I-Porn ifikeleleke ngakumbi kunanini ngaphambili, kwaye ezininzi izibini zisebenzisela ukuphucula ubomi babo besondo. Kodwa yenza okubi ngaphezu kokulungileyo, uDkt. Samadi uthi.
BY UDkt David Samadi Umxhasi weNews News. NgoLwesihlanu, Septemba 9, 2016
Ngubani ongakulibala ukuxakeka kuka-Elizabeth Smart, owayeneminyaka eyi-14 ethathwe kwigumbi lakhe lokulala eSalt Lake City, e-Utah kwi-2002 kwaye wabanjwa ngabaphangi bakhe ngeenyanga ezilisithoba?
Ngethamsanqa, ibali lakhe lapheliswa ngovuyo njengoko wayekhululwa ngo-Matshi 12, 2003, nje ngeekhilomitha ezili-18 ukusuka ekhaya.
Ngama-akhawunti onke, lo mfazi onesibindi, oye wabandezeleka ngenxa yokungazi into eyayiza kuba yintlekele yakhe, uye wahlala naye ngamava obuhlungu ngenxa yesisa nesidima ukususela ngelo xesha.
Kungekudala, uye wangena phambili ngokuthetha ngesibindi ngezokwabelana ngeenkcukacha zeendlela ezingamanyala ezenzakalisa ngayo iinyanga ezili-9 zesihogo. Uphume ngevidiyo yeqela elichasayo le-porn eliphakamisa ukuqonda malunga nemiphumo eyingozi yecalografi esekelwe kwisayensi, inyaniso kunye neengxelo zomntu.
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Iqela, elibizwa ngokuba yi-fightthenewdrug.org, linenjongo yokufundisa uluntu ngefuthe lephonografi ekudaleni iingxaki ezinkulu kubudlelwane, ukutshabalalisa iintsapho kunye nendlela imveliso ye-porn ehlala inxibelelana ngayo nokuthengisa ngokuthengisa ngokwesondo kunye nokuxhaphaza ngokwesondo, ngakumbi abantu basetyhini.
I-intanethi yenze imifanekiso engamanyala ifikeleleke ngakumbi kunanini ngaphambili. Ngenkqakrazo ezimbalwa ezilula nabani na abanokujonga malunga naluphina uhlobo loonografi abayifunayo.
Iingqabane ezininzi zinokuzijonga njengento yokuphucula ubomi babo ngokwesondo, kodwa ngaba ngokwenene yindlela efanelekileyo yokuzisa abantu abasondeleyo? Okanye ngaba uqhuba ngaphezulu komda phakathi kwabo?
Nazi iindlela zokujonga iiposografi zinempembelelo enkulu, eyingozi ngakumbi kunokuba siqaphela:
Abantu abatshatileyo bebukela i-porn kuphela bayibeka ingozi yokuqhawula umtshato
Ukuxhatshazwa koonwabo kuphuhliso
Unokucinga ukuba ukujonga nje isampulu encinci ye-porn ngekhe kube yingozi. Kodwa xa ubukela ngakumbi, kokukhona ufuna idosi ekhulayo, evuselela umdla wokufuna iphonografi ukuze ufikelele kwinqanaba elifanayo lokuvuka.
Into esetyenziselwa ukunyaniseka ngoku iguquka ngoku
Emva kokubukela ukutya okungazinzi ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza ukuziphatha kwakho kuqala ukutshintsha kwinto ebenokukuphazamisa nokunyanyekayo kuwe, ngoku ibonakala iyinto evamile kwaye iqhelekileyo.
U-Pamela Anderson u-pens-op ukhuthaza abantu ukuba bangaboni izinto ezingcolileyo
Ingqondo yakho ikuvuyisa ngokubukela i-porn ngokupompa i-chemical dopamine, eyenza uzive unesithukuthezi-kodwa nje okwethutyana.
Yintoni enokuthi iqalile njengokuba "umqondiyo" wezononophelo ezithobileyo ekugqibeleni ungaphendulela ngokugqithiseleyo ukuze uthole impendulo efanayo yesondo.
Inzondo ibonakalisa uthando
U-Shaun White ulandelwa ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ngesigxina
Uphando lubonakalisile ukuba amadoda abonakaliswe kwimifanekiso engamanyala bahlala bebaluleke kakhulu kwinkangeleko yamaqabane abo, ukusebenza ngokwesondo kunye nemiboniso yothando. Abasetyhini bavezwa njengezinto zesondo ezifuna ukulawulwa. Abasebenzisi rhoqo bezononografi banokufumanisa ukuba baphulukene nomdla wokufumana uthando, kubenza babe nentembelo ngakumbi kubudlelwane bothando, abakwazi ukuthemba abanye kwaye banombono womtshato njengokuvalelwa.
Iimfesane zonakalisa ubomi bethu bobulili
Xa ubukela i-porn, yonke into ibonakala ngathi i-viewer iwela kwilizwe elimnandi lezesondo ezigqibeleleyo, ngokwesondo kunye nokuziphatha okubi ngokwesini kunokuba kwenzeke ebomini babo boqobo.
Ukubonakaliswa kwe-porn-soft-core ebonisa abesifazana abanemizimba egqibeleleyo kunokwenza iimvakalelo zokungoneliseki kukujongeka kweqabane lethu, ngokuzimisela okuncinci ukuzama isenzo esitsha sesini, esikhokelela kwiimvakalelo zokuba nothando kunye nezinye zethu ezibalulekileyo.
Ukwehla okuphawulekayo kumadoda abajonga iifostile rhoqo kukungakwazi ukuphumeza ukulungiswa. Ukubukela i-pornjjacks i-center centre yomvuzo kwiingqondo zethu ngokukhukula ingqondo ngokugqithisa kweekhemikhali.
Oku kubangela ukuba ingqondo yomsebenzisi iphendule ngokunciphisa inani leekhemikhali zokonwabisa ezivelisayo ukuze iyeke ukuphendula kumachiza aveliswayo. Oku kukhokelela ekubeni umntu afumane ukungasebenzi kakuhle xa enomntu wokwenyani kuba abakwazi ukufumana ulwakhiwo ngaphandle kokubukela iphonografi.
Iidemon zibulala ubudlelwane
Abanye abantu banokujonga iifostile njengolunye uhlobo lwamava ezesondo, kodwa ngokwenene likhohlisa ingqiqo yethu yomgwebo.
I-Porn imfundisa ngokuchasene noko ulwalamano lokwenene lokwenene nolungakanani-ukulingana, ukuthembela, ukunyaniseka, inhlonipho nothando.
Kunoko, i-pornography ibonisa ukuba ubudlelwane busekelwe ekulawuleni, ukungabi nhlonipho, ukusetyenziswa kakubi, ubundlobongela kunye nentambo. Xa umntu ejonga iimfono, kuya kuba nzima ukuba babe nolwalamano lokwenene okanye ubomi bobulili.
Ngalesi sikhathi akukho ukuvumelwana kwezokwelapha malunga nokuba uonografi uyayilwa okanye ayikho, kodwa ukuzonwabisa okufutshane okufutshane kunokukubonelela ngokukhawuleza kube yintlungu eninzi, ibonakalisa ingxaki kwiibini ezininzi.
Ugqirha Samadi yibhodi eqinisekisiweyo ye-urologic oncologist eqeqeshwe kutyando oluvulekileyo nolwesintu kunye ne-laparoscopic kwaye yingcali yotyando lwe-robotic prostate. Ungusihlalo we-urology, inkosi yoqhaqho lwe-robotic kwisibhedlele i-Lenox Hill kunye nonjingalwazi we-urology e-Hofstra North Shore-LIJ School of Medicine. Ungumbhaleli kwezonyango kwiQela leendaba leFox News leQela lezoNyango Funda ngakumbi kwi roboticoncology.com. Ndwendwela uGqirha Samadi blog kwi SamadiMD.com. Landela uDkt Samadi kwi-Twitter, Instagram, iPintrest kunye ne-Facebook.
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