Kuledzeretsa kwauchiwerewere kumakhala kosawerengeka
Tili ndi zinthu zamphamvu pano, koma sizimasamalidwa mokwanira, mwina chifukwa ndizovomerezeka ndi anthu ndipo sizinthu ngati heroine kapena cocaine. Ndimadzimvera chisoni anthu akamabwereranso, ndikukhazikitsanso matebulo awo, ndikulengeza kuti "Izi ndiye, ndakhala nazo zokwanira, ndizichita nthawi ino" ... Lekani kudzinamiza. Ichi ndichizolowezi chomwe chimayenera kuukiridwa kuchokera mbali zosiyanasiyana. Mufunikira nkhokwe yathunthu yazida ndi njira, komanso malingaliro oyenera.
Kudzipereka nokha sikungachite zoyipa. Kudziletsa SIKUKHUDZA! Zomwe anthu amayesa kuchita ndikupita kukayeretsa masiku ambiri momwe angathere. Ndizo zonse zomwe amachita. Ndizo cholinga chawo chonse. Amakwanitsa masiku angapo, ndiye pazifukwa zilizonse zomwe abwereranso, amayambiranso ndikubwereza. Izi ndikusiya. Izi sizikuyambiranso. Zimakhala zachilendo kwambiri kuti anthu akwaniritse chinthu china chachikulu, monga masiku 30, 90, kapena 100, amabwereranso patatha masiku ochepa, kenako ndikupeza kuti sangathe kuyambiranso. Amabwerera koyambirira ndipo amamva ngati ataya zonse zomwe adachita kuyambira kuthamanga kwawo.
Pali zokhumudwitsa nthawi zonse chifukwa chosowa kupita patsogolo. Anthu akukhumudwa komanso kukhumudwa, kuyesera mobwerezabwereza zomwezo osapambana. Izi ndichifukwa choti ndi ochepa okha omwe akudziwa zomwe zimayambitsa mavuto awo. Ochepa kwambiri. Aliyense amayang'ana pa masiku angati omwe akwanitsa ndipo ngati zizindikiro zawo zilipo kapena zapita. Amaweruza kupita kwawo patsogolo poyesa kulimba kwa Dick, zopangika zokha ndi nkhalango zam'mawa. Iwo "akuyesera kusiya zolaula" kuti athe "kuthana ndi ED". Chifukwa chake amapewa malinga ndi momwe angathere, akuyembekeza kuti izi zitha kuchiza matenda awo. Njira yolakwika kwathunthu.
Ngati sawona kusintha kwa ED, amakhumudwa. Ngati awona kusintha kwa ED, ndiye kuti mwina zolaula kapena ziwiri sizipweteka, sichoncho? Ngati kulibe mzimayi mozungulira, amalungamitsa kuwonera kangapo. Kupatula apo, sakugonana posachedwa, nanga ndi chiyani? Amachedwetsa chibwenzi mpaka ED atachiritsidwa kapena atha masiku 100. Koma samakwaniritsa izi poyambirira ndendende chifukwa cha malingaliro olakwikawa. Zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito kuzizindikiro zina monga nkhawa zamagulu, mphamvu zamagetsi, zolimbikitsira, ndi zina zambiri.
Amayesetsa kusiya zolaula, kuti zizindikiro zikhoza kutha, kotero kuti athe kukhala ndi moyo. Anthu akuyang'ana pa zinthu zolakwika. Samasintha momwe amalingalira. Samasintha momwe amakhalira. Samasintha momwe amaonera kugonana ndi amayi. Iwo akungoyesera kuti asamachite maliseche, pamene china chirichonse chimakhala chofanana. Izi, abwenzi anga, ndi kudziletsa, osati kuchira.
Maziko a Kubwezeretsa Kwabwino
Mumayang'ana zolaula kuthawa zenizeni. Mumayang'ana zolaula kuti muzitha kusangalala. Mumawonera zolaula chifukwa chotopetsa, kusungulumwa, kupsinjika, kukhumudwa, kukwiya, kudzipatula. Mumawonera zolaula kuti mumve bwino kwakanthawi, m'malo momangokhala ndi zovuta mmoyo wanu. Umu ndi momwe mungathetsere vutoli. Simukuyang'ana kusiya zolaula kuti mudzakhale ndi moyo mutachira. Mukuyang'ana pakuphunzira momwe mungakhalire, momwe mungasamalire mtima wanu, momwe mungasinthire momwe mumaganizira ndikuwonera dziko lapansi. Mumayika mphamvu zanu zonse kuti mupange moyo womwe mukufuna.
Izi mwachilengedwe zidzasokoneza malingaliro anu kuti musawonere zolaula. Kupambana sikuyesedwa ndi masiku angati oyera omwe mwakwanitsa. Zimayesedwa ndi momwe moyo wanu wasinthira kuyambira pomwe mudayambiranso. Izi ndi zomwe muyenera kuchita:
Khwerero #1: Lembani masomphenya a moyo
Kodi mumalingalira bwanji moyo wanu milungu ingapo, miyezi, kapena zaka kuchokera pano?
Gwiritsani ntchito tsiku lonse (kapena sabata) kuganizira izi. Osanena "Sindikudziwa choti ndichite ndi moyo wanga". Mukundiuza kuti simudziwa zomwe mukufuna pazinthu izi: kuphunzira, kugwira ntchito, banja, abwenzi, zosangalatsa, thanzi, ndi zina zambiri? Ngakhale simukudziwa, muyenera kuwongolera moyo wanu. Ili ndiye gawo lofunikira kwambiri pakuchira zolaula. Lembani ngati wopenga. Lembani masamba ambiri ngati mukufuna. Pangani cholemba chachikulu kwambiri chomwe mudachitapo muzolemba zanu kukambirana momwe mumaganizira zamtsogolo.
Masomphenya amoyo awa ndiye maziko oyambiranso. Izi ndi zomwe mungoyang'ana pa 100% kuyambira pano. Tsekani maso anu. Onani m'maganizo mwanu. Lembani. Ngati simukudziwa zomwe mukufuna pamoyo, ndiye kuti iyi ndi nkhani yovuta kwambiri kuposa zolaula zokha. Monga ndidanenera, khalani sabata lathunthu ngati mukufuna. Lingalirani. Funsani malangizo. Tengani cholembera ndikupita ku paki. Dzilimbikitseni nokha. Ichi ndi chiyambi cha kuchira kwanu. Tengani mozama.
Khwerero #2: Perekani mofulumira ku masomphenya anu a moyo
Chabwino, tsopano mukudziwa zomwe mukufuna m'moyo. Ngakhale simukudziwa mbali zina, monga kusadziwa choti muphunzire, zili bwino. Osachepera mutha kupatsa moyo wanu malangizo pakadali pano. Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri. Muyenera kupereka moyo wanu malangizo. Muyenera kupita kuzinthu zina. Pano pali vuto. Ambiri aife timadziwa zomwe tikufuna, koma timangozengereza. Ndife akatswiri akuchedwa kukwaniritsa zolinga. Timadikirira mpaka New Year, kapena kuyamba kwa mwezi, kapena mpaka zinthu zitayamba kukhala bwino.
Chifukwa chake izi ndi zomwe mupanga tsopano: Mupereka changu ku masomphenya anu amoyo. Lembani chifukwa chomwe MUYENERA KUYAMBIRA tsopano. Pangani china chachikulu positi kapena zolemba za izo. Tiyerekeze kuti muli ndi zaka 27 ndipo mulibe ntchito, mulibe galimoto, mumakhalabe ndi makolo anu, ndipo mumakhala nthawi yayitali mukusewera masewera apakanema. Chifukwa chiyani mdziko lapansi mungayembekezere nthawi yochuluka musanayambe kuchitapo kanthu? Izi ndizofulumira m'bale. Mukusaka 27!
Kapena mwina simunakhalepo ndi bwenzi m'moyo wanu m'mbuyomu. Mukuyembekezera chiyani? Pitani mukagule zovala zabwino, yambani kupita kambiri, kulakwitsa, kukanidwa, kufunsa azimayi pamasiku. Yambani kupeza chidziwitso tsopano. Mukumva kupweteka msana? Yambani kugwira ntchito. Osadikira. Mukamadikirira kwambiri zimafika poipa. Yambani kuchita yoga kapena kusambira. Sungani m'chiuno ndikubwerera tsiku lililonse.
Lembani zifukwa zomwe muyenera kuyamba kuyendera moyo wanu pakalipano.
Muyenera kusiya kukhala monga chonchi.
Izi ndizofunika.
Izi ndizofunika kwambiri.
Tiyenera kudzikhulupirira kuti kusintha kuli pafupi.
Ndizofunikira kwambiri.
Masomphenya a moyo si abwino ngati mulibe changu.
Ingokhalani mukuzengereza. Kuyembekezera kuti zinthu zisinthe. Kudikirira chilimbikitso kuti chifike. Kuyembekezera kuyamba kwa chaka chatsopano.
Pangani mwamsanga.
Khwerero #3: Pangani chikhulupiriro chosadziwika mwa inu nokha
Chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zomwe timasiyira zolinga ndichakuti mkati mwathu sitikhulupirira kuti tikwanitsadi.
Anthu otukuka ngati Arnold Schwarzenegger akuganiza kuti akufuna kukwaniritsa chinachake, amayamba kudabwa kwambiri. Iwo ali ndi chikhulupiriro chosatheka kuti iwo adzachikwaniritse icho.
Iwo sakhudzidwa ndi zochitika. Amapanga zotsatira pamutu wawo asanawapeze.
Izi ndi zomwe muyenera kuchita ngati mukufuna kukwaniritsa chilichonse.
Mwachitsanzo, tinene kuti mukufuna kuphunzira kusewera gitala. Ndipo muyenera kuchita izi mwachangu, chifukwa mukudziwa kuti zimatenga nthawi, ndiye kuti mukayamba bwino. Muyenera kuyamba tsopano.
Komabe, mutatha masiku ochepa mutaphunzira zoyambira, mumayamba kutaya mtima ndikukhumudwitsidwa. Mukudziwa kuti kusewera gitala sikophweka konse. Mumadzimva kuti mulibe chidwi ndi kuchuluka kwa zomwe muyenera kuchita. Mumayamba kudzikayikira ndikuganiza kuti "Palibe njira yomwe ndingakhalire katswiri woimba gitala ndikupanga gulu langa". Anzanu amakuwuzani zinthu monga “Bwanawe, ukanakhala kuti unayamba zaka zapitazo. Onse oyimba magitala adayamba ali aang'ono ”. Kotero inu munasiya. Izi ndi zotsatira za chikhulupiriro chofooka mwa inu nokha. Simukukhulupirira kuti mutha kukhala ndi gitala wabwino. Zomwe mwachidziwikire ndi zabodza. Anthufe tili ndi kuthekera kopanda malire.
Arnold Schwarzenegger saganiza ngati chonchi.
Taonani zomwe iye ananena:
Ndi kangati mwamvapo 'Simungathe kuchita izi', 'Simungachite', 'Sizinachitikepo kale'. Ndimakonda wina akati 'Palibe amene adachitapo izi kale', chifukwa ndikazichita, ndiye kuti ndine munthu woyamba kuzichita!
Umu ndi momwe tiyenera kuganizira tikakhazikitsa chilichonse m'moyo. Kusatsimikizika ndi komwe kumapha anthu. Osadziwa ngati angathe kukwaniritsa izi. Tiyenera kudzisokoneza tokha tsiku ndi tsiku ndikukhulupirira kuti TIDZACHITA ZINTHU ZONSE. Njira zonsezi ndizofunikira. Osazidumpha. Ndiwo maziko oyambiranso. Amapangitsa kuyambiranso kosavuta kwambiri. Malingaliro anu adzakhazikika kwathunthu pazomwe mukufuna m'moyo. Mukukhazikitsa muzu wamavuto anu onse. Chinsinsi cha kusintha ndikulingalira mphamvu zanu zonse osalimbana ndi zakale, koma pakupanga zatsopano. Lekani kupanga zolemba kudandaula za moyo wanu wosalala. Lekani kupanga zolemba ndikunena kuti mukudwala bwanji chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Lekani kulankhula za zolaula kwathunthu.
M'malo mwake, sinthani zolemba zanu kukhala zolemba zodzikonzera, zomwe zimayang'ana 100% posunthira pamoyo womwe mukufuna. "Iwalani" za zolaula. Izi ndizoyambitsanso zinthu, komabe anthu ambiri amaphwanya lamuloli nthawi zonse. Amalemba zolakalaka zolaula, nkhalango zam'mawa, zosankha zokha, tsiku lomwe ali, kuchuluka komwe adayesetsa kupewa, momwe sangayembekezere kufikira masiku 90, ndi zina zambiri. Mukamayang'ana 100% nthawi zonse pakupanga moyo wanu ndikufuna, malingaliro anu mwachilengedwe adzasiya zolaula. Muchepetsanso chosowa chotsalira mwa kusiya zolaula, zomwe ndi zenizeni.
Anthu ambiri amasiya zolaula kuti adzipezere moyo wopanda kanthu womwe ndi wovuta kuthana nawo. Kenako amabwerera ku zolaula ndendende chifukwa izi sizowakwanira. Kuyang'ana kwambiri masomphenya anu amoyo ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yobwezeretsanso. Kubwereranso sikukhumudwitsa ngati mukusintha moyo wanu. Chodabwitsa ndichakuti, mudzazindikira kuti mukamayang'ana kwambiri pazomwe mukufuna, sizibwereza kuyambiranso. Ndikofunika kuti muziganiza zamasomphenya amoyo ndikukwaniritsa maloto anu, osati kunena kuti "Ndiyenera kukhala wotanganidwa ndikudzaza moyo wanga ndi zochitika kuti ndisawonere zolaula". Izi ndichinthu chomwe mukudzichitira nokha. Lekani kuyankhula zolaula.
Ulendo uwu ndi wa MOYO wanu.
Ganizirani pa izo ndipo zolaula zidzatha.
PS izi ndizobwezeretsa. Ndagaŵananso izi kuti moto uziyaka!
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