Tsamba lotsogolera 2

Ndikuyesera kupereka chidziwitso chomwe sichimawoneka kawirikawiri ndipo ndikuyesera kufotokoza lingaliro pang'ono m'malo mopereka zowonadi kotero ndikupita.

Mutha kuchita kafukufuku pa nokha za Paradoxical Intention pansi pa Logotherapy koma nayi tanthauzo langa ndi tanthauzo langa loyambirira.

Cholinga cha Paradoxical ndikuthandizira vuto lanu mwadala momwe mungathere.

Mwachitsanzo, kodi nthawi zina mumayesako kugona mpaka kumapeto kwa maola ambiri, kuyesedwa kugona kumakupangitsani kusinthika. Kumbali ina ndi angati a inu omwe agona poyesa kukhalabe maso pachiwonetsero chanu chomwe mumakonda.

Wodwala wina yemwe anali ndi vuto lochita chibwibwi kwa moyo wake wonse anali ndi chikumbukiro chimodzi chokha chomwe sanachite chibwibwi ndipo ndi pomwe amayembekeza kuti amumvere chisoni atagwidwa akukwera sitima popanda kulipira tikiti. Anamaliza kulankhula pafupipafupi.

lolani kuti mukhale otentha tsopano ndi angati a inu amene mwakhala ndi boner yoyipa kwambiri kusukulu. ndiye kuti ambiri aife sitinakhalepo ndi kanthawi ngati anali pano ~ _ ~.

kwa anthu omwe akumenyana ndi ED amayesa zomwe sangathe kuti asakhale ndi boner panthawi yokhala pachibwenzi ndi mnzanu, nthawi yomweyo zosangalatsa zogonana ziyenera kukhala zotsatira zoyesayesa kudzipereka kwa wokondedwa wanu ndikungopatsa chidwi pamene mukuyang'ana wina.

Tsopano zomwe ndikulangizira pankhani yathu yomwe ikubwera nthawi ina mukamalimbana ndi zofuna zanu, osalimbana nazo koma m'malo mwake yesani kukhala momwe mungathere kukhala OYELA bwino momwe mungathere. Pochita izi mumawulula momwe zakhalira. mukuzindikira kuti kuthana ndi mayeserowo kuti musokonezeke ngati kuti mwanyengedwa ndi nkhani yoseketsa ngati mukuganiza zoseketsa. Ndipo mukasewera limodzi nthabwala yayikulu iyi mudzaseka.

Ine ndalowa mu NJIRA YAKUKHALA ngati nyama yofuula kuti INE NDIKUTSUTSA CHIYAMBI! mphamvu mmwamba ngati saiyan wapamwamba ndipo pambuyo pake kuseka. Helo dzipangireni kanema wekha mukuchita izi penyani kuti mudzionere nokha kuchuluka kwa momwe zinthu zilili.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zimathandiza & kukukumbukira kuti mnzanga ndi wamkulu kuposa izi.

Reference The Will to Tanthauzo: Maziko ndi Kugwiritsa Ntchito kwa Logotherapy Wolemba: Viktor E. Frankl