholinga choyang'ana mmbuyo. Ndinali nditagona pafupi ndi mtsikana wina yemwe ndinapita naye kunyumba usiku watha, ndinadutsa ku yunivesite, ndi anzanga ndikunena, ndikuwona ngati ndikufuna kuchita usiku womwewo. Ndinabwerera komwe ndimakhala ndikuyang'ana pagalasi, ndinali wonyadira za munthu yemwe ndakhala, thupi langa linali pomwe ndimafuna, ndimakhala ndimagulu odabwitsa, ndinali wotsimikiza ndipo ndinali wopambana pachibwenzi changa moyo. Ndinali wokweza ndipo sizimawoneka ngati zikuchedwa. Ndinali wokhutira komanso wokondwa koyamba, ndipo sindinayime!
Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zikulimbikitsani komanso chifukwa chomwe ndabwerera ku subreddit iyi patatha zaka zambiri sindinapite, ndikubwezera kumudzi komwe kunandithandiza kukwaniritsa moyo wanga womwe ndimafuna. Nofap sicholinga chake chida chothandizira moyo wanu, mukamenya ziwanda zanu zamkati zomwe zakunja sizikuwopseza.
Ngati mukufuna thandizo chonde tumizani macheza mwachindunji, ndabwera kudzakuthandizani kuti ndisadzitamande, chifukwa chilichonse chomwe ndidachita inunso mutha.
LINK - MMENE NOFAP ANASINTHIRA MOYO WANGA KWamuyaya (zolinga).
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