COMMENTS: Chaizvoizvo chinyakare kudzidza pane varume vane izvo zvinonzi 'psychogenic' zvepabonde zvinetso (ED, DE, kusakwanisa kumutswa nevakabatana chaivo). Nepo iyo data yakatokura kupfuura 2003, kubvunzurudzwa kwakaratidza kushivirira uye kukwira kwakabatana ne "erotica" kushandiswa:
Vatori vechikamu pachavo vaive vatanga kusava nechokwadi kana kungave nekubatana pakati pekuita bonhora nekunetseka kwavakaita. Jndinoshamisika kuti kuvimba nekuita bonhora uye erotica panguva yemakore maviri ekusafambidzana isati yatanga dambudziko rake kune zvakakonzera here:
J:. . . iyo makore maviri nguva ndanga ndichiita bonhora apo ini ndanga ndisiri muhukama hwese, umm uye pamwe paive nemifananidzo yakawanda paterevhizheni, saka zvaisave kuti iwe waifanira kutenga magazini - kana - inongowanikwa chete.
Zvimwe zvinyorwa:
Kunyangwe kukurudziro ichigona kukura kubva pane zvavo, vatori vechikamu vazhinji vaishandisa visual kana zvinyorwa erotica kusimudzira fungidziro yavo uye kuwedzera kunaka. Jim, uyo 'asina kunaka pakuona kwepfungwa', anotsanangura mabudiro ake anovandudzwa ne erotica panguva yekuita bonhora:
J: Ndinoreva kazhinji kazhinji pane nguva apo Ndiri kukurudzira pachezvangu pane imwe nzira yekubatsira; kuona chirongwa cheTV, kuverenga magazini, chimwe chinhu chakadaro.
B: Dzimwe nguva kufara kwekuva nevamwe vanhu kwakakwana, asi makore zvaanofamba iwe unoda bhuku, kana iwe ukaona firimu, kana uine imwe yemagazini akasviba aya, saka unovhara maziso ako uye unofungidzira pamusoro pezvinhu izvi.
Zvimwe zvakanyanyisa:
Kubudirira kweanogumbura kukurudzira mukugadzira bonde kunakidzwa kwakaonekwa naGillan (1977). Iko kushandiswa kwe erotica nevatori vechikamu kwakabvumidzwa kuita bonhora mukati. Jim anoziva huwandu hwakakwirisa hwekumuka panguva yekuita bonhora uchienzaniswa nekuita zvepabonde nemumwe wake.
Panguva yekurara nemudiwa wake, Jim anotadza kusvika pamazinga erotic arousal akakwana kutangisa orgasm, panguva yekuita bonhora kushandisa erotica kunowedzera zvakanyanya mazinga erotic arousal uye orgasm inowanikwa.. Kufungidzira uye erotica kwakawedzera erotic arousal uye kwaishandiswa zvakasununguka panguva yekuita bonhora asi kushandiswa kwayo kwakadziviswa panguva yekuita bonde nemudiwa.
Pepa rinoenderera:
Vazhinji vatori vechikamu 'havagone kufungidzira' kuita bonhora pasina kushandisa kwekufungidzira kana erotica, uye vazhinji vakaziva kukosha kwacho zvishoma nezvishoma kuwedzera fungidziro (Slosarz, 1992) mukuedza kuchengetedza huwandu hweanousal nekudzivirira 'boredom'. Jack anorondedzera kuti akave akaomeswa sei kune zvake fungidziro:
J: Pakupedzisira mumakore mashanu, gumi gumi, ini, ini, Ndingadai ndakaomeswa kuti ndikurudzirwe kwakaringana nefungidziro ipi neipi yandinogona kuzvisika ndega.
Kubva pane erotica, fungidziro dzaJack dzave dzakanyanya kuvezwa; zviitiko zvinosanganisira vakadzi vane chaiyo 'yemhando yemhando' kunyanya mafomu ekukurudzira. Iko kwechokwadi kwemamiriro ezvinhu aJack uye vanobatirana kwakasiyana kwazvo, uye anotadza kuenzanisa yake yakanaka yakagadzirwa pane hwaro hwekuona zvinonyadzisira (Slosarz, 1992); mumwe wako chaiye anogona kunge asiri kumutswa zvakakwana.
Paul anofananidza kuwedzera kunofambira mberi kwemafungiro ake nekudiwa kwake zvishoma nezvishoma 'yakasimba' erotica kuburitsa mhinduro imwechete:
P: Iwe unogumburwa, zvakaita sevaya mabhuruu mafirimu; unofanira kusimba uye kusimba zvinhu nguva dzese, kuti uzvifadze.
Nekuchinja izvo zvirimo, fungidziro dzaPaul dzinochengeta hunhu hwavo hwakaipa; kunyangwe ndichiita bonhora kakawanda pazuva, anotsanangura kuti:
P: Iwe haugone kuramba uchiita chinhu chimwe chete, unonetswa neimwe mamiriro uye saka unofanirwa ku (shandura) - yandaigara ndichigona pakadaro. . . Ini ndaingogara munyika yezviroto.
Kubva kuzvikamu zvakapfupikiswa zvepepa:
Uku kuongorora kwakakomba kwezviitiko zvevatori vechikamu panguva yekuita bonhora uye pabonde nemumwe kwakaratidza kuvepo kwekusaita pabonde pabonde nemurume / mukadzi, uye kuita pabonde panguva yebonyora. Dzidziso mbiri dzakabatana dzakabuda uye dzakapfupikiswa pano… Panguva yebonde remumwe, vatori vechikamu vasina basa vanotarisa pazvinhu zvisina kukodzera; kupindirana kwekuziva kunokanganisa kubva pakukwanisa kutarisa pane zvisina kufanira. Kuziva kwekuziva kwakakanganiswa uye bonde rekupindura rinotadziswa zvichikonzera kusagadzikana pabonde.
Mukushaikwa kwechirume chinoshanda pabonde, vatori vechikamu vava kuita bonhora zvichibva. Kupindura pabonde kwave kuita. kudzidza dzidziso hakuna kutumira yakatarwa mamiriro, anongoratidza mamiriro ekuwanikwa kweiyo maitiro. Ichi chidzidzo chakaratidza kuswera pamwe nehunyanzvi hwekuita bonhora, uye kugona kutarisisa nezvekuita basa kwakakodzera kuziva (inotsigirwa nekushandiswa kwekufungidzira uye erotica panguva yekuita bonhora), seizvo zvinhu zvine mamiriro.
Ichi chidzidzo chakaratidza kukosha kwekubvunzwa kwakadzama mumativi maviri makuru; maitiro uye kuziva. Chekutanga dhezheni yeiyo chaiyo yakasarudzika yekuita bonhora frequency, maitiro uye inoperekedza erotica uye fungidziro yakapa nzwisiso yemaitiro ekuita bonde emunhu ave nemamiriro ezvinhu pane yakatarwa nzira yekurudziro; mamiriro akadaro anoita sekuwedzera matambudziko panguva yekurara nemumwe wako. Zvinobvumwa kuti sechikamu chekuumbwa kwavo, varapi vanowanzo bvunza kana munhu ari kuita bonhora: ichi chidzidzo chinoratidza kuti kubvunza chaizvo kuti maitiro emunhu ari kuita tsika yekuita bonhora akaita sei anopa ruzivo rwakakodzera.
Ichi chidzidzo cha2003 chiri pa YBOP runyorwa rweanopfuura makumi mana ezvidzidzo zvinobatanidza porn kushandisa / porn kupindwa muropa nezvinetso zvebonde uye kudzikisira kumutsa kune zvekuita zvepabonde. Ongorora: Iyo kutanga 7 zvidzidzo mune urongwa zvinoratidza causation, sezvo vatori vechikamu vakabvisa kushandiswa kwepabonde uye vakaporesa zvirwere zvepabonde zvisingaperi.
KUTANGA
(2003) 18: 4, 447-471,
DOI: 10.1080/1468199031000099442
Basa rekuita bonhora muhurume hwepfungwa hwepfungwa kusagadzikana (MPSD) hwakaregeredzwa nevanoongorora uye varapi; ichi chidzidzo chemhando yepamusoro chinotsvaga chinobatanidza kuburikidza nekubvunzana kwega kwega nevekiriniki vanhu vachishandisa dzidziso yakadzika senzira yekushandisa uye maitiro ekuongorora Kunyangwe sarudzo ye zvinoshanda Kuita zvepabonde nemumwe wako kwakaratidzirwa nevatori vechikamu, data redu rinoratidza izvozvo bonhora kutsamira inokura semhedzisiro yekuita kwavo bonde vava nemamiriro pane yakasarudzika maitiro, uye inosimbiswa nezvikamu zvekuziva zvinoratidza hunhu hwakasiyana panguva yekuita bonhora uye pabonde nemumwe. Hukama hwezvinhu zviviri zvekuziva uye zvehunhu zvebonde mhinduro zvinoongororwa, uye yeanodzidzisa modhi yakaratidzwa. Zvirongwa zvekuenderera mberi nekudzidza zvinokurudzirwa, uye nemazano akaitwa ekuwedzera kwekuumbwa uye kuronga kwekurapa kweMPSD.
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