Choyamba, musasocheretsedwe ndi baji yanga, ndakhala ndikulimbana kuyambira Epulo watha koma ndakhazikitsanso kangapo. Ndimangofuna kuwunikira mfundo zochepa zomwe ndakhala ndikuphunzira kuchokera m'malo osiyanasiyana, zomwe zitha kukhala zothandiza pakuthana kwathu.
1- Siyani KUKHALA OGWIRITSA NTCHITO. Kumva zoipa ndikwabwino, kudzimva waliwongo mwina nawonso, koma kumverera wokondwa chifukwa cha "zochitika zakunja zosalamulirika" sibwino. Ndizovuta kumvetsetsa mfundoyi chifukwa ndiyachinyengo, koma nthawi ina mukamadzakhala ngati mukuimba mlandu winawake kapena china chake muziganiziranso..Thawani pakuzunzidwa. Mwachitsanzo si vuto la Mr mandingo, ndi munthu amene amatsitsa kanema.
2- DONT SURF WEB WOSATHA. Khalani ndi cholinga kenako musiyeni! Muyenera kusungitsa ulendo? ndiye sungani bukulo, kenako pitani mukamwe khofi. Muli ndi homuweki? .. chabwino simukusowa intaneti kuti muziyang'ana kotero pitani ku laibulale. Ndipo uyu ndi wakupha: Mwawerenga nkhani! chabwino… kodi mutha kupulumuka osamawerenga nkhaniyo kwa masiku atatu? perekani izi, ndikudabwa kuti dziko limakhalabe chimodzimodzi ngakhale inu mulibe.
3- INU NDI ZIMENE MUMACHITA. Kodi mukungokhalira kukakamiza kuti muthe kutero? kapena kodi mukuchita masewero olimbitsa thupi monga momwe mumachitira tsiku ndi tsiku? Pamapeto pake, anthu amazindikira, amazindikira, amamva fungo lanu, ndikusankhirani moyenera. Choncho yesetsani kukhazikitsa ndondomeko yabwino yopindulitsa kuti mukhale ozindikira nthawi yanu.
4- KODI MUNGAPEZE KUTI MUDZAPEZA ZINTHU? Ine sindikuyembekeza ayi, ine ndikuyembekeza atsikana ali chabe zotsatira, zotsatira zoyipa, zoonjezera, za ntchito yanu kwa inu nokha. Chimene mukufuna kwenikweni ndi kudziletsa nokha, kumvetsetsa moyo wako.
Chifukwa chake anyamata, nthawi zonse ndimaganiza za mfundo 4 izi zomwe ndaphunzira kwa inu komanso kuwerenga kosiyanasiyana komwe mudalemba. Monga chikumbutso chokhazikika. Khalani amphamvu!
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