Chinyorwa ichi (muturikiri weGoogle) anotora nyanzvi nhatu dzinoti porn iri kukonzera matambudziko epabonde: Socionomen Inger Björklund, psychotherapist kuRFSU Clinic; Stefan Arver chiremba mukuru uye mukuru weCentre for Andrology uye Zvepabonde Mishonga paKarolinska University Hospital muHudding; Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Goran Sedvallson.
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Mumwe murume ane makore gumi nemapfumbamwe anonyora pane nätsajt akanzwa kuti chimwe chinhu hachina "kunyatsoita" uye akatsvaga ruzivo rwekuti sei aisakwanisa kuwana chinzvimbo kana aine musikana wake. Akanga achingofara kana aiona zvinonyadzisira uye achiita bonhora panguva. Kana mukadzi akashama akarara pamberi pake pamubhedha, hapana chakaitika, iye nemamiriro ese anga asina kukwana kufara.
Socionomen Inger Björklund, chiremba wepfungwa paRFSU Clinic muStockholm kwemakore mashanu, anoti vakawanda uye vaduku vaduku nevarume vakuru vanoita sevari kugadzirisa matambudziko mushure mekuona zvinonyadzisira zvakawanda. Iye nevamwe vaaishanda navo havana kufunga kuti zvinetso zvisingabatsiri zvepabonde pasina kuedza kuona dambudziko mumamiriro ezvinhu.
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Anoti izvo zvinoitika dzimwe nguva pamwe chikamu chinogona kunge chiri pamusoro pazvo nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana zvinoita kunge zvinotyisa kuva nehukama hwepedyo nemumwe munhu. Zvino zviri nyore kurarama kunze kwavo kwepabonde mune chaiyo yekufungidzira nyika.
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Pane imwe sarudzo yemhando iyi yechinetso here? Hungu, mhinduro Inger Björklund. Chinhu chakakosha ndechekuziva kuti iwe wakaramba uchiita zvakaipa. Danho rokutanga nderokuzvidzivirira maitiro avo sechinetso kana chimwe chinhu chaunoda kuchinja.
- Kana iwe uchida rubatsiro kuputsa iyo pateni uye edza kunzwisisa zvakawanda nezvekuti zvinokwana sei pamwechete kuti utaure kurapwa senzira yekuwanazve hupenyu hwekuita bonde.
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Paaizoita bonde kekutanga, aive "asiri kukwidza Willie" uye "blåvägrade" kuti vakaedza zvakadii. Jaya rakatanga kutsvaga ruzivo online. Ikoko akawana akawanda eakafanana matambudziko. Anoenderera achiti:
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Stefan Arver chiremba mukuru uye mukuru weCentre for Andrology uye Zvepabonde Mishonga paKarolinska University Hospital muHuddinge. Iye akanzwa nezvechiitiko che "porn impotence" iyo munhu anofumura zvakanyanya nezve bonde kuburikidza ne porn zvekuti iye pakupedzisira anorasa kufarira.
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Pachipatara muKarlskrona, kugamuchira zvekuita zvepabonde kubvira 1984. Mutungamiri Goran Sedvallson, ane ruzivo rwakawanda sechirwere chepfungwa uye chiremba wepfungwa, anotaura kuti avo vanoona zvinonyadzisira zvakanyanya vanopedzisira vaine maitiro asina kunaka.
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Dambudziko nehupombwe kushaya simba richakura, zvichipiwa kuwedzera kuwanikwa, tenda Goran Sedvallson. Iye nevamwe vake muKarlskrona vakatora gore rapfuura vachipesana nevamwe vashanyi vatsva makumi mashanu. Varwere vaive pakati pemakore gumi nemasere nemakumi masere - uye vese vaifunga kuti vaive nematambudziko akakomba nehunhu hwavo.
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