J Kugonana Kwadongosolo. 2019 Jan 14: 1-15. yani: 10.1080 / 0092623X.2018.1562501.
Saramago MA1, Cardoso J2, Leal I1.
Kudalirika
Cholinga cha phunziroli chinali kulingalira ndi kuneneratu za ochita zachiwerewere zolaula panthawi yomwe amalondolera. Ophatikizidwa anali olakwira amuna okwana 146 omwe anamangidwa kundende ya Chipwitikizi. Mafunso omwe anakhazikitsidwa pang'ono komanso Mafunso a Wilson Sex Ndimalingaliro adayendetsedwa. Pomwe kwa anthu ena zolaula sizimawoneka kuti zikuchita nawo zolakwa zawo, panali ena omwe kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yayitali adayambitsa zokonda zogonana ndikuwakakamiza kuti azitsatira zomwe ziwoneke. Popeza zolaula sizimakhudzanso anthu onse, olamulira amayenera kukumbukira izi poyang'anira mapulogalamu ena.
PMID: 0896374
DOI: 10.1080 / 0092623X.2018.1562501
EXCERPTS
Kotero, kwa anthu amenewo, zolaula zinali ndi zotsatira zoyenera, zomwe zimawapangitsa iwo kufuna kuyesa makhalidwe awo. Izi ndizofunikira, popeza 45% adagwiritsa ntchito zolaula zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito kugonana molimbika komanso 10% zomwe zidaphatikizapo ana kamodzi panthawi ya chiwonetserochi. Zikuwoneka kuti kwa anthu ena omwe ali ndi makhalidwe enieni owonetsa zolaula angathandize kuchepetsa zikhumbo zawo zogonana. Sizinali zofufuzira izi kuti muwunike momwe zinthuzo zinali, koma kafukufuku waposachedwa adakambirana pankhaniyi (mwachitsanzo Seto et al., 2001)….
Pomaliza, tinayesa kuthekera kwakulosera zaka pazolakwa za ma index, maukwati, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, mbiri yazolakwa, komanso malingaliro azakugonana (zowunikira, zoyandikana, BDSM ndi kunyengerera) mwina wopalamula akugwiritsa ntchito zolaula panthawiyo ya cholakwa cholozera. Mtundu wathu udawonetsa kukhudzika, kusankhana kwakukulu komanso kuthekera posankha omwe akutenga nawo mbali pagulu la omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso osagwiritsa ntchito… ..
Olosera zamtsogolo okha, komabe, anali malingaliro akugonana a WSFQ. Kukhala ndi malingaliro azinthu zofufuza komanso ukapolo / mitu ya sadomasochistic kumawonjezera mwayi woti wolakwayo adagwiritsa ntchito zolaula panthawiyo. M'malo mwake, kukhala ndi malingaliro okopa wina kapena kunyengedwa kumachepetsa mwayiwo. Popeza kuwunika (mwachitsanzo, maubwenzi angapo, kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zachiwerewere, pakati pa ena) ndi BDSM (mwachitsanzo, kumangirira kapena kukwapula, kukakamizidwa, pakati pa ena) mitu ndizofala pazithunzi zolaula (Bridges et al., 2010; Sun et al., 2008) , sizosadabwitsa kuti iwo omwe amachirikiza malingaliro amenewo adzawona zolaula kuti akwaniritse zokhumba zawo. M'malo mwake, zitha kukhala kuti zolaula zidagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana omwe anthuwa anali nawo kale. Zowonadi, zidanenedwa kale kuti anthu amakonda kusankha zolaula zomwe zikugwirizana ndi zofuna zawo zogonana ndikuzigwiritsa ntchito kuti azikulitsa (Quayle & Taylor, 2002). Ndizosangalatsanso kudziwa kuti kukhala ndi malingaliro onyenga kumachepetsa mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula panthawiyo. Mwinanso, zolaula sizikwaniritsa zosowa za anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chofuna kukopa wina kapena kukopeka. Kafukufuku wowonjezera wazomwe zimapangitsa kuti pakhale mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikofunikira …… ..
Pomaliza, kafukufuku wathu amatithandizanso kumvetsetsa bwino zomwe zolaula zimachitika m'miyoyo ya olakwira. Ngakhale ena mwa iwo amawoneka kuti adakhudzidwa ndikumwedwa, akumva kufunikira koyesa kupanga zomwe zidawonetsedwa, chifukwa zolaula zambiri sizimawoneka ngati gawo lalikulu pamilandu yawo. Mosiyana ndi izi, pomwe kafukufuku wina akuti "catharsis" gawo la zolaula ndi njira yothandizira (Carter et al., 1987; D'Amato, 2006), izi sizikuwoneka kuti ndizofanana ndi anthu onse, popeza kwa ena zinali osakwanira ndikuwapangitsa kuti ayesere kupanga zomwe zikuwonetsedwa. Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri kwa azachipatala posankha njira zamankhwala olakwira ana, mwachitsanzo, monga chilimbikitso chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula chiyenera kuwunikiridwa kale. Kumvetsetsa bwino kwamphamvu zakugwiritsa ntchito zolaula munthu asanachite zachiwerewere ndikofunikira kwambiri, chifukwa cha ubale wake ndi nkhanza zakugonana (Wright et al., 2016) komanso kubwerezanso zachiwawa (Kingston et al., 2008)…. .
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