Hesse, Colin, ndi Kory Floyd.
Journal of Social and Personal ubale (2019): 0265407519841719.
Kudalirika
Ophunzira adanena kuti anthu amafunikira kukhala nawo, koma ndizochepa zomwe zimadziwika ngati anthu angagwiritse ntchito zinthu zina m'malo mwa maubale. Phunziroli, achikulire a 357 adanenanso kuchuluka kwawo kwa chikondi, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula sabata iliyonse, zolinga zawo pogwiritsa ntchito zolaula (kuphatikizapo kukhutitsidwa ndi moyo komanso kuchepetsedwa kwa kusungulumwa), ndi zofunikira za thanzi lawo pawokha komanso logwirizana. Tidaganiza kuti anthu amatha kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ngati njira yothandizira (kuthana ndi zosinthika kapena zosavomerezeka) kuthana ndi kukhumudwitsidwa, ndikukhumudwa kwokhudzana ndi zolinga zakugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikugwiritsa ntchito moyenera kuyanjana pakati pa kukana chikondi ndi zomwe zingachitike. Monga kunanenedweratu, kukondana komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zinali zokhudzana kwambiri ndi kukondana komanso ubale, pomwe zinali zogwirizana ndi kusungulumwa komanso kukhumudwa. Kutaya mtima pakukondana kunali koyenera limodzi ndi zolinga zomwe zimafotokozedwa pakugwiritsa ntchito zolaula (ngakhale ubale pakati pa kukondana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula sunali wopanda tanthauzo). Hypothesis yoyeserera, komabe, idawonetsa umboni wocheperako, womwe umapereka chiyanjano chapakati pa kukondana ndi kukhumudwa (ndi zovuta zomwe zimapangitsa kukondana, kuyandikana, komanso kusungulumwa). Pafupifupi, pali umboni wina wosonyeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati njira yolumikizirana chikondi (kuthana ndi malingaliro okondana). Komabe, palibe umboni wonena kuti kumwa kumangokhala kusinthasintha kapena kusakhazikika pokhudzana ndi kukhutitsidwa, ubale, komanso kusungulumwa, ngakhale kungakhale koyipa pokhudzana ndi kukhumudwa.
Keywords Kukonda, kunyinyirika, kuyenera kukhala kwanu, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, thanzi labwino
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