Kodi mwamvapo zonena izi posachedwapa? Kapena mwinamwake ngakhale kukhulupirira kuti ndi zoona?
- Anthu achipembedzo ali ndi maulendo apamwamba owonetsera zolaula kuposa abale awo amdziko, ndipo amanama za izo.
- Owerenga zithunzi zolaula samakonda kwambiri zolaula; Iwo amakhulupirira kuti ali oledzera chifukwa amanyazi.
- Kukhulupirira zolaula ndizo zimayambitsa mavuto, osati zolaula.
Nkhani zokhudzana ndi kafukufuku wofalitsidwa kwambiri pa zolaula ndi zipembedzo zolaula zafalitsa izi, zomwe anthu ambiri, kuphatikizapo achipembedzo komanso osakhulupirira, adayamba kulakwitsa. Komabe, kafukufuku watsopano wowonjezera mpweya (ena mwa ochita kafukufuku amene ntchito yawo yakhala ikuyimira m'nkhani zoterozo).
Meme #1 imachokera ku maphunziro pang'ono omwe adapeza kuchuluka kwa kusaka kwa Google pazogonana mu "red state" (achipembedzo kwambiri komanso osasamala), ngakhale kafukufuku wambiri wa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi zambiri amapeza kuti anthu achipembedzo amagwiritsa ntchito Zochepa zolaula kuposa anthu ogwiritsa ntchito. Memes 2 ndi 3 zimachokera m'nkhani ndi ochita kafukufuku ndikuwonetsa zotsatira za "zingapoanazindikira zolaula zolaula”Maphunziro a Dr. Joshua Grubbs.
Kuphunzira koyamba: Anthu achipembedzo amanena zoona zokhudza zolaula zawo
In Zosangalatsa Zogwirizana ndi Zithunzi Zogonana Zowonongeka: Udindo wa Chipembedzo, ofufuza anafufuza maganizo akuti anthu achipembedzo amatha kunena zabodza zokhudza zolaula zawo kwa akatswiri komanso kafukufuku wosadziwika.
Choyamba, kuyang'ana kumbuyo. Mtheradi "wabodza" umakhala pa maphunziro angapo akufufuza zonse boma-ndi-boma Kufufuza kwa Google nthawi zambiri monga "kugonana," "zolaula," "XXX," ndi zina zotero. Kafukufuku wamaphunzirowa adanena kuti anthu ovomerezeka kapena achipembedzo (akuti "ofiira") amafufuza kafukufuku wambirimbiri. Olemba mafukufukuwa adanena kuti zomwe apezazi zimatanthauza kuti anthu (1) achipembedzo amawonanso zolaula kuposa anthu omwe si achipembedzo, komanso (2) ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ayenera kuzinena za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula kwa akatswiri komanso kafukufuku wosadziwika.
Koma kunama kungathe kufotokozera chifukwa chake pafupifupi maphunziro onse omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito osadziwika kafukufuku adapeza m'munsi Kugwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zolaula mwachipembedzo (phunzirani 1, phunzirani 2, phunzirani 3, phunzirani 4, phunzirani 5, phunzirani 6, phunzirani 7, phunzirani 8, phunzirani 9, phunzirani 10, phunzirani 11, phunzirani 12, phunzirani 13, phunzirani 14, phunzirani 15, phunzirani 16, phunzirani 17, phunzirani 18, phunzirani 19, phunzirani 20, phunzirani 21, phunzirani 22, phunzirani 23, phunzirani 24, phunzirani 25). Kodi tiyenera kukhulupirira mafukufuku ambiri osadziwika? Kapena ndi mapulogalamu awiri ofufukira kafukufuku wa Google (MacInnis ndi Hodson, 2015; Whitehead ndi Perry, 2017)?
Akatswiri ofufuza atayesa maganizo akuti, "anthu achipembedzo akunena zabodza zogwiritsa ntchito zolaula," sanapeze umboni uliwonse wotsutsa malingaliro amenewo. Ndipotu, zotsatira zake zimasonyeza kuti anthu achipembedzo angakhale owona mtima kusiyana ndi anthu omwe amakhulupirira za zolaula. Mwachidule, njira yowonetsera kufotokozera dziko lonse ndi njira yolakwika yofufuza nkhaniyi. Sizowonjezereka ngati kufufuza kosadziwika komwe mutu uliwonse wa phunziro ukudziwika.
Kuchokera kuzinthu zowoneka:
Komabe, mosiyana ndi malingaliro otchuka-komanso malingaliro athu-sitinapeze umboni uliwonse komanso umboni wambiri wotsutsana ndi lingaliro loti anthu achipembedzo ali ndi chidwi chokomera anthu pakunena zakugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kuposa zachipembedzo. Zoyanjana zomwe zikuwunika kuthekera kumeneko mwina zinali zopanda tanthauzo kapena zofunikira kumbuyo.
Kuchokera pamapeto pake:
Zotsatirazi sizikugwirizana ndi nkhani zomwe anthu achipembedzo amawagwiritsa ntchito mobwerezabwereza kapena kupititsa patsogolo kutsutsa kwawo kuonera zolaula kwapamwamba kwambiri kuposa osakhala achipembedzo ndipo amati, ngati paliponse, akatswiri akhala akunyalanyaza kutsutsa kwachipembedzo ndi kupeŵa kuwonongera zolaula.
Choncho, m'malo mochititsa manyazi zozizwitsa zolaula zolaula zimagwiritsa ntchito monga "zolaula," chipembedzo chikuwoneka kuti chimateteza kusagwiritsa ntchito zolaula (ndizovuta kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula).
Chifukwa chake, nchiyani chomwe chingalongosole kuchuluka kwa kusaka mawu okhudzana ndi kugonana mu "red state?" Ndizokayikitsa kwambiri kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula omwe amakhala ndi gawo limodzi la ola limodzi amagwiritsa ntchito Google kufunafuna mawu osavuta ("XXX", "kugonana", "zolaula") omwe ofufuzawo adafufuza. Amapita mwachindunji kumalo omwe amakonda kwambiri (mwina osungidwa).
Komabe, achinyamata omwe akufuna kudziwa za kugonana kapena zolaula angagwiritse ntchito mawu oterewa a Google. Ingoganizani? The 15 imanena kuti achinyamata ambiri ndi "zofiira." Kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudza chipembedzo ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula onani mutu uwu: Kodi Utah #1 mu Porn imagwiritsa ntchito?
Pambali: Tisanachoke pamitu yokhudza zachipembedzo komanso zolaula, tiyenera kudziwa kuti ofufuza ena akhala ofunitsitsa kuchititsa manyazi kunyalanyaza zomwe amapembedza. Tengani "Kufufuza chifukwa cha Chiwerewere”Wolemba MacInnis ndi Hodson. Zomwe ofufuzawa amakhulupirira kuti anthu achipembedzo amawonera zolaula (kutengera kuyerekezera zachipembedzo ndi kuchuluka kwa mawu ogonana a Google) sizinkagwirizana ndi kafukufuku wambiri m'munda. Komabe, MacInnis ndi Hodson adatengera zinthu patsogolo. Adagawana nawo malingaliro awo ndi omwe atenga nawo mbali pachipembedzo ndipo apeza kuti,
anthu apamwamba (otsutsana) m'magulu achipembedzo kapena opembedza amakhulupirira kuti zofukufukuzo n'zosavomerezeka ndi chidziwitso chaumwini pazinthu zachipembedzo ndi anthu payekha, akuwona kuti zofukufukuzo sizowona, ndipo amaona kuti olembawo ali ndi zolinga zandale.
Poona kafukufuku yemwe watchulidwa pamwambapa, opembedzawo anali ndi chiyembekezo chodalira zomwe angadziwe m'malo motengera njira zolakwika za ochita kafukufukuwo.
Phunziro lachiwiri: “Mukudzikhulupirira nokha kuti mumakonda zolaula”Zogwirizana kwambiri ndi kugwiritsa ntchito, koma osati ndi chipembedzo (kulumikizana ku pepala)
M'zaka zingapo zapitazi Dr. Joshua Grubbs ali ndi analemba kulemba kwa maphunziro Kugwirizana kwachipembedzo cha ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa nthawi yayitali, kusavomerezeka pamakhalidwe, ndi zina zambiri zomwe zili ndi mafunso ake a mafunso a 9 "The Cyber Pornography Use Inventory" (CPUI-9). Mu chisankho chosamvetsetseka chomwe chachititsa kuti pakhale chisokonezo, Grubbs amatanthauza kuchuluka kwathunthu kwa CPUI-9 pamutu monga "kuzindikira zolaula."Izi zimapereka chithunzi chabodza kuti chida chake mwanjira ina chikuwonetsa momwe munthu" amamuonera "kuti walowerera (osati kukhala kwenikweni addicted). Koma palibe chida chingakhoze kuchita izo, ndipo ndithudi si ichi.
Kunena mwanjira ina, mawu oti "kuzolowera zolaula" sakusonyeza china chilichonse: ziwerengero zonse pazinthu zotsatirazi zolaula za 9 zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito mafunso ndi mafunso ake atatu okhudzana ndi kudziimba mlandu komanso manyazi. Sizisanja tirigu ndi mankhusu molingana ndi kuzolowera.
Gawo Loyamba Kukakamizidwa
- Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndimakonda kwambiri zolaula pa Intaneti.
- Ndikumva kuti sindingalepheretse kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa Intaneti.
- Ngakhale pamene sindikufuna kuona zithunzi zolaula pa intaneti, ndimamva kuti ndikuyandikira
Gawo la Mayesero Opeza
- Nthaŵi zina, ndimayesetsa kukonza ndondomeko yanga kuti ndikhale ndekha kuti ndione zolaula.
- Ndakana kukakhala ndi anzanga kapena kupita kuntchito zina kuti ndipeze zolaula.
- Ndaika zofunikira kwambiri kuti ndiziona zolaula.
Kusokonezeka Maganizo Section
- Ndimachita manyazi ndikaona zolaula pa intaneti.
- Ndimaona kuti ndikuvutika maganizo chifukwa choona zolaula pa intaneti.
- Ndimadwala kwambiri ndikaona zolaula pa intaneti.
Monga mukuonera, CPUI-9 sangathe kusiyanitsa pakati pa zovuta zowononga zolaula ndi "chikhulupiliro" pa zolaula. Anthu sanadzitchulepo kuti "ali osokoneza bongo" mu kafukufuku aliyense wa Grubbs. Amangoyankha mafunso 9 omwe ali pamwambapa, ndipo adapeza chiphaso chonse.
Kodi zikugwirizana bwanji zomwe maphunziro a Grubbs amanena? Chiwerengero cha CPUI-9 chinali chogwirizana ndi chipembedzo (onani ndime yotsatirayi chifukwa chake), koma komanso zokhudzana ndi "zolaula zomwe amaziwona sabata iliyonse." Mu Grubbs ena amapanga mgwirizano wolimba kwambiri ndi chikhulupiliro, mwa ena Kugwirizana kwakukulu kunachitika ndi kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula kwa maola ambiri.
Zolengeza zamalonda zinagwirizanitsa mgwirizano pakati pa maphunziro achipembedzo ndi chiwerengero cha CPUI-9 (omwe panopa amalembedwa molakwika kuti "chizoloŵezi chowoneka"), ndipo olemba nkhaniwo amatsutsa zomwe " Khulupirirani iwo akulowerera ku zolaula. "Ofalitsa nkhani sananyalanyaze mgwirizano weniweni ndi wamphamvu pakati pa ma CPUI-9 maola ndi maola a ntchito zolaula, ndipo anaponyera mazana a zolemba zolakwika monga post iyi blog ndi David Ley: Zimene Mumakhulupirira pa Zolaula Zimapangitsa Zinthu Kuipa: Chizindikiro cha "chilakolako choyipa" chimayambitsa kupanikizika koma kuonera zolaula sikutanthauza. Nayi malingaliro olakwika a Ley a kafukufuku wa Joshua Grubbs:
"Ngati wina amakhulupirira kuti ndi chizolowezi chogonana, chikhulupiriro ichi chimaneneratu za kuvutika kwamaganizidwe, ngakhale zitakhala zochuluka motani, kapena zochepa bwanji, zolaula."
Kuchotsa zolakwika za Ley, chiganizo chapamwamba chikanatha kuwerenga molondola:
"Zambiri pa CPUI-9 zogwirizana ndi zambiri pamafunso azovuta zamaganizidwe (nkhawa, kukhumudwa, mkwiyo)."
Mwachidule - zoledzeretsa zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi maganizo a maganizo (monga maola owonetsera zolaula). Ichi chinali kuphunzira kwa nthawi yaitali, ndipo adapeza kuti kusonkhana pakati pa zolaula ndikugwiritsidwa ntchito mosasinthasintha kwa chaka.
Ziribe kanthu momwe zasocheretsera, "kuona kuti zolaula zolaula" zimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi kufalikira pazofalitsa. Aliyense yemwe amaganiza kuti Grubbs anali atapeza njira yosiyanitsira "kuledzera" ndi "kukhulupirira kuledzera." Koma iye analibe. Iye anali atangotchula dzina losocheretsa pa zojambula zake zojambula zithunzi, CPUI-9. Komabe, nkhani zochokera pa maphunziro osiyanasiyana a CPUI-9 zikuphatikizapo zotsatirazi monga:
- Kukhulupirira zolaula ndizo zimayambitsa mavuto anu, osati zolaula.
- Owerenga zolaula sagwiritsa ntchito zolaula (ngakhale atapanga ma Grubbs CPUI-9) - amakhala ndi manyazi basi.
Ngakhale odokotala ankasocheretsedwa mosavuta, chifukwa makasitomala ena kwenikweni do amakhulupirira kuti zolaula zawo zimakhala zowononga komanso zowopsya kuposa momwe odwala awo amaganizira. Otsatawa ankaganiza kuti mayeso a Grubbs amatha kudzipatula osakaniza olakwika pamene sanatero.
Monga mawu akuti, "Chithandizo chokha cha sayansi yoyipa ndi sayansi yambiri." Kulimbana ndi kukayikira mwachidwi ponena za malingaliro ake, ndi kusungirapo za zifukwa zosamveka kuti chida chake cha CPUI-9 chikhoza kusiyanitsa "kuwonetsa zolaula" kuchokera ku zovuta zogonana zovuta, Dr. Grubbs anachita chinthu choyenera monga asayansi. Anayamba kulembetsa phunziro kuti ayese malingaliro ake / malingaliro ake molunjika. Kulemba kalembedwe ndizomwe zimapangitsa kuti asayansi asinthe malingaliro atatha kusonkhanitsa deta.
Zotsatirazo zinali zotsutsana ndi ziganizo zake zakale ndi meme ("chiwerewere ndizochititsa manyazi") zomwe makina osindikizira adathandizira kufalitsa.
Dr. Grubbs adatsimikiza kuti chipembedzo ndicho choyambirira cha "kukhulupirira kuti iwe ndiwe wodwala zolaula." Iye ndi gulu lake la kafukufuku adafufuza 3 m'malo mochuluka, zitsanzo zosiyanasiyana (amuna, akazi, ndi zina zotero): Kodi Ndi Ndani Amene Amamwa Zolaula? Kufufuza Ntchito za Zithunzi Zolaula Gwiritsani Ntchito, Zipembedzo, Ndiponso Kusayenerera Khalidwe. (Iye adaika zotsatira pa intaneti, ngakhale pepala la timu yake silinayambe kufalitsidwa).
Koma nthawi ino sadadalire Chida cha CPUI-9. CPUI-9 imaphatikizapo 3 mafunso "olakwa ndi manyazi / maganizo" osati kawirikawiri amapezeka mu zida zoledzera - zomwe zimapangitsa zotsatira zake, zomwe zimachititsa anthu owonetsa zolaula kuti apeze anthu apamwamba ndi osakhala achipembedzo kuti azilemba zocheperapo kusiyana ndi zomwe amachita pazowonongeka. M'malo mwake, gulu la Grubbs linafunsa 2 mafunso enieni oye / ayi ponena za ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ("Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndimakhala ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula pa intaneti. ""Ndikanatha kudziyesa ndekha kuti ndiwonetsa zolaula pa intaneti. "), Ndipo adafaniziranso zotsatira ndi zambiri pafunso la" khalidwe losavomerezeka ".
Mosemphana ndi kutsutsa kwake, Dr Grubbs ndi gulu lake lofufuza anapeza kuti kukhulupirira kuti mumakonda kwambiri zolaula kumagwirizana kwambiri Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula tsiku lililonse, osati ndi chipembedzo. Monga taonera kale, ena a Grubbs maphunziro Anapezanso kuti maola ogwiritsiridwa ntchito anali otsogolera kwambiri "oledzera" kusiyana ndi chipembedzo. Kuchokera mu phunziro latsopanolo:
Mosiyana ndi mabuku omwe asanakhalepo akusonyeza kuti khalidwe lachikhalidwe ndi chipembedzo ndizozidziwika bwino kwambiri zogwiritsira ntchito mankhwalawa (kugwiritsa ntchito CPUI-9], zotsatira za zitsanzo zonse zitatu zikuwonetsa kuti amuna ndi abambo omwe amatsatira zolaula ndizofunika kwambiri zolaula.
Kukhala wamwamuna kumatchulidwanso mwakuya kuti ndiwe "oledzera." Ambiri ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula omwe adayankha "inde" kufunso limodzi la "addicted" linachokera ku 8-20% muzofukufuku zatsopano. Mitengo iyi ikugwirizana ndi zofufuza zina za 2017 (19% ya amuna a koleji akuledzera). Mwachidziwikire, phunziroli anthu ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amaonetsa mavuto osokoneza bongo a 27.6%, ndi phunziroli adanena kuti 28% ya anthu ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula anawonetsa kuti ali ndi vuto logwiritsa ntchito zovuta.
Mwachidule, anthu ambiri ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amafala kwambiri. Mavuto akuluakulu omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito mobwerezabwereza amasonyeza kuti bungwe la World Health Organisation limapanga kuti "Kugonjetsedwa kwabwino kwa kugonana"mu ndondomeko ya beta ya ICD-11) ndizofunikadi.
Malinga ndi zotsatira zawo, Dr. Grubbs ndi olemba anzake akulangiza kuti, "akatswiri a zaumoyo ndi a kugonana ayenera kutenga nkhawa za makasitomala akudziwika kuti zolaula zimanyalanyaza kwambiri."
A osati maphunziro a Grubbs mafunso a CPUI-9 ngati chida choyesa kuwona zovuta kapena zenizeni zoledzera
Maphunziro omwe ali pamwambawa sali okhawo omwe angapangitse kukayikira pazogwiritsidwa ntchito kale ndi makina okhudzana ndi iwo. Miyezi ingapo yapitayo, mu Septemba, 2017, phunziro lina linatuluka, lomwe linayesa chimodzi mwa ziganizo za Grubbs: Kodi Zithunzi Zolaula Zimagwiritsa Ntchito Zowonjezera-Zithunzi za 9 Zimasonyeza Kukhumudwa Kwenizeni pa Zithunzi Zolaula Zimagwiritsidwa Ntchito? Kufufuza Ntchito Yodziletsa.
Ofufuzawo anayeza kukakamiza kwenikweni powafunsa ophunzira kuti asiye zolaula pa intaneti masiku a 14. (Maphunziro ochepa chabe apempha ophunzira kuti asiye kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula, zomwe ndi njira imodzi yodziwika bwino yosonyeza zotsatira zake.)
Ophunzirawo adatenga CPUI-9 asanafike komanso atayesa masiku a 14 kuti azidziletsa. (Chidziwitso: Sanapewe maliseche kapena kugonana, koma zolaula pa intaneti zokha.) Cholinga chachikulu cha ochita kafukufuku chinali kufananiza 'kale' ndi 'pambuyo' magawo ambiri a 3 a CPUI-9 pamitundu ingapo.
Zina mwazofukufuku (tafotokozedwa mozama apa), kusakhoza kulamulira ntchito (kusayesayesa kuyesayesa) kusagwirizana ndi CPUI-9 leni mafunso osokoneza bongo 1-6, koma osati ndi CPUI-9 yomwe ili ndi mlandu komanso manyazi (kukhumudwa) mafunso 7-9. Mofananamo, "kunyalanyaza" kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumangogwirizana pang'ono ndi CPUI-9 "Kuzindikira Kukakamizidwa" zambiri. TZotsatira za hese zikusonyeza kuti mafunso a CPUI-9 olakwa komanso amanyazi (7-9) sayenera kukhala mbali ya zolaula (kapena ngakhale "kuzindikira zolaula") chifukwa sizigwirizana ndi nthawi zambiri zolaula.
Kuti ndizinene mosiyana, nkhani zovuta kwambiri osati Malipiro apamwamba pa chipembedzo. Komanso, ziribe kanthu momwe zimayesedwera, leni Kuchita zachiwerewere / kunyengerera kumagwirizanitsidwa kwambiri ndi zochitika zapamwamba zolaula, m'malo mofunsa mafunso ovutika maganizo (kulakwa ndi manyazi).
Mwachidule, zipembedzo zitatu zatsopano ndi zolaula zimaphunzira zotsatila izi:
- Chipembedzo sichimayambitsa "kuledzera". Chipembedzo ndi osati zokhudzana ndi kukhulupirira kuti mumakonda kwambiri zolaula.
- Kuonera zolaula ndizomwe zimakuchititsani kuti mukhale ndi zolaula.
- Kafukufuku wa Grubbs (kapena kafukufuku wina aliyense amene amagwiritsa ntchito CPUI-9) sanayese "kuwonera zolaula" kapena "kukhulupirira zolaula" kapena "kudziyesa wodziwika kuti ndi wosuta," osatinso kusiyanitsa ndi kuledzera .
ZOCHITSA NDI ZOCHITIKA KWAMBIRI ZOCHITIKA
Olemba awiri oyambira kufalitsa za CPUI-9 ndi MI (Joshua Grubbs ndi Samuel Perry) adatsimikiza zokonda zawo pomwe onsewa mwawonekedwe adalumikizana ndi othandizira Chithunzi cha Nicole ndi David Ley poyesera kuti chete YourBrainOnPorn.com. Perry, Grubbs ndi akatswiri ena a pro-porn ku www.realyourbrainonporn.com akuchita nawo kuphwanya malamulo kosamaloledwa ndi kuphwanya malamulo. Wowerenga ayenera kudziwa izi RealYBOP twitter (ndi kuvomerezedwa kowoneka ndi akatswiri ake) akutenga nawo gawo pakuyipitsa ndi kuvutitsa a Gary Wilson, Alexander Rhodes, Gabe Deem ndi NCOSE, Laila Mickelwait, Gail Dinesndipo aliyense amene amalankhula zolaula za porn. Kuphatikiza apo, David Ley ndi akatswiri ena awiri a "RealYBOP" tsopano kulipidwa ndi makampani ojambula zolaula chimphona chachikulu cha xHamster kulimbikitsa mawebusayiti ake (ie StripChat) ndikuwonetsetsa kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso zolaula ndizabodza! Prause (amene imayendetsa RealYBOP twitter) zikuwoneka kuti osangalatsa kwambiri ndi makampani oonera zolaula, ndipo imagwiritsa ntchito RealYBOP twitter kuti zolimbikitsa makanema azolaula, kuteteza PornHub (yomwe idasunga makanema ogulitsa ana zolaula komanso kugonana), ndi khalani nawo omwe akulimbikitsa pempholi kuti agwire PornHub imakhala ndi mlandu. Tikhulupirira kuti "akatswiri" a RealYBOP akuyenera kulembetsa umembala wawo wa RealYBOP kuti ndi "mkangano wosangalatsa" m'mabuku awo owunikiridwa ndi anzawo.
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