Porn will rob you of your sexuality: I was not attracted to real women

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Before I started nofap I had a few girlfriends. They were all women that I was genuinely interested in but I had one unusual problem. I never wanted to have sex with them. I was a virgin at the time and all of my friends were telling me I had to loose it, but I just didn't want to. I even dumped one of my girlfriends because she wanted to have sex with me. In my eyes that was a sign that she was more invested in the relationship than I was.

I didn't really have any of this in mind when I started nofap but it hindsight there is a definite link. A few months into my first streak (right around 90 days actually) I started hooking up with a new girl. From the very first time we kissed I could tell I was attracted enough to her to go all the way. I had never really felt that way before. It was incredible. This new level of attraction is yet to fade.

It's my theory that porn programmed my brain to be attracted to 2D pornstars rather than real women. Sexuality and romance were completely unrelated concepts in my mind. I could never be romantic with a pornstar and I could never be sexual with a real woman. It made sense at the time.

Now that I have been doing nofap for close to a year my outlook has changed quite a bit. I don't have romantic or sexual feelings about pornstars and I have both romantic and sexual feelings for my girlfriend.

It's truly an amazing feeling and I'm grateful for it every day. If you're ever questioning whether or not nofap is worth it, trust me, it's worth it.

LINK - Porn will rob you of your sexuality.

by Winslowa12