Tausaga 28 - Faʻaipoipo: maoae le ola faʻaleleia

Na ou lavea le 90 aso maka ma ou te manaʻo e lipoti atu nisi o penefiti na ou vaaia i loʻu olaga:

  • Ua sili atu loʻu lagona ia te aʻu. Ou te leʻi maua se faʻateleina faʻateleina o le talitonuina aua ua uma ona ou a lava mautinoa aliʻi e amata i, ae o le mea na ou matauina nai lo o le na o loʻu lagona moni, MONI lelei mo aʻu lava, masani lava i taimi uma. Ua alu le maasiasi o le nana pea o laʻu mausa. E matua maoae le faʻasaʻolotoina.
  • Ua sili atu le alualu i luma o laʻu mafutaga ma loʻu toalua. Ua leva ona ma maua se mafutaga sili ona malosi ae ou te lei amata ona le fiafia. Sa matou faaaluina le tele o taimi faatasi i aso taitasi ma sa matou maua se fesootaiga malosi tele. E mafai ona ou fai atu ma le faamaoni e le tatau ona tatou tau, aua tatou te mumusu e faʻafeiloaʻi ma tatou faʻalogo pea le tasi i le isi, tusa lava pe tatou te le ioe i se mea. O lenei ua sili atu le taimi ou te faaalu ai ma loʻu toalua nai lo le taimi muamua ma a matou mafutaga mafana (i luma o se mea vaivai tele i le ma faaipoipoga) e sili atu ona faamalieina ma fiafia mo matou.
  • O se lagona o le saftey. Ae ou te leʻi mautinoa i taimi uma o loʻo ou kilia laʻu talaʻaga faʻasolosolo ma afai ou te lalotosoina se mea (seasea, e tele lava na ona ou vaʻai i luga) o le a ou tuʻuina i totonu o faila natia ina neʻi maua e seisi. Lea ua mama laʻu browser ma ua mama laʻu HDD ua leai ni aʻu faʻafitauli e tuʻu ai lau komepiuta e le tatalaina mo seisi e vaʻai i ai.

I le aotelega o lenei sa avea ma se aoga tele aafiaga mo aʻu ma e leai sau fuafuaga e taofi i soo se taimi lata mai. O le Porn e leaga ma o le a le toe foi i loʻu olaga. O le mea moni lenei. O le faʻamuta e masani lava o se maimau taimi ma na o le pau le taimi ou te faʻatagaina ai aʻu e toe faia, pe a fai e alu loʻu toʻalua mo sina taimi, ma o se tulafono e faʻapea a oʻo ia te aʻu oʻu mafaufauga: naʻo ia. Vaega o laʻu mafuaʻaga mo le amata nofap aua na ou manaʻo e faʻafesoʻotaʻiga fiafia ma loʻu toʻalua ma naʻo loʻu toalua. Ou te manatu na ou manuia tele i lena.

O se auala umi ma faigata. Sa i ai saʻu masani PMO mo le sili atu ma le sefulu tausaga. O lenei ua ou maua saoloto mai lena mea sili ona faamalieina ma faasaoloto.

O se upu i le au popoto: aua lava nei e manatu ia te oe lava e togafitia i le PMO vaisu. O le auala e masani ai ona ou mafaufau ia te aʻu lava ia, o se mea e toe faʻafouina ai le faʻatagaina o le porn. Ou te manao e aloese mai soʻo se ituaiga o faʻanoanoa e ono mafua ai ona ou pauu atu i le mailei. Mo aso uma o totoe o loʻu olaga o le a avea aʻu ma se tagata faʻamalosi malosi e taumafai e nofo mama ma ola i se olaga atoa.

Faʻafetai mo le lagolago tagata uma ma i soo se tasi o tauivi e alu: alu i ai! Afai e manaʻomia e seisi ni fesoasoani faʻapitoa i luga o metotia na ou mauaina e aoga i le tumau ai i le mama, lagona le saoloto e fesili. O le a ou le alu i auiliiliga iinei i le autu pou aua ua uma ona avea ma lapoʻa puipui o tusitusiga.

TLDR: Ua ou mama mo le 90 aso, ou te lagona le ofoofogia, o le olaga e 100% sili atu le matautia nai lo le taimi muamua.

90 aso - maoae le ola faaleleia

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Lipoti o le aso 60 (self.NoFap)

by Avia

Faʻamataʻu: o loʻu olaga e sili atu ona lelei. Ou te lagona e pei o se tamaloa. Ua ou fiafia. E fiafia loʻu toalua. Ou te lagona le vavalalata i loʻu toalua. Ou te fiafia i loʻu taimi faatasi ma loʻu toʻalua (taimi uma taimi ma taimi masani). O le ola, faigofie, ua sili atu ona tumu i le ola.

<--break->” src=”https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/spacer.gif” title=”<--break-->“>I have had some struggles recently. The temptations seem to be coming back and trying to trick me into viewing stuff that would probably be considered super softcore. On second thought, it probably wouldn’t even be considered porn, just sexy pictures.</p><p>It’s been a struggle but I’m saying no and even in the moments where I looked at some stuff that I know wasn’t good for me I kept my hands out of my pants. That right there is a huge victory in my mind. When I started on nofap one of the rules I set for myself that I would only touch myself for pleasure in conjunction with activities with my wife. In the past anytime I had an erection I felt like I HAD to MO. Now I seem to have the self control to not touch myself that way.</p><p>My goal is simple: no more porn for the rest of my life, and probably no fapping for the rest of my life. I want my sexual pleasure and excitement to be tied to my wife. It seems to be working, because my wife excites me so much more than before now. Even the hint of a striptease gets me super hard.</p><p>For anyone who might be struggling with constant relapse know that there IS hope. I was trapped in the PMO cycle for over a decade until I finally broke free.</p><p>The best advice I can give anyone struggling is to consider, seriously, how important being free of this addiction is to you. What sacrifices are you willing to make?</p><p>In my case, the sacrifice that has helped the most was choosing to block all social media and all image databases via K9 (my wife holds the password for me so I cannot change the settings without her help). This severely limits what I can access and makes it easier to stay clean because I know if I do want to find junk to look at it’s going to take a lot of work. Making access to porn difficult has made staying clean much easier.</p><p>TLDR: staying clean of porn and fapping has improved my life dramatically.</p></div></div><p> </p></div><footer class=