Kodi tikuchotsa mzere pakati pa akulu ndi ana?
Pakalipano, chikhalidwe chathu chimagonjetsa mphamvu zotsutsana ndi amatanthauzira molakwika kufunikira kwawo. Ndiye kuti, zachiwerewere zimawonedwa ngati zopanda vuto chifukwa zokonda zakugonana zimaganiziridwa kuti ndizovuta zilizonse zomwe munthu angawone. Malingaliro awiri ozungulira amatsatira pamalingaliro olakwika awa: Choyamba, timaganiza kuti zomwe zimafikira pachimake kuwulula zomwe munthu sangasinthe; ndipo chachiwiri, timaganiza kuti ngati wina ayamba kufika pachimake pachinthu china chosayenera ndiye kuti akungodziwa zenizeni zake. Maganizo olakwikawa adayamba chifukwa cha ndale zachipatala zomwe zinapangitsa kuti a kukana mwamphamvu kuti mufufuze zomwe zimachitika pakapulasitiki pamachitidwe azakugonana pamaulendo olimba aubongo.
Zochitika zenizeni, komabe, zimasonyeza kuti kukondweretsa kwakukulu kungasinthe zokonda za kugonana mu ubongo wina. Inde, ena mwa zolaula pa intaneti masiku ano ogwiritsa ntchito akusintha kusintha mu ubongo wawo ndi zowonongeka-mwayi womwe tsopano ukufotokozedwa bwino zovuta zambiri kuwululira plastiki ya ubongo. Kusintha uku kuli kovuta kusintha pamene ntchito yolaula ikupitirira. Mwachidule, chiwerewere chomwe chimayambira ngati chopanda pake komanso chopanda phindu monga zibonga zingathe kukhala zingwe, ndiko kuti, zikhoza kuyika njira za ubongo zomwe zimaperekedwa patsogolo chifukwa zimagwirizana ndi mphoto yaikulu ya chiwonongeko.
M'nkhani zam'mbuyomu tanena kuti zosinthazi zitha kukhala zosokoneza kwambiri ngati zili kulakwitsa chifukwa cha kusintha muzochita zogonana. Koma amathanso kukhala ocheperako. Taganizirani zomwe zinachitikira mnyamatayu:
Justin: Ndinkakhala ndi chinthu chachikulu pamabere okulitsidwa. Dzulo panali kopanira nkhani yokhudza atsikana omwe amadzala ndi ma silicone komanso kuwopsa kwawo. Adawonetsa atsikana ambiri kunyanja ndi zina zambiri, zomwe zikadandichititsa kukhetsa madzi ndikundiyambitsa zolaula. Koma patatha mwezi wopanda zolaula, amawoneka odabwitsa. Mabere achilendo, owonjezera amandichotsa. Ndimaganiza, "Chifukwa chiyani achita izi kwa iwo okha? Kodi chachikulu ndichani pamabere akulu? ” Ndipo izi zachokera kwa mnyamata yemwe adakhala nthawi yayitali akuwapembedza.
Pochotsa ubongo wa chiwopsezo chosafuna, wina ayenera kusiya kugwira ntchito zozungulira maubongo-pamtundu uno posasula malingaliro ofanana. Kugwiritsa ntchito molakwika kumachepetsa pang'onopang'ono madera oyenera, ngakhale kuti sangathe kuwathetsa kwathunthu. Kuwombera sikunzolowere.
Kuli ndi nkhawa komanso maganizo osasamala
Chaka chatha, tamva kuchokera kwa abambo ndi amai za kusintha kwina kokhudzana ndi zolaula komwe kumabweretsa mavuto. Mkazi waku Europe adalemba kuti:
Mu zolaula, matupi ndi ziwalo zoberekera nthawi zambiri zimawonongeka, motero munthu amakhala ndi vuto lokhazikika komanso matupi opanda tsitsi. Ziwalo zowoneka bwino zodziwika bwino zimayambitsa chidwi cha omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula kuti apeze mphothoyo. Zolaula zambiri zimaphatikizaponso kugonana kumatako, kotero wowonera amakhalanso ndi matako ngati njira yothetsera. Pansi paliponse maliseche, pomwepo pazomwe zimayambitsa chidwi, kaya ndi chamwamuna, wamkazi kapena mwana.
Kodi ndapeza bwanji? Ndili ndi msungwana wamng'ono wa zaka 2 akukhala pakhomo pompano, ndipo amakonda kukonda wamaliseche. Ndimachita manyazi kunena kuti zina mwazimenezi zinayambitsa zolaula zanga. Ndithudi, ndikusankha choti ndichite ndi chiwongolero ndi (chisoni kuti ndinene) kudzutsa. Ine sindikanakhoza konse, kuchitapo pa izo.
Koma ndizowopsa kuti, ngakhale sindinawonere zolaula kwazaka zopitilira ziwiri, zoyambitsa zopanda chidziwitso zidakalipo, zakhazikika muubongo wanga, ndipo zimangodziulula okha tsopano. Ndipo dziwani kuti ndine wamkazi! Zimakhalanso zoopsa kuti sindinazindikirepo momwe zolaula zinasinthira chikumbumtima changa. Ndimakumbukirabe nthawi pamene akazi m'dziko langa sanamete. Ngakhale miyendo yawo, ndipo palibe amene akanakhumudwa nazo. Ndipo tsopano? Mukumva ngati mlendo weniweni mukapanda kumeta, ndiye kuti mumatero.
Chabwino, ndicho chokumana nacho cha munthu m'modzi.
Kupanda tsitsi: kusagonana kosayenera
Posachedwapa, mwamuna woganiza bwino analongosola izi:
Ndinayamba kuganizira za zolaula zakale kapena zapitazo pamene ndinawerenga Ubongo Womwe Umasintha ndi Norman Doidge. Mu mutu umodzi akukambirana ndi kasitomala yemwe amagwira ntchito ndi yemwe anali ndi mavuto ndi zolaula pa intaneti. Bukhuli ndilobwino, koma mutu uwu unandichititsa kuganizira momwe ndagonjera ndi ntchito yanga yolaula. Nkhani yanga si yachilendo, koma mwina siyikhalitsa.
Sindinagwiritse ntchito zolaula konse mpaka ndinali pafupi ndi 28 ndipo ngakhale pamenepo, pamlingo wotsika kwambiri kuti ndikhale wosanyalanyaza. Ndinadziwitsidwa mwachidule ndili ndi zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi, koma sindinalowemo. Kuphatikiza kwa zinthu kunasintha zonsezi. Chinthu chachikulu ngakhale chinali kukhala ndichinsinsi komanso zosavuta kupeza zolaula zambiri pakompyuta. Ndinayamba kuigwiritsa ntchito pafupipafupi chifukwa ine ndi mkazi wanga tinali ndi mwana wathu woyamba motero, mulu wa zinthu unasintha, zina zomwe ndimayembekezera, pomwe zina.
Ndimakonda kuganiza ndekha ngati mwamuna wotsutsa. Ndinakwatiwa ndi mkazi wanga chifukwa ndi mkazi wachikazi ndipo ndimamulemekeza ndikumukonda. Ndimakonda kukhala ndi udindo wolerera anyamata anga awiri, ndipo timayesetsa kuti tikhale ndi ubale wokondana kwambiri. Ndipo kotero, ine ndi mkazi wanga tinatopa ndi maudindo athu atsopano omwe ndinkaganiza kuti ndizitha kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kuti ndikhale osangalala, ndikusiya mkazi wanga kuti apeze tulo tomwe iye amafunikira. Ife tinakambiranapo izi, ndipo iye anali zonse pa izo.
Sindinadziwe chimene ndinali nacho. Zakhala zonyansa kwambiri kuona kusintha kwa malingaliro anga komwe kwachitika chifukwa cha kuwonjezeka kwanga zolaula. Nditatha kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, kwa masiku angapo otsatira ndikupeza zithunzi ndi malingaliro osafunika m'maganizo mwanga, chifukwa cha zochitika zomwe sindinaziyembekezera.
Zomwe zidandidabwitsa ndizomwe zidachitikira kwa bwenzi labwino usiku wina, ndikudya chakudya chamadzulo. Ana anga aamuna awiri anali kusamba limodzi ndi mwana wawo wamkazi wazaka 8 ndipo ine ndinapita kukatulutsa ana ndikusintha. Mwadzidzidzi, nditawona mtsikana wazaka 8 wamaliseche, malingaliro anga adayamba kubweretsa malingaliro ogonana. Zinandidabwitsa kwambiri ndipo ndinatuluka ndikufunsa mkazi wanga ngati angandilande.
Izi sizinthu zomwe mungauze aliyense. Awa sindiwo malingaliro omwe ndakhalapo nawo m'moyo wanga, komabe, adakhalapo, mwadzidzidzi. Koma osati mwadzidzidzi. Tsopano ndazindikira kuti zolaula zambiri zomwe ndimayang'ana zimawonetsa azimayi omwe alibe tsitsi - osati chinthu chomwe ndimakonda, kapena ndidazindikira - koma, sichinadziwike kwa ine.
Popeza kuti zolaula zitha kundichitira izi, zidandidetsa nkhawa kwambiri, ndipo chifukwa chake, ndidakambirana ndi mkazi wanga za momwe ndimagwiritsira ntchito zolaula. Ndachitapo kanthu kuti ndiwongolere, koma ndizovuta ndipo ndiyenera kukhala tcheru. Sindikudziwa zomwe gulu lathu lichite kuti athetse vutoli. Ndikudziwa kuti kwa ine, ndikadapanda kukhala ndi kompyuta komanso yosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito, ndikukayika kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula sikukadakhala vuto.
Ndizolimbikitsa kuti tsopano kuli malo omwe amuna amatha kukambirana momasuka za kuopsa kwa zolaula zama psyche athu. Chifukwa, makamaka mdera lathu, makamaka pakati pa amuna ambiri, timalimbikitsidwa kuseka ngati nkhani yaying'ono, yomwe ambiri, a ife timadziwa kuti sichoncho.
Zilonda zamaliseche
Tsitsi la m'mimba ndi zotchuka za labia minora zimangotha msinkhu. Zonsezi ndi zizindikiro za amayi achikulire. Amuna owongoka nthawi ina nthawi zambiri amalumikizitsa zokopa zawo kwa akazi achikulire pogwiritsa ntchito mawonekedwe owoneka bwino aubongo ndi labia wamba (pakati pa ena). Zowonadi, abambo akulu pamsonkhano wathu amati samapeza akazi ometedwa osangalatsa. Zochitika zawo zoyambirira zogonana mwachidziwikire zinali ndi akazi omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala opatsidwa, kapena malingaliro / magazini omwe anali ofanana.
Kwa ambiri, zochitikazi zidalepheretsa chidwi chidwi cha akazi omwe amatsogola. “Ngati silili ndi ubweya, silitentha. Iponye m'mbuyo. ”
Masiku ano zolaula, "kumetedwa," monga kugonana kwa abambo, ndi de rigueur. Tsopano tikumva anyamata achichepere kuti sadzakhala ndi kanthu (kugonana) koyenera kuchita ndi mkazi wosagonjetsedwa. Nchiyani chachitika? Owerenga zithunzi zolaula amakhala akudula mano. Izi ndizo pamene ubongo wawo umakhala wovuta kwambiri komanso umalumikiza mwachangu chilakolako chawo chogonana kuti chigwirizane. Ndondomeko yomweyi imakhudza owona akuluakulu, nawonso.
Ubongo wanzeru umatha kulumikizana ndi zatsopano zogonana ndizovuta zochepa. Pambuyo pake, ubongo woterowo umayankha pamalingaliro amenewo (ngakhale atadzutsa kapena kunyansidwa) mwiniwake waubongo asanadziwe za chizindikirocho. Mwachidule, oyang'anira mphotho yaubongo amachititsa chidwi champhamvu pamaso kotsogola kotsogola kwamunthu ali ndi mwayi wochotsa chiwerengerocho.
Mu ubongo wina, chikhalidwe chachikale chimakhala ngati pamwamba pa malo otsetsereka kuti zisinthidwe kosatha za dera la mphoto. Kusintha kumeneku kumabweretsa kuchuluka kwa dopamine kumasula maulendo akuluakulu a ubongo (kutonthozedwa). Ubongo uwu umasintha nthawi zambiri umatsagana ndi onse kuchepa mu kuyankha kwakusangalatsa kwaubongo (kukhumudwitsa). Zonsezi zosintha zokhudzana ndi zosokoneza bongo zimalimbikitsa kulakalaka zinthu zolimbikitsa.
Mchitidwe wopanda tsitsi, wachinyamata sutayika kwa akazi anzawo ndipo angakhale anzawo a ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula masiku ano. Akuyembekezerabe kutembenuzira anzawo omwe ali ndi malingaliro awo. Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa 2010, labi akuwonetsedwa zolaula sungani pang'ono kuposa ma labia akuwonetsedwa m'mabukhu azachipatala ndi zina.
Zotsatira zake? Osati mankhwala okhaya, koma komanso opaleshoni ya labia kuthetsa zizindikiro zokhudzana ndi kugonana ndikofala kwambiri. Pogwiritsa ntchito kumeta ndi kuchita opaleshoni, amayi amawombera mwadala mimba yawo, ndiko kuti, kuwapangitsa kuti awoneke asanakwane, achichepere.
Kodi tikulepheretsa kugonana ndi ana athu?
Kodi kusintha kumeneku pazokonda zowoneka ndikuchotsa chotchinga chomwe chidakhumudwitsa kugonana kwachikulire ndi ana? Ngati izi ndizotheka, tingakhale bwanji ngati gulu, kuti tikambirane momasuka za izi? Kapena mumachita kafukufuku wodalirika? Popeza kufunitsitsa kwa olamulira masiku ano kuti atengepo kanthu pazogonana za ana awo zikutsimikizira kuti wina ndi wogona ana, ndani angayese kukambirana zakukhosi kotere kupatula pamalo ochezera pa intaneti osadziwika… mwina?
Komabe, kukambirana n'kofunikira ndithu. Anthu ochepetsedwa aang'ono amaona zofuna zawo monga kugonana. Kungakhale kwanzeru kuthetsa kusiyana pakati zochitika zawo ndipo zowonongeka, zowonongeka za pulasitiki-pamaso owononga ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amadzipusitsa pa MAP. Ogwira ntchito zalamulo, nawonso, amafunika kuphunzira kusiyana:
Anthony: Ndinayamba kuyang'ana zolaula, pafupipafupi, pafupifupi zaka zisanu zapitazo. Choyamba panali akazi okongola, kenako zolaula zolimba, kenako zolowetsa zachilendo, kenako osinthana, kenako otsutsa, kenako ma hermaphrodites, kenako zolaula za achinyamata, kenako zitsanzo zazing'ono ndipo tsopano ndende (posachedwa apita). Zaka zitadutsa ndinkayamba kukonda kuchita maliseche komanso chidwi chofufuza "zachilendo". Ndikayang'ana m'mbuyo, sindikuwona momwe ndinalephera kuzindikira kuti ndinali ndi vuto.
Anthu omwe ali ndi mayanjano osayenera, osagwirizana nawo angachite bwino kuwatsutsa. Chifukwa chiyani?
1. Nkhawa kudandaula za kugonana kosagwirizana ndi kugonana kungathe komanso khalani olumikizidwa ngati chodzidzimutsa… chotsogolera kukumva kuwawa, koma kumadzutsa, kuyesa "kukakamiza" kuti muwone ngati zomwe mukufunazo zilipo. Chiyeso chilichonse chimalimbitsa kuzungulira kwa ubongo, ndikupangitsa kuti ntchito yobwezeretsanso ikhale yovuta kwambiri. Pofuna kuthandizira kuthana ndi OCD iyi, onani ntchito ya Jeffrey Schwartz MD.
2. Ndikuchulukirachulukira kwakugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kosasintha, zokonda zosasinthika mwina pitirizani kukhala morph mwatsopano, mwinamwake chochititsa mantha kwambiri, malangizo.
Kusintha zokonda kumakhala kovuta. Pamafunika kuleza mtima ndi kusasinthasintha kotheratu posaganizira, kapena kumapeto, zovuta. Kupewa zachilendo zolaula pa intaneti kumathandizanso, chifukwa kukondoweza komweko kumatha kuyambitsa kukula.
Kodi kuona zithunzi zolaula sikung'onozing'ono?
Mutha kuti mumtima mwanu, "O chonde. Ndikudziwa kusiyana pakati pa mwana ndi wamkulu ndikamaonera zolaula! ” Imeneyo si mfundo. Agalu a Pavlov ankadziwa kusiyana pakati pa belu lake ndi Alpo, koma patapita kanthawi iwo anaphimba mate akamva belu lokha.
Ubongo ndi pulasitiki. Tikadziwombera, sitidziwa nthawi yomwe idzasokoneze. Wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula anadzifotokozera kuti:
Zithunzi zolaula zimasokoneza zomwe mumakonda. Pali zinthu zomwe poyamba ndimadana nazo, zomwe [ndikachira] ndikupezabe zoyambitsa komanso zosangalatsa, zomwe sindilola kuti zilolere. Mukayamba kulekana ndi zolaula simungangowaganizira chifukwa ali ngati chithunzi cha kugonana m'moyo wanu. M'malo mochita mwamphamvu ndi malingaliro olowerera, ndimangowanyalanyaza ndikungoyang'ana china chake.
Ngati mumamatira ndikufika kumalo omwe ali ngati inu musanayambe kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Mwachitsanzo, ndimagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha koma pazaka zambiri zowonera zolaula ndinayamba kuyang'ana zopanda pake za anyamata ena. Zithunzi zolaula zinandipangitsa kudziwa kuti amuna onsewa anali ndi maubongo nawonso, komanso kuti zinali zotheka kuwayang'ana momwemo momwe ndimafufuzira mkazi. Sindinayambe ndafunsapo za kugonana kwanga, koma zinandichititsa mantha ndikadzipeza ndikuphunzira crotch yanga ya aphunzitsi a gitala. Ndimalingalira ndekha, "Kodi ndikuchita chiyani? Sindimakonda anyamata. ” Ichi ndi chochitika chovuta kwambiri masiku ano, ndipo sindikuvutikanso chifukwa ndikumvetsetsa momwe zolaula zimasinthira pulasitiki mosasintha mu ubongo.
Cholinga cha tulukani tsopano ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri. Zingakhale zovuta makamaka mu ubongo wosadziwika akulimbana ndi vutoli kubwerera kunyumbaostasis kutsatila kwambiri. Ngakhale zili choncho, zimapindula kulingalira mobwerezabwereza musanadumphire pamaganizo osokoneza maganizo, kapena osagwirizana ndi ena. Kuli bwino kupirira nyengo yosasangalatsa Zokhudzana ndi kukhumudwa pabanja pafupipafupi, pomwe zomwe mumakonda kuchita sizikukuchitirani chifukwa ubongo wanu sunabwerere ku kuzindikira kwachizolowezi, m'malo moika pachiwopsezo cholumikizira zokonda zanu muubongo mwakukakamiza pachimake ndi zinthu zina zolimbikitsa.
Mayanjano azakugonana sazindikira, ndipo, muubongo wina ngakhale otsogola amakhala olimba. Zabwino kapena zoipa, ubongo wathu ndi pulasitiki. Ndiye kuti, zomwe timagwiritsa ntchito kuti tifike pachimake sizikhala zopanda mano, ndipo zokonda zogonana sizimayikidwa mwala (mosiyana ndi zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana). Mwachidule, tili ndi ulamuliro wambiri kuposa momwe timaganizira. Yakwana nthawi yoti muchite izi. Ndani akufunikira kuti apeze mwana wamnzako yemwe wabadwa msanga kuti asokonezeke pakugonana?
Ndemanga za owerenga nkhaniyi:
Ine ndi anzanga tinali kukambirana za izi masiku angapo asanafike. Abwenzi anga ankaganiza kuti kusindikiza tsitsi ndi kupukuta tsitsi kunali chinthu chonyansa kwa mkazi koma ndimaganiza kuti ndizochita zachigololo (malinga ngati zinasungidwa bwino).
Ndipo ndidayamba kudzifunsa kuti bwanji zosankha zanga zinali zosiyana ndi zina? Pambuyo pake tsitsi lonse ndi lachilengedwe ndipo liyenera kukhala gawo lokopa amuna mpaka zaka makumi angapo zapitazo, azimayi sanali kwenikweni ku Brazil ndikuwombera. M'malo mwazotentha kwambiri ku Hollywood (Basic Instinct 1992), Sharon Stone adasewera tchire lokongola.
Ndiye ndichifukwa chiani chodzidzimutsa chodulira chilichonse choyera? Ndipo zidandikhuza, ndinali (mwina) ndekha m'modzi mwa anzanga omwe sanachite zolaula.
Chifukwa chake zikuwonekeratu kuti zolaula zimasintha bwanji zokonda zakugonana komanso zomwe amakonda. Ndikukumbukira pomwe ndinali pachibwenzi ndi wakale wanga, ndimayenera kupempha wakale wanga kuti asadzichititse phula. Pazolembazo, sindimayanjanitsa kusowa tsitsi ndi achichepere (ngakhale ndikumvetsetsa kufanana kwake), koma ndichotembenukira chachikulu kwa ine chifukwa si momwe chilengedwe chimafunira kuti zikhale kumeneko.
Ndikuchita zinthu ndi wokondedwa wanga zomwe ndikuwona pa zolaula popanda kuzizindikira. Ndimasokonezeka ndi ubweya wake wamakono ngakhale pamene ndikudzinenera kuti ndimakonda zachibadwa za mkazi. Ilo liri mkati mwa ine, koma ine ndikuwona ilo pamene ine ndikulizindikira ilo mozindikira ndi kuyesera kulichotsa ilo mu dongosolo langa, ndi nthawi ndi kuleza mtima, ndiye izo zimachoka. Zangotenga nthawi ndi kubwereza ubongo.
Za vuto lanu "nyini". Ndinali ndi vuto lomwelo chifukwa chowonera zaka zolaula. Ndili ndi ubongo wanga wired for anal kotero vaginine kugonana sikunali kosangalatsa. Koma patatha nthawi yayitali yoyambiranso yomwe yasintha kwa ine. Nthawi zambiri ndinkapeza erection kuchokera ku blowjob kapena handjob, koma zikafika pakugonana kwenikweni kumaliseche kwanga kumalephera nthawi zonse. Tsopano ichi ndichinthu chovuta kukumana nacho, muli ndi ine mkazi wamaloto anu pamaso panu wamaliseche kwathunthu, ndikukuyembekezerani kuti mumutenge ndipo mudzawona ndikulingalira kuti ndipamene ndimakhala ndikufuna kukhala, koma palibe chomwe chimachitika pansi. Izi zisintha ndikukhazikitsanso. Ingokhalani ndi kukonzanso kwanu ndikupanga kwathunthu. Imodzi mwazinthu zazikulu ndikuti tileke kuyerekezera.
Ndinayambiranso masiku 77 palibe pmo ndikuyesera kutsekereza malingaliro azimayi akangolowa. Ngati muwerenga ma blogs anga ndi mitu yanga yomwe ndidalemba ndikutsimikiza mutha kuphunzira zambiri popeza mafunso anu ambiri ayankhidwa. Kotero ine ndinayesa tsiku lina kuti ndiwone ngati ine ndingakhoze kudzutsidwa popanda mapazi, akazi, ndi zina zotero ine ndinapita ndipo ndinapeza kutikita minofu ndipo potsirizira pake ndinakhala ndi blowjob kuchokera kwa msungwanayo. Ndidazindikira kuti kuyang'ana pa mapazi ake kwanditembenuzira, koma ndikamapita kukapsompsona (nthawi yonse yomwe ndimasewera) ndimamva kutsegulidwa. Chifukwa chake ndidayang'ana mabere ake, nkhope yake ndi matako ake ndikuyamba kuyamwa mawere ake ndikumpsompsona matako pamene amandipatsa mutu. Ndimaliza kuti mbolo yanga ikhale yolimba ndikutulutsa umuna popanda vuto. Mbolo yanga inali yolimba kuyambira nthawi yomwe ndinali maliseche kuti ndikutikize. Ndidazindikira kuti mbolo yanga idali yovuta pomwe adayamba kuipatsa dzanja ndipo ndidamuuza kuti sindikufuna choncho adapitiliza ndi blowjob. Zinali zodabwitsa ndipo pomwe ndimasilira ndimaganiza zakukula kwa mbolo yanga ndipo ndinalibe malingaliro abwana. Ndikudziwabe kuti sindinachiritsidwe kwathunthu koma ndikudziwa kuti chikhumbo changa chofuna feteleza chazimiririka chasowa kwathunthu komanso Kuti ubongo wanga ndiwokonzeka kuyambiranso zinthu zabwino kwambiri :). Mukawerenga mabulogu anga mutha kuwona kuti ndinkadandaula monga momwe mumaganizira za zovuta zazomwe zimayamwa kwambiri. Btw ndili ndi zaka 23 ndipo ndidayamba zolaula zolaula ndili ndi zaka 13 zomwe zidakwera kukhala bdsm, manyazi, akazi, masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndipo ndidakhala ndikudziyesa galu wa atsikana. Chifukwa chake kumaliza kwanga ndikuti nthawi zonse ndimapeza mapazi okongola chifukwa ndimakonda mapazi ndisanawonere zolaula, koma sindiyang'anitsitsa monga kale chifukwa pali zambiri zomwe mungachite ndi nyini kapena atsikana pakamwa ndi mawere ndi mabere. Mungaganize bwino kuti inde ndizomveka koma ubongo wanga sunakhudzidwe nazo. Ubongo wanu uzindikira kuti mutasiya zolaula komanso zolaula nthawi yayitali. Tsopano ndilibe malingaliro ambiri ndipo ndimangodzuka ndikamawona akazi enieni kapena kukopana nawo / kuwakhudza. Ngati muli ndi mafunso aliwonse ine, ndingakonde kuthandiza munthu. Ndinali womenya nkhondo kusukulu, wopambana m'moyo
Ndipo chirichonse ndi kudana kuti ine ndinali wogonjera kwambiri mu chipinda. Tsopano ine ndiri ochuluka kwambiri
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Ndipo osati ngakhale kugonjera.
Ndili ndi nkhani yofanana ndendende nanu .. Koma kusiyana ndikuti ndinalibe fetus phazi ndisanayambe kuonera zolaula. Ndidayamba kuyang'ana zolaula pambuyo pa zolaula zamaliseche ndipo sizinali zachilendo ngati mavidiyo achikazi komanso ovuta kwambiri. Tsopano chomwe chimasokoneza ndikuti ndikayimitsa malingaliro onsewa, ndimakhala ndi malingaliro okhudzana ndi atsikana enieni okhala ndi mapazi abwino koma ndimakhala ndi nkhawa chifukwa sindinayang'ane mapazi ndisanachite zolaula, sindikudziwa ngati ndinapanga phazi lenileni, ndipo sindikudziwa ngati ndiyang'ane mapazi a atsikana kapena ayi chifukwa ndimawona atsikana ena ndipo ndimawona kuti ndimayang'ana mabere awo, matako ..
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Ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa ED kuyambira ku koleji (ndili 27 tsopano). Mtundu wachidulewu ndikuti pazaka zanga zaku koleji, ndinali ndi mwayi wogonana ndi akazi okongola a 4 ndipo zoyesayesa zonse zidasokonekera chifukwa cha ED. Nthawi zingapo zovala zidachoka ndipo sindimatha kusewera, ndipo mwa enawo ndinaziimitsa zisanayambike kungodziwa kuti sindingathe kuzikweza. Zikumveka bwino kwa aliyense wa inu?
M'mbuyomu, ndidapeza njira yokhayo yomwe ndidakwanitsira kuyimilira (ndipo izi zidachitika nditayesa kangapo ndi msungwana yemweyo) ngati 1) palibe kondomu yomwe idakhudzidwa 2) anali ndi thupi lokwanira / lolimba, m'mimba mosasunthika, ndi zina zambiri - dikirani - 3) anali atametedwa kwambiri kapena kumetedwa kumene "kumeneko." Ndi pati pomwe ndimakhala ndi miyezo yolakwika ngati imeneyi? Inde, kuyambira pa maola ochuluka a zolaula za pa intaneti zomwe ndakhala ndikuziwona kuyambira ndili mwana.
Pokumana kwanga ndi atsikana aja ku koleji, palibe m'modzi yemwe adakwaniritsa "zofunikira" zanga. Palibe mwa iwo omwe adametedwa kwathunthu, ndipo awiriwo anali mbali yopindika. Kalelo, ndinali nditazilemba kuti panali zinthu zina zokhudza atsikana omwe anali atandimitsa - zinthu zomwe zinali ubweya wa pubic ndi / kapena mafuta amthupi - ndipo ndikutha kukumbukira kuti zinthu izi zimangondichotsa zowoneka. Ndinapha onse, kapena ndinaganiza choncho. Ndipo izi zinali zopweteka kwambiri, popeza awa anali akazi odabwitsa omwe matupi awo sanafanane ndi a zolaula, ndipo ndimadziwa kuti palinso ena ambiri kunja komwe angadzakhale mgulu lomweli.
Chifukwa chake funso langa kwa inu omwe mwakwanitsa kuthana ndi zolaula zomwe zidapangitsa ED - kuchokera pazomwe ndawerenga zikuwoneka ngati kuyambiranso bwino kukupatsani mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito kondomu (hooray!). Nanga bwanji zomwe mumakonda kapena "zokonda" zanu momwemo? Kodi alipo ena mwa inu kunja uko omwe anali "kuzimitsidwa" (kapena amaganiza kuti muli, osachepera) ndi zinthu monga tsitsi lamu pubic kapena zina zogwirizira zachikondi, koma kuyambiranso bwino kunabwezeretsanso zomwe zakudzutsani?
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Wochita kafukufuku wogonana ananena zotsatirazi:
Ndikudziwa ophunzira awiri achimuna omwe adadzipereka kuti akana kugonana / kusiya zokhazokha potengera tsitsi la mzimayi. Wina adati amapewa kugonana ndi mkazi wopanda kanthu chifukwa mawonekedwe osavala amamukumbutsa za mng'ono wake yemwe amamusamalira. Wina adati angakane kulumikizana ngati mayi ali ndi tsitsi lililonse, lomwe amaganiza kuti ndi "lalikulu."
Zithunzi zolaula sizomwe zimayambitsa vuto la labiaplasty [Madokotala nawonso]
Akazi achichepere ayenera kuphunzira kuti palibe chinthu chofanana ndi labia yabwino - ziribe kanthu zomwe akuwona pa intaneti
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/nov/15/pornography-culprit-rise-labiaplasty
Chifukwa chake ndakhala ndikukumana ndi atsikana ndikugonana nawo - mwatsoka ndimachita zinthu zomwe ndaziwona zolaula nawo. Monga kukoka ndikuyesera kukamwa pakamwa pawo kapena kukakamira kumatako etc. Pakadali pano, palibe mtsikana amene wakhala akumvera ndipo nthawi zambiri zimathera pakuwononga chibwenzicho. Ndimayesetsa kuti ndikhale wolamulira koma mphindi imangowoneka ngati ikutenga ndipo ndimangomaliza kuchita zomwe ubongo wanga "zolaula" umandiuza kuti ndichite. Kodi ndingathane bwanji ndi izi? Ndani winanso amene ali ndi vutoli? Kodi ndizofala kapena ndizosowa?
Kugonana kwa amuna ndi akazi kumalowa m'Chipinda chogonana
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