Ndipo inde, ndichizindikiro chachikulu [chaka chimodzi] kwa ine! Ndazichita! Ndimadzinyadira ndekha.
Ndikadali ndi Zaka 14 zatsalira ya zolaula kuti ubwerere ndikuchira ...
Izi ndi izi, ndimafuna kuzilemba pano nanu anyamata, zikomo chifukwa chokhala kumeneko, ndikuthokoza mwapadera chifukwa chogulitsa r / zolaula ndi r / NoFap
Mutha Kundifunsa Chilichonse (AMA).
Ngati mukufuna kudziwa zambiri za zomwe ndakumana nazo komanso momwe ndafikira chaka 1, chonde pitilizani kuwerenga.
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Nkhani yanga yayitali:
- Anazindikira zolaula ali aang'ono kwambiri, mu 2006, ndili ndi zaka 13.
- Chifukwa chamakhalidwe oyipa ndi anzanga akusukulu, komanso ubale woyipa ndi makolo, ndidayamba kulowa m'madzi mu Porn ngati njira yothanirana ndi njira yopulumukira ku zenizeni. Sindimakwiyira ndekha izi. Ndikumva chisoni kuti sindinapeze, kapena sindinathe kupeza njira yothanirana ndi matenda, kapena kuthana ndi vuto "losavulaza".
- Ndinazindikira kuti zolaula zikuwononga moyo wanga, mwatsoka nditatha zaka 11 ndikuledzera.
- Analowa r / NoFap mu 2017.
- Ndinayamba ulendo wa NoFap, ndidasankha kuchita Njira Yovuta, koma ndidalephera kangapo chifukwa ndadziyesa ndekha, ndasankha kugaya cholinga chomwe chinali chachikulu kwambiri kwa ine, poganizira momwe dzenje la kalulu la Porn linali lozama.
- Ndikukumbukira kugunda kamodzi kwa miyezi 4 yovutikira, ndiye kuti moyo udachitika, kubwereranso ndikugwa pansi.
- Panthawiyi, ndimawerenga nkhani zosiyanasiyana pa intaneti, ndikuonera makanema a YouTube okhudzana ndi zolaula za Porn ndipo ndidaphunzira zambiri.
- Ndinaganiza zosintha malingaliro anga, m'malo moyesa kukwaniritsa cholinga chachikulu kuyambira pachiyambi, ndikulephera chifukwa cholingacho chinali chachikulu kwambiri komanso chosatheka chifukwa chololera kwambiri, ndaganiza zochepetsa ziyembekezo zanga, kuti ndichepetse, kuti yang'anani gawo limodzi la cholinga chachikulu ndikumamatira (chomwe chimasiya zolaula poyamba), kuti muthe muchiritse pang'ono pokha, zomwe zingandithandize pambuyo pake kukwaniritsa zinthu zazikulu.
- masabata angapo ndisanayambe ulendo wamtundu wa PornFree (masabata angapo asanafike pa 2019-07-21) Pambuyo pake ndinapeza chinthu chimodzi chomwe chinandilimbitsa mtima kuti ndipite mpaka pano, izi zinali “KUKUMIKIRA”, kuzindikira kokwanira kuyimitsa zithunzi zolaula.
- zinali "Zolaula zimasokoneza ubongo wanga kukhulupirira kuti zomwe zimachitika mu Porn, zimachitika m'moyo weniweni, chifukwa chake ndikakumana ndi dziko lenileni, ndikunyengedwa, chifukwa ziyembekezo zanga" zabodza "sizikugwirizana ndi" zenizeni "zadziko.
- Awa anali malingaliro oyenera kwa ine, kuzindikira konse, chifukwa chokwanira choti ndisiyire zolaula mpaka pano, sindikukhulupirirabe kuti ndafika Chaka chimodzi cha PornFree.
- Pokhala munthu yemwe kale anali ndi moyo wosasangalatsa, ndinazindikira kuti kusiya zolaula kungandilole kuti ndidziwe "zenizeni" zomwe ndikukumana nazo ndikupewa kuzipulumuka.
- Pamapeto pa tsiku lililonse, ndimakhala wopambana, ngakhale ndikadapanda kukhala ndi tsiku lopambana. Kupatula apo, tsiku lililonse likudutsa wopanda Zolaula, ndikudziwa kuti ndikuchira ndipo ndikuyandikira kuti ndikhale ndi moyo wabwino, zowonadi, ndikuyesera kuti ubongo wanga ubwerere mwakale, nditakhala wolimbikira kwambiri Zolaula kwanthawi yayitali.
- Chinthu chomaliza ndikufuna kunena: Zolaula ndi chinthu chachimuna cha Beta, zimakupangitsani inu NPC (The Palibe Playable Character) yomwe imayang'ana ndikumva ena akusangalala m'miyoyo yawo.
Zikomo chifukwa chakumvetsera
LINK - Ndikulowa kalabu ya chaka chimodzi
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