Ndakhala wotanganidwa posachedwa kotero kuti ndimangokhalira kukankhira kumbuyo kulemba za masiku anga a 90. Ngati simukuwerenga zonsezi, mutha kungowerenga ndime yayifupi iyi. Masiku 90 sali okwanira kuyambiranso. Sizabwino ayi, kwa ine.
Ndili ndi maloto obwereranso ndipo pamakhala nthawi zina ndimakumbukira makanema akale omwe ndimakonda kuwonera ndikufuna kubwereranso kuti ndikawawone. Cholinga cha izi sikutanthauza kusafuna kuwaonanso, ndikungofuna kudzilamulira nokha ndikuphwanya kukhutira kwakanthawi. Ganizirani kukulitsa luso lanu ndikupeza mwayi wochulukirapo ntchito, lekani kuda nkhawa zakusangalatsa aliyense, ndikudziyang'anira nokha komanso nthawi yanu.
Ndikutsimikiza kuti ambiri mwa inu mukuvutikira kuposa ine, koma ndikufuna kukudziwitsani kuti ndikukuthandizani ndipo ndikusamala za inu omwe mumamenyetsa vutoli! Zikomo ngati muwerenga izi, ndikuyenda wamtali!
Ngati mukufuna kumva tsatanetsatane, izi ndizomwe zasintha pamoyo wanga ndi momwe ndidakwanitsira mpaka pano. Ndiziwasunga mwachidule komanso zosangalatsa momwe zingathere.
Nthawi yomaliza yomwe ndinakhala motere popanda PMO inali zaka zinayi zapitazo, kusekondale, ndili ndi chibwenzi. Ndinabwereranso masiku angapo tisanathe chifukwa ndinaziwona zikubwera. Ndine wonyada kunena kuti ndidapangidwanso, koma wopanda chibwenzi nthawi ino.
Chosintha:
- Ndili ndi ntchito yachiwiri yochita zomwe ndimakonda, ndikuyembekeza mwayi wolipidwa ndikamaliza maphunziro posachedwa, komanso kufunsidwa maphunziro a internship sabata yatha! Ngakhale sindinene kuti NoFap ndiye chifukwa cha zonsezi, ndimakhala womasuka m'malo onse kuti ndichite.
- Ndachotsa Tinder ndi Bumble. Osati kuti ndikuganiza kuti pali cholakwika chilichonse kukhala nawo. Ndikungokhulupirira kuti ndipeza msungwana mu nthawi ya Mulungu, ngakhale sangakhale “ameneyo” panobe. Kusakhala ndi pulogalamu iliyonse ndibwino kuposa kusambira kwa maola awiri musanakagone ndikuyesera kukambirana ndi atsikana omwe sakudziwa chifukwa chake ali nawo.
- Sindimachita mantha kwambiri ndi atsikana (komanso anthu). Sindine wotsimikiza kwambiri ngati anyamata ambiri amaganiza kuti adzafika akafika masiku 90, koma ndili bwino kwambiri kuposa kale. Kodi ndingalankhule ndi aliyense mkalasi? Inde. Kodi ndingadutse bala ndikulankhula ndi hunnie uja kumeneko? Komabe simungathe. M'kupita kwanthaŵi? Inde, mwina.
- Sindikumva kuti ndili ndi manyazi ndekha. Ndizosangalatsa kudziwa kuti mwina ndine m'modzi mwa anyamata ochepa ozungulira sukulu omwe samakhala usiku wonse akusakatula; kumutaya nthawi ndi mphamvu. Sindimakhala ndi nkhawa kuntchito, kusukulu, kapena kutchalitchi ndikamalankhula ndi anthu ndikuganiza zomwe ndimadana nazo.
- Ndimapewa kupukusa pa Instagram kwa mphindi zoposa 5. Nthawi zambiri sindimachita nkomwe. Nthawi zonse amaika atsikana awiriwa omwe ndimawakonda pamwamba pa chakudya changa. Mukudziwa momwe Insta amapitira masiku ano. Anthu amangotumiza gulu lazithunzi za iwo omwe ali ndi nthawi yamoyo wawo mutakhala pamenepo pachimbudzi mukuganiza zomwe mumachita ndi zanu. Ndikumva bwino ndikungotumiza mwina kamodzi pamwezi, kukonda zithunzi zochepa, ndikutsika ndikuchita china chothandiza.
Momwe Ndidapangira:
Chabwino, ndidapita masiku angapo ndi msungwana yemwe ndidakumana naye kuchokera ku Tinder. Tinatuluka pafupifupi mwezi. Anali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo sanagwirizane nawo malingaliro andale, koma ndinamuwombera chifukwa ndimaganiza kuti ali bwino. Ndipo kotentha, mwachiwonekere. Ndinali kuchita bwino pa NoFap pomwe tinayamba kuwonana, ndipo kukhala ndi wina woti ndizicheza naye nthawi zonse kumandithandiza kuti ndisapewe.
Ndinazindikira msanga kuti anali slut, anali ndi zovuta zakale, ndipo anali kuonera zolaula. Amakhalanso ndi malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana omwe sanagwirizane ndi anga, koma sindingafotokozere mwatsatanetsatane. Nditamuuza kuti ndasiya kuonera zolaula ndikuchita maliseche, ndikufuna kuyesa kupulumutsa unamwali wanga mpaka nditakwatirana, ndikutsimikiza kuti ndipamene adaganiza zopanga nane, koma ndidamutengera sabata kapena awiri kuti asankhe. (Msungwana wina waposachedwa kwambiri adasinthidwa ndikusankha kwanga ndipo amayesetsabe kundigoneka, zimasiyanasiyana.) Ngakhale adandiuza kuti sangayanjanenso ndi wakale wake, adandinamizira kuti ndikudwala ndikucheza ndi iye posakhalitsa (nkhani zabwino za Snapchat).
Nditathana nazo, ndidaganiza kuti ndimamatira ku hardcore iyi ndikukhala munthu wabwinopo kuposa anyamata onse omwe angadzakhale nawo pachibwenzi, kapena atsikana ambiri pankhaniyi. Ndikufuna kusiya PMO, kuyang'ana kusukulu, kuchita maphunziro owonjezera, ndikupeza mwayi wopeza ntchito - ndipo ndili nawo!
Kwachedwa ndipo sindikudziwa momwe ndingathetsere izi. Ndikulingalira ndingobwereza kuti chilichonse chomwe chingachitike, musataye mtima. Kulimbikira ndichofunikira, anzanga. Zikomo kachiwiri ngati mumangokhalira kuwerenga izi, zikutanthauza zambiri!
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