Mukayambiranso ndi bwenzi lanu vuto lalikulu ndi ili: "Kodi kugonana kumakhudza bwanji kuti ndizindikire?" Ili ndiye funso lovuta kwambiri lomwe timafunsidwa. Tilibe yankho. Zimatengera ubongo wanu, kutalika kwanu, komanso ngati muli ndi ED. Ngati posachedwa, chilakolako chogonana ndi mnzanu chikhoza kukubwezeretsani kumbuyo, kapena kukupangitsani kuti mubwererenso.
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Onani nkhani iyi yobwereza: Zaka 21 - Kugonana ndi chibwenzi kungakhale kuti kwachepetsa kuyambiranso (ED). Chidziwitso cha mnyamata wina:
Kulumikizana pakati pakupanga zolaula ndikupeza nkhawa pagulu kumandidabwitsa inenso. Sindikuganiza kuti zikhala zomveka bwino mpaka anthu ataphunzira izi, zomwe zitha kukhala zaka zochepa chifukwa zolaula zapaintaneti ndizatsopano, m'badwo wathu wa amuna (ndili ndi zaka 20 m'badwo womwewo) ndi m'badwo woyamba kuvutikadi ndi izi. Palibe amene akanatha kuziwona zikubwera. Komabe ndakhala ndikukumana ndi zomwezi kwa inu, nkhawa zamagulu zimachepa mukamayenda masiku angapo osakhala ndi PMO, ndiye mukangomaliza kuchita mutha kuzindikira mukamayanjana ndi anthu kuti simulimba, osachita chidwi , osadzidalira, osamasuka, ndi zina zambiri.
Moyo wanga uli bwino kwambiri kuyambira pomwe ndidayamba nofap, koma sizabwino kwenikweni. Pa umodzi mwamizere yanga yomwe ndimakhala ngati masiku 13, msungwana wina yemwe ndimagwira naye ntchito adayamba kundimenya kuntchito ndipo tidamaliza kulumikizana ndipo tidayamba chibwenzi. Ndakhala naye miyezi ingapo tsopano. Kubwezeretsanso chibwenzi ndi chibwenzi ndi kovuta kwambiri, chifukwa chake mukayamba kucheza ndi atsikana chifukwa chodzidalira, ingokhalani anzeru pamomwe mumachitira. Mukayamba kugonana pafupipafupi, ubongo wanu umayamba kulakalaka kuti dopamine ikwereranso ndipo mudzayamba kumva ngati mukufunikiranso.
Zomwezo ndizochitikira zanga. Ine ndi bwenzi langa tinayamba kugonana monga tsiku lililonse, kangapo patsiku, nditakhazikitsa miyezi yolimba ya 3 kapena 4 kuti ndikutha pang'onopang'ono kuchoka pamachitidwe omwe ndimakhala nawo tsiku lililonse kuyambira ndili ngati 12. Chabwino, pamene ndikusintha kuti ndigonane ndi chibwenzi chenicheni kumathandizira nkhawa zazing'ono, sizimangokhala zovuta kwambiri, ndipo kwa ine, ndikagonana naye kwambiri, ndimayamba kuganiza zosagonana. Ndinayamba kumukakamiza kuti andilole kujambula zachiwerewere, zomwe zidamupangitsa kuti athetse banja.
Chifukwa chake ndikuganiza chifukwa chomwe ndikugawana izi ndichifukwa choti mutha kumangogonana mukapitiliza kulimba mtima, chifukwa amuna achigololo ndife osaletseka pomwe sitimakula nthawi zonse: p, koma dziwani pasadakhale kuti kuchoka kwa PMO kupita ku kugonana ndi kovuta! Ponena za nkhawa zamtunduwu, zomwe ndazindikira, ngati mukudabwa, ndikuti, ngati mukugonana kwambiri, zina mwazizindikirozo zimatsalira, ena amachepetsedwa pomwe ena kulibeko. Kwa ine, nthawi zina ndimadzimva kukhala wopanda nkhawa ngati ndagonana ndi bwenzi langa katatu katatu dzulo.
Koma sizoyipa kwenikweni monga momwe zimakhalira nthawi yomwe ndimakula, ngati ndimatha kuyang'ana anthu m'maso, ndipo ndimatha kuyankhula ndikumwetulira ndikukhala wamba osamverera ngati chinthu chonsecho chakakamizidwa. Pali zisonyezo zochepa zakuthupi, (kugunda kwamtima mwachangu, thukuta, ndi zina zambiri) Koma palinso zoyankhula zoyipa, ndipo simukhala osangalatsa ngati kuti mwapita masiku 7 osapsa mtedza konse. Tikukhulupirira ichi chinali chidziwitso chothandiza. http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/28sxcf/nofap_is_the_real_deal_long_post_social_anxiety/cie782l
Ngati muli ndi zolaula-zimapangitsa ED, ubongo wanu umati umakhala ndi ziphuphu zokwanira kwa kanthawi. Tamverani thupi lanu (ubongo). Ngati muli ndi ED, kuyesa kukakamiza erection ndi malingaliro kapena njira zina ndizosavomerezeka kuti mutenge. Ngati mulibe mavuto opatsirana pogonana, werengani nkhani zowonongeka ndikuwonetseratu maphunziro anu.
MFUNDO YOFUNIKA: Kukhala ndi ziphuphu kapena kuyesera kukakamiza zolimbitsa thupi kumatha kukhala kopanda phindu, koma kupsompsonana, kukhudza, komanso kupusitsa mozungulira, kumatha kuthandizira ubongo wanu kukhala chinthu chenicheni. Kumbukirani, zoyeserera zopangira pazenera zidapangitsa kuti mukhale osokoneza bongo kapena ED, osakhudzana ndi anthu. Simuyenera kungofooketsa zolaula zanu, muyenera kukulimbikitsani njira "zenizeni". Pakubwezeretsanso kwawo, anyamata ena amachita bwino ndi kale njira zomwe zimafuna kuti azikhala pachibwenzi nthawi zambiri popanda kupita pachimake. (Mnyamata yemwe adanyenga poyambiranso - Zaka 30 - ED & bwenzi: masiku 52 tidakwaniritsa zolinga zathu)
Mwamuna atachira zolaula-anachititsa ED anati:
Kumayambiriro kwa njira yobwezeretsanso ndikuganiza kuti kugonana ndi mkazi kumabwezeretsa patsogolo pang'ono. Komabe ndimamva kuti panthawi inayake poyambiranso (payekha kwa aliyense, ndikutsimikiza) 'kutakasuka, osakakamiza kugonana' ndi mnzanu (wopanda kapena wamaliseche) kumakhala kopindulitsa. Zikuwoneka kuti kwa ine kugonana kumathandiza kukonzanso njira yathanzi, yabwinobwino komanso yachilengedwe yomwe idanditayika. Nthawi zochulukirapo zomwe ndimakwanitsa ndikukwaniritsa cholimba mwa kungopapasa ndikumugwira mkazi wanga yemwe akumva mawu okayikira kumbuyo kwa mutu wanga komanso momwe thupi langa limayankhira mwachangu komanso mwachangu.
Amuna akamva koyamba kuti ED yawo imayambitsidwa chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula, amakhala ndi chidwi chofuna kuletsa zolaula, maliseche, ndi zolaula. Ena amapambana, koma amabwereranso kangapo, kapena kuwonjezera maliseche kapena kugonana ndi wokondedwa wawo. Chovuta chokhudza kubwereranso musanabwezeretsedwe ndichoti chitha kuyamba "chaser effect”M'masiku angapo otsatira. Kudziwa za izi kumatha kukupulumutsirani mowa kwambiri, pomwe zikhumbo zamphamvu zimakuchotsani "paliponse" pambuyo pachimake.
Nayi mwamuna wina, wazaka 50:
Ndinangokhala ndi chidwi ndi NoFap chifukwa cha PMO-ED; osati chifukwa cha makhalidwe kapena chipembedzo kapena zifukwa zina. Choncho chonde, ganizirani izi powerenga yankho langa chifukwa zolinga zanga sizikukwera kuposa kuti ndilowetse mkati mwanga kuti ndiwonetsetse kuti ndikugwirizana:
Nditatha izi pafupifupi miyezi 5 ndazindikira kuti njira yanga yokomera kugonana ndiyosemphana ndikuti ndimapeza kuphulika kwakukulu kwa dopamine kuchokera pafupifupi chilichonse ngakhale chakugonana kwakutali… kupatula kugonana ndi mkazi weniweni. (Inde, zachisoni kwambiri, ndikudziwa.)
Inenso ndili ndi zaka 25+ LTR ndipo ndili ndi banja limodzi.
Kumenyera ku chilichonse, kuphatikiza malingaliro okhudza iye: kumangirira molimbika khungu kumamveka ngati laphwanya, 12-15 contractions, chisokonezo pachifuwa panga.
Kugonana naye: meh… ngati ndapeza mtundu uliwonse wakukondweretsedwa m'masiku 7 apitawa… makamaka ngati kukhutitsidwa kumeneku kwandibwera ndekha… koma ngati ndingakwanitse kusapeza chilakolako chogonana mwanjira iliyonse kwa sabata ndipo makamaka m'manja mwanga ... ndiye… kugonana naye ndikosangalatsa! Komabe sizosangalatsa, zovuta, kapena zophulika monga kuseweretsa maliseche, koma zotheka kwambiri komanso zosangalatsa.
Ndikudziwa kuti ndafika pamalo achisoni PAMODZI chifukwa chokhoza kukopa kwambiri kudzera pa masamba a zolaula a tube.com; koma pakadali pano kwa ine si zolaula zokhazokha… Ndaphunzira kupeza ma jollies anga kuti asamenyedwe; zachisoni, nditha kundisangalatsa ndikudzipangitsa kukhala wosangalala, koma sangathe pokhapokha nditakhala pansipa.
Chifukwa chake ndikuti, kuyambiranso kwanga kukutenga kwanthawizonse chifukwa ndikufuna kukhala ndi zotupa zotulutsa khungu-15-contraction-rocket-propuls-orgasms koma nthawi iliyonse ndikasokonekera ndikutha sindingathe kuchita naye. (Ndipo ndikuzindikira kuti ndikangokhala pansi ndikuwunika moyo wanga, ndingakonde kugawana naye zogonana m'malo mozibisa kubafa.)
Chifukwa chake kwa ine, kugonana ndikamayambiranso ndi chinthu chabwino. Sizindipweteka konse. (Ndinkaganiza kuti zatero, ndipo ndalemba pano motere.) Koma zomwe sindimazindikira kuti ndi zinthu zina zonse zomwe ndimachita zomwe zimandisokoneza.
Malingana ngati gwero Langa lokhalo lokhutiritsa zogonana limachita naye zinthu… NDIPO… panthawi yomwe thupi langa limatha (zomwe kwa ine ndilipo pakadali kamodzi pa sabata)… kugonana naye kumathandiza, sikumapweteka… koma mtundu wina uliwonse wa chisangalalo chogonana (ngakhale kungofinya mwachangu kapena kuyerekezera kopanda pake) kumapweteketsa.
Komabe, ngati mwabwereranso bwino, koma osakumana ndi zovuta zambiri, kugonana ndi mnzanu kukuwonetsani kuti ndi, kubwerera ku zachilendo. Mwachitsanzo, nazi zomwe mnyamata wina ananena:
"Zodzidzimutsa zokha zitha kukhala chizindikiro, koma sindikudziwa ngati ndi chizindikiro chenicheni. Simuyenera kuyenda ndi boner kuti mumve kuti zinthu zikuyenderani bwino. Mwachitsanzo, sabata yatha, sindinamuone chibwenzi changa kwa masiku angapo. Ndinalibe zozizwitsa zokha panthawiyi. Potengera mavuto anga akale, ndinada nkhawa ngakhale pang'ono… Kodi ndinali kutayikanso? Koma nditamuwona zonse zinali bwino. Kukhudza kwake ndi kununkhira kwathunthu kunanditembenuza ndipo mbolo imagwira ntchito. Chifukwa chake zinthu zimayenda bwino, ubongo wanu ukakhala bwino, ngakhale mutakhala kuti mulibe boner (zopangika zokha). ”
Mnyamata wina:
“Gawo limodzi la njira yobwezeretsedweratu yomwe sindimakonda kwenikweni ndikuti tsiku lina mutha kudzimva ngati wazaka 16, ndipo lotsatira ngati mwana wazaka 80 wopanda chikondi. Kudutsa pamenepo ndi mnzanu kungakhale kovuta. Nonse muyenera chikhulupiriro chachikulu kuti njira yoyambiranso kuchiritsa ikugwira ntchito. Iye ndi wamkulu ndipo anati kugonana kudzachitika pamapeto pake. Kaya tsopano ndi kapena ndikabwerera mwezi umodzi, silovuta. Izi ndizolimbikitsa kumva, ndipo zimachotseratu kukakamizidwa. ”
Wina wa gulu:
Ndimaganiziranso kuti ndikosavuta kuyambiranso ndi mnzanu / mkazi koma muyenera kumuphatikizira. Muyenera kumuuza za vuto lanu komanso zomwe mukuchita pakadali pano.
Ndidamuwonetsa mkazi wanga makanema pa YBOP ndipo adandipatsa mwayi, amamvetsetsa zonse ndipo sanakwiye kapena chilichonse.
Nayi malingaliro anzeru: Njira Yoyenda Msewu Imodzi
Mnyamatayu akubwezeretsanso ndi chibwenzi chake. Malamulo ake ndi oti akhoza kumudzutsa, koma sangagwire mbolo yake mpaka atasintha. Iye wakhala wokongola kwambiri chifukwa cha izo, koma osasinthasintha kwathunthu.
Choyamba pa Lachinayi usiku (Tsiku 52) ndidakhala kunyumba kwa Rachel. Tidachita kuphika pakudya limodzi zomwe zinali zabwino kwambiri kenako tidawonera kanema. Tinagona pambuyo pa kanema. Ndinapita koyamba pomwe anali kusanja mphaka ndikutsuka mano ndi zina ndikukonzekera kukagona, kenako ndikungogona pansi pazophimba. Anamaliza kubafa kenako nalowa kuchipinda. Tinkacheza pamene anali kuvula kenako adandilumphira akafika mpaka kuchipinda chamkati. Zinali zowoneka bwino kwambiri. Adapita pamwamba ndipo tidapsompsona, kukumbatirana ndi kusisita ndi zina ndi duvet yotilekanitsa. Kenako adalowa pakama ndipo zinthu zidapitilira pang'ono.
Komabe, kwa mphindi 10 zoyambirira pomwe anali pamwamba panga ndipo timagwirana pafupi, ndinali wolimba mwamphamvu. Ndinafika povuta atalowa pabedi kenako pang'onopang'ono inatha pomwe ndimayamba kumusangalatsa. Ndiye chidwi changa chinali pa iye ndikupangitsa kuti azimva bwino. Ili ndi mbali imodzi koma zikhala chifukwa saloledwa kundigwira. Kubwerera tsiku la 17 pomwe adandigwira komaliza kunali mbali imodzi koma kwa ine, chifukwa chake ndikuganiza kuti ndiyabwino. Zinali zabwino koma zinthu zamtunduwu ndizoletsa masiku 21 otsatira.
Ndibwino chifukwa sindinadziyese ndekha popanda MO mulimonse ndipo sindinakhalepo ndikumagonana kwambiri ndikayambiranso, koma ndikuganiza kuti ndikuti ndikuziwona mozama ndikufuna kuchita bwino motero Ndakhala ndikupewa zinthu zonse zogonana, kuphatikiza Rachel. Tidakali amaliseche palimodzi koma chifukwa saloledwa kuchita chilichonse kuti andidzutse kapena kundigwira, ndi zina zambiri, ndakhalabe wopanda chiyembekezo m'ntchito zathu zonse zogona m'masiku 54 apitawa. Koma Lachinayi usiku ndidakumana ndi mayankho osavuta ndikayankha akachita china chake kuti andidzutse.
Ndiyenera kuvomereza kuti sindinakhudze mbolo yanga ndi dzanja langa, koma zimamveka zolimba, zidakhala zolimba kwa mphindi 10 ndipo zonse zimatengera kupsompsonana, kukumbatirana komanso kugwira pang'ono. Osakakamiza kwambiri, molunjika, pamanja, osalankhula zonyansa, osayang'ana bulu wa Rachel, osasinthana kapena kuyesa kukakamiza chilichonse. Zinali ngati ubongo wanga utsegulidwa ndi BAM, ndidatsegulidwa. Zimakhaladi zabwino mtsogolo
Otsatirawa ndi kukambirana kwa mnzake wina patsamba lanu atangoyamba kumene kukonzanso - kuchokera kwa munthu yemwe akuchira yemwe zolaula zake zidapangitsa kuti pakhale zovuta panthawi yopanga chikondi
“Ndi malo ovuta kutulukamo, koma ndizotheka. Ndazindikira kuti m'miyezi ingapo yapitayi ndikumangiranso ubongo wanga, zolaula zinali njira yokhayo yochitira mantha - mwatsoka inalinso malo olipirira mantha amenewo. Ndinatha kusiya kukopeka ndikuwoneka ndikulakalaka kuti ndiziyenda mosavuta, chifukwa ndili ndi mwayi wokhala ndi chikondi chenicheni cha mkazi wodabwitsa.
Kuchiritsidwa kokha kumangowonongeka ndi mantha owopsa: kusokonezeka kwa ntchito, kukanidwa, kutayika. Izi zikufalikira kumbuyo tsopano, ndipo ndikukumana ndi thanzi komanso ndikusangalala.
Pendulum yochira idasokoneza momwe ndimakhalira ndi chikondi chamtheradi cha moyo wanga. Kumva (anzeru za libido) tsiku lina ndikuipira lotsatira chinali chokumana nacho chovuta kwambiri. Ndalira ngati khanda ndipo ndinali ndi masiku omwe ndimadzimvera chisoni ndikadzimvera chisoni pafupifupi zikuwoneka kuti ndibwino.
Ndakhalanso ndi nthawi yopanga chikondi kwa ola limodzi kapena patali ndi chibwenzi changa-ndimphamvu zomwe zimadutsa mwa ine ngati kuti ndimapatsidwa mphamvu zonse ndi nyenyezi.
Njirayi yakhala yokhumudwitsa komanso yodabwitsa. Ndikuganiza kuti ndikudutsamo ndekha ndikukhala wabwino komanso woipitsitsa. Ndinachita manyazi ngakhale ndikubweretsa zolaula zanga muubwenzi wathu. Manyazi amenewo anali kulepheretsanso kuchira kwanga. Popanda bwenzi langa sindinganene kuti ndikadakhala ndi mantha otsalira pantchitoyi.
Nthawi yomweyo, komabe, popanda bwenzi langa mwina sindinatengeredwe kunjira yochiritsayi. Komanso sindikadakhala ndi wina aliyense wolira maso anga ang'onoang'ono, kapena kufotokozera mantha anga ndi nkhawa zanga pomwe ndili ndi wina woti andithandizire kusintha kwanga. Ndili ndi mwayi wabwino komanso wokondwa kwambiri kukhala ndi munthu wina ndikudutsa izi.
Zakhala zovuta kwambiri kwa iye, ndipo takhala tikukayika komanso mantha amabwera pakati pathu. Kwa zonse zomwe ndikuphunzira za inemwini, amaphunziranso za iyemwini. Si picnic Lamlungu koma ndiyabwino.
Sindingaganize ndikuchita izi ndikuyitanitsa munthu watsopano m'moyo wanga komabe. Chibwenzi changa chinandilozetsa kuzinthu zofunikira pakuchiritsidwa. Akadakhala kuti adabwera m'moyo wanga pomwe ndimakumana ndi kusintha kwamaubongo ndimayendedwe, ndipo osakhala 'odziwa,' nditha kuwona kuti zikadakhala zovuta kuti wokonda watsopano amvetsetse.
Koma ziribe kanthu, kapena wopanda wina wapadera m'moyo wanu, kuyambiranso ndichinthu chomwe chingangobweretsa zotsatira zabwino. Mwapanga sitepe yoyenera ndikuchira kwanu kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro oyenera kwayandikira.
Kufanizira kwanu kwamisasa ya boot kumakhala kokwanira. Kuchita izi kuli ngati masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe ife monga oledzera / m / o timafuna kuchita koma osakhala nawo mipira, titero kunena kwake. ”
Ndemanga za bwenzi la munthu yemweyo miyezi ingapo pambuyo pake:
"Kuchiritsa kwa D kwakhala kozizwitsa modabwitsa, ndipo ndiyeneradi kunena kuti" kuchiritsa "kwathu, chifukwa kukhala ndi munthu amene amayambiranso kuonera zolaula ndichinthu chachiwiri kuchiritsa. Monga momwe mayi aliyense angaganizire, zimatha kuyambitsa zovuta zina zikafika poti mkaziyo komanso mwamunayo amakhala osatetezeka. Kuyang'anizana ndi mantha awa pomwe ADZABWERERA ndikofunikira, ndipo sindinganene kuti izi ndizofunikira.
Ndizovuta kuti tonse tikhale olimba mtima, osatenga zinthu zathu zokha, kuti tisatengeke maganizo / kudzudzula / ndikuchita zinthu mosazindikira zaka zambiri, ndi zina zambiri (mukudziwa, mwachizolowezi.)
Koma kukondana kwamakono panthawi yolankhulirana kunanenedwa kofunika kwambiri. Ngati mumakangana, ngakhale mutakhala kuti mumatsutsana kwambiri nthawi yomweyo, ndizofunikira kuti aliyense atseke gehena ndikulandira ma 150 ccs of snuggles musanapitirize kukambirana, mwamtendere , malingaliro, mwachikondi ndi mwaulemu.
Ndidabweranso ndi lingaliro lanthawi yochenjeza yofiira pamakalata okonda omwe amaphatikizapo kupatukana kwakanthawi muzipinda ziwiri, (makamaka ndi chitseko pakati panu kukulitsa kumverera kwa "danga" osakondana) ndipo gulu lililonse limakhala ndi mutu , kenako ndikubwerera komwe kunachitikira mlanduwu.
Kwa inu amuna kunja uko omwe mukuwopa kuti mwapha mbolo yanu mwachabwino kudzera kuseweretsa maliseche? Musaope. Zimabweradi. Mulungu wabwino amabwerera. Amalumbira kuti "ndakulitsa mbolo yake kapena china chake," ndipo inde, ndichodabwitsa kwambiri. Ndizosangalatsa kumumva akunena kuti ndikuchita, ndichinthu chogonana komanso chokhudzidwa mtima.
Ponena zakukhudzidwa, ndipanga kuwulula mbali yake, chifukwa zinali ngati zochitika zazikulu pakuchira kwake mwa iye yekha: Sabata imodzi kapena yapitayo, tinali, mukudziwa, kupanga, ndi um… iye adabwera buluku lake. Zinali zokongola kwambiri mwa izo zokha. Zomwe zimawonetsa ndikuti IZI NDI NTCHITO. Ubongo wake udasinthiranso bwino madera ena ndikuwonjezera kuchuluka kwa zolandilira zomwe zimapezeka kuti zilandire mankhwala amitsempha oyandama pamenepo.
Ndikutanthauza, TINADZIWA kuti ikugwira ntchito, ndipo sizinali ngati zomwe timafunikira kuti zichitike kuti tizindikire kuti kupanga zibwenzi kwakhala kodabwitsa kwambiri, koma udali umboni wotsimikizika kuti zosintha zazikulu zidachitika mwa iye ubongo. Zaka zowononga zasinthidwa. Unali umboni. Nthawi yowerengera. China chake chidadina ndipo tonse tidamvetsetsa: "zoyipa. Iwo wachiritsidwa. China chake chikuchitika kuno. ”
Nonse omwe mumachira zolaula kunja uko muyenera kuzindikira kuti wadutsanso ndi ine, mwachikondi. Musaope kulowa chimodzi, palibe nthawi yabwinoko kuposa pano. Limbani mtima. Ndikofunika kuti muthe kukhala pachiwopsezo pamphindi iliyonse yomwe mungamve. Beautiful Zokongola kwambiri. ”
Mnyamata wina anati:
Ndinapitiliza kuwona mtsikana kwa miyezi ingapo pambuyo pake. Tinasangalala, kugwirana manja, kupsompsonana, kukumbatirana, zinthu zonse zabwino. Koma uku kunali kumenyedwa pakati pa malo anga onyentchera, motero sizinali zambiri zomwe zimabwera ndipo nthawi zambiri sizimalimba. Nkhani yayitali, sitinagonanepo ndipo sitikuwonananso, koma kunathandiza kukhala ndi wina pamenepo. Moona mtima komabe, IMO kuyambiranso kumakhala kosavuta ndi inu nokha mpaka pamlingo. Popeza tidasiya chibwenzi, sindikumva kukakamizidwa kuti ndiyambirenso mwachangu, kukhala womasuka pa izi, ndipo sindinakhale wosakwatiwa pafupifupi zaka 4 kotero zidandizolowera koma ndizabwino, ngakhale ine ' d ndimakonda kupeza msungwana posachedwa kuti ayambe chibwenzi ndikudziwana.
Kwa munthu uyu, ubalewu unali vuto:
Ndinali ndi chibwenzi chachikulu (chogonana kwambiri, ha) kwa miyezi yoyamba ya 5 ya NoFapistry yanga. Izi zidandipweteka kwambiri kuchira kwanga. Anali bwino ndi ife popewa kugonana, koma nthawi zonse amayenda mozungulira maliseche, amafuna kutenga mvula ndi ine, ndipo nthawi zambiri amangonditembenuzira opanda tanthauzo. Zomwe zikadakhala zabwino, ngati dick wanga sakanakhala mutu wamiseche.
Amanditembenuzira, kenako ndimayesa kugonana, kupita kukakoka, ndipo ndimamva ngati ndikuyambiranso kuchokera pa square. Ndipo ndikafika, ndimadzipeza ndikuganiza zogonana, kuti ndichoke, m'malo mongoganizira zogonana zomwe ndimachita. Zinali zovuta kwambiri kuthana nazo. Kwa ine, ndi mtundu wa umunthu womwe ndili, vutoli ndichinthu chomwe ndimachita pa ine, ndikudzipatula ndekha, pamlingo wina, kuti ndichite bwino.
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Sindikudziwa ngati ndabwereranso ku 100%, koma ngati si 100% ndiye kuti penapake mu 90% percentile. Anyamata khalani oleza mtima komanso olimba mtima, kuyambiransoko kumagwira ntchito !!! Lachisanu lidzakhala masabata 8 kwa ine. Sindikudziwa ngati ndi zomwe zikhala za aliyense koma ndidadutsa nthawi yonse yakufa yakufa ndi chilichonse. Nthawi yonseyi ndimagonana pafupifupi katatu. Nthawi ya 3 kukhala itatha sabata la 1. Osangotenga mawu anga koma sindikukhulupirira kuti kugonana kumachedwetsa ntchitoyi pakapita nthawi. Masiku otsatira atagonana nthawi zina Dick wanga adamva ngati wafika pabwino. Apanso ndi ine basi sindingathe kuyankhulira ena.
Ndinapita masabata onse a 8 opanda PMO. POPANDA kubwereranso. Zovuta zanga zokha zinali zogonana. Monga ndidanenera sindikudziwa ngati ndili 100% komabe, zoyipa izi ndi ZABWINO !!!! Ndine wokondwa kuti ndadutsa izi ngakhale zinali zovuta. Zinandimasula ku zolaula ndipo tsopano ndimayamikiranso kwambiri mbolo yanga komanso zomwe ndimakonda. Ndimakonda mbolo yanga ngati inali munthu, mwina lol lol !!!! Ndidayenera kutumiza izi kuti ndiwapatse chiyembekezo anyamatawo !!!
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