Zowonongeka kwambiri zomwe mumayang'ana, zimakhala zovuta kuti mukhale ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha: kuphunzira (2019)

Michael Kaplan. February 26, 2019

Kuonera zolaula kungakuchititseni kugonana. Zomwe zikuwoneka kuti ndizochokera ku phunziro lomwe linatulutsidwa ndi webusaiti ya pa Intaneti ya xHamster. Yagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi xHamster "Lembani za Kugonana Kwadongosolo" ndipo atulutsidwa Lachiwiri, kufufuza kwa osuta a 11,000 kukupeza kuti zolaula zomwe mumayang'ana, makamaka mukuyenera kupita njira ziwiri.

Poyamba, phunziroli likuwulula kuti 22.36 peresenti ya ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ku US ali ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (zochititsa chidwi, anthu owona za 1.09 omwe amawonetsa zolaula amadzifotokozera kuti ali ovomerezeka - kapena akugwiritsa ntchito mawu akuti "Ray Donovan": "anorexics"), pamene A 4.05 peresenti amadziwika kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ambiri opanga zolaula, 67.77 peresenti, ndi amodzi.

Zinthu zimakhala zovuta pamene phunziroli likuyang'ana ngati "zolaula zimakuchititsani kukhalabe." Akatswiri ofufuza a XHamster amapeza kuti anthu oposa 13.09 a anthu amene amaonera zolaula kamodzi pa mlungu ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Amene amawonetsa khungu akuwombera kangapo pa sabata ali ndi mwayi wapadera wa 19.73 wokhala ndi bi. Penyani kamodzi pa tsiku ndipo muli mu gulu la 23.01 peresenti ya amuna ndi akazi. Pezani nthawi yolemba pa zochita za XXX kangapo patsiku ndipo mukhoza kudziwerengera nokha pakati pa a 27.46 peresenti ya owonana nawo a XHamster omwe ali ndi zibwenzi.

Kodi ndi chifukwa chanji kusiyana kwa kugonana pakati pa omwe amaonera zolaula zambiri ndi omwe amawonera pang'ono?

"Ife tikhoza kupereka kokha mgwirizano, osati kutsimikiziridwa, koma zikuwoneka kuti kuwonera zolaula kumathandiza nthawi zambiri kusonyeza ogwiritsa ntchito momwe kugonana kungakhalire," adatero a Haw Hawkins. "Kuonera zolaula zomwe mumayang'ana, ndipamenenso mungaganize kuti, 'Hayi, ndizochepa chabe. Mwinamwake ine sindiri wowongoka kwathunthu, kapena gay, monga ine ndimaganizira. '"

Ngati pali shocker yobwera kuchokera ku phunziro la Hawkins, ndizokwatirana ndizofala kwambiri kuposa momwe ankaganizira. Hawkins anati: "Monga momwe zilili pamoyo weniweni, komwe simungathe kuweruza nthawi zonse omwe ali ndi zibwenzi zogonana ndi anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi, timayamikira kwambiri kukula kwa dera lanu."

Ndipo monga momwe anthu okonda kuonera zolaula amatha kuwonetsera, kukula kuli kofunikira.