Kodi tikuchotsa mzere pakati pa akulu ndi ana?
Pakadali pano, chikhalidwe chathu chimapeputsa mphamvu ya zizindikiro zogonana ndipo chimatanthauzira molakwika tanthauzo lake. Izi zikutanthauza kuti zizindikiro zogonana zimaonedwa kuti sizowopsa chifukwa zokonda zogonana zimaganiziridwa kuti zimachokera ku chilichonse chomwe munthu amawona. Malingaliro awiri ozungulira amatsatira kuchokera pa lingaliro lolakwika ili: Choyamba, timaganiza kuti zomwe munthu amafika pachimake zimavumbula chibadwa chake chosasinthika; ndipo chachiwiri, timaganiza kuti ngati munthu ayamba kufika pachimake pa chinthu chosagwirizana ndikupeza chibadwa chake chenicheni. Malingaliro olakwika oterewa adabuka chifukwa cha ndale zachipatala zomwe zidapangitsa kuti anthu asamafufuze zotsatira za machitidwe ogonana pa ubongo wawo.
Komabe, zomwe zachitikadi zikusonyeza kuti kukondoweza kwambiri kungasinthe zokonda zogonana mu ubongo wina. Zoonadi, ena mwa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti masiku ano akusintha kwambiri mu ubongo wawo komanso machitidwe awo okonda kugonana—mwayi womwe tsopano wafotokozedwa bwino ndi zoyeserera zambiri zomwe zikuwonetsa kusinthasintha kwa ubongo . Kusintha kumeneku n'kovuta kusintha pamene kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kukupitirira. Mwachidule, zizindikiro zogonana zomwe zimayamba ngati zopanda tanthauzo komanso zopanda tanthauzo ngati ukonde zimatha kukhala zingwe, kutanthauza kuti, zimatha kukhazikitsa njira za ubongo zomwe zimapatsidwa patsogolo chifukwa zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi mphotho yayikulu ya orgasm.
M'nkhani zam'mbuyomu tanena kuti kusintha kumeneku kungakhale kosokoneza kwambiri ngati kusokonezedwa ndi kusintha kwa chikhalidwe cha kugonana. Koma sikungakhale kochititsa chidwi kwenikweni. Taganizirani zomwe munthu uyu anakumana nazo:
Justin: Ndinkakhala ndi chinthu chachikulu pamabere okulitsidwa. Dzulo panali kopanira nkhani yokhudza atsikana omwe amadzala ndi ma silicone komanso kuwopsa kwawo. Adawonetsa atsikana ambiri kunyanja ndi zina zambiri, zomwe zikadandichititsa kukhetsa madzi ndikundiyambitsa zolaula. Koma patatha mwezi wopanda zolaula, amawoneka odabwitsa. Mabere achilendo, owonjezera amandichotsa. Ndimaganiza, "Chifukwa chiyani achita izi kwa iwo okha? Kodi chachikulu ndichani pamabere akulu? ” Ndipo izi zachokera kwa mnyamata yemwe adakhala nthawi yayitali akuwapembedza.
Pochotsa ubongo wa chiwopsezo chosafuna, wina ayenera kusiya kugwira ntchito zozungulira maubongo-pamtundu uno posasula malingaliro ofanana. Kugwiritsa ntchito molakwika kumachepetsa pang'onopang'ono madera oyenera, ngakhale kuti sangathe kuwathetsa kwathunthu. Kuwombera sikunzolowere.
Kuli ndi nkhawa komanso maganizo osasamala
Chaka chatha, tamva kuchokera kwa abambo ndi amai za kusintha kwina kokhudzana ndi zolaula komwe kumabweretsa mavuto. Mkazi waku Europe adalemba kuti:
Mu zolaula, matupi ndi ziwalo zoberekera nthawi zambiri zimawonongeka, motero munthu amakhala ndi vuto lokhazikika komanso matupi opanda tsitsi. Ziwalo zowoneka bwino zodziwika bwino zimayambitsa chidwi cha omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula kuti apeze mphothoyo. Zolaula zambiri zimaphatikizaponso kugonana kumatako, kotero wowonera amakhalanso ndi matako ngati njira yothetsera. Pansi paliponse maliseche, pomwepo pazomwe zimayambitsa chidwi, kaya ndi chamwamuna, wamkazi kapena mwana.
Kodi ndapeza bwanji? Ndili ndi msungwana wamng'ono wa zaka 2 akukhala pakhomo pompano, ndipo amakonda kukonda wamaliseche. Ndimachita manyazi kunena kuti zina mwazimenezi zinayambitsa zolaula zanga. Ndithudi, ndikusankha choti ndichite ndi chiwongolero ndi (chisoni kuti ndinene) kudzutsa. Ine sindikanakhoza konse, kuchitapo pa izo.
Koma ndizowopsa kuti, ngakhale sindinawonere zolaula kwazaka zopitilira ziwiri, zoyambitsa zopanda chidziwitso zidakalipo, zakhazikika muubongo wanga, ndipo zimangodziulula okha tsopano. Ndipo dziwani kuti ndine wamkazi! Zimakhalanso zoopsa kuti sindinazindikirepo momwe zolaula zinasinthira chikumbumtima changa. Ndimakumbukirabe nthawi pamene akazi m'dziko langa sanamete. Ngakhale miyendo yawo, ndipo palibe amene akanakhumudwa nazo. Ndipo tsopano? Mukumva ngati mlendo weniweni mukapanda kumeta, ndiye kuti mumatero.
Chabwino, ndicho chokumana nacho cha munthu m'modzi.
Kupanda tsitsi: kusagonana kosayenera
Posachedwapa, mwamuna woganiza bwino analongosola izi:
Ndinayamba chidwi ndi zamaganizo okhudza zolaula chaka chapitacho pamene ndinawerenga buku lakuti The Brain That Changes Itself lolembedwa ndi Norman Doidge. Mu chaputala china, akukamba za kasitomala amene ankagwira naye ntchito yemwe anali ndi mavuto ndi zolaula pa intaneti. Bukuli ndi labwino kwambiri, koma chaputalachi chandipangitsa kuganizira kwambiri za momwe ndinayambira kulimbana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Nkhani yanga ndi yachilendo, koma mwina si yosiyana.
Sindinagwiritse ntchito zolaula konse mpaka ndinali pafupi ndi 28 ndipo ngakhale pamenepo, pamlingo wotsika kwambiri kuti ndikhale wosanyalanyaza. Ndinadziwitsidwa mwachidule ndili ndi zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi, koma sindinalowemo. Kuphatikiza kwa zinthu kunasintha zonsezi. Chinthu chachikulu ngakhale chinali kukhala ndichinsinsi komanso zosavuta kupeza zolaula zambiri pakompyuta. Ndinayamba kuigwiritsa ntchito pafupipafupi chifukwa ine ndi mkazi wanga tinali ndi mwana wathu woyamba motero, mulu wa zinthu unasintha, zina zomwe ndimayembekezera, pomwe zina.
Ndimakonda kuganiza ndekha ngati mwamuna wotsutsa. Ndinakwatiwa ndi mkazi wanga chifukwa ndi mkazi wachikazi ndipo ndimamulemekeza ndikumukonda. Ndimakonda kukhala ndi udindo wolerera anyamata anga awiri, ndipo timayesetsa kuti tikhale ndi ubale wokondana kwambiri. Ndipo kotero, ine ndi mkazi wanga tinatopa ndi maudindo athu atsopano omwe ndinkaganiza kuti ndizitha kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kuti ndikhale osangalala, ndikusiya mkazi wanga kuti apeze tulo tomwe iye amafunikira. Ife tinakambiranapo izi, ndipo iye anali zonse pa izo.
Sindinadziwe chimene ndinali nacho. Zakhala zonyansa kwambiri kuona kusintha kwa malingaliro anga komwe kwachitika chifukwa cha kuwonjezeka kwanga zolaula. Nditatha kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, kwa masiku angapo otsatira ndikupeza zithunzi ndi malingaliro osafunika m'maganizo mwanga, chifukwa cha zochitika zomwe sindinaziyembekezera.
Zomwe zidandidabwitsa ndizomwe zidachitikira kwa bwenzi labwino usiku wina, ndikudya chakudya chamadzulo. Ana anga aamuna awiri anali kusamba limodzi ndi mwana wawo wamkazi wazaka 8 ndipo ine ndinapita kukatulutsa ana ndikusintha. Mwadzidzidzi, nditawona mtsikana wazaka 8 wamaliseche, malingaliro anga adayamba kubweretsa malingaliro ogonana. Zinandidabwitsa kwambiri ndipo ndinatuluka ndikufunsa mkazi wanga ngati angandilande.
Izi sizinthu zomwe mungauze aliyense. Awa sindiwo malingaliro omwe ndakhalapo nawo m'moyo wanga, komabe, adakhalapo, mwadzidzidzi. Koma osati mwadzidzidzi. Tsopano ndazindikira kuti zolaula zambiri zomwe ndimayang'ana zimawonetsa azimayi omwe alibe tsitsi - osati chinthu chomwe ndimakonda, kapena ndidazindikira - koma, sichinadziwike kwa ine.
Popeza kuti zolaula zitha kundichitira izi, zidandidetsa nkhawa kwambiri, ndipo chifukwa chake, ndidakambirana ndi mkazi wanga za momwe ndimagwiritsira ntchito zolaula. Ndachitapo kanthu kuti ndiwongolere, koma ndizovuta ndipo ndiyenera kukhala tcheru. Sindikudziwa zomwe gulu lathu lichite kuti athetse vutoli. Ndikudziwa kuti kwa ine, ndikadapanda kukhala ndi kompyuta komanso yosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito, ndikukayika kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula sikukadakhala vuto.
Ndizolimbikitsa kuti tsopano kuli malo omwe amuna amatha kukambirana momasuka za kuopsa kwa zolaula zama psyche athu. Chifukwa, makamaka mdera lathu, makamaka pakati pa amuna ambiri, timalimbikitsidwa kuseka ngati nkhani yaying'ono, yomwe ambiri, a ife timadziwa kuti sichoncho.
Zilonda zamaliseche
Tsitsi la m'mimba ndi zotchuka za labia minora zimangotha msinkhu. Zonsezi ndi zizindikiro za amayi achikulire. Amuna owongoka nthawi ina nthawi zambiri amalumikizitsa zokopa zawo kwa akazi achikulire pogwiritsa ntchito mawonekedwe owoneka bwino aubongo ndi labia wamba (pakati pa ena). Zowonadi, abambo akulu pamsonkhano wathu amati samapeza akazi ometedwa osangalatsa. Zochitika zawo zoyambirira zogonana mwachidziwikire zinali ndi akazi omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala opatsidwa, kapena malingaliro / magazini omwe anali ofanana.
Kwa ambiri, zochitikazi zidalepheretsa chidwi chidwi cha akazi omwe amatsogola. “Ngati silili ndi ubweya, silitentha. Iponye m'mbuyo. ”
Komabe, m'dziko la masiku ano la zolaula, "kumeta," monga kugonana kwa kumatako, ndi kosayenera. Tsopano tikumva anyamata achichepere akunena kuti sadzagwirizana ndi mkazi wosameta. Chachitika n'chiyani? Ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula achinyamata akudula mano awo ndi ma siren ochotsedwa. Apa ndi pomwe ubongo wawo umakhala wofunitsitsa kulandira mphotho ndipo umagwirizanitsa mwamphamvu chilakolako chawo chogonana ndi zizindikiro zina—pankhaniyi, ziwalo zoberekera zopanda tsitsi. Njira yomweyi imakhudzanso owonera ena akuluakulu.
Ubongo wodziwa bwino ntchito yake umatha kulumikiza chizindikiro chatsopano chogonana ndi nthawi yochepa yogonana. Pambuyo pake, ubongo woterewu umayankha chizindikiro chimenecho (kaya ndi chilakolako kapena kukwiya) mwiniwake wa ubongo asanadziwe bwino chizindikirocho. Mwachidule, njira yolumikizira ubongo imayatsa mphamvu yamphamvu frontal cortex ya munthuyo isanathe kuchotsa chizindikirocho.
Mu ubongo wina, kusintha kwa chizolowezi kumakhala pamwamba pa njira yotsetsereka yopita ku kusintha kosatha kwa madera olandira mphotho. Kusintha kumeneku kumabweretsa kuchuluka kwakukulu kwa kutulutsidwa kwa dopamine m'malo ofunikira a ubongo (sensitization). Kusintha kwa ubongo nthawi zambiri kumayenderana ndi kuchepa kwa mayankho onse a chisangalalo cha ubongo (desensitization). Kusintha kumeneku komwe kumachitika chifukwa cha chizolowezi kumayambitsa chilakolako chofuna zinthu zolimbikitsa kwambiri.
Mchitidwe wopanda tsitsi, wachinyamata sutayika kwa akazi anzawo ndipo angakhale anzawo a ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula masiku ano. Akuyembekezerabe kutembenuzira anzawo omwe ali ndi malingaliro awo. Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa 2010, labi akuwonetsedwa zolaula sungani pang'ono kuposa ma labia akuwonetsedwa m'mabukhu azachipatala ndi zina.
Zotsatira zake? Sikuti mankhwala ochotsera tsitsi okha, komanso opaleshoni ya labia kuti athetse zizindikiro za kukula kwa kugonana akuchulukirachulukira. Pogwiritsa ntchito kumeta ndi opaleshoni, akazi akusintha maliseche awo mwadala, kutanthauza kuti, mwadala akuwapangitsa kuoneka osakhwima, achichepere.
Kodi tikulepheretsa kugonana ndi ana athu?
Kodi kusintha kumeneku pazokonda zowoneka ndikuchotsa chotchinga chomwe chidakhumudwitsa kugonana kwachikulire ndi ana? Ngati izi ndizotheka, tingakhale bwanji ngati gulu, kuti tikambirane momasuka za izi? Kapena mumachita kafukufuku wodalirika? Popeza kufunitsitsa kwa olamulira masiku ano kuti atengepo kanthu pazogonana za ana awo zikutsimikizira kuti wina ndi wogona ana, ndani angayese kukambirana zakukhosi kotere kupatula pamalo ochezera pa intaneti osadziwika… mwina?
Komabe, kukambirana n'kofunika kwambiri. Anthu omwe ali ndi chilakolako chochepa amaona kuti zilakolako zawo ndi chilakolako chogonana . Kungakhale kwanzeru kufotokoza kusiyana pakati pa zomwe zikuchitika ndi zomwe amakonda komanso zomwe amakonda mwachisawawa— asanagwiritse ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso. Apolisi nawonso ayenera kuphunzira kusiyana:
Anthony: Ndinayamba kuyang'ana zolaula, pafupipafupi, pafupifupi zaka zisanu zapitazo. Choyamba panali akazi okongola, kenako zolaula zolimba, kenako zolowetsa zachilendo, kenako osinthana, kenako otsutsa, kenako ma hermaphrodites, kenako zolaula za achinyamata, kenako zitsanzo zazing'ono ndipo tsopano ndende (posachedwa apita). Zaka zitadutsa ndinkayamba kukonda kuchita maliseche komanso chidwi chofufuza "zachilendo". Ndikayang'ana m'mbuyo, sindikuwona momwe ndinalephera kuzindikira kuti ndinali ndi vuto.
Anthu omwe ali ndi mayanjano osayenera, osagwirizana nawo angachite bwino kuwatsutsa. Chifukwa chiyani?
1. Nkhawa yochokera mukuda nkhawa ndi chilakolako chogonana chosakhala chachibadwa ingayambitsidwenso ngati chizindikiro chodzutsa chilakolako ... zomwe zimapangitsa kuti munthu ayambe "kuyesa" kovutitsa, koma kodzutsa chilakolako, kuti awone ngati pali vuto losafunikira. Mayeso aliwonse amalimbitsa ubongo wofunikira, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti ntchito yobwezeretsanso mawaya ikhale yovuta kwambiri. Kuti mupeze thandizo pothetsa OCD iyi, onani ntchito ya Jeffrey Schwartz MD.
2. Ndi kulimbikira kwambiri kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kosalekeza, zokonda zosafunikira zingapitirire kusintha m'njira zatsopano, mwina zowopsa kwambiri.
Kusintha zokonda kumakhala kovuta. Pamafunika kuleza mtima ndi kusasinthasintha kotheratu posaganizira, kapena kumapeto, zovuta. Kupewa zachilendo zolaula pa intaneti kumathandizanso, chifukwa kukondoweza komweko kumatha kuyambitsa kukula.
Kodi kuona zithunzi zolaula sikung'onozing'ono?
Mutha kuti mumtima mwanu, "O chonde. Ndikudziwa kusiyana pakati pa mwana ndi wamkulu ndikamaonera zolaula! ” Imeneyo si mfundo. Agalu a Pavlov ankadziwa kusiyana pakati pa belu lake ndi Alpo, koma patapita kanthawi iwo anaphimba mate akamva belu lokha.
Ubongo ndi pulasitiki. Tikadziwombera, sitidziwa nthawi yomwe idzasokoneze. Wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula anadzifotokozera kuti:
Zithunzi zolaula zimasokoneza zomwe mumakonda. Pali zinthu zomwe poyamba ndimadana nazo, zomwe [ndikachira] ndikupezabe zoyambitsa komanso zosangalatsa, zomwe sindilola kuti zilolere. Mukayamba kulekana ndi zolaula simungangowaganizira chifukwa ali ngati chithunzi cha kugonana m'moyo wanu. M'malo mochita mwamphamvu ndi malingaliro olowerera, ndimangowanyalanyaza ndikungoyang'ana china chake.
Ngati mumamatira ndikufika kumalo omwe ali ngati inu musanayambe kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Mwachitsanzo, ndimagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha koma pazaka zambiri zowonera zolaula ndinayamba kuyang'ana zopanda pake za anyamata ena. Zithunzi zolaula zinandipangitsa kudziwa kuti amuna onsewa anali ndi maubongo nawonso, komanso kuti zinali zotheka kuwayang'ana momwemo momwe ndimafufuzira mkazi. Sindinayambe ndafunsapo za kugonana kwanga, koma zinandichititsa mantha ndikadzipeza ndikuphunzira crotch yanga ya aphunzitsi a gitala. Ndimalingalira ndekha, "Kodi ndikuchita chiyani? Sindimakonda anyamata. ” Ichi ndi chochitika chovuta kwambiri masiku ano, ndipo sindikuvutikanso chifukwa ndikumvetsetsa momwe zolaula zimasinthira pulasitiki mosasintha mu ubongo.
Chilakolako chofuna kusiya tsopano ndi chilimbikitso champhamvu. Chingakhale chovuta kwambiri muubongo wopanda mphamvu womwe ukulimbana ndi kusasangalala kobwerera ku homeostasis pambuyo pa kusangalala kwambiri. Komabe, kaya muli ndi vuto liti, ndibwino kuganizira kawiri musanachite chinthu cholimbikitsa kwambiri, kapena chosakhala chachibadwa, chodzutsa chilakolako. Ndi bwino kupirira nthawi yosasangalatsa ya kukhumudwa ndi kugonana nthawi ndi nthawi, pomwe kukhudzika kwanu kwachizolowezi sikukuthandizani chifukwa ubongo wanu sunabwerere ku kukhudzika kwabwinobwino, kusiyana ndi kuika pachiwopsezo kusokoneza malingaliro anu muubongo mwa kukakamiza zinthu zolimbikitsa kwambiri.
Mayanjano azakugonana sazindikira, ndipo, muubongo wina ngakhale otsogola amakhala olimba. Zabwino kapena zoipa, ubongo wathu ndi pulasitiki. Ndiye kuti, zomwe timagwiritsa ntchito kuti tifike pachimake sizikhala zopanda mano, ndipo zokonda zogonana sizimayikidwa mwala (mosiyana ndi zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana). Mwachidule, tili ndi ulamuliro wambiri kuposa momwe timaganizira. Yakwana nthawi yoti muchite izi. Ndani akufunikira kuti apeze mwana wamnzako yemwe wabadwa msanga kuti asokonezeke pakugonana?
Ndemanga za owerenga nkhaniyi:
Ine ndi anzanga tinali kukambirana za izi masiku angapo asanafike. Abwenzi anga ankaganiza kuti kusindikiza tsitsi ndi kupukuta tsitsi kunali chinthu chonyansa kwa mkazi koma ndimaganiza kuti ndizochita zachigololo (malinga ngati zinasungidwa bwino).
Ndipo ndidayamba kudzifunsa kuti bwanji zosankha zanga zinali zosiyana ndi zina? Pambuyo pake tsitsi lonse ndi lachilengedwe ndipo liyenera kukhala gawo lokopa amuna mpaka zaka makumi angapo zapitazo, azimayi sanali kwenikweni ku Brazil ndikuwombera. M'malo mwazotentha kwambiri ku Hollywood (Basic Instinct 1992), Sharon Stone adasewera tchire lokongola.
Ndiye ndichifukwa chiani chodzidzimutsa chodulira chilichonse choyera? Ndipo zidandikhuza, ndinali (mwina) ndekha m'modzi mwa anzanga omwe sanachite zolaula.
Chifukwa chake zikuwonekeratu kuti zolaula zimasintha bwanji zokonda zakugonana komanso zomwe amakonda. Ndikukumbukira pomwe ndinali pachibwenzi ndi wakale wanga, ndimayenera kupempha wakale wanga kuti asadzichititse phula. Pazolembazo, sindimayanjanitsa kusowa tsitsi ndi achichepere (ngakhale ndikumvetsetsa kufanana kwake), koma ndichotembenukira chachikulu kwa ine chifukwa si momwe chilengedwe chimafunira kuti zikhale kumeneko.
Ndikuchita zinthu ndi wokondedwa wanga zomwe ndikuwona pa zolaula popanda kuzizindikira. Ndimasokonezeka ndi ubweya wake wamakono ngakhale pamene ndikudzinenera kuti ndimakonda zachibadwa za mkazi. Ilo liri mkati mwa ine, koma ine ndikuwona ilo pamene ine ndikulizindikira ilo mozindikira ndi kuyesera kulichotsa ilo mu dongosolo langa, ndi nthawi ndi kuleza mtima, ndiye izo zimachoka. Zangotenga nthawi ndi kubwereza ubongo.
Za vuto lanu "nyini". Ndinali ndi vuto lomwelo chifukwa chowonera zaka zolaula. Ndili ndi ubongo wanga wired for anal kotero vaginine kugonana sikunali kosangalatsa. Koma patatha nthawi yayitali yoyambiranso yomwe yasintha kwa ine. Nthawi zambiri ndinkapeza erection kuchokera ku blowjob kapena handjob, koma zikafika pakugonana kwenikweni kumaliseche kwanga kumalephera nthawi zonse. Tsopano ichi ndichinthu chovuta kukumana nacho, muli ndi ine mkazi wamaloto anu pamaso panu wamaliseche kwathunthu, ndikukuyembekezerani kuti mumutenge ndipo mudzawona ndikulingalira kuti ndipamene ndimakhala ndikufuna kukhala, koma palibe chomwe chimachitika pansi. Izi zisintha ndikukhazikitsanso. Ingokhalani ndi kukonzanso kwanu ndikupanga kwathunthu. Imodzi mwazinthu zazikulu ndikuti tileke kuyerekezera.
Ndinayambiranso masiku 77 palibe pmo ndikuyesera kutsekereza malingaliro azimayi akangolowa. Ngati muwerenga ma blogs anga ndi mitu yanga yomwe ndidalemba ndikutsimikiza mutha kuphunzira zambiri popeza mafunso anu ambiri ayankhidwa. Kotero ine ndinayesa tsiku lina kuti ndiwone ngati ine ndingakhoze kudzutsidwa popanda mapazi, akazi, ndi zina zotero ine ndinapita ndipo ndinapeza kutikita minofu ndipo potsirizira pake ndinakhala ndi blowjob kuchokera kwa msungwanayo. Ndidazindikira kuti kuyang'ana pa mapazi ake kwanditembenuzira, koma ndikamapita kukapsompsona (nthawi yonse yomwe ndimasewera) ndimamva kutsegulidwa. Chifukwa chake ndidayang'ana mabere ake, nkhope yake ndi matako ake ndikuyamba kuyamwa mawere ake ndikumpsompsona matako pamene amandipatsa mutu. Ndimaliza kuti mbolo yanga ikhale yolimba ndikutulutsa umuna popanda vuto. Mbolo yanga inali yolimba kuyambira nthawi yomwe ndinali maliseche kuti ndikutikize. Ndidazindikira kuti mbolo yanga idali yovuta pomwe adayamba kuipatsa dzanja ndipo ndidamuuza kuti sindikufuna choncho adapitiliza ndi blowjob. Zinali zodabwitsa ndipo pomwe ndimasilira ndimaganiza zakukula kwa mbolo yanga ndipo ndinalibe malingaliro abwana. Ndikudziwabe kuti sindinachiritsidwe kwathunthu koma ndikudziwa kuti chikhumbo changa chofuna feteleza chazimiririka chasowa kwathunthu komanso Kuti ubongo wanga ndiwokonzeka kuyambiranso zinthu zabwino kwambiri :). Mukawerenga mabulogu anga mutha kuwona kuti ndinkadandaula monga momwe mumaganizira za zovuta zazomwe zimayamwa kwambiri. Btw ndili ndi zaka 23 ndipo ndidayamba zolaula zolaula ndili ndi zaka 13 zomwe zidakwera kukhala bdsm, manyazi, akazi, masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndipo ndidakhala ndikudziyesa galu wa atsikana. Chifukwa chake kumaliza kwanga ndikuti nthawi zonse ndimapeza mapazi okongola chifukwa ndimakonda mapazi ndisanawonere zolaula, koma sindiyang'anitsitsa monga kale chifukwa pali zambiri zomwe mungachite ndi nyini kapena atsikana pakamwa ndi mawere ndi mabere. Mungaganize bwino kuti inde ndizomveka koma ubongo wanga sunakhudzidwe nazo. Ubongo wanu uzindikira kuti mutasiya zolaula komanso zolaula nthawi yayitali. Tsopano ndilibe malingaliro ambiri ndipo ndimangodzuka ndikamawona akazi enieni kapena kukopana nawo / kuwakhudza. Ngati muli ndi mafunso aliwonse ine, ndingakonde kuthandiza munthu. Ndinali womenya nkhondo kusukulu, wopambana m'moyo
Ndipo chirichonse ndi kudana kuti ine ndinali wogonjera kwambiri mu chipinda. Tsopano ine ndiri ochuluka kwambiri
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Ndipo osati ngakhale kugonjera.
Ndili ndi nkhani yofanana ndendende nanu .. Koma kusiyana ndikuti ndinalibe fetus phazi ndisanayambe kuonera zolaula. Ndidayamba kuyang'ana zolaula pambuyo pa zolaula zamaliseche ndipo sizinali zachilendo ngati mavidiyo achikazi komanso ovuta kwambiri. Tsopano chomwe chimasokoneza ndikuti ndikayimitsa malingaliro onsewa, ndimakhala ndi malingaliro okhudzana ndi atsikana enieni okhala ndi mapazi abwino koma ndimakhala ndi nkhawa chifukwa sindinayang'ane mapazi ndisanachite zolaula, sindikudziwa ngati ndinapanga phazi lenileni, ndipo sindikudziwa ngati ndiyang'ane mapazi a atsikana kapena ayi chifukwa ndimawona atsikana ena ndipo ndimawona kuti ndimayang'ana mabere awo, matako ..
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Ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa ED kuyambira ku koleji (ndili 27 tsopano). Mtundu wachidulewu ndikuti pazaka zanga zaku koleji, ndinali ndi mwayi wogonana ndi akazi okongola a 4 ndipo zoyesayesa zonse zidasokonekera chifukwa cha ED. Nthawi zingapo zovala zidachoka ndipo sindimatha kusewera, ndipo mwa enawo ndinaziimitsa zisanayambike kungodziwa kuti sindingathe kuzikweza. Zikumveka bwino kwa aliyense wa inu?
M'mbuyomu, ndidapeza njira yokhayo yomwe ndidakwanitsira kuyimilira (ndipo izi zidachitika nditayesa kangapo ndi msungwana yemweyo) ngati 1) palibe kondomu yomwe idakhudzidwa 2) anali ndi thupi lokwanira / lolimba, m'mimba mosasunthika, ndi zina zambiri - dikirani - 3) anali atametedwa kwambiri kapena kumetedwa kumene "kumeneko." Ndi pati pomwe ndimakhala ndi miyezo yolakwika ngati imeneyi? Inde, kuyambira pa maola ochuluka a zolaula za pa intaneti zomwe ndakhala ndikuziwona kuyambira ndili mwana.
Pokumana kwanga ndi atsikana aja ku koleji, palibe m'modzi yemwe adakwaniritsa "zofunikira" zanga. Palibe mwa iwo omwe adametedwa kwathunthu, ndipo awiriwo anali mbali yopindika. Kalelo, ndinali nditazilemba kuti panali zinthu zina zokhudza atsikana omwe anali atandimitsa - zinthu zomwe zinali ubweya wa pubic ndi / kapena mafuta amthupi - ndipo ndikutha kukumbukira kuti zinthu izi zimangondichotsa zowoneka. Ndinapha onse, kapena ndinaganiza choncho. Ndipo izi zinali zopweteka kwambiri, popeza awa anali akazi odabwitsa omwe matupi awo sanafanane ndi a zolaula, ndipo ndimadziwa kuti palinso ena ambiri kunja komwe angadzakhale mgulu lomweli.
Chifukwa chake funso langa kwa inu omwe mwakwanitsa kuthana ndi zolaula zomwe zidapangitsa ED - kuchokera pazomwe ndawerenga zikuwoneka ngati kuyambiranso bwino kukupatsani mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito kondomu (hooray!). Nanga bwanji zomwe mumakonda kapena "zokonda" zanu momwemo? Kodi alipo ena mwa inu kunja uko omwe anali "kuzimitsidwa" (kapena amaganiza kuti muli, osachepera) ndi zinthu monga tsitsi lamu pubic kapena zina zogwirizira zachikondi, koma kuyambiranso bwino kunabwezeretsanso zomwe zakudzutsani?
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Wofufuza za kugonana wa maphunziro adanena izi:
Ndikudziwa ophunzira awiri achimuna omwe adadzipereka kuti akana kugonana / kusiya zokhazokha potengera tsitsi la mzimayi. Wina adati amapewa kugonana ndi mkazi wopanda kanthu chifukwa mawonekedwe osavala amamukumbutsa za mng'ono wake yemwe amamusamalira. Wina adati angakane kulumikizana ngati mayi ali ndi tsitsi lililonse, lomwe amaganiza kuti ndi "lalikulu."
Zithunzi zolaula si zokhazo zomwe zimayambitsa kufalikira kwa labiaplasty [Madokotala nawonso ndi omwe akuchititsa zimenezi]
Akazi achichepere ayenera kuphunzira kuti palibe chinthu chofanana ndi labia yabwino - ziribe kanthu zomwe akuwona pa intaneti
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/nov/15/pornography-culprit-rise-labiaplasty
Chifukwa chake ndakhala ndikukumana ndi atsikana ndikugonana nawo - mwatsoka ndimachita zinthu zomwe ndaziwona zolaula nawo. Monga kukoka ndikuyesera kukamwa pakamwa pawo kapena kukakamira kumatako etc. Pakadali pano, palibe mtsikana amene wakhala akumvera ndipo nthawi zambiri zimathera pakuwononga chibwenzicho. Ndimayesetsa kuti ndikhale wolamulira koma mphindi imangowoneka ngati ikutenga ndipo ndimangomaliza kuchita zomwe ubongo wanga "zolaula" umandiuza kuti ndichite. Kodi ndingathane bwanji ndi izi? Ndani winanso amene ali ndi vutoli? Kodi ndizofala kapena ndizosowa?
Kugonana kwa amuna ndi akazi kumalowa m'Chipinda chogonana