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Mazhinji mhedzisiro isingadiwe ye porno inokonzerwa nemamiriro ekuita bonde kune iyo internet yezvinyorwa zvemukati uye dhizaini system. Mienzaniso inosanganisira vamwe vashandisi 'morphing zvido zvebonde, porn-inokonzeresa ED, kurasikirwa kwekukwezva kune chaivo vadyidzani (kunyangwe kutenda mune yako asexuality), kunonoka ejaculation, anorgasmia, inoda kukurira kwakakura kuti uwane iyo imwechete inomutsa nyika. Kwemakore nyanzvi dzakaedza kukwezvera kutarisa kune ichi chiitiko, uye humwe humbowo hwehutano hwepabonde. Ona semuenzaniso:

Kana vanoona zvinonyadzisira vanoona zvinonyadzisira zvichikurudzira nekugutsa pane kuita bonde nevavanodanana navo, vangangonetsekana kusangana nemaronda panguva yepabonde. …

Zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandiswa kakawanda zvinogona kunge zvichinyanya kusimbisa [orgasm kuoma] pakati pevakadzi vechidiki.

Kunyangwe kuda kufambidzana kwekuita bonde nemudiwa kuchiratidzwa nevatori vechikamu, yedu data inoratidza kuti kutsigira bonhora kunoitika semhedzisiro yekuita kwavo zvepabonde zvichinge zvine mamiriro pane yakasarudzika maitiro, uye inosimbiswa nezvinhu zvekuziva zvichiratidza hunhu hwakasiyana panguva yekuita bonhora uye bonde.

Nekuda kwekuti [varwere] vedu vakataura kuti vakasangana nezvakakora uye nekumutswa neInternet zvinonyadzisira, asi zvisiri izvo, kutsvagisa kunodiwa kuratidza mamiriro ekuita zvepabonde zvisingaite sechinhu chinoita kuti mazuva ano kuwedzere kumatambudziko ekuita zvepabonde uye kuderera kwepabonde kune varume vari pasi pechirume. 40.

Kupindwa muropa kwekuita bonhora, kazhinji kunoperekedzwa nekuvimba necyber-zvinonyadzisira, kwave kuonekwa sekutora chinzvimbo mune etiology yemamwe marudzi erectile dysfunction kana coital anejaculation. Izvo zvakakosha kuti uzvioneke zvakarongeka kuvapo kweiyi tsika kwete kuitisa kuongororwa nekubviswa, kuitira kuti ubatanidze tsika-dzinopwanya deconditioning matekiniki ekugadzirisa aya mabasa.

Zvepabonde:

Vanoverengeka vatori vechikamu vasina kuzivisa kufararira kwevacheche vasati vamboona vana vakatenda kuti kuratidzwa kwakawanda kwezvinhu izvi 'kwakazvipa' ivo kuti vafarire vana.

Sezvo vanenge vese vatori vechikamu vakashuma chishuwo chekuita mhosva dzebonde, zvinogoneka kuti izvi zvakapa vatori vechikamu kukudziridza kufarira CP, kwete muvana pachavo (uye nekuwedzera kushungurudzwa kwevana pabonde). Vatori vechikamu vakapa tsanangudzo dzakasiyana dzemanzwisisiro avakaona maitiro aya ekugadzirisa.

Imhando yekuti ... kana iwe uine yako yekutanga sip ye gin, kana chero. Iwe unofunga, "izvi zvinotyisa", asi iwe unoramba uchienda uye pakupedzisira unotanga kuda gin. (Johani).

Matunhu ari muuropi hwangu aive ane chekuita nekuita bonde, macircuit aive achipfura pandakanga ndakatarisa mifananidzo yevana ... makore ekuita izvo pamwe zvakakonzera kuti zvinhu muuropi hwangu zvichinje. (Ben)

Sezvo kufarira kwavo muCP kuchiramba kuchikura, vatori vechikamu vakamboona zvese zvinonyadzisira zvevakuru nezvevana vakashuma kuzviwana zvichikunetsa kumutswa nekuita zvepabonde kunosanganisira vakuru.

Pakukosha kwechiso, iyi yekugadzirisa mamiriro ezvinhu ingaita senge inopesana nechiitiko chekugara chakatsanangurwa. Nekudaro, zvakakosha kuti unzwisise kuti kune vanhu vasingafarire zvebonde kuvana, maitiro ekuita airatidzika kunge achiitika pakati pekutanga kwekuona CP uye vatori vechikamu 'chiitiko chekuzoita zvinhu izvi.

Kuongorora kwakaratidza kuti iro rine makore gumi nemana kusvika makumi matatu emakore rakaburitsa nzira yepamusoro yekufungidzira kubva pabonde ichiteverwa nevaya 18-30, zvino avo vane makore 31-50 ezera. Taura zviri nyore, iro zera reboka rine rakanyanya uwandu hwekushandisa zvinonyadzisira (uye ndiani akakura achishandisa tube masayiti) rondedzera huwandu hwepamusoro hwepfungwa dzinopesana zvepabonde (kubatwa chibharo, fetishism, zvepabonde nevana). Zvakatorwa kubva muchikamu chehurukuro zvinoratidza kuti kushandisa zvinonyadzisira kungave chikonzero:

Pamusoro pezvo, tsananguro inogona kuitika yekuti nei vari pasi pemakore makumi matatu ekubvumidza pfungwa dzepabonde dzakatsauka kupfuura idzo dzinopfuura makore makumi matatu dzinogona kuve nekuda kwekuwedzera kwekushandisa zvinonyadzisira pakati pevarume vechidiki. Vatsvakurudzi vakaona kuti zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandiswa zvakawedzera kubva kuma30, zvichikwira kubva pa30% kusvika pa1970%, neshanduko nekufamba kwenguva iri diki kune evakuru mazera ayo anoshandiswa nekuona zvinonyadzisira (Mutengo, Patterson, Regnerus, & Walley, 45). Pamusoro pezvo, mune ongororo yekuona zvinonyadzisira kushandiswa pakati pevechidiki vechiSweden ve61, isingasviki chikamu chimwe muzvitatu chevatori vechikamu vakashuma vachiona zvinonyadzisira zvebonde zvechisimba, mhuka nevana (Svedin, ermankerman, & Priebe, 2016).

Kunyangwe kuratidzwa kwezvinonyadzisira nekushandiswa zvisina kuongororwa mukuongororwa kwazvino, avo vari pasi pemakore makumi matatu mumuenzaniso wedu vanogona kunge vachiona zvinonyadzisira, pamwe nemifungo inonyadzisira yezvinonyadzisira, kupfuura avo vanopfuura makore makumi mashanu neshanu sekushandiswa kwezvinonyadzisira muvanhu vakuru. kuve anogamuchirwa munharaunda (Carroll et al., 30).

Mazhinji multivariable akaipa binomial regressions akashandiswa kuongorora kusangana pakati pekushandisa zvinonyadzisira uye chero hupenyu hwehupenyu hweIPV, kutonga kwevakadzi, zera boka, dzinza / dzinza, hukama hwehukama, chinzvimbo chedzidzo, chinzvimbo chemauto, kunwa zvine njodzi, kushushikana, kushandiswa kwekusimudzira, kushandiswa kwekushungurudza , uye post-traumatic stress disorder. Pakati pevanhu vakaongororwa, 41% yemasoja akataura chero zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandiswa pasvondo, uye 9.6% yakashuma ichiita chero fomu yeIPV. Masoja akataura nezvekushandisa zvinonyadzisira aive pakati pe1.72- uye 3.56-akapeta mukana mukuru wekutaurira chero hupenyu hwehupenyu hwe IPV, kutonga kwecovariates.

Zvimwe zvezvidzidzo zvevarume 'erectile kudzvanya kwaive,

yakabatana nehupamhi hwehuwandu hwekutsvaga uye hunova neruzivo rwepabonde.

Varume vari kushaya erectile kudzvinyirira vakanga vapedza nguva yakawandisa mumazariro uye mudzimba dzokugezera apo zvinonyadzisira zvaive "omnipresent, "Uye"vachiramba vachitamba". Vatsvakurudzi vakati:

Kukurukurirana nehurukuro idzi kwakasimbisa pfungwa yedu kuti mune imwe yadzo yakanyanya kufungidzirwa nekutakura mafungidziro yakaratidza kuti yakaguma nekuterera kwakaderera kwe "vanilla sex" kuora uye kuwedzera kwechidikanwi chekuita uye kuchinja, pane dzimwe nguva pamwe chete nechido chekunyatsotsanangura mhando dzekukurudzira kuitira kuti vamuke.

Ichi chidzidzo nezve mamiriro ezvepabonde muchihuta chinoratidza kuti vanhurume vanogona kuitiswa bonde kune chinotsiva wepabonde chaiye (chinhu chejira teri). Sezvineiwo, avo vanoteedzera (kureva., "Ratidza mhinduro yekupedzisa") vachishandisa chinhu ichi vanoramba vachichiwana chichimutsa, vangave kana kwete ivo vanowana mikana yenguva dzose yepabonde nevakadzi chaivo.

Maitiro akasarudzika maitiro ehurume zvihuta [uyo akateedzera nechinhu] haana kuratidza zvakawanda, kana zviripo, kuderera panguva yekupera kwemiedzo kuti kana kwete ivo vanhurume vakawana mukana wekuwana mukadzi mumakomba avo epamba panguva yechikamu chekutsakatika.

Saizvozvowo, varume vazhinji vanoita mamiriro avo ekuita zvepabonde kumutsa kune zvisirizvo zvekuita (porn), uye vozowana vanoita zvepabonde, rondedzero inoenderera (dzimwe nguva kunyangwe inomanikidza) kushandiswa kwe porn.

Izvo zvihuta izvo zvisina kuwana mukana wevakadzi zvakaratidzika kukudziridza kumanikidza kushandiswa kwechinhu (kunyanya kugara uchiita). Kuwanda kwekuteedzana kwavo nechinhu kwakawedzera zvakanyanya. Muchidimbu, iyo yekumisikidza yekumisikidza yakave a primary kukurudzira, kwakafanana kune waunofambidzana naye chaiye, asi sezviri pachena kushoma kugutsa.

Vatsvakurudzi vanokurukura zvinorehwa nekutsvagisa kwavo kuita bonhora kupindwa muropa / kumanikidzwa, inova imwe yenzvimbo dzinonetsa munzvimbo dzeCSBD (Kumanikidzwa Kuita Zvepabonde Dzvinyiriro).

Kana izvo zvakakosha zvevanhu zvisina kugutsikana sehukama, hukama hwepedyo uye hukama hwepabonde nemunhu waunoda, vanogona kutsvaga kutsiva kugutsikana. Chero chinhu kana chiito chinogona kupa mukana wekupindirana pabonde mhinduro dzinogona kupa kusimbisa kwekushushikana kunotungamira mukumanikidza kuita bonyora chiitiko kana hunhu hwehukadzi.

… Kufamba nechinhu chinotsiva hakugutsi zvachose uye hakubvise zvachose mamiriro ezvinhu. Naizvozvo, iyo inoda mamiriro evatori vechikamu muNo madzimai subgroups zvishoma nezvishoma inowedzera panguva yekutsakatika chikamu. Izvi zvinoguma nekuwedzera kunoenderana kweyakagadziriswa mhinduro kune iyo [chinotsiva, chakasimudzira chakasimudzira]. Muenzaniso wedu unofungidzira kuti kuwedzera uku kwepabonde [mhinduro dzekupedzisa, kuteedzera] kuchazongoonekwa chete kana (1) mhuka dzikabvisirwa biologically yakakosha [kurudziro] (kurarama mukadzi), (2) kubvisirwa kunounza kudiwa kuri kuwedzera kweizvozvo [kukurudzira ], uye (3) pane chimwe chinhu chinotsiva icho vatori vechikamu vanogona kutevedzera nacho kudzikisa zvavanoda nyika.

Nhoroondo dzekushungurudzwa dzinoita sedzinonyanya kuwanda kune vanorara nevana vanoda kushungurudzwa nemukomana. Nhengo dzeboka iri dzine hunhu hwakati wandei hunovasiyanisa nevamwe vanoita zvebonde. Maitiro avo ekutsauka anowanzova nekutanga kwekutanga, vanogona kushaya chero chekufarira kubvuma kurara nevanhu vakuru (iri iboka iro Groth anotsanangura se "vakagadziriswa" vapari vemhosva), maitiro avo anowanzo kumanikidzira zvakanyanya uye anoramba kurapwa, uye ivo vanowanzoita. kuva nevazhinji vakawirwa nenjodzi. Mune imwe nhevedzano, boka revangochani 146 pamwero mukuru munharaunda rakanga raita avhareji ye279 kurwisa mumwe nomumwe. Mishumo yekufungidzira kubva kumapurogiramu akawanda ekurapa inoratidza kuti nepo kuongororwa kwepfungwa kwechero rudzi kusingawanzo muboka iri, nhoroondo dzekushungurudzwa kwepabonde dzinonyanya kuwanda, kubva pa40 kusvika 60 muzana. Mune chimwe chirongwa chokurapa varwere, vashandi vakafungidzira kuti 55 muzana yevanoshinha nevana vakabatwa zvisina kufanira, kazhinji kazhinji nevareri vevana vechirume. Vakaona zvakare kuti varume vechidiki vanobata vakadzi chibharo havaite seane nhoroondo dzekushungurudzwa zvakanyanya, asi izvozvo majaya aibata chibharo varume vakapotsa vabatwa zvisina kufanira muvatano. Zvakatorwa pamwechete, idzi data dzinoratidza mukana wekuti kushungurudzwa pabonde kwevacheche muvakomana kungave chinhu chakakosha panjodzi yekukura kwehunhu hwekushungurudza pabonde hunonangana nevarume. Kutenderera kwedzidziso yekushungurudza kunogona kuve kune rimwe simba rekufungidzira rehuwandu uhu.

Icho chiitiko chega chega chemhuka nehunhu hwepabonde uye mubairo wepabonde uyo unogadzira kusimba kwemhinduro dzinoitwa kune zvekuita zvepabonde.

Somatosensory cues [senge kupfeka juzi rekonzo panguva yekusangana pabonde kwekutanga] kunogona kuratidza kunakidzwa kwepabonde kana kuvharidzira mumakonzo echirume zvichienderana neyakaitika nhoroondo.

SEM. Vatori vechikamu nekuwedzera kudyiwa kwes bareback SEM vakaratidza kukwirira kwakanyanya kweUAI [kusadzivirirwa kurara pabonde) uye I-UAI [yekuisa anal pabonde] mushure mekugadzirisa zvimwe zvinhu vachishandisa kuwanda manhamba.

Chiitiko, kwete hudiki kana magene, inogadzirisa wega mubairo-wedunhu wiring. Uku kutsvaga kunoshamisa kunopa nzvimbo mune kusahadzika mazhinji akareba akafungidzira. Muchidimbu, kupindwa muropa HAKUNA kwakanyanya kugarwa nhaka, zvido zvebonde HAZVI kuiswa mumatombo, uye zviitiko zvine hunyanzvi padanho rekare rehuropi. Izvi zvinoreva here kuti izvo zvatino tarisa kukwezva kwedu pabonde kuti zvigadzire zvido zvenguva yemberi? Zvinoita saizvozvo.

“Zvinoshamisa, nzvimbo yemafaro uye hunhu hwainotungamira zvakavezwa zvakanyanya nezviitiko zvehupenyu kwete nemajini edu. "Izvi zvinonetsa kufungidzira kwekare kuti dopamine basa rinogona kugarwa nhaka nenzira kwayo." -Paul Stokes, MD, PhD

A Safron, V Klimaj

Kugara nhaka kwakaganhurirwa kunoratidza kuti kutarisisa hakugone kutsanangurwa zvizere nemajini.

... chimiro chinonakidza chekuita zvepabonde chinoreva kuti kudzidza mubairo kunogona kuve nemhedzisiro yakakura pane zvepabonde (Hoffmann & Safron, 2012). Chokwadi, vamwe vakakakavadzana kuti classical uye inoshanda conditioning inogona kunge iri nzira yepakati iyo zvido zvepabonde zvevanhu vakuru zvinogadziriswa muvanhu pamwe nemamwe marudzi.

... misiyano iyi inogonawo kubva muhuropi hwepurasitiki - kugona kwehuropi kuzvishandura pachayo kuburikidza neruzivo - pane kukonzerwa nehurongwa hwemahomoni ebonde.

…Nekufamba kwenguva, yakaunganidzwa conditioning inogona kuburitsa zvakati dzikamei zvaunofarira

…Kana mwero wakakwana wekugadzirisa waitika, izvi zvinokurudzira zvinogona kufambisa mifungo yenguva dzose, fungidziro, uye pakupedzisira maitiro, izvo zvinogona kuburitsa zvimwe zviitiko zvekusimbisa. Uye nekuda kwekusiyana kweiyo genital arousal dynamics inotsanangurwa pamusoro apa, varume vanogona kunge vaine mukana wekuwana iyi 'yakakosha misa' yekumisikidza mukati mahwindo akakosha ekukura kwepurasitiki.

…Magadzirirwo ekutanga uye zvinyorwa zvinoisa nhanho yezvinoitika gare gare (Pfaus et al., 2012), uye nekudaro mamiriro akatenderedza kusangana kwekutanga pabonde angangove nemukana uyu 'wekutanga-mufambisi' mukuumba hunhubu. Uyezve, nekukurumidza nzira yekudzidza inotanga mukusimudzira (Safron, 2019), iyo nguva yakawanda yainofanirwa kushanda uye nekudaro kuunganidza nhoroondo yakawedzera yemamiriro ekugadzirisa. Uyezve, zviitiko zvepakutanga zvinogona kutora mukana wehukuru hwepurasitiki hwehuropi hudiki, huchiri munguva yekushanduka-shanduka nekuda kwezvinhu zvakaita sekuchinja mahormone, kufambira mberi kwemyelination, uye kuenderera mberi neuronal uye synaptic pruning.

…kusvirwa kwenhengo dzesikarudzi kunoshanda sechinhu chine simba uye chakavimbika chekugadzirisa chinosimudzira zvido zvekuti dzingave hunhu hwekutsungirira.

…Pfaus nevamwe vaanoshanda navo vakaratidza kuti zvakawanda zvehunhu hwekuita kusvirana zvinogona kuumbwa neruzivo, uye kuti kutanga kusiririsa kunogona kuve kunopa mubairo wepabonde kuburikidza nekugadzirisa. Mienzaniso yehutano hwepabonde inotangira kubva kumakonzo ane "mafesi" evelcro-jaketi dzavaipfeka panguva yekutanga kusangana pabonde, kusvika kumakonzo anoshuva kunhuhwirira kwekutanga kusingaite kunhuhwirira kwecadaverine. Aya maitiro ekuita zvepabonde akadhindwa akaonekwa mune akawanda mamwe marudzi zvakare

Kunyangwe zvichangobva kuedza zviratidziro zvekusangana kwevanhu pabonde hakuna kuwanda kana kusimba, kukwezva pabonde kwakaratidza kuve kunogoneka muvarume nevakadzi.

Mamiriro aripo ezvinyorwa anoratidza kuti RDoC- positive valence masisitimu zvinhu zvakakosha muPPU. Nekutarisira mubairo, humbowo hunoratidza kukurudzira kukurudzira kune kukurudzira kuzivisa mibairo yepabonde kune varwere vane PPU, asi hazvisati zvanyatsojeka kuti ndeapi mamiriro ezvinhu anobatsira pakuita uku. Saizvozvo, ongororo zhinji dzakawana kuwedzera kwekutanga kupindura kumubairo, sekuratidzwa mumhinduro dzeneural uye kutarisisa / kuswedera kune kusarudzika kumibairo yepabonde inoenderana nePPU zviratidzo. Izvi zvinogona kunge zvakakonzerwa nevarwere vasati vadzidza nhoroondo nemibairo iyi. Zvidzidzo zvekukosha kwemubairo zvakashuma kuwedzera kusiyanisa kwemaitiro emubairo wepabonde ane chekuita nePPU. Izvi zvinogona kuratidza kunzwisiswa kwakawedzera kune ruzivo rwekukosha kwemubairo wepabonde izvo zvinogona kunge zviri nhanho kana mhedzisiro ye PPU. Pakupedzisira, Zvidzidzo zvemubairo zvekudzidza zvakaratidza mhinduro dzakagadziriswa kune zvinokurudzira zvine chekuita nemubairo wepabonde mune classical conditioning paradigms.


Porn ongororo 2019: sei internet zvinonyadzisira iri kuchinja nzira isu pabonde


Izvo zvidzidzo zvakawanda zvinopa kukwira mune vamwe vashandisi vanoita zvinonyadzisira kungave kwakakodzera pano futi. Munoona Pamusoro pezvidzidzo zveCNNX zvinowanikwa zvinowirirana nekuwedzera kwekushandisa zvinonyadzisira (kushivirira), kugara kune zvinonyadzisira, uye kunyange kubvisa zviratidzo.

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