Ndinabadwa ndipo ndinakulira mumzinda likulu la India, New Delhi. Ngakhale banja langa linali loonda, ndidakulira mchikhalidwe chomwe ndimakambirana za kugonana, kapenanso kunena mawu oti 'kugonana' pamaso pa munthu wamkulu ndikunyoza. Ine ndi anzanga, ngati mamiliyoni a ana ena aku India, tidakwanitsa chidwi chathu chakugonana mpaka kumapeto kwa zaka za 90 makamaka kudzera m'magazini a Porn.
Nthawi yoyamba kukhalapo kanema wa zolaula ndili ndi zaka khumi ndi zitatu. Amalume anga ena anali atachokera kuulendo wopita ku Europe, ndipo kwinaku tikufufuza chokoleti kudzera mchikwama chake, ine ndi mchimwene wanga tinapeza tepi yamasewera yokhala ndi 'European Fantasies' yosindikizidwa pamenepo. Tsiku lija m'mene ndimakhala kutsogolo kwa TV ndikuwona amuna ndi akazi aku Caucasia akugonana, sindingathe kuganiza kuti patapita zaka zambiri ndikuwona anthu akugonana pazenera kuti asinthe kukhala chizolowezi champhamvu.
Podzafika zaka 25, ndinali nditakonda kwambiri zolaula ndipo sindimakonda ngakhale pang'ono zomwezinawa. Kudzuka kwamwano kunabwera tsiku lina, ndinazindikira kuti ndimakonda kuonera zolaula ndikagonana ndi bwenzi langa lokongola kwambiri. Tsiku lija ndidadzifunsa funso, kodi chavuta ndi chiyani ndi ine?
Ngakhale zinanditengera chaka china kuzindikira kuti ndinali wokonda zolaula kenako zaka zina zinayi kuti ndisiye kuonera izi, ndimaonabe kuti tsiku lomwe ndinadzifunsa kuti "chavuta ndi chiyani ndi ine" inali nthawi yofunika kwambiri pamene ndinayamba kulimbana ndi zolaula.
India kwathunthu ali ndi chiwerengero chachikulu cha achinyamata padziko lapansi. Amwenye opitilira 500 miliyoni ali ndi zaka zopitilira 35. Onjezani izi kuti India imapeza mosavuta mafoni amtengo wotsika mtengo komanso mitengo yotsika mtengo kwambiri pa intaneti. Mphamvu zamaubwana izi zonse zopanda maphunziro a kugonana komanso mwayi wotsika mtengo pa intaneti, ndipo muli ndi malo oyenera oti mungathe zachiwerewere.
Nditamenyana ndi zolaula zanga, nthawi yomweyo ndinali ndi chidwi chothandiza Amwenye ena omwe mumavutika mwakachetechete. Ndidafunanso kuwunikira kufunikira kwamaphunziro okwanira azakugonana ndidakali aang'ono kwambiri, ndichifukwa chake ndidasankha kulemba buku la 'Pornistan'.
Wolemba Aditya Gautam, wolemba
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