Ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate: Ho bapisoa le ho itšetleha ka lithethefatsi tsa kelello (2003)

Semela, Martin le Moira Plant.

Litaba tsa tšebeliso ea lithethefatsi 8, che. 4 (2003): 260-266.

https://doi.org/10.1080/14659890310001636125

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Pampiri ena e nka boemo ba mefuta e itseng ea boits'oaro ba thobalano e le mofuta oa ts'ebeliso ea lithethefatsi kapa 'tahi'. Poleloana 'ho lemalla thobalano' e se e amohetse feela lilemong tsa morao tjena. Boholo ba lipuisano tse phatlalalitsoeng tsa sehlooho sena li amohetse pono ea 'mofuta oa mafu' le mohato oa mehato e 12 ho mekhoa e lemalloang e tsebahalang haholo mabapi le ho itšetleha ka lintho tse sebelisang kelello. Ho qotsitsoe litlhaloso tse 'maloa, hammoho le ts'oaetso e matla ea Carnes ea maemo a mararo a bokhoba ba thobalano. Ho nahanoa liphoso tse ling tsa mokhoa ona. Ha ho amohelehe hohle hore mefuta e meng ea boits'oaro ba thobalano e lokela ho nkuoa e le ho itšetleha kapa 'ho lemalla'. Ho 'nile ha babatsoa mekhoa e mengata ea kalafo ka lebaka la bokhoba ba thobalano. Tsena li kenyelletsa kalafo ea kelello ea motho ka mong, mekhoa ea boits'oaro ea boits'oaro le ts'ebeliso ea meriana ho hatella takatso ea botona kapa botšehali. Ho tšoana ho hong le ho itšetleha ka lithethefatsi tse sebelisang kelello ho amoheloa. Ho fihletsoe qeto ea hore mefuta e meng ea boits'oaro ba thobalano (ho kenyeletsoa bokhoba ba inthanete kapa ba 'cybersex') ka nepo e ka nkuoa e le mokhoa oa ho itšetleha. Thobalano e kenya tšebetsong likarolo tse tšoanang tsa boko le tse sebelisoang ke ts'ebeliso ea lithethefatsi. Ntle le moo, ho na le bopaki bo bong bo bontšang hore mathata a lithethefatsi tse sebetsanang le kelello a ka amahanngoa le mathata a amanang le boitšoaro ba thobalano. Ho khothalletsoa hore litsebi tsa 'tahi' li hlahlobe bareki bakeng sa mathata a boitšoaro ba thobalano.