* Chodzikanira: Zolemba zanga ndizotalika koma ngati mungapitirirebe ndikuziwerenga mpaka kumapeto mutha kupeza kuti pali zomwe zalembedwera inu. Sindine wolemba kapena wolemba nkhani wamkulu kwambiri padziko lapansi. Ndimangoyang'ana kuti ndigawane zomwe zili zowona poyesa kuthandiza wina kuzindikira kuti dziko ladzala ndi chikondi, moyo komanso chiyembekezo chokhala nacho tsiku ndi tsiku.
Choyamba, ndiloleni ndiyambe ndikufotokozera kuti sindinatumizepo (pafupifupi konse) pamalo ochezera a pa intaneti kale. China chake mkati chimandilimbikitsa kuti ndipange zolemba pano pazomwe ndidakumana nazo padziko lapansi la PMO. Ndi cholinga changa ndikugawana nthano yanga kuti ndikafikire munthu m'modzi mdziko la anthu pafupifupi 7.7 biliyoni. Ngati munthu m'modzi amene ndikumufikira bwino atakhala INE, ndikufunsani kuti mukhale ndi cholinga chofikira munthu m'modzi mdziko lanu.
Pambuyo pazaka pafupifupi 16 (sindingakumbukire kuti zakhala motalika bwanji) za PMO mosalekeza, nditha kunena kuti NDILI WABWINO! Sindinayambe ndakhalapo, ndinanenapo kale komanso kukhala munthu wowona mtima kuti ndikudziwa momwe ndakhalira womangika, sindinayeseko. Ndikamagwiritsa ntchito mawu osatha komanso otsekedwa, ndinganene kuti ndidatenga nawo gawo PMO mwina nthawi 5,840 (zaka 16 zidachulukitsidwa ndi masiku 365 pachaka). Nthawi zina zinali zolaula, nthawi zina zinali zopanda. Nthawi zina zimachitika kawiri patsiku, nthawi zina zimachitika katatu patsiku. Masiku angapo ndidaperekanso mwayi.
Sindinakhalepo wamisala mopitilira muyeso ndikusankha kwanga kwa PMO. Zinthu zachilendo sizinkawoneka ngati zandikoka. Ziweto, nyama, pedo, agogo, sizinali zokonda zanga. Zinali zambiri zakumasulidwa kwa akazi anu okongola. Zachidziwikire kuti ndimatha kuthawa mabatani kupita kuma boobs, kuyambira ma blondes kupita ku brunettes, koma zonse zinali zachilendo. Ndikuganiza kuti ndichifukwa choti gawo lina la ine limadziwa ndikuvomereza kuti ichi sichinali chinthu chabwino kwa ine, kapena wina aliyense.
Zokonda zanga zolaula za akazi zinali m'malo mosalekeza. Ngati mukuganiza kuti zolaula sizolakwika, ndiye kuti mukukangana. Ndikhoza kuvomereza ngakhale kuti ndinayamba kuganizira komanso kuonera zolaula pamalo omwe sindinakhaleko. Kuganizira zolaula nthawi zina pomwe sindimayenera kuziganizira. Ngati ndinu amene mukuganiza kuti sizoyipa kwenikweni, ndikukhulupirira kuti mukudziwa kuti pali nthawi ndi malo ake ndipo nditha kunena kuti ndimatenga nawo gawo nthawi yolakwika nthawi zina.
Lero, pa December 27th 2018, ndili ndi zaka 27 ndi masiku 33 opanda ufulu wa PMO. Masiku otsiriza a 33 a moyo wanga akhala akukondweretsa, akuunikira, masiku opindulitsa mwauzimu a moyo wanga.
Ngati simukukondwerera kapena kukhulupirira zauzimu, ndikupempha kuti musandilembere ngati chonchi, koma m'malo mwake mumapeze mawu mkati mwanu omwe mukukhulupirira kuti akuyenerera kutanthauzira mphamvu zonse, kapena zomwe zingatheke omwe mumagwira. Liwu limeneli lingagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati njira yophweka kuti mukhale omasuka ndi inu kuti mukambirane zomwe ena ambiri amanena, za uzimu.
Kubwereranso ku moyo wanga kuyambira pomwe ndidakhala PMO mfulu, kusiyana kwakukulu komanso koonekera kwambiri m'moyo wanga ndikuti sindinakhalepo ndi lingaliro limodzi loipa lodzipha. Ngakhale ndikulemba chiganizo chomwechi mwa ine ndekha ndikuganiza zodzipha, si malingaliro olakwika omwewo omwe adakhalapo zaka zambiri zapitazi. Kupyolera mu kusakanikirana kwa PMO ndi kutchova njuga kovuta kwambiri (komwe ndili masiku 40 opanda), nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndimaganizo okhudza kutulutsa ubongo wanga, kudzipachika kapena kuyendetsa galimoto yanga mwachangu kwambiri mumtengo. Ndinadziuza ndekha nthawi zambiri (nthawi zokwanira, popeza ndili ndi moyo) kuti sindingathe kuchita zamantha ngati izi, simudziwa nthawi yayitali kwambiri mpaka itachedwa.
Ndizomveka kuti ili ndi gawo lalikulu lomwe aliyense ayenera kuchita ngati akufuna kukhala ndi moyo wosangalala komanso wabwino mdziko lonse lapansi. Ndikutsimikiza kuti ndikumva kumeneku kuti ndikhale ndi moyo woti sindimayanjananso ndi PMO komanso kutchova njuga. Kuchotsa malingaliro ofuna kudzipha m'maganizo mwanga kumandibweretsera gawo langa lachiwiri lalikulu komanso lodziwika bwino lomwe kukhala PMO mfulu kwandibweretsa m'moyo wanga. Ndiye kuti, kusiya kwambiri "ubongo wa ubongo."
Pofotokoza mwatsatanetsatane za ine ndekha, ndikufuna kukhala wodzichepetsa… koma ndikufunanso kuti mumvetse zomwe ine ndiri ndi vuto langa kuti mupange zosankha zabwino za momwe zimalankhulira nanu. Mofanana ndi ambiri a inu, ndakhala ndikumverera kuti ndili ndi mphatso (ngakhale kudzera mwa PMO pamene ubongo wanga unali womveka bwino kuti ndilingalire). Mwathupi, nthawi zonse ndakhala wanzeru kwambiri; anzeru, anthu ambiri andiuza. Monga mwana wachichepere ndinali wophunzira masamu wapamwamba kwambiri pasukulu yanga mgiredi yanga, komanso mulingo wapamwamba kuposa wanga. Izi zimachokera ku zomwe ndimawona kuti ndizotheka kumvetsetsa bwino kwambiri chowonadi, mwachilengedwe (masamu kukhala chowonadi chomaliza). [Monga cholembera cham'mbali, mchimwene wanga, yemwe ndi wamkulu zaka 2.5, ali bwino kwambiri]. Mwauzimu, ndakhala ndi zokumana nazo zokwanira "zodabwitsa, kapena zopenga" kudziwa kuti china chake kupyola zomwe tikuwona chilipo ndipo chimalamulira zonse. Sindikutanthauza izi ngati kulunjika kwa Mulungu, koma pakumvetsetsa zonse, tiyeni titchule ngati lamulo lokopa. Zomwe mukuganiza, zidzakukopani, zabwino kapena zoipa.
Zonsezi zikugwirizana bwanji ndikusiya fungo laubongo…
Kupyolera mu zovuta zonse zomwe ndidakumana nazo ndili wachikulire ndikukula, sindinataye lingaliro la mafunso ndi chowonadi. Ndakhala ndikumverera kuti ndili ndi mangawa kudziko lapansi kuti ndisangokhala munthu wabwino, koma chabwino koposa chomwe ndingakhale ndikudziwa kuti anthu ena amapatsidwa zambiri kuti apereke kuposa ena, zomwe, zikutanthauza kuti ayenera kupereka zambiri padziko lapansi kusinthana ndi 'mphamvu' izi. Nditangopanga chisankho m'moyo wanga kuti ndimasule maunyolo a PMO omwe adadzipangira okha, malingaliro anga ndi Mzimu (kapena wamkati) adanyamuka (liwiro lothamanga kwambiri lothamanga)!
Monga momwe zimakhalira nthawi zonse momwe zinthu zimayendera mdziko lapansi, anthu omwe amayamba ndikupitiliza kukhala PMO amakhala ndi zokumana nazo zosiyana. Ndikuwunika zina mwazolemba za NoFAP, ndazindikira anzanga ena akufunsa chifukwa chake anthu ena amadzimva kuti ali ndi 'mphamvu zopambana' kapena 'kukondweretsanso chisangalalo ndi mphamvu' ndipo mwina sangamve izi mwamphamvu. Ndikufuna kukudziwitsani, zabwino kapena zoyipa, zomwe mukumva mkati mwanu ndizomwe mukuganiza kuti mukumva kutengera zisankho zomwe mumadzipangira nokha.
Ndikukhulupirira kuti tonse tingavomereze kuti pali malingaliro abwino kwambiri mkati pamene wina akuletsa PMO. Izi ndizosayansi za momwe ubongo umadzigwirira wokha kukhala wolakwa, manyazi, kusungulumwa, nkhawa ndi ena. Kwa ine, malingaliro anga ponena za ine apindula kwambiri kanthawi kochepa. SIYE, komabe, chifukwa cha chisankho changa chokhala PMO kwaulere. Ndangopanga zosankha zambiri m'moyo zomwe ziyenera kupangidwa kotero kuti ndikhoza kukhala zonse zomwe ndingathe kukhala.
Chisankho choyamba chinali kupewa PMO yomwe imafotokozedwa mwachidule panthawi yonseyi. Chachiwiri pazosankhazi ndanena mwachidule kale zomwe ena mwa inu mungakhale ndi chidwi chofuna kudziwa. Ndiko kudzichiritsa ndekha pamavuto otchova juga. Kutchova juga kwamavuto kunachokera pazomwe zandichitikira pamoyo wanga zaka 11 zapitazo ndili ndi 16, pafupifupi 4 - 5 zaka pambuyo pa PMO. Ndikuti ndidziwe zambiri za njuga yanga pazifukwa ziwiri. Choyamba, zitha kuthandiza wina kuthetsa vuto m'moyo wawo. Awiri, chifukwa ndikukhulupirira mavuto omwe amakumana nawo pomwe ali PMO komanso akakhala ndi vuto la kutchova juga amafanana kwambiri ... kukonza mwachangu pazovuta zina.
Kukumbukira kumabwerera kusukulu yasekondale komwe ndimasewera pa nyumba ya anzanga pamtengo wotsika kwambiri (kotala, madola ochepa) kapena kubetcherana pamasewera a mpira ndi abwenzi. Ndikukumbukira wager wamkulu kwambiri yemwe ndidapanga panthawiyi (16-17 wazaka) m'moyo wanga anali $ 300 pa Colts vs Bears Super Bowl [poyang'ana, ndinali ndi a Colts ndipo adamaliza kulipira]. Tsopano, anthu ambiri samawona izi ngati 'zovuta kutchova juga' ndipo ndimamvetsetsa mkangano, mwina si… kupambana kapena kutaya, $ 300 sinasinthe moyo wanga kapena tsogolo langa ... koma zinasanduka chinthu china zambiri.
Tiyeni tipitirize kukumbukira, mozungulira nthawi ino ndikupita ku sukulu ya sekondale / koleji nthawi zonse ndikugwira ntchito nthawi imodzi ndikupanga pakati pa $ 6.60 ndi $ 12 ora malinga ndi zaka.
Pafupifupi zaka 17 kapena 18 ndidayamba kusewera pa poker ndi masewera pa intaneti. Sindinali wokalamba mokwanira panthawiyo kuti nditha kutenga nawo gawo movomerezeka, chifukwa chake ndimasewera muakaunti yomwe ndidapanga ndikudziwitsa amayi anga. Poker ndimasewera makamaka pamasewera omwe amawatcha "Sit n Go" pomwe anthu 3, 6, kapena 9 amasaina kuti azisewera pamasewera ampikisano pamtengo wosankhidwa aliyense. Zomwe ndimasankha pamasewera onse nthawi zambiri zimakhala pafupifupi $ 25 - $ 55. Kudziwa zomwe ndikudziwa tsopano, makamaka anthu omwe amasewera pamtengo uwu ali, kapena ayi, odziwa zambiri. M'malo mwake ndimakhala ndikusewera chabe. Ndinapezeka ndikupambana ndalama apa ndi apo. Kupambana mpaka $ 1,100 ndi $ 1,900 m'mipikisano iwiri yapadera pomwe mazana a anthu amatenga nawo mbali. Vuto limakhala chifukwa chakuti sindinatengeko ndalama yanga kamodzi. Ndinangodyetsa makinawo, ndipo sindinatulutse chilichonse, zomwe zimandipangitsa kukhala wotayika nthawi zonse.
Mofanana ndi poker, kubetcha kwanga pamasewera kunalinso ndi njira yotaya mosalekeza komwe ndimangosungitsa, ndipo sindinachoke, ngakhale nditakhala ndi zochuluka motani. Ndidadzipeza ndekha ndikubetcherana madola mazana ambiri pa kotala ya basketball, kapena ndani adzapambane masewerawa, kapena masewerawa ... gulu limodzi lingapeze mapointi opitilira 23.5. Adrenaline, chisangalalo, chiyembekezo chinali chenicheni… Momwemonso mantha, kupweteka, ndi kupweteka.
Pomalizira, mwinamwake pafupi chaka chimodzi (kwinakwake pakati pa 18 ndi 19) ndinaima ndi juga, ndinapitiriza ndi PMO, ndipo ndinasuta fodya.
Pakadali pano ndili ku koleji yakumidzi nditayesetsa kusukulu yasekondale. Chidziwitso chokhacho chomwe ndikugawana chokhudza sekondale ndikuti ndinali ndi abwenzi abwino omwe sanali anthu olimbikitsa kwambiri, ndinkasekerera kwambiri kuposa momwe ndimayenera kuchitira, sindinazitengere mozama, ndinakumana ndi mavuto a kangapo, sindinapeze magiredi abwino momwe malingaliro anga amakhoza, zinthu monga choncho.
Ku koleji yakumudzi kudzera kwa PMO, kusuta udzu, osati anzanga omwe amasintha kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi, ndidachita bwino. 3.65 GPA, maphunziro ku Univ. waku Maryland, wololedwa kusukulu yabizinesi yotchuka kwambiri. Nditamaliza koleji yakumidzi, ndinapita ku Yunivesite (ndili ndi zaka 20) ndipo ndinazindikira kuposa kale lonse zovuta zanga. Ndinali ndi kagulu kochepa ka anzathu koma osakhala omasuka, osakumana ndi zibwenzi zilizonse, sanachite bwino kusukulu. Ndinadzipeza ndekha ndikuchita PMO kuposa kuphunzira, zomwe zidapangitsa kuti ndigone mokwanira kuposa nthawi yakalasi. Zinali zovuta zoyipa zomwe sindinathe kuchita bwino.
Panthawiyi m'moyo wanga ndipamene ndinayamba kukonda kwambiri akazi koma monga ambiri a inu, sindinathe kuthana ndi nkhawa kuti ndichite chilichonse chokhudza izi. Pakadali pano (zaka 21) Ndakhala wosakwatiwa pafupifupi zaka 6, wopanda kugonana, PMO onse.
Poganizira za zaka zanga zakubadwa za 20 komanso zoyambirira za 26, PMO mwachidziwikire anali vuto langa lalikulu. Ngakhale malingaliro ofuna kudzipha sianthu kwa ine panthawiyi, ndimatha kuwona bwino ndikumva nkhawa, kutsika pang'ono kusukulu, kusakhazikika pagulu, kukopa akazi omwe alibe zoyeserera. Ndili ku University ndimatha kugwira ntchito yabwino yomwe ndidapeza komwe ndidapeza $ XNUMX pa ola limodzi yomwe ndiyabwino kwambiri pantchito yanthawi yayitali yakukoleji.
Pambuyo pa chaka chimodzi ku yunivesite, 30 imatamanda manyazi a bachelors anga, ndimatha kusiya, ndikusiya udindo wanga ndikuyambitsa ntchito yatsopano, yopanga pakhomo, ndikupanga malo omwe amatha kupambana zaka zoposa 5.
Tsoka ilo, ndikuchita bwino kumeneku (nthawi zina $ 6,000 - $ 8,000 pamwezi mchilimwe) kudayambanso kutchova juga kovuta pomwe ndimayendetsa pamseu waukulu ndikuwona chikwangwani cha kasino yomwe idangotsegulidwa m'derali. Pa nthawiyo ndinali nditakwanitsa zaka 22 ndipo zinali zololeka kutchova juga m'makasino. Tsiku langa loyamba kumeneko ndidapambana $ 950 kusewera poker (kwa inu omwe mukudziwa poker, AA v 55 v Q10 pa bolodi la A5J ** linali dzanja langa lalikulu lopambana lomwe sindingaiwale). Ndinali nditakodwa pambuyo pake! Ndinapitiliza kusewera poker pafupifupi miyezi iwiri, zopindulitsa. Zinthu zonse zinali zabwino komanso zomveka mpaka tsiku lina ndidakhala wokondweretsedwa ndi masewera onse otchedwa Baccarat. Ngati simukudziwa masewerawa, sindingafotokoze zina kuposa kungonena kuti zikufanana ndi kuponyera ndalama m'malo mwake ndizofanana ndi kuchuluka kwamakhadi. Nyumbayo ipambana potenga 2% Commission ngati zotsatira zina zichitika komanso zimapambana pamaganizidwe opambana a anthu, osakhoza kusiya, ndikutaya zonsezo kuphatikiza zina.
Nditasewera Baccarat koyamba, zopambana zanga zonse zantchito komanso zosawerengeka zidakhala njira yanga yotayika. Kuthamangitsa mkulu wa PMO kuphatikiza kupambana kwakukulu ku Baccarat komwe kunapangidwira otsika kwambiri, zomwe zidasokoneza ndikumwera namsongole kapena kumwa mowa nthawi zosiyanasiyana. Nthawi zina sindinkathamangitsa mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndimangoyamwa ndikukhala moyo wanga wonse.
Pa zaka zotsatira za 6 (mpaka masiku 40 apitawo), kuzungulira kwakukulu kumangoyendetsa moyo wanga. Ndikanakhala ndi mwayi wopeza ndalama zogwira ntchito pokhapokha kutchova njuga ku Baccarat, Paigow Poker, ndi Blackjack. ($ 26 / hr commission commission, $ 45 / hr bizinesi, $ 30 / hr volleyball yotchulidwa, $ 15 / hr mpira wa mpira wotchulidwa, $ 22 / hr kutumiza mpira, $ 50 / hr kugula-kugulitsa katundu wambiri, $ 33 / hr 1 / 3 poker, ndikugwira ntchito pa sitimayi komwe ndimakhala ndi zisoti zenizeni ndipo ndinkangokweza ndalamazo) [Ndili ndi nthawi yomwe ndimagwira ntchito kwambiri ndikulemba zonse ndipo ndikudziwa kuti nambalayi ndi yoona pamwamba pa mutu wanga].
Nthawi ina ndidakhala ndi nthawi yopitilira maulendo 8 pasanathe chaka chimodzi (ndidaitanidwanso mosalekeza chifukwa chosewerera kasino) ndipo ndidataya pafupifupi $ 38,000 pakati pawo maulendo 8. Kutchova juga kwanga kwandifikitsa kumalo osangalatsa… Vegas, Hawaii, Chilumba chilichonse cha Caribbean chomwe mungaganizire… Komabe, sizinali ndalama zomwe ndataya (zoposa $ 100,000). Nthawi zonse ndimangobowoleza $ 10,000 kuti ndigwiritse ntchito chilichonse kukhala $ 15,000 ngongole.
Lero, ndilibe zambiri zakunja zakuthupi. Banja langa limadziwa ndipo akudziwa chifukwa chake (osati PMO, koma njuga). Nthawi zonse anali kundilandira, podziwa kuti ndinali wanzeru kwambiri, wokhala ndi malire opanda malire. Ndikuganiza kuti nthawi zonse amangokhulupirira kuti ndichoka. Ngakhale, ndilibe zambiri kunja kwakuthupi ndili ndi malingaliro obwezeretsanso komanso osintha moyo mkati.
Pothana ndi PMO wanga ndimavuto amtundu wa juga nthawi imodzimodzi m'moyo wanga, ndakumana ndi zomwe ndikadazitcha zabwino za 'DOUBLE-DUTY' zomwe zimadutsa mwa ine. Ndazunguliridwa ndi banja lachikondi lomwe landithandizira kupyola komwe ndikhale kotsika kwambiri, ndili ndi abwenzi komanso omvera omwe akuwoneka kuti akuchokera kudziko lina ndi zabwino zomwe amapereka. Ndili ndi mwayi wogwira ntchito modabwitsa komanso mzimu womwe umalephera kufunafuna kukhala bwino.
Pakadali pano ndikufuna kutenga nthawi kuti ndikufunseni, kodi pali china chilichonse (kupatula PMO) ngati moyo wanu womwe muli nawo kapena womwe mungataye kuti muthandize kukulitsa malingaliro anu onse. Sindidzakhala woweruza wolakwika pazomwe mwakumana nazo koma ndikukhulupirira kuti tonse tili ndi zoposa PMO omwe timavutika nawo. Monga momwe mwagonjetsera PMO masiku asanu ndi awiri, masiku 7, kwa masiku 30, kwa chaka chimodzi, inunso, mutha kuthana ndi zovuta zina izi zomwe zikuchitika mmoyo wanu! Bwanji? Momwemonso momwe mudagonjetsera PMO. Pozindikira maubwino, kudzipatsa nokha chifukwa, ndikuchitapo kanthu munthawi iliyonse.
Sindikukhulupirira kuti nkhaniyi ya NoFAP ndi yongobwera. Ndikukhulupirira izo zingagwiritsidwe ntchito pa chirichonse. Kusuta mowa, kusuta, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kusokoneza, zilizonse! Ndikudziwa kuti ndi gulu la anthu olimbikitsa omwe amamvetsa chithunzi chachikulu ndikudziyika okha kupyolera mu chinachake chovuta kwambiri mwinamwake dziko lonse silidzamvetsa.
Lero ndimatha kuchita zinthu zomwe ndinalenga kale. Moyo wanga udzachoka pano pogwiritsa ntchito khama lomwe likundilola kuti ndisiye PMO ndi vuto lakutchova njuga.
Ndikufuna kugawana nanu zina mwazinthu zomwe zandithandiza kuti ndizimva bwino ndikukhala…
1) Zojambulajambula
- Iyi ndi nyumba yanga yachiwiri, komwe kuli banja langa lina. Ndinayamba kusadziwa zambiri, zolemera pafupifupi 140 lbs, 5'8 pafupifupi zaka 19. Tsopano ndili 27, 160 lbs pafupifupi 5% yamafuta amthupi. Anthu ammudzi omwe ali mkati mwa masewera olimbitsa thupi ali ngati a NoFAP komwe samangofuna china chilichonse koma zabwino zokha. Ndikugwira ntchito mwakhama pamalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi, aliyense adzakulemekezani ngakhale muwoneka bwanji.
2) Nkhondo
- Iyi ndi nthambi yanyumba yanga yachiwiri. Anali malo omwe ndinakumana ndi wotsogolera moyo wanga wamkulu (kupatula ine / banja) ndi ena onga iye. Wina ndi ena omwe sindingathokoze mokwanira ngati mutandipatsa zonse zomwe mungachite padziko lapansi. Ndikuganiza kuti masukulu ambiri a Martial Art ali ndi malingaliro ofanana kwambiri. Sindingathe kufunsa china chilichonse kwa iwo omwe ali pasukulupo.
3) Zakudya Zathanzi
- Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti zomwe timadya zimakhudza zomwe tili, momwe timamvera komanso zonse zomwe timakonda. Ndakhala zaka 5 zapitazi ndikudya zamasamba. Ndichinthu chomwe ndimakhulupirira chomwe chimandigwirira ntchito. Sikuti aliyense adzamve motere ndipo zili bwino. Sizikunena kuti mavitamini ndi mchere ndizofunikira kwambiri mwanjira ina. Ndikukulimbikitsani kuti mufufuze ndikufunsa mafunso okhudza njira zowonjezera mphamvu zamagetsi ndi magwiridwe antchito a ubongo kudzera pazakudya ndi / kapena zowonjezera.
4) Tsiku Lililonse Kuganizira
- sindimachita manyazi kuti ndizidzilowerera ndikafunika kutero. Ndine munthu yemwe ndidzakhala naye nthawi zonse. Ndiyenera kudzidziwa ndekha mkati ndi kunja. Lingaliro latsiku ndi tsiku ndilofunika kuthana ndi zopinga. Kuzindikira kukhumudwa komwe kumverera kwanu ndiye gawo loyamba pokupitilira.
5) Olankhula Olimbikitsa / Ziwerengero Zotsogola M'munda Mumakhala Wokonda Kuzindikira (Kukhala Kukhala Wosungika ndi Kukhala Olimba)
- Eric Thomas, CT Fletcher, Steven Furtick, Gregg Plitt, Frank Medrano, Tony Robbins, Les Brown ngati angalankhule zolimbikitsa, ndimamva malingaliro abwino. Maganizo anu osazindikira sangathe kuzindikira pakati pa zomwe akumva ndi zomwe zilidi zenizeni pakumva. Imatenga zonse, kuzisunga, ndikukhulupirira kuti ndi zoona. Munthu wina akamayankhula pamawu omvera za kudabwitsa kwako kapena mphamvu zako, malingaliro ako amayamba kuzikhulupirira kwambiri. Ndadzipeza ndekha kuposa kale lonse kumvetsera nyimbo zachikhristu. Ganizirani za Dr. Eric Thomas Radio pa Pandora kapena pawailesi ya Eric Thomas ku Pandora ndipo mudzamva nokha.
6) Nyimbo Zakale / Jazz Music
- Nditakhala zaka zanga zoyambirira kumamvera mtundu uliwonse wamtundu womwe ulipo, malingaliro anga amafunikira kupumula. Nyimbo zitha kusintha miyoyo yathu kukhala yabwinobwino kapena yoyipa. Zili kwa ife kusankha njira yomwe tifuna. Ngakhale mutha kuganiza kuti Post Malone kapena Linkin Park adzakutengani mumdima, kachiwirinso, malingaliro anu sangathe kusiyanitsa pakati pa mawu omwe akugawana kuti ndi enieni kapena abodza. Nyimbo zamakedzana ndi nyimbo za jazi zimapatsa malingaliro anu mwayi wakumvera china chabwino komanso kukhalabe ndi malingaliro ake.
7) Kuchotsa Mitundu Yonse ya Social Media
- Amadziyankhulira wokha. Tonsefe titha kumva zoyipa za izi. Nthawi yomweyo ndidasiya PMO ndikuvutika kutchova juga, ndinachotsanso maakaunti anga onse ochezera pa TV osapanga zifukwa zoti ndiyenera kukambirana ndi munthuyu, kapena ndiyenera kuyankhula ndi munthu ameneyo. Chimwemwe changa ndi ufulu wanga ndizofunika kwambiri kwa ine kuposa njira iliyonse yocheza. Sindingathe ngakhale kudziwa momwe ndasangalalira kwambiri chifukwa cha izi ndikungodziwa kuti ndi zenizeni!
Chomaliza koma chaching'ono ... Ndimakhulupirira Mulungu. Ndimakhulupirira china chake chofunikira kwambiri kuposa ine. Ndikukhulupirira kuti tonsefe tonse timayang'ana chisangalalo chofanana ndi ena onse. Ndikukhulupirira kuti chidwi changa chitha kudzetsa chiyembekezo chanu, ndipo mosemphanitsa. Ndikofunikira kuti tonsefe tizisamala zomwe timauza ena chifukwa zitha kukhala ndi gawo pazomwe amasankha pamoyo wawo. Tiyeni tiyankhule pa malingaliro, osati anthu. Tiyeni tiyankhule pazabwino, osati zoyipa.
Pali zochuluka kwambiri kwa yemwe ine ndiri kuposa zomwe ndagawana nawo pakulemba koma kuti ndingomaliza ndinganene kuti ndine wokonda zinthu zonse. Ndimakhulupirira mwa inu. Ine ndikudziwa inu mukhoza kuchita izo, chirichonse chimene inu mukufuna kuti muchite. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa ndife ofanana kuposa momwe ambiri amaganizira. Ndabwera kudzakuthandizani. Ndigawana mphamvu zanga nanu. Ndichita zonse zomwe ndingathe kuti ndikhale dziko labwino kwa tonsefe. Ndikukuthokozani kwambiri chifukwa chokhala ndi nthawi yowerenga izi. Ndikulakalaka ndikadatha kugawana nanu zonsezi koma muli ndi moyo wanu womwe mungapitilize. Yesetsani kudziyesa nokha mlandu. Chitani zonse zomwe mungathe. Ena akudalira inu. Banja lanu, abwenzi anu, anthu omwe simunakumanepo omwe angakuchitireni chilichonse.
Chikondi Chambiri Kwa Onse.
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