UAndrew Sullivan kwi "Iilingo Elikhulu Lezono"

ukusuka IThekhinoloji ngokubhala nokuCinga

… Ukufunda oku nokubukela oku ukuthetha ngeTedx kwiimpembelelo ze-intanethi kwi-brains yabesilisa abancinci-ngokubangela ukuba baxhatshaze ngokobulili bokwenene kunye nabantu bokwenene kunye nokwenza ubhubhane lwabafana abasha abane-floppy dicks (andizakusebenzisa igama elithi "i-erectile dysfunction" xa iNgesi elula ingenza) - ndikhuphe kancinci. Ukubhala nokuhlela nokuvelisa iziganeko ze-50 ngosuku - nokwenza into efana nayo yonke imihla ukususela ngo-Bill Clinton wayengumongameli - kufuneka ichaphazele ingqondo yam. Akunamandla njengempembelelo encinci, ukuphuhlisa ingqondo, kodwa, ewe, ukukhwabanisa, ukunganeliseki, kunye nokuxinezeleka ngokuqhubekayo akungatshintshi ukuguqula yonke ingqondo. Kwaye ndiyakwazi ukubona iphulo ngokubhekiselele kwi-intanethi ukwenza ukuba isondo somzimba sibe nzima - ngakumbi ukuba uchitha ixesha lakho lokukhula ngokwesondo phantsi kwexesha lokuhlala, iintlobo zeengcamango zesondo kunye nevidiyo. Inkosikazi enye okanye indoda enye ingaqala ukuthatha indawo yeso cornucopia ye-dopamine?

Ubuchopho bethu benzelwe ukuguqulwa. Kodwa kungekho oku kudla ngoku, ngokukhawuleza, oku kuyonwaba kwaye akukho miphumo. Kwakhona, i-cortex yethu yangaphambili ihamba phambili phambi kwe-DNA yethu ye-primate. Kwaye iNqaba yeBhabheli ikhula iphakamileyo.


ukusuka Ukuba nguMlawuli WeeNdawo Zakho, iCtd - Kule posi uSullivan ucaphula abantu abaliqela ababandakanyeka kumbutho weNoFap:

Umntu wokuqala

… "Ukuhamba" kweNoFap kuninzi malunga ne-intanethi ye-intanethi kunokuba kunjalo malunga nokutshala, nokuba ngaba abathathi-nxaxheba bayazi le nto okanye cha. Ayisiyiyo into yokuba ukuphulula amaphambili ngokwako kuyingozi ekusebenzeni ngokwesondo; kukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini rhoqo kwi-Intanethi kuyingozi ekusebenzeni ngokwesondo. Ngethuba lokuqala kwimbali yoluntu, indoda inokujonga ngakumbi ukuvusa abantu ababhinqileyo ngeyure enye kunokuba ookhokho bethu babenzayo ebomini. Ubume be-intanethi ye-intanethi buye banikezela inqanaba lezinto zesini esingaguqukanga ukuba siziphathe. Isitshixo apha yidopamine kunye nokujikeleza komvuzo kwengqondo. Yinto enye ukuba uphulula amalungu esini kwimifanekiso yengqondo. Ngenye into ukuba ujonga iphonografi. Hlanganisa zombini ukuya kwi-orgasm, imihla ngemihla, kwaye uya kuba nezona zinto ziyinyani, eziyingozi kakhulu ekusebenzeni ngokwesondo. Kwaye xa usenza oku iminyaka ukuphela, kuya kusiba nzima ukugcina amanqanaba e-boner yedopamine xa unomfazi omnye, onama-3.

Kukho ubhubhane lwabafana abancinci abajamelana nokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, kubonakala ngathi kungenxa yokusebenzisa kakhulu iphonografi kwi-Intanethi. Jonga uGary Wilson ucacisa ingxaki kwintetho yakhe yeTEDx [ngasentla]. Ke ufumana eli qela labafana elingenakho ukuvuswa yintombazana yokwenyani (okanye indoda), mhlawumbi baphose eminye imiba enje ngoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo lwasentlalweni, kwaye ngenxa yeemeko zengqondo nezentlalo zokuphulula amalungu esini, zichaza gwenxa unobangela- kwaye -futhe kwaye "lifake" xa kufuneka beyeke uonobumba.

Omnye uvuma:

Andikwazi nokugcina ikhondom kwakhona, kwaye ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo bahlala becinga ngemeko ye-porn endandiyibukele ngaphambili (okanye kwangolo suku). Ukuyeka ukubukela iphonografi, ukucima iingqokelela zethu ezikhutshelweyo, ngumzamo wokubuyisela ulawulo ebomini bethu.

Omnye:

… Ndiyakwazi ukukuxelela ngamava - njengendoda eneminyaka engama-33 ubudala eyindoda eyayiseViagra iminyaka esixhenxe, eyanikwa ithebhulethi yam yokuqala kwindoda eneminyaka engama-30 eyayixhomekeke kubo, eneqaqobana abahlobo abathe ngqo nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandanayo "abakwazi ukuhlala nzima ngeekhondom", ngubani owaziyo abafana abalwa ne-ED kwi-20 yabo yokuqala, kwaye uyazi abantu abaza kuza kuphela ukuba busebusweni bomntu-kukho into eyenzekayo kubafana abancinci kule mihla.

Uninzi lwabafana bafumana iforamu kwiwebhusayithi yourbrainonporn.com. Inomxholo we-TedX we-TedX "Iingcamango Ezingxamisekileyo" kunye noFilipu Zimbardo "Ukufunwa Kwabafana". Izinto eziphosakeleyo; Iingcamango zokuthi i-intanethi ye-intanethi ayikho iqoqo le-Playboy yokuqokelela, ukuba ubuchopho bethu abuxhotywanga ukusingatha oko sikubekayo, kunye nemiphumo yokubamba i-dopamine yokufumana i-intanethi imihla ngemihla, iminyaka ngeminyaka.

Ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba abantu bahlole isayithi. Ingumxholo othakazelisayo, kwaye ufaneleke ngakumbi kunoko Inew york phephancwadi kunye Gawker wanika.