Mune Porn Ipapo uye Iye Zvino: Tigashire KuBhongo Kudzidziswa Ini ndinotarisa kuti sei uye sei porn kubva internet iri yakamanikidza, zvakaoma kuti umire kutarisa.
Ona zvakawanda zvataurwa pazasi penyaya.
"Tiri chizvarwa chekutanga kuita bonyora kuruboshwe here?"
A Reddit poster ichangobva kubvunzwa, "Tisu chizvarwa chekutanga kuita bonyora kuruboshwe nekuti maoko edu erudyi ari kuongorora zvinonyadzisira?" Ehe, chizvarwa chose chiri kuita "ambi-wackstrous" sekutaura kwakaita imwe ngoro.
Pane imwe nguva, kuita bonhora kwakadaidzira kufungidzira kwakawanda. Kwaidzidzira chinhu chaicho: "Kutanga ndichaita izvi… uyezve ..." Hapachina.
“Ini ndiri wechizvarwa chekupedzisira kutanga kuita bonyora vasati vave neInternet. Ini handigone kufungidzira kuva nekwaniso yekumiririrwa kwekuona kweese anokwanisa kuravira pabonde ndisati ndanzwa chishuwo chekuzvibaya. Pandaive mudiki, isu tese taive neshungu dzekutarisa maboobs, asi iwo mukana waingouya kamwe kana mbiri mbiri dzinobwinya pagore [kuburikidza nekatalog]. Chokwadi ndinoshamisika kuti matinji-pombi anokanganisa sei zvizvarwa zvinotevera. ”
Kuchinja uku kunorevei? Internet zvinonyadzisa kushandisa zvakanyanya kufanana nevhidhiogaming kupfuura zvepabonde chaiyo. Inobatanidza majini ako 'Nha. 1 yekutanga - uye muhombe mubayiro wepanyama (bonde) - pamwe nekoniichichinja-chinja, inogara ichingoitika-uye-inoshamisa kuendesa kwe "World of Warcraft." Ruoko rwako rweruboshwe ruri kuwedzera kumanikidza uye kumhanya kupfuura kusangana. Ruoko rwako rwerudyi ruri kubaya mu "search mode," apo maziso ako anodonha kubva pane imwe skrini kuenda kune inotevera uye kuchema kunozadza nzeve dzako. Hapana zvekufungidzira orchestration inodiwa.
Zvinonyadzisira, uye nzira iyo inoendeswa nayo kuhupi hwedu, zvachinja. Maiwe, uropi hwedu hausati hwashanduka, uye izvi zvinogona kukonzera matambudziko asingatarisirwe:
“Ndave ndichishandisa zvinonyadzisira kwemakore. Ini sekungoda kuona vanhu vachiita bonde. Dambudziko rangu rakawedzera pamusoro pemwedzi gumi nemana yapfuura pandakawana Internet-inomhanya. Zvese zvakangoerekana zvaitika, ndakaenda kubva kungoona mifananidzo online, kuenda kunoona mavhidhiyo uye mabhaisikopo online ipapo. Handina kumbobvira ndazvipa kufunga kwakanyanya, asi mushure mekutarisa kwezuva nezuva-dzimwe nguva kunyangwe ndichirovera kwemaawa kumagumo ndichiona mavhidhiyo ezvinonyadzisira-ini ndakatanga kunyatsoona shanduko muhupenyu hwangu hwepabonde nemukadzi wangu. Ndakanga ndisati ndambove nedambudziko reED zvachose. Asi ikozvino, pese ini nemukadzi wangu patinotanga kuita bonde, handigone kuwana erection. Dzimwe nguva ndinowana imwe, asi ipapo inokurumidza kutanga kupfava. Zvepabonde zvanga zvisingatombovapo kwatiri. ”
Ah, iyo yakanaka mazuva ekare:
Mumazuva angu echikoro, iwe uchave nerombo rakanaka kuona porn paVHS vhidhiyo kamwechete mune imwe nguva uye ivo vaida kuve vasina hunhu. Paunenge iwe uchingokurumidza kufinhwa nazvo, zvaive zvadzokera mukufungidzira nezve musikana mukuru padhuze. Vana vanoda kuchengetedzwa kubva kune ino internet shit.
Mumwe mukomana:
“Pane musiyano pakati pezvinonyadzisira zvepainternet zvanhasi neiya yemakumi mashoma emakore apfuura. Zvino, iwe unogona kuenda kune akasiyana mawebhusaiti uye uwane zvimwe zvemahara porn kupfuura zvaungatarise kana iwe ukasiya basa rako uye wakatsaurira hupenyu hwako kwazviri-zvese zvine hupenyu hupenyu. Iwe unogona kunyange kutora fetish yako yaunofarira, chero chaunowana chakanyanya kusimba, uye ingo tarisa vhidhiyo mushure mevhidhiyo yacho. Kana iko kusimba kuchikwira kwemasekondi mashoma, kana iwe ukashatirwa nekutarisa iwo iwo miviri miviri kwemaminetsi maviri akatwasuka, unogona kusvetukira kune seti nyowani uchiita zvinhu zvitsva. Inogona kukanganisa zvakanyanya kukoshesa kwako chinhu chaicho kupfuura nakare kose. ”
Zvakananga. Inzenza yepaIndaneti inoshandisa zvinopfuura kungoita zvepabonde chete. Inotungamirira vashandisi kupfuura yavo yakasikwa libido: Vashandisi vanogona kutarisa porn mune akawanda windows, tsvaga zvisingaite, tarisa kugara uchitsvaga, nekukasira-mberi kune mabiti avanowana anopisa, chinja kuti vararame pabonde kutaura, kupisa magirazi avo euroni nevhidhiyo chiito kana cam-2-cam kana kuwedzera kune akanyanya marudzi uye kushushikana-kugadzira zvinhu. Zvese ndezvemahara, zviri nyore kuwana, zvinowanikwa mukati memasekondi, maawa makumi maviri nemana pazuva, mazuva manomwe pavhiki, uye inogona kutariswa pamafoni chero pazera. Pasina nguva, ichave inowedzerwa nematoyi epabonde anotevedzera kusangana panyama.
Ziva muuropi
Chii chinotungamira ichi chisina kujairika "kusangana" kunopenga? Dopamine. Ndiyo yekutanga neurochemical kumashure kwekutsvaga-mibairo maitiro. Dopamine mazinga ndiyo barometer iyo yatinosarudza (uye kurangarira) kukosha kwechero chiitiko. Hazvishamisi kuti, zvekuita zvepabonde zvinomutsa dopamine zvakanyanya kupfuura mimwe mibairo yepanyama.
Vazhinji vanhu vanofunga nezve dopamine se "buzz," iyo "shuga yakakwira," kana dhiraivha yakanangana negasm. Chaizvoizvo, inotsvedza mukupindura zvinokonzereswa zvine chekuita nezvekupona zvinodiwa. Zviri kurudziro. Inotiudza kuti tinofanira kusvika kana kudzivisa uye kupi kwatinoisa pfungwa dzedu. Uyezve, inotitaurira chii chokuyeuka, kuburikidza nekubatsira kuburitsa ubongo hwedu.
Zvinonyadzisira zvepaIndaneti zvinongowanzoita kuti zvipfeko zve dopamine zvivepo zvose ye "yakakosha" zvinokurudzira zvatakashanduka kuva mukutarira:
- Simba rakasimba: kushamisika, kutya, kunyangadza, kufunganya
- Novelty: zvokudya zvitsva zvitsva, zvitsva zvitsva, vatsva
- Kutsvaka nekutsvaga: kutsvaga ndima, zvokudya kana mikana yekukwanisa
- Anything izvo zvinotyora zvinotarisirwa: unexpected bonanzas or nengozi
Mashoko eushoko, mifananidzo nemavhidhiyo ave ari nguva yakareba. Saizvozvo ndizvo neurochemical rush kubva kumatawi akaroorana. Asi ruzivo rwe kamwechete-mwedzi Playboy inoputika nokukurumidza kana iwe uchitenderera mapeji. Pane munhu angadana Playboy kana mavhidhiyo akapfava "anovhundutsa" kana "kuburitsa kushushikana?" Zvinogona kutyora here zvinotarisirwa nemukomana anoziva kuverenga komputa ane makore anopfuura gumi nemaviri? Hazvifananidzi ne "kutsvaga uye kutsvaga" kweakawanda-tebhu Google prowl. Kutsvakurudza kunosimbisa kutarisira kwemubairo uye ruzivo runokurudzirana kuti kuwedzere kufara nekudzokorora uropi hwechimbichi. (ona iyi tsvuku reddit: Ndinopedza nguva yakawanda ndichitsvaga mukana wevhidhiyo wevhidhiyo ipapo ini chaizvoizvo ndinopedza kuwedzera).
Mutsara unoti "Kusiyana-siyana ndicho chinonhuwira cheupenyu" kunobva kunhetembo yaWilliam Cowper (1785) pamusoro pemukomana aipfimba musikana akasiyana vhiki rega rega. Asi iyo Internet inoita inogoneka isingagumi rwizi rweTabasco muto muchimiro che dopamine spikes. Kutsvaga kwangu kweGoogle kwe "porn" kunongotora nezve 1.3 bhiriyoni mapeji (ane "Porn for the Blind" mune gumi gumi gumi). Kugara uchisimudzira kunogona kukanganisa iyo nzira yatinofunga, kunyangwe isina mifananidzo inonyadzisa. Muchokwadi, zvidzidzo zvakaratidza kuti kumanikidza kushandiswa kweInternet (videogaming) zvinokonzera uropi hunoenderana nehutano hunoshanduka.
“Kwakanga kuchishata zvikuru. Ndaitora chick kumba uye dzimwe nguva ndisingakwanise kutora yangu d * ck kumusoro nekuti porno yakadzorera huropi hwangu uye ikamisikidza kuti ive nevasikana ve5-6 panguva imwe. Mumwe musikana, kunyangwe aivepo chaiko, anga asiri kuita hunyengeri. ”
Sei kuchengetedza dopamine kukurudzira kunokanganisa? Sezvo nyanzvi dzedzidzo David Linden inotsanangura, zvikorekedzo zvekuputa chikamu chakakura kwazvo chevashandisi kupfuura heroin, kunyangwe heroin inopa kukura kukuru kweurourochemical. Sei? Uyu mubvunzo wekudzidziswa kwehuropi. Kumwe kuputa kweumwe neumwe weiyo makumi maviri emidzanga paki iri kudzidzisa munhu anosvuta kuti midzanga iri kupa mubayiro. Mukupesana, kangani munhu anogona kupfura? Pakudhakwa zvinodhaka "pathological learning. "
Muchiitiko chezvinonyadzisira zveIndaneti, funga nezvemaitiro anogara aripo, izvo zvinotyisa kana kuti zvinoshungurudza-zvinotaridzika, uye kuchitsva pakutsvaga kupfura kwakakwana sekunyadzisa, uye chimwe chinhu chakasimba. Zvose kudzidzisa uropi. Zvisinei, isu tinonzwa kubva kuvakomana nguva dzose nehupenzi-iyo inokonzera ED, uyo acharega kushaya bonhora kuti aedze kuporesa pane kurasa zvinonyadzisira zveIndaneti. Vanowanzoziva kuti dopamine inodonha chii:
"Ini ndinowanzo funga kuti ndeiyo porn ndiyo inosimudzira-inokonzeresa kusagadzikana kwe erectile, kwete iyo bonhora. Chinhu chisinganzwisisike chandiri kuwana nezve yangu yekuyedza ndeyokuti pasina zvepamhepo zvinonyadzisira, ini handinzwe sekuita bonhora. Kunyangwe pandinoedza, handina kumutswa zvakakwana kuti ndiite bonhora. Pfungwa dzangu hadzichafungi, sezvazvaimboita ndichiri mudiki mumazuva epamberi peInternet. ”
Mazuva ano zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandiswa zvakanyanya nezve dopamine zvinorova kupfuura mugumo
Dopamine inofambisa zvose zvinomutsa, asi ruzivo rwakasimba rwekusingaperi ruchida kukurudzira chinhu chinonyanya kukosha chidzidzo chekufunga kwepfungwa pane kunowanzoita bonhora kusvika kune rimwe. Ndicho chikonzero nei kubudiswa kwepakombiyuta kunogona kuumba zvinodhaka zvine simba mune dzimwe ubongo.
Zvinosuruvarisa, kuwanda kwedopamine hakukwanisi kugutsikana. Meseji yaro inogara iri, "Kugutsikana kuri pedyo nekona, saka ramba uchienda! ” Maitiro ekutsvagisa hunhu nezvechikafu, kubhejera uye Internet vhidhiyo yekuratidzira inoratidza kuti yakawandisa dopamine kunobvisa kufara zvehuropi. Izvi zvinoratidza kupindwa muropa nezvinodhaka kuri kukambaira mukati. Uropi hwakavezwa hwakatungamira mukuchiva zvimwe; kunyangwe kupfura kwakakwana hakuzogutse. Zvinonyadzisira zvemazuva ano hazvisi kungosangana nezvido zvako; zvinovashatisa.
Zvangu, chirevo changu chokutsvaga Zvinonyadzisira mifananidzo online zvinoita kunge kubheja kupindwa muropa. Ini ndinowana iyo yakawanda kwazvo mifananidzo yepamhepo ingave inofinha kana inosemesa. Chikamu chidiki chete ndicho chinonditenderedza, asi pane mifananidzo ye "jackpot" inosunda mabhatani angu ese uye kuita maawa ekutsvaga "kubhadhara". Saka pese pandinoenda online, ndiri kubhejera kuti ini ndichawana chimwe chinhu chinomutsa, uye ini ndakarova jackpot kazhinji zvakakwana kuti ndigare ndichitsvaga, kunyangwe ndichiziva kuti imba iri kuhwina uye ndiri kurasikirwa nenguva yakawandisa.
Kurinda zuva, kutora kati, uye kutarisa boka rako raunoda hazvina kufanana nemufaro mukuru. Nezvinofadza, unowana dopamine zviratidzo uye ipapo uropi hwako hunodzokera kumbaostasis. Kusiyana neizvi, zvimwe zviitiko zvinogona kukanganisa dopamine kwenguva refu.
Zvechokwadi vanachiremba veAmerican Society of Addiction Medicine munguva ichangopfuura akabudisa chirevo kududza bonde, chikafu uye kubhejera sezvinhu zvinogona kupindwa muropa. Ivo vanosiya pasina kukahadzika kuti zvese zvakapindwa muropa - kungave kudoro, heroin kana bonde - zvakangofanana. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Philip Zimbardo, zvakare, akataura nezve njodzi dze "kumutsa kupindwa muropa." (TED hurukuro Dhemise yeVakomana?)
Kunyangwe varume vechidiki vari kunyeverana nezve porn yeInternet. Tambo yekuvaka muviri:Iyo NO FAP tambo yekupedzisa zvese hapana fap tambo ” ; Reddit shinda: “Bvunza mumwe mukomana akarega zvinonyadzisira kwemwedzi ye2 iye zvino. ” Ivo vari zvakare kufunga kuti porn inokonzera kukura uye inogadzira zvinyengeri zvepabonde:
“Zvinonyadzisira zvinonamira kwemaawa 4-6 mazuva mashoma apfuura. Padivi rekuwedzera, zvakave pachena kuti transexual porn haina hukama neangu bonde. Mushure mekutarisa kwema30 + maawa pamusoro pemazuva apfuura e5, porno yepabonde yakatanga kuvhiringidza! Ndakatanga kutsvaga zvimwe zvinhu zvinosemesa uye zvinotyisa. ”
Unhu hweInternet porn hunoita huropi nenzira dzakasiyana. Kunze kwekungogara uchikurudzira, hapana muganho unowanikwa mukushandisa - zvakasiyana nekudya kana zvinodhaka. Kukwirisa kunogara kuchikwanisika nekuti maitiro ehuropi hwepanyama ekugutsa haarove mukati kunze kwekunge mumwe mugumo — izvo zvinogona kunge zvisiri zvemaawa. Kunyangwe ipapo, vashandisi vanogona kudzvanya kune chimwe chinhu chinotyisa kuti vamutswe zvakare. Zvepabonde zvepaInternet hazvizopedzisira zvaita kuti huropi hwepanyama hushanduke system ("Ini handigoni kutsungirira imwe kuruma / kunwa / kunhuwa!"). Ndiani asingashiviriri kutarisa mumwe mufananidzo unokanganisa? Kubereka ndiko kwemajini edu 'ekutanga kukoshesa mushure mezvose.
ZVIMWE ZVIRI: Virtual Reality porn
Mushandisi anoti:
Ndakawana [Virtual Reality porn] yakanyanya kupindwa muropa uye yakandiisa pamusoro, zvakandiita kuti ndione kuti Virtual Reality ichangoita zvirinani uye zvirinani uye maStudio studio anozoita zvirinani uye zvirinani mukugadzira porn yeVR saka zvaive zvirinani kuti ndibude izvozvi.
Ini ndaive hama yekutanga kutora VR (Oculus DK2 kumashure muZhizha 2014) saka ndakanga ndave nemakore angangoita 1 nehafu yeVR yekushandisa porn pasi pebhandi rangu uye panguva ya2015 mamwe ma studio akapinda mubhodhi uye zvinhu zvakatanga kusimuka asi ndizvo zvakaita kupindwa muropa kwangu semhedzisiro. Uye ini ndakazviwana ndave kuenda kunobhadhara masaiti kekutanga muhupenyu hwangu hwese uye chaizvo ndichibhadhara porn pane kungoitutumadza iyo! Nekuti ini ndaisada kumirira kuti hova dziwanikwe!
Iva nehanya nezviratidzo zvekuwedzera
Iko kutenda kwekuti "kushandisa zvinonyadzisira hakugone kukuvadza" kwakamuka munguva yemwedzi wega wega Playboy. Uchida kana kuti kwete, zvinonyadzisira zvepaInternet zvakasiyana nezvakaitika kare se “Super Mario” zvinobva kutic-tac-toe. tsvakurudzo uye kuzvitaurira-izvi kunozivisa izvi. Panzvimbo pekungova "zvinonyadzisira," zvinonyadzisira zvepaInternet chinhu chitsva, icho shanduko isina kugadzirira uropi hwakawanda. (Vakomana vaishandisa zvinonyadzisira zvepaInternet panguva yehudiki hwavo vanoda nguva yakareba kuti vadzokerezve hutano hwavo, ona - Vechiduku Vanoshushikana Vanoshanda Vanoda Nguva Yakakura Kuti Vapezve Mojo yavo. Nyaya yekuita zvepabonde kuburikidza neInternet porn: A Gunyana 2015 TEDx hurukuro nejaya iro rinoda imwe nguva uye kudzidza / rewiring kukurira porn-inosimudzira ED uye anorgasmia -
Madzitateguru ako aive asina Internet kana ndangariro mabhengi e porn-based fantasy. Kana vakaita bonyora, zvakajairwa libido uye kwavo kufunga vakaita kuti basa riitwe. Kana hutano hwako hwepabonde huri kuderera, kana iwe uchida porn kusvika pamugumo, saka iwe uri, mukuita, kukurira huropi hwako hwepanyama nzira yekuda kudya, uye kuisa mungozi. Mirira kusvikira uropi hwako hwadzoka chinonzwisisika. Kurega kungave kwakaoma, asi mazano nekusigirwa zviripo.
Uropi hwako hauna kushanduka kuti ubate yanhasi erotica-pa-a-kubaya. Haisi kungoona mavhidhiyo; inoona mikana isingaperi yekudyara, uye inozoshandisa yayo dopamine "chikwapuro" kuve nechokwadi kuti iwe unofesa many as many as possible - chero mutengo wacho kwauri. Panzvimbo pekumuka nekuenderera mberi nehupenyu, vatariri vanhasi vanowanzoenderera kwenguva yakareba sevanogona kuramba vakamuka — vasingazive kuti vanogona kuva panjodzi yekupindwa muropa kana waivako matambudziko. Sezvo Eliezer Yudkowsky akambonyora,
“Kana vanhu vaine kodzero yekuyedzwa - uye ndizvo zvine chekuita nerusununguko - musika unozopindura nekupa muyedzo wakawanda sekutengesa. Kukurudzira pamusika kunoenderera mberi kupfuura nzvimbo iyo superstimulus inotanga kukuvadza chibatiso kumutengi. ”
Dzidza zviratidzo zvinoratidza kunyanya kushandisa zvinonyadzisira. (Verenga zvido zvevamwe.) Iwe haugone kuenda nezviri kuitwa neshamwari dzako, kana kunyangwe nezano revanoona nezvebonde kana vanachiremba. Enda neiko iwe cherechedza.
"Kudzoka muzuva rekufona-up, ini ndakangokwanisa kurodha pasi apo neapo pikicha (yakanyorovera-porn) nekuda kweyakaipa / inononoka Internet uye ndisingazive kwekuwana husevha hwese. Asi ikozvino nekumhanyisa-kumhanya, kunyangwe kumafoni mbozhanhare, zvakandiita kuti ndirambe ndichitarisa zvakanyanya uye nekuwedzera uye nekugadziriswa kwepamusoro. Iyo dzimwe nguva inova yezuva rese nyaya ichitsvaga iyo yakakwana yekupedzisa pane. Hazvina kumbo, zvinogutsa. "Unoda zvimwe" uropi hunogaro taura… manyepo akadaro. "
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Kufambira mberi kwe 1991 uye webhu hwepasi pose zvakatangwa. Kunyange zvakadaro mifananidzo yaigona kuunzwa kuchitarisiko chako munguva pfupi isati yaenda kune imwe yeiyo inoratidza peep. Makore mashoma gare gare uye intaneti yakaramba ichipararira uye ichikura mukukurumidza kwayo. Izvi zvinotungamirira kukukura nokukurumidza kwezvinonyadzisira pamwe nekuwedzera mumhando dzose. Nenguva isipi, yaive yakawanika, yaive yega uye pasina mari yakashandiswa nemushandisi yaidiwa.
Ese maitiro eiyo yekupedzisira kupindwa muropa akazadzikiswa. Asi izvo hazvisi izvo zvese izvo kukurumidza kukura kwe porno kwakaunza, zvakakanganisawo vezvenhau uye kukanganisa maonero evanhu pane izvo zvinoonekwa se porn.
Kudzoka muma1960, vakadzi vasina kupfeka kana kuratidza rimwe ganda vaionekwa senge porn porn. Tarisa uone zvakakukomberedza uye kunyanya kunharaunda yako yemagariro. Chikafu chako pa facebook kubva kushamwari kuenda kushambadziro chave kungoita softcore porn yema1960. Mashoko aya acharamba achipararira uye munguva pfupi inotevera kana porn inogona kuve tsika yezvizvarwa zvinotevera. Chimwe chinhu chekufunga nezvacho mazuva ano vatevedzeri kubva kuna kim kardashian kuna miley cyrus.
Kunyangwe vhidhiyo yemumhanzi nhasi haigone kuve nemukurumbira kunze kwekunge paine kumwe kudururwa kweganda kana kuve nevakadzi vane nguo dzinoburitsa vanoita nenzira dzinonyadzisa. Mutumwa wako dzimwe nguva anoputirwa nemagwaro kuti atenge zvifananidzo zvinonyadzisira kubva kuvasikana vadiki. Vanhu vanofanirwa kumuka padambudziko rinotyisa iri votora matanho. Kana tikaramba tichidzika nenzira iyi yekushanduka-shanduka, chikara ichi chinongoramba chichikura uye ini pachangu handidi izvi kuzvizvarwa zvedu zvinotevera.
Mamwe mazano okufunga nezvezvinhu zvinonyadzisira:
Ne 2012, Xvideos yakanga yava ndiyo nzvimbo yakawanda yekuona zvinonyadzisira pawebhu uye 4.4 mabhizinesi peji pamwedzi. Xvideos yaive katatu yakakura yeCNN kana ESPN, uye kaviri nekukura kweRuddit. Zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandura nzvimbo dzekugara uye dzinogara pedyo neGoogle maererano neshandisi yekushandisa. Nhasi, Xvideos ndiyo webhusaiti yakakurumbira ye43rd munyika yose.
Saka kuti uite izvi, zvinonyadzisira zviri kuwedzera uye kuchinja pamwe chete nemashandisirwo emagetsi (eg Virtual Reality), zvisinei nekombiyuta inogona kushandiswa kuwedzera kuziva kwedu uye inotikurudzira kusiya tsika dzakadaro.
Tumira pane r / NoFap - Zvinopenga mashandisiro anoita porn asiri zvachose pane radar yevazhinji vevabereki vedu
Ndanga ndiri asingagumi bonyora kubvira pavechidiki. Handina kuona gehena rezvinyadzi zvakawanda muchikoro chesekondari nekuda kwekushandisa komputa yemhuri asi ini ndakawona mugove wangu wakanaka, ndichiita zvinyengeri uye ndichizadza gare gare kumifananidzo yakapiswa muuropi hwangu. Asi pandakangobuda muchikoro chesekondari uye ndikave neyangu laptop ndakaenda nzungu. Maawa uye maawa ezvinonyadzisira mazuva ese uye angu kaviri pazuva tsika yekuita bonhora yakaputika kusvika kashanu pazuva. Ini ndakasarudza kugara ndega ndichiita bonhora nekuputa sora zvakanyanya sezvinobvira. Zviripachena hutano hwangu hwepfungwa hwakaderera zvakanyanya.
Gare gare ndakadzokera kumba kwevabereki vangu asi hazvina kurega izvozvo zvichinditadzisa kuva pafoni yangu yezvinonyadzisira sezvinobvira. Vabereki vangu vaive pane yangu nguva dzese yekusabereka. Asi ivo chaivo vakafunga kuti ndaingove ndakarara pamubhedha wangu ndichiona YouTube mavhidhiyo uye nezvimwe. Zvinonyadzisira zvaisava pane yavo radar zvachose.
Sezvo ini pandakawana hapanafap ndakarega kuita bonhora uye porn uye ndinonzwa zviri nani zvakanyanya zvekuti ndakaudza chero munhu wese wandinoziva nezve yangu isingagumi bonhora uye kushandisa zvinonyadzisira uye maitiro andazvipedza. Kusanganisira vabereki vangu. Ndaigara ndichifunga kuti vaiziva kuti ndakanga ndapindwa muropa nekuona zvinonyadzisira uye ndanga ndisingade kuzvibvuma. Asi zvinoitika kuti ivo havana kana zano! Zvinoita sekuti ivo havanzwisise hunhu hwehupombwe nekuti ivo vakakurira zvakanyanya vasina porn. Ivo havana kumbobvira vabatanidza iwo madota uye chaiko vaingofunga kuti ndaive nehusimbe. Ndakanga ndisiri simbe, ndakanga ndakapindwa muropa uye huropi hwangu hwaive mush kubva mukugara uchiita bonhora.
Sezvo ini ndakarega porn uye MO, ndine zero chishuwo chekungorara ndakatenderedza sezvandaimboita. Ndingadai ndisina kumboita izvozvo dai zvisiri zve porn. Amai vangu vaitaura nezve shamwari yemwana weshamwari uyo ane makore makumi maviri nemapfumbamwe uye haana kana chaakaita nehupenyu hwake, achiri kugara pamba uye anopedza husiku hwese pakombuta. Zvekare, vabereki vake havana kubatana nekushandisa zvinonyadzisira, ivo vanongofunga kuti ane husimbe uye akabata kumakomputa. Ndanga ndakafanana "mhoro ?! Zvinonyadzisira !!!! ” uye amai vangu vaive vakaita se "chaizvo? Unofunga? ”
Muchidimbu, mazhinji echizvarwa chekare haana zano chero zvipi zveetsika / zvinodhaka. Vana vavo vakapindwa muropa nazvo uye vabereki havana zano nekuti ivo havakwanise kuputira misoro yavo kutenderedza ichi chose chinyadzo. Ivo havasi mukuramba, ivo chaizvo havatombofunga nezvazvo. Ivo chete vanonzwisisa ndevaya vane ruzivo rwekushandisa zvinonyadzisira uye izvo hazviwanzo nezera rekare. Ivo vangangodaro vakatenga risinganzwisisike ganda mag kumashure mukati mezuva asi izvo hazvisi chinhu zvichienzaniswa neye giraidhi yezvinonyadzisira vana vavo vari kutarisa, pamwe mazuva ese. Zvinosuruvarisa nekuti kune vakawanda vabereki vakashungurudzika kunze uko vanongovhiringidzwa nevanakomana vavo vasina zvibereko. Kana ivo vakanzwisisa chimiro cheiyo porn tsika zvainyatso kuponesa yakawanda mhuri yakawanda kusuwa.
Yakanaka post - Kunyanya kuwanda kwehupombwe mukusvibisa (kana nei ndichirega kurega kuchengetedza pfungwa dzangu uye iwe unofanirawo)
(Kushandisa nhoroondo yekunyorera pamusana pezvikonzero zvepachepa, uyewo ruregerero iyi ndiyo yakareba yakaverengwa)
CW: kukurukurirana kwe PMO, kubata chibharo, kubatwa neukama, kubata vana pabonde, zvakasiyana-siyana fetishes
Pane mumwe munhu akacherekedza izvi? Ndakanga ndapindwa muropa ne PMO kwemakore mazhinji, zvakakwana kuti ndizive nezve porn pane zvandisina kugadzikana nazvo. Pasinei neizvi, ini ndakangotarisa yakatwasuka-kumberi, vanilla, murume / mukadzi porn uye ndakadzivirira izvo chaizvo zvakakwidzwa zvinhu. Ndinoonga kuti ini handina kumbobvira ndaumba chero chinotyisa kana chinoshamisa fetish uye ndagara ndichizviwana ndichinzwa kunyangadzwa kwakanyanya chero nguva ini ndanga ndichinyatso kuburitswa kune chero chinhu chisina kujairika. Iniwo ndinotambura nepfungwa dzekunetseka uye ndakaita shingairo yekudzivirira chero chinhu chingakonzera pfungwa idzi dzinotambudza.
Pornhub yanga iri webhusaiti yangu yekusarudza kwenguva yakareba ikozvino, uye zvishoma nezvishoma ndaona kutendeuka kwakapinza kuchinhu chine rima zvakanyanya mumavhidhiyo mazhinji anogadzirwa nemakambani makuru uye mavhidhiyo akatumirwa paFrontPage (kunyanya mu "inonyanya kufarirwa" chikamu).
Ndatarisa kumusoro kwepeji rekutanga re pornhub nguva dzakaringana uye pamusoro penguva yakareba kudai ndakazviona zvichiitika ruoko rwekutanga: uko kwaimbove kwakatwasuka vanilla murume / mukadzi mavhidhiyo, kamwe kamwe mavhidhiyo ane zvakadzama zvine chekuita fetishitic pfungwa uye taboos senge makunakuna, kutonga kana kunyange kunyepedzera-kubata chibharo ndevamwe vanozivikanwa uye vanosimudzira mavhidhiyo achitora nzvimbo yavo kumberi kwewebhusaiti. Kudzivirira mhando iyi yezvinyorwa rave rakaoma basa, kunyangwe zvigumwe zvinoita sekunge zvinomisikidza mukuwedzera hunhu husina kunaka hwemavhidhiyo aya.
Zviziviso zviri pawebhusaiti zvakatonyanya kushata kazhinji zvine tsoka dzechi fetishism uye mifananidzo yepabonde yevatambi vekatuni uye zvakare kazhinji hazvigone kudzivirira kusangana neizvi nekuda kwemashambadziro anozvivharira padivi pemavhidhiyo uye kubuda nguva dzese paunomisa vhidhiyo. (Muchokwadi, munzira dzakawanda kushambadza ndicho chinhu chakashata, chakagadzirirwa kuratidza aya mabheji nenzira inoshinga uye yekutora-tarisa kuitira kukwezva kufarira kwevashandisi uye kumutsa fetusi dzakasarudzika idzo mushandisi angave anga asingazive kusvikira pano).
Ini ndaonawo zvine chekuita nezve maitiro pakati pemazhinji emakambani anozivikanwa ekuona zvinonyadzisira uko nyowani nyowani nyeredzi dzinoita senge dziri kuwedzera kuwedzera kutaridzika sediki. ikozvino, izvi zvinogona kuve mhedzisiro yekuti ini ndikure (Ini ndakatanga PMO pandakanga ndichiri kuyaruka uye ndikaramba ndichiita pakati pe-20s) asi ndinotenda zvechokwadi kuti kune kuyedza kune chikamu chemakambani ezve porn kunongedza mudiki- Kutarisa, vakadzi vazhinji vadiki kuti vakwezve kune fetabophilia isingabvumirwe uye kuti vanozviziva here kana kwete ini ndinotenda izvi zvinotungamira vazhinji munzira ine rima uye isingadzoreke yechokwadi yevana / vechidiki kuita zvepabonde kureva pedophilia / hebephilia.
Mushure mekukura ndaneta ne pornhub (kana chero imwe nzvimbo inoshandiswa zvinonyadzisira) ndakafunga kuti ndinotendeukira ku reddit gifs. reddit yaitaridzika senzvimbo inodzorwa zvakanyanya asi handikwanise kuverenga iyo nhamba yenguva izvozvi zvandakabaya pane chipo chinoratidzika sevanilla chepabonde zvemukati kungokurumidza kumhanyisa bhatani rekumashure mushure mekuona watermark yeimwe yekambani idzi dzinoshanda mhando iyi yezvinyorwa zvemukati uye kuziva kuti ini ndangotarisa clip kubva kune imwe yeaya makunakuna kana kutonga mavhidhiyo. Kana zvakatonyanya, chipo chinotanga zvakajairika asi nekukurumidza chinoburitsa kwachiri sevhidhiyo yekutonga uye inoratidza mukadzi achiitirwa hutsinye nenzira inotyisa.
Zvino, hongu, handitende kuti chikonzero cheichi ndechimwe mhando yehurongwa hwakawanda hwakagadzirirwa kukanganisa hunhu hwepabonde hwezera rese revarume (kana pamwe ndizvozvo, ndiani anoziva?) Asi zvakakosha kuyeuka makambani ezvinonyadzisira iwo mabhizinesi uye bhizinesi ravo chairo ndere taboo. Kuti uchengetedze mabhatani uye nhengo uye mari irikuuya, vanofanirwa kugara vachizvigadzirisazve uye nekuchengetedza vashandisi ve porn vanovimba nezviri mukati. kwavari izvo izvi zvinosanganisira kuburukira mune yakasviba taboos nepo panguva imwechete vachifamba mutsetse wakanaka wekugamuchirwa munharaunda (munzira dzakawanda inoratidzira kudzika kwevazhinji vashandisi ve PMO vanoitisa kuitira kugutsa kwavo kusingadzorwi ruchiva, kudzika kune izvo zvinogara zvichitorerwa fetusi) .
ini ndinoona izvi zvakadzika, zvichinetsa zvakanyanya. Zvaiita senge rudzi urwu rwezvinyorwa rwakambodzoserwa kumakona akasviba einternet uye yakadzika webhu uye ikozvino iri zvishoma nezvishoma kuwana traction pane akajairika, anoshandiswa zvakanyanya-mawebhusaiti. Izvo zvinonyadzisira zvandakaratidzwa sevechiri kuyaruka zvinoratidzika sezvisinganzwisisiki kana zvichienzaniswa nevechiri kuyaruka pavanenge vava kuyaruka vari kuziviswa iye zvino. Kana ini ndikafunga nezve zvakashata zvakashata zvinokanganisa porn pahupenyu hwangu, ndinonetseka nezve magariro ezvepfungwa zvaachave nazvo kune vazhinji vechidiki, varume vari kusimukira (uye vakadzi zvakare). ini ndakatoverenga chinyorwa chinguva chidiki pamusoro pemwana mudiki akabata chibharo hanzvadzi yake mushure mekuenderera mberi achionekwa nemukoma / mukwambo wekuona zvinonyadzisira uye ndakavhunduka zvisingaite, kwandiri izvi mhedzisiro inogona kuitika inogona kubva pahunhu hwakakanganiswa hunogadzirwa nezviri mukati izvi Vechidiki.
Nekuda kwekupindwa muropa kwangu (uye chiri chidhakwa) uye nenyaya yekuti ndinotambura nepfungwa dzekunetseka, ndakaedza kakawanda kuti ndigadzire nzira nyowani uye dzinowedzera nzira dzekudzivirira kusangana neichi chisina kujairika zvemukati, asi inogara ichiita sehonye nzira yayo kuburikidza mukati mepfungwa dzangu uye ndiri kuuya kuzoona kuti yangu yetsika tsika haienderane neyezvinonyadzisira (uye ichi chinhu chakanaka chandinofunga).
Kwemakore mazhinji ini ndanga ndichigona kururamisa mashandisiro angu epabonde kwandiri zvakanyanya nekuti zvandaive ndichiona zvaive zvisina "kunyanya kuipa", kana kuzvishingisa kuti "munhu wese wezera rangu ari kuzviona saka ndadii ini ndisingaite?" asi ikozvino ndoziva kuti porn inoita nenzira yakafanana ne "gedhi zvinodhaka", chete porn isuwo rekupinda mukuora uye kuora kwepfungwa nemweya.
Paunotarisa zvinonyadzisira, zvese zvinorasikirwa nekusava nemhosva, zvese zvinoderedzwa kuita hyper-sexisation uye izvi zvinovhura nzira inoenda kusingaperi kwekusazvibata uye kusuwa. Ese iwo makatuni awakada semwana uye wakatora kukosha uye zvinoreva kubva izvozvi zvave kudyiwa semafuta ekumutsa kwako kusina chinhu. Mukadzi wese waunosangana naye kana kupfuura mumugwagwa hure rinogona kuitika. Kunyangwe vadikanwa vako vanogona kudzikisirwa kune chimwe chinhu kunze kwezvinhu zvepabonde zvinokurudzirwa netabho inorambidzwa. ini handikwanise kana kutarisa tsoka dzemumwe munhu iye zvino ndisinganzwe kunyangadza, kuzvitambudza uye chirema chinokanganisa kuti ndingangomutswa navo, kuti ndive ndave kure zvekuti ndadonhera mune izvi zvisina kukwana unzenza.
Nguva dzese pandinosangana nechimwe chinhu chakadai izvozvi, nekuda kwemafungiro asinganzwisisike, ndinonzwa sekunge ndakabatwa chibharo neimwe nzira (uye ndinoziva kuti izvi hazvina rukudzo uye pamwe hazvisi fananidzo chaiyo saka ndinokumbira ruregerero zvakanyanya kana paine munhu ndakagumbuka asi ini handina kukwanisa kufunga nezwi rinotsanangura kusava nebasa uye kuzvishora zvakakwana) Ndiri kurwara nekunzwa kunge protagonist yenyaya iripfupi yeLovecraft pese pandinopedza kuita bonyora, sekunge ndanga ndakataridzirwa kune isingatsanangurike kutyisa (uye zvizhinji zvacho ZVINOGONESESA kutsanangurika, ungatsanangure sei chero izvi zvakaoma, zvekuita-zvebonde kune mubereki kana chiremba wepfungwa asina ruzivo rweinternet, semuenzaniso?)
Nekutenda, ndakaramba yakawanda yekuratidzwa kwangu kune izvi zvinonyangadza zvemukati, asi ndinoziva kuti pane vanogona kunge vasina. Ndinoda kukuzivisa iwe kuti haina kunonoka. kuzvibvuma sedambudziko ndiro danho rekutanga uye kubva ipapo unogona kushanda kugadzirisa kukanganisa kwepfungwa kwakakonzera uye kuita mafambiro ekurarama hupenyu hunogutsa uye hunofadza.
Ndinofunga kuti vanhu vakawanda vanova vashandi veMDC vanoda rudo rwechokwadi, rwakanaka rwekudzikama nekunzwira tsitsi asi mamiriro akasiyana-siyana anotitorera isu kubviswa kweizvi, tichisiya chinhu chisina maturo uye isu tinoedza zvikuru kuizadza nezvinonyadzisira kana zvimwe zvinhu zvakasiyana zvatinofunga kuti zvichashanda. Hazviiti zvakadaro asi isu hatigoni kubatsira, pane nzira yekubuda nayo.
tbh, ndangoda kutaura pamusoro pebasa rakandikuvadza kwazvo uye kuti, ndinotenda zvinokuvadza vamwe vakawanda.
kana iwe waverenga zvese izvi, ndokutenda, ndinovimba une chimwe chinhu chakakosha mairi.
tl; dr: Ndinotenda kuti zvinonyadzisira zviri kutsika munzira yakaipa yekunyengera uye ichikwevera pasi vamwe vazhinji pamwe nayo.
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- Zvakadini nezvekushandisa zvinonyadzisira nevechiri kuyaruka? Chengetai urongwa huno pamusoro peC200 yedzidzo yevechidiki, kana iyi 2012 kuongorora kwekutsvaga - Mhinduro yeIndaneti Zvinonyadzisira Pamakore Ari Kuyaruka: Ongororo yeKutsvakurudza (2012). Kubva pakupedzisira:
Kuwedzera kuwanikwa kweInternet nevechiri kuyaruka kwagadzira mikana isingaenzaniswi yedzidzo yepabonde, kudzidza uye kukura. Ukuwo njodzi yekukuvara inoonekwa muzvinyorwa yakatungamira vaongorori kuti vaongorore kuratidzika kwevachiri kuyaruka paInternet zvinonyadzisira kuti vajekesere hukama uhwu. Pamwe chete, izvi zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti wechidiki anoshandisa zvinonyadzisira anogona kukudziridza maitiro asiri echokwadi ezvepabonde uye zvavanotenda. Pakati pezvakawanikwa, yakakwirira mikana yekubvumidza zvepabonde maitiro, kusangana pabonde, uye yekutanga bonde kuyedzwa kwakabatana nekuwedzeredza kunwa kwekuona zvinonyadzisira .... Zvakangodaro, zvakawanikwa zvakawanikwa zvakabatanidza kushandiswa kwevechidiki nezvekuona zvinonyadzisira kunoratidza chisimba nemawedzero ehupombwe anowedzera.
Mabhuku aya anoratidza kumwe kuwirirana pakati pekushandiswa kwevechidiki nezvekuona zvinonyadzisira uye kuzvifunga. Vasikana vanoti vanonzwa kunge vakaderera pane vakadzi vavanoona muzvinhu zvinonyadzisira, nepo vakomana vachitya kuti vangave vasina hutachiona kana kugona kuita sevarume venhau idzi. Vechidiki vanotaurawo kuti kushandisa kwavo zvinonyadzisira kwakadzikira sekuzvivimba kwavo nekusimudzira magariro evanhu kuri kuwedzera. Pamusoro pezvo, tsvagudzo inoratidza kuti vachiri kuyaruka vanoshandisa zvinonyadzisira, kunyanya izvo zvinowanikwa paInternet, vane yakaderera madhivhari yekubatana munharaunda, vanowedzera mumatambudziko emufambiro, huwandu hwepamusoro hwehunhu hwekunyengedza, zviitiko zvepamusoro zvezviratidzo zvinoshungurudza, uye kuderedza kubatana kwepfungwa nevanochengeta.
Sezvo mumwe murume akati:
Mumwe mukomana akati:
Tumira kubva kuMedHelp uchienzanisa porn yeInternet ne "yekare porn"
Inotorwa kubva munyaya iyi paDD uye neIndaneti.
Broadband yakatungamirira kune zvinonyadzisira zvinodhaka
Kubva pane rimwe sangano:
Comment of forum member:
Imwe mashoko pamusoro pekushanduka kwezvinonyadzisira
Yakatumira kune imwe nzvimbo panzvimbo ino
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Nyaya pamusoro pekudiwa kwechiitiko
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rondedzera kubva kumusangano
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Mashoko anokosha ose
Hentai
Kubva kune imwe foramu - zera makumi matatu nemasere
Kuita koroji
Iwe Kazhinji Wakafamba Sei Usati Watanga?
Vabereki vangu vaiziva, asi havana kumbotaura nezvangu pamusoro pemararamiro angu
Akatsveyamiswa, Horny Bastard akapindwa muropa neZvinyadzo, Zuva 3 Uye Kuverenga…
Kubva reddit - NoFap
Zvinoshamisa kuti zvinonyadzisira zvakatiitira sei
Zvinonyadzisira uye hutsika
Chirevo chekuyeuchidza kubva kune mumwe munhu pamusoro pekutendeuka 30
Couple of comments.
Uri kutaura here kuti
Uri kutaura here kuti vanhu vakati ivo vaiva mumana ekuona zvinonyadzisira?
Mukomana wangu haana kutaurwa
Zvinonyadzisira seHyper-Reality
Chero munhu akacherechedza kuti nyika yakachinja zvakadini mumakumi emakore apfuura
GUY 2)
kubva reddit nofap -
erection se barometer- kubva ku reddit
akazoziva zvino kuti mhizha uye zvinonyadzisira zvakakanganisa sei
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Shamwari yangu inobata masturbates se10-15 nguva pazuva.
Ari kukura zvechokwadi chinetso here kana kuti zvinonyadzisira?
Handina kumbobvira ndava nechinetso kusvikira ndawana yepamusoro yepamusoro yekutengesa internet
Ndiko kubatana kwakanganisa
Ndakaedza zvose uye ndauya
Zvinonyanya kuipa, uye ndinofunga
Hei varume, nhengo itsva kune
Hei varume, nhengo mutsva kumisasa pano.
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Ngozi inogona kunge iri pano
iyi ndiyo chizvarwa chokutanga umo kutanga kweInternet
Ini ndichatanga nekutaura kuti ini
Zviri Ipo here? Kwete, anongova mavambo.
Pornfree zvakaoma zvikuru kupfuura nofap
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Kuita zvepabonde chaiko hakuna kurarama zvinoenderana nezvandakasangana nazvo semurume ari mune zvinonyadzisira
NoFap inoita kuti ndifunge kuti zvinosuruvarisa sei kurarama munguva yedu.
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Zvinonyadzisa Zvinoderedza & Screws maonero ako e "zvakajairika"
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Kutarisa facebook kwemakore vakaita zvimwe zvinhu zvisingazivikanwi
Handina kuziva kuti ndaive nedambudziko kudzamara ndaedza kumira….
vana vevasikana vacho vakabvuma kuti vazhinji vezviitiko zvavo zvepabonde
funga mu 5-10 makore vanhu vachazotanga kuziva kuti porn ha
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GUY 2)
Hapana chido cheku fap pasina zvinonyadzisira.
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kuenzanisa wevoruzhinji wemukomana kunonyanya nyeredzi yakafanana
Handina kumbouddza chero ani zvake zvandiri kuda kukuudza. Ndapota bvunzai
kana zvinonyadzisira zvako zvepabonde zvichinyanyisa zvakadaro
ramba uchienda pane dzimwe nguva maawa ndisati ndawana purogiramu yakakwana kuti fap
Ndinoda kutsvaga nekutsvaga nekutsvaga nguva imwe neimwe kuti ndiwane
hupenyu hwangu hwehupenyu hwakanaka chaizvo nhoroondo yehupenzi.
vakaseka pauropi hwangu husiku hwakapfuura sezvo yakandipa chikonzero chisina musoro cheku
Mibvunzo yevanhu vakashandura kubva kuNoFap kusvika kuFinFree
GUY 2)
Ini nokutendeseka kufunga PMO ndeimwe yemishonga yakaoma zvikuru
Zvose zvandaivenga pamusoro pekuwana zvinonyadzisira
Izvi ndizvo zvinondinetsa ini pamusoro pevanhu vanoona zvinhu zvakadai seHenta
17 tabs ye porn in my browser.
Ndingadai ndisina kupona kukura ne broadband / google / fac
Ndinoda kubvunza mubvunzo pamusoro peiyo mavhidhiyo mafaira seHedHD
Kune vose vaduku vemudiki kubva kune vakwegura vakuru
Mashoko aGuy pane forum
Ndiri mudiki kwauri, uye
pamwe OP futi. Ndichiri akura zvakakwana kuti nditange PMO na
softcore magazini uye zvakare VHS nemabhuku mashoma. Zvakaipa sezvo
vakanga vari (uye vakanga vachitya), hapana chakandigadzirira ini kuparara
cocaine ye-wireless internet, laptop uye porn tube nzvimbo. Instant
kukwanisa kusvika kune zvakasiyana-siyana zvakasiyana-siyana zvepabonde hazvina kunaka munhu asi inonyanya kuipa kune vanhu vakatova nechinodhaka chekuona zvinonyadzisira / unhu hunodhaka huzhinji.
Ndakatora laptop yangu yekutanga pamakore gumi nemana akapfuura. Porn tube sites yaiva itsva
pfungwa kare kare. Ndakanga ndanga ndichiona zvinonyadzisira paP2P kwemakore (kubvira 1999
kana zvakadaro, chero hunyanzvi hwetekinoroji hwekutanga kushandisa zvinonyadzisira). Zvakare, zvakashata seizvozvo
yakanga iri, yakanga ichiri duku mbatata yakaenzaniswa nehupunyu hutsva nzvimbo. Torrents
tora nguva yekudhinda, uye mafaira acho makuru. The instant
kugutsikana uye nekusingaperi kwekutsvaga kwepayipi tube nzvimbo zvakanyanya kukuvadza
hutano hwangu mu 5-6 makore kupfuura zvose zvinonyadzisira zvainge zvaita mairi
yapfuura 20.
Ndatambura nehupombwe hwangu hwemakore. Ndakarega kutonhora turkey
mukutanga kwe2012 uye yakabviswa 400 + GB yezvinonyadzisira. Ndakakanda kunze murwi mukuru we
vakapisa ma CD uye maDVD. Ndakapedza mazuva e90 + asina PMO, asi ndakazopedzisira ndawa
kubva pamotokari.
Ndakaedza kakawanda kuti ndi "chene" zvakare, asi ndakakundikana
kana kuti imwe nguva nguva dzose. Izvozvi, ndinopedzisira ndadzokera kune PMO kamwechete a
zuva, kazhinji asati avata (asi kazhinji dzimwe nguva zvakare.)
Ino nguva ichangopfuura yanga yakasiyana. Kutanga kubva, ndiri kuita zvakaoma
maitiro. Izvo zvakanyanya kuomarara, nguva kusvika panguva. Weirdly, zviri nyore
zvakakwana. Ndine zvimwe zvido zvakashata zvakasimba kuti ndione zvinonyadzisira uye / kana
bonyora, izvo zvakanyanya kusimba kupfuura chero chinhu senge ini icho ini
akanzwa munguva yakapfuura. Kakawanda, kunyange zvakadaro, izvi zvave zviri, zvakanaka, kwete
zvirinyore, asi ini ndainzwa kusimba kwekutungamira. Ndine zvakawanda
vakavaka kukanganisa kwepabonde, ini vane kuti iritungamirire pane imwe nzvimbo
zvimwe. Ndatanga kurovedza muviri zvakare. Izvi zvakanaka kune boka re
zvikonzero. Ini ndawana huremu hwakanyanya mumakore angu apfuura asi zvakare iyo
endorphins chiito chinopa rubatsiro runopesana nekudiwa kwe PMO.
Paiva nemashoko pano apa mwedzi kana kupfuura apfuura, achiti No No Fap haisi
iyo-yose inopera-yose inopindura, uye iyo yakarova tsambo neni.
Kusiya PMO ndiyo danho rekutanga mukugadzirisa boka rematambudziko. Chiona se
kudzokera kunzvimbo imwe chete, asi kubva ipapo unogona kutanga pakupedzisira
famba mberi.
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Kana Facebook uye mamwe maapplication ari kupindwa muropa, chimbofungidzira kuti kusvika papi muThe Machine Zone Internet porn inogona kukutakura….
Iyo Mashini Zone: Apa Ndiko Kwamunoenda Kana Iwe Usingagone Kurega Kutarisa Mifananidzo paFacebook - Atlantic Nhare
“Vanhu vanoda Facebook. Vanonyatsochida, ” Biz Stone akanyora pamberi ino mwedzi. "Amwene vangu vanoratidzika sevanofungidzirwa pavanofunga kuisa imwe nguva muFacebook."
Haasi iye oga. ComScore inotarisa Facebook inodya up 11 muzana
yenguva yose inoshandiswa paInternet muUnited States. Vashandi varo vave
anozivikanwa kupedza an muvhareji wemaminitsi 400 mwedzi panzvimbo.
Ini ndoziva iyo hypnosis, sezvo ndine chokwadi newe, futi. Iwe unotanga kudzvanya kuburikidza
mifananidzo yevamwe shamwari dzako neshamwari inotevera unoziva awa iri
apfuura. Zvinotaridza kusanzwisisika, asi hazvigutse. Kamwe iko kutsinga kuri
kuputswa, ndinonzwa sekunge ndangopedza nguva zhinji. Asi ichiri
zvichiitika, ndinobatwa mukati memuchina, munhu ane hupenyu GIF: I. Just.
Haikwanisi. Mira.
Kana pamwe ichauya kana ini ndichipururudza kuburikidza nema tweets husiku hwapfuura
mubhedha. Ini handisi kana kudzvanya ma link kana kupindura kuvanhu. Ini ndakarurama
kupfugama pasi, kana kuti kuipa, kukwevera pasi nechigunwe changu, kuwedzerazve,
reloading.
Kana dzimwe nguva, ndinobatwa mukunyungudika kweTumblr's isingaperi scroll.
Ndizvo zvakaitika, seDombo raizove naro, rudo? The tech tech
kazhinji anoyera kuti iwe unoda basa zvakadini iwe nguva yakawanda iwe
pedza pairi. Saka nguva yakawanda yakaenzana nerudo.
Yangu intuition ndeyekuti urwu harusi rudo. Icho chimwe chinhu chakanyanya kuwanda tekinoroji iyo MIT anthropologist Natasha Schüll inodaidzira "the machine zone. "
“Hazvisi zvekukunda, ndezvekupinda munzvimbo iyi”
Schüll akapedza makore anopfuura gumi achienda ku Las Vegas uye achitaura naye
vanobheja uye vatoriki vechikwata pamusoro pezvikwereti zvemichina, izvo zvakaputika
muchibatsiro munguva yema digital sekugadzirwa kwemitambo kwakagadziridzwa
ivo kuchengetedza vanhu kutamba.
Zvaakawana ndezvakawanda
vanhu vari kutamba michina havapo kuti vaite mari. Vanoziva
havasi kuzorova jackpot vodzokera kumba. Sekureva kwakaita Roma Mars
in chiitiko chechangobva kuitika podcast yake inoshamisa, 99% Isingaoneki, pakutsvaga kwaSchüll: "Hazvisi zvekuhwina; ndezvekupinda munzvimbo. "
chii
ndiyo nzvimbo yemuchina? Ndiwo mutinhimira. Mhinduro kune yakanyatsogadziriswa
mhinduro loop. Iyo ine simba nzvimbo-nguva kukanganisa. Iwe warova bhatani.
Chimwe chinhu chinoitika. Iwe unorova zvakare. Chimwe chinhu chakafanana, asi kwete chaizvo
zvakafanana zvinoitika. Pamwe unokunda, pamwe haukunde. Dzokorora. Dzokorora.
Dzokorora. Dzokorora. Dzokorora. Iko kunakidzwa kwekudzokorora, kuchengetedzwa kwe
the loop.
"Zvimwe zvese zvinowira pasi," Schüll anoti kuna Mars. “Pfungwa yemari
kukosha, nguva, nzvimbo, kunyange pfungwa yekuti iwe pachako inoparadzwa mukati
chimiro chenharaunda ino yaunopinda. ”
Mubhuku raSchüll, Dhiyabhorosi neChirongwa, munhu anobhejera anonzi Lola anomuudza, kuti: “Ini ndinodokuva ndakarariswa kuva muchina iwoyo. Zvakafanana nekutamba uchizvipikisa: Iwe ndiwe muchina; muchina wacho ndiwe. ”
Pane iro izwi zvakare: hypnotized, saambuya vaStone. Zvakawanda
vanobhejera vakashandisa misiyano pamutsara. "Kuisa nzvimbo yacho mumashoko,"
Schüll anonyora, "vabhejeri vandakataura navo vakawedzera zvekunze,
zana remakore gumi nemapfumbamwe izwi remanzwiro e hypnosis uye magnetism
zana remakumi maviri remakore rinotaura nezvekuona terevhizheni, kombiyuta
kugadzira, uye kutyaira motokari. ”
Ivo vakataura zvinhu zvakaita sekuti, "Iwe uri muchiroto, iwe uri pane unozvidzivirira. Nzvimbo yacho
kufanana nemagineti, inongokukwevera mukati ndokubata ipapo. ”
Sei mazwi aya, aya madimikira? Isu hatinzwisise kubata iyo
mamiriro atinowira mairi - isu tinongonzwa kubata kwayo patiri - nenzira yatakatora
akabatanidzwa nharaunda neisina upenyu. Iwe ndiwe makina; iyo mhizha iwe.
Uye zvinoita ... mazwi anotadza. Muchokwadi, zvinoita sekunge mazwi ari kukundikana
nokuti iri pamucheto wezviitiko zvevanhu, kubuda ropa kune
cybernetic realm inonyatsotsanangurwa mune data uye code.
Nzvimbo yemuchina idivi rakasviba re "Runyura, "
chinzvimbo chepfungwa chinorongwa naMihály Csíkszentmihályi. Mukuderera
hurumende, kune chinangwa, mitemo yekuwana kune chinangwa, uye mhinduro pamusoro
zviri kufamba sei. Zvakakosha, iro basa rinofanirwa kuenzanisa hunyanzvi hwako, saka
kune manzwiro e "kutonga pamwe uye kupokana panguva imwe chete."
Muhurukuro yeC1996 Wired,
Csíkszentmihályi akatsanangura nyika seizvi: “Kuva wakakwana
kubatanidzwa mune rimwe basa nokuda kwaro. Iyo yega inowira kure. Nguva
maplies. Chiito chose, kufamba, uye kufunga zvinotevera zvisingaiti kubva kune
yapfuura, sekutamba jazi. ”
Schüll anoona kusanganisa pane izvi
phenomenon pamberi peyo itsva slot machines ye Vegas, iyo inosanganisira
zviduku zviduku zvekuita sokuti zvinodzora kuwedzera mhinduro dzavo loops. Asi
panzvimbo yekuzvizadzika uye mufaro kuti Csíkszentmihályi
rinotsanangura, vazhinji vanobhejera vanonzwa vakasununguka uye vakasuruvara nezve nguva yavo pane
slots.
Mitambo inoshandisa chido chevanhu chekuyerera, asi kunze
izvo zvinoreva kana masimba akabatanidzwa nehurumende. Mushandisi wenguva iyo ndiyo
pfungwa dzinoenda apo muviri unozvirasirira pabasa. “Unogona kuidzima
zvese pamachini, "anobhejera anoudza Schüll. “Unogona kudzima
pachako. ”
Iwe unogona kubva kune iyo yose mumuganhu wemichina, asi chero bedzi iwe uchigara ipapo.
The Zone Zone
Apo patinoputirwa mubasa rekudzokorora pamakombiyuta edu, ndinofunga isu
inogona kupinda imwe yakapfava vhezheni yemuchina zone. Zviripachena, kana
iwe uri kuita banter neshamwari kana kutumira mameseji amai vako paFacebook,
hausi munzvimbo iyoyo. Kana iwe uri kuverenga uchishingairira uye uchinyora nhetembo
pa Twitter, hausi munzvimbo iyoyo. Kana iwe uri kugadzira hunyanzvi paTumblr,
hausi munzvimbo iyoyo. Nzvimbo yemuchina inopesana nevanhu, uye ndizvo
inozivikanwa nokushaikwa kwehukama hwevanhu. Iwe unogona kunge uri kutarisa
vanhu paunotarisa kuburikidza nemifananidzo, asi kushamwaridzana kwako navo
chimiro chema digital chinogadzirwa, chinodzokorora, uye chakasimbiswa
mhinduro yekombiyuta.
Handisi kureva kuti vanhu "vakapindwa muropa" neFacebook. Zvimwe zve
vabhejeri vakataurwa mukutsvagisa kwaSchüll vane matambudziko akakomba.
Asi ini ndiri kushandisa nyaya dzavo sezvakaitwa naSchüll - sosi dzehunyanzvi pa
the zone, not to say their experience with slot machine is exactly
kunge yako yepakati nguva yemushandisi paFacebook.
Ndinorondedzera izvi nokuti kune tsika yekukomberedza chirevo che
kupindwa muropa netekinoroji dzakasiyana senge hachisi chinhu chikuru. Asi ndizvo.
Zvese izvi zvekutaura: Ini handisi kuita nharo nezve iyo yakazara ye
misangano se Facebook. Uku ndiko kutsoropodza kwehutano hwakanaka
iyo inogona kusimuka mukati mavo.
Muenzaniso wakachena wekutsvaira mukati memakona ekukanda uri kuvhara
kuburikidza nemaarubhamu emifananidzo paFacebook. Iko hakuna chakanyanya kupa mubayiro
kana kunakidzwa nezvazvo. Uye zvakadaro, ndiratidze iye Facebook mushandisi uyo asina
aipedza maawa nemaawa achiita izvozvi. Sei? Unogona kuwana nzvimbo.
Dzvanya. Mufananidzo. Dzvanya. Mufananidzo. Dzvanya. Mufananidzo. Uye zvichida, pane imwe nzvimbo mukati
ipapo, iwe unowana chimwe chinhu chinotonhorera ("Shamwari yangu inoziva hama yangu.") kana tsvarakadenga
("Katsi."). Hukuru. Jackpot! Dzvanya. Mufananidzo. Dzvanya. Mufananidzo. Dzvanya. Mufananidzo.
Facebook ndiyo imwe huru huru yekugoverana basa munyika. In 2008, apo nzvimbo yacho yaive nemifananidzo yeC10 mabhuku akachengetwa, vashandisi vakatora 15 mabhiriyoni mifananidzo pazuva. Izvi zvaive zvichiitika ku300,000 pechipiri. Dzvanya. Mufananidzo. Dzvanya.
MuC2010, Facebook yakanga iine mifananidzo yeBHNUMX mabhiriyoni, uye yakashumirwa nhamba yepamusoro ye1 mamiriyoni kwechipiri. Pakazosvika 2012, vashandisi vepaFacebook vanga vachiisa 300 mamiriyoni ezuva nezuva. Uye kutanga kwegore rino, Facebook yakatanga kuzivisa vashandisi yakanga yavapa 240 mabhiriyoni mifananidzo.
Kana tikafunga kuti chiyero chemifananidzo yakakonzerwa nemifananidzo yakatarwa hachina kumira zvakanyanya, vashandisi vangangodhonza mabhiriyoni e Facebook photos pazuva pane chiyero chemamiriyoni kwechipiri. Dzvanya. Mufananidzo. Dzvanya.
Izvo zvose zvinowedzera kusvika nguva yakawanda inopedzerwa mumutambo. Maererano ne
2011 report yeComScore, vashandisi vanopedza 17 muzana yenguva yavo panzvimbo
chete mapepa ekufuratira (izvo sezviri mukati ma Facebook zvinyorwa, haisanganisiri "nguva yakashandiswa kuverenga nhau dzekudya nyaya uye notisi dzinogadzirwa nemifananidzo yekuisa").
Kuisa aya manhamba mukutarisa, ComScore's 2013 Dhijitari Yekutarisa
mushumo wakawana kuti Facebook yakatora 83 muzana yenguva yakashandiswa pa * *
social network pa web. Izvozvo zvinoreva kuti nguva yose inopedzwa
masangano evanhu, 14 muzana yaro inowanikwa mukati meizvi maitiro
chiuno. Izvo zvinopfuura ese nguva yakashandiswa paTumblr, Pinterest, Twitter,
uye LinkedIn pamwe chete!
If
zvese zvigadzirwa zvehunyanzvi zvine zvimwe "zvakatemwa" mukati
ivo, kana vagadziri vanogona kunyora vavariro muzvinhu zvavanovaka, sezvazviri mune zvezvematongerwo enyika dzidziso yaBruno Latour, saka tinogona kutaura kuti dzimwe nzira dzokubatana nadzo dzinonyanya kuzivikanwa kupfuura vamwe.
chii
Facebook uye slot machine inoshandisa inyanzvi yekupa nekukurumidza
mhinduro kune zviito zvishomanana; vanopa mibayiro shoma pane vasina kukwana
inofungidzirwa "kubhadhara" purogiramu. Izvi zvinomanikidza zvishwe, zvinokanganisa
chero chinangwa chekutanga chemushandisi chaive. Yakatanga se "Ona a
mufananidzo wemunhu X "unova" ramba uchiona mimwe mifananidzo. " Iyo mashandiro
iyo pachayo inova iyo pfungwa.
Slot-game game designers, nokuda kwechikamu chavo, vakatofanira kurwisana ne
maitiro ehutsika anokonzerwa nokushandisa nzvimbo yemichina. Uye iyo inobata
anga asina kunaka.
Schüll anotaura nezvomumwe muumbi, Randy Adams. Pakutanga, anomuudza
kuti iye "ane tsika" inopesana nekuve michina inogonesa kumanikidza
hunhu, kunova kubvuma kuti zvinoita kudaro. “Asi
panguva ino Adams anga asingaenderane, ”anonyora kudaro. “[Adams] akatanga na
kutsvaga kupindwa muropa mukati memunhu, achiti 'vamwe vanhu havagone
dzora chikamu chinochichinja kubva mukunakidzwa kuita muropa. ' Paakamanikidzwa kuenda
taura 'chikamu chinoshandura icho kubva mukunakidzwa kuita muropa,' akapindura.
'Ndiwo magadzirirwo emutambo, ”uye ndokuwedzera kuti hunhu uhu
Dhizaini yakanga "isingadi isu, sezvayakangoitika
shanduka. '”
Ndezvipi zvaizoreva kune purogiramu yemagariro evanhu kana tikanzwisisa
iyo inobatanidza mafungiro akadaro anotaura kumashini-kubhejera?
Vashandi veSilicon Valley vaizogadzikana nechinangwa chavo nenzira
slot-muchina vagadziri vanoita? Ini ndinoziva akawanda macoders uye vanhu vakatora
akashanda kumakambani akasiyana siyana; zvirokwazvo havazvioni ivo pachavo
sevari mubhizimisi rimwechete sekaseti. Vakawanda vavo vanofunga
ivo "kuita zvakanaka nekuita zvakanaka. "
Sekufungidzira, fungidzira kuti pane uchapupu husingadikanwi
kuti mamwe webhutano emagetsi akaita kuti vanhu vapinde mumushini
nzvimbo, zvigaro zvenguva nguva panzvimbo yechitsuwa chevashandisi. Vaizogadzira
kukanganisa kushandiswa kwavo kana kuti vose vaizoshandisa maitiro avo
kutanga?
Zvinhu zvinogona kunge zvakasiyana. Nzvimbo inogona kukurudzira a
mitemo yakasiyana yakashandiswa. Kuve chinhu chisinganyanyi kushamisika: Sei urege kutumira a
kusaina mushure mekunge mumwe munhu atarisa kuburikidza nemifananidzo zana inoti, "Sei usingadaro
nyora shamwari kana nhengo yemhuri tsamba? ”
Hazvifanirwe here kuti zvinhu izvi zvive chikamu cheizvo makambani ewebhu anofunga nezvazvo? Kwete
kungokurudzira vashandisi kuti vadye zvakawanda, asi vachivabatsira kusimuka.
Dambudziko Re "Kupa Vanhu Zvavari Kuda"
Iwe unogona kukakavadzana kuti vogadziri vakangoita kupa vanhu zvavanoda. Nhoroondo inoti vanhu vanopedza nguva yakawanda vachitarisa mifananidzo; saka, Facebook inoshumira mifananidzo. Zviri nyore sezvazviri.
Kubatana kunowanzowanikwa mari yehutano hwevanhu. Kubvira
zvakanyanya kuoma kuyera kana mumwe munhu ari kunyatsonakidzwa ne
ruzivo rwakawanda kudarika kuenzanisa nhamba yemaminitsi munhu anoshandisa
kuzviita, kubatana kunowanzoenzaniswa nenguva. Uye saka, Silicon
Mupata wakaita nyaya yacho pachayo (uye kune vashandisi vayo software)
kuti tiri kuvhota nekunyorera kwedu.
Asi pane dambudziko. Tsananguro ye "izvo vanhu vanoda" yakapinzwa zvisiri pamutemo
in with the data. Tsanangudzo inotanga kujeka: Vanhu vanoenda kunzvimbo
vanoda. Asi zvino inowedzereka. Vanoti nguva yakawanda iwe iwe
shandisa pane imwe nzvimbo kana kuti chikamu chesaiti, iwe unowedzera. Chokwadi, izvozvo
kunokonzera zvakakwana basa iro kambani pachayo inobata mukuumba mushumiri
mufambiro kuwedzera kushandiswa. Uye rinorega kuti vanhu dzimwe nguva
(Kazhinji?) Vanozviitira zvinhu zvavasingade. Ndiani "anoda"
kushandisa maawa uchivhura migero - uye zvakadaro yanga iri chikamu chepakati cheiyo
Chiitiko cheAmerica kwemakumi emakore.
Ko kana maminitsi e400 pamwedzi vanhu vanopedza paIndaneti vakawanda
(kana kunyange chikamu) chakashandiswa mumakona mahara, kunyengedzwa, kuunganidza ad
zvinyorwa zvekambani?
Heino kukakavara kwangu: Kufunga nezve
iyo mhepo yakashambadzika uye iyo yakagadzirisa zvisikwa iyo inotanga iyo inofadza
simba rinotsanangura. Inotsanangura iyo "yakarasika nguva" yekunzwa kwandakaita
akasiyana masocial network, uye izvo zvandakanzwa vamwe vanhu vachitaura nezvazvo. It
anotsanangura kuti sei Facebook yakagadzirisa maitiro ayo, vanhu vakawanda
vanoita sevasingafarire zviitiko zvavanazvo, kunyangwe ivo vasingasiye
ivo. Inobatsira kutsanangura kuti sei vanhu vachiramba vachidzokera kumashumiro anoyamwa
ivo mukati, kunyangwe pavanoti havadi.
Inondibatsira kunzwisisa kuti sei chiitiko chevhidhiyo, izvo zvakatanga nezvakanaka
chinangwa chekubatanidza vanhu, chave chakadai chakadai. Pamwe
iyo tech savvy, inoonekwa sechiito cheushingi kuti, "Ndinoda Facebook. "
nekuti
vagadziri uye vanogadzira vakadudzira kuwedzera "nguva pane saiti,"
"Kuomerera," "kubatikana," sekupa vanhu zvavaida, ivo
vakavaka hurongwa hunoita kuti mhinduro dzinomanikidzwa kubva kuvanhu kuti ivo
akazozvidemba.
Pachinhu chiduku, chiitiko chemachina emagetsi chinofanira kuva
chikamu chenzira yatinotaura nezvinofadza zveInternet. Zvichida,
nekufamba kwenguva, matambudziko aya anozozvigadzirisa. Handina chokwadi,
kunyange zvakadaro: Masimba ezvemari ari pamwoyo ye-ad-supported social network
chaizvoizvo inoda kuwedzera nguva yakawanda yevanhu vanopedza pane imwe nzvimbo,
zvichiita kugadzira zvidhori.
Izvo zvinongoitika zvakadaro kuti mushandisi
mararamiro emitemo ayo anobatsira zvikuru kune Facebook uye mamwe
pasocial network ndiwo mapatani avakadudzira
zvinoreva kuti vanhu vanovada. Zvinoita sekunge vakasarudza zvaizoitika
ive inobatsira zvikuru uye inofanirwa kuti ingaruramisa sei sekushumira
user's needs.
Asi ini handitende izvozvo. Unogona kutaura zvakawanda
zvinhu pamusoro pevashambadziri, vanogadzira, uye makodhi anovaka hukama
network makambani, asi ivo vanotenda mune izvo zvavanoita. Ivo vakawedzera
zvichida kuva maonero kune zvipfeko zvemari zvemari. Uye ivo
shandisa zuva rose pa Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, uye Pinterest,
zvakare. Ini ndinotengesa ivo vanoziva muchina zone, futi. Uye ndosaka ndine tariro
ivo vanga vobva varega kugadzira misungo.
Chero zvazvingaitika, kurwa
kusakosha kukuru pamwoyo yezviputi izvi zvakamanikidzira zvinofanira kuva imwe ye
zvinangwa zve teknolojia yekushandura, kushandisa, uye kutsoropodza.
Mutsika huru yeMupata, tichagadzira t-shati: Ingoti Kwete Kwete Kunzvimbo Yemuchina.
amateu zvinhu chete uye ndakanga ndisingachagoni kuomerwa ne porn befor
Re: kukanganisa kwemhando dzakasiyana siyana dzepabonde?
chimwe chinhu chandinoda kutaura pamusoro pezvinonyadzisira
KUNYANYA MUTA. Kuda rubatsiro.
Zvinonyadzisira hazvisi uhu.
Pamusoro peshoko rekutsvaga. (zvishoma nezvinyorwa)
zvinonyadzisira zvinokanganisa pfungwa dzako. Ndinoziva nekuti ndiripo. Ndinonzwa kusurukirwa
mutungamiri wedu wekuita zvepabonde achitaurira vose vaduku vaduku
ED ichipera, ini ndatoziva kuti handisi kuzodzokera kumashure
Iyi nzvimbo inenge ichingokura kupfuura iwe
heino musiyano wakakura pakati pezvakadhindwa zvinonyadzisira
Chimwe chetatu (33%) chevarume pakati pezera remakore 18 ne30 vanofunga kuti ivo vakapindwa muropa kana kuti havana chokwadi kana vakadhakwa nekuona zvinonyadzisira
Kuchinja kukuru kwekuona zvinonyadzisira kubva ku1980es kusvika panguva ino.
Kuchinja kukuru kwekuona zvinonyadzisira kubva ku1980es kusvika panguva ino.
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Ini handisati ndaida kunyange kutarisira, ndinongoda kuti mabhii azaruke,
Anopfuura makumi matatu emakore ekudyisa uropi hwangu naP.
Iyi ndiyo zvikamu zvandakapfuura mumakore ekupedzisira e30 +. (April, 2015)
CHIKAMU 1 - Kunyanya Kufungidzira
Rewind to 1981. Izvo zvose zvakatanga zvakanakisa nyore. Ndakawana mimwe mifananidzo inomutsa pano uye apo pandakanga ndiri pakati pezera re 11. Pandaiva pamba ndiri ndoga zvakange zvakakwana kuti ndifare, saka kutaura. Akaona dzimwe nude zviitiko nguva dzose kamwechete pane imwe terevhizheni, zvakakanganwa kuti zvigare kwenguva yakati 🙂
CHIKAMU 2 - Magazini
Panguva iyo iwe waifungidzirwa kuva pussy kudai iwe usina kuva negavo mabhuku maviri a Playboy. Ndakatotadza zvimwe zvikwata pamadziro angu uye baba vangu vanobvumirwa, vachiona ini semukomana mutsva hwakanaka 🙂
Ndichiri kushamisika kuti magz aya akave seizvi: crunchy: - lol
CHIKAMU 3 - Erootic chiteshi uye VCR
Iye zvino tumira mberi ku1985. Nguva yokutanga yandakaiswa kune mafirimu evanhu vekuona zvinonyadzisira yakanga iri mune yakakurumbira yeDutch FilmNet Night Club. Kubva ku23: 00 kusvika mangwanani-ngwanani iyi ndiyo nzvimbo yaifanira kuva kana iwe uchida kuona chiito chakakura. Takanga tine mvumo kune zviteshi zvose. Kwemukomana wemakore we15, izvi zvakange zvakakosha kuti zvive zvechokwadi. Kuwanda kweusiku usiku uye masheji akawanda akanyorova 🙂 Zvakatova nani kana ndawana VCR yangu yekutanga. Izvi zvakandibvumira kunyora nyeredzi dzangu dzaidiwa uye ndichitamba zvakare musi wandakanga ndiri pamba ndiri ndoga. Ndinofunga 50% yematope angu ose aiva P panguva iyoyo. Zvinyatsovanzwa mubhokisi kana chakanyorwa kuti "Zvose" uye zvinhu 🙂
CHIKAMU 4 - Iyo Internet neDVD
Zvadaro 10 makore apfuura. 1995. Upenyu hwakanga huri hwakanaka, musikana akanaka kwazvo, mujenya uye zvakawanda zvepabonde. Asi panguva yehukama hwandakawana paIndaneti zvinonyadzisira. Yakatanga nemifananidzo yakasimba. Apo paakanga ari kubasa uye bhaibheri rangu raisimukazve, ndaizoenda paIndaneti (iwe waifanira kushanyira ipapo) uye wakakodzwa zvimwe zvinyorwa. Mafirimu ayo achiri kukakura zvakanyanya kuti akwanise kudhitswa, saka pakutanga ndakachengetedza pamifananidzo yakasimba. Ndakabhadhara zvinhu zvakashata nemusikana kamwe kamwe munguva imwe chete, asi haana kunditsinhanisa sezvinhu zvandakabhadharwa kubva mumashoko ega.
CHIKAMU 5 - Yekumhanyisa Internet
Dzokera ku 2005. Kuroora. Libidhi yakatanga kuenda kunze kwekuenderana nemudzimai. Kuberekwa kwepaIndaneti P. Yakatanga kutora mafirimu ikozvino. Damn, vakadzi vazhinji vanopisa, nguva shoma. Takatanga kutora zvinyorwa, zvakanyatsogadzirwa pakuwana ejac yakakwana, kurwara 🙂
CHIKAMU 6 - Zvimwe, nyowani, zvitsva, nyaradzo, yekufungidzira nyika
Zviri 2010. Kurambana. Akaramba ari mudiki nyika yangu, akadonhedza shamwari, akachimisa iyo P inodya 🙂Gigabytes uye maGigabyte eiyo HQ zvinhu, zvakarongedzwa ne "mutambi", PMO rinenge zuva nezuva, zviitiko zvehukama kusvika padiki. Kuenda kubva pambongoro-murume kuenda kubobs-murume uye kudzoka zvakare. Kunyangwe huropi hwangu hauchazive izvo zvandinoda chaizvo. Kana ndikadzoka kumba kune isina chinhu imba, doro uye PMO zvakaita kuti ndizorore. Zuva rinotevera, zvese zvakare.
CHIKAMU 7 - Zvakawandisa zvechinhu chero chipi zvacho hazvina kukunakira
Iko zvino 2014. Kunyangwe vasikana vanopisa mumavhidhiyo havakwanisi kundidzorera zvakare. Vanofanirwa kunge vari mune imwe nzvimbo, vane humwe huwandu uye humwe hutarisiro hunoita kuti hurumidze kumutsa. Zvimwe zvose "zvinhu" zviripo chete kuti zviwane nzvimbo panzvimbo yangu yekutengesa (yakakura kusvika kune yakawanda kwazvo).
CHIKAMU 8 - Nei? Mira iyi yekudzika kutenderera!
Jan 2015. Ndiri zvakare pane PMO binge. Katatu mumazuva maviri. Muviri wangu nehupi zvangu zvapera. Panzvimbo yekubuda nekudzingirira vakadzi, ndiri kuenda mumusana wangu uripo kuti ndiwane chero chinogona kuporesa marwadzo angu omukati. Pandinenge ndasara nokuda kwe-i-dont-know-iyo-1000th-nguva, chimwe chinhu chinopera. Sei? Sei??
Uye panguva yekutsvaga vanhu vane matambudziko akafanana ndinowana NoFap. Verenga nyaya. Inzwa kurwadziwa uye kurwisa vanhu vose vari kupfuura. Lurk kwemavhiki mashomanana uye zvino ini ndinogadzira account, shandisa vamwe. Drop it again coz Ndinonzwa ndine nyadzi. Gadzira imwe. Donhedza.
Uye zvino yangu yekutanga chaiyo yedza. Badge nezvose. Masvondo maviri. Uyezve mamwe mavhiki maviri. Uyezve imwe vhiki. Parizvino ku4th kuedza, asi kuwedzera. Mushure mezvose, 3 MO mune mumasvondo e6 akanaka chaizvo kune wekutanga weNoFap.
Saka, kuita nyaya iyi kure kure zvikuru. Zvinongowedzera kuwedzerwa munguva uye nguva yekusiya kamwechete uye kwevose.
TL; DR: Ndakanga ndiri kuwedzera P mumakore ekupedzisira e30, munoziva inenge imwe nyeredzi / actress, asi ikozvino ndapedzwa neichi shit 😀
LINK - Anopfuura makumi matatu emakore ekudyisa uropi hwangu naP. Almost prehistoric, saka ndidanei Fapster Erectus 🙂
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Izvo zvinopesana nekuenda zvinonyadzisira-pasina; Chikonzero nei vanhu vachigumburwa zvikuru kana iwe uchitaura nezvekuipa kwezvinonyadzisira, uye chirwere ichi chiri kukonzera
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Zvinonyadzisira pamusoro pemakore mashomanana apfuura zvakava zvakawanda, ZVINHU zvakasimba zvikuru, zvinopisa, uye zvinodhaka.
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