YBOP UKUBA: Eli phepha linengxelo ezininzi ezenziwa ngabantu (ezinye zazo zichanekile kwezopolitiko kunabanye), abagqiba kwelokuba ukuthanda kwabo amanyala kuchaphazele ukuthanda kwabo ngokwesondo emva kokuba beyekile ukubukela iphonografi kwaye baqaphela ukuthanda kwabo ukubuyela. Ezi ngxelo zakho zithathwa kwiiforamu zokubuyisa iphonografi. I-YBOP icacisa kakuhle njengoko injalo, kwaye iimbono zababhali / ukubethabethana kwazo akuthethi ukuba kule webhusayithi. Ukuba uziva umdla wakho wesondo kunye nothando kubantu be-transgender usempilweni, ukuba wanelisekile kukuthanda kwakho ngokwesondo, okanye ukuba ukuthanda kwakho ngokwesondo kubekiwe, ungafundi kude. Eli phepha lelabantu abakholelwa ukuba ukunyuka kwabo kuqhutywa ngokwesondo ukuya kuhlobo lwenoveli kunokuba kukufihla ukuthanda kwabo ngokwesondo kwangaphambili okanye ngokuzalwa.
Jonga igalelo lezithuba ezingezantsi kwizithuba zabasebenzisi bezentlebo ezichaza ukunyuka kwimibala engafaniyo nokuthandwa kwintsusa okanye ukuqhelaniswa. Kwakhona ubone:
- EZINTSHA: Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-40 zokubika iziphumo zihambelane nokukhula kwezilwanyana (ukunyamezela), ukuhlala kwimiba yezononophelo, kunye nokukhutshwa kweempawu
- KUFUNDA: Ngubani onomdla 'kwi shemales?' - Ngoobani amadoda angama-gynandromorphophilic? Ukufanisa amadoda anomdla wesini kubafazi be-transgender (2015) [Olu phononongo lwalunesihloko sababhali besifundo.]
- Ingxelo yokuzimela ngokucacileyo kwindlela indoda eyeke ukuhamba ngayo i-fetish-long-term fetish isebenzisa indlela ehlazo-ntle, yokubuyisela ubuchopho.
- Ngaba Ukuthanda Ngokwezesondo?
- Ulwaphulo lwe-HOCD? I-HOCD enxulumene noonomonde ingabiza iprotocol yayo yonyango
- I-Porn, ukunyuka, ukunyamezela kunye nokuthandana ngokwesondo (i-radio show #16)
- I-Porn, imeko yesondo kunye nengqondo yengqondo yomntwana (i-radio show #17)
- Ubunjengebuntongo obuneminyaka engama-10 bubambisana noThishino lwe-intanethi ephakamileyo (2013) (isigxina-iriyure ye-YouTube kwinkcazo yesondo kunye neengqondo zolutsha)
KUFUNDO: Ngaba Iingxowa-ze-Intanethi Zenza Ubunqunu Bokuziphatha Ngobulili?
Ngesinye isikhathi, amadoda angathemba iipenise zabo ukuba baxelele yonke into ayifunayo ukuba bazi malunga nokuthanda kwabo ngokwesondo okanye ukuqhelaniswa. Kwa kutshanje, i-neuroscientist yokuziphatha UPaul Vasey ngokuqinisekileyo wathi,
Ukwabelana ngesondo yile nto ucinga ngayo xa uphulula amaphambili. ”
Kwenene? Kuthekani ukuba i-porno oye wayidla ngokukhawuleza awusekho umsebenzi? Ngaba ngaba ngaba izibukeli ezingenakuze zonakalise abanye zibukela ubundlobongela obundlobongela? Kutheni ababukeli beentlobano zesini zobungqina beentlobano zesini nabasemagqabini beziva bexakekile ngenxa yokuthanda kwabo ngokugqithisileyo okanye ngoonwabo bezocansi? Kutheni abantu abaqinileyo bexhonywa yiminqweno yabo yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini okanye i-gay porn?
Ingqondo yengqondo uNorman Doidge ichazwe kuyo Ubungqina Obuguqula:
Umxholo wento [izigulane] ezithandekayo zatshintshile njengoko iiWebhsayithi zazisa izihloko kunye neempendulo eziguqule ubuchopho babo ngaphandle kokwazi kwabo. Ngenxa yokuba i-plasticity ikhuphisana, ubuchopho bubala kwimifanekiso emitsha, enomdla okwenyukayo kwenyuka kwintlawulo yezinto ezazibatsalwe ngaphambili. (p.109)
Ngaba ukuthanda umboniso wakutshanje wombukeli kutyhila "ezona minqweno zinzulu kunye neengcinga ezininzi ezingathintelwanga," njenge Ogas noGaddam Kleyima? Ngaba ukuthanda kwakhe ngokwesini kuyatshintsha kunye noko akujongayo? Okanye ngaba i-cyberporn ivelisa ukuthanda okungaphezulu, ngamanye amaxesha okungahambelani nolwalamano ngokwesondo? Kungenzeka, le yokugqibela.
Iphonografi itshintshile… kakhulu
Amagama, imifanekiso, iaudiyo kunye nevidiyo ayonto intsha. Kutheni le nto abantu bekhalaza ngokuba "likhoboka" kwi-Intanethi, kwi-imeyile, kuFacebook, kwimidlalo yevidiyo, kwiifowuni, okanye kwi-Intanethi? Kungenxa yokuba ezi nguqulelo zanamhlanje zale misebenzi, enyanisweni, zinokuba ngumlutha. Ukujonga umnatha, ngakumbi iphonografi, kubandakanya yonke imisebenzi eyenza i-dopamine kunye nokugcina isekethe yomvuzo: ukufuna kunye nokukhangela, izinto ezinomtsalane, ulindelo njengephepha ngalinye elinemithwalo, inoveli kwimfuno, kunye neziboniso ezimangazayo nezothusayo.
Kucacile, inyanga-ngenyanga playboy, okanye iteyiphu ye-VHS engama-80 awukwazi ukuthelekisa ukusebenzisa izikrini ezibini eziphakamileyo, ezineefestile ezi-6 ezivulekileyo, ukukhangela de ufumane ifoto efanelekileyo yokukusa ekhaya. Emva kokuphefumla kancinci unokukhangela kuGoogle ngento ongazange wayibona, ke unokuphinda ubuye kwakhona. Ngokungafaniyo ne-static porn yexesha elidlulileyo, iphonografi yanamhlanje ye-Intanethi iyakhuthaza kangangokuba, kwezinye iingqondo, zinokuhamba kancinci ukuvelisa utshintsho olunxulumene neziyobisi.
Akumangalisi ukuba ubuchopho bomntu bunokukhula buyeke kwaye ayeke ukuphendula kwizenzo zesondo eziqhelekileyo. Nje ukuba i-vanilla ye-porn ingasamenzeli yona, ukuthanda kwakhe ngokwesondo kunokubonisa ukuba kuyamangalisa ulwelo. Xa uhlobo lwangoku lwe-cyberporn lungamvuseleli, ucinga, "Oo, ngumqondiso wokuba ingqondo yam ifuna ixesha lokuphuma ukuze ibuyele kuvakalelo oluqhelekileyo, kutheni ndingayeki ukubukela iphonografi?"
Cha. Ucinga ngokungenakucinga ukuba akukho nanye okhokho bakhe abanokukhetha ukwenza (kodwa bekunokwenza). Phuma kunye nabadala kunye nendawo entsha-kuba intsha iyabangela ukunyuka kwe-dopamine kufuneka avuke. Ucofa ngeWebhu aze ahlasele into eyenza i-penis yakhe. I-pornstar inoveli ingaba neleyo, kodwa mhlawumbi emva kweseshoni sesine yosuku, idinga ukuxhalabisa okanye ukuxhalabisa i-dopamine yakhe kwaye ulayite umlilo phantsi kwengqondo yakhe etyhafileyo yokujikeleza umvuzo.
Ndibuyele kwi-porno yobufanasini ngoku, Ndifumene [i-transgender] imfesane evukile ngokwenene ekuqaleni, kodwa kungeyikho indebe yam yeeyi. Xa ndayeka ukuyika ukuba abantu bayayicinga ntoni, lahlekelwa yinto endiyinike yona kwaye yandiqhayisa.
Ukuqala kwam ukufumana iphonografi [ye-transgender] yayintsha kwaye inomdla, kodwa ngoku ndingumfazi. Uloyiko lulo oluqhube umtsalane wam [kubadlali be-transgender], kodwa lwakuba uloyiko lumkile umtsalane wawuphelile. Akujongeka njengokujonga umfazi ophethe i-dick kwakhona. Ayonyanye kodwa ayilunganga.
Isiqingatha sabasebenzisi be-porn banamhlanje ukunyuka kwizinto eziphathekayo oko kwakungenakunandipha. Kwamanye abasebenzisi bezononono, le ngcamango engenacala ingenayo enye okanye zombini kwezi ziphumo ezingathandekiyo:
1. Ukuhlawula: Umsebenzisi engaqondanga wenza iindlela ezintsha zokuvuselela inkqubo yakhe yomlenze. Njengoko umphandi uJim Pfaus esitsho, “le ukuxilonga kwengqondo kulungelelanisa. ” Ayibophelelwanga ngokungqongqo ziintambo zangaphakathi, kodwa endaweni yoko iyaqhelanisa neendlela ezithembisayo zesondo. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi ngexesha lokukhula, xa ubuchopho bubekwe ngokubambisana ngokubambisana ngezesondo.
Ngombulelo kwindaleko, ukuchumisa yeyona nto iphambili kwingqondo, ke-nokuba umsebenzisi we-porn angathanda ukulibala oko akubonileyo-ingqondo yakhe iyicoca ngononophelo yonke imibutho ekhokelele kwi-orgasm yakhe. Ifuna ukuba ikwazi "ukuchumisa" le njongo kwakhona kwixesha elizayo. Ngokusebenzisa ngokuzimisela, indlela entsha yobuchopho inokuba 'yindlela yokuzikhethela,' ngaphandle kokuthambekela okusisiseko. Ngamafutshane, iiseli zemithambo-luvo ezitshisa kunye ziqhagamshelene ngocingo-ngakumbi ukuba zivelisa i-orgasm 'enkulu' n 'engcono.
2. Ukuxhatshazwa: "Iiyure ezimbini ezijikeleza iphonografi? Yiloo nto eyenzelwe nguGoogle. ” “Ziimichiza ezimbini ezenzekileyo kususela kwisidlo sangokuhlwa? Makhe nditshise ilaptop yam yakudala ukuze ndibukele ezinye iiwindows kwiscreen esongezelelweyo. ” Ngokungafaniyo nezinye izilwanyana ezanyisayo, umfo unokugqitha kwimida yakhe yendalo esebenzisa i-porn-novel.
Ixesha elingaphezulu, ingqondo yomsebenzisi inokutshintsha ngokwasemzimbeni. Iimpawu ze iinguqu eziphambili zengqondo (ngokuchaseneyo nokuhlala ixesha elifutshane) kunokubandakanya: ukungalawuleki okungapheliyo kolawulo lokunyanzelwa, ukuthanda iipikisi ekuphenduleni iindlela azidibanisa nokusetyenziswa kwe-porn, kunye nokunciphisa ukuphendula ngokwesondo. Akasabhalisi ulonwabo ngokwesiqhelo; Ingqondo yakhe enesidima unqwenela ukuba i-dopamine uhlaselwa ekuvuseleleni. Ukugquma, yena iimfuno ukubukela ixesha elide okanye ukuthutha kwiindidi ezintsha zoononophala.
Oku akusiyo i-theory kuphela. Uphando lwezilwanyana lwakutsha luchaza ukuba amazinga aphezulu e-dopamine (esetyenziswe nge-dopamine D2 i-agonist drug) ukutshintsha izinto ezikhethwe ngokwesondo kwindoda. Abasebenzisi abangamanyala abangamanyala bafuna nantoni na eya kuthi inyuse i-dopamine yabo ebambekayo. Nje ukuba bayifumane, i-dopamine iyenyuka, kunye nenkqubo yokuphinda ubeke imeko yezempendulo zabo ngokwesondo sele iqalile. Ukuba baqhubeka nokuhlaziya i-masturbation kuhlobo olutsha, i-dopamine iphinda ivuselele imijikelezo yabo yesondo, ekhokelela ekungazini, kwaye ihlala yothusa, itshintshe ukuthanda izinto ezingamanyala ezenza kube nzima, okanye kungenzeki, ukufikelela kuvuthondaba lwangaphambili. Akumangalisi ukuba, njengoko abasebenzisi behamba behamba bebukela iphonografi bekhangela "O" omkhulu olandelayo, banokugqibela befikelela kuvuthondaba kwimiboniso engothusayo-okanye engekho semthethweni.
Anthony: Ndaqala ukujonga iphonografi, rhoqo, malunga neminyaka emihlanu eyadlulayo. Kuqala kwakukho abafazi abahle, emva koko ii-hardcore porn, emva koko ukufakwa okungaqhelekanga, emva koko [abadlali be-transgender], emva koko abagxeki, emva koko ii-hermaphrodites, emva koko i-porn yabaselula, emva koko iimodeli ezincinci kwaye ngoku entolongweni (kungekudala kuya kuhamba). Njengoko iminyaka idlulile ndaba nomdla omncinci kumdlalo wokuphulula amalungu esini kwaye ndinomdla ngakumbi ekufuneni "izinto ezintsha". Xa ndijonga emva, andiboni ukuba ndihluleke njani ukuba ndibone ukuba ndinengxaki.
Omnye umntu kwi Iforamu yokubuyisa ama-porn:
Andazi ukuba ujonga reddit rhoqo, 'ikhabethe elingenanto' njlnjl .. iwebhusayithi malunga nokudideka / ukuqhelaniswa ne-porn, kodwa kukho amawaka nje emisonto nabantu abaziva bephaphama malunga nokuba kutheni befuna ukuncanca amantshontsho okanye ukubukela izinto ezothusayo Emva kokusebenzisa iphonografi.
Nokuba iqonga 'elingenanto' ligcwele ngabantu, isitabane / bi / ngqo ezilahlekileyo ngokupheleleyo kwaye zididekile malunga nokuziqhelanisa, kwaye BONKE bakhankanye ukusetyenziswa kwabo kwe-porn.
Kubonakala ngathi isantya esiphakamileyo sabasebenzisi be-porn ngoku siya kwi-Intanethi kwaye sicela iimpendulo. Kwiiforamu zaseFrance, kuyafana. Uninzi alwazi ukuba kutheni luphuhlise ubudoda okanye ubukhoboka besini… kukho amawaka abantu abafunda izithuba kwaye into eqhelekileyo kubo bonke abantu kukusetyenziswa kwe-intanethi (iphonografi, incoko, indawo yokuthandana).
Ukuqhelana ngokwesondo ngokubhekiselele kwintando yesini
Kucacile ukuba, umsebenzisi okhupha isitimela se-intanethi ye-intanethi unokuphela ukuphuma kwiimisipha ezazingenakwenzeka. Mhlawumbi kuninzi kukuthi, "Nceda! Ipenisi yam iphendula kuphela kwi-erotica ndidibana nomntu enye into Ukwaziswa ngezesondo."
URyan: Ndicinga ukuba ndicinga ukuba ndingu-gay. Iingcinga zam ezithandekayo ngalo mbandela zazomelele kangangokuba ndicinga ngokuthatha indawo yokuphakama kwindawo ekufutshane. Ndaziva ndidandathekile. Ndazi ukuba ndiwathanda amantombazana kwaye andinakumthanda omnye umntu, kodwa kutheni ndine-ED? Kutheni le nto ngoku ndifuna i-transgenderl / izinto zesini ukuze ndihle? Kufana nokuba ndenze impazamo endingenakukwazi ukuyilungisa. Ndifuna ukubuyela kwiintsuku zam zakudala xa ndavulwa kuphela ngumzimba wabasetyhini.
Omnye umntu ozichaza ngokwakhe njenge-bi:
Njengomntu ofikisayo ndandinqabile ukuba ndisebenzise iphonografi okanye iphonografi apho indoda yayijolise kuyo kuba ndisoyika ukuba ndiza kukhutshwa yimbali yam ye-intanethi ndize ndilahlwe lusapho. Andikasetyenziselwa ukubonisa loo nxalenye yesini sam. Andizange ndenze i-orgasm okokuqala ndalala ngesondo (eyayikunye nomfana). Nditsho nomtsalane wam wesini emadodeni usekwe kwindlela ababonisa ngayo ababhinqileyo kuba ndifundisiwe ukuba ubufazi bulingana ngesondo. Intloko yam imdaka. Konke oku kuphazamisekile.
Gay guy: (Gay) Ukuyeka u-porn kuye kwalungisa ukuthanda kwam isondo
Omnye umfana ongumfana:
Umntu omtsha apha, i-26 evela e-UK kwaye kutshanje ndiye ndaqonda ukuba ndihlupheka ngoononophala kubangele i-ED emva konyaka olungileyo okanye emibini kunzima ukuyigcina kunye namaqabane.
Ndifumene ukuthanda kwam iphonografi okwahlukileyo kwisazisi sam - ndingumfana ongumntu othandana naye kwaye ndithandana nabantu besilisa kodwa andibonakali ngathi ndiyeke ukubukela iphonografi kwaye ndiguqulwe kakhulu yiyo yonke loo nto Olona hlobo kuphela lwe-porn endinokulujonga. Andizimisele ukuntywilisela umfazi, ndibone umfazi ehamba ze okanye ade asondele kwipussy kubomi bokwenyani kodwa andikwazi ukunceda kodwa nditsaleleke kolu hlobo lwe-porn.
Ndicinga ukuba ubuninzi beentlanzi zobugwenxa bundikhathazile, ndingazihlawula ngamanye amaxesha angama-5 ngosuku kunye noononophelo kwaye ndinokufumana i-erection egcweleyo kodwa ke andinakukwazi ukuyenza nzima kwaye ndihlale ngunzima kumlingani wezobomi.
Ndiyathemba ukuba kukho ukukhanya ekupheleni kwetonela kodwa oku kuya kuba ngumhla woku-1 kum. Kuya kuba kuhle ukuva kubantu abanamava afanayo kum ngalo mzuzu ukuya kuthi ga apho iphonografi ingonakalisanga amandla am okwenza kuphela kodwa itshintshe nengqondo yam ngokwezinto endigqibele ukuzibukela! Ngokwenyani ndicinga ukuba bendiya kuhamba ndibukele iphonografi engahambelani nayo nayiphi na iminqweno yam. I-Porn ikhupha i-ED kwaye ishintshe kwiminqweno yesondo
Ubunzima obubuhlungu bokuvakalelwa kunokufumana izinto ezinokuxhalabisa ngokukodwa. Iimvakalelo ezinjalo zikhulula enye i-dopamine (kunye ne-norepinephrin) kwingqondo. Ngokwenene, ba impendulo kumngcipheko.
Abanye babasebenzisi be-cyberporn banamhlanje bakhulisa iipateni ezinyanzelekileyo zoononophala. Umzekelo, umsebenzisi angaqhubeka nokuvavanya ukubona ukuba uhlobo oluthile lwe-porno luyavusa-kuba kwenzeka ukuba afumanise ukuba iyothusa (kwaye iyonwabisa). Emva koko uphulula amalungu esini ukukhupha uxinzelelo oluvelisiweyo. Unjengomntu ongenakuyeka ukujonga ukuba isitovu sicinyiwe na. Into enomdla kukuba, ukuba likhoboka leziyobisi kunye ne-OCD iziphene ezifanayo kwisekethe yomvuzo wobuchopho. Ukwaneliseka kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi, ukuqhuba ngokuqhubeka kwezinto ezingafunekiyo.
Utshilo omnye oneminyaka engama-21 ubudala kunye nentombi, enexhala elaqala kwiinyanga ezintathu ezidlulileyo xa wafumana ulwakhiwo ekubukeni ubudoda bendoda kwividiyo:
Ngoku, ndihlala ndiziva ndifuna ukuqhubeka ndisebenzisa i-porn ukubonisa ukuba ndisathe tye. Ndisebenzisa nawuphi na umzuzu okhoyo kwi-PMO kwabasetyhini, ngamanye amaxesha nakwigumbi elinye nentombi yam xa elele! Le ndlela yokuziphatha iyandicaphukisa kodwa ndifumanisa ukuba andinakukunceda. Inika intuthuzelo malunga nemizuzu eli-10 ngaphambi kokuthandabuza kwakhona.
Abenzi bezinto ezingamanyala bayayazi indlela ekunyanzela ngayo olu qhelwaniso-ukuxhalaba kunokuba njalo, kwaye baqwalasele iphonografi ye-transgender "njengobukhethekileyo kwi-porn." Xa udliwano-ndlebe, umqhubi wezonkcukacha ezininzi ze-pornos uthi, "Abaphulaphuli bam abaziintloko, kunye nabaphulaphuli uninzi lwe-[transgender] yamanyala, ziidudes ezichanekileyo. Yindlela ehlala ihleli ngayo. Ndiza kuyithetha loo nto Zonke iindwendwe kwiisayithi zengqingili zichanekileyo. ” (ugxininiso longezwa)
"Ndingubani?"
Ukuba umbukeli osisitabane uqalisa ukufikela kwi-porno ethe tye, okanye ngokuchaseneyo, ngaba ufumanisa "eyakhe inkanuko yesini?" Mhlawumbi akunjalo. Kodwa ubuchopho yiplastikhi kwaye, abasebenzisi banokuthi ngokungazenzisiyo bachukumise izinto ezintsha kulwakhiwo lwabo, njengoko izinja zikaPavlov zafunda ukuntywila intsimbi. Kuzo zombini iimeko, ukwenziwa kwe-dopamine (ulindelo) kunyanzelisa ukuzimela kwehle. Ingqondo yomvuzo wokuqala wesekethe ayazi ukuba intsimbi ayikokutya, okanye ukuba iphonografi "entsha" ayisiyiyo yam "porn". I-axiom yayo ithi, "Dopamine kulungile. "
Ngenhlanhla uRyan unako, ngokunyamezela nangokuzimela, kwakhona unnxu lumano yakhe engafunekiyo. (Ngakumbi emzuzwana.) Okwangoku, unokufuna ukuba aqaphele abantu abanentsingiselo abazama ukumxelela ukuba izinto ezithandayo ezitshintshayo zibonisa iingcamango ezifihliweyo malunga nokuqhelana naye ngokwesini. Mhlawumbi benza; mhlawumbi bafana bengenanto ebalulekileyo njengemifanekiso ebonakalayo engayiboni njengomntwana. Omnye umdala we-22:
Ngexesha lesikolo esiphakathi kunye nesikolo esiphakamileyo ndibukele iphonografi kangangeeyure. Emva kwesikolo esiphakamileyo ndandithandana nentombazana endiyithandayo, kodwa andizange ndive ngathi ndivuke xa ndijonga i-porn. Kwikholeji ndadideka malunga nokuziphatha kwam ngokwesini kuba ndandingaziva ndinomtsalane ngokwesini njengabanye abantu. Ndaphinda ndavulwa yi-gay porn kwaye ndacinga ukuba mhlawumbi ndinobufanasini obufutshane. Unyaka wam wokugqibela ndaya kwiingcebiso ngesondo kunye neqela eliza kuphuma kwikota yekota. Andizisondelanga ekuqondeni inkanuko yesini okanye umtsalane. Ewe, ndavulwa yi-porno engamanyala, kodwa khange ndizive ndinomdla, okanye ndicinga ngayo, bafana. Abafana endikhe ndadibana nabo babonakala beqinisekile ngakumbi ngolwazelelo lwabo. Emva kwexesha ndandingaqinisekanga ukuba ndikho apho. Ndiqalile ukuziva ndinomtsalane ngakumbi ngokwesini xa ndijikeleze iphonografi kunye ne-masturbation.
Okanye cinga ngoRyan kwakhona. Xa waqala ukusebenzisa iphonografi, yonke into awayecinga ngayo yayingamantombazana. Wayebukele iphonografi kuba wayengafuni ukubukela abantu besabelana ngesondo. Kuphela emva kweminyaka yokunyuka kwamanyala okuqhubekayo emva koko waqala ukuthandabuza ubume bakhe. Ukufumana kwakhona abasebenzisi be-porn kwiforum yethu rhoqo ingxelo ekhulayo, kunye nokulahla, "ukuthanda" okuninzi njengoko imikhwa yabo isiba mandundu. Kucacile ukuba ezi zinto zithandanayo, okwexeshana akunakubonakalisa imikhondo yokungcwatywa ngokwesini- ukuba kunjalo ikhona kubo.
Umzekelo, incasa ye "transgender porn" ingabonisa njani zesondo ngezoBomi? Ukutsalana kwabathandi be-transgender kuya kuba yindalo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, ngoko ukuziphendukela kwemvelo kwakungenakukukhetha. Ngaba le nto ingabonakaliyo njengokuba i-cornucopia yokunyanzela isondo (izifuba, ukubeka ipeni, ukuvuselela izenzo), zibheke nge-dopamine eyongeziweyo kumbukeli ofumanisayo okanye ukuxhalabisa?
Utshintsho olukhulu kwizinto ezithandwayo zoononophala kunokwenzeka ukuba zingabi luphawu lwenkqubela phambili yobuchwephesha bengqondo. Ngamanye amagama, uRyan akanakuqiniseka ngento eninzi ade ayeke uvuthondaba kwisikhuthazo esingafunekiyo kwaye abuyisele ingqondo yakhe kuvakalelo oluqhelekileyo. Oku kungathatha iinyanga.
Ukuthandwa kwezesondo kunokwimeko
Umlutha we-intanethi we-intanethi ubonakala usebenza ngokuzimeleyo kwisini. Nangona kunjalo, inkolelo yokuba "ukuthanda kwam isondo kuxhomekeke kwinto endiyihlaziya ngayo" inamandla kangangokuba abaninzi abasebenzisi bezononophelo banamhlanje abaqapheli ukuba ukuthanda kwabo okungahleliwe kungumsebenzi wokunyanzelisa okukhokelela ekunyamezelweni, kwaye ngoko kuya kubuya. Kwakhona, uphando ngoku luqala ukukuqinisekisa oko Abasebenzisi be-porn banamhlanje bayanda kwimpahla eyayingenamdla.
Ngokweqile, izazinzulu ziyakwazi ukuxhomekeka kwindoda yesilisa ukhetha umlingani wesini esinye ngokubamba i-dopamine yakhe. Kwaye ayithathi thuba lide. Abaphandi bajoba umlinganiso oyindoda kunye ne-dopamine agonist (iyeza elilinganisa i-dopamine), emva koko bambeka ehokweni nenye indoda. Ezi mpuku zimbini zaxhoma kunye usuku. (I-dopamine agonist iphumile kwinkqubo malunga nosuku olunye.) Abaphandi baphinda le 2 amaxesha ngaphezulu, iintsuku ezi-4 ngokwahlukeneyo.
Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva koko, indoda eyabuyiselwayo yahlolwa. Ngaphandle kwe-dopamine agonist kwinkqubo yakhe, wafakwa kwisigodlo kunye nomfazi wakhe wesilisa kunye nomfazi owamkela ngesondo (khumbula i-dopamine yayingaphumi kwenkqubo yakhe). Cinga ukuba yiyiphi ipiliti eyayijika kuyo? Wabonisa impendulo eninzi kwindoda: ukulungiswa okungakumbi, uphando oluninzi lwezesondo, kunye neyesetyhini ezifana nezicelo - ngokuchasene nokuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwindoda.
Isifundo? Amanqanaba aphezulu e-dopamine anokuphinda asebenzise ubuchopho ngamandla kwaye atshintshe ukuthanda izinto zesondo. Abaphandi bagxininise ukuba i-rat yamadoda yayingeyi-gay, njengoko engazange azame ukunyusa enye i-rat. Nangona kunjalo wayetshintshile. Ngokufanayo, ukuqhubeka kokusebenzisa iphonografi akunakutshintsha indlela ojonga ngayo isini, kodwa kunokutshintsha ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwe-porn olukuvuyisayo. Abasebenzisi boononophala abahlaziyiweyo (i-D2 receptors ephantsi) bafuna nantoni na eya kuthi inyanzelise i-dopamine.
Izazinzulu zikwafunda ukuba ukuxelwa kwangaphambili kwesini esisiseko sesini akukho lula njengokuba bebecinga njalo. Njengoko Ukhuhlane lwezesondo umbhali uLisa Diamond uthi, "inkanuko yesini… ngu yinto enye kuphela yeendlela zokuziphatha ngokwesini kunye nokuzazi. ” Izimvo ezibalisa kakhulu ngumvelisi weTV phantsi kwesi sibuyekezo eencwadi zase-UK I-Porn Porn In Brain:
Iminyaka emithathu edluleyo ndiyinxalenye yeqela labaphandi be-TV abaye bajonga kwimibandela enxulumene ne-intanethi yeprogram engazange iphumelele. Umlimi oyintloko wazibona ubungqina bobunzululwazi obandakanyekayo (oko kwakufuneka ukuba ibe yinkomo yangemva kwenkqubo) yayingenamandla ngokwaneleyo.
Ngethuba lophando ndalithetha kunye nenani labantu abaneengxaki ezinxulumene nezocwangco, zifundela ngamawaka amazwana avela kumadoda kwiindawo ezinxamnye noononophelo kwaye zathetha ngeengcali zenzululwazi. Ubuninzi besophando lwenzululwazi lusengumntwana kodwa akukho nto yam engqondweni yam ukuba ukujonga ixesha elide lokujonga iifostile kungabangela umphumo ongeyingozi kakhulu kubantu abadala kunye nabantwana.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu endiyifumanayo yayingamadoda amadala kunye nabantu abafikisayo abaqala ukubukela iphonografi esemgangathweni (ukuba kukho into enjalo) rhoqo kwaye kwisithuba seminyaka eliqela baqala ukufudukela kwimifanekiso ethe kratya nangaphezulu njengoko beye baba nomdla kwi-porn esemgangathweni kwaye Ndikhangele eyona 'intsha' entsha.
Abantu ababebonakala bebonakala bengabantu abaqhelekileyo bekhathazekile ukuba banokufumana ukulungiswa koononophelo, abazange bazive banqwenela ukwenza ubudlelwane obufanelekileyo kunye nomfazi njengengxaki yokubethwa iifostile bebebambele indawo, amadoda angqingili kunye nabesilisa ababethathwe I-pornographic sexual sexual they found themselves viewing homosexual pornography, amadoda ayenenkxalabo malunga neemvakalelo zabo kubantwana kuba umgca phakathi kokufunyanwe kakuhle okanye omhle kunye noko bafumene i-sexy beqala ukuphazamiseka.
I-99% yabantu babe ngabantu abadala kwaye babe nexesha lokwakha ubulili obufanelekileyo kunye nobudlelwane ngaphambi kwemiba yabo. Oku kwakuthetha ukuba, njengokuba esinye isazi senzululwazi siphakamise, ngoncedo olufanelekileyo lwabo ubuchopho buya kubuyiselwa kwizaziso zabo zangaphambili zesondo, nangona imifanekiso ababeyibukeleyo ayiyikulibala ngokupheleleyo.
Kwinkwenkwe eneminyaka eyi-10-14, ngaphandle kwamava ezesondo angaphambili, akukho qhosha lokuseta kwakhona. Sinokuba nezizukulwane ezizayo zabafana abajolise kwabasetyhini kwaye banezimvo ezingekho ngqiqweni ngesondo kwaye kwezinye iimeko amadoda aya kuthi iingqondo zawo ziphinde zenziwe ngocingo ngemifanekiso egqithileyo kangangokuba babe semngciphekweni kubafazi nakubantwana ababangqongileyo. . Akufuneki sibeke iintloko zethu entlabathini kwaye silindele ubungqina obuyinyani benzululwazi. Kufuneka senze into ngoku.
Ngaba lo lu vavanyo olungcono (kunokuba lube lukhetho) malunga nolwabelana ngesondo?
Ke ukuba 'ukubonwa + ulwakhiwo' kunokulahlekisa, ulubona njani ulwazelelo lwakho ngokwesondo? Ngokucacileyo, nantoni na oyigqibeleleyo xa uqala ukuphulula amalungu esini yinto efanelekileyo (uthatha iziganeko zangaphambili zabantwana khange uyigqwethe.)
Ukubuyela kumgca wengqondo kuya kukuxelela ngokukodwa kokuqhelanisa kwakho okwenyaniso, kodwa okwangoku, abanye abantu bafumana ukuvavanya okunomsebenzi wokukhangela ngokwesondo (okanye ukuphazamiseka): Ufuna ukuba nobani obunzima obomayo?
Umtsalane kunye nokuchasa kuboniswe ngamandla kwisibheno (okanye ukuthintela) ukuzibandakanya kwizenzo zesondo ezisondeleyo ezibandakanya ukubamba, ukuqaqamba komzimba, kunye nolwelo lomzimba olufana namathe, ulwelo lobufazi okanye i-ejaculate. Amadoda ngokubanzi "avulwe" kakhulu livumba, ii-orifices, kunye neencindi zesini esinye kunenye.
Ngapha koko, enye ingcali esidlan 'indlebe nayo yaphawula ukuba amadoda anokuzicaphukela ezi mpawu zesini-nokuba kwinqanaba lokuba nesicaphucaphu nokugabha (mhlawumbi emva kovuyo "lokungavumelekanga" okanye iziphumo zotywala zidlulile). Utshilo uRyan,
NDIHLALA ndingafuni ukumanga umfana. Ngesizathu esithile, amathe omfana aya kubonakala ebububi, kwaye intombazana ilungile. Kum, ingcinga yamathe womfo… iyanyanyeka, iphantse yabonakala ngathi izele yintsholongwane. Amathe e-gal abonakala ngathi amnandi kum.
Qaphela, nangona kunjalo. Ukuba u-OCD uye wagxotha ngokupheleleyo ingqondo yakho, unokufumana indlela yokujika ikhona ukuvavanya kwizinto ezintsha, ezilinganayo, umthombo wokuxhalabisa:
Ndiqhubeka ndicinga ngovavanyo lokumanga, kwaye ndiqhubeka ndicinga ngalo malunga ne-24/7. Ngaphambi koko, ndandicaphukile ngokupheleleyo kukucinga ngokumanga indoda, kodwa ngokuzibuza nangokuzibuza ndiphindaphinde, kancinci kancinci andizange ndothukwe okanye ndivuswe. Ngoku, ndavuswa kukucinga ngokumanga indoda. Andivuswanga sisini ngokwesini kwakhona, kuba ndiyithintele engqondweni yam, kodwa kutheni ukwanga indoda indivusa ngoku? Andifuni ukuyenza ebomini bokwenyani. Kuba kubomi bokwenyani ngekhe kuvuse. Kubomi bokwenene ndifuna ukuwanga amantombazana, kodwa xa ndicinga ngako engqondweni yam, kuyavusa. Ayenzi ngqondo. Akufani nokuba nditsalelekile. Ncwina.
Iinguqu zeeplastiki ezingaguqukiyo
Njengokuba isiyobisi somsebenzisi we-porn siqhubeka, imikhwa yokuphulula amalungu esini inokumxelela okuncinci malunga nokuqhelaniswa kwakhe ngqo. Nangona kunjalo, abafana kwiforum yethu bafumanise ukuba ukuba (1) banika ubuchopho babo ukuphumla kwi-porn, i-fantasy ye-porn (kunye ne-masturbation kunye ne-orgasm), kunye (2) nokutshintsha imikhwa yabo yangaphambili ngokuzonwabisa, ukwenza umthambo, ukucamngca kunye neminye imisebenzi ethuthuzelayo. , Banokuqala ukubona utshintsho kulwalamano lwabo ngokwesondo ngokukhawuleza. Nantsi ingxelo kaRyan emva kwenyanga nje:
Ndichitha unyaka odlulileyo wesikolo esiphakamileyo kwi-intanethi kwi-intanethi ngenyameko, kwaye ndandula ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndandifumana. Ndakukuphazamisa ukubukela; ikhuphe i-OCD yam kunye noxinzelelo olulandelayo.
Ngoku ndiziva ngathi ndingumntu omtsha. Ndiye ndaphantse ndaphantse ndaneeveki ezi-4 zesihogo, kwaye kwafuneka nditshintshe i-antidepressants. Bendihamba ngebhayisikile yonke imihla kwaye ndinxibelelana nabanye ekholejini. Kodwa andisayi kuvuswa kwi-gay porn. Ingathi ndizilahlile ezoisekethe. Ingcinga yokujonga iphonografi iphinda ivuse. Ndiqala kancinci ukubuyisa i-libido yam. Akukapheli, kodwa ndoyisile inxenye yayo.
Ndikhe ndahlala kwiiforamu ezinamawakawaka amaphepha ezithuba ngabantu abajongana nokungafuneki kwezinto kunye nokunyuka kwezinto ezothusayo. Andonwabanga xa abantu bexelela abanye ukuba le nto baphulula amalungu esini ngayo "yile nto bayiyo." Mhlawumbi oko kwakuyinyani engama-20-30 kwiminyaka eyadlulayo, kodwa akusekho njalo.
Ingaba ingqondo yakhe isele ingasebenzi okanye i-dopamine yokuphucula ukuguqulwa (ukuguqulwa kwesantyalelo), okanye zombini? Kubonakala ngathi njengoko abasebenzisi bexhathisa ukunyuka kohlobo oluthile loonopopayi, becingisisa ngoku, becinga ngalo kwaye ukuxhalaba ngako, ubuchopho obuhambisanayo buya buthathaka. Njengoko izazinzulu zithi, xa iiseli zesisindo zomlilo ziyahlukana.
Njengoko umzila oshiyiweyo unqanda ukuvelisa i-dopamine, inkolelo-ifuna ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza-ukutshatyalaliswa kunye nokuvutha kwimijikelezo yangaphambili yengqondo. Kakade, ukuba umlutha uqhubekele phambili kwindawo apho umntu akakwazi ukunyanzela ngaphandle kweefostile ezigqithiseleyo, ukuyeka ukubekwa lula. Uya kufuna inkxaso eninzi. Mkhulu iimpawu zokuhoxiswa ziqhelekileyo, kodwa zifanelekile kubasebenzisi abaninzi:
Mike: Ukubuyela umva ngemini 23. Sele ndiyabona ukuba ukuba ndiyekile lo mkhwa, ndiza kuba nakho ukulala ngesondo nabafazi. Kunye nokuzinkcinkca ngotywala kwam kwafika ulungelelwaniso lwesilivere: La maxesha ambalwa okuqala okuphulula amalungu esini ayonwabisa kakhulu, kwaye yayiyeyona nto iphambili kwi-porn. Iintlobo zam zesondo zaqala ukulungelelanisa. Kuyandiqinisekisa. Izinto ze-vanilla zazingayi kuba yiblip kwi-radar yam kwiiveki ezine ezidlulileyo, kodwa ngoku indiqhubile zasendle. Ewe kunjalo, njengoko ukuzinkcinkca ngotywala kuqhubekile ndaya kwizinto ezingaphezulu kakhulu, ndaphinda ndenza kucace gca ukuba izihlunu zomlutha kunye nezinto endizithandayo. Kwafuneka ndinyuke ndiye kwizinto ezigqithileyo ukuze ndifumane ukukhawuleza okufanayo.
UShawn: Kunzima ukukholelwa ukuba kunyaka ophelileyo, eyona nto iphambili endandikhupha kuyo yayiyi [transgender] yamanyala. I-Arousal [cis] yabasetyhini inyuselwe kwinqanaba endililibeleyo kwiminyaka yokujonga iphonografi. Ngoku ndiyayibona indlela endinovakalelo ngayo ngaphandle kokuhambisa iphonografi. Ukunyuswa kwam kunqabile, kwaye baziva bekhulu. Ndiyayithanda nokuba olona hlobo lubalulekileyo luvela kwintombi yam lundenza ndiphendule ngokungathi ndiyaphambana!
Thina bantu sinokufuna ukubonwa kude kwaye sikhethe malunga neendlela zesondo esixhonywe kuzo. Ngokucacileyo yinto yakudala, engazi nto, kwaye ekholisayo, inxenye yobuchopho bethu ayinankathalo.
- U kufunda: Ukuxhalabisa kwandisa ukuvuswa kwesondo (1983)
- U kufunda: Ukuxhalaba ngokwesondo kunye nokuvuswa kwesini: ukuthelekiswa kokuvusa ngexesha lokuxhalabisa ngokwesondo kunye nokuxhaswa ngokwesini (1987)
- U kufunda: Impembelelo yokuvuselela imvakalelo kwi-sexually stimulated mening (1980)
Ingxelo ethunyelwe ngumntu ongumfana we-Gay kwi-Psychology Today
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Ndihlala ndiwathanda amantombazana kwasekuqaleni xa ndandisengumntwana, nditsho nasebutsheni ndaye ndafumanisa iindlela zokuphulula amalungu esini ngaphambi kokuba ndazi nokuba yintoni na okanye isini. Ekuphela kwexesha endandicinga ukuba ndinomdla emadodeni yayikwisikrini. Ukusukela ngoko bendiphulula amalungu esini phambi kwekhompyuter… ngamanye amaxesha ibiya kuba kanye ngemini, abanye kube kanye kwaye ngoku iphantse ibe ngama-5-10 amaxesha ngosuku. Njengoko ndikhulile, ndicinga ukuba ndiphuhlise ngokufana noko omnye umsebenzisi wobufanasini athumele malunga nokuba 'nomntwana' wamantombazana. Ngaphambi koku, bendiya kuba neminqweno efanayo engesini, akukho nto ndakhe ndacinga ukuba ndiyenza. Kodwa ngoku, le mibono kunye nokujonga kwam iphonografi zihlala zihlala zijija. Andazi ukuba uyakuhlela oku njengokugqibela, kodwa ngasizathu sithile, ndilufumene olu tsalo kubunzima bomzimba womntu oyindoda (AKA), Bears. Ingcinga yezesondo yalo naluphi na uhlobo lomzimba olucekisekayo, kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile ndivuliwe ngokwenyani yile. Ingcamango yokulawulwa kwaye mhlawumbi ndidlwengulwe (nangona ndingazange ndibone nayiphi na into enjenge-pornography). Andazi ukuba esi sizathu sokuncipha kwam umdla kumantombazana, kodwa ndiyoyika ukuba ndiguqukile kuyo, ndicinga ukuba ndineempawu ze-HOCD kunye ne-OCD ngenxa yedopamine yam ephantsi kuba ndihlala ndiphikisana nam intloko yam izama ukwenza uzivalele. Ukuba ndigxile, ndizolile kwaye andizange ndivume uloyiko lwam lokungayifumani, ndavuswa ziingcinga zesondo zabasetyhini. Kodwa nanini na xa ndixhalabile okanye ndikhathazekile, olo vuko alunakwenzeka. Ndiqaphele uvavanyo lwe-PMO lweentsuku ezili-12, ukuba bendivuswa ngokulula ngamantombazana. Kodwa oku kuqhubeke ixesha elide kwaye ndidiniwe kwaye ndibuthathaka kangangokuba andazi ukuba yintoni kanye kanye le…
Indlela yodwa yokufumana malunga nokuziphatha ngokwesini
kukuvula i-porn okomzuzwana. Amadoda amaninzi abambeke kwimifanekiso engamanyala engahambelani nolwalamano lwabo ngokwesondo bafumanisa ukuba ukuthanda kwabo kubuyela kwiintsuku ezingaphambi kwe-Intanethi. Akukho nto eza kulahlekela.
Umnqweno omhle
Iseluleko kwiforum
Omnye umntu ukuya kwelinye:
amagqabantshintshi
ukusuka kwiforum yomsebenzisi:
Ukusuka kwilungu lesigqeba samakhosikazi
Wabhala:
I-Porn-induced fetish fetish & ED: Ephilisiweyo
LINK - thomaslewisNgamana 20, 2012
kwi-yourbrainrebalanced.com
Ndandiqale ukuzibeka njengentombazana kwiividiyo nangaphezulu
I-pornography yokugqithisa i-pornography iyingozi yokuzilahla i-pornography
I-HOCD-Ufuna ukubhloga ukuqala kwam kwakhona
Tks Konke
Unomlingo wesithothosiso sokuzilahla kunye nokulibazisa ukunyuka
Bangaphi benu abanomlwelwe wokuzilahlalisa / ukugqithiswa koonobumba?
I-HOCD iqalile inkukhu ndaqaphela ukuba ndakhetha ukunqwenela iifostile kwintombi yam
Ukubetha iHOCD
LINK ukuya kuluhlu
Indoda endiyindoda iyathanda ukubona i-sex-male! Ngaba lo ngumntwana oqhelekileyo
Indoda eyindoda iyathanda ukubona iphonografi eyindoda! Ngaba lo ngumntwana oqhelekileyo kumadoda? - Umsonto
GUY 1) Kubonakala ngathi sinayo
kwesi sihloko siyinyani
Iyona ndawo ephantsi kakhulu? Eyesithathu
(LINK ukuya kumgca)
Ayikwazi ukwenza i-orgasm ngaphandle kokuba ubukele i-kinky porn…
I-Porn iyakwazi ukutshintsha ukuthanda umntu ngokwesondo.
Ndiza kwiiveki ze-6 kungekho-PMO, (HOCD)
LINK - / r / nofap yintoni eyakho
Umlwelwe kwi-Pornual Porn. Nabani na onempumelelo yexesha elide ngeNoF
Umlwelwe kwi-Pornual Porn. Ngayiphi na umntu onokuPhumelela kwexesha elide ngeNoFap kunye naBantwana?
GUY 2)
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Ngaba kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba "thina lot" ukuya
Ndaqala ngoonobumba "abaqhelekileyo" kwaye kamva ndangena kwizinto ezifana
Ngaba i-NoFap ayisigqithisi ekugqibeleni?
Ngaba i-NoFap ayisigqithisi ekugqibeleni?
Ezantsi kweliwa. Andizazi ukuba ndingubani ngoku. I-HOCD
Ndandibambe isigxina soxinzelelo lwamaqhinga kwi-2 ukuya kwezinye
yintoni ke ekutyhalele ngaphaya komphetho ikwenze wathi "akusekho"?
Ndandibukela ubuninzi boononophelo kangangokuba ndaqala ukujonga iifoto zobulili ezingcolileyo
Ndakubuza ukuba okanye ngaba andiyiyo ngqo,
Ukugqithiseka kobugqwetha ndibukele, ngakumbi ndinezinto ezinzulu kwaye ndaziqonda.
Ubudala 17 - HOCD kunye ne-porn-eyenziwe ngu-ED, iintsuku ze-100 +
Ukubuyisa ibali: Ubudala 17 - HOCD kunye ne-porn-eyenziwe ngu-ED, iintsuku ze-100 +
I-Lesbian ene "HOCD ethe tye"
Ubundlobongela, unomlutha wezobisi? Ufuna iingcebiso?
Ndiziva ukuba amantombazane amdala aphelelwa ngumntu
Ndiziva ukuba amantombazane amdala aphelelwa ngumntu
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GUY 9)
I-Pedophile - jonga ukunciphisa ukubongoza kunye nolunye utshintsho
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Namhlanje, kwiminyaka emininzi kamva, ukunyuka kwam kwesondo kuyazi imida embalwa.
siphelo sifike kwezinye izinto ezihlekisayo
Uphula njani 'ikhonkco' kunye neentlobo ezithile ze-porn?
UKUFUNDA:
Iminyaka eyi-12 ye-PMO ikhula ngokugqithiseleyo ukuya kwi-porno eyingozi / ebushushu
Uhlobo lotshintsho olothusayo kwezomtsalane… ingaba oku kuqhelekile?
Uhlobo lotshintsho olothusayo kwezomtsalane… ingaba oku kuqhelekile?
Kodwa andizange ndithande, ndandithanda ngokuthe ngandlela-thile
ukuba ukuthanda kwam ku-P kwatshintsha ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
Bangaphi kuni abaye bachonga njengelungileyo, bangenelele
Bangaphi kuni abaye bachonga njengento echanekileyo, bendiwe kwi-pornography / udlale?
GUY 1)
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Abasetyhini abasemgangathweni basetyhini baxhamla amanani ambalwa ekhangayo
Into endiyenzayo, ndiyomelele. Oku kwadideka kakhulu, kuba
Intombi yam ihamba kwisigaba esifanayo ngexesha elide
Ndiyintombazana ebukela i-weirdo porn
Into kuphela kukuba ndifuna i-crazier yoononophelo ngoku kwaye iyacaphukisa m
Ndiyifumene ndijonge i-fetish / porno ekhethekileyo ukuze ndivuse
ED njengeSiphumo soTyhutyha ophezulu?
ED njengeSiphumo soTyhutyha ophezulu?
GUY 1)
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Ndizibona ndithe tye - i-porn kunye nokufota kuyandonakalisa
Ndisweleka ngokoqobo ngenxa yeentloni
Nge-16 ka-Agasti, ndawela phantsi emngxunyeni womvundla. Ndikhangela iithegi ezahlukeneyo kwi-xvideos.com. Ndacinga ukuba ndibone yonke into kule ndawo kwaye andoyiki. Ndithathe isigqibo sokujonga iitagi zodwa. Ndivile ngevidiyo yeOctomons ukuze ndikhangele ukuba ikho na apho. Emva koko ndaba nomdla. Ndithathe isigqibo sokujonga ithegi yesoloboy ukubona ukuba benza ntoni abanye abantu. Ndithe tye kodwa bendinomdla wokubona ukuba yintoni apho. Khange ndiyicinge lento ndiyenzayo kuba bendinxilile. Andizange ndiyazi ukuba ndine-OCD. Nangona kunjalo, ndibethe ukukhangela. Into endayitsalayo yayibonakala ingekho semthethweni kum. Ndikhululekile. Ndivale isikhangeli kodwa i-OCD yam yangena kwi-overdrive. "Ngaba bekungekho mthethweni, ingaba oothixo be-intanethi bayayibona into endiyijongileyo, abantu bangacinga ntoni, ndenze ntoni?" Kwakunzima kakhulu kwaye ndifuna ukubona. Ngapha koko, ndiyonakalisile ikhompyuter yam. Ngosuku olulandelayo ndaqala ukuxelela abahlobo ngento endiyenzileyo. Ndandisoyika ukubanjwa. Kutheni ndenze ngolu hlobo, andazi kodwa ndenze njalo. Nditsalele umhlobo kwelinye ilizwe ukuba ayikhuphe ukuze abone ukuba akukho semthethweni na. Uqinisekisile ukuba akukho mthethweni kwaye wathi hlisa umoya. Ndimbuzile ukuba ndiyisitabane ngokuyijonga. Uye wahleka wathi wonke umntu ujonge into enesini. Uthe mhlawumbi ubunokufunda amanyathelo amatsha! Ndandinomdla wokubona ukuba yintoni abanye abantu ababeka kwi-intanethi. Ndichasene nabantu ndide ndithathe umfanekiso wam kwaye andinakucinga isibindi abantu abanaso sokuzibonakalisa behamba ze kwi-intanethi. Ngapha koko, emva kokujonga umhlobo omnye, bendinenye nje yokuqinisekisa. Wayefana, Oo-soloboy wam! Khange ndikwazi ukuzibamba. Kwakufana namava e-OCD ngaphandle komzimba. Ukusukela ngoko bendixelela wonke umntu ngento endiyenzileyo kwesi sihlandlo se-5 sexesha lesibini ukusuka kwingcinga yokukhangela. Ndiziva ndothukile kwaye ndisoyika ukuba abanye bacinge ntoni ngam. Ndaqala ukubona ugqirha wandixelela ukuba yi-OCD. Akayicingi ukuba yi-HOCD kuba ayifani nokubukela ividiyo okanye nantoni na kwaye wathi wonke umntu ucofe into ethile ngelixa ekhangela. Ndikhangele ngokuzithandela i-tag kuba ndifuna ukubona. Ndiva ukuba ukuvuma izono kuyinxalenye ye-OCD ngokunjalo. Ukujonga ezinye ezinokuthi zenze okufanayo ngaphambili. Ndiyazi ukuba kufuneka ndilibale kodwa ndifuna inkxaso ngelixa ndilapha ezantsi emngxunyeni womvundla. ndizama ngamandla ukunyuka ndibuyele apho bendikho. Ndincede! Ndijonge kuphela kwi-porn ethe ngqo ngaphambili ngaphandle kokuba bekukho umfanekiso we-thumbnail oxutywe nabanye. Ndicinga ukuba yindlela abakujonga ngayo ngokungathandabuzekiyo kwinto oyibonayo. Andinakuze ndiphume ndiye kuthenga into enjalo kodwa kuba yayisimahla kwaye ikwi-intanethi ndacinga ukuba ndiza kujonga. Amabali ahlekisayo ayaxatyiswa kuba amava am ayandibulala.
Ufuna umntu othetha naye
Ndiqhagamshelane ukuba unako ukuxelela amava afanayo.
HI
Akunakulindeleka ukuba nabani na akuphendule kule ndawo. Ndiyanibongoza kakhulu ukuba nityelele le forum - http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/ -Ungayibamba ibhlog yakho, kwaye inani lamadoda kule ndawo lijongane nemicimbi efanayo, kubandakanya i-HOCD.
Yonke into esiyaziyo ikule FAQ- Ndithe tye, kodwa nditsalelekile kwi-transexual okanye kwi-gay porn. Yintoni ephezulu?
Umnqweno omhle
Kusuka kwelinye icandelo le-YBOP
Ndifuna ukuphinda ndihlambuluke, ndiyeke ukuxhamla kwizinto eziphathekayo
Kulawulo lokubhinqa kunye nokwandisa kwi-pornography.
Emva kwangoko kwayeka ukumvuselela, kwaye ndandizifumana ndela
Ndabuyisela ububele bam
Ndabuyisela ububele bam
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Nxusa ukuba wenze kwi-HOCD
Nxusa ukuba wenze kwi-HOCD
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Ngaphantsi kwenqaku- "Ngaba iphonografi yandibamba ngonaphakade?"
bebukele i-10 iminyaka engamanyala, i-iv ibukele izinto ezininzi
Amagqabantshintshi ambalwa phantsi ko "Ngaba iphonografi yandibetha ngonaphakade? (Salon.com) ”
Ngaba ubulili beliphoyisa liphazamise ngonaphakade? (Salon.com)
Umvo oqhelekileyo ovela kumntwana ongenalwazi umntwana obomvu:
Impendulo enye kuye:
Ukuphendula okunengqiqo ngesiqhelo “oh oku kuqhelekile”
Isizukulwana sanamhlanje sibeka irekhodi ngqo:
I-porn inokukufaka kwizinto ezingahambelani nokwabelana ngesondo okwenyani
Ivumela ukuba sikwazi ukukhupha imfesane engaqhelekanga ngokukhawuleza
Ngamafutshane, iifostile yonke into engafaniyo. Yonke inkunzi.
Ixesha elide leFapstronauts, ngaba iifestile zakho zahamba?
Ixesha elide leFapstronauts, ngaba iifestile zakho zahamba?
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UKUFUNDA 2
UKUFUNDA 3
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UKUFUNDA 5
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wayefuna ukubuza ukuba ngaba ubani ubenomdla wokutshintsha
Entsha apha, wayefuna ukubuza ukuba ubani umntu oye wayethanda ukuthanda kwabo
Ngenxa yokujonga kwam i-pornography, ndiye ndacinga.
Ufuna iingcebiso ezivela kuwe, zixhamle kwi-sex-sex and gay porn
Ndabona ukuthanda kwam isondo.
njani ukubetha i-hocd kunye nokulutha koonwabo
Guy guy evela kwelinye iforum
"Ukukhupha" ukuphuma kwindlela yokulawula
Ubusana bam buquka nantoni na eyenziwa ngabafazi abahlazolayo.
I-NoFap Ukukhupha i-HOCD yam
Ndandiyingozi kakhulu
ukubethekisa ngokugqithiseleyo kangangokuba ndandibuhlungu ngezinto eziqhelekileyo
Ukubukela i-porn ebudlulileyo kwiminyaka kuye kwavela
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Kwiminyaka yokugqibela ye-3 okanye kunjalo, uhlobo loononophelo ndibukeleyo
Iidemon ziwonakalisa ubomi bam, iimvakalelo zam kunye nobulili zididekile.
Isivivinyo sokujongana nomlingo woTyhutyunu ngokuThathela amaFantasi (Yena
Isivivinyo sokujongana nokuxhatshazwa koThutho ngokuThathela amaFantasi (iSigxina)
Ndixhomekeke kwi-porn shemale ngaphezulu kweminyaka elishumi. Ndibukele iphonografi yesiqhelo iminyaka embalwa, ndaya phambili kwimithambo enzima, emva koko ndaqala kwi-shemale porn. Ndenze iinzame ezininzi zokuyeka ukubukela iphonografi kwaye ndaphumelela. Emva kokuchitha iiveki kude, ukutsala kwam abantu ababhinqileyo kwakomelele kunakuqala, umbono wesheles awuzange ubenomdla, kwaye ndaziva ndibhetele xa ndiphakathi. Kodwa, bendihlala ndigqiba ukubuyela umva. Emva kweeveki kude nayo, i-porn shemale ngamanye amaxesha yayingade indiguqulele kwaye ndiza kugcina ndibukele iphonografi eqhelekileyo yabasetyhini. Kodwa, ngasizathu sithile, ndaziva ngathi kufuneka ndiqhubeke nokujonga iphonografi. Ekugqibeleni, ndiza kubuyela kuyo ndinamandla kunangaphambili.
Lo mjikelo wokuphindaphinda nokuzisola kuye kwaba isihogo kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo. Ekubeni kubonakala ngathi baninzi abantu abaxhamla kwi-pornography yesigxina kwaye akukho namnye ophumelele ekudlulileyo kwixesha elide ngokuzama ukunqanda iimfuno, ndagqiba ekubeni ndifezekise imbali ebomini ngokwenene ukubona ukuba ndiyakuvuyela ngokwenene ukuba nexesha elide.
Ndadibana nentombazana e-transgender eyayisebenza, ivakala, kwaye ijongeka njengebhinqa elinomtsalane. Saya kwiimuvi kwaye ndavuswa yingcinga yokuba nepipi engaziwa mntu wumbi. Siphelile ukulala ngesondo kwaye kwakungathandeki kangako. Ndisakwazi ukuvuswa, kodwa ayizange indijike ngendlela efanayo ne-porn. Khange ndizive ndikhululekile emva koko njengoko ndenzayo emva kokuba ndabelana ngesondo nomntu obhinqileyo onomtsalane. Ndishiye ndinemixholo exubeneyo, kodwa ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiphinde ndidibane naye kwisehlo esahlukileyo. Ubutsha balo ngeli xesha babusilela xa kuthelekiswa nangaphambili. Ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, ndaziva ndicinyiwe yindoda yesini kwaye ndaqala ukucinga malunga nokulala nomntu obhinqileyo oqhelekileyo kwaye kubaluleke kangakanani ukubonakala komzimba kwabasetyhini.
Ke, ndicinga ukuba kucacile ukuba iphonografi idala intelekelelo engafikelelekiyo okanye engenakho nokubonakala iyinyani. Andiqinisekanga ukuba oku kudibana kuya kundinceda ndiqonde indlela iphonografi eye yaguqula ngayo umdla wam okanye ukuba iya kongeza nje ukudideka kwam.
ED, HOCD kunye nokuxhalabisa
Ngaba uya kuthatha / iikinks Ndibonakala ngathi ziphumile?
Ngaba unonopopayi ungabangela u-Ed ukuba ucinge umfana wakho?
Ngaba unonopopayi ungabangela u-Ed ukuba ucinge umfana wakho?
GUY 2
GUY 2
Ubomi Bam Ngaphambi Kwangemva Kokungekho Fap: PI-ED, ukungabikho kweLibido, Es
Ngaba ucinga ukuba urhulumente uzama ukusenza uGay?
Ngaba ucinga ukuba urhulumente uzama ukusenza uGay?
Ndandidlwengula into engalunganga.
Umfana Okhulelweyo, Othe nje Uthi mhlawumbi Utshintshile indawo yakhe ephantsi kakhulu
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Ndiyakholelwa ukuba i-porn iyiphazamisile inyani yam. Yenziwe “ndathanda” izinto endingazange ndizithande ngaphambi kokuba ndibekho. Iindidi ezimbini ngokukodwa: iitrannies kunye nee-bbws. Ngaphambi koononophala, ndandinomgangatho ophezulu wabasetyhini ngaphandle kweedick okanye amaninzi amaninzi. Andizange ndibenangxaki ngobunzima obuncinci nangona ndingumlandeli wamatiti amakhulu.
Nangona kunjalo, ndifuna ukwabelana ngendlela endikholelwa ngayo ukuba i-porn iyiphazamisile inyani yam, kwaye oku kufuneka kujongane ne-bbws. Njengoko besenditshilo ngaphambili, bendihlala ndizithanda ii-tits ezinkulu kunye nobukhulu obuncinci (curvy), kodwa hayi amanqatha. Nangona kunjalo, ndaqala ukujonga i-bbw ye-porn kuba uninzi lwala mantombazana lwalune-tits ezinkulu. Ngaphambi kokuba uyazi, ndandilikhoboka! Emva kweminyaka yokujonga i-bbw ye-porn, ndaqala ukuthandana namanye amantombazana amakhulu endadibana nawo kwi-Intanethi. Emva kokudibana nabo, inyani yandibetha ebusweni. Zazinkulu kakhulu kum kwaye zazingathandeki! Kuyahlekisa kuba ndibone abasetyhini bakhulu kakhulu kunaleyo bendikhe ndayibona kwi-porn kwaye iyandiguqula, kodwa ke kubomi bokwenyani, yenza ngokuchasene ngqo! Inobungozi ngokwenene le nto! Andizange ndizame ukuthandana noxinzelelo, kwaye andifuni. Kodwa uvavanyo lwe-bbw lwalwanele kum ukuba ndazi ukuba iphonografi iyabuphazamisa ubunyani bakho kwaye inokothusa kakhulu. Ngoku ndiqala kwakhona okwesibini. Ndaphinda “ndachacha” kube kanye, kodwa ndaphinda ndaphinda ndatyibilika ndaphinda ndaphinda ndayeka ukusebenza kunyaka ophelileyo. Ndiyathemba ukuba ngeli xesha ndiza kuphila ngokupheleleyo kwaye ndingabuyela kwizinto endizithandayo kubasetyhini.
Kubantu abaye "bafumanisa" izinto ezintsha ngelixa bebukele iphonografi, musa ukuyithemba. Yeka ukubukela iphonografi, kwaye ubuyisele ukuthanda kwakho kwendalo.
Ndiphulukene nawo phantse wonke umdla kwimibungu yam kwaye ungazami ukuya kuyo
Umjikelezo we-PMO ukungaxhaswanga kunye nokudakumba okuzisa
Umfana onguGay oye wabukela ngokugqithiseleyo iphosi ephosakeleyo
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1h664m/straight_men_gay_fantasies/car8nt6
Iphonografi yam iya isiba ngokungaqhelekanga kwaye amasi am ayenzi
Iinyanga ze-18 zadlula kwaye i-HOCD yam ikhona kodwa ukudandatheka kwam
I-pornography enobucayi (self.pornfree)
Ukuzilahla kunye noonwabo obunzima
HjerterEss
jtallday
elpis1
Misterml
SewerCow
i-knob-goblin
mhlawumbehrenrai
les13
samueltanders
Ngaba ufuna okanye ufuna ukuyeka ukuzonwabisa?
Amava omfana oyisitabane ngokuziphatha okubi ngokwesini
http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=8419.msg213389#msg213389
Ibali lokudideka ngokwesondo
Utshintsho ekukhethweni ngokwesondo (okanye ukubuyela umva) ukusuka kwiNoFap-1 inyanga
Ubuninzi bobuqhetseba buye buba bubi kwaye ngokunjalo unomdla wam olwabelana ngesondo
Ndandithanda ukuthatha iidlophu zokudlwengula, ezichasene neentombi
kolu luhlu - Ngaba kukho umntu okwazi ukuphelisa ngokupheleleyo i-FEMDOM fetishes ??
Xa ndiqala ukuqala kwakhona, ubukhulu bam buqala baqala ukuza
kolu luhlu - Ngaba kukho umntu okwazi ukuphelisa ngokupheleleyo i-FEMDOM fetishes ??
Ndibutshabalalise njani ubuni bam besini… kwaye ndiceba ukubuya njani.
Imibuzo ekukhuphukeni kwimihlambini yokuzilahla
Imibuzo ekukhuphukeni kwimihlambini yokuzilahla
Septemba 23, 2013
Frye
AlexP11
sidney1990
aristotle
mxsurfer
crazydude
Umntu ochanekileyo, i-24 yintombi, iintsuku ze-33, kodwa usenqwenela ukungena gay
Umntu ochanekileyo, i-24 yintombi, iintsuku ze-33, kodwa usenqwenela ukulala ngesondo
kufa_to_be_vain
wankwillnotownmeiintsuku 64
BowDown2Bale
HunterOfHunters
silentSmooth
Unqabe intombazana yokwenyani kwaye wakhetha iphonografi .. ..
Ngoku ndiyazi ukuba ucinga ntoni; ungumntu ongumfana?
Udidekile, kodwa ndiyonwabela ngenxa yezizathu ezithile.
Ukulwa 'nothango' kwaye kuchaphazela kakubi ubomi bam:
Ukulwa 'nomntwana' kwaye kuchaphazela kakubi ubomi bam: Ngaba ukhona umntu onamava afanayo?
MrChingChingiintsuku 315
BlackhawkU9iintsuku 13
Yenzelwe_With_This_Crap
beyazi ubomi
ngokupheleleyo_anon
ItsJustNate
stangamla
kmprove
Andikho umlutha kwi-porno 'yesiqhelo'. Ndilikhoboka lokugula kunye nedis
Ndizibonile zonke i-porn kwi-intanethi ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuze ndibenako
ekugqibeleni wenyuka waya kwi-pornography ebushushu
Nabani na onamava nge-nofap emva kokuphazamiseka
Nawuphi na onamava nge-nofap emva kokungena emathunjini aphazamisayo?
imredjohn
WinRommel
fnordsnord
Steelcrate
AerialFreedom
IBastastSlayer
Ak_Float_Flyer
lifeisscam
Ponfarrfap
MuhNugga
McLauritsen
Inspired_Buddha
Docderp
Ngokubhekiselele kwiimfesane, into eyinyaniso yokuba ngaba kuphela abantu abaqinileyo okanye abaqinileyo
Ukuthanda kwam iphonografi kuyaphambana… (Ingxoxo ngeeSrs)
Ngaba ekugqibeleni ndiza kuphulukana nomdla kwi-porno 'egqithileyo'?
Ngaba ekugqibeleni ndiza kuphulukana nomdla kwi-porno 'egqithileyo'?
kufa_to_be_vain
Ka-Kui
Sheehan7
ivanstan
i-frozenegineer
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Thump69
hithrhowareyou
Kektklik
eahcimyrrah
Shiranaru
i_lonely_monk
SolitaryPath
F92
MyPetPickle
ukuxhomekeka
yenziwe kwi20
fapstronaut0
Steelcrate
liweyo
Iingcamango zam malunga noononophala kunye nesondo
Ndandinomdla kwi-tranny ye-tranny kodwa andinakuthi ndikhe ndacinga
Ukutya kwabasetyhini batshintshile emva kweminyaka yokusetyenziswa koonwabo
I-PMO iphinde iphoswe ingqondo yam kwaye ihlasele iminqweno yam yesini
I-PMO iphinde iphoswe ingqondo yam kwaye ihlasele iminqweno yam yesini
I-TS Porn ineminyaka eyi-18
Ndicinga ukuba i-Porn iguqulwe kwam. (Okwangoku ubuncinane)
Ndicinga ukuba i-Porn iguqulwe kwam. (Okwangoku ubuncinane)
130210
evrydamnday
AndTheSonsofDisaster
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AndTheSonsofDisaster
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AndTheSonsofDisaster
ThisEndsNow1
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Hawkeye5
umgcini
UKUKHALWA KWABANTU ABANYE NE-HOCD okanye I-SEXUAL ANXIETY!
"Ndiyindoda engatshatanga nayo, emva koko iifoto zoononophala zafika zonakalisa yonke into
Kwakubononongo obangela ukuba ndifune i-kinkier
Ukufikelela kwisithuba esitsha. Lo ngumlutha onamandla. Akukho nto
Ukuqhubela phambili kwindlela yokuzonwabisa yamahhala emva kokubanjwa
Andizange ndinomdla kunoma yimuphi umntu okanye umntu ongaphambukiyo kude ndiqale
Ukukhanga kwe-Fetish H-OCD. Ndilungile kodwa umzimba wam ufuna abagulayo ru
Izinto endizenzileyo zangena entlokweni yam endaweni yokuvuka
I-Autobigraphy yam: Iziphumo zeXesha eliNgekho kwiNgqondo kwiNgqondo kunye
ndikhokelela ekubeni ndixhamene novelwano kunye neenkwenkwezi zesini
Ndiyifumene ingxaki yam, kodwa ingayilungisa?
Nawuphi na umntu oye wanyukela kumntwana malunga nokuba "yintombazana" kwi-porn?
ekugqibeleni akukho -PMO inqamla umntwanantombazana engazange ndivuse
Seriously ?? Ngaba i-MO nee-PMO i-realms ibe yimihlaba eyahlukileyo ngokwemiqathango yokuvusa? (Ucinga unethemba)
Ndibethe i-rock ezantsi-iphonografi yandenza ndacinga ukuba ndingowesini esahlukileyo. Andingo
Nasi isizathu sokuba ndithande iphonografi:
Ndinomdla kwabasetyhini, kodwa ukubukela iphonografi kuyigqwetha yam….
Ngaba ikhona "i-No-Fap / No-yokucela oonongogo kuluhlu lwe-craig kunye ne-backpage" yokwahlulahlulwa kwamadoda aneminqweno ejijekileyo ngaphaya kokuqaphela b / c ye-porn?
Ndingu 17 kwaye iphonografi yandiguqula yaya kumntwana ohamba kunye.
Ndingu 17 kwaye iphonografi yandiguqula yaya kumntwana ohamba kunye.
Ndandiqala ukujonga ii-pornography ezinzima nakwiindawo apho
Ukugqithiswa kwamanyala ndiphantse ndibulale
Ukugqithiswa kwamanyala ndiphantse ndibulale
Ndiya kulandela ukuvuselela nokuba oko kusongela yonke into
Ndithatha iipolgraphgraphs minyaka le ukuqinisekisa ukuba andikaze ndisebenzise iphonografi- kwaye ndiyadlula, nangona ngamanye amaxesha ndityibilika.
Ndijika ndingumlingani kakhulu
Ndijika ndingumlingani kakhulu
I-NoFap + Ukwabelana ngesondo = Intshabalalise i-Weird Sexual Fetishes
[Iintsuku ezingama-30 akukho-ntap] i-ED enkulu ukusuka kwi-17 kwaye ididekile malunga nezesondo zam
[Iintsuku ezingama-30 akukho-fap] i-ED ekhuselekileyo ukusuka kwi-17 kwaye ididekile malunga nokukhwabelana kwam ngokwesondo
Yilumkele okokuqala u-masturbate (kwiindevu)
Fap ezamahala 2yrs 2months! Unomdla malunga nokukhishwa kwamahhala
Yiyo indlela engafanelekanga ngayo: ukuvuma okuphambene nomlingo
Ndacinga ukuba ndithandana nabasetyhini ixesha elithile,
Ndicinga ukuba iNoFap indenza ndibone ukuba ndiyisitabane kwaye iyandoyikisa.
Ndicinga ukuba iNoFap indenza ndibone ukuba ndiyisitabane kwaye iyandoyikisa.
Ngenxa yobuthakathaka bam inonono, ubundlobongela bendoda yayiphambuke ngokupheleleyo
I-Gay okanye amadoda angamaBingxual enza NoFap?
I-Gay okanye amadoda angamaBingxual enza NoFap?
Umntu endandihlala naye "gay" wazama uNoFap kwaye ngoku ulungile.
Ndandicinga ukuba ndibi kodwa i-nofap ingifundise ukuba ndiyifumana ngokwenene
LINK
Ekuqaleni andiyiva nto yintombazana, ngoko ke i-nofap ixesha elide
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/3fhhwe/gay_or_bisexual_men_doing_nofap/ctoo90z
Emva kokuba i-nofap yokuqala idibanise ukukhandwa kwabamadoda kunamandla
LINK
ngexesha le-120 + streak Ndithandwa kakhulu kubafazi
LINK
Ngaba i-nofap iyinceda ngokuxhala, ocd, njl?
Ngaba i-nofap iyinceda ngokuxhala, ocd, njl?
zenmike
IKlodion
mrmacfarlane
Amazwana ebhulogi
Ujonge njani kwamanye amadoda e-porn kwiividiyo ezingamanyala ezixabisa i-gi
[Ukuyeka ukuncedisa ukucacisa ukuqhelanisa ngesondo]
Iiveki ze-9 - Uxinzelelo luphuculwe kakhulu, i-Porn Porn yayindibetha ngamandla am
Ndingumlingani, kodwa ndibukele iividiyo ezichanekileyo.
Ndingumlingani, kodwa ndibukele iividiyo ezichanekileyo.
Crusty_Dick [ikhonkco alisasebenzi]
bigballsomar
iindawo zokuhlala
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