Cholemba choyamba apa, ndikudziwa kuti ena ambiri mwina ali ndi zizindikilo zoyipa kwambiri koma mwina mwa anthu 400k pano m'modzi kapena awiri amamva zomwe ndikumva pano bwanji osangotumiza izi. Pepani kwambiri chifukwa cha positi yayitali.
Ndinali ndi zisonyezo za Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula, monga kupita ku kinkier kapena zolaula zochulukirapo kuti ndikwaniritse zosowa zanga komanso osakwanitsa kutulutsa umunthu wopanda zolaula …… Mpaka lero.
Sindimayang'ana zolaula tsiku lililonse ndipo ndimatha kukhala masiku ochepa ndibwino popanda izo, bola ngati palibe zomwe zingachitike pokhapokha nditakhala wotanganidwa ndi china chake. Chifukwa chake sindimakhala ndichizoloŵezi chokha, koma ndikayamba kulakalaka, zimakhala zovuta kuti ndithane ndi chilakolakocho, nthawi zonse ndimayenera kusiya zomwe zingakhale zili m'mutu mwanga. Chifukwa chake, ndi vuto lalikulu lodzilanga nokha komanso kulimbikira.
Izi zidachitika kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 12. Ndine 19 tsopano ndili ndi bwenzi lokongola la miyezi 10. Ndinali namwali wopita kuubwenzi komanso momwemonso, koma chosiyana kwambiri chinali chakuti sanayang'ane zolaula pomwe ndimadzilowetsa ndisanakumane naye. Pamene tidachita koyamba, sindinathe kutulutsa umuna. Izi zidandipangitsa kuti ndikhale ndi nkhawa pakadutsa miyezi ingapo ya 5 chifukwa chake, ndidamaliza kuwerenganso zolaula ngakhale ndili ndi bwenzi labwino. Ambiri amakhoza kuzifunsa, koma adazilekerera, motero zidayamba kukhala zowonera zolaula zomwe ndimayang'ana pomwe sindimakondana kwenikweni, ndipo chifukwa sindinkagonana nthawi iliyonse yomwe timachita, sindingathe kutulutsa umuna. Anayamba kudziimba mlandu chifukwa cholephera kukwaniritsa zosowa zanga zomwe ndinapeza kuti ndizofala kwambiri amuna akamakumana ndi mavuto monga PIED ndi Kuchedwa Kutaya.
Chifukwa chake ndinayamba ulendo wanga wamfupi koma wopanda zipatso. Ndinkadziwa za gawoli kwakanthawi koma osalowamo. Nditayang'ananso, ndinazindikira kuti bwanji osayesera? Ndimafunafuna njira zolimba za 1 mwezi. Pakati pa milungu yoyamba ya 2, zinthu zingapo zinachitika:
- Ndimamva chikondi komanso kukopa kwambiri kwa bwenzi langa
- Nthawi zambiri ndinali wokondwa kwambiri
- Zinandipangitsa kuti ndiyembekezere china chake (osati zolaula, kukhutitsidwa ndikugonjera zofuna zanga)
Ndiye patsiku 1 la sabata la 3, ndidabwereranso. Osati kupita pachipsinjo apa, osati chifukwa sindikufuna koma chifukwa sindinali. Kukhumudwa kokha kunali kokwanira kundilimbikitsa kuti ndichite bwino. Nditangochita izi, ndidakwanitsa kuchita izi ndipo ndidayankhula chamumtima ndikunena kuti: "chabwino mwachita bwino tsopano". Chofunika kwambiri chinali kusintha komwe ndinamva mkati mwa masabata a 2. Patatha masiku angapo mukuganiza chiyani? Ndinagonana naye, ndipo ndimatha kutulutsa umuna nthawi yabwino. Ndinasangalala, izi nthawi yomweyo zinathetsa nkhawa zanga. Ndinali kunja kwauzimu.
Tsopano ndipitiliza ulendo wanga wopanda fayilo yodziwika bwino mwezi wamawa. Kulola kuti ndithandizidwe ndi wina weniweni, munthu amene ndimam'konda komanso wosam'funa, osati chithunzi chosasangalatsa pa intaneti.
Chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti, ngakhale zimasiyana malinga ndi momwe kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula kuli koopsa. Kumbukirani, osayang'ana patali kwambiri, osasunganso cholembera pazenera, ndizokhazo zomwe zingakulimbikitseni, kuti musakhale nkhawa. Ngati masabata a 2 a hardcore no fap a wopanda mphamvu wimp monga ine andipatsa zabwino zonsezi. Kungopita tsiku limodzi nthawi imodzi kumakhala kale kwakukulu. Chifukwa chake khalani ndi nthawi yopitilira!
TLDR; Wolemba miyezi 10, anali namwali ndipo sakanatha kutulutsa umaliseche wopanda zolaula atataya unamwali wake. Anakhala ovuta kwa masabata a 2, adatha kuwona zabwino, ndipo adakwanitsa kutulutsa umuna masiku angapo pambuyo pake. Ngati masabata awiri okha andipatsa maubwino awa, tsiku limodzi lokha liyenera kukonzanso thanzi lanu. Ingokumbukirani: 2 tsiku limodzi ndipo musayang'ane kutsogolo ingotenga tsiku limodzi nthawi imodzi.
LINK - Sindingathe kumwa popanda zolaula .. mpaka lero ndizo
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