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Okokuqala, iindaba ezilungileyo
Zithini iingcali guys? Kancinci ilizwi liphuma ukuba i-pornography eninzi ingabangela iingxaki zentsebenzo yesondo kunye nokulahleka kwekhangelelo kumaqabane oqobo. Kwi-2016, i-urologist ekugqibeleni yanikezela ngenjongo yokuxhatshazwa kwezesondo zoononophelo kwiinkomfa ze-urology zesizwe. Jonga apha. Bona kwakhona - I-Porn-Yenza i-ED kwiMidiya: Iingcali eziphambili
Ngo-2019, iingcali zehlabathi zaqala zanika uqeqesho loogqirha noochwephesha besihloko esithi, “Xa iphonografi iba yingxaki: Izibhedlele. ” Iqukethe imeko ye-vignette apho isigulana sifumana ukungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo kunye nokukhula… kwaye safunyanwa kakubi ngoochwephesha abangakhange babone ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-porn njengengxaki.
Uphando lwezenzululwazi ngokukhawuleza ukuqala ukufumana ubunyani banamhlanje be amaxabiso angenakwenzeka ngaphambili kweentlobano zesini zesini kumadoda phantsi kwe-40. Yabona Izifundo ze-90 ezidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo okanye ukuxhatshazwa kwezesondo / ukulala ngesondo kwiingxaki zesondo, ukusetyenziswa kwengqondo engaphantsi kwisistim sezesondo, kunye nokunciphisa ukwaneliswa ngokwesini
Sibona ngaphezulu izimvo ngolu hlobo (kodwa ke bambalwa kakhulu):
Ndineminyaka eyi-25 ngoku ndijamelene nengxaki ye-ED (i-erectile dysfunction) ugqirha wam endiyalele yona nge-februwari 9th. Yayiyinto ebangela ukuba ndikhangele iingxaki zam ezinzulu kunye nosuku emva kwengqondo yam (eye yandinceda ngoxinzelelo edyunivesithi) wandixelela ngale subreddit kwaye wandixelela ukuba kufuneka ndizame ukuqala kwakhona.
I-sexologist ithumele oku:
Ndiyibona iphindaphindeka kunye nabaxumi bam. Amadoda angena kudliwano-ndlebe nezikhalazo zokuthotywa kwe-libido, ukulibaziseka okanye ukungabikho kwe-ejaculation, kunye neengxaki ngokwakhiwa kwazo kungagungqi kwaye kugcwele njengoko kwakuqhelekile, okanye kungasekho kulungiswa konke konke. Into yokuqala endiyibabuzayo kukuba ingaba babukela iphonografi rhoqo kwaye impendulo ihlala inguyebo. … Nokuba "unesiqhelo" inqanaba lokusetyenziswa kwe-porn okungakwenzi [ukunyuka uye kwinqanaba lokulutha], umkhwa wakho we-porn usenokuba nefuthe elibi kwisini sakho. Ngokoluvo lwam "Ngaba Unengxaki Yononophelo?" iphepha lemibuzo lokuhlola kufuneka lijongeka njengoku kulandelayo:
- Ngaba ufumanisa ukuba ufuna ukuhlawula i-masturbate kunye ne-climax kaninzi kunaphambili?
- Ngaba izilungiso zakho zifumene ngaphantsi kwaye zizele?
- Ngaba unamaxesha awunako ukufumana ulungiso?
- Ngaba ufumanisa ukuba kuthatha ixesha elide ukuya kwincinci kunokuba isetyenziswe?
- Ngaba kukho amaxesha apho ungeke usebenzise i-orgasm?
- Ngaba ufumanisa ukuba kuthatha ukuvuselela okungakumbi kwi-climax kunokuba isetyenziswe?
- Ngaba ufumanisa kunzima ukugqithisela kwisondo?
- Ngaba ufumanisa kunzima ukugqithisa kwisondo ngomlomo?
- Ngaba ufumanisa ukuba imifanekiso ethile yesondo ayifuni na?
- Ngaba udlala imifanekiso engamanyala entloko yakho ngexesha lokwebelana ngesondo ukuze kukuncedise u-climax?
- Ngaba isondo kunye nomlingani ongenelisekanga njengendlela yokugcoba i-pornography?
Ukuba uphendule ewe kwiimibandela embalwa apha ngasentla, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba ukubukela isohlwayo kuqalise ukuba nempembelelo kwisini sakho.
2014 Izinto zitshintsha ngokuqinisekileyo. Bona iposi:
Ugqirha wam, kunye ne-urologist bathi ngokuchaseneyo ngokuthe ngqo bathi iMO / PMO ngokuqinisekileyo ibangela iphonografi okanye ifantasy ibangele i-ED Ndenze indlela efanayo naleyo uyenzileyo ndabona zonke iingcali ze-friggin zikhona. Akukho nto igwenxa ngam. Ugqirha wam oqhelekileyo, ongumhlobo wam olungileyo (sahamba noRutgers noCornell Univ kunye) kwaye kwenzeka ntoni ukuba yingcali ekhokelayo kunxweme olusempuma kwi-ED kunye nokutshintshwa kwehomoni wathi MO'ing yeyona nto ibangela i-ED.
Xa ndingena ndiyokumbona ngenxa yeziphumo zam ndiye "Hayi, ngaba iphonografi kakhulu kunye ne-MO'ing zibangela i-ED okanye ukuphulukana nomdla kunye nenkosikazi yakho / enye ebalulekileyo?" Uye wanikina intloko kwaye wancuma wahamba "uyabazi ukuba bangaphi abafana endingena apha ngemini ukusuka kubudala be-20 ukuya kwi-60 ene-ED .. kuyothusa..kwaye i-90% yabo ikhoboka lamanyala okanye i-MO ilikhoboka". Ke, ukuba kukho nabani na onamathandabuzo, nabu ubungqina. Lo mhlobo wam ugqirha wathi "ukuba wonke umntu wayeka ukubukela iphonografi, ukutya okufanelekileyo kunye nokuyeka ukushiya..ndiya kuba ngaphandle kweshishini".
Omnye umntu eJamani:
Hayi apho, umfana oneminyaka eyi-17 waseJamani apha. Ke bendikhe ndadandatheka ngokwezonyango malunga neminyaka emi-2 ngoku. Yayinyathelwa ngeentlobo ezahlukeneyo zonyango kunye nonyango lwamva. Akukho nanye kubo ebibonakala ngathi iyanceda okanye incede nje ixesha elincinci. Ndithathe isigqibo sokuya komnye unyango kuba owam wokuqala khange andincede tu.
Izolo bendi neseshoni yam yokuqala kunye naye kwaye ndimxelele ibali lam kunye nendlela endiziva ngayo. Ndamangaliswa xa wandibuza ukuba ndiphulula amalungu esini rhoqo. Khange nditsho nakubani na ukuba ndiyayenza loo nto ubuncinci amaxesha e-2 ngemini ukusukela oko ndandineminyaka eyi-12. Wayeyazi kakuhle into yokuba likhoboka le-porn kunye noxinzelelo olunokubangela. Ndicocekile malunga neeyure ezingama-24 ngoku kwaye akukho lula… ngokuqinisekileyo ndiza kuhlala apha ukuze ndihlale ndikhuthazekile. Iinyanga ezi-2 de siqale kwakhona isikolo. Injongo yam yokuqala kukuba [ndiyeke] kude kube njalo kwaye ndibone indlela endivakalelwa ngayo. Ukusuka kwinto endikhe ndayifunda ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ndiqinisekile.
Nali ke ibali malunga notyelelo kugqirha womchamo onengqiqo:
[Ubudala 21] Bendingafane ndigcine ulwakhiwo ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndide ndiligqibe. Ndiqale ukuqaphela ukulahleka kokulungiswa kwasekuseni kunye nokuqhuba ngesondo esiphantsi ngokubanzi. Kwafika kwindawo apho ndingafumana khona iinkuni kuphela ukuba ndibukele iphonografi. Andizange ndidandatheke kakhulu, kodwa ndandisazi ukuba ndinengxaki. Ndaya ke kugqirha. Undibuze imibuzo embalwa ndaphendula ngokunyaniseka.
Undixelele ukuba uhlobo lwangoku lwe-ED kungenxa yokubukela iphonografi kakhulu. Iingqondo zethu ziqhele ukuya kwelo nqanaba lokuzibandakanya, kwaye nayiphi na into emfutshane ayibhalisi kwimidlalo yethu yesini. Ndixelelwe ukuba ndiqale ukusebenzisa, ndiyeke ukubukela i-porn kwiinyanga ze-3, kwaye ndiphephe ukunxibelelana ngokwesondo malunga neeveki ezi-6. Akukho ngesondo, akukho kuphinga, njl.
Kwakunzima. Kodwa kwiiveki ze-4, ndaqala ukufumana iinkuni zentsasa kwakhona. Phakathi kuka-5 no-6, ndandinephupha elimanzi. Endaweni yokusebenzisa ukubamba kwam i-kung-fu, ndaqala ukusebenzisa [ukukhanya koMzimba]. Ibe ziinyanga ezimbini ezinesiqingatha kwaye khange ndibukele iphonografi okwangoku. Ndizamile ukulala, kwaye ndaba nethamsanqa kwiveki ephelileyo. Ukusebenza kwam bekungekho ndawo kufutshane nalapho bendikade ndikhoyo, kodwa kungcono kakhulu.
kwaye omnye urologist (Septemba, 2012)
Ewe ndinentetho w / ugqirha wam womchamo malunga nale bc ndandivavanywa ukuba ndinciphise i-testosterone. Uye wakhankanya ukuba baya besanda abafana abazakuthetha ngokuba ne-ED kwaye uqikelele ukuba kulo nyaka uphelileyo malunga neepesenti ezingama-50 zezigulane zakhe ze-ED mhlawumbi zazingaphantsi kweminyaka engama-35. Sisehlabathini lethu elichaphazela amadoda (anokudlala indima kwaye kunokwenzeka) okanye (ngakumbi) ezi zinto zoononophala ZIQHELEKILE nathi. Uye wakhankanya ukuba nangona uninzi lwezi zigulana lunamazinga aphantsi kunesiqhelo T, azikho sezantsi ngokwaneleyo ukuba kufanele ukuba zikhalaze kakhulu nge-ED.
kwaye omnye urologist (Disemba, 2012)
Ndibone ugqirha namhlanje. Into enomdla kukuba wathi unomdla kuyo yonke le ngcinga intsha malunga nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-porn kunokubangela i-ED. Ngokwenyani wandikhuthaza ukuba ndizame ukungasebenzisi i-porn iinyanga ezimbini ... nangona ndathi xa ndimbuza malunga nokuphulula amalungu esini, wanyanzelisa ukuba ndiqhubeke nokuhlalisa amalungu esini rhoqo njengoko ndifuna, kwaye ubuncinci ama-3 ngeveki. Nangona ekhuthaza ukusebenzisa i-lubricant kuba ukuyenza kakhulu ngaphandle komnye kunokonakalisa imithambo-luvo. Baye bavavanya imithambo-luvo yam ye-penile kwaye konke kulungile, kodwa wacebisa ukuba kusetyenziswe igrisi ukuya phambili.
Ndacinga ukuba inomdla kakhulu ukuba "ingqondo yakho kwi-porn" ifumana imali phakathi kwe-urologists.
Kunjalo omnye urologist (Oktobha 2013)
Ngoko ndandifumana ugqirha ukuba ndilawule izizathu ezizenzekelayo ze-ED. Ngokungafani ne-doc yam yangaphambili eyamisela i-viagra kwaye yangithumela endleleni, le nto yathetha nam ngoku malunga nomcimbi wam! Wayebuza malunga nemikhwa yam kwaye wandixelela ukuba umlutha we-porn iyinto engokoqobo kwaye kufuneka ndiyeke! Naliphi na ukuva ukuba kwizonyango zonyango kwandinceda kakhulu isigqibo sam kwaye ndacinga ukuba ndiza kubelana ngako.
Omnye urologist (Oktobha 2015)
Ndaye ndaya koogqirha abaninzi ndaza ndenza zonke iintlobo zovavanyo kwaye ukuza kuthi ga ngoku yonke into ilungile. Olona vavanyo kuphela esingakhange silwenze yi-ultrasound esinokuthi ekugqibeleni siyenze kodwa bonke oogqirha bam bayavuma ukuba ndiyindoda eneminyaka engama-24 ubudala esempilweni kwaye ndingabaleka iimayile ezili-13 ngaphandle kokuyeka ingxaki ukuze isifo sentliziyo singenakufane kwenzeke. Ngenhlanhla, i-urologist iyayiqonda i-PIED kwaye ikwabelana ngoluvo lwam lokuba i-porno yinkinga. Wacetyisa i-ED ukuba igcine i-penile tissue yezempilo kunye ne-sex drive kunye ne-rewire kunye nomlingane wam kwaye ubaleke kwi-PMO kunye noMo. Ngokuyinqobo le ngcamango kukuqhubeka nokuphuma kwegazi kwi-penis.
Inxalenye yenkqubo efanayo abayinika abaguli abaye bafumana iprostectomy. Oku kunokufezekiswa ngokusetyenziswa kwesixhobo sokumisa isithuba kwaye mhlawumbi ngokusebenzisa iigels kunye nokubuyisela umva kegels ngokunjalo. Andazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani oku kumntu one-PIED vs iifom ze-vascular ze-ED kodwa yiloo nto ugqirha wam wakhuthaza kwaye kubonakala ngathi kunceda. Ukuwathatha ngedosi ephantsi ngaphezulu kwexesha elithile kunceda ekusekeni inqanaba lesiseko le-nitric oxide ukunceda ukwenza ii-erections zomelele kodwa ezinokufezekiswa ngokutya kunye nokuzilolonga endikukhuthazayo ngamandla.
Ugqirha, ngokwakhe, wayenomdla-mboniso we-ED kwaye ibuyele kwakhona: Ubudala 28 - Ugqirha kwezonyango: U-ED uphilisiwe emva kweminyaka engekho yesini esisemthethweni kunye neminyaka ye-PMO. Wenza oku oku: Ubudala 27 - Ugqirha wezonyango (ED)
kwaye Le oye wachaza umgaqo-nkqubo olandelayo olandelayo kunye nezigulane:
Indlela yethu yesiqhelo “yesiqhelo” imi ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
- ukwenza uvavanyo oluchanekileyo lomzimba: ngaba isigulane sinefrenulus emfutshane okanye i-phimosis? xa kunjalo, bonisa ukuhlolwa kovavanyo kunye nokuhlolwa kwakhona xa iimpawu ziqhubeka.
- ukuphanda ezinye iimpawu ezibonisa izifo ezahlukeneyo. I-Hyperthyroidism idla rhoqo kunye ne-PE.
- kubuza umbuzo ngokubhekiselele kwi-erectile dysfunction. Ezinye izigulane ziphuhlisa i-PE njengesisombululo kwi-erectile dysfunction.
- ukuphakamisa ukuhlolwa kwengqondo (kweso sibini, ukuba kuyimfuneko). Ingxaki ibonakala kuphela ngelixa lingaba nesondo esingakhuselekanga? Ingaba ngulo mcimbi omtsha okanye into enyameke isigulane?
Ukuba akukho nanye kwezi zixazulula le ngxaki, sikhuthaza unyango ngamachiza athile. [UNgamanye amagama… oogqirha e-Itali musa kubuza malunga nokusetyenziswa kwezilwanyana ze-intanethi.]
Iingcebiso ezimbi zihlala zivela kwii-sexologist, kodwa oogqirha abathile bayabamba:
Ndivela eBulgaria kwaye apha ukubukela iphonografi kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini ngalo lonke ixesha akuthathwa njengengxaki. Nangona ezinye i-sexologists ezithandwayo zaseBulgaria azange zive ngePIED….
Ngo-2009… ubomi bam besini buye bababuhlungu kakhulu. Kuphela yi-ED, i-PE kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bobabini. Kungenxa yoko le nto ekupheleni kwe-2009 ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyeke isondo kwaye ndinikezele kuphela kwi-porn. … Khange ndenze unxibelelwano phakathi kokunyanzelwa kokusebenzisa iphonografi kunye nokusilela ngokwesondo. … Ekuqaleni kwehlobo lowama-2015 ndadibana nentombazana entle. Sizamile ukulala ngesondo, kodwa akwenzeki nto. Ipenis yam yayingashukumi. Nangona kunjalo ukuba ndibukele imifanekiso yakhe kwisuti yokuqubha ndingafumana ulwakhiwo ngomzuzu omnye okanye emibini. …
Ndaya kugqirha, i-Endocrinologist. Uye [wandinika] kuvavanyo lwegazi kunye nomfanekiso weX-ray welungu lobudoda lam. Emva kokubona iziphumo, wandixelela: “Mfondini ubufanele ukuba ungumatshini wesini. Phosa ikhompyuter yakho kwifestile, ulibale malunga ne-porno kwaye uye ngesondo nabafazi bokwenyani. Nokuba oonongogo bakhetha bhetele kunokubukela iphonografi. ”
… Emva koko ndafunda amanqaku amaninzi, izithuba zeforum kwaye ndikhuphele zonke iividiyo ezivela kuYouTube malunga nePIED. Ndindwendwele ugqirha omkhulu wezesondo waseBulgaria. UStanka Markova. Uyazi kakuhle kwi-PIED. Ngokutsho kwakhe nakweminye imithombo into yokuqala ekufuneka yenziwe ngumntu one-PIED kukuhlala engamanyala kwi-porn kunye ne-masturbating ye-3 okanye ye-4 iinyanga. Emva kwelo xesha lixesha lesigaba sesibini. Fumana intombazana elungileyo okanye uye kwihenyukazi. Nyanzela ingqondo nomzimba ukuba wamkele umntu wasetyhini njengesixhobo sokuvusa, kodwa hayi isandla. Ingqondo kufuneka isethwe kwakhona kwaye iqwalaselwe kwakhona. Ifuna ixesha lokuziqhelanisa. Akufanele unikezele xa usilela ekuqaleni. Ibali lami lePIED. Ndifuna iingcebiso kunye neengcamango zakho
Umgcini we-redditor watshela i-psychiatrist:
Ukutyelela kweso sifo sengqondo sasingumlenze wesiso namhlanje. Ndandivuma yonke into malunga neengxaki ze-cyber / pornography / fap, kwaye waqonda ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo ndilumkile kule nqanaba. Ndimxelele nge-nofap kunye ne-pornography kunye ne-90 yokuqalisa i-target target kwaye wathi:
“Iintsuku ezingama-90 sisiqalo esihle, kodwa iintsuku ezingama-90 kuxa ukubuyela umva kuhlala kwenzeka kwilinge lokuyeka. Ngokwengqondo, akufuneki uthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba unyange isiyobisi sakho de ube ungakhange uzonwabise unyaka omnye okanye nangaphezulu. Kuyafana nakuzo zonke iziyobisi. ”
Ke, le yeyona nto ndijolise kuyo. Kukujoliswa kwexesha elide kumzamo wokuqala, kodwa kuninzi kakhulu okusemngciphekweni: Umfazi wam, intombi yam, umsebenzi wam, kunye nobomi bam ekugqibeleni, ukuba izinto ziya zisanda.
Omnye umfana:
Nantsi imeko, i-PMO ngaphezulu kweshumi leminyaka, i-ED malunga nexesha elide nayo. Khange ndicinge ukuba iphonografi yayingumba, uye waya kuncipha, bonke bebendixelela ukuba iphonografi "isempilweni". Ngapha koko uye kwenye yokuncipha, ndibeke kuyo www.yourbrainonporn.com Ukubukela ezo vidiyo kwakungathi ndibethwe ebusweni ngobunyani. Yonke yayisengqiqweni. Ithiyori, ukuqiqa emva kwayo. Yonke into. Njengoko ubona ukuba ndikwi-41 yemihla ngemihla. Elide ixesha okoko ndiyakhumbula. Hayi P. Hayi M. Hayi O.
Ngapha koko i-blonde eshushu ibidlala ngothando nam ekufeni. Kudala ndizama ukumbamba, kodwa uyaphikelela njengesihogo. Kukho amaxesha amaninzi kuphela umntu onokuthi hayi kumfazi oshushu. Ndiva konke ukukhukhumala kwaye ndonwabile ngaxeshanye. Iingcinga zamathandabuzo, ixhala njlnjl.kodwa ityala lam. Ndiyenzile lento kum. Andifumananga mntu wumbi ndimsolayo. Jongana nentloko yakho yokoyika. Ndizilungiselele iipilisi zam ze-dick, kuba ndisazicacisa ezinye. Ndinqwenelela abantu abano thamsanqa ……
Omnye umfana:
Ndagqiba kwanele ngokwaneleyo ndafuna uncedo. Ndamcela umzali wam ukuba andithabathe ukuba ndiphinde ndibone ugqirha kwaye wandithumela kwingcali yeengqondo kunye nomqondo wezifo zengqondo, kwaye bobabini bafumanisa ukuba neefostile zenza i-ED. Ndakuyeka ngokukhawuleza ukubukela iphonografi kwaye ndenze ngendlela ekhuni yokuqalisa kwakhona.
Ukufika kwam kugqirha wam kuqala ngokubhekisele kwi-ED yam engachazekiyo, uxinzelelo olugqithisileyo lwezesondo, kunye nokusilela ngokupheleleyo kwe-libido, waqala wayalela uvavanyo lwe testosterone. Xa oku kubuya kuqhelekile, wandibeka kumayeza oxinzelelo. Yonke le nto isentloko yakho, kufuneka uzikhumbuze ngaloo nto, kwaye oku kunganceda. ” Ngelixa konke oko kwakusentloko yam, kwaye iipilisi zazinokunceda, azange zifike kwingcambu yomcimbi. Kwaphela iinyanga kuqhubeka ngokuqhubeka kwe-ED kunye nokusilela kwimizamo yokwabelana ngesondo, kwaye zonke ezo zinto zongezwa kwisimo sengqondo esibi kakhulu.
Ngapha koko, i-NoFap ibikunceda ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kwaye ukusuka kumabali empumelelo endiwafundileyo (kunye nobungakanani bawo), ndinethemba lokuba iya kuqhubeka ilunge kwaye iyilungise le nto. Ke, xa bendizilolonge izolo, ndinike ugqirha wam ikhonkco kwincoko yeTEDx ndathetha naye kancinci malunga nomxholo. Wayebonakala enomdla kakhulu, kwaye ndicinga ukuba uza kuyinika iwotshi. Ndiyathemba ukuba uyayenza, angakhomba enye indoda esokolayo kwicala elifanelekileyo.
TL; DR- Ndixelele i-doc yam malunga nentetho ye-TEDx ngethemba lokuba iya kuxelela ezinye izigulana ezineengxaki ezifanayo nezam endaweni yokunyanga iimpawu zazo ngokuchasene nengxaki. KUFUNEKA NAWE!
Ndandizalisa amayeza am e-cialas kwaye ugqirha wam (ngubani oyindoda epholileyo) wathi "ungakanani i-ED yakho ocinga ukuba uyingqondo?". Sathetha ngoxinzelelo lwentsebenzo kancinci emva koko ndamxelela malunga ne-PIED kunye nethiyori kwiYBOP. Ubonakalisile okomzuzwana wathi "Ndicinga ukuba yintsomi leyo." Kutheni le nto ezinye iingcali zingaba nale ngqondo ivulekileyo? nokuba kunjalo qhubeka unethemba, ayinguye wonke ugqirha ongu-esile.
Ugqirha walo mfo uphinde wafumanisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kungunobangela woxinzelelo:
Ndandisoloko ndisebenzisa i-masturbate kuphela ndisebenzisa ingcamango yam okanye "ibhanki ye-wank". Kodwa unyaka onesiqingatha esidlulileyo ndazisa i-porn kwaye ndaqala ukuyibukela. Ubomi bam baqala ukuhla benyuka njengoko bendiza kujonga malunga neeyure ezingama-2-3 ngosuku, ndiye ndidinwe ngakumbi, kwaye ndingafuni kwenza nto. Ukunyuswa kwam kuye kwaya buthathaka kwaye buthathaka, ingqondo yam yaxokozela, de umama wandisa kugqirha kwaye ndachaza imeko yam.
Ndafunyaniswa ndinengxaki yokudakumba, uxinzelelo kunye neziyobisi. Ndiqale ukuthatha amayeza (i-Effexor XR), kwaye kwezi nyanga zimbini zidlulileyo, ndaphinda ndabuya nawo onke amandla am, ndaqala ukuphuma ndasebenza kwakhona, kwaye amabakala am aphuculwe. Ekugqibeleni ndaziva ngathi ndiphila ngokusemandleni am.
Ekuqaleni abantu endathetha nabo malunga ne-porn bathi i-porn ayiyongxaki. Kungenxa yoko le nto ndingakhange ndiphathwe kwangoko. Kukho ukungaqondi kakuhle eluntwini ukuba iphonografi iyindalo kwaye isempilweni kubafana ukuba balahle uxinzelelo lwabo ngokwesondo. Abantu abayazi ukuba uninzi lwayo lukuguqula ube yiZombie.
Omnye umfana:
Emva kokuya kwi-3-4 oogqirha abahlukeneyo kwiminyaka eyi-4, emva kokuzama ukuzama ukulala ngesantombazana ezahlukeneyo, udokotela wesine wandincoma kule ndawo.
Ndiye ndahlaziya rhoqo kwiinyanga ze-9 kodwa ekugqibeleni imile. Akunjalo isicatshulwa njengokuba ndingalala ngesondo (ndise-PE kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba kuya kuhamba ngexesha kunye nokuziqhelanisa. Ndiye ndazibonela nge-sexist therapist ngokuphindwe kabini kwaye ndiyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba wenze le nto ukuba unayo i-PE okanye i-ED. Ndandinceda ukuba ndibone indlela engafanelekanga ngayo [ukusetyenziswa koonobumba], ukuthetha ngayo nomntu ongekho kwilizwe langempela. Uthe ukuba phantse yonke imiba yesini phakathi kwabantu abancinci (phantsi kwe45) inxulumene noonobumba okanye ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo.
Omnye umfana:
Ndandisenkingeni. Oku kwakandikhathaza kakhulu ndaya kubagqirha, into endizama ukuyigcina kuzo zonke iindleko ukuba yindoda eqhelekileyo. Ugqirha wabuqonda ngokukhawuleza iimpawu zam kwaye waze wachaza ezimbalwa ukuba ndibenayo, kodwa akazange adibanise nengxaki yam. Wayekwazi ukuchaza isisombululo salo mbandela kwaye wayenako ukunika ixesha ngaphambi kokuba izinto zibuyele eziqhelekileyo, ngoko yintoni na?
Kulungile, ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile kubangelwa kukusetyenziswa kwamanyala. Andiyiyo i-biologist kodwa kwingxoxo yakhe into endiyifumeneyo kukuba i-porn ibangela ukuba ingqondo yethu isabele ngendlela eyahlukileyo xa ifumana 'isondo lendalo', ivelisa indlela ephezulu yedopamine, ibangele ukuba isondo lakho liqhube likhoboka lize lenze Kunzima kwaye kunzima ukuba ube nzima (i-pun eyenzelweyo) phantsi kweemeko eziqhelekileyo.
Omnye umfana:
Kwiveki ephelileyo ndaqala ukuthandabuza ukuba ingxaki yam inokuba ivela kwi-Porn. Ndathetha ngokwam ukuba ndicinga ukuba ndiswele i-magnesium okanye i-zinc. Emva kokwenza idinga nogqirha wam ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndingazama nje i-PMO kube kanye okanye kabini ke ukuba ndinengxaki, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuthatha into kuvavanyo lwegazi. Kanye njengoko kuvela ukuba impilo yam ilungile, kwaye wavuma ukuba ndine-Porn ED kwaye ndifuna ukuvumela ingqondo yam ukuba iphumle kuyo nayiphi na into eyabelana ngesondo.
Omnye umfana:
Waqala ukubona isifo sezesondo
Uyayazi i-noFap kwaye uyavumelana ngokupheleleyo malunga nendlela ye-noFap yokubetha i-PIED, et al. Kwam, yongeza ukuthembeka okukhulu kule ndawo ukuba iingcali ziyavumelana-ngenqaku ngento esiyenzayo. Uyavuma, kwimeko yam, ngendlela enzima kodwa uthi umntu makenze into eza ngokwendalo. Akazange acinge ukuba injongo yam yonyaka oyi-1 yayiyimfuneko-ucinga ukuba kuya kubakho imbuyekezo ngokukhawuleza. Ndisaya (emva kweentsuku ezingama-22) ndikufumanise kungenakwenzeka ukuba ndicinge ukuba ingaba impilo injani. Andiqinisekanga ngoko ndimele ndivakalelwe malunga nabasetyhini ngokubanzi kunye okanye umfazi wam ngokukodwa. Ndicinga ukuba iingxaki zam zinkulu kakhulu kunokuba likhoboka lamanyala, kodwa yingxaki yam kwaye ndiza kucacisa ukungathandabuzeki kwam kwaye ndinike oku (kunye nonyango).
[Akukho malunga ne-ED, kodwa inomdla]
Ndingugqirha oziqhelanisa kwaye, ngokwenene, le [webhusayithi] lihlabathi elitsha elinokwenzeka, elicacileyo kunye nolwazi kum lokuba likhoboka ... Ukuba likhoboka kufana nokuthandana ... 'warhanela ukuba iindlela ezifanayo zazibandakanyekile'… siyabona ngoku ukuba wayelungile… Ndivuyisana nawo onke la manenekazi asebenzela impilo yawo… ndaqonda ukuba ndinengxaki 'yesithunzi'. Ukongeza, kubonakala kum kufuneka ndikhangele esi sifo phambi kokuba ndenze enye into hayi ngenye indlela. Kutshanje ndiye ndaqala unyango 'nge-narcissist' kodwa kubonakala kum olu phawu lunokucinywa ngokupheleleyo ukuba obu butywala bujongiwe kuqala. Ndiyanibulela nonke….Enkosi
Olunye ugqirha unikeza iingcebiso kwilungu lebhunga:
Thetha nogqirha wakho malunga neNoFap… ndenzile!
Njengengxenye yokuhlolwa kwam ngonyaka, ndathetha nodokotela wam oyintloko namhlanje malunga nemiphumo yokuphulula amalungu esini kwimpilo yam. Ndinogqirha omkhulu obejonga impilo yomzimba wam ixesha elininzi lobomi bam, kubandakanya nokudakumba kwam, ngenxa yoko wayefanelekile ukuba aqwalasele imbali yam yonyango kwimpendulo yakhe. Inqindi lakho konke, ugqirha wam uqinisekisile ukuba akukho mingcipheko ethile yezempilo emiselwe ukuba uphulula amaphambili okanye hayi. Ukujongela phantsi amabango abanye abantu abawenzayo [athi] ukuphulula amalungu esini kunceda ukuthintela iingxaki zeprostate, ugqirha wam uthe, "Akwaba bendinokuthi,
'Kuya kufuneka ukhuphe oku rhoqo ukunceda ukuthintela umhlaza webala,' kodwa andikwazi. Ayiyonyani leyo. ” -Ugqirha. Grayson, YENZA, 1/8/13
Ukongeza, ugqirha wam uvumile ukuba ukungaphulula amaphambili kunokunceda ukuphucula ezinye iinkalo zobomi bakho, "ungawasebenzisa la mandla ukwenza eminye imikhwa." Ugqirha wam ebekade ejonge amanqanaba am e testosterone ngokuvavanywa kwegazi rhoqo kuba oko kuvavanywa kwakudala ngaphambili. Ngelixa kuya kuba lunomdla ukubona ukuba utshintsho luyangqinelana kunye nolwenza ukuba lube sisiqingatha sendlela ukuya kwi-90-day NoFap (woot!), Wayomelele ngombono wakhe wokuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-masturbation akunampembelelo kumanqanaba e-testosterone.
Ekugqibeleni, xa ndixelele ugqirha ukuba ndiziva ndinqabileyo kwaye i-masturbation iye yaphucula impilo yam, yavuma ngokuvumelana, ithi,
“Abaguli bam bandixelela ukuba [ukuphepha ukubukela iphonografi nokuphulula amaphambili kuyabanceda], kwaye ndiyabakholelwa.” - UGqr. Grayson, YENZA, 1/8/13
Ndothukile kwaye ndakhuthazeka ukufumanisa ukuba ayindim ndedwa othethe nogqirha wam malunga nale ngxaki, kwaye abanye abambonileyo bafumana iziphumo ezifanayo! Khuthazani, zihlobo zam; inzululwazi enzima isenokungabi nawo umba, kodwa oogqirha bayazimamela izigulana zabo kwaye bafikelela kwizigqibo ezifanayo nezethu!
Imvelaphi ethile; Ndandiyinto engapheliyo, ama3-4 amaxesha ngosuku zonke izinto eziphosakeleyo ongacinga ngazo. Ndiqaphele ukuba ndinenkxalabo yokuxhatshazwa kwintlalo kwaye ngokukrakra ndinoyika ngokungathethiyo ngokuthetha nabantu, ndingayazi into yokuthetha. Ndandingenakuzithemba, ndingasondeli nje, ndixinezelekile, ndiziva ndixakekile.
Uzame ukuyilungisa ngokucamngca kunye nonyango, kodwa yonke into ayisebenzanga .. yaqala ukufumana i-OCD kunye ne-paranoia encinci.
Ngokukhawuleza phambili ngoku, ndiyeke ukufakela iintsuku ezingama-26 ezidlulileyo; lo ngowona mde kunabo bonke bendikade ndingakhange ndibufake ebomini bam ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-12 (ndineminyaka eyi-21 ngoku) kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndiyindoda. Uloyiko lwam ngayo yonke into luyancitshiswa (aluhambanga ngelishwa), ndinethemba kakhulu ngayo yonke into kwaye ndifumana izinto kumnandi ngakumbi ngoku ngaphambi kokuba ndicinge; "Uthini?". Ngokwasentlalweni andisoyiki kwaye ndinokujonga abantu emehlweni kwaye ndinencoko enobukrelekrele (ndisahleli ndinengxaki yoxinzelelo nangona kunjalo ndingathi iyanceda ngokuqinisekileyo).
Andizange ndicinge ukuba i-PMO ingaba nefuthe elikhulu ebomini bam, kodwa ke uya khona. kuphantse ngokungathi ingqondo yam inokuphefumla ngoku kwaye ivunyelwe ukuphilisa (isandi esingaqhelekanga: P)
Iirekhodi ezinde:
- Oko kwathethwa ngugqirha… [malunga neencasa zam ezingamanyala zam ezingamanyala nokungakwazi ukufumana ulwabelwano ngesondo olonwabisayo] (2018)
- Ikholamu yengcebiso kunye nezingane zincoma iYBOP
Oko kufundiswa ziingcali: Ngoku iindaba ezimbi
Okokuqala, ibali lokwenkqisayo. Le ndoda yahlinzwa ukuhlaziya i-revascularization, xa ingxaki yayinokusetyenziswa kakubi kwimihla ngemihla: Ubudala 33 - I-penile revascularization, kodwa kubonakala ngathi i-ED
Lo mfo wafumana impompo yepenisi… kodwa ngaba wayeyidinga nyani? U, "wayedla ngokubukela iphonografi xa wayesemncinci- ngamanye amaxesha amatyeli amaninzi ngemini- eyenza ukuba kube nzima kuye ukuba avulwe ziimeko zobomi bokwenyani. … Uye waya kubona ugqirha oneminyaka engama-21, kodwa waxelelwa ukuba ebephulula amaphambili kakhulu - emshiya ekhathazekile kwaye enexhala. ” Kuvakala ngathi usenokufuna uncedo lokuyeka. Endaweni yoko, wafumana ipompo. Hmmm...
Ngokwesiko, i-urologists icinga ukuba ukuba indoda ene-ED ingazalisa ukulungiswa kunye nokwenza i-ejaculate xa i-masturbating, ingxaki yakhe yayiyixhala malunga nokusebenza ngokwesondo nomntu wangempela. Nangona kunjalo, olu vavanyo lunokuvelisa iziphumo ezilahlekileyo kubafana abancinci abaye bahlaziya i-intanethi ngokugqithiseleyo. Nangona bengenakho ukuxhalaba, banokuba neengxaki zabo zokuziphatha ngokwesini kunye neengcamango ezingapheliyo, ngokokuba isondo sobudlelwane asinakukhupha iimpendulo ezilindelekileyo.
Njengomphumo wale protocol iphelelwe lixesha, iingcebiso ezininzi zobungcali ziphoswa luphawu kwaye zinika iingcebiso ezingenamsebenzi, ezinje ngala, "Nantsi ipakethe yolingo yeViagra kunye nokuthunyelwa kumcebisi ukuba axoxe ngoxinzelelo lwentsebenzo," kungekho namnye umbuzo obuziweyo malunga nokwenzeka ukusetyenziswa kweefostile. Khawuqwalasele ezi ngxelo zala madoda:
Ndisandul 'ukubuya kugqirha womchamo ...Ukuxhawulana kunye noncumo ndibethe ezinye ii-cialis esandleni sam kwaye undixelele ukuba ndimbize ukuba ndifuna amayeza. Wayengazange eve ngokuyeka i-pmo ngokunxulumene nokulungiswa kwe-ed. Akukho ngcaciso malunga nokuba kutheni i-ed, yindlela eqhelekileyo yokuncedisa ibhendi. Kubonakala ngathi ndindedwa ukulungisa oku. Ndixelele ukuba i-nofap izakusebenza abafana… .Ndidinga ukuyiva ngoku. Ndiziva ngathi ndiyinto emva kwaloo mava. (Julayi, 2014)
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Ndaya kugqirha wasekuhlaleni, wandithumela kwingcali. Le ngcali khange iqonde ukuba yintoni engalunganga ngam, ke undiqondise kwenye ingcali. Emva kokuphinda ndiqondiswe amatyeli aliqela, ekugqibeleni ndaphinda ndasiwa kugqirha Wu. Ugqirha Wu uvavanye kum, kwaye wagqiba kwelokuba avuselele ulwakhiwo kum ukuze aqonde ukuhamba kwegazi. Ke, uGqirha Wu uthathe inaliti ye-6 intshi kwaye wajova ecaleni kwepenisi yam ecekeceke. Njengoko ndibhalela oku, ndisaqhubeka nokuncwina kwintlungu engathethekiyo, ukuba nenaliti ye-intshi ye-6 kwi-dick yakho uziva ngathi. Ibali elifutshane, uGqirha Wu uthe akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokwam kwaye iingxaki zam ze-ED kufuneka zibe yimithambo-luvo. Ke waqhwaba i-viagra ngesandla sam wandithumela endleleni.
Ke bendingazi ukuba kwenzeke ntoni. Iipilisi zazisebenza xa ndizifuna - ngamanye amaxesha. Kodwa yandenza andabinako ukugqiba ngaphandle kokuba ibindim ogqiba. Ukuba uyayazi ndithetha ukuthini.
Ndingumfundi wasekholejini kwenye yeeyunivesithi eziphambili zeli lizwe kwaye ndiye ndabona ukuba ndisebenzisa iphonografi ukumelana noxinzelelo lobomi. Umzekelo: Usuku olunzima? Iphonografi. Ngaba ulwa nabazali? Iphonografi. Uvavanyo luza? Iphonografi. Kubi kakhulu… bendiyisebenzisa yonke imihla… iminyaka… kwaye bendisebenzisa iphonografi ngakumbi nangakumbi. Masithi nje, bendikwindawo emnyama emnyama.
Ngobabalo lukaThixo, ndiyifumene le subreddit. Ndifumene ividiyo yakho ye-YourbrainOnPorn ngendlela lo mfo ayilungisa ngayo i-PIED yakhe. Kwi-yourbrainonporn, kukho uvavanyo lokuqonda ukuba unayo i-PIED okanye i-ED nje. Ndincoma ukwenza olu vavanyo. Ngokusisiseko, ukuba uyathandabuza kuyo yonke le nto, zama uFap ngaphandle kwe-porn kwaye ubone ukuba kwenzeka ntoni.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuyifumana okanye kunzima-fap kunye ne-porn. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ungayifumana ngokulula nge-porn, kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukuyinyusa kwaye uyigqibe ngaphandle kwevidiyo ye-porn - unayo i-PIED. Kancinci imeko yayo encinci. Xa ndenze olu vavanyo kwaye ndafumanisa ukuba andisakwazi ukuyikhupha ngaphandle koononophala - ndazikhupha. Ndikhawuleze ndaya kwiYourBrainOnPorn ndaqala ukufunda. Ndafunda malunga ne-PIED kwaye ndifanele zonke iimpawu. Ndifumene iNoFap kwaye ndazi ukuba kufuneka nditshintshe…. [Ngoku]
- Ndiyifumene xa ndixhamla nabasetyhini
- Ukwabelana ngesondo kungcono
- Amantombazana aziphose kum amaxesha ambalwa ngeli celomngeni-ndalala / ndalala phakathi kwamaxesha e-5 okanye njalo ngalo mceli mngeni. I-65 + yeentsuku zeNoFap - awuyi kuzisola ngokufunda le ndiyithethayo. (Sept., 2015)
Le urologist yale ndoda yacebisa ukufakelwa kwepenile.
IsiNgesi ayilolwimi lwam lokuqala. Ndifumene i-gf entsha emva kokuba ndingatshatanga phantse iminyaka eyi-3, ngexesha apho i-PMO'd ubuncinci kube kanye ngemini (rhoqo ngaphezulu koko). Sele ndinengxaki ne-gf yam yangaphambili (bendikade ndisebenzisa i-PMO ngelo xesha, nangona kungenjalo njengoko ndenzayo emva kokuba sahlukene), ngoku nge-gf yam entsha i-PIED yam imbi kakhulu ndaya kubona i-urologist-eneneni, enye eyona idumileyo (kunye nexabiso) kwilizwe lam.
Wabuza imibuzo embalwa, emva koko wandivavanya: wafakela into efana ne-viagra kwilungu lobudoda (kwaye, ewe, kubuhlungu kakhulu…), emva koko wadlala iDVD yamanyala wandixelela ukuba ndibukele kwaye ndiphulula amalungu esini ukuze kube nzima, ke ukuba angayijonga ipenisi yam eme ngohlobo oluthile lwesikena. Khange ndibenzima konke konke, ndicinga ukuba ngokuyinxenye ngenxa yokuba iphonografi yayinobulali kakhulu xa ithelekiswa nento endandiyiqhelile, kwaye ngokuyinxenye kuba imeko yonke (okt ukuphulula amalungu esini ngelixa umntu okwilabhasi ekujonga, kanye emva kokufumana inaliti kwi-dick yakho ...) khange incede ncam ukuseta imood.
Ke ugqirha wandixelela ukuba bendingenamsebenzi. Undikhuze ngokungajongani nomcimbi ngaphambili, wandixelela ngokoqobo ukuba "ubumdala [ndineminyaka engamashumi amathathu] ngendikubhukishela uqhaqho. Kuba umncinci ngokwentelekiso, masiqale ngokuzama ngamandla ngeedosi ezinzima zeekhemikhali ”.
Ngoku, iipilisi zenza okuncinci (kwaye zindleko ezininzi). Akufuneki ukuba ndandicinezelekile, ndijongene nokukhethwa ukuba ndibe nompompo ogqityiweyo kwipenis, okanye ukuyeka ukulala ngesini ngonaphakade. Emva koko ndafumana uNofap. Ndakuzama ngenxa yokuba into endiyifunayo yayibonakala iyasebenza kum, kunye kunye andinanto yokulahleka kuloo nto.
Ke ngoku ndilapha, kwiintsuku ze-90 emva koko, kwaye ndiyavuya ukuthi i-PIED yam ihambe kakhulu! Ndingabelana ngesondo kunye ne-gf yam rhoqo; Ekuqaleni, kwenzeka ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ndithambe ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, kodwa ngoku ndihlala ndikwazi ukuhlala nzima de kube sekupheleni. Ndicinga ukuba kusekho indawo yokuphucula, kwaye ndinamathandabuzo malunga nokuba ndiza kwenza njani ngekhondom (engabalulekanga okwangoku njengoko i-gf yam isepilisi), kodwa nokuba oku ibingumlinganiso opheleleyo Ukubuyiselwa kwam, kulungile!
Ngoku ndiyazibuza ukuba ngaba ndibuyele kwi-urologist ukuze ndithethe ngendlela andenze ngayo ukuba ndizibulale, nokuba uyazi nge-nofap. Mhlawumbi inganceda abanye, andazi…
I-TL, i-DR: i-PIED. Urologist wanconywa ukuba utyando lwe-penile. Kuphiliswa PIED ngefayf esikhundleni.
Ndingu 25. Xa ndandikunye ne-ex yam, impilo yethu yesondo yehla kakhulu. Kwafika kwinqanaba apho isondo sasingenakwenzeka kwaye iimvakalelo zokuzixabisa ziyehla zacima.
Wazama zonke iindidi zeengcamango ukuze ndibuyise amandla, de ndide. Nangona i-crished hospital i kinda i-OD'd enye. Ngenye imini ndazibona into ephathekayo kwi-tv malunga nokutshabalalisa i-porn. Ndisindise ngokwenene kumgodi omnyama.
Ngoku sele ndivela kwi-0 yesondo ukuba ndibe nabahlobo bamabhinqa ndibuke xa ndicinga. Yonke into idlala kwaye idlala xa ulwabelana ngesondo lusetyenziswa ngamava ngokwenene.
Andikho 100% apho ndifuna ukuba khona. Kodwa ndivuyiswa gqitha ukubona indlela engcono ngayo. Amaxesha amnandi, ndiziva ngathi ndingumfana oselula
[Ubuzwe malunga nohambo lokuya kwi-ER ukusuka "kwi-overdose"]
Ukungabi nolwazi luyinxalenye ebalulekileyo kakhulu. Ndiye ndathetha oogqirha abangenakubalwa ekulweni ne-ED kwaye akukho namnye ukuba bacinga ukuba ndibuze ukuba ndibukele i-pornography.
Xa kufikwa kwi-ED meds ndizamile ngegra / cialis / levitra kodwa zonke zasilela. Ugqirha uphakamise indlela yokugqibela enkudlwana. Iyeza elitofwe lalapha ekuthiwa yi "androskat" uyifaka ngokwakho kwilungu lobudoda… ..eye andavuya.
Ulwalamano lwam lwe-7 iminyaka nangona lwaluphantsi koxinzelelo oluninzi ngenxa yokungakwazi ukulala ngesondo. Ndiyesaba ukuba kuya kugqiba kwaye andifuni ukuhla ngaphandle kokulwa.
Ke ndiye ndafunda ukuyilungiselela inaliti kwaye ndazama ukuyenza. Amaxesha okuqala ebehleli nje emkhenkceni ebhedini yam ngenaliti efakelweyo ... .kwesaba ukuyenza… isakhiwo sepanishi engqondweni yam.
Emva kweeveki ezi-2 ekugqibeleni ndasebenza isibindi, kunye ne-ex yam ecaleni kwam (yothando lwenene) ndayixhoma loo naliti… .yayibuhlungu… .kwakufuneka ndiyiphindaphinde amaxesha nothixo ...
Emva koko kwadamba nzima kwaye salala ngesondo. I-Albeit kakhulu kwaye ingonwabanga ngokwenene njengoko ndihla ephuma kwingcamango yokuba nje ndinyanzele inaliti kwindawo yam yokugula.
Ingxaki yayikukuba, ayizange yehle…. Ke kuye kwafuneka ndifike kwi-ER. Ndikhwele ngesitrato ngeyona boner inkulu unokuyicinga… .umongikazi vula ibhulukhwe yam ukuze ndibone "imeko" kuphela ukuba ndibethwe ebusweni ngumnumzana enthousiasm.
Kwigumbi le-ER babiza ingcali kwaye emva kokulala apho kangangeyure benengxowa yomkhenkce baqala ngokuzishenxisa igazi nge… ezinye iinaliti.
Andizange ndive ndihlazekile kwaye ndiphazamiseke ngengqondo ebomini bam.
Kodwa ke ndijonge emva kwayo ngokuxubana kobuqili kunye nokuqinisekileyo ukuba andiyi kuphinda ndiye ngaphaya kwendlela leyo kwakhona.
Ukuphosa kwayo apho ukusetyenziswa kwamagama kunokukuzisa Ubudala 25 - PIED, amaXwebhu amiselweyo iinaliti kwilungu lobudoda bam ... kodwa iphonografi yayiyingxaki
Uyaqonda ukuba i-PMO inecala elimnyama kwaye ayitshintshanga kuphela imbono yakho inokwenza kube nzima nokuba nzima kumantombazana kwindawo yokuqala okt nge-PIED, ndiyakholelwa ukuba oku kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba awuzange ube amava amaninzi kunye namantombazana ebomini bokwenyani- ecaleni kwe-PMO. Oku kuyothusa kumfana omncinci endinokukuqinisekisa ukuba awuzange ube nakho oko, uve malunga noku kuchaphazela abantu abadala, kodwa kusenzeka kwiminyaka engama-20 ubudala? Yintoni le nto?
Ndaya kugqirha wam owathi yayiyeyona nto inokubangela uxinzelelo kwaye wandimisela nge-Viagra, ndandicinga ukuba oku kuya kusebenza, kuyothusa xa ungazi ukuba kutheni ungazenzi nzima amantombazana Ngokwenene ungene, uqala ukubuza nezinto ezisisiseko ocinga ukuba uqinisekile ngazo njengempilo yakho kunye nokuziphatha kwakho ngokwesini, kubuhlungu ngokwenene.
Ndayichitha i-intanethi iinyanga ngeli xesha bendinayo i-PIED ndingazi ukuba yintoni ingxaki, bendicinga ukuba likho ithuba lokuba inokuba inxulumene nezempilo, andikaze ndiyisebenzise i-viagra okwangoku kodwa njengepakethi kunye nolwazi malunga nayo ithi: ukuba ingqondo yakho ayithumeli miqondiso kwilungu lakho lobudoda ukunyusa ukuhamba kwegazi njlnjl i-viagra ayizukukwenza ube nzima ngomlingo. Ke ndiyazi ukuba ayisosisombululo. Okokugqibela ndifumana i-yourbrainonporn.com kunye nazo zonke iiakhawunti ezivela kubafana abancinci abaneempawu apho zifana ncam nezam, enkosi fuck! Ndiyakhumbula indlela endandiziva ndonwabile ngayo, ekugqibeleni ndandingenguye umntu wendalo emva kwayo yonke into kwaye kwakukho nabanye abafana nam, kwakukho amabali afana nqwa nam. Ndathuthuzelwa kukwazi ukuba ndikhathazwa yinto efanayo nayo nayiphi na into abanayo aba bantu.
Kwakumangalisa, ndandingazi nokuba ndinganyangeka na okanye ukuba ndingabuguqula ubomi bam, kodwa bendinayo loo mzuzu we-eureka kuba ndingade ndibone ingxaki ebindikhathaze ixesha elide. Ukusuka ekufundeni amabali apho ndakhawuleza ndaza kubona into endinayo yayiyi-PIED ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye nge-YBOP ndafumana i-nofap kwaye kwakuluncedo ukuva amanye amabali kunye neengcebiso ezincinci ezikuncede niphumelele ubomi ngaphandle kwe-PMO. Ubudala 22 - I-PIED isisombululo: Ukukhuthaza, Ukugxila kakhulu, Ukulala kuphuculwe
Amantombazana e-5 kamva kwaye andikayifumani. Amantombazana ahlala ekhangeleka eneentloni kwaye endibuza imibuzo efanayo. “Yonke into ilungile? Yintoni engalunganga? Awuyithandi LE? ” into ayilunganga kwaphela kum. Ndidiniwe kwaye ndinomsindo kwi-dick yam yokungasebenzi, ndiye kuGqirha ndiyomcela ukuba aqhube uvavanyo lwe testosterone kum. Emva kweveki iziphumo bezingenile kwaye yonke into ibijongeka ilungile. YOYIKEKA, ndiyacinga. Masizame oku kwakhona.
Intombazana engunombolo-6 yayiyeyona iyeyona ihlazo kubo bonke. Wayemhle nyhani kwaye ndandimthanda kakhulu. Ndiyazi ngalo mzuzu eshiya igumbi lam ukuba andisayi kuphinda ndimbone. Ngoku ndinguFucking ndinomsindo. Ndiya kwaGqirha owahlukileyo, Undixelela ukuba iimvavanyo ze testosterone zibuye zilungile, emva koko ndiye kuGqirha wesithathu oza kujonga ukujikeleza kwegazi lam, Undixelela ukuba yonke into ilungile, kwaye ngoGqirha wam wesihlanu, ndigqibe kwelokuba akukho aba bantu banokundinceda. Yintoni le engalunganga kum?
Ndaye ndaya kuGoogle ndaqala ukufunda kuwo onke amabali empumelelo e-ED, onke amanani manani kwihlabathi liphela phantsi kwe-40, nangaphantsi kwe-25 ene-ED. Uninzi lwamadoda akwi-50 yawo aqala ukufumana i-ED ngenxa yeengxaki ze testosterone, kodwa kutheni le nto aba bafana babeneempawu ezifanayo? I-intanethi ye-intanethi. La madoda aneminyaka eyi-50 ubudala ebengenayo iphonografi ekukhuleni, exhomekeke kwiimagazini nakwingcinga zabo, haha.
Nanini na emva kokuba ndifumene ingxaki. Ndayeka ukubukela iphonografi kwaye ndayeka ukuzikhusela. Namhlanje kuphawula iintsuku ezingama-30 okoko ndiyekile ukuyibetha, kwaye ndongeze amanye amantombazana e-2 kumzimba wam endingakhange ndibenangxaki kuwo. Ngokwenyani, okoko ndiyekile ukuyibetha, ndikwazile ukwenza iROCK HARD.
Le shit ibhomu! 7 Amantombazana aneentloni kuba andikwazi ukuyifumana… ED CURED!
Ndijongiwe ngenani leengcali ze-urologists, ze-cardiologists, kunye nezinye, kwaye zonke iimvavanyo zeza kakhulu, igazi, i-testosterone, yonke into enokuthi ihlolwe ihlolwe kwaye iziphumo zilungile. Bonke bacebisa ukuba ndiye kugqirha wezifo zengqondo besithi kungenxa yoxinzelelo lokusebenza, kodwa akukho ndlela ndiye ndancipha.
Oogqirha abanalo i-IDEA le nto ikhona kwaye iyandicaphukisa. Kutheni sifuna ukuya kudokotela?
[Omnye umntu kumsonto ofanayo] Ubelapho. Zonke iimvavanyo zomzimba zaphuma zilungile. Wandibhekisa ekunciphiseni, owayengayeki ukuthetha nam malunga noxinzelelo kunye nokundiphatha njengomntu osisidenge. Ngokucacileyo ndingacebisa ukuba wonke umntu enze okufanayo ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho nto iyenye edlalayo, kodwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo, fuck loo shit. Kutheni sifuna ukuya kudokotela?
Ugqirha walo mfo wamvavanya kwaye wayalela uthotho lweenaliti zokunyanzela ... ngaphandle kokubuza malunga nokusebenzisa kwakhe iphonografi okanye ucinga ngeziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezinokubakho. Uxinzelelo oluphezulu lwe-ED lufunyenwe ngugqirha
Omnye umfana: Ukuvuka kwakuhlala kuyingxaki endandiyifuna intloko ukuze ndibe nzima ngokwaneleyo ngesondo. Ndizamile yonke into ukusuka kwizongezo ukuya kwiziselo, iwayini, amakhonkco epenisi, njl.njl kwaye akukho nto isebenzayo. Nokuba kuvavanywa kwenziwe yonke into yayiqhelekile. Ugqirha uphakamise iViagra. Ndandifana, "Fuck that, what the hell is my life is gonna be like 30 years from now while I'm still on this shit?" Zonke ezi zongezelelo kunye namayeza anokukunceda kuphela ukuba uvuke kwaye ube ne-horny kodwa ngokucacileyo ayikugcini ngokwaneleyo. Ke ekuqaleni bendicinga ukuba yindlela yam yokubamba i-masturbating. Ndiya kuthi ndicinga ukuba ndiza kubanjwa xa ndisenzile. Ndiye ndawutshintsha umkhwa wam kodwa ndabona kuphela ukuphucuka okuncinci.
Isisombululo soSondo kwi-Medhelp icebisa umlingani wezilwanyana ezingcolileyo:
Ungasoloko ufumana abantu abaneenjongo ezintle abaza kukuxelela ukuba into ethile inxibelelana nenye into; Nangona kunjalo, izazinzulu ziya kukuxelela ukuba unxibelelwano alulingani nesizathu. Umzekelo, ngalo lonke ixesha inyanga igcwele, ezinye izinja ziyakhonkotha. Ngaba singagqiba ekubeni izinja ezikhonkothayo zibangela ukuba inyanga igcwale?
Akunjalongo noko. Makhe sijonge iinyani ezifanelekileyo: Utsho ukuba i-bf yakho ifezekile, ngaphandle kokuba akasebenzi, akazukufumana msebenzi, kwaye uyaxoka kuwe. Umcimbi wakho oyinyani ungquzulwano malunga nezesondo, hayi iphonografi. Kutheni ungakhange uthethe ngokunyanisekileyo ngesondo? Kutheni angakuxelelanga ukuba usebenzisa iViagra? Kutheni angakuxelela ukuba angayeka ukusebenzisa inkanuko kwaye aqhubeke esenza njalo? Bunjani ubomi bakho bobulili kunye? Ndiyabuza le mibuzo kuba kwindlela yam yabucala, ndibona abantu abaninzi nangakumbi abafuna ukuthetha malunga noloyiko olujikeleze i-erotica, endaweni yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kubo, kukungoneliseki ngokwesondo.
Ngamanye amaxesha asiqondi ukuba awanelisekanga kuba kulula ngakumbi ukubeka ityala kwenye into. Njengoko benditshilo, lixesha lokuba uthethe ixesha elide kunye neqabane lakho kwaye nenze isigqibo malunga nento enifuna ukuyenza- kunye- ukuphucula ubudlelwane bakho bezesondo. Kwaye lixesha lokuba i-bf yakho ijonge ukuba kutheni ephepha ukufumana umsebenzi. Olu luphawu nje lwento ebaluleke ngakumbi (umzekelo, mhlawumbi uxinezelekile eklinikhi okanye unemicimbi yezempilo yengqondo).
Ilungelo lenhlanhla kuwe. UDkt J
Nanku ugqirha wezesondo ka-2014 ongenalo ulwazi: "Andikwazi ukwenza i-orgasm ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, kuphela ukuphulula amalungu esini"
Umncinane we-MD kunye noonobumba-mboniso we-ED
Ndiyabingelela ngokunyanisekileyo kubo bonke abafana apha! Ndijikela kolu luntu ukuze ndifumane uncedo, kwaye bendifuna ukuzazisa kunye nemeko yam. Ndingu-33, ndisempilweni, ugqirha osandula ukugqiba uqeqesho lwam… kwaye kwiinyanga ezi-6 ezidlulileyo baye balwa no-ED no-DE abathi ekugqibeleni bandikhokelela ekubeni ndibone ukuba iphonografi kunye neziyobisi ezivuselelayo zilutshabalalisile ulwalamano lwam lwamva nje.
Ukuphulukana nentombi endithandana nayo kwinyanga ephelileyo ngenxa yokunqongophala kwe "chemistry yomzimba" njengoko watshoyo…. ukukwazi kwam ukumkholisa, njengoko ndisitsho… ndikrazule intliziyo yam phakathi kwaye yandenza ndaziva njengeqhezu lendoda, kodwa kwinkqubo yandinyanzela ukuba ndizijonge kakuhle kwaye ndiqonde ukuba imikhwa yam kunye neendlela zokujamelana Iminyaka eli-15 ukuya kwengama-20 yobomi bam indifumene ... kwaye kuyakufuneka ndilwe nzima ukuba ndiza kuzikhupha kule nzonzobila yeemvakalelo kunye nezamachiza ukuze ndibenesiqhelo, ndisempilweni kwaye ndonwabile ubomi besondo kunye nobudlelwane obuyimpumelelo kwikamva.
Nangona oogqirha beyazi kakhulu ngomzimba womntu, kukho iziganeko ezithile ezingekabikho kwi-fund yangaphakathi yolwazi. Ubungozi be-PMO kunye nomlutha wokuvuselela awunakwenzeka. Nangona ndingudokotela wezonyango, ndingazange ndive ngeabo okanye ndaqonda ukuba zichazwe kakuhle njengoko zikho kwi-intanethi ngabavulindlela njengawebbrainonporn.com kunye noluntu lwaseNofap. (Intombi yam yangaphambili, nayo i-MD, yayingenaso ingcamango.) Into endiyaziyo kukuba ndandivuyayo, kwaye kwakungakaze kubekho xa kuthe kwaba nobuhlobo bezesondo kunye nolwalamano lwabafazi.
Nazi iingxelo ezivela kwizigulane ezahlukeneyo malunga neengcebiso abazitholayo:
Kulo mxholo - Kwenzeka njani ukuba kusithathe ixesha elide ukwenza unxibelelwano lokuba iphonografi yayiyingxaki?
Ingxaki ebalulekileyo kukuba ugqirha wezobugqirha usemva kwamaxesha.
Umcimbi wam buqu ikakhulu ngumsebenzi wesondo, hayi inkungu yobuchopho / uxinzelelo lwentlalo / njl. Ndandijikeleza kakhulu malunga ne-ED kwiminyaka embalwa eyadlulayo kwaye ndafumana phantse akukho nto yathetha ngekhonkco phakathi kwe-porn kunye ne-ED. Zonke iiwebhusayithi "ezihloniphekileyo" azikhange ziludwelise njengonobangela we-ED. Ngapha koko, uninzi lweesayithi zithetha into enje, "ukuba ungayifumana iphonografi, ke awunangxaki zomzimba… konke kusentloko yakho."
Ke ndiye ndaqala ukubona oogqirha ndachitha imali eninzi. Into efanayo apho: "Ukwakhiwa koononophala kuthetha ukuba kusekhanda lakho ... thatha iViagra."
Ekugqibeleni, ndenze uphando oluninzi ku-ED kwaye ndachitha imali eninzi kugqirha, iimvavanyo, amayeza, njl. Akukho namnye umntu owake wathi kum, "Hee, uyazi, ukubukela iphonografi kakhulu kunokubangela isondo. ukungasebenzi kakuhle. ” Endaweni yoko, baye banikezela ngezinye izinto ezingakhange ziboniswe ukuba zinxibelelene ne-ED kwaye azisebenzi kum nakanjani (umzekelo, uxinzelelo… nangona uhlala neqabane lakho ngonaphakade kwaye ungabonisi zimpawu zoxinzelelo; uxinzelelo… nangona awubonisi nasiphi na isikhombisi soxinzelelo; ukutya ... nangona ubunzima bakho buqhelekile kwaye utya ukutya okunezakha-mzimba; testosterone esezantsi… nangona iphantsi T ayidibananga ne-ED (ngaphandle kwaxa kunjalo ... buthathaka) kwaye i-T yakho ayiphantsi ngokwenene).
Kukho reddit.com/r/sex… eneengcebiso ezoyikisayo ezivela "kwizini zesondo" ezihlala zihlala kule ndawo. Bazimisele ekubeni "banesondo esifanelekileyo," abayiphikisi kuphela imiphumo emibi yokusetyenziswa kwe-porn, bayayigculela imbono ye-porn-eyenze i-ED.
Ke, nangona ndiziva ndisisidenge ngokungayenzi ikhonkco phakathi kwe-porn kunye ne-ED ngokwam, inyani kukuba bendifuna uphando kunye neengcebiso ezivela kubaqeqeshi kunye noononophelo ezingazange zikhuliswe ngaphandle kokukhanya okuhle. Khange ndicinge ukuthi, "Hee, ndiyayithanda iphonografi" kuba, ngelo xesha, ibifana kum njengokufota ngokubanzi… wonke umntu uyayenza, kuyinto eqhelekileyo… enyanisweni, isempilweni.
Ndaye ndaqala nenkqubo yokuvavanya ukubakho kongenelelo lotyando. Iya kuba phakathi kwe- $ 25k kunye ne- $ 30k epokothweni kwaye iziphumo azikhuthazi (i-penile revascularization). Ngomhla emva kokuqeshwa ndakhubeka kwiYBOP. Owu thixo wam ... yintoni isityhilelo kwaye sikhululekile.
Iyasebenza… andingo 100%, kodwa ndiye ndaphucula kakhulu kwaye izinto ziya ziba ngcono. I-PIED yam yaqala malunga ne-10 kwiminyaka eyadlulayo. Ndichithe amawaka eedola koogqirha, kubandakanya ne-urologist eyaziwayo egxile kwi-ED (kuye kwafuneka ahambe iikhilomitha ezingamakhulu amabini kuloo); amawaka kwiimvavanyo; amawaka eepilisi.
Kwaye kwavela yonke into endifanele ndiyenze wayeka ukufakela i-pornography. Yinyani. Ngokunyaniseka, ndinomsindo okhawulezileyo wokuba ndaye ndafuna isisombululo kwiingcali, kubandakanya neengcali, ezamkele ngobabalo imali yam endiyizuzileyo kodwa bandinika iingcebiso ezimbi.
Enkosi, Gary. Uyicinge le nto xa wonke umntu esithi, "akunjalo!"
Njengabantu ngabanye, enye yezona zinto zilungileyo esinokuzenza kukunika oogqirha ingxelo yakho ngalo mbandela. Bazise amava akho. Gcina ulwakhiwo… walathe kwiYBOP.
Iintsuku ze-91 - i-ED iphilisiwe yanyanga !!!
Ngoku ndiyiminyaka eyi-32 ubudala. Ndaqala uNoFap ukuba ndiphilise kwi-ED kunye ne-PE, ukuyeka ukuchitha ixesha lam kwi-PMO nokunyanga uxinzelelo olunzulu kunye noxinzelelo olunzulu.
Yilapho ndaqala khona: Ndiye ndahlushwa yi-ED kunye ne-PE iminyaka eyi-14. U-ED wam uye waba nzulu kakhulu. Awekho amaMedi asebenzela kum. Ayikho i-Viagra, kungekhona i-caverous-body-auto-injection. Ukuxilongwa ngokusemthethweni: ukuvuza okuphazamisayo. Akukho ithemba lokuphilisa. Udokotela wandixelela ngePenis-Prothesis.
Kodwa andizange ndilahle ithemba. Yonke ithemba lam elisekelwe kwinyaniso, ukuba inhlanganisela ye-viagra kunye ne-Ixense (esekelwe kwi-dopamine (!!!) - i-apomorphine ephambili) yabangela ubuncinane kwinqanaba elithile kwithuba elifutshane.
Xa ndifunda i-YBOP, ingakumbi inxalenye malunga ne-dopamine, ndazi ukuba ndifumene unyango lwam!
Emva koko ekholejini xa ndiqala ukuzifumana ndilele namantombazana, kukothuka kwam andikwazi ukuba nzima. Ekuqaleni ndacinga ukuba amantombazana ayengathandeki ngokwaneleyo, kodwa ke xa ndandingakwazi nokuba nzima kumantombazana endandicinga ukuba ayathandeka njengesihogo, ndandisazi ukuba kukho into engalunganga. Ndadandatheka. Bendingazi ukuba mandiye phi ke ndaye ndaya kugqirha womchamo. Ndanyanzelisa ukuba kukho into engalunganga ngepenisi yam kodwa uvavanyo kunye nomsebenzi wegazi wangqina ukuba ipipi yam isebenza ngokugqibeleleyo.
Ngasihlandlo sithile ndiye ndalila ndaza ndalila kanye phaya eofisini kagqirha kuba andifumananga ukuba yintoni ingxaki ngam. Ugqirha wam wafumanisa ukuba ingxaki isengqondweni yam kwaye wandithumela kugqirha wezifo zengqondo. Ugqirha wezifo zengqondo wathi ndineempawu zoxinzelelo kunye nokugqithisa. Wamisela iXanax yam kuba wayekholelwa ukuba ndinexhala lokusebenza. Ngokuqinisekileyo ndicinga ukuba inxenye yengxaki yam yayikukuxhalaba kodwa isiphako esibonakalayo seXanax kukuba iyathoba i-libido yam ukuze kungabikho nto. Emva kwemizamo emininzi yokusilela noXanax ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndithathe imicimbi ezandleni zam. Ndiqale ukuphanda kwi-Intanethi ngendlela yokuzinyanga. Ekugqibeleni ndaqonda ukuba bendinePIED.
I-ED-ixutywe i-ED kunye nomntwana ongasemzini: Umendo omude, kodwa uphiliswa ngokupheleleyo
Ndizamile ukuthetha kunyanga kwinyanga yokuqala ngethemba lokunceda ukuba ubengcono, kodwa ndiziva ngathi yinkcitho etshabalalisayo. Wandixelela ukuba i-PIED ayikho kwaye iingxaki zam zazivela kukuxhalaba. Andifumani xhala kwaye umntu ophelelwe lixesha wayengazi ukuba uthetha ngantoni. Isimo sam sengqondo kunye nokuthuthuzeleka kunye nentombi yam kwakungatshintshanga ukusukela ngomhla we-1 kwaye andikaze ndadandatheka. I-PIED iyinyani njengoko ifumana kwaye musa ukuvumela nabani na ukuba akuxelele ngokwahlukileyo.
Ndandibukela i-porno malunga ne-10 iminyaka kwaye ngoku ndiye ndayeka malunga neenyanga ze-3. Ndiziva ndonwabile kwaye ndiphucuka kakhulu kubomi bam besini (Inqaku elisecaleni elinomdla kuye wonke umntu osabuza amandla okonakalisa iphonografi: Ndizamile ezinye izinto ezininzi njengokuqina komzimba, ukutya okusempilweni, ndwendwela ugqirha, ndazama i-aphrodisiacs yendalo… akukho nto iyenzileyo …). https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/3f2o22/questionadvancing_the_reboot_of_the_brain/
I-GP yam ayiqinisekisile i-PIED
Kunyaka ophelileyo ngaphambi kokuba ndifunde nge-PIED, ndayibona i-GP yam amaxesha ambalwa, kodwa wayeqhubeka endixelela ukuba konke kusentloko yam kwaye ndifuna nje ukuzithemba kwakhona ngoncedo lweepilisi eziluhlaza.
Ngenhlanhla ndafumana i-YBOP, i-NoFap kunye ne-YBR ngoDisemba 2014 kwaye ndaqala kwangoko ukuqala kwakhona! Ngoku ngemini 58 ndiziva ndingcono kakhulu !!! Bendinolungelelwano lwakusasa olomeleleyo kwezi veki zimbini zidlulileyo kwaye ndikwafumana ezinye izibonelelo njengokuphuculwa koxinzelelo kunye nelizwi elinzulu. Kodwa ndikude ndaphiliswa, andisenayo i-libido kwaye akukho zilungiso ezizenzekelayo.
Ngapha koko bendiye kubona i-GP yam namhlanje malunga nemeko yam ye-microlithiasis ye-testicular. Saye sancokola ke no-ED wam. Ndamxelela ukuba kukho imeko ebizwa ngokuba yi-Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction, ndamxelela malunga nokuqalisa ngokutsha, nofap, YBOP, YBR. Kodwa kucacile ukuba wayengaqinisekanga, wanyanzelisa ukuba zimbini kuphela iintlobo ze-ED, nokuba zezomzimba okanye ezengqondo, kwaye ukuba akukho nto kuthiwa yi-PIED.
Ndamxelela ukuba iViagra kunye neCialis azange zisebenze kum, kodwa ukuyeka kwi-PMO kwiintsuku ze-58 kuye kwafumana kwakhona umthi wam ekuseni. Ndanyanzelisa ukuba ajonge indawo ye-YBOP ke wayibona i-URL. Ndiyathemba ukuba uya kuyikhangela, afunde kwisiza, atshintshe izimvo zakhe emva koko ancede abanye abantu abalwa ne-PIED.
Ndiya kubona i-urologist kwiintsuku ezimbalwa. Ndiza kuqhubekeka ukusasaza igama ukuba akayiqondi i-PIED okwamanje. Simele sonke senze okufanayo, ukugcina oogqirha bazise, ngoko banokunceda abantu abaninzi kwaye banethemba lokubonelela ngamatyala abalulekileyo kubaphandi bePIED uphando olunxulumene!
Iminyaka eyi-22, ubukele iphonografi ukusukela emncinci. Bendingazi ukuba ndinengxaki de kuqale lo nyaka. Ekuqaleni ndandingazi ukuba yayinxulumene noononophelo ngoko ugqirha wandinika. … Ndayeka ngokupheleleyo ukubonisana ne-porn kwakamsinya nje ukuba ndifunde into eyenzayo kum. … Usuku lwe-84 ndabelana ngesondo ngempumelelo ne-gf yam! Olona suku lubalaseleyo!
Emva kokumelana ne-PEID kwiminyaka eyi-3 (17-20) ekugqibeleni ndanele. Ndaphula kwaye ndavuma kubawo ukuba andinakufumana ukulungiswa nentombazana. (Andizange ndibe ngathetha nobawo malunga nobudlelwane bam ngokwesini kunye nabani na amantombazana am ngaphambi kokuba le nto ibe yinto ebalulekileyo kunzima ukuba ndiyenze).
Ngombulelo, wayexhasa kakhulu ayizukuyeka ukuzama ukundinceda ndoyise ingxaki yam ide ilungiswe. Ungugqirha wamazinyo kwaye unabahlobo abaliqela kwicandelo lezonyango kangangokuba wandingenisa kugqirha womchamo ngorhatya.
Ndamxelela imeko yam kwaye wandinika nje idosi encinci yeVallium kunye neCialis kwaye wandifumanisa ndine "xhala lokusebenza ngokwesondo ". Uye wandicebisa ukuba ndiye kugqirha wezengqondo ndize ndixoxe ngemiba yam yoxinzelelo. Undibuze ukuba andizukuhlala ndingabafazi na wacebisa ukuba ndingumlingani. Ndaphuma ndaya embindini weseshoni. Kwiinyanga kamva kulapho ndafumanisa iNoFap kunye ne-yourbrainonporn.com. ENKOSI NGOLUNTU ngolu luntu lukhanyisela lo bhubhane mtsha. Ubudala 21 - Ilifu elimnyama le-PIED lisusiwe
Ngombulelo, wayexhasa kakhulu ayizukuyeka ukuzama ukundinceda ndoyise ingxaki yam ide ilungiswe. Ungugqirha wamazinyo kwaye unabahlobo abaliqela kwicandelo lezonyango kangangokuba wandingenisa kugqirha womchamo ngorhatya.Ndingumfana oneminyaka eli-16 ubudala owayekhe wacinga ukuba angoyiswa. Kwiminyaka eyi-15 ndaqonda ukuba akunjalo. Ngo-Meyi walo nyaka, malunga neenyanga ezi-7 ezidlulileyo, ndafumana i-PIED. Kwakulihlazo ngokupheleleyo xa ndandingakwazi ukudlala nentombazana enomtsalane… Ungasathethi ke ngento yokuba wayehambahamba exelela abantu ngale ngxaki yam. Ngelishwa kwandithatha kude kube ngaphezulu kweenyanga ze-5 ukwenza unxibelelwano kwingxaki ye-porn / ye-masturbation. Ngaphambi kokuba ndifumane intetho kaGary ye-TED, kunye ne-YBOP.com, ndandwendwela ii-urologists ezininzi, ndazixelelwa ukuba ndiphilile. Ukuba nengxaki endicinga ukuba baneminyaka eyi-50 kuphela ubudala, ndaye ndadandatheka.
Ngo-Novemba ka-2nd, ngo-2014 andizange ndiqale kuhambo lwe-PMO. Izixhobo zam zancipha kwiintsuku ezingama-30 zokuqala ezazisoyikisa. Xa oku kusenzeka kulinga ukuvavanya izinto, uyazi, ukubona ukuba yonke into ayophukanga. YENZA LENTO. Ngomhla wama-30 ndandinomthi wam wokuqala ekuseni ngeenyanga ezi-6! Esi yayisisizathu esihle sokuba ndiqhubeke ndenza i-PMO. http://www.rebootnation.org/forum/index.php?topic=2808.msg27409#msg27409
(Hayi ED, kodwa uqinisekisile isigulane sokuba umlutha we-porn engekho, kwaye iziyobisi ezinamandla ziyisisombululo)
Oko kuvela kwibali lam: “Ngo-2012, ndazama ukufumana uncedo kwingcali yezonyango / kwizini (kwinkonzo yezempilo yoluntu), apho ngaphambili ndandifuna ukufumana uncedo loxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo lwentlalo. Ndithathe isibindi sokuxelela i-Therapist ukuba ndinengxaki enkulu yokunyanzelwa kwe-PMO kwaye oko konakalise sele kuyiminyaka eyi-20 yobomi bam. Ndibethe udonga lokungaqondakali. Kubonakala ngathi uninzi loogqirha kunye noochwephesha bengqondo abayiqondi le ngxaki kwaye abayithathi njengenyanzelo ye-PMO njengesiqhelo sokuziphatha.
Lo gqirha wezengqondo wazama ukundenza ndiqiniseke ukuba yayingumnqweno ophakamileyo wesini (isifo sehypersexual disorder) kunye neparaphilias engenakuphikiswa (njengoko benditshilo ukuba ndavuswa kakhulu ngesondo lase-anal kunye nemiboniso engamanyala). Ugqirha uthe oku akunakuba likhoboka le-porn, kuba ukubakho kwe-porn akukho. Isini ngesondo sifuna ukundinika iyeza elinamandla lokulwa ne-androgen ukunciphisa isondo. Khange ndivume ukuba ndazi iziphumo zayo ebezingalindelekanga, njenge gynecomastia. Ndandifuna ukufumana uncedo nge-PMO umlutha kodwa kwafuneka ndingamkeli mntu uya kundinceda apho. Ndithathe isigqibo sokugxila kwizibonelelo zakho kwaye ndizama ukunciphisa / ukuyeka i-PMO ndedwa kwaye kamva ngenkxaso ye-YBR.
Ndiyahlutha kakhulu kwiingqondo zeengqondo kunye neengqondo zengqondo
aba bantu banemfundo eninzi yekholeji ngokucacileyo kodwa bebengenakundixelela ukuba uxinzelelo lwam lubangelwe likhoboka leziyobisi? Andikuxeleli ukuba bangaphi oogqirha abo ndaya kubo kwaye bonke bazama ukundenza ndiye kwicounselling, bandinike iipilisi, kodwa ndiyaqikelela? Ekugqibeleni ndikwazile ukunxibelelana nabantu kwaye ndaqonda ukuba xa ndisiya kwiintsuku ezingama-40 kungekho pmo, akukho mo, ndinexhala elincinci emva koko ndingaze ndikhumbule. wtf ayilunganga ngoogqirha namhlanje?
Isihlomelo - kwabo babuza ukuba ndibathethile na nge-porn. ewe amaxesha amaninzi. Ndabaxelela nokuba ndilikhoboka kwaye abandithathanga nzulu. Omnye wade wathi kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukujonga iphonografi ukuzama nje ukuthatha lula. ewe kulula kakhulu ukuba likhoboka. bangobuqhetseba kunye namagcisa obuqhetseba
Kunyaka ngaphambi kokuba ndiqale ukunikela i-PMO, ndade ndahamba ndiza kubona izifo zengqondo kunye neengqondo zezengqondo ezazifumene ingxaki yokuxhalabisa abantu kunye nokudandatheka, kwaye yayifuna ukubeka kwiingxaki zokudambisa iingxaki engazange ndivumelane nazo. Xa ndifumanisa ukuba ingxaki ebalulekileyo ebomini bam (ED, ukungabikho kokuphendula kwabasetyhini benene) eyayisengqondweni yam 24 / 7 ingahlaziywa, ilitye elikhulu kunazo zonke liphakanyisiwe entliziyweni yam.
Xa ndandihamba nge-NoFap streak yam yokuqala (iintsuku ezingama-80 ze-cca) ndaqala ukuqaphela amandla amakhulu afanayo njengoko kuchaziwe ngabanye. Ngaba ngokwenene kuyothusa? Into ephambili etshabalalisa ukuzithemba kwam kwaye indenze ndaziva ndindedwa kwiplanethi ye-7 yezigidigidi, yayiguqulwa kwaye yaqheleka ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo. Namhlanje, ngomhla wam we-109th weNoFap, ndiziva ndonwabile, ndinentembelo, intlalontle, ndikrelekrele, ndinako ukuhlangabezana nawo nawuphi na umceli mngeni, njl., Njl., ...
Uhambo lwam lokukhulula OUT of PIED (i-porno eyenza i-erectile disys function)
Kube kukudinwa okulusizi kwaye kulihlazo ukuqonda ukuba onke amava am e-ED xa ndingatshatanga namantombazana ashushu abebephelele kuwo NGOKUQHELEKILEYO kubangelwe yi-PMO kwaye AKUKHO NANYE into… .Ndaye ndaya koogqirha, ndathatha izongezo ze testosterone njlnjl. Ndibuye ndikhulule ngokumangalisayo kwaye ndibanike amandla okuqonda ukuba ndisasebenza kakhulu phaya ezantsi xa nje ndiphula le nto ibambekayo yokuba i-cybersex yayinobuchopho bam.
Eyona nto imbi kakhulu kukuba ndichithe imali eninzi koogqirha nakwii-urologists, i-viagra prescriptions njl njl. Naxa ndandixelela ugqirha ukuba ndiphulula amalungu esini ngesiqhelo okungenani kanye ngemini kwaye bendijonge kakhulu kwaye ndisiya ndisiba nzima uP (wayelumkile ukukhankanya "akukho nto ingekho mthethweni" njengokuba, ndandingajonganga nantoni na engekho mthethweni kwaye ndingamfuni Ukucinga ngenye indlela!), Kodwa akazange ayikhankanye. Uye wandicebisa ukuba ndizame ezinye zezempilo zezesondo ezenziwa nguMasters noJohnson (kodwa khange ndikhuphe nokugigitheka xa bendikhankanya ndiza kuzama "inkosi yam johnson noMasters noJohnson), undipakishe ngeesampulu ze-viagra zasimahla wandithumela indlela yam…
Yiloo nto ebhaliwe ekuqaleni kweNofap kum:
“Kwiminyaka engama-20 ndaya kugqirha owandinika iViagra kunye nezinye ii-ED-Meds ezingazange zandisebenzela. Omnye ugqirha wandinika umgubo we-viagra kunye ne-ixense (esekwe kwi-dopamine-antagonist apomorphine) ekhokelela ubuncinci kwinqanaba lokumiswa. Kodwa olunye uvavanyo, unyango lwe-cavernous body auto-injection, aluphumelelanga Ukuchonga: ukuvuza kwemithambo. Ugqirha undixelele ngePenis-Prothesis ……. Emva kolu hlolisiso ndaphazamiseka kakhulu, ndaziva ndingenako ukuzithemba, namhlanje ndiyacinga, ibikokokuqala, ukuba ndidakumbe. ”
Ukusukela ngala mhla wama-24 ndivuke ngeentsuku ezi-3 ndiphethe umthi wasekuseni omnandi! Khange ndibone oku iminyaka emininzi! Ingcwele Shit ... iNofap iyasebenza !!!
Izolo bendikhotha intombi yam kwaye ngelixesha ndize ngaphandle kovuselelo… Ndiziva ngathi ndineminyaka eli-13 kwaye andithandi 31 !!!
Ndifuna nje ukwabelana nawe ngale nto. Hlala womelele wonke umntu, ungaze uvumele i-PMO itshabalalise ubomi bakho! Andiyi kuphinda ndifake kwakhona! http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1hhlfm/nofap_is_curing_my_ed/
Kwaphela iminyaka emithathu, kwafuneka ndijongane no-ED. Thetha ngokubethwa ngokupheleleyo kukuzithemba kwakho. Icandelo elibuhlungu kukuba ugqirha wam wenza umsebenzi wegazi kwaye akafumananga nto iphosakeleyo ngam. Uxinzelelo lwegazi lwalugqibelele. Amanqanaba am testosterone ayeqhelekile. Ndandikwimo entle. Wamisela uLavitra kwaye wandixelela ukuba ndingoyiki. Kwaphela iminyaka emithathu, kwafuneka ndijongane nokucwangcisa isondo kunye nepilisi okanye ndingakwazi ukuyifumana. Le yayiyindawo ephantsi kubomi bam besini.
Ngo-2013, ekugqibeleni ndenza isigqibo sokuba andisayi kuphinda ndilale ngesondo. Ngokucacileyo, bendinemicimbi kwaye bendingafuni ukujongana nayo kwakhona-ndade ndaqala ukuthandana nomntu. Ewe, ngaphandle kwepilisi, ndineengxaki. Ndaphinda ndabona ugqirha wandinika ingcebiso efanayo naleya ndambona ngayo ngo 2009. blah. Uneminyaka engama-38 ubudala kunye no-ED? Kum, bekukho enye ingxaki. Oku akunakuba yinto eqhelekileyo.
Emva koko ndiyifumene le ndawo. Ndiqale i-PMO epheleleyo ngoFebruwari 15th walo nyaka. Ndenze i-PMO epheleleyo kwiiveki ze-4 kwaye ndithintele i-porn kunye ne-masturbation ukusukela ngoko. Ekugqibeleni ndafumana ithuba lokulala ngesondo okokuqala ngo-Epreli, kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo (amaxesha amaninzi ukusukela). Akufuneki kutsho, Ndiyifumana ngokupheleleyo! Enyanisweni, ndifumana kunzima ukugcina i-flaccid, lol.
Eyokuqala yayingu-urologist owayeqhuba uvavanyo lwegazi ukujonga amanqanaba am e-testosterone kwaye wajonga neprostate yam (amava amabi okuqala kuloo nto, urgh). Ekugqibeleni akazange abone nantoni na engalunganga kum, kwaye ngokufutshane "kuvavanya" nentombazana yokwenyani, kwakungekho nto wayenokuyenza ngakumbi. Waye wandikhuthaza ukuba ndihlaziye i-pornography ngakumbi, iingcebiso endizilandeleyo
Ndatshilo ugqirha ndaye ndaye ndaza ndahleka ndaza ndabuza ukuba into eyinyani.
Ndacacisa ngokufutshane into endiyifunayo kwi-yourbrainonporn kwaye ndatsho ugqirha ukuba ndiphande PIED kamva.
Wandinika i-levitra kunye ne-laxapro yokudandatheka. Ndiyathemba ukuba wonke umntu unomhla olungileyo. Ndifuna nje i-libido yam.
Ndiye kuyo unyaka oqinileyo. Ewe, ayiqinanga. Ndibuyele umva kancinci. Mhlawumbi ndihambe inyanga ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa uninzi lwam lokuphinda ndibuyele kwakhona lwalusabelana ngesondo lokwenyani. Ngapha koko, esi siganeko siyinyani. Ukhe wabelana ngesondo kanye phezolo, kwaye kwakhona ngale ntsasa. Andikabikho kwi-100% okwangoku kodwa iminyaka eyi-10 yomonakalo iya kuthatha ixesha. Ngaba ndandidla ngesondo rhoqo kwinyanga ephelileyo kwaye yonke into yayilungile.
Isinyathelo sam sokugqibela sikwazisa uDkt. Undithumelele kubini be-urologists ukunceda. Ndiyathandazela ukuba sikwazi ukwazisa uluntu lwezonyango ukuze abanye abaselula bafumane uncedo.
Okwesibini kwakungomnye ugqirha endiyityelele esinye isifo kodwa ndamxelela ngxaki yam. Emva kokungafumani nto engalunganga kwakhona, wandibiza kwi-neurologist. Le ngqungquthela ye-neurologist yenza i-MRI ekhuselayo ukuba ndibone ukuba ingqondo yam ingxaki, kwaye ekugqibeleni, engaboni nto engalunganga ngokwenyama, kinda wandinika isiluleko sezenkolo njengokuba ndingenacala malunga nokukhwabanisa njengomKristu. Ukufaneleka ukuthetha, ndiziva ngathi bonke oogqirha abazange banike iimpendulo endazifuna kakhulu.
Ndiyiminyaka eyi-15 ubudala engakhange ikwazi ukufumana ulungiso olupheleleyo ngaphezu konyaka nantoni na. Xa ndifumana imithi yamasa, akusoloko kunzima. Ndaya oogqirha abaqhelekileyo ukuba bahlolisise. 1 xesha, ugqirha wathi ukuxinezeleka kwaye kuya kuhamba. I2X, ixesha lam, ugqirha wandixelela ukuba ndifudumise i-penis yam ngomlilo oshisayo (ungayidli) ngaphambi kokuba uphume. Ixesha le-3X, ugqirha ndivumele ukuba ndivavanywe ngamanqanaba egazi lam, kodwa wathi babuyele ngokuqhelekileyo.
[Ubudala 51] Ndiyi-65 yeentsuku zoononophala mahala kwaye ngoku ndibona iziphumo. Ndine-ED ukusukela ngo-2007. Bekuye kwaya kusiba kubi kangangokuba neViagra khange incede. Ndandiba noxinzelelo kwaye ndiphelelwe lithemba. Kudala ndikhangela amayeza e-ED iinyanga. Ndizamile yonke into, ndiyeke i-caffeine, i-DHEA, iivithamini kunye neeminerals, ukunciphisa umzimba, ukongeza ubunzima bemisipha, ukwandisa i-cholesterol yam, imifuno. Ndandiqala ukucinga ukuba yinto endizakuhlala nayo, ukuba yayiyinxalenye yokuguga kuphela.
Ndayeka ukubandayo kwi-porno kwaye khange ndiphoswe. Ukuba iphonografi indiphanga isini sokwenyani ayifanele loo nto. Ukubuyiselwa kwam kuye kwenyuka kwaye kwehla. Kodwa ukulungiswa kwam kwasekuseni kuye kwahambelana kakhulu kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo kunye namaxesha amabini okugqibela ndilala ngesondo ndafumana amatye anzima endandingazange ndibenawo kwiminyaka kwaye ndiwagcine ngalo lonke ixesha. Kwaye i-ejaculations iza ngokulula kwaye iziva ngcono kakhulu. Imvakalelo yesini iyabuya nayo. Ngaphambi kokuba ndikwazi ukufumana ukulungiswa okwaneleyo ngesondo ndandiziva ngathi i-penis yayisondele. Ngoku ndiyalizwa ilungu lobufazi lityibilika ngaphaya kwepenisi yam kwaye liziva lingummangaliso.
Ndixelele ugqirha wam malunga ne-porn / iphonografi xa ndingaphumeleli ukujongana nayo. Wakhanyela ukuba into enjalo inokubakho kwaye wacebisa ukuba ndibukele iphonografi kwaye ndiphulula amalungu esini kanye yonke imihla. Loluphi ulwazi olubi. Ndiphantse ndalahla i-Therapist ngenxa yaloo nto yodwa. Wayengafuni nokundimamela xa ndizama ukumcacisela ngeengxaki ezingalunganga ezivele kumbandela wokuphulula amalungu esini kwi-Intanethi (i-copulatory ED, inkungu yengqondo, uxinzelelo, njlnjl.) Oogqirha bafuna ukufundiswa ngale nto.
[Akukho nto ibonisa i-ED, kodwa ibonisa impendulo yobugcisa]
[iintsuku 90Ngokuqinisekileyo ndandineempawu zokurhoxa. Ngamanye amaxesha ndandiziva ukuba ubomi bam abunanjongo. Ndaziva ngathi le nto ibindonwabisa kakhulu ikhutshiwe ebomini bam. Ndaziva ndidandathekile kwaye ndicaphukile. Kodwa bendisazi ukuba ndifuna ukutyhala ndidlule kwezi mvakalelo ukuze ndingaze ndiphinde ndikhuphe i-detox.
Kancinci, kwakungekho mfuneko yokuba ndicinge ngayo kwaye ndiziphathe kakubi. Ukuphila ngaphandle koononophala kwaqala ukuzenzekelayo, akukho nto ndimele ndizame nzima ukuyenza yonke imini. Ndingakhululeka ngakumbi.
Ndaye ndagqiba ndaya kugqirha wezifo zengqondo wandibeka kwi-wellbutrin, ekufanele ukuba incedise ekuziphatheni okuluthayo kunye noxinzelelo. Indincedile ke khange ndive ukuphazamiseka kwamandla amakhulu emva kwemini apho imveliso yam yehle khona. Izinto zagqitywa ngakumbi, imeko yam iphuculwe, kwaye ndayeka ukuziyeka.
Ndikhe ndaya nakwiintlanganiso ezininzi zase Mzantsi Afrika kwaye bezifanelekile, kodwa ndaye ndaziva ngathi ndingumntu “onobunzima” xa ndiphakathi kwabantu abaye entolongweni ngenxa yamatyala esondo. Kwafuneka ndizixelele ukuba ngamnye wethu uza kubuyela kwimeko yakhe kwaye angazithelekisi nabo.
Ndaya kugqirha ono-ED ndabuza, "Ngaba uyalunyukiswa kusasa?" Ndathi, "Ewe kodwa babuthathaka." Ke undithumele kuvavanyo lwe testosterone. Yabuya eqhelekileyo kwaye yayiyiyo. Ndithumele kwindlela yam yokuvuya.
Ndiyindoda ekhangeleka kakuhle, ke amathuba ezesondo (ngakumbi kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo), ayeqhelekile, oko kuthetha ukuba ndifanele ndiphumelele kwisini amaxesha amaninzi !! MKA!! Ngeli xesha ndaqhubeka ndibukela iphonografi kwaye ndizibaleka, ndingarhaneli ukuba kukho ikhonkco. Ndaya kugqirha owayevavanya i-testosterone yam, wamisela i-cialis yam kwaye wandithumela kwisazi sengqondo. I-testosterone yayilungile, i-cialis yayisebenza kancinci, kwaye ugqirha wezengqondo wayibeka phantsi kwimithambo-luvo kwaye wandixelela ukuba ndiphumle. Ndandinentombi ngexesha endandikuphepha ukulala nalo, ndikhuselekile ukuba oku akuzange kuhlale ixesha elide.
Ukusilela, kunye nabo bonke abanye abantu abangaqhelekanga, kunye nenyani yokuba oogqirha, oogqirha, kunye nabanyangi bengancedanga kuthetha ukuba ndiyekile ekuhlaleni, ndizithiyile, ndisoyika ukuba ngekhe ndikwazi ukuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo, kwaye ndamkela inyani yokuba bendizakuphela ndizibulala. Andiyigqithisi kulonto.
Ukuzibulala kwaba yinto ebaluleke kakhulu entlokweni yam iminyaka emininzi, kwaye yayihlala isisombululo sokuqala endisinikwe yingqondo xa ndihlangabezana nengxaki, okanye xa ndicinga ngesondo. Ndingaba nemibono yokudubula yokuzihlaba okanye ukuzidubula okanye ukutsiba phambi kwemoto. Khange ndiyicwangcise ngaphandle okanye ndifike kwinqanaba apho ndizame khona ngokungathí sina, kodwa ngekhe kuthathe lukhulu ukuba ndifike apho. Ngelinye ixesha elinexinzelelo ndazisongela intamo entanyeni yam ndaza ndema apho nditsala ngentambo ngokungathandabuzekiyo- kodwa ke ndafumana i-DM kwi-instagram, kwaye ngekhe uzibulale ungakhange ujonge ii-DM zakho.
UkuQala kwakhona kwakhona kunye neViagra
Malunga neminyaka emine eyadlulayo ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba iphonografi inokuba negalelo, bendifundile ibhodi yemiyalezo apho umntu othile ebethethile ngayo kwaye ndacinga ukuba kufanelekile ukudutyulwa. Ke iinyanga ezintathu andikhange ndibukele iphonografi, kodwa ndaqhubeka nokujija apha naphaya. Emva kokubona naziphi na iziphumo kwaye ndingazi malunga nazo zonke izibonelelo ngaphandle apho ndaqala kwakhona i-PMOing. Kodwa kwakukule xesha lokuba ndibeke izandla zam kwi-viagra. Ndandidla ngesondo kuphela amaxesha ambalwa kwiminyaka embalwa (ngamanqanaba ahlukeneyo empumelelo kunye ne-chlamydia), kodwa umzimba wam wasabela kwiViagra ngokumangalisayo. U-Dick wam waba nzima kwaye wahlala nzima ubukhulu becala. Ndaya ke kugqirha ndafumana iyeza elinesiqhuma esiphindaphindwayo, ndaqala ukuba nesondo elininzi.
Inqaku elisecaleni: Khange ndiphande ukuba i-viagra imbi kangakanani kuwe ixesha elide, kodwa andicingi ukuba yeyona multivitamin. Ndikhe ndaba noxinzelelo oluphezulu lwegazi okwethutyana ngoku, enokuthi ibekwe phantsi koxinzelelo kunye nokutya, kodwa kunokuba nento enokuyenza ngesixa esikhulu se-viagra endisoloko ndiyifaka kwinkqubo yam ixesha elide. Yenza uphando.
Oku kwandise ukuzithemba kwam kwaye kwandibuyisela kwisondo xa ndandineminyaka engama-21 ubudala. Ndandinokuhamba okumbalwa apha naphaya kodwa ndingabandakanyekanga ngokwasemoyeni kuwo nawuphi na wabafazi endandilele nabo. Kwakuninzi kakhulu malunga neebhokhwe kunye neesile kunye ne-pussy kunye ne-fucking, eyayimnandi, kodwa yayiyinto engafaniyo nesondo, eyathi ngelixa lendalo kwinqanaba elithile yenziwa mbi ngakumbi kukuziphatha kakubi kuluntu lwethu. Oku kwaqhubeka malunga nonyaka onesiqingatha de ixhala lam noxinzelelo lwabuya ngokupheleleyo. U-dick wam wayengenakuba nzima ngaphandle kwepilisi eyayinokuba imbi kakhulu kum, kwaye ingqondo yam yayindikhwaza ukuba ndisaya kuhlala ndililolo ndilahlekelwe lilize ubomi bam bonke. Oku kundibeke kufutshane kakhulu nokuzibulala ndisusela oko.
I-PIED Diagnosis kunye nokubuyiswa
Kwaye ngoko, njengoko ndangena kwimpilo yengqondo engenaziphumo ndava ukuphawula ngokudlulisa ipodcast eyatshintsha ubomi bam. Umculi wayencoko kwaye wathetha into enje
"… Okanye ulutsha olwenza amaphambili kwimifanekiso engamanyala kwaye emva koko lungabi nzima kwizinto zokwenyani." Ndikhe ndabona izinto xa ndidlula kwiiforamu ezichaza olu hlobo lwento ngaphambili, kodwa andikaze ndiyihoye kakhulu ngenxa yazo zonke iinkcukacha ezingezizo kunye nokusilela kolwazi oluninzi lwekhonkrithi okanye izixhobo, kodwa ndithe ndakuva oku kwacofa. Emva komsebenzi ndaye ndaya ekhaya ndaza ndaya kugxotha i-PIED. Ndifumene i-Yourbrainonporn, kunye no-Gary Wilson's ted talk, Ndifumene uGabe Deem ethetha ngayo (khwaza uGabe ngokuba evuleke kwaye angabi nazintloni ngalo mbandela, ngokuya esidlangalaleni ngawo, kunye nokwenza iqonga kunye neziko lezixhobo zabantu abaphethwe PIED).Ukususela ngaloo mini ndayeka ukugxotha okanye ukubukela iphonografi. Yeyiphi ngokunyanisekileyo kwakungekho nzima kum, kuba emva kweminyaka emininzi yokubukela iphonografi, i-dick yam yayisiqingatha esithambileyo xa ndibukele iphonografi, kwaye idrive yam yendalo yesondo yayihlala kwi-0 ixesha elide kakhulu. Ndiqaphele umnqweno wokuqala wokuhlambalaza kunye nokuzixakekisa nge-porn-fantasy (okushiyekileyo kumkhwa wokuziphatha gwenxa kwe-porn), kodwa ke ndangena kwiflat. Emva kwenyanga koku ndingene kubudlelwane obungaqhelekanga kwaye ndaqhubeka nokulala ngesondo nge-5 inyanga okanye njalo. Emva koku andizange ndilale ngesondo okanye ndihlaziye i-masturbate ngaphezu kweenyanga ezintathu.
Ngaphandle kovuselelo lwesini okanye ukomisa ndaqala ukuba namaphupha amileyo. Ndiqalise ukubhabha ndineminyaka eyi-9 ngoku ndingazange ndane-cum eyoneleyo yokuqinisekisa iphupha elimanzi. Ukukhwaza ngaphandle ngamaphupha amnyama bayawusa umthetho kodwa banakho ukuba nobukhaphukhaphu kwaye bukhulu. Ndikhumbula ndinenye apho bendiqala khona ukuvula ucango ngentsimbi eyenziwe ngenyama yangaphandle. Ayisiyo into endizakujingisa kuyo kodwa mhlawumbi sele iluhlobo oluthile lwamanyala.
Emva kwenyanga yesi-3 ndafumana enye intombi kwaye bendithandana naye ukusukela. Ngommangaliso ndakwazi ukuyifihla yonke le nto yokubaleka ihlazo kuye. Ndisebenzise i-viagra kunye naye malunga neenyanga ezili-9. Ukuqala konyaka ndiqalisile ukuphakuzela ngenxa yokuba andinakukwazi ukuba nzima ngaphandle kwayo kwaye ndinokusilela okumbalwa. Kodwa wayeqonda nyani ngayo kwaye kubonakala ngathi akakhathali. Kwaye ndayeka ukubeka uxinzelelo kum ukuze ndikwazi ukwenza. Sabelana ngesondo nge-2-3 amaxesha ngeveki ngoku, kwaye ndiyekile ukusebenzisa i-viagra ngokupheleleyo. Andinangxaki yokuba nzima kwaye sinobomi obulungileyo besini.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuhlala nzima ngekhondom kunokuba ngumcimbi. Xa oko kusenzeka ndivele ndiye kuye kwaye ndihlala ndigqibile ngaphandle kwekhondom (eyingozi, kodwa usepilisi, kwaye asilali ngesondo ngaphandle komnye ukuba sele ndihleli). Njengoko benditshilo ekuqaleni kwale posi inde, ukuqhuba kwam ngesondo akusekho apho ndicinga ukuba kufanelekile, kodwa ndinobuhlobo obunothando obakhelwe kukuthenjwa kunye nokwamkelwa ngoko andizukuqala ukuluma. Umzabalazo weminyaka emi-2 - Ukuzibulala ngenxa ye-ED eyenziwe ngoonobumba: Ngoku andinangxaki yokuba nzima, i-GF yam kwaye ndinobomi obulungileyo besini
I-Porn iyakwazi ukutshintsha ukuthanda umntu ngokwesondo. Oku kwenzeke kwimeko yam ngokukhawuleza kombane. Iphonografi yandikhupha ngaphandle kwemikhwa yesini. Kwaye ngoku ndikwinqanaba elibi lokufumana kwakhona ngaphandle kwengcali kwindawo yam enolwazi olwaneleyo lokundithuthuzela kwintlungu yam yokuzonda. Ndaye ndabuza iingcali ezimbalwa apha endleleni, "Ngaba iphonografi ikhuselekile?", Kwaye "Ngaba iphonografi inokutshintsha ukuthanda kwakho"? Kwaye ufumene u "nah, uyinkwenkwana nje umhlobo wam. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo. Kulungile! ”
Emuva ngoDisemba, ngaphambi nje kokuba ndiyeke i-pornography ngokulungileyo, ndafumana unyango kwiziko lezonyango ze-VA ngenxa yokungasebenzi kwam erectile. Ndiyakhumbula ke ngoko ugqirha wandiqinisekisa ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokomzimba wam. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukususela ukuqala kwam Ndilala ngesondo ngoku, ngaphandle kwemicimbi kwaphela.
Ewe namhlanje umama wayehamba ngeposi endala kwaye yayineziphumo zoviwo lwam kuyo. Ifundile. ”I-VA yakho ebonakalayo ayibonisi ukungasebenzi kakuhle komzimba okanye ukuphazamiseka ekusebenzeni. Kuvavanyo lwezonyango lwe-VA uxela ukuqala kokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile ngo-Agasti ka-2011. Ukwaxela ukuba uyakwazi ukufikelela kulwakhiwo kodwa ungagcini ulwakhiwo. Ubonisa ukuba awufumani nyango lwangaphambili ngokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile. Xa kuvavanywa umzimba ipenisi iyinto eqhelekileyo ngaphandle kobungqina bokukhubazeka, ubunzima, okanye ukuthamba. Akukho fistula urethral. Olu vavanyo lwe-VA luchonga ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, kwaye i-etiology ichongiwe njengendalo yengqondo. ”
Okwesibini ndisiya kwagqirha omnye wayengazi nokuba makathini. Undixelele nje ukuba ubone abafana abaninzi abanengxaki yam kwaye ekuphela kwento anokuyenza kukundinika iViagra. Ndizamile ukucacisa ukuba mhlawumbi ibingumbandela woonografi kwaye waphendula esithi akalwazi olo hlobo lweengxaki, ngoko ke uncedo ngoncedo koogqirha.
Ukufunda kweli phepha ekuqaleni kweveki kwabuyisela imemori yohambo ukuya kudokotela malunga ne-5 kwiminyaka edlulileyo. Ndathetha naye ngento yokuba andizange ndifumane izilungiso ezifanelekileyo kwaye ndibeka phantsi ukuba ndiseyintombi kunye nokuba xa ndandinomfazi kwaye ndivuselelwe ngokusemzimbeni yowesifazane, izinto ziya kuba kuhle.
Ndiyaqonda ngoku ukuba wayengazi ukuba wayethetha ntoni. Wayebambelela emanzini kwaye ngokukhawuleza xa ndathi ndandingumfana, waqhankqalaza ngaloo nto, watsho oko wathetha waza wandixelela ukuba akukho nto ingakhathazeka ngayo. Wayebona ukuba njengendlela yokundigxotha ngokukhawuleza kwaye undikhulule kwizinwele zakhe. Ngoko ke, ngelo xesha ndaqala ukuhlolwa kwegazi zonke iinyanga ze-6 ukujonga kwi-thyroid njl. Ingcali yezobugqirha ayinalwazi malunga ne-ED echaphazelekayo okanye indlela yokuyiphilisa ngayo.
Kubuhlungu ngokupheleleyo. Ngaphandle kolwazi awunakuqala nokulwa. Uqhubeka nje ukholelwa ukuba into ojamelana nayo injalo kukuba zinjani izinto kwaye kukho into engaphantsi kwakho okanye into engalunganga ngempilo kuwe.
Unyango ndizamile: ndiye kwa-urologist. Senze zonke iimviwo ezinokwenzeka kwaye yonke into yayihamba kakuhle. Emva koko ndaqala ukusebenzisa iziyobisi ze-ED. Ndizamile zonke kwaye ekugqibeleni ndaqala ukuzisebenzisa nge-porn! Ndazicingela ukuba i-porn yeyona nto inyangekayo kunokuba ingxaki, ngoba ukuba ne-erection elungileyo kuya kundenza ndizive kamnandi ngokwasemzimbeni kwaye ndiqiniseke ngempilo yam yesondo, eyomzimba.
Icala elisezantsi: ixesha elininzi liqhubela phambili, ngakumbi emva kokusebenzisa iziyobisi ze-ED kunye ne-porn kunye nokuba bendikunye nentombazana yokuhamba, ekugqibeleni ndaye ndabona ukuba andinamdla wokwabelana ngesondo namantombazana okwenyani, ndinomdla onomdla wokuqalisa ubudlelwane bothando. Ingxaki, ewe, kukuba abantu basetyhini balindele ukuba senze njengobungqina bokutsala nobuhle bakhe. Ke kuyinkohliso ngenene. Kwaye masijongane nayo: kunzima kakhulu ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ibe yinto eqhelekileyo, eyinyani ye-3-D yomfazi ekhuphisana ne-hardcore porn. Ndiqalise inkqubo yokuqalisa kwakhona ngenjongo yokuqala yeeveki ezili-12 okanye iintsuku ezingama-84, ukuze ndibeke iliso kwinkqubela yam kunye notshintsho lwemood, i-libido, iimpawu ezinokubakho zokurhoxa, njl.
Ndikumhla we-14 kakade kwaye sele ndiziva ndinomdla wokufumana unxibelelwano namantombazana kwaye ndinento yokwenyani. Ndiziva ndinomdla ngakumbi kubomi ngokufumana nje ixhala malunga nokufumana ulwalamano kunye ne-orgasm. Oku kuyayikhumbula inkqubela yam kule minyaka idlulileyo idlulileyo ngoba andikwazanga ukujongana neempawu ezibucaphucaphu kwaye ndizikhohlisile ndicinga ukuba i-porn inokundinceda ukuba ndiqhubeke nokuzithemba kwam. Ndicinga ukuba le ayisiyiyo le nto, kuba kwakufika kwinqanaba lokuba ndingumlutha, ukuphulula amalungu esini ukuya ekuchitheni ngamanye amaxesha, nangona bendikade ndizama ukurhoxa ekusebenziseni iphonografi.
(Ubudala 38) Kuhleli kum kuphela ukukubulela ngokungagungqiyo ngawo wonke lo msebenzi uwenzileyo kunye nokusasaza igama endaweni yokuzama ukwenza uhlobo oluthile lwenzuzo ngalo. Intombi yam entsha yandicela ukuba ndiyabulela nawe! Andikwazi ukunyamezela ukucinga ukuba bonke ubomi bam buya kwenzeka njani ukuba ndiqhubeka nale ngxaki. Ndandisondela kwinqanaba apho ndacinga ukuba kungangabi noxinzelelo kwaye kuphazamise ukuba bendinokulibala nje ngamathemba okwakha ubudlelwane obuzalisekileyo, kwaye ndibeke umgca ngokwesini sam ukuze (uxolo) yiyo.
Kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo okanye ndiye ndafumana izikali ezahlukeneyo (ezinje ngeMRI), uhlalutyo lwe-cerebro-spinal fluid, uhlalutyo lwe-endocrine, izifundo zokuqhutywa kwemithambo-luvo (i-electromyograms), ndadibana nodokotela wezifo zomchamo, ugqirha wezesondo kunye nengcali yezengqondo. Akukho namnye owakhe wandibuza malunga nokusetyenziswa kwe-porn. Ndicinga ukuba ikhona ingxaki yokwenyani apha. Koko kufanelekileyo, ndenza konke okusemandleni am ngeendlela zam ukusasaza igama.
Babona oogqirha abambalwa, akukho nto iphosakeleyo emzimbeni, yayihlala ichongwa gwenxa- zange babuze malunga ne-porn. Ndikrokrela ukuba kukho ikhonkco kumkhwa wam we-PMO kodwa andinakuqiniseka, ngenxa yoko ndagcina ndiqhubeka. Kwinyanga ephelileyo i-gf yam ishiye, kwaye ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyisombulule ingxaki kwaba kanye, kungenjalo andinathemba laneleyo lokusondela kwabafazi abatsha. Ndifumene eli qela kunye nevidiyo yeTedx, yaya kubanda turkey malunga neveki ephelileyo, ndiziva ndilunge ngakumbi (imo engcono, ukonyusa amandla).
Ndinomhlobo oyingcali yengqondo efanelekileyo, kwaye ndixoxisana naye iminyaka malunga nesizathu salo ED. Bendingazi ukuba yintoni, kodwa bendisazi nokuba ukuphosa iViagra, njl.njengenngxaki ayisosisombululo, angavumelaniyo naso. Ewe, bendisandula ukuthetha naye emva kokuqalisa kwakhona kunye nokubuyisa ukusebenza kwam ngokwesondo, ndamthumela kwiYBOP. Kungekudala emva koko wavuma ukoyiswa kwingxoxo yethu encinci. Kwaye, ujonge phambili phambili kwimeko apho eli ziko litsha lomsebenzi liza kuba khona kwiminyaka ezayo.
NgoMvulo intombi yam yanditsalela umnxeba, ifuna ukuphelisa ubudlelwane. Ukuyinqumlela, esinye sezizathu yayingumcimbi wam wesini. Ingxaki yam kukuba andikwazi ukufikelela kwi-orgasm kunye nomfazi xa usabelana ngesondo. Ndiyakwazi kodwa i-orgasm evela kwisandla esivela kwintombi yam. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba umzimba wam ubeke imeko yawo ngokwakho ukufikelela kwi-orgasm ngokukhuthaza ubudoda ngesandla. Isandla ngokuqinisekileyo sinokudala ukubambelela ngakumbi kunelungu lobufazi lomfazi.
Kutyelelo lukagqirha. Ndamazisa ngokusisiseko ngengxaki yam kwaye ndicinga ukuba sisizathu sayo. Ndifuna ukukhupha naziphi na iingxaki zomzimba- wavuma ukuba ngekhe ndibenangxaki zomzimba njengoko ndinokufumana ulwakhiwo. Uqhubeke nokucebisa ukuba mhlawumbi angenise i-porn kwigumbi lokulala kunye neethoyi zesondo. Uye wathi angamisela i-Viagra, kodwa iya kundibiza njengoko ndingenangxaki yomzimba (ugqirha) ade akhankanye 'sukujonga umlilo xa uwucofa; jonga esweni okanye kumabonwakude ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo '. Ndiyichazile le nto kwi ex yam, kwaye ibingabonakali ngathi iyakulungela, kwaye ndiyavuma ukuba ayilunganga.
U-39 oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala osebenzisa i-porn apha. Ndiyazi ukuba liyanda inani lamadoda, nkqu nakwii-XNUMXs zabo, abafumana le micimbi. Ndiphulukene nayo yonke i-libido iminyaka eliqela, kwaye ndine-ED ephakathi. Unyango, unyango lwengqondo kunye nengqondo ziye zaliphanda ityala lam macala onke. Ndifumene ukuba ndine-ADHD, GAD kunye ne-dysthymia. Ndenze i-penile doppler eyenziwe, kwaye ukuhamba kwegazi kungabonakali. Zonke iihormoni ziye zajongwa kumaxesha aliqela. Ndingumsebenzi wezempilo, ke uyazi. Kuqhelekile nakwabo bane-ADHD ukuba babe nemicimbi yokulutha. Into endifuna ukuyifumana malunga nokuba ingaba abo banjengam abaye baphulula amalungu esini iminyaka engamanyala sele benamava apheleleyo okanye kufutshane nelahleko ye-libido ngenxa yoku?
Ndiye ndahlupheka ngenxa yoxinzelelo lweNtlalontle ukusukela xa ndandineminyaka eyi-13 kwaye kancinci kancinci ndisiya ndisiba mandundu (ngoku ndineminyaka eyi-26). Emva kokukhubeka kwinqaku lakho ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndilidubule. Ubethe isikhonkwane entloko kwaye ndifuna ukubulela ngokwenza umahluko omkhulu ebomini bam! Ndixelele iqela lam lenkxaso ku-http: //www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum malunga nezinto zakho ngokunjalo. Emuva kwengqondo yam ndihlala ndiziva ngathi ukuphulula amalungu esini kakhulu kwaye iphonografi ibangela ezi ngxaki (uxinzelelo lwentlalo kunye nemicimbi yokwakha). Ndide ndabuza oogqirha kwi medhelp.com. Bonke bahlekisa ngam kwaye bafuna i-masturbation iphilile kwaye awukwazi ukuphulula amalungu esini kakhulu.
Ndathatha iViagra kunye neCialis iminyaka ngenxa yokuzikhumbuza kwam i-ED. Ukuthi emva kwesikhashana, benza izinto ezimbi ngakumbi kukungaphantsi. Hlala kude neepilisi ukuba ufuna ukuphiliswa kwangempela.
Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ndibuyile bendikwinqanaba lokufuna isisombululo se-ED. Oochwephesha abaliqela bathi ingxaki yam yayiyeyengqondo, kodwa khange ndicebise ukuba isonjululwe njani ngezinye iindlela. Ndandihlala ndiyithiyile iViagra ngenxa yemvakalelo yobuso. I-Cialis yayintle xa isebenza, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha ayiphumelelanga kwaye ayithembekanga. Ukusukela nge-16, ndiye ndalala nabafazi abali-100, ngenxa yoko khange ndibenangxaki yokuba ndibekwe, kude kube ngoku kuba ndizifumanisa ndinonxibelelwano olunokubakho ukunqanda umlilo onokubakho. Iya isiba kukutsala okukhulu ukungakwazi ukuhlala nzima ixesha elide, ikhondom iyenza ukuba ingabinakwenzeka.
Andisoze ndilibale ukuba nomlingane onomdla, onomdla, ozimiseleyo uthi kum "Awuyifuni le [sex]." I-HELL andizange. Bendileqa la mava IMINYAKA EMIBINI, emva koko uBig Jim kunye namawele bagqiba kwelokuba bangazokusebenza.
Ndaya kugqirha kungekudala emva koko, kodwa wachaza ukuba andinangxaki, kuba bendinokuhamba. Ukuba yonke into isebenza kakuhle xa uwedwa, awunayo ingxaki yemibhobho yamanzi. Ingxaki iphakathi kweendlebe zakho. Undinike i-viagra. kodwa ayincedanga. Ithi ngqo ebhokisini: ayivelisi boner ngokuzenzekelayo. Ukuvuselela ngokwesondo kufuneka kube sele kukhona. (Ndicacisa.) YayiyiBongo yakho kwi-Porn, endiyifumeneyo, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ngelixa ndikhangela iphonografi engakumbi, endibeka kulo mzila. Ndaya kwi-porn simahla njengelinge lokuzama iintsuku ezingama-31 ezidlulileyo. Andizukutsho ukuba i-ED yam ihambile, kodwa iphuculwe kakhulu. Kwiiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo, kunye namaqabane amabini ahlukeneyo ndikwazile ukufezekisa kunye nokugcina ii-erections ezisebenzayo.
Ndalala ngesibini kunye namantombazana kunye namantombazana, kodwa ngelanga akukho namnye wabo ophumelele, andinakufumana ukulungiswa okufanelekileyo kokungena, andinakukwazi ukugcina ukulungiswa xa ndifumana isondo somlomo. Ekugqibeleni ndayeka kwaye ndalahlekelwa ngumdla wokwenene ngesondo.
Ndibonile oogqirha abambalwa kwiminyaka kodwa akukho namnye wabo oye wazisombulula iingxaki zam. Ndibone ngaphezu koogqirha be-10 kulo nyaka kuphela kwaye ndichithe amawaka eedola! Ndayilinga iViagra, iCialis, iMyalezo, iMicrosoft Medicine, i-Acupuncture phantse yonke into endiyayizama, kodwa hayi, AYABAKHONA ngabanye! Ndabuza bonke oogqirha umbuzo ofanayo ukuba ingaba i-ED ibangelwa kukuphanga ngokugqithiseleyo, ngokumangalisa ukuba phantse bonke oogqirha bandiqinisekisa ukuba i-masturbation ayiyi kubangela i-ED! Kwaye i-ED yami ingokwengqondo engekho yendalo.
Ndandifuna kakhulu iimpendulo, ngoko ndaphendukela kwiGoogle ukubona ukuba kukho ukudibanisa phakathi kwe-masturbation kunye ne-ED, ngoko ke ndafumana iwebhusayithi ye-Gary Wilson ethi YourBrainOnPorn.com, i-OMG ndiziva ndikhululekile xa ndifumanisa ukuba andisodwa ukuba kukho indlela yokunyanga. Ngokukhawuleza ndafumana iimpendulo kuzo zonke iingxaki zam!
Ngoko ndaqala umngeni wam kaNofap ngomhla we-1st ngoDisemba, ngoku kwiintsuku ze-30, ndivakalelwa kangcono !! Ukuqala ngeveki ye3 Ndaqala ukuba neendlela zokunyusa ekuseni, ezinamandla ngokwaneleyo ukundivusa. Ngoku ndiyakwazi ukufumana ulungelelwano oluqinileyo ngokuvuselela i-penis, nangona kuya kuphela ukugcina imizuzwana embalwa ngaphandle kokuba ndihlale ndivuselela. Ndiphantse ndibe nephupha elimanzi namhlanje ekuseni, kodwa ndabuyisela umgudu wokunyuka xa ndivukile ephupheni. Ngokubanzi ndiziva ndithembele ngakumbi, ndinamandla ngakumbi kwaye ndentlalo! http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2qwxqr/30_days_nofap_severe_ed_since_17_and_confused/
Ndisekuqaleni kwendlela ende yokukhupha i-ED ebomini bam. Kumnandi ukubona inkqubela phambili, kodwa ndiza kunamathela kule. Akukho P utshintsho olusisigxina. Akukho fap okoko kuthatha… .mncinci kakhulu fap emva koko. Njengomnye umntu othunyelwe, yenza umntu olandelayo ubabalo kwaye uxelele ugqirha wakho kwi-YBOP nakweli nxuwa. Ndibonile oogqirha abaninzi kwaye ndichithe amawaka kutyelelo lweofisi, iziyobisi kunye novavanyo. Imfundo ingaqala ngawe.TLDR: I-PIV yokuqala yempumelelo ye-w / o meds kwiminyaka esi-7… emva kweentsuku ezili-17 kuphela. Gcina isicwangciso sakho… oku kuyasebenza.
Ku-51, ndaya kugqirha ndifuna iimpendulo ze-ED yam. Undixelele into efanayo, "Yonke isentloko yakho", emva kokundibuza imibuzo embalwa malunga nobomi bam ngokwesini (akukho nto malunga nokusetyenziswa kwe-porn, nangona kunjalo). Oo, bendinomsebenzi wegazi owenziwe kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi koko kwaye i-testosterone yam kunye nezinye iihormones zonke bezikwinqanaba eliqhelekileyo.
Ndakwazi ukulala ngesondo kwi-20s yam kodwa kwakukubi kakhulu. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ndibeke ikhondom ndiza kuhamba. Ndaye ndakwazi ukudibana ngokufanelekileyo nekhondom kodwa ndicinga ukuba kungenxa yokuba ndichithe impelaveki yonke kunye nale ntshontsho kwaye andikhange ndibaleke kwiveki eyandulelayo. Kodwa eyona nto iphambili kukuba bendisebenza nje ngendlela ebendifanele ngayo. Ekugqibeleni, xa ndandineminyaka engama-28 ubudala, ndaya kugqirha womchamo. Wazimisela ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokwam (ubuncinci ngaphantsi kwebhanti) wandinika iskripthi seCialis kwaye wandithumela endleleni yam. Ngexesha elifanayo ndafumanisa i-YBOP kwaye ngequbuliso yonke into yavakala. Ndabona ukufana okuninzi phakathi kwebali lam kunye noko abanye abantu babelane ngako. Kwakukufumanisa okukhulu kum.
Ke, malunga neeveki ezisi-8 ezidlulileyo ndiqalise ukuqala kwakhona. Akukho mboniso wamanyala. Akukho kuphulula amalungu esini. Akukho orgasm. Injongo yam yayikukulala ngesondo kunye nekhondom yonke indlela eya kwi-orgasm. Ndigxininise amandla am kwenye indawo. Ndaqala ukusebenza ngaphezulu, ndaqala ukufunda kwakhona, kwaye ndazama ukuhlala kude ne-Intanethi (ngaphandle kokuba inxulumene nomsebenzi).
Ndiyifezekisile injongo yam! NgoLwesihlanu odlulileyo ndalala ngesondo yonke indlela eya kwi-orgasm. Ndisebenzise ikhondom ngaphandle kwemicimbi. Ngexesha eliphambili andizange ndibenzima ngoko nangoko kodwa emva kwento encinci yabuya! Imvakalelo enjalo. Ukubeka ikhondom yayingengombandela. Ndiyithathile kancinci ngaphandle koxinzelelo. Kwaye ukunyaniseka, ukuphuma emva kokungakwenzi iiveki ze-8 + waziva kumnandi. Ukonwabele oko kwaye usekwe nakwizinto aziphendulayo 😉 Zange khe ndibenalo iphupha elimanzi kwaye andiqinisekanga nokuba ndakhe ndakhe “ndakroba”. I-libido yam yenza i-wax kwaye ihamba kodwa andizange ndiqaphele umzekelo wangempela kuyo.
Eyona nto inkulu endinokukuxelela yona kukuhlala kude ne-porn kunye nayo yonke imifanekiso ye-Intanethi, sukubaleka, kwaye ube nomonde! Andinakukuxelela ukuba zingaphi iintlanganiso ezimbi endiye ndadibana nazo, zingaphi iikhondom ezonakalisiweyo endikhe ndadlula kuzo ngenxa yokuba ndingakwazi ukuhlala nzima ukuzibeka. Eli linyathelo elikhulu kum, njengokunyuka intaba i-Everest okanye ukwaphula i-mile yemizuzu emine okanye enye into. Ke hlala apho abafana. Ungayilungisa le nto.
Ndineengxaki ze-ED kunye nesondo eliqhelekileyo eli lixesha lonke, kwaye ndikwazi ukuza kuphela xa eninika imisebenzi yezandla kwaye andimxeleli ukuba abe mnene ngako. Emva kwexesha elithile ndididekile kwaye ndaya kwi-60 into ethile yonyango lwentsapho ubudala kwaye ndamxelela ukuba ndine-ED ngexesha le-21.
Wandibuza malunga nokuba ndibe ndisela kangakanani xa ndingenako ukuma kunye nayo yonke loo nto. Emva koko wandinika i-2 iipilisi zepilisi yeViagra kunye nesigxina sebhokisi le-4 ngaphezulu. Ndavuya kakhulu xa intombi yam isezantsi ukuza kundibona.
Ndamxelela oko ugqirha wayiyalelayo kwaye emva kweewayini ezimbalwa saya kwigumbi lokulala. Kukhuselekile ukuthi khange ndihambe ngokulula. Yenze xa kwakufuneka ndiyeke ukuphefumla malunga nemizuzu emi-5, kodwa yayiphinde yabuya kwakhona xa sibuyele kuyo. Kwakumangalisa! Ndandinengxaki kodwa. Kwakhona, andikwazanga ukuza. Nokuba unomsebenzi omde wesandla esomeleleyo, akukho nto yenzekileyo. Ngaphandle, ipenis yam yayibuhlungu ekuseni. Akukho namnye kubo owayebonakala enobulungisa.
Emva kokuba ndibuyele ekhaya ndatshitshiswa kwintlungu yokudakumba, njengokuba ndandisoloko ndikho ngaphambili kwaye ndazibuza ukuba isihogo sasingalunganga nam. Ngaba ndandingumfana? Ngaba ndidibene nexhala? Ngaba wayenamathele kakhulu kumava am esondo esedlule? Uluhlu xa ndihamba kwaye ndandiphazamiseka ngokungafi. Ndandisenjenje ixesha elide kwaye ndandiziva ndive, ke ndibuhlungu, ke ndiba buhlungu, ke ndiba ngubunzima. Ndenza ingqondo yam ukuba ndiza kubuyela kudokotela kwaye ndifumane iipilisi ezininzi.
Kwakubonakala kunengqiqo; ekubeni ndingazange ndilale ngesondo yonke imini (ndandidla i-masturbating instead) ngoko kutheni ungayikhokheli nje ityala kwaye ujabule? Kwandithatha ukuba ndiyithabathele umnxeba kwaye ndikhangele inombolo yocingo yam udokotela ngaphambi kokuba ndiphendule umbuzo wam. "Ngenxa yokuba ndifuna nje ukuqhelekileyo" "Ngenxa yokuba andifuni into engokwemvelo ukuba ibe yingxaki." Ndiza kulala embhedeni ngamaphepha angasese eceleni kwam, isikrini phambi kwaye isandla sam ububini obukhuni kwaye ubujonge kwaye ucinge "Ngoku, kutheni isihogo senza ntoni kuwe xa ndikunene nentombazana?"
Iiveki ezimbalwa ezedlulileyo ndihamba nge-disreitised erectile dysfunction "kwaye ndaya kwisiza sokuqala kuloluhlu kwaye ndafunda malunga ne-ED eyenziwe ngoonobumba. Yaphenduka ukukhanya okufutshane emva kwentloko yam.
Kwiintsuku ze-120 ezidlulileyo bendine-ED ngokupheleleyo kwaye andinakukwazi ukufumana ulungiso nokuba wenza ntoni. Sobabini sineminyaka engama-50-60. Ngenye imini ndangena kwiwebhu ukufumana ingcaciso; Kuqala ndifumene "iphepha loogqirha" elinenkcazo ezinje ngoxinzelelo, uxinzelelo ………. . . . . Zonke ezi azingqinelani nam ngelixa ndisempilweni emzimbeni nasemzimbeni.
Ke emva kweeyure ezithile ndifunda ndafumana iwebhusayithi kaGary Wilson www.yourbrainonporn.com. Ukuqinisekiswa ukuba ndandinzulu ngokwenene kwi-web-booty-addiction neminyaka ye-1-3 PMO nsuku zonke. Kwaqala ngokukhawuleza kwindlela yam ye-nofap / noporn / noedge. Uzame ukulala ngesinye ngenyanga. Ube ngcono kwaye uphelele. Ngoku emva kweentsuku ze-120 ndakwazi ukulala ngesondo ngokugcwele, ukuhlala ixesha elide nokuyilawula kwaye vumela ukuba i-orgasm yami ifike xa ndifuna. Ndiyabulela nonke kuni kule website. Undinike inkxaso yonke imihla. Ndiyabulela uG.Wilson nomkakhe.
Iminqweno yam ngekamva kukuba abantu abanezakhono kwezemfundo phakathi kwethu fapstronauts baya kwenza inguquko kuzo zonke iintlobo ze-encyclopedia ukwazisa wonke umntu nge-MO-ukuba ikhokelela ngokulula kwi-PMO ekhokelela kwi-ED.
Akukho PMO ngeentsuku ze-10. Andiqondanga ukuba ndineminyaka eli-15 ndinamakhoboka oononophala de kwimpelaveki ephelileyo, ndaye ndacofa ibhedi yam ndathi "OMG… OMG ..." Andikuhlekisi! Ndingu 27 ngalo mzuzu. Xa ndandikwishumi elivisayo andizange ndazi lukhulu malunga nokwabelana ngesondo, amalungu esini sangasese okanye ilizwe lamanyala. Andizange ndikhule ngamadoda ebomini bam ukuze iphonografi yayingafikeleleki ngexesha lam lokufikisa.
Ndiyakhumbula xa konke kuhamba kakubi (ukungalunganga ngandlela-thile ndaziswa kwi-Miss 2-D Vagina). Ndandibukela umboniso waseTermany umbane xa umama wasebenza ngokukhawuleza ngalobo busuku. Andizange ndibone into ekhuthazayo ebomini bam. Ndiyakwazi ukukhumbula i-adrenaline ejikeleza emzimbeni wam busuku. Umboniso endawubukeleyo wawuchaza umfazi ukuba abe neengcamango ezinobungqingili. Ngeminyaka eyi-14 eyayiyi-Hardcore Porn. Kususela ngaloo ndlela kuye kwandibangalisa (kufuneka ndizwakala ngathi ihamba). Ngeminyaka yobudala be-15 ndamana neemagazini ze-porno kunye nee-VCR zamateyipu, andizange ndicinga ukuba ndenza into engalunganga ngokujonga le ngcaciso. Kodwa ukujonga emva kwatshintsha indlela yam imbono yezilwanyana njengokungathi bekufuneka kuthathe xa ndiziva ngathi. Andizange ndibe nesondo ngaphambi kokuba ndibe ngu-16.
Nangona kunjalo, kwakungekho nto ekhethekileyo kuba ndandifuna ukulala ngesondo nantoni na. Ngethamsanqa yayikunye nentombi yam, kodwa kungekudala emva koko ndagqiba naye ndahamba nentombazana eyahlukileyo. (Ndiyaphule ngokwenene intliziyo yale ntombazana; yayilixesha lakhe lokuqala.) Kule minyaka ndandingumntu onesidima ngokwesini, ndandikwazi ukulala ngesondo ubusuku ngabunye ndingenazo ii-hiccups. Ndihlala ndikhawuleza ukuba nomsindo uhlobo lomntu. Yonke into ngaphandle kolawulo lwam yandicaphukisa ngakumbi ukuba intombi yam yandala ngesondo, nangona bendizolala ngesondo iintsuku ezininzi.
Ngesondo kunye nokuxhatshazwa koononophala ndandinakho iziyobisi kuninzi lweziyobisi ezikhoyo kwisitalato. Ngoku ukuba ndifunde malunga neNkqubo yeLimbic, iDopamine kunye neReceptors ngoku ndiyasiqonda isizathu sokuba kwakufuneka ndibene "Hit" ngalo lonke ixesha, ndibethwa sisini, isondo eliyingozi, iziyobisi kunye notywala. Ngokusisiseko ingqondo yam yayilangazelela ukudutyulwa kwe-dopamine ngalo lonke ixesha, kodwa bendingazi ngale meko.
Iminyaka yokugqibela ye-8 ibe yimbi kakhulu: Ndandicinezelekile, ndixhalabile, ndibe nomsindo, ndadideka kwaye ndingazi ukuba kwenzekani nam. Ndandithatha abachasayo, abangazange bancede. Emva koko uthatha imishanguzo engazange yancede. Emva koko ndaya kubaphathi bamsindo abangazange bancede. Emva koko ndaya kwi-addiction counseling ngokuziphatha kwam ukusela, okwakungakhange kuncede. Emva koko ndaya kwi-psychologist engakwazi ukuxilonga.
Uyabona, ndayekezela kum. Into kuphela eyandivuyisa ukuba ndilalane okanye ndibukele i-pornography ukuze ndibe ne-dopamine. Ngonyaka odlulileyo, ndiye ndaqaphela ukuba ama-erream yam ayenamandla ngokwenene. Ndine-ejaculation yexesha elide, kwaye oko kuyacaphukisa kakhulu. Ndivakalelwa njengesiqingatha sendoda endimelwe ukuba nayo. Ngoko, emva kophando oluncinane ndafumana amanqaku malunga neengozi zoononografi, kwaye iqhosha ngalinye landifumana kule ndawo kwaye andinakuyeka ukufunda izithuba zabantu bonke. Le ndawo iyamangalisa. Kukhanya okuvela ezulwini kukhanya phantsi ukundinceda i-LOL.
Kuze kube ngoku andizange ndihlaziye i-masturbated, ndibukele i-porn okanye i-orgasmed. Ukunyaniseka, ndibukele iphonografi kakhulu ndiye ndazenza ndagula ngayo ... ndihlala ndikhangela umxholo omtsha xa bendibukele. Ndineempawu zokurhoxa okoko ndayeka i-PMO, endifuna ukwabelana ngayo nawo wonke umntu:
• Intloko
• Ukuziva ugule ekuseni
• Ukuxela
• Ndihlala ndihamba emilenzeni
• Ukulibala
• Ukucinga ngengqondo
• Ukuvuka ebusuku
• Ukulala ngexesha lomhla
• Iimoya zitshintsha nganye ngosuku okanye emva kwe-nap
Kodwa kwicala elihle, ndiyazi ukuba ndiyakwazi ukubetha le mlutha. Ndiye ndagula i-addiction; Andifuni ukubuyela kuloo nto. Yonke into endiyifunayo ngoku i-brain chemistry ukuba ibuyele kumlinganiselo wokulinganisela kwaye ndiza kuphinda ndizame kubuhlobo kunye nothando kunokuba ndikhange umzimba. Ndazifumana kubamelwane kunye namantombazana awazange akhangeleke njengam nje ukuba ndilale naye. Ndandifumene ndilalane namantombazana ndiyayazi, kwaye ke andizange ndiphinde ndathetha nabo kuba ndibe neentloni. Kwakuyindawo embi, embi ukuba ibekho kwihlabathi, kodwa ngoku ndiyazi ukuba yintoni ephosakeleyo ebomini bam.
(Into engamashumi amabini) ndiye kugqirha malunga nale nto kwaye yonke into iqhelekile ngokwamanqanaba ehomoni, intliziyo kunye nazo zonke ezinye iitsheki abazenzayo. Abakwazanga kundinceda. Ekugqibeleni bandinike nje iViagra bandithumela ukuba ndihambe. Kwakungenamsebenzi nakanjani kum, ngaphandle kwe-libido akukho nto ingako yokufumana ulwakhiwo.
Imeko yam kwiminyaka eyi-15 edlulileyo: ubuninzi boononophala, ukuhlaziya i-masturbation kabini ngosuku, ngokuqhelekileyo ukutshatyalaliswa koononopopayi / ukugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo Ndaqala ukubukela iphonografi xa ndandineminyaka eyi-18 kwaye ndingenabo ubudlelwane bezesondo nabasetyhini de ndaneminyaka eyi-21 (isiqendu nje esifutshane) emva koko kwaba li-25. Ukulungiswa kwakusoloko kukubi okanye kungabikho kwaphela. Andizange ndiyazi into endiyenzayo ephosakeleyo kuba ngexesha lokuhlaziya i-masturbation ukulungiswa kwakulungile (nangona kungaphelelanga!).
Ndaziva kuvavanya oogqirha abaninzi kwaye bonke bafumanisa ukuba ndiphilile ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle kwenqanaba elinye le-testosterone. Ndonwabile ukuba ndisifumene isisombululo kodwa ndaphazama. Ndafumana unyango lwe-testosterone, inqanaba lam legazi laphakama laya kwinqanaba elihle kakhulu kodwa nasemva kweenyanga ezimbalwa khange ndive kuphucuka konke konke. Ewe, yonke intombazana ifuna isondo ke ndiphulukene nolwalamano lwam. Ugqirha wam wokugqibela wandixelela ukuba ingxaki yayifihliwe kwenye indawo kwingqondo yam kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba kuliwe.
ngekhe ndiphinde ndichithe ixesha kunye nomonde wam kugqirha womchamo kwakhona. Bangabona bantu bangenamsebenzi kwicandelo lezonyango xa kuziwa kulwakhiwo, banike isifo esingeyonyani kwaye bakuxelele konke engqondweni yakho ukhathazekile. Umntu othile ophakamileyo kwicandelo lezonyango kufuneka alumkiswe malunga nokuba zincinci kangakanani i-urologists ezaziyo kuba kufuneka ibe yeyona nto ilula yokwenza umsebenzi wobugqirha. Ngokwenene iyandicaphukisa indlela abaziqhatha ngayo. Ndicinga ukuba ngokwenene banceda 1 kwizigulana ezili-10 abazibonayo.
Ndiza kukunika umzekelo, kubasebenzisi abathile be-porn abanzima njengam, ngakumbi xa ndibonisa iphonografi kwi-porn, kokukhona i-viagra iqala ukuphulukana nokusebenza kakuhle kunye nokuqala kwangaphambi kwexesha,
ngoku ukuba ndiye kugqirha womchamo wanditofa incanca yam ndaye ndafumana ulwakhiwo ukuze athathe scan yemithambo yam kunye nemithambo yegazi, xa ingasebenzi kakuhle, uyakuthi yingxaki yomthambo okanye yegazi, xa enyanisweni yingqondo yam enganxibelelani nepenis yam ngokufanelekileyo, ngaba iyavakala?
okoko ndaqala ukuqala kwakhona ukusebenzisa iViagra kanye ukubona nje ukuba iyasebenza kwakhona kwaye ngelixa ingasebenzi ipesenti ye-100 ngokuqinisekileyo yayisebenza ngcono kakhulu kunangaphambili.
Isizathu sokuba ndifumane i-yourbrainonporn ngqo kungenxa ye-ED. Lonke ulwalamano endakha ndanalo ndafumana iingxaki kwi-ED. Ukusuka ekubeni ungabinako ukungena konke konke ukuya ekubeni nakho ukungena kunye nokuma nkqo okwemizuzu embalwa ngokugqibeleleyo. Ungathethi ngomlomo, ukuba sezantsi ngesondo okanye njl, akukho mpendulo kwaphela, kwakungonelanga kukhuthaza. Bendihlala ndicinga ngemifanekiso engamanyala ngelixa ndabelana ngesondo ukuze ndizame ukugcina i-erection ebuthathaka. Ndilahlekelwe ngumtshato ngale nto nayo. Nditshatile kwakhona kumfazi omhle ondixhasayo.
Ndizamile zonke iziyobisi ze-ED. Ndaya kugqirha womchamo izihlandlo ezi-5-6 kwaye bonke bathi akukho nto iphosakeleyo emzimbeni. Ngaba oku kuvakala kuqhelekile? Ndizamile oochwephesha bezesondo, bathi yayilixhala lesini. Ewe, khange usebenze kakuhle nalapho. Ukujika inyani njengoko sisazi ngoku yayiyimpendulo yokuphendula eyonwabisayo eqhubela phambili ukungabinamandla okuqhubela phambili koxinzelelo ngokusebenzisa imeko yokusebenza (indlela entle yokuthetha ukuba ufunde ukoyikela ukuba ungabinakho ukuba nolwakhiwo kwaye unokuzithoba wena neqabane lakho).
Ndingumfana oneminyaka eyi-27 oye wayesebenzisa imifanekiso engamanyala imihla ngemihla ngamaxesha e-1-3 / ngosuku malunga ne-14 iminyaka. Ndibetha ubusuku ngokukhawuleza ngexesha le-intanethi liqale ukuhamba ngokuhambelana nokukhwabanisa okungekho ngonaphakade kwi-pornography.
Ndizabalazile nge-ED kubo bonke ubudlelwane endakhe ndangena kubo kwaye IMINYAKA yayingazi ukuba kutheni. Ndacinga ukuba kukho into engalunganga emzimbeni wam ekuqaleni.
Ndaya kugqirha womchamo mhlawumbi amaxesha angama-4-5 ukuya kufumana ibhetri yeemviwo zonyango kuphela ukuba ndingafumani nto iphosakeleyo ngokwam. Ndandihlala ndicetyiswa iziyobisi kwaye ndithatha enye kuphela ukuyokuqhekeza kwimingxunya kunye ne-reactionergic. Ndaye ndajika ndaya kunyango lwesondo ndicinga ukuba kufuneka ibe yeyengqondo kuba ndifumana ukulungiswa kobusuku.Ukubetha kwakhona (ngokwenene ndandikhuthazwa ukuba ndisebenzise i-porn kunye ne-masturbate). Yintoni ehlekisayo ngoku ndisebenzisa iphonografi amaxesha angama-2-3 ngemini kwaye ndenza i-masturbated to orgasm ngalo lonke ixesha kusenzeka le nto kwaye "andinakukuqonda".
Ndiza kuhlala i-HOURS ndibukela iphonografi kunye ne-masturbating, ndilahlekile ukulala okufunekayo. Xa kufika ixesha le-porn akufani nenye into emhlabeni. Ndingumdlali weembaleki omi kakuhle ngokwasemzimbeni osempilweni entle ngale ngxaki inye yehlazo.
(Mid-30s) Kude kube yiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, ke ndaziva ngathi ndisilele kakhulu njengoko kwakungekho nto iphosakeleyo kwezonyango kodwa akukho nto yayiza kusebenza. Kwiminyaka emininzi bendicinga ukuba ndophukile njengoko kungekho nyango. Ugqirha womchamo wandixelela iViagra okokuqala njengoko watshoyo ukuba kwiimeko ezininzi kuyanceda ukukhaba izinto zibuyele esiqhelweni, nditsho nabafana abane-ED yengqondo. Ukusukela ngoko ndizamile njengoncedo, kodwa kutshanje ndifumene eyona ndlela ingcono kukuvumela nje ixesha lokuqalisa kwakhona ukuba lenzeke, nangona ndisazibuza ngemozulu emva kwayo kufanele ukuba ndiyithathe ukunceda amaxesha ambalwa okuqala ukuya ndifumana ukuzithemba, kodwa ke andifuni kuxhomekeka kuyo nokuba… izigqibo zezigqibo.
Kwafika ukuba i-testosterone yam ihlolwe kwaye ndilungile. Ngoko ndihamba ngezimpawu zam kunye ne-BAM !!, nanku ndilapha. Ndisandul 'ukuba ndiqeshwe nomngcali wechiza ukuba ndixelele ukuba ndiyicinga konke kwaye waphunyelelwa. Indlela yokubonisa ukuhleka. Inxalenye edabukisayo kukuba wayengazi kakuhle lo mlutha kwaye ndamfundisa into ethile. Ndivakalelwa ngolu hlobo ngoku.
Ndingu 26, kwaye bendinalo mbandela ukusukela ngexesha bendineminyaka eyi-19 (ekugqibeleni ndadibanisa ukusebenzisa kwam iphonografi imihla ngemihla xa ndifumana isikolo sam sikhupha ilaptop ekholejini). Ngethuba lokuqala ndafumana i-ED xa ndandifumana i-gf yam yokuqala. Ndaya kugqirha wam oyintloko ukuze ndibone ukuba yintoni na, kwaye wandinika iViagra ukuze ndoyise "ingqondo yam yengqondo" njengoko ndandibiza njalo.
Kude kube malunga nonyaka ophelileyo, le ndlela isebenze kakuhle, emva koko ndiye ndaphawula ukuba andiphindi ndifumane iinkuni zakusasa ndilusizi. Ivakala ngokwenyani ngathi sisiqwenga senyama phakathi kwemilenze yam. Nangona ndisekuhlambeni, ndiyakhumbula xa ndandisemncinci ndiza kuzihlamba phantsi apho (ngokungazi ngokukhawuleza) kwaye ndiza kuba nzima kakhulu kule nto. Hayi kwakhona. Nangona intombi yam yakutshanje ndiza kuba neentlobano zesini kwaye ndibandakanyeke ekulalaneni ngaphandle koncedo lweepilisi, kodwa iindlela zam zokulahleka ziya kulahleka ngokulula ngaphandle kokuvuselelwa ngesandla kwaye zihlala zisiya ezantsi. Phantse njengesixhobo sokutshixa esinokubamba ipenisi yakho ime nkqo nje ayisasebenzi.
Akufuneki ukuba ndixinezeleke kakhulu malunga nezinto ezintathu: 1) inyani yokuba i-dick ayimi kwi-90 degree angle njengoko kufanelekile xa imile, 2) yam ithatha isixa esingaqhelekanga somzamo wokuphumeza ulwakhiwo kunye okokugqibela kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kungaphelelanga apho, i-3) inyani yokuba ndifuna ukuxhomekeka kwiipilisi ukuze ndakhelwe kwiminyaka eyi-26 kuphela. Ingqondo, ndiye kwii-urologists ze-4, oogqirha aba-2 bokuqala bokunyamekela, ii-2 zeengqondo zesondo kunye ne-endocrinologist. Ndiyimbaleki, ndenza imithambo kabini ngemini kwaye imvumelwano kukuba ndisempilweni njengoko ndinako. Andikwazi ukuba sempilweni.
Ukutshintshela kwenye iforum:
Guy # 1
Kudala ndibona i-Therapist ye-3 iminyaka kwaye siye safumanisa ukuba amaxhala am ahamba ngokunzulu. Ndingayeka ukuphulula amaphambili kwaye ndibukele iphonografi unyaka kwaye ngekhe itshintshe nantoni na. Kum, ukusebenzisa iphonografi kunye nokuhambisa amalungu esini yindlela yokwanelisa umnqweno wam wesondo kuba ndinobunzima bokwanelisa ngesondo lokwenyani. Ngamanye amagama, ndisebenzisa i-porn kunye ne-masturbate ngenxa yokusebenza kwam ngokwesondo, ngokuchasene nokusebenza gwenxa ngenxa ye-porn kunye ne-masturbation.
Guy # 2
Ukuba awuzange uzame ukubukela iphonografi kunye ne-masturbation akufuneki uthumele apha. Asizelanga apha ukusebenzisa iphonografi kunye ne-masturbation ukwanelisa iimfuno zethu. Njengoko ubona kwizithuba zabanye, uninzi lwabantu apha lubona ukuphucuka okukhulu ekuyekeni. Uninzi lwabahlobo bam bajonga iphonografi kwaye baphulula amalungu esini rhoqo, kwaye abanangxaki nangayiphi na indlela, kodwa emva koko ayisithi sonke esinazo iingqondo ezenzelwe ukujongana nako konke okuvuselelayo.
Guy # 3
Uninzi lwethu lwalunempilo eyi-100% ngaphambi kokuba ube nomcimbi we-ED ngaxa lithile. Asisebenzisi i-p & m ngenxa yemicimbi yokusebenza. Sinemicimbi ngenxa yayo.
Guy # 4
Ngokukrakra ndoda, unika iisenti zakho ze-2 kwiforum engeyiyo. Kuvakala ngathi unemicimbi enzulu yengqondo, kodwa ayisiyiyo le nto sithetha ngayo apha. Ukuba uneminyaka engama-50 ubudala, ngokucacileyo i-intanethi ye-intanethi yayingekho xa iingxaki zakho ziqala.
Ndingatsho nge-100% ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ndinengxaki ye-ZERO erectile ngesondo lokwenyani ngaphambi kokuba ndiqale ukubhenela kwi-porn yonke imihla. Ngokwengqondo bendingenangxaki konke konke kwaye ukusebenza gwenxa akuqalanga ukwenzeka ndade ndaqala ukufuna iphonografi eyona nto iyiyo. Nokuba i ayikabikho “ubungqina benzululwazi” okwangoku, ndiqinisekile ukuba zikhona izifundo ezenziwayo kwaye iincwadi ziyabhalwa ngoku sithethayo.
Guy # 5
Kungenxa yokuba ingakhange iqinisekiswe ngokwenzululwazi ayithethi nto. Ndiyazi ukuba onke amabali apha kunye nenyaniso yokuba akukho nto yayikunceda kwiimpawu zam ze-ED de ndiqale ukuyeka ukuphulula amalungu esini kundibonisa ukuba ikhona into kule nto.
Yonke indawo kodwa abambalwa kwi-Intanethi bahlala bethetha into efanayo, “Ukuphulula amaphambili kunempilo kwaye akunampembelelo emzimbeni wakho! Iluncedo ngokwenene ukuphulula amalungu esini kunye nokwabelana ngesondo; ngakumbi ngcono! Ingxaki yakho isezandleni zakho, unemicimbi enzulu kunokuphulula amaphambili. ” Into endiyaziyo ayiyonyani. Ndiyathetha emva kokumisa iphonografi kunye ne-masturbation, ndabona umahluko wehlabathi! Ngokude ndihamba ngcono iziphumo, kwaye ndiziva ngcono.
Awungekhe undixelele ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kabini okanye kathathu yonke imihla kulungile emzimbeni. Andizange ndiyazi ukuba i-dopamine ingenza ndive ngale ndlela. Bendingazi ukuba okuninzi kunokuba neziphumo kubandakanya ukucheba kweenwele, iintlungu ezisezantsi, iintlungu kwi-groin yakho, njl. Kutheni le nto abantu abaninzi bejongana noku kwaye bafumane indlela yabo apha kunye nezihloko ezifanayo nale? Kutheni le nto abantu abaninzi benokubona iziphumo ezincumisayo ngokunciphisa iphonografi kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini?
Guy # 2
Uneminyaka engama-50 ubudala. Andikwazi ukucinga ukuba ukhe wadlula ebomini bakho. Ndicinga ukuba uphulula amalungu esini kwiikhasethi zeVHS kunye neemagazini okoko wawuneminyaka eli-11. Fumana iViagra kwaye unakekele usapho lwakho. Sukungena kulo msonto apho abantu bafuna uncedo kwaye bazame ukubathintela kwinto abayifuna ngokwenene kuba “ngekhe uyenze”.
Ndiyakwazi ukukuxelela ngamava akho ukuba iyasebenza, unganikezeli. KULULA KAKHULU. Ndiza kuthumela uhlaziyo rhoqo ngeveki kuba kule veki kuphela ibe luphuculo olukhulu ebomini bam. Uxinzelelo lwam luqala ukuncipha kwaye imigangatho yam yabasetyhini iye yehla kakhulu kangangokuba xa ndibona intombazana eqhelekileyo esitalatweni ndiziva ndilungiswa.
Oku akuzange kwenzeke ******* ngaphambili. Wonke umntu okule ntambo nceda ulandele icebo lam, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ungayenza. Yenza UMSEBENZI. Ixesha. Yirejimeni yomntu wonke one-ED obesebenzisa iphonografi kufuneka anike umpu.
Ndifuna ukunibonga kakhulu ngokundinceda ukuba ndifumanise isizathu sokungasebenzi kwintsebenzo yesondo kwi-intanethi ye-intanethi. Ndijamelene ne-delayed ejaculation kunye ne-ED iminyaka emininzi ngoku, kwaye akukho namnye oogqirha kunye nabagqirha endithe ndathetha kuso nakwicala ukuba i-porn inokubangela. Abazange babuze nokuba ngaba ndiyidlwengula kwi-pornography, kwaye andizange ndacinge ukuba ndiyifake njengesizathu esinokwenzeka. Umsebenzi wakho ube ngumlondolozi wobomi kum.
Ndiqale ukubukela iividiyo ezinzima malunga neminyaka esi-8 eyadlulayo kunye ne-PMOd mihla le ngee-binges 4-6 amaxesha ngenyanga. Ndiye ndafumana iimpawu ezinzulu ze-ED kwiinyanga eziliqela. Andizange ndicinge ukuba inokuba yimifanekiso engamanyala de ndaye ndaya kugqirha womchamo kwaye wandicebisa ukuba yayiyingqondo kuba amanqanaba e testosterone ayelungile kwaye ndiyindoda eneminyaka eyi-26 enempilo.
Ngeempawu zokuba likhoboka lamanyala endihlupheke kule minyaka idlulileyo, ndabona ugqirha, iingcali, abagqirha bengqondo kunye nesayikholojisti. Iimpawu zoxinzelelo, unxunguphalo, ukudinwa, ukuhlala wedwa ekuhlaleni ikakhulu. Akukho namnye kwaba 'beengcali' owenza ikhonkco phakathi kweempawu endinazo kunye neziyobisi ezingamanyala.
Bandithuma ngenxa yokuhlolwa kwegazi kunye / okanye bandinika izichaso ezichasayo kunye namachiza anxamnye nokuxhalabisa. Ziyintoni na le mayeza? Esinye seziphumo eziphambili ze-ED. Ngoko ukukhusela ukuba bakunike ithebhulethi ukunceda, njengeCialis. Ingqungquthela enobungozi yangayiphi na into eyenzekayo ngelixa udala lonke iqela leengxaki ezintsha ngexesha elifanayo ukwenza imeko yakho ekhoyo ibe nzima. Kwaye ngeendleko ezinkulu.
Oko ndifuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni kuthathwa uphando lwe-intanethi ukufumana iimpendulo xa kungekho nanye ootitshala bezonyango ndibonayo kufuphi nokufumanisa ingxaki yangempela? Ingaba ubudlelwane bezokwelapha bacinga ukuba umlutha we-porn umthwalo we-crap, ngaba abaqeqeshwe ukuyiqonda njengengxaki enkulu echaphazela isizukulwana sonke okanye ngaba bayayigatya?
(Gay) Kwiminyaka emibini eyadlulayo iinkuni zam zaqala ukuba mandundu ngakumbi, de kwaba lixesha lokugqibela iRIP: (, akukho nkuni, akukho libido, akukho buntununtunu kwilungu lobudoda bam ………… .Ndacinga ukuba 'le yeyokwexeshana.' Le meko yandikhathaza kakhulu soooo.Ndandinexhala emva kwenyanga enye yalonto.
Okokuqala ndazama i-cialis kunye ne-viagra, kunye neziphumo eziphakathi, ukuphazamiseka okwebuthakathaka kodwa kungabonakali. Emva koko, ndazama ukuya kwi-urologist. Walawula iimvavanyo kwaye zonke zilungile.
Undithumele kugqirha wezonyango. Kwakukho unyaka wonke wovavanyo (kunye nokudana) kunye ne-endocrinologist… kuphela ukundixelela ukuba ibhalansi yam yehomoni ilungile. Ngaloo nyaka ndazama lonke uhlobo lwezongezo zemifuno.
Ekugqibeleni, i-endocrinologist yangithumela kwisazi zengqondo ngenxa yeengxaki zokuzizithemba xa ziselula. (Ndiyiminyaka eyi-32 ubudala) uhmmm. Isifo sengqondo sandixelele ukuba ndandizichukumisa ngokwenene, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka kwam.
Kwakunzima. Ubomi bam ngokwesondo babuyintlekele. Ngaloo nyaka, abafana ababini bandishiya ngenxa yengxaki yam. Ndandineentloni ukuba nomntu. “Ndisempilweni,” kodwa…. Ngapha koko, andazi ukuba ndize njani noluvo lokuba umba unokubangaphezulu kwe-porn. (Ndandiwele kwi-porn nzima mihla le, amaphepha kunye namaphepha alikhulu labafana.)
Ukuguqula "ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-porno" bendinempendulo kwingxaki yam. Isizathu silula: Xa une-orgasm yemihla ngemihla yokubona iphonografi ye-Intanethi kangangeminyaka ungaphaya komjikelo wesekethe yomvuzo kwingqondo yakho. Le ngxaki ichaphazela abantu basetyhini, i-hetero, isitabane, BONKE. Kubonakala ukuba kukho ubhubhane we-ED obangelwa yi-Intanethi.
Ichaphazela nabantu abangaphantsi kwe-18 abaqala ukubona iphonografi nge-11-13 (okanye iminyaka engaphantsi) kunye nabafana abakuma-60s abo. Ndingatsho ukuba ngoku ndiyachacha. Isisombululo silula: akukho manyala, ubomi bezesondo obuphantsi (kulula kuloo meko), kangangeenyanga ezimbalwa. Ndingatsho ukuba ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-Intanethi yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kum. Ziinyanga ezimbini ndiqalile kwaye i-GUAOOOOOOOOOOO ndibona ukuphucula ngokwenene!
Ndandihamba ndibukela ezinye iifoto ezinzima. Ngamanye amaxesha andinakufumana ulwakhiwo ngokujonga ukubamba. Nangona kunjalo, ndiza kuba nditshitshisa ubuncinci kanye ngemini, kwaye ndihlala ndizibeka kule nto. Ndichithe ixesha elininzi ndibukele ndikhuphela, ndibukela kwaye ndikhuphela. Ndandinesithukuthezi, kodwa ndandiqhubeka ndihamba nale nto ndicinga ukuba esi sisiphumo selishwa elibi lezinto ezandishiyileyo nge-ED, endaweni yokuba ibe ngunobangela wako. Andizange ndifumane ukulungiswa okungahleliwe emini, kwaye andizange ndifumane imithi yamasa.
Ngoku, ndibe neengxaki xa ndibukela iifoto. Ndizama ukumbona ugqirha, kodwa yena wamkela nje nge-Cialis, okokuba, ukuba ndiyazivuselela ukuba ndibe nokwenza ukuba kube nzima, kodwa akukho nto eyenza kube lula ukufumana enye kwindawo yokuqala.
IMINYAKA engama-22 - ndaye ndafumana i-ED engacwangciswanga ngokungaqhelekanga kwindawo esemncinci kakhulu. Usebenzise iTadalafil (cialis) iminyaka embalwa. Ndikhe ndaya koogqirha abathathu, iingcali ezi-3; akukho namnye unokuza nempendulo yokuba kutheni umntu osemncinci enayo. Akukho xhala lokusebenza nokuba. Ndenza kakuhle kakhulu kwigumbi lokulala, kwaye bendinemicimbi nentombi yam endandithandana nayo ngaphezulu konyaka. Ewe, bandimisele i-cialis kwangoko.
Ndazigxotha kumbindi. Uhlupheke kuzo zonke iimpawu. Iipilisi ze-ED ziye zayeka ukusebenza. Ubomi bam bushushu. Ndandicinezelekile kodwa andinakuze ndibeke umnwe wam ngxaki. Ukutyelelwa kweengqondo kunye ne-urologists. Akukho mntu wayenayo impendulo. Ngoko xa ndibona abanye kwinqanawa efanayo njengaye, indibetha njengetani lezitena. Ndayazi ngokukhawuleza ukuba ndingumlutha.
Ukukhawuleza phambili namhlanje. Namhlanje ngumhla wama-38 ongekho kwi-PMO. Ubomi bam butshintshile ngandlela zonke. Inkungu iphakamile kwaye ndigxile kakhulu. Akukho kuphazamiseka, akukho xhala, umculo uvakala ngcono, ndinamandla ngakumbi kwindawo yokuzivocavoca. Ndiziva ndinomdla wokukuxelela yonke le nto kuba ayisiyondlela ilula kodwa isiphelo siyamangalisa. Akukabikho iintsuku ezingama-60 okwangoku, eyona njongo yam.
Ndenziwe umsebenzi wegazi, yonke into yabuya yesiqhelo. Ndaya komnye ugqirha wandinika iViagra. (Andinakukwazi ukuyihlawula nge- $ 500/20 yeepilisi.)
Ubudala 30 - (Ayinakukwazi ukuphuma ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo) Lo gqirha ufumana amanqaku aphezulu okuchonga ingxaki ngokuchanekileyo. Ekugqibeleni, xa ndandineminyaka engama-28 ubudala, ndaya kugqirha owandithumela kwingcali yezempilo yezesondo, eyathi yona yandithumela kugqirha wezesondo. Le yayiyeyona nto intle eyakha yenzeka kum. Wayenemithombo yokuphulula amalungu esini, kwaye wandicebisa ukuba ndiphinde ndibuyise ipenisi yam ukuze ndikhuthazwe ngakumbi. Ekugqibeleni wandinika isiphetho sokuba ngokwenene ndisombulule umba wam ndifuna ukuyeka ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokupheleleyo kwaye ndisebenzise umbono wam kuphela. Nangona kunjalo, inkuthazo yayingengombono wam onamandla.
Ii-urologists kunye nee-MD bendikhe ndaya kuzo zonke zindixelele ngokufanayo: imiba yebhayiloji ibangela i-ED. Kufuneka ukuba banyanisile. Bajongana nemicimbi emininzi bebona ukuba yenye yezona zinto zihlawula kakhulu kwezonyango. Ugqirha wam womchamo wathi iphonografi kunye ne-masturbation ayichaphazeli ukulungiswa. Ukuba ikhona into abanokuyonyusa amandla ngenxa yokusebenza kwe-neurological kunye nokukhuthaza. I-ED inokwenzeka ngenxa yemicimbi ye-vascular kunye ne-trauma kwilungu lakho lobudoda elinokuthi libandakanye kodwa lingaphelelanga kumaqondo obushushu agqithisileyo afana nokubanda kakhulu kwamanzi okanye amanzi ashushu kakhulu. Ke ukuba kwenzeke ukuba uthathe iibhafu zokuhlambela ezishushu ungaphuhlisa i-ED. Kananjalo ukuba ukhe wabethwa apho kunokubangela. Ndiye ndadla ukutya okufanelekileyo kwaye ndenza umthambo rhoqo kwaye kakhulu iminyaka, ayisiyo loo nto.
Kwafuneka ndifike ekugqibeleni apho ndandinomfazi omhle, ndalala ngesondo enganganeliseki (kwaye mhlawumbi kuye), kwaye ndiziva ndifuna ukukhangela iifostile ngokukhawuleza emva koko. Ndazi ukuba into ephosakeleyo ngoko ndagqiba ekubeni ndingaboni nayiphina imifanekiso engamanyala ndide ndimbone kwakhona.
Yilapho kwaqala khona iimpawu zokurhoxa. Ndivile iiakhawunti ezininzi ezahlukeneyo zeempawu zokurhoxa; mandikuxelele..imayini YANYELWA !!! Ukuqhubeka nokufakazela amandla alo mkhwa, ndandingenalo nofifi lokuba iintlungu, unxunguphalo, uxinzelelo, ukuqaqanjelwa sisisu kwanyusa isidingo sokuphinga amalungu esini kunye nokunciphisa amandla okuziva naluphi na ulonwabo, zonke zinxulumene nesitayile sam esivela kwi-porn. Ndazibonisa iimpawu zezinye izinto ezazisenzeka ebomini bam, kwaye zazikho izinto ezimbalwa zoxinzelelo eziqhubekayo. Akufuneki ukuthetha, njengoko ndandihamba kakuhle, olo lwalamano aluphumelelanga.
Ndaya koogqirha kwaye ndihlahlela kwaye yonke into endiyifumanayo yayiyinxalenye yeepilisi zam iimpawu endandichitha emva koko. Ndazi ukuba ukunyanga iimpawu kwakungayi kuphilisa ingxaki. Ndandibukela ngokugqithiseleyo i-pornography ngeli xesha, kodwa amava ahlukile. Ngoku ndayazi ngokupheleleyo inkqubo kwaye ukuba amanyathelo am ngokuphindaphindiweyo athathaka ngexesha lokubukela i-porn. Ndaye ndazi ukuba i-ejaculations yangethuba kwaye ndilibaziseka i-ejaculations (leyo enzima ukuyifumana ngaphandle kwevidiyo entsha emva kwevidiyo entsha).
Ukuyeka kwakuyinto eyoyikisayo ukuba ndiyenze kuba ndicinga ukuba andikaze ndiye ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezimbalwa ngaphandle kokuchama ukusukela kwiminyaka yobudala ye-15 okanye ye-16 (ndingu 30). Ndili-1 ukuya kwi-3 ixesha ngemini ukusukela nge-18 ngokuqinisekileyo. Ngapha koko, emva kweeveki ezimbini ndingenazo iphonografi, sele ndiqala ukuziva ngathi ndiyindoda entsha. Kuvakala ngokungathi unyathela kwihlabathi elitsha, kwaye iphonografi ngumthwalo osuswe emagxeni akho!
Ndifikile kwiminyaka engama-30 ubudala, ndisebenzise kakhulu iphonografi ukusukela kwiminyaka yam yokufikisa, kwaye bendinengxaki ye-ED ixesha elide-ubuncinci ukusukela kwiminyaka yam yokugqibela ye-20, nangona kutsha nje ukuba iphantse yangumlinganiso opheleleyo we-ED. Ndiyibek 'ityala kumaqabane ("Andikuthandi wena" / "Ndinqwenela ukuba ubuphendule"), ubutsha bamaqabane ("Ndidinga ukunika umzimba wam ixesha lokufikelela kwingqondo yam") amanqanaba omzimba, ukutya, ubudala, uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo lwendlela yokusebenza ... Kwaye eneneni, zonke ezo zinto, ngaphandle kwento ethi “Andikho kuwe”, mhlawumbi banendima abayidlalayo.
Njengamadoda amaninzi, ndicinga ukuba, ndaya kugqirha, ndafumana umzimba owawugweba naziphi na iimeko zonyango, kwaye ndafumana iyeza leViagra. Kodwa xa ndabona ukuba andinakukwazi ukuphinda ndihlaziye i-orgasm ngaphandle koononophala - into ecofa. Kubonakala ngokucacileyo ngokungaboniyo, ewe.
Ndiyavumelana noShaman. Ndicinga ukuba i-urologists isebenza kakuhle kumadoda amadala ane-ED, kodwa xa umfana engena no-ED, bamphatha njengomnye wabaguli bakhe abadala. Ndikhe ndaya kwiingcali zokuchamela umzimba kule minyaka mibini idlulileyo kwaye khange ndibancede kangako. Bandinika uvavanyo lomzimba, i-Cialis, emva koko i-testosterone yadubula. Akukho namnye kubo osebenzayo. Emva koko bobabini bandixelele ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngam kwaye bandithuma ukuba ndihambe. Babengenamdla wokuphonononga ezinye izizathu ezinokubangela ingxaki yam. Kufana nokuba bayilandele nje incwadi kwaye ibiyiyo.
Kudala ndibona ugqirha wam wezengqondo kwaye ndixoxa ngesihloko ngesondo / ukuphulula amalungu esini -> ixhala kunye naye ngaphezulu kweenyanga ze-6 ngoku. Unale nkolelo yokuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kuqhelekile kwaye kufuneka kwenziwe kungafani notywala kodwa ngesiqhelo kubomi obusempilweni. Ndimxelele ukuba ndihamba ixesha elide ngaphandle kwe-PMO kwaye wandicaphukisa .. Wathi, "Kutheni usenza le nto kuwe?" Uthe, "Inyaniso yokuba uhamba ngeentsuku ezingama-35 ngaphandle kwe-PMO iya kukhokelela umzimba wakho ukuba uye kolunye ugqithiso (utywala) ukuba uyatyibilika. Kutheni ungaphulula amaphambili (ungakhange ubhebhe) kwaye ungabinamanyala kwaye ubone ukuba kuhamba njani? ”
[Ingcebiso enkulu, ngaphandle kokuba ikhoboka alinakulilandela.] Akakholelwa ekuzipheliseni ngokwesini. Ndamxelela malunga nenkqubo yokuqalisa kwakhona kwaye akazange aqonde inqaku layo, okanye akafuni kukhathalela ukuba yintoni / kutheni abantu besenza oko. Ndididekile nje kodwa. Ndiyidlwengula kwaye ndiba nexhala emva kokukhutshwa. Andiyi kuhlaziya i-masturbate kunye neempawu zokurhoxisa (ukuxhalabisa) kuza. Ndidinga ukufumanisa umzimba wam kwaye ndibone ukuba ufuna ntoni / awufuni ntoni kwaye nini…
[Ukusuka eMedhelp] Ndingumfana we-19 y / o kwaye ndibukele iphonografi okwethutyana ngoku kwaye kutshanje ndinengxaki yokuba nzima. Iividiyo okanye iifoto ezazidla ngokundenza nzima ayisenzi njalo. Ndiyakwazi ukubukela ividiyo yonke ngaphandle kokufumana nzima ngaphandle kokuba ndihlaziye i-flaccid state ukuze ndibenzima kwaye nangona kunjalo ndibonakala ndilahlekelwa yinto yesibini ndiyithatha ingqondo yam. Ndiyazibuza ukuba ndiyeke na ukujonga iphonografi kunye nokuhlambalaza kunye okwethutyana ukuze ndibone ukuba iyatshintsha na?
[Ugqirha] “Ukuba ubunokufumana izilungiso rhoqo ngaphambili, into ojamelene nayo ngoku yile isini uxhalabe. Oku ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka kwiinqanaba zokuqala kwaye ingxaki iza kutshabalala ngexesha elithile. Oku kubonakala kuyinto engokwemvelo. Ukuba ukulungiswa kwakho kusasa kulungile ke isizathu yengqondo. Kuthetha ngelixa ufanele uthathe iprotheni yokutya, ukuvuthwa rhoqo, uhlale ukhululekile, kwaye ususe isini ixhala elinxulumene. Yeka ukubukela iphonografi kwaye ungazonwabisi ngokugcobisa. "
[Umbuzo ugqirha: Ukuba ingxaki yinto engokwengqondo, kutheni ukuyeka uononophala nokunciphisa uncedo lokugaya i-masturbation?]
Ndiziva ngathi ndohlukile kubo bonke abantu, kwaye ngenxa yoko ndisela utywala kakhulu ngethemba lokuvela ndizithembile… Khange isebenze i-LOL. Into kukuba, bendihlala ndizithembile kwaye ndithandwa. Ndide ndafumana ingcebiso malunga nokusombulula i-ED yam, ukungazithembi kunye noxinzelelo lwasentlalweni njlnjl .. kodwa zange kwabakho mbuzo ubuzwayo malunga nokusetyenziswa kwe-porn. Ukuba bekuceliwe, ngendikucwangcisile oku umzuzwana odlulileyo.
Nangona ujonge phambili kuyacaca ngokucacileyo ukuba yayikukusetyenziswa kwe-porn okuyimbangela. Kodwa ukuba ingcali ayizukubuyisela umva ukuzingela kwakho, kwaye isizukulwana sethu sikhuliswa sikholelwa ukuba u-P no-M baqhelekile kwaye bayimfuneko, ndingazi njani? Doh!
Ndaya kugqirha womchamo, ndenza umthambo ngakumbi kwaye ndizila ukutya, ndasela amanzi amaninzi, ndakhangela uncwadi lwengqondo, ndathatha izongezo ze-DHEA, ndatya ukutya okwandayo kwe testosterone, konke oko kwaba lilize. Ndandixinezelekile kwaye ndibuhlungu kwaye ndacinga ukuba kunokwenzeka ubomi be-hermetic ngaphandle kwesondo. Ngethamsanqa andinikezeli ngokulula, ke ndiye ndayoqhubeka nayo, ndenza uphando kangangoko ndinako ukuze ndiyifumane. Kutshanje ndiye ndaqala ukuya kunyangi, kwaye wandinika ukuqonda malunga nokulutha ngokwesondo emva kokuba ndithethe naye izihlandlo ezimbalwa malunga neemvakalelo zam. Oku kuqale ukuthanda kwam ukuba ndenze uphando kangangoko ndinako ngako.
Ubudala 19 - ED, uxinzelelo, anti-kwezentlalo, amabakala amabi, waziva onwabile
Ukuhlangana kwam okokuqala ngokwesondo akuzange kwenzeke de kube phakathi kwe-20 kunye nangenxa yokusebenzisa kwam i-porn andikwazi ukuhlala nzima. Kwakuyinto ehlazo kakhulu ebomini bam ukuba nentombazana ehamba phambi kwam efuna ukulala ngesondo kwaye ndihleli apho kunye ne-dick dick eneminyaka eyi-23. Ndaya koogqirha abaninzi abandixelela ukuba ndilungile kwaye banikela Iipilisi ze-ED ukuzama. Bebesebenza, kodwa bendikuthiyile ukuzisebenzisa kuba bekufuneka ndicwangcise isondo. Emva kokuziva ndicinezelekile ngakumbi malunga nemeko yam ndaqala ukukhangela iwebhu ndikhangela iimpendulo kwaye ndafumana iYBOP.
Emva kokufunda kuyo yonke into endiye ndayiqonda ukuba kukho ithuba elihle lokuba iingxaki zam zazinxulumene ne-porn kwaye ndaye ndagqiba ekubeni ndiqalise ukuqala kwakhona. Emva kwenyanga edlulileyo ukuqala kwam ukuqala kweentsuku ezingama-90 ndiyaziqhenya ngokuthi ndiphila ngesondo kwaye ndikwazi ukufumana ukulungiswa kwe-100% nokugcina ngesondo. Ukujonga ngoMhla woku-1 andikwazanga ukuba nzima, ndedwa okanye nentombazana, ndonwabile ukuba inkqubo yokuqalisa ngokutsha indincedile ukuba ndibuyele kwakhona. Ndiziva ngathi kufanelekile kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndiyindoda kwakhona. Ubomi bam butshintshe ngokupheleleyo baba ngcono kwaye khange ndonwabe ixesha elide, elide.
Ukuqala kwakhona ibali lempumelelo (Iintsuku ze-100 +, i-PIED isifo)
Ingxaki yam ephambili malunga ne-3 iminyaka ngoku (ndiyindoda eneminyaka eyi-20 ubudala) ibe kukudinwa okungapheliyo kunye nenkungu yengqondo. Ngokwenyani akukho lusuku lunye kule minyaka mi-3 idlulileyo apho ndandingadinwanga kakhulu ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba ndikwazi ukulala. Ngapha koko, ndiziva ngathi ngendilele nangaliphi na ixesha ngelo xesha ngaphandle kwe ~ 2 okanye iiyure kangangexesha lokuvuka kwam ebuthongweni. Isizathu sokuba ukugqitha ukudinwa / ukunqongophala koxinzelelo yeyona nto iphambili ekufuneka ndiyenzile (ngokuchasene ne-ED) kungenxa yexesha lam elidlulileyo. Ndikuthiyile ukukhala i-cocky, kodwa ndandingumntwana onobuqili kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo (ndigqibile unyaka wam we-3rd eyunivesithi). Ndivele ndaziqonda izinto. Ndandisombulula ingxaki kakhulu, kwaye inkumbulo yam yayiqaqambile.
Indawo ephezulu ebomini bam kuxa ndigqibayo kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo. Ndandimde, ndimile kakuhle, ndithweswe isidanga phezulu kwiklasi yam, ndikhwele ndaya eyunivesithi yasekuhlaleni apho ndandinokuba yiyo nantoni na endiyifunayo, ndinenkxaso yabahlobo abanothando nosapho, njl njl. Kodwa emva koko, phantse ngathi sisiqalekiso, NGOKUTSHA nje xa ndiqala eyunivesithi iingxaki zaqala ukuza. Andazi ngenene ukuba ndandiphulula amalungu esini kodwa yayininzi kwaye yaqala ukundifumana.
… Oogqirha abaninzi bayancanca. Abazimamameli iingxaki zakho konke konke, kwaye banesimo esikhawulezileyo sokuyalela ezinye izidenge ezichasene noxinzelelo. Kwandenza ndaziva ngathi ndingomnye nje into yokujonga kuluhlu lwemisebenzi yabo yemihla ngemihla. Andixinezelekanga; ubuncinci uxinzelelo ayisiyo ingcambu yokudinwa kwam / nemiba yengqondo. Ukuba kukho nantoni na, ndiziva ndonwabile amaxesha ngamaxesha NGENXA yeengxaki zam eziphambili, ukudinwa kunye noxinzelelo.
Ndafunga ukuba ndingaze ndibe ngugqirha ukuba ndingangcono kunale ndiboneyo. Ndimamele kwaye ndinakekele umntu ngamnye. Ngapha koko, ndiyaphuma. Yikholwe okanye hayi, ndiyifumene ngenye imini emva kokudibanisa iimpawu zam kukhangelo lukaGoogle. Ndothuke xa ndifumana iphepha elinesihloko esithi "Iimpawu zeFatren Fatigue" ezidwelise yonke into endiyifunayo kunye nezinye iimpawu endandi nazo.
Ndenze uphando oluninzi kwaye ndafumanisa ukuba oyena nobangela wale meko luxinzelelo oluninzi kwii-adrenals. Ndandinje ??? huh ??? Ndandingoyena mntu uchaseneyo "noxinzelelo olukhulu" xa kwakuqala ukuvela iingxaki. Iesile lam elingenalwazi alizange lenze unxibelelwano ukuba yonke into yokuphulula amalungu esini yam yayixinzelelekile emzimbeni wam. Kwakumnandi ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni eyona ngxaki yam.
Ngaphambi kokuza apha ndenza ezininzi zokuzama ukunyamezela i-gluten, ukukhathala okungapheliyo, i-hypothyroid, i-b12, i-vitamin d, njl. Ezinye zazo zanceda uncinci kodwa kungabi nakwimeko apho uya kuziva ngathi ingcambu iya kubonakala.
Ndiyintombi kude kube yi-21 (emva kwexesha elide) bendihlala ndisebenzisa i-masturbate ngeempelaveki kude nomkhosi njengendoda ephambeneyo (amaxesha ama-5 ngosuku) kwezi webhsayithi ze-porn. Uqale eneminyaka eyi-12… Kunyaka odlulileyo ndafumana intombi eshushu kodwa ndothuka akwenzekanga nto phaya ezantsi. Ndandikufa njengesihogo, kuphela ukuma xa ndihleli phantsi kwaye ndifuna ukucinga okanye ukubukela i-porno ukuze ndihlale ndimi. Ndide ndasebenzisa iphonografi ekugqibeleni ...
Ndaya kugqirha, wandinika iipilisi ezingancedi nto, wandixelela kulungile ukuba ndibukele iphonografi xa ndiziva ndiyithanda (ingcebiso enkulu ukuba ndiyinike umlutha…)
Ndixutywe ngokupheleleyo, kwaye andifumani sizathu sayo. Kungekudala, bendindwendwele ugqirha kwaye wandicebisa malunga nokubalwa kweVitamin B. Ndigqibile ikhosi yenaliti e-5 yevithamini “B” kodwa khange incede.
Nali ibali lam: I-23 y / o eyindoda, ibisanda kusuka okoko ndikhumbula, amaxesha ngamaxesha yonke imihla. Ndikhe ndanobudlelwane obuzinzileyo kwixa elidlulileyo, khange ndikwazi ukuya kwi-O evela kwii-BJs. Kubudlelwane obukhulu phantse iminyaka eyi-5 ngoku kwaye ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiqale i-NoFap emva kokujongana nezigulana ezininzi ezinengxaki yemicimbi ye-ED kwii-pharmacy endisebenza kuzo.
Andikwazanga ukuqonda indlela abaninzi abantu abancinane kangaka abanemiba ye-ED, kunye nevidiyo ye-TED yandenza ndazi ukuba ngam, ngokunjalo, ndiyesaba kakhulu. Kulo lonke uhambo lwam umzimba wonke uphucule kakhulu, beye rhoqo kwindawo yokuzivocavoca edibeneyo, ndazithengela ibhayisikili ukuba ndikhange yonke indawo ngoku, ndigqibe isikolo kwiifama. I-SO yam inqwenela ukuba ndiqalisile oku kwaye ndiyiqaphele ukuqhutyelwa kwam ukusebenza ebhedeni. Ndiyakwazi u-O kwi-BJs ngoku! Ubushushu bam obungapheliyo buye bancedisa, oko kwakungena kum.
(Ubudala 37) andizange ndiqonde ukuba ndinengxaki kude kube ngoku. Ukufumana zonke iimpawu zeklasikhi: i-ED, ukungafuneki kwemfuno, ukuthanda izinto ngokuthe ngcembe kinkier, ii-erections ezithambileyo (ngaba yi-oxymoron?), Ukuhla kwe-libido, njl njl. , self-help, acupuncture, njl njl. Imiba yengqondo: I-HOCD (iqale nge-shemales), umlutha, uxinzelelo, unxunguphalo, ityala, ukungazonwabisi, ubomi obumbaxa, ukuthandana nemifanekiso, ukwenza ukuthanda kwakho ebomini bokwenyani (eyona nto ndiyenzileyo).
Gcina engqondweni, "ndiyintsika yoluntu", usomashishini ophumeleleyo, kwaye ndikhathalela usapho kunye nabahlobo bam. Ndingumthi obizwa ngokuba ngumqolo wokuziphatha kwindawo yam yokuhlala nangona ndinamakhoboka afihlakeleyo azama ukuxhwila ubomi bam (kodwa enkosi kwindawo yakho kunye namakhonkco angaphandle, andizukuyivumela). Akukho namnye ugqirha, ugqirha wezengqondo, okanye ugqirha wezifo zengqondo endikhe ndabona ukuba ukhe wanxulumana nayo nayiphi na imicimbi yam ekuziphatheni-ngokuphulula amalungu esini / ukuba likhoboka lemifanekiso engamanyala. Ngapha koko, khange babuze malunga nayo. Ndiyizisile, bathi "yinto eqhelekileyo".
[Ukusuka kwiminyaka eli-18 ubudala] Iiwebhusayithi ezininzi, iziyobisi, oogqirha, iingcali zonyango kunye nabantu ngokubanzi bathi akukho ndlela i-PMO ikhokelela ngayo kwi-ED. Ngokufunda iiakhawunti apha ndingathi bonke aba bantu bakhohlisiwe. Andazi ukuba kutheni bethetha kwaye bekhuthaza izinto ezinjalo ngaphandle kolwazi malunga nomcimbi. Ndiqinisekile ukuba uninzi lwabantu aluyi kuba kwimeko yabo yangoku ukuba omnye ebengazange abaxokise ngaphambili malunga nokungabi nabubi kwe-PMO.
Ngokumalunga ne-26, emva kwenkxalabo yempilo ebalulekileyo, ndenze malunga nobuso kwaye ndagqiba ekubeni ndinciphise ubunzima, ngene kwi-gym, ndiqalise ukusebenza, nidle bhetele kwaye ube nempilo. Ngenxa yoko i-PMO yam iyancipha kancane ngenxa yokuba ndibe nexesha elingaphantsi kwezandla zam, kodwa ndisekho apho kwidesiki ye-computer ubuncinane kanye kunye neminye imihla okanye iintsuku ezimbalwa. Ndade ndibona ngokufutshane ukuphuculwa kwe-ED, kodwa nangona xa ndibuyele apho ndifuna khona ukufumana izilumko, ndandisenokuba nemiba kwaye ndaqala ukucinga ukuba ndineenkalo ezininzi zezinto eziphathekayo kunye nezixhobo zam ngaphantsi.
Ndathetha nogqirha emva kokuba ndizithethe ngokukhulu kwaye ndigwinje. Ndayilinga iViagra kwaye yandinceda nje kancane, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo emva kokuba ndandinciphisa ingqondo yam kwaye ndasondela ngokulala, ke ndibe ngilungele ukukhawuleza, njengokuba kunjalo. I-sex kuphela ehloniphekileyo ye-SO endiyenayo yayikunye ngemithi yasekuseni kwaye kwaye kwaqala ukuhlakala kwaye ibe yinto enhle kakhulu. Kwakunzima xa kusebenza, kodwa amaxesha e-19 aphuma kwi-20, akukho yonke into eyenzekayo apho. Ndiza kuvuka, kodwa kufuneka ndibambe phantsi apho ukuze kungene. Umlomo wawuyinkcitho yexesha.
Andizange ndibone oko kwakungalunganga kum kwaye kwakungikhupha ngaphakathi nangonyaka ophelileyo ndandiziva ndiqhubeka ndixineke ngakumbi. Ndiza kuba neentombazana zangezinye iphosa kum kwaye ndiza kuziphepha ngokukhawuleza kuba ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kudimazeka embhedeni. Ndandingumngcipheko.
Phantse kunyaka owedlule, ubuhlobo besikhathi eside bephelile (kunye nentombazana endicinga ukuba ndiza kutshata) ngenxa yeengxaki zokulungisa. Ngethuba lobudlelwane, ndacinga ukuba kubangelwa uxinzelelo lomsebenzi / ubomi kwaye ingxaki yayiza kulungisa ngokwedlula ixesha. Ndazama ukuya kugqirha / uphando, usebenzisa i-viagra / cialis, iindandatho, i-kegels, i-supplement supplements, njl. Kodwa akukho nto yasebenza.
Ndade ndaya kugqirha womchamo owenza iingcali kwi-ED kwaye wenza iimvavanyo ezithile ngenaliti kunye nokulinganisa ukuhamba kwegazi. Zonke iimvavanyo zibonisa ukuba ndiphilile emzimbeni. Ukunika imbali, andizange ndiqalise ukuhlaziya i-masturbating kude kube yi-18 (ngasekupheleni kwe-20 ngoku), kwaye andizange ndiqale ukubukela i-porno de kube malunga ne-22. Ngaphambi kwe-22, ukulungiswa kwam kwakuhlala kunamandla kwaye andizange ndibe neengxaki nabahlobo bam abangamantombazana. Ukusuka kwi-22 ukuya phambili, ndenza i-masturbated to porn (ama-3-5 amaxesha ngeveki) kwaye khange ndibelane ngesondo malunga neminyaka eyi-2 ngenxa yokugxila emsebenzini. Xa ndiqala ukuthandana kwakhona, malunga ne-24, ndiye ndabona ukuba izinto endizonyulileyo zazibuthathaka kwaye nge-25, bendine-ED epheleleyo.
Ekugqibeleni ndabona urologist kwi-ED yam kule veki kwaye ndicinga ntoni? Ilungu lamalungu esini lilungile. Undicebise ukuba ndithathe i-viagra okanye i-cialis ngamanye amaxesha. Kukhulu, yile nto ndifuna ukuyenza- ukuba nama-28 kwaye ndisempilweni njengokuba…. Uye wakhankanya ukuba kufuneka ndibone ugqirha wezesondo kodwa wandixelela kwisivakalisi esinye ukuba akusekho dolophu yam.
Ndingu 25 kwaye ndineengxaki zokungasebenzi kakuhle ngenxa yokuba ndandineminyaka eyi-18. Ndamiselwa i-cialis kunye ne-viagra okwethutyana xa ndaya kwagqirha kwi-19 yrs ubudala emva kokungafumani ulwakhiwo amatyeli alishumi kunye namantombazana amahlanu ahlukeneyo (bendizingisa kodwa amantombazana ebengazimiselanga ukuba nomonde ngokwaneleyo).
Nangona kunjalo, ndilahlekelwe yi-libido kunye nentembelo yam kunye nabasetyhini kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo ndayeka nangona ineyeza. Ndalinda iminyaka emibini ngaphambi kokulahlekelwa ubuntombi bam ngoncedo lwepilisi eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.
Ingxaki 1: ukufumana ulwakhiwo, isonjululwe ngamayeza Ingxaki 2: Ayinakukwazi ukukhupha ngaphandle kokuvuka.
Ke ndaya kolunye uxinzelelo njengoko ndandingakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm kunye nentombi yam. Kwakubuhlungu ngokwenene. Emva kokuzama iiveki ezininzi kwacaca ukuba ekuphela kwendlela endinokuza ngayo yayingam okanye undiphulula amalungu esini. Akufuneki ukuba, ubudlelwane abuzange busebenze.
SO. . . ndidimaze ngokupheleleyo, ndaya kufuna iimpendulo. Andizange ndifumane (ukuxolisa, akukho phu ejoliswe kuyo) kwaye kwakunjengokukhanya okukhanyayo engqondweni yam. Kwabonakala kubonakala.
Ndabuya emva kweeveki ze-3ish okokuqala kwaye ndabuya kwiinyanga ezimbalwa kamva ngokuzimisela. Ngoku ndikwiintsuku ezingama-85.
Ndadibana nentombazana ezintandathu kwiiveki ezedlulileyo kwaye salala ngesonto e zimbini. Ngokwenene, ndakwazi ukuvuswa ngaphandle kweyeza kunye nokuhlala ngaloo ndlela ndide ndihluthe emva kokuba ndivuselelwe ngumfazi wakhe emva kwemizuzu emihlanu yesondo kunye nento eninzi. Yayiyona nto ibonayo ngakumbi. Siye saqala ukulala ngesondo kwaye akukho namnye engxaki yam yangaphambili ayibuyanga.
Ndiyabona ngoku ukuba ukuhlaziya i-masturbating imihla ngemihla ekubeni ndingu 12 kwakungeyona nto enhle kum, kwaye ngaphandle kokuhlaziya i-masturbating ndibone ukuphucula ngokwenyama, ngokwengqondo nangokwenene: ngesondo.
[Ubudala 25] ED kwakhona, kodwa ngeli xesha kwakubuhlungu, kuba ndandimthanda kakhulu lo mfazi. Ndizamile ukwenza konke endinako… Ndabona ugqirha, ndazama i-viagra, konke kwaba lilize. Ingxaki iqhubekile.
Kwaye ndihloliwe. Ndabona i-urologist kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo kwaye wayengaqinisekanga ukuba kutheni ndiza kuba ne-ED kuba yonke into eqhelekileyo ibonisa ingxaki ngo-dick wakho ekhangelekile. Ugqibezele ukundichaza nge-Levitra kunye nokuqikelela ukuba ndinendawo evuzayo kwilungu lobudoda lam kuba bekungekho esinye isibonisi sendlela endimele ukuba ndino-ED.
Ndonwabile ukufumana amachiza- kwaye basebenza ekugcineni i-dick yam nzima- kodwa bendizakube ndinayo i-orgasm 50% yexesha elininzi. Ndayazi ukuba yayiyi-bandaid nje kuba ndingagcina ulwakhiwo oluqinileyo lweyure kunye ne-orgasm amaxesha amaninzi ngemini ukuba ndibukele iphonografi.
Umfazi wam wacaphuka kangangokuba wandivumela ukuba ndibukele iphonografi ngelixa sasabelana ngesondo amaxesha ambalwa, kodwa andikabinayo i-orgasm
Nge-24 ndadibana nentombazana kwaye sahamba nyani, sasibambene kakhulu. Ndithathe isigqibo sokumxelela malunga nemicimbi yomzimba wam kunye noxinzelelo. Oku kwakunzima kakhulu, kuba andizange ndixelele mntu. Ngethamsanqa wayendixhasa kakhulu kwaye enamathela kum. Sazama isondo, kodwa andizange ndifumane ukulungiswa.
Ndisabeka oku kuxinzelelo kwaye ixesha lam elidlulileyo lisilele kwimizamo yokwabelana ngesondo, ke ndafumana ingcebiso ngesondo ukundinceda ukuba ndibuyele. Kukho konke ukunyaniseka, khange kuncede kwaphela. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunyaka wokuqala wobudlelwane bethu kwakusoyikeka, akukho namnye umntu endakha ndaziva ngathi bendabelana ngesondo lokwenyani, okanye ndaye ndavula (apho ndingakhange ndibenentloko, kuba intombi yam iyathandeka kum). Ndaziva ndibuhlungu kwintombazana yam yokunyamezela. Ndizamile iViagra kunye neCialis nayo, ayikabikho ulwakhiwo.
Yintoni eyabonakala emva konyaka wobudlelwane, yayikukuba ndonwabile ngomzimba wam (intle kakhulu) macala onke kuye, kwaye ndaqonda ukuba andiziva ndinalo ixhala xa ndilala naye. Ndaye ndazi kakuhle ukuba andizukuvulwa nguye. Ndabona kwakhona ukuba kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo, andifumananga naliphi na ibhinqa elinomtsalane ngokwesondo, ngaphandle kokuba bebekwifilimu ye-porn. Ndandinomvakalelo woononophala kunokuba nento enokuyenza ngayo, kwaye ndafunda amabali ambalwa kwi-porno ebangela ukungabi namandla, kodwa andizange ndikholelwe ukuba kunokwenzeka.
Ndandibukele ezininzi zoononophala ngeli xesha, emva kwam intombi yam. Iimpawu ezininzi ngaxeshanye ngeyure ngexesha, kodwa andizange ndizive kunzima kakhulu. Ngokucacileyo, ndandixhalabile kwaye ngenxa yoko ndibukele iphonografi ngakumbi nangakumbi ukuzama ukufumana i-100% nzima. Ndaye ndaqonda ukuba ipenisi yam yayingaziva ngathi ibuthathaka njengakuqala, kwaye andikaze ndonwabe.
Kutshanje, ndenze uphando ngakumbi kwi-porn eyakhokelela kwi-ED kwaye ngeli xesha ndayithatha ngokungathí sina. I-Viagra kunye ne-Cialis khange zisebenzele mna, ingcebiso ayikhange indisebenzele, ke kuye kwafuneka ndizame. [Iiveki ezili-9 ezingamanyala] Ndicinga ukuba ndisenalo ixesha lokuya, kodwa ukuzithemba kwam kukhulu ngoku kwaye Ukuxhalaba kwam kunciphile. Ndiziva ngathi ndiphinde ndaziva ngathi akufuneki ndenze ngathi andinguye. Ukuthetha namantombazana kulula kakhulu ngoku kwaye ukunxibelelana ngokubanzi ndifumana uxinzelelo oluncinci.
Ngokubanzi, ndiziva ndonwabile. Ngethuba lokuqala, ndiziva ndivuliwe kwaye ndivakalelwa nje ngokubanzi kwindawo, ndibuhlungu kwaye ndikhululekile. Andizange ndizive ndivuliwe ngaphambi kwendalo, ndiziva ndikhululekile. Ngamaxesha athile, siyazama ukulala, kwaye kutshanje kube yimpumelelo (nangona ikhawuleza kakhulu haha). Ndiziva ndijikile kwaye ndanzima ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Ndiva uvakalelo olukhulu kwilungu lobudoda bam, kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndihlala ndinethemba lokuziva ngathi. Ngethuba lokuqala ebomini bam, ndiziva ngathi ndilala ngesondo.
MEDHELP UMBUZO:
Mna ndiyiminyaka eyi-27 yindoda ehlala eNgilani. Ndijamelene neengxaki zokulungiswa. Ndiye ndihlawula i-3 ngamaxesha e-5 ngemini kuba ndiyiminyaka eyi-11 kwaye andizange ndikwazi ukufumana ukulungiswa okupheleleyo kwexesha elidlulileyo le-5 okanye kunjalo. Ndineentombi endiye ndahlala nayo kwiminyaka yokugqibela ye-9 kodwa xa sithatha ngesondo andinakuze ndifumane ipenisi yam ivule ngokupheleleyo. Ngaphezulu kunyaka odlulileyo okanye ngoko ke ukukhwa kwam kwindlela ebuthakathaka kodwa ke ndihlawula i-3 kumaxesha e-5 ngosuku. Xa ndiyidlwengula i-penis ayilunganga ngokupheleleyo kodwa ndiyakwazi ukuphumeza i-orgasm.
Umbuzo wam kukuba ngaba iingxaki zam zokwakha zibangelwa leli nani lokuphulula amalungu esini kwaye ukuba ndiyeka ukuphulula amalungu esini ngaba izinto endizenzayo ziya kubuyela esiqhelweni? Kananjalo khange ndibenayo i-erection ekuseni emva kokuvuka oko ndandikwishumi elivisayo. Andithathi naliphi na iyeza.
IMPENDULO NGOKWESIFUNDO SEXOLOGIST kwi-MEDHELP:
Unokuba ne-orgasms kwaye uyonwabele, kodwa kukho into ethintela umnqweno wakho wesini. Lo mhlawumbi ngumba obukuchaphazela ukusukela ebusheni. Ngokubanzi, umnqweno uchatshazelwa zizimo zengqondo. Ke zithini izimvo zakho malunga nokwabelana ngesondo? Bavela phi? Zithini izimvo zakho malunga nobudlelwane, kwaye zivela phi?
Into enokubangela ingxabano, kwaye kufuneka uqonde ukuba yintoni. Akukho nto ongayithengayo kwi-intanethi iya kuthintela izilungiso zakho. Akukho nanye kwezi zinto eziye zadlula naziphi na iimvavanyo zenzululwazi yokusebenza. Kwaye akukho mntu unokuqikelela ukuba nantoni na isigxina. Kukho izinto ezininzi ezinokuthi zichaphazele umnqweno / izikhetho zakho.
Njengoko benditshilo, zama ukwakha uxinzelelo lwezesondo; inokuthi ikongamele ukuswela kwakho umnqweno. Ukuba akunjalo, inyathelo lokuqala kukuba ube ngugqirha wakho wesini kwaye ujonge imiba endiyiphakamisileyo. Ukuba awukwazi ukufikelela kuso nasiphi na isigqibo, bhala kwakhona, kwaye siza kuqala. Kananjalo: kwimeko apho, nantsi imiba yomzimba enokuthi inegalelo kulwakhiwo olwahlukileyo. Unokufuna ukubona ugqirha wezobuchwephesha ukuba azilawule.
Ukuphuma kwegazi ku-penis kuchaphazelekayo: • Isifo sikashukela • Isifo se-Vascular • Umxhesho wegazi ophantsi • Isimo senhliziyo
UGqirha JPATIENT KWAKHONA: Sele ndivavanyelwe zonke ezo zinto kunye namanqanaba e testosterone, uxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu, icholesterol kunye nokubeka iliso kwi-ECG yeentsuku ezisixhenxe kwaye yonke into ibuyile "yesiqhelo."
(Ubudala 22) Ngethuba nje ndiyakhumbula ukuba ndihlaziye i-3 amaxesha ngosuku-nangona kungekho nto iya kuphuma xa i-ejaculating !! Ndine ntombazana, kwaye ndilahlekelwe ukulungiswa kwam. Ngokwenene ibiyindiza yokugqibela. Indishiye ndinengxaki yengqondo. Inyanga ephelileyo ibisoyikeka-ukuya kuthi ga apho ugqirha andiyalele khona uSertraline. Elinye icala lesiphumo kukuba kunokubangela i-ED! Ayisiyiyo le ndiyifunayo ngoku…
G / f yam yokugqibela yaqhekeka nam ngenxa ye-porn enxulumene no-ED. Ngelo xesha andingazi ukuba yayihlobene ne-porn. Ndidlule kwizinto ezininzi. Ndaya kunyango, ndabona ugqirha, ndazama namayeza esintu. Ngexesha elithile i-ED ixhaswe-kuba ndandihamba ngaphandle koononophelo kwithuba elithile ngaphandle kokuyiqonda. KUNYE mna kunye ne-g / f yam ixesha sakwazi ukulala ngesondo kwakhona. Kulapho ndaye ndanesibindi ndaza ndaphinda ndabona iphonografi- kwaye ingxaki yabuyela kwangoko.
Ungandenzi nokuba ndiqalise ngoogqirha. Ndihlala kwesinye sezixeko ezikhulu zase-US kwaye ndaya kubona ezimbini (kuba bendifuna izimvo ezimbini) zee-urologists eziphezulu kweso sixeko. Bobabini bangena, benza iimviwo zemizuzu eyi-10, emva koko bamisela i-Cialis. Bacacisile ukuba isenokuba yinto enxulumene nobudala (ndikwiminyaka yama-40s nakwimpilo egqwesileyo kangangokuba oko bekungavakali kum. Ngakumbi kuba ndifundile unokuba nolungelelwaniso oluqhelekileyo kwii-70s zakho) okanye uxinzelelo lwentsebenzo.
Abazange bandibuze nayiphi na imibuzo malunga nobume okanye iimpawu ze-ED yam. Unokucinga ukuba baya kubuza imibuzo malunga nokususwa kwasekuseni, isondo nabasetyhini, iphonografi, njl njl njl. Ndinike nje iCialis. Ungacinga ukuba baya kujonga imeko nganye ngokwabo kwaye bacinge, hmmm .. mfo ophilileyo, akukho mbali yokwenzakala okanye nokuba nengxaki yengqondo, yintoni enokubangela oku? Abajongi unobangela, kulungiswa nje ngokukhawuleza kwebhendi.
Akazange azi ngokwenene ukuba ndingathanda kangakanani i-PMO, kodwa wayesazi ukuba kwenzeka. Ngexesha lokuqala kobudlelwane bethu ndaye ndaya kubona ugqirha wam jikelele, ugqirha womchamo, kunye nonyango. Ndilandele lonke icebiso labo, ndasela iipilisi, ndenza imithambo yokuphefumla, kodwa bendihlala ndifumana iziphumo ezifanayo. Ngokwesiqhelo ndiza kuba nzima, emva koko ndiphulukane nayo ngokukhawuleza. Ndingathemba nje ukuba ndingayifumana ngokukhawuleza ngokwaneleyo ukuba omnye wethu eve okuthile.
Ndaya kugqirha womchamo. Zonke iimvavanyo zam ziphume kakuhle nditsho novavanyo lwasebusuku endilwenzileyo. Khange ndilufumane uvavanyo lokuvuza okuvuthayo kuba andicingi ukuba ugqirha usibonile isidingo kuba iimvavanyo zasebusuku zilungile. Undinike iisampulu zeViagra ezisebenze kakuhle okwexeshana emva koko ezo ziye zayeka ukusebenza. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba oku kunokuba kuvela kwi-PMO ngelo xesha. Andifuni ukuthembela kwipilisi.
Andinayo i-libido malunga ne-2 iminyaka kwaye ndi-17, ke oku kuye kwabutshabalalisa ngokupheleleyo ubomi bam. Ngeli xesha [iintsuku ezingama-36 kungekho-PMO] andikaze ndibuyise i-libido yam, kwaye kakhulu, kunqabile ukuba nemithi yakusasa. Ndaya kwagqirha malunga namanqanaba am testosterone kwaye wathi ungakhathazeki.
I-gf yam yinkxaso enkulu ebomini bam kodwa andinakulindela ukuqonda kwakhe, wenzakele kakhulu. Abazali bam abasiqondi isizathu sokuba ndenze oku xa ndinomfazi. Ugqirha wam wezifo zengqondo khange andincede, akazange afune nokwazi malunga neparaphilia yam [HOCD], esola uAsperger kubo bonke. Ugqirha wokuqala wesini endiye kuye nje wasixelela ukuba senze nantoni na esebenzayo, kwaye njengoko uyazi, ayisebenzi kakuhle…
Oku kwafika entloko (uxolo nge-pun) xa ndadibana nomntu ngaphezulu kwehlobo. Nangona kunjalo andinakufezekisa izilungiso ezaneleyo zokungena kunye naye kwaye bekufanele ukuba luthotho lwamava ezesondo, landishiya ndihlazekile. Ndaya kwagqirha; Impilo yam intle nangona ndinciphisile utywala ngenxa yezizathu ezicacileyo. Wayemhle kakhulu wathi yayisentloko yam.
Ndandisazi ukuba ubunzulu be-porn yayisisizathu kodwa ndandinqwenela ukulungiswa ngokukhawuleza. Ndizamile iViagra, le indinike ulwakhiwo kodwa incanca yam yaziva 'ikhutshiwe' emzimbeni wam. Kwakungekho ukulungiswa okwenene kwaye ndaziva ndincinci kuwo. Ngapha koko bendicinga ukuba kuyahlekisa ukuba kufuneka ndisebenzise iziyobisi ngento ekufuneka iyindalo, ndiyekile ke ukuzithatha (kunye nexabiso labo zibiza kakhulu- ndingumfundi osisigxina kwaye andinakho ukuhlawula iindleko). http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2tmj1a/thank_god_i_found_this_forum/
Ndingu-43. Ndisempilweni. Akukho ngxaki zempilo. Xa ndandiqala ukuba neengxaki ze-ED, ndabona ezimbini zeedoloji eziphezulu kwisixeko sam. Bobabini bavavanya ipenisi yam imizuzu ye-2 kunye ne-cialis emiselweyo. Enye ikhankanyiwe inokuba kukuxhalaba kokusebenza, enye ikhankanye ukuba inxulumene nobudala.
Akukho mibuzo malunga nantoni na. Ndicinga ukuba uvavanyo lobudoda belulungile. Khange bathi zikhona iingxaki. Ke ndicinga ukuba ipenisi yam isempilweni nayo. Andizange ndithathe i-cialis kuba bendinoluvo olunomdla kunokuba nesinye isizathu kwi-ED yam.
Ndiye ndenza i-masturbating kwi-20 iminyaka kwaye kanye ngosuku ngeminyaka eyi-5 edlulileyo. Ngapha koko, ndenze into efanayo neyenziwe ngabafana abaninzi yeyona nto imbi onokuyenza. Ukuba bendikunye nomntu obhinqileyo kwaye bendine-ED, bendiya ekhaya ndiphinde ndihlaziye MORE ukuqinisekisa ukuba yonke into isebenza kakuhle. Ewe, ndaqala ukuba ne-ED kunye ne-masturbation kunye noononophala.
Ugqirha wam wezifo zengqondo wathi ukusebenzisa kwam i-porn kungenxa yokuba ndingu-Asperger, oko kuthetha ukuba 'indlela endiziphethe ngayo' kukuba ndenza i-masturbation kunye ne-porn. Uthi nokuba ndingayimisa okwexeshana, ndiza kubuyela kuyo ngenxa yee-Asperger zam ('m' no 'p' zingangumdla 'wam okhethekileyo' njengoko ubhalwe ngu-T. Attwood kwiincwadi zakhe ezimalunga ne-Aspergers. indlela endikuguqula ngayo oko kuthethwe ngugqirha wam wengqondo).
Ndiye kumgqirha kwaye ndachaza ukungabi namsebenzi wokwakha, kwaye ubeke i-Viagra. Andizange ndizame oku okwangoku, kodwa ngokubulela ndiyifumene le ngcaciso ngaphambi kokuba ndiyenze, njengoko kunokwenzeka ukuba akunakusebenza. Ukugqiba, andizange ndikhangele nayiphi na imifanekiso okanye iividiyo ezigubungela iifoto ukususela ekuhlangabezaneni nalo mfazi. Ndandinyameke ukulala ngokungahlali. Ndandisoloko ndikhwele emva kwabasetyhini kwisitrato, kodwa lo mnqweno wawuphela xa ukusetyenziswa koonobumba kumile, kodwa buya buyela kancane. Ububele bubuyela kwindoda yam ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ndifumanisa kwakhona ukhuni lwamanzi kwakhona. Andiyi kuphinda ndijonge kwi-intanethi ye-intanethi.
(Phendula komnye umfana) ndahamba kakhulu (kuyabiza!) Unyango kwiminyaka eliqela eyadlulayo ngokwesicelo sam se-gf. Ngelixa incede ngeendlela ezininzi, kubandakanya neendlela zokucamngca ngokufunda, yayihlala ingangqinelani kwinkcazo nakwiinjongo zayo. Ke, ndiyavuma i-100% ukuba kukho ulwazi-lwesithuba.
Inxalenye yokudideka ivela kwinto yokuba inkanuko yesini kukuqhutywa kwendalo kwendalo, ngokuchaseneyo nokungcakaza, iziyobisi, ukutshaya okanye ezinye iziyobisi. Ngokuhambelana, kukho umbono oxhaphakileyo wokuba i-MO yendalo indalo ngendlela yokuba ukuthatha iziyobisi ngokucacileyo akunjalo, kwaye ke ayinakuba 'sisiyobisi'.
Olu yayiludideko olwalungacaci engqondweni yam de kufike le ndawo, eyayifana nomzuzu 'webhalbhu yokukhanyisa' - ayisiyi-P kuphela, kodwa ikwayi-MO ekufuneka ibhekiswe 'kucingo lwentambo kwakhona'. Kubonakala ngathi uqeqesho lwezonyango / lwezengqondo lusemva kwegophe kule micimbi, ngenxa yoko andizukuthenga-ukucebisa ukuba i-PMO ngandlel 'ithile ayinyangeki okanye ngumjikelo wobomi ongenakuphepheka.
Enye yezinto zokuqala endizenzileyo xa bendinemicimbi ye-ED yayikukundwendwela ugqirha ngenxa yokunyanzelwa yintombazana endiyibonayo. Ndithathe uvavanyo lwegazi oluninzi kunye ne-testosterone yam, i-DHEA, iProlactin, njlnjl zonke bezikwimigangatho esempilweni. Lo gqirha womchamo wandixelela ukuba akukho nto, "Awunangxaki zomzimba ezinokubangela i-ED."
Into eyenzekileyo unyaka wam omncinci wekholeji ophantse wayikhanyisa ingxaki yam. Ndigqibe kwelokuba ndiyeke ukubukela iphonografi. Ndihleli iiveki ze-3- kwaye ngeli xesha ndaziva ndimangalisa - bendikwazi ukugxila eklasini, ndingadandathekanga, kuye kwafika amantombazana kwiiklasi zam (endandingakhuselekanga kakhulu ukuzisebenzisa). Ndandinomdla okhuthazayo, ndafumana amanqaku aphezulu kuyo yonke iminyaka yam, kwaye ndothusa ii-TAs ezimbalwa kum amandla am okukhumbula. Kungekudala emva koku, nangona kunjalo, ndaqala ukuphulukana nomdla kumantombazana (ndandicacisa, kodwa ndandingazi ukuba yile nto). Ndaqala ukoyika ukuba ndingu gay. Kwaye ke, lonke udibaniso nomfana owayenomtsalane lwathintelwa. Khange ndiqonde kude kube yiminyaka kamva ukuba ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo i-HOCD.
Ndade ndaya kunyangi ukuya kuthetha ngale nto. Andikwazi ukuchaza ukuba kutheni ndingenamdla kumantombazana. Ngenxa yoko, ndoyika, ndaza ndabuyela kwi-porn. Amabanga am ehla kancinci, kwaye ndaziva ndingento yanto kwaphela. Into endandingayiqondi kukuba ndandiziva ngathi ndiya "konwaba" - ngokungathi kunzima ukugcina ulwazi. Eklasini, into endinokucinga ngayo yayingamantombazana kunye nokungabikho kwam. Ndaphinda ndakhulisa isimo sengqondo esibi kumantombazana - ngokungathi babezimisele ukundenzakalisa.
Andizange ndiyazi ukuba ndim owayezilahla-hayi bona. Ngapha koko, into ehlekisayo kukuba, BENDIHLALE ndinamantombazana kufutshane nam - ndifunda nam, siphume sidanisa kunye nam, ngobuqili ndicebisa ukuba kufuneka "sixhome" ngakumbi (umntu oxinezelekileyo ozithobayo akazibambisi ngobuqili. imikhombandlela - ifana nomntu oyithiyileyo indlela abajonga ngayo kwiifoto, kodwa enyanisweni zihlala zilungile).
Nje ukuba ndiyibone ingxaki yam, ndiyeke i-PMO kwangoko. Ngethamsanqa ngelo xesha, bendingenakho ukufikelela kwi-intanethi ekhaya (ngekhe ndikwazi ukunika u-P ngenye indlela). Kwakuphambene nzima. Ukurhoxiswa kwakunzima ngendlela emangalisayo kwiiveki zokuqala ezimbalwa. Andikwazi nokuzibamba. Ndibe nesiphumo sokubukela iphonografi "ethambileyo" emsebenzini - ukubukela, nditsho neOrgasm. Ekugqibeleni ndiyekile oku kuziphatha. Ndafunda ukuba oku kwenza ukuba iinkanuko zibe nzima ngakumbi. Ekugqibeleni ndayeka nokubukela umabonakude- imiboniso “eshushu” yenza kwanzima ukulala ebusuku. Ndiyekile kwi-Porn ngaphezulu kweenyanga ezintathu, kodwa hayi kwi-Orgasm. Ukusuka kwi-Orgasm, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ndihlale malunga neeveki ezi-3. Ndihlala ndizixelela ukuba u-O ungcono kunokuya ku-P. Ngendlela, yindlela ebendimi ngayo.
Nangona kunjalo, nangona ndaziva ndibhetele kakhulu, ngalo lonke ixesha ndibetha inqaku le-2 leveki ndandiqala ukuziva ndikhulu, ngokungathi kukho into eyenzekayo ngaphakathi kwam-ubomi baziva bungcono, kwaye ngokubhekisele kwabasetyhini, ndandingazithembi kwaye ndinomdla wokuphila ubomi indlela endandifuna ngayo. Ndibe nobuchule ngakumbi, ndihlala ndibhala amabali kangangeeyure. Ndandibukhali-kwaye ndandikwazi nokuthetha ulwimi lwesibini ngokutyibilikayo. Ndaziva ndithembekile - ndingathandabuzi iinjongo zam okanye ngaba ndiza "kuyenza". I-non-porn yam ihluke kakhulu kwi-porn-me. Kufana nobusuku nemini.
Ngokujikeleze i-2000 ndangena kumjikelo wobundlobongela kunye ne-masturbation. Kwaqala kancinci kodwa kungekudala ndaqala ukuba nemicimbi ye-ED. Ekuqaleni ndandingazi ukuba iphonografi yingcambu yengxaki. Ndaya kugqirha wam wandinika iyeza leepilisi ze-ED. Iipilisi zanceda kodwa ndandingenawo umnqweno kunye nokuqhuba ngesondo endikwenzileyo kwiminyaka eyadlulayo kwaye ukufumana kunye nokugcina ulwakhiwo kwakunzima kakhulu. Ngandlela thile ndikwazile ukugcina ubudlelwane bendisebenza kakhulu ke bendizolahla i-ED yam kukudinwa, uxinzelelo kunye nezinto ezinzima engqondweni yam.
Ndingu 27 kwaye bendihlupheka nge-ED iminyaka embalwa ngoku. Nangona kuqala ndenza into eyenziwa ngumntu wonke kwaye ngokucacileyo ndizamile ukuyityeshela. Ekugqibeleni ndaya kubona ugqirha malunga nayo. Iimpendulo andinike zona azikaze zanelise. Ukuqala kwam ukutyelela, wabaleka kuvavanywa isifo seswekile kunye namanqanaba e-testosterone kwaye wathi akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokwam, ngenxa yoko wafika kwisigqibo sokuba kufuneka ibe luxinzelelo.
Le yayingeyompendulo ilungileyo kum kuba, ngaphandle kokuzikhukhumalisa, andingomntu ukhathazekileyo. Andikaze ndibenayo nayiphi na imiba ephambili yokuzithemba, kwaye xa ndingazange ndifumane ulwakhiwo ebhedini kunye nentombi yam eyona mvakalelo iphambili ndaziva ngathi kukudideka okucocekileyo (ngokufutshane kujoyine ukukhathazeka). Ngamanye amaxesha ndaziva ndonwabile, kodwa ixesha elininzi ndandizifumana ndicinga ukuba ndizama nje ukuziqinisekisa ukuba kumnandi. Oku kwakungalunganga.
Lo mbandela ubangele mna kunye nentombazana yam intombazana sobabini uxinzelelo. Singabahlobo bobuntwana (kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba sibenomphefumlo ukuba umntu angabonisa ngokwenzululwazi ukuba ukhona kum) kwaye ngokupheleleyo nothando. Nangona kunjalo, ukungatshatanga kule minyaka mihlanu idlulileyo kundikhokelele kwinto endiqondayo ukuba kukuxhomekeka okungenampilo kwi-intanethi ye-intanethi. Eyenye eqhubekekayo sakuba siqalile ukuthandana ngenxa yemisebenzi yethu eyahlukeneyo esisigcina sikude omnye komnye ixesha elide. Emva kokuba siqale ukungaphumeleli ukulala kunye, ndaqala ukuthatha i-Cialis kugqirha wam njengesilingo sokuqala kwaye andizange ndifumane ndawo ngaphandle kokugcina intloko ebuhlungu. Ndikhawuleze ndayishiya (loo nto ibiza kakhulu) kwaye ndazama ukukhangela eyona ndlela isebenzayo.
Khange ndiqalise ukuthatha amayeza e-herbal ngokungacwangciswanga njengoko kucetyiswa ngokungacwangciswanga yi-intanethi (ngaphandle kwe-zinc ngaxeshanye). Ukuxelelwa ngugqirha ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uxinzelelo lwentsebenzo lukhokelele kum rhoqo ndizama ukuzikhathaza ngokwam ngethemba lokufumana imvakalelo efihliweyo okanye imemori enokuchaza ukuba yintoni unobangela. Ingxaki yayikukuba, ngaphandle kwemikhwa yam eyonelisayo yesondo, ndandingenayo imicimbi yokwenyani. Anditshayi, andisebenzisi ziyobisi okanye andiselanga tywala. Ndizilolonga rhoqo, ndinomsebenzi olungileyo, ndiqhuba iklasi yekarati ecaleni kwaye ndinazo zonke izinto endizithandayo. Ndinabahlobo abakhulu abandijongileyo kwaye ngokungafaniyo kwaye ngokubanzi ndinobomi endingenakukhalaza ngabo.
Ubuntu obunobulumko, ndizolile, ndisebenza nzima, njengokucinga ngaphandle kwebhokisi malunga nezinto ngokubanzi ezijongwa njengezinqabileyo ngabantu abaninzi endidibana nabo. Ngokubanzi ndaye ndacinga ukuba andinakuchukunyiswa ngengqondo xa kuthelekiswa nabantu abalapha phaya abanemicimbi yezempilo yengqondo, ke oko bekungakhange kubonakale kusengqiqweni ukuba bendinexinzelelo.
Kwaye ngokwendalo njenge-idiot ndandingayinanzi ngokupheleleyo i-porn njengesizathu esinokubangela imicimbi yam, ikakhulu kuba andifumananga lwazi luchaza njengolu hlobo kwi-intanethi okanye kwiimagazini zengqondo. Ekuphela kwento eyayiqhubeka ikhula yayikukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kunokuwuthintela njani umhlaza wamadlala esibeleko kunye namanqaku aliqela athi nokuba iphonografi ayinampembelelo kwintsebenzo.
Ngamanye amaxesha bendizama ukuyeka nje. Elona xesha lide endiye ndaliyeka ukunqumla iphonografi kunye nokuhlaziya amalungu esini kwakuziintsuku ezilishumi elinesihlanu, kodwa ndaphinda ndaqala emva kokuba kungasebenzi ukuphucula ukusebenza kwigumbi lokulala. Kwandishiya ndanomsindo kwaye ndadana nangakumbi. (Ekubuyiseleni njengoko ndibhala oku ngoku ndiye ndabona ukuba ndibala neentsuku-ndingayiqondi njani ukuba ibilikhoboka lomlutha?)
Ndizamile ngeViagra, Cialis kunye neLevitra ukuya kunyanga i-ED kwaye eneneni ndineepilisi ezininzi ezishiyekileyo endingazimiselanga kuzisebenzisa kwakhona. Amava am kukuba ikwayingozi nakwimpilo yesondo. Ukudibanisa ingxaki, ndisebenzise amayeza e-ED kunye ne-hard core porn. Yeyona ndlela ikhawulezayo yokuphulukana nomdla kwisini kunye nokudibanisa ingxaki ye-ED. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba iziyobisi ze-ED zinokwenza ukuba i-penis ime nkqo ngokhuthazo oluncinci, kodwa luziva ngathi lulungiso-mbumbulu. Oku kundenze ndaqonda ukuba emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ulwakhiwo kufuneka lube ngamava okudibana ngokweemvakalelo nangokomoya phakathi kwamaqabane, kwaye ingeyiyo injongo ngokwayo.
Ukuqhubeka kweempawu kwezi nyanga zimbalwa zizayo kundikhokelela ekubeni ndibone uGqirha wokuKhathalelwa ePrayimari ekhokelela ekuhanjisweni kugqirha wezamayeza. Amanqanaba wam testosterone ayeqhelekile, ujonga usulelo lwe-Prostate / ukudumba kwaye wafumanisa ukuba yonke into ilungile. Oku kukhokelela ekuchongeni okungagungqiyo "kokuXhalaba kokuSebenza" kunye nesampulu yeLevitra yokundibuyisela endleleni. Andivumelani noxilongo njengoko bendihlala ndizithembile kubuchule bam ngaphambi kweempawu zam zokuqala, kungoko kutheni ukuba ngequbuliso ndizikhathaze ngayo? ILevitra indinike ulwakhiwo, kodwa ayizange ibe yimpendulo. Njengomntu oneminyaka engama-24 ubudala ngenye indlela eyindoda, ndandingakulungelanga ukuxhomekeka kwipilisi yokulala ngesantombazana endandithandayo.
Ndiye ndenza i-masturbating kwi-porno iminyaka. Ndiphulukene nayo yonke i-libido iminyaka eliqela kwaye ndinomodareyitha we-ED. Unyango, unyango lwengqondo kunye nengqondo ziye zaliphanda ityala lam macala onke. Ndifumene ukuba ndine-ADHD, GAD kunye ne-dysthymia. Ndenze i-penile doppler eyenziwe kwaye ukuhamba kwegazi kungabonakali. Zonke iihormoni ziye zajongwa kumaxesha aliqela. Ndingumsebenzi wezempilo, ke uyazi. Kuqhelekile nakwabo bane-ADHD ukuba nemicimbi yokulutha.
Ndaya kugqirha wezifo zengqondo ndamxelela yonke into kubandakanya iziyobisi ezingamanyala. Wayengakholelwa ukuba iphonografi izakubangela i-ED kwaye wandichaza i-40mg (idosi ephezulu) yeCitalopram ye "motavation". Ndiyithathile kuba bendicinga ukuba iyakundinceda ndinamakhoboka oononophala.
Kulungile oko kwandinceda ixesha elide kwaye ndivuyiswa yi-gf yam kodwa kungekudala ndafumana intloko kwaye ndaqaphela ukuba i-citalopram i-ED kunye ne-GJ Doctor. Ngalesi sihlandlo saphinda sabuyiselwa ngoku kodwa kodwa sasilungile. Ngoko ndaya kumgqirha wam oqhelekileyo waza wandibeka enye into elwa neengxaki ezixhatshazelayo ezenza i-calmes down kwaye ineempembelelo ezifanayo zesondo kunye ne-citalopram (kwakhona wtf). Ngoko ke ndakhetha ukungayithathi.
Kodwa andazi ukuba xa uyeka uxinzelelo ngokukhawuleza, ufumana uxinzelelo olubi ngakumbi. Ndandine-fuckin 'agry kwaye ndidandathekile ngelo xesha, kunye nokutshintsha kwemo ye-porn erhoxayo, ndaye ndagqibela ukwahlukana ne-gilrfriend yam kuba ndandicinga ukuba umlutha wamanyala awuzukubangcono kwaye ndandikucaphukela ukuba kufutshane naye ngenxa yoxinzelelo ukuhamba kweemvakalelo. Emva kwelo xesha ndasebenza kwimivuzo ephantsi ndihlala ekhaya ndithatha ezinye iziyobisi ukuze ndiziqonde kwaye ndiziphilise ngemilingo.
Ibali lam malunga nokufumana indlela elula (iingcebiso ezifunekayo)
Emva koko ndaqala ukuba neengxaki (kwikholejini). Ndiza kulahleka ukulungiswa kwam ukuzama ukufaka ikhondom. Hayi, kufuneka ube neentliziyo ezilungileyo? Ukungabi nobuthongo? Ikhondom inzima kakhulu? Iphonografi yaqhubeka. Kwaqhubeka kwenzeka. Ngamanye amaxesha ndiyakwazi ukukwazi ukufumana nzima ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndize ndibe nesondo kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kwakungasebenzi kakuhle.
I-porn kunye ne-ED zaqhubeka nasemva kokuba ndiphumelele. Ndacinga nje ukuba ndinamandla e-libido kwaye kufanelekile ukuba ndenze njalo. Kodwa i-masturbation, i-pornography kunye ne-orgasm yaqala i-crutch xa ndandixinezelekile kunye neziyobisi xa ndifuna ukubaleka ixesha elide. Ndiyenzile yonke imihla. Ewe, i-ED iqhubeka isenzeka. Ndiya kuba nomfazi omhle uhamba ze efuna ukulala nam kwaye bekungayi kuba nzima ukusindisa ubomi bam. Ingaphaya kokukhathazeka. Ndilahlekelwe ngamathuba amaninzi.
Ndaya kugqirha womchamo owenza lo mgangatho kanye ngaphezulu, wavavanya amanqanaba am e testosterone, wandibhengeza njengesiqhelo, kwaye wandinika i-cialis. Ndandineminyaka engama-28, ndifanelekile, kwaye ndisebenzisa uCialis. Emuva kwengqondo yam bendisazi ukuba ayinakuba yimpendulo le.
Ndikhe ndaya kwisayikholojisti yokongeza kwezesondo ... Okokuqala, kwakubiza, iidola ezili-100 ngeseshoni. Emva koko wayefuna ukuba ndithathe iphepha lemibuzo elikhulu lokufumana enye i-179 yeedola, eyandixelela ukuba ndandixakiwe .
Emva koko wayefuna ukuba ndithenge ikhithi yokuqalisa kunye neencwadi kunye nee-cd enye i-395 yeedola, kunye nokuzibandakanya kwelinye iqela lenkxaso elibiza i- $ 400. Emva koko wathetha ngokubandakanya usapho lwam, kwaye wathi ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo kuhlala kuthatha ubuncinci iminyaka emi-3. Uthe izinga lokuphumelela liphezulu kakhulu, kwaye labizwa into efana nenkqubo "yendlela ethambileyo". Ingcinga yam yile, le "ndlela ilula" yenkqubo mhlawumbi ifana nendlela ende yokufumana kwakhona.
Ngokuqinisekileyo inokusebenza, kodwa emva koko ubhalwe "njengomlutha" okanye "ukubuyela ebukhobokeni" iminyaka, kunye nosapho lwakho, izihlobo, naye nabani na ongomnye uzokwazi ngako. Ndimxelele ukuba enkosi, kodwa hayi enkosi… ayenzelwanga mna le. Ndingathanda ukuzama iintsuku ezingama-90, ukukrazula i-band-aid, uqalise kwakhona endaweni yoko.
(Ubudala 20, uSuku 61) Ndabona ugqirha we-endocrinologist oqinisekisile ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngam enokubangela i-ED. Ndibe nokufumana okungaphezulu kokusa, kwaye bendinamaxesha aliqela xa ndibafumene esidlangalaleni ngokubona intombazana enomtsalane. Ndathetha nogqirha wam malunga nento yokuba ndiza kubona intombi yam yangaphambili-veki ezayo, kwaye ngokwenene wancoma ukuthatha iViagra njengendlela yokugqithisa ukuxhalaba komsebenzi. Ubize iskripthi kum.
(Ubudala 50) Ngesiquphe kwiminyaka eyi-7 eyadlulayo wafumana ixesha elikhulu le-ED. Kwakungathi kucinyiwe. Ayizukusebenzela ifav P yam! Ukuya kwi-doc kunye ne-GF ngelo xesha kwi-tow owayengazi nto malunga ne-PMO kwaye zonke iimvavanyo zilungile. Phantsi kancinci T kodwa oko ngekhe kubangele ukusilela okupheleleyo kobomi ezantsi phaya. Ufumene i-Cialis emiselweyo kwaye ndibuyile kwishishini kunye nee-GFs kunye ne-PMOing mihla le kwenye iminyaka eyi-7!
Ingaphezulu kwenyanga edlulileyo i-Cialis ngamanye amaxesha yayingasayi kusebenza ne-GF kwaye kulapho ndaye ndenza uphando kwi-intanethi kwi "Porn ED". Ubukrelekrele obungcwele bendimangalisiwe yile nto bendiyifunda.
Ndacinga ukuba ndingahle ndilahlekelwe yintoni kwaye ndayeka ukumisa i-PMO kunye ne-M enye kuphela kwisitya ngaphandle kokulungiswa kweveki yokuqala kunye neveki yesibini kodwa kungenakulungiswa. Emva koko befile phantsi kweentsuku ze-30. I-flatline Ndiyicinga. Ndiza kwenzeka nje phakathi kwe-GFs ngoko ixesha eligqibeleleyo.
Ndixhome apho ezinye iintsuku ezingama-30 okanye ke emva koko kwenzeka ukuba ndiphuphe iphupha lamanzi lokuqala! Imithi yasekuseni kube kanye okanye kabini ngoku. Le freakin isebenza! Andikwazi kulinda de ndifumane i-GF yam elandelayo! Ke ngamafutshane malunga nenyanga phantse akukho-PMO kwaye ndibona inkqubela phambili enkulu.
Ndaya kwi-urology, endocrinology, psychology kwaye ekugqibeleni ngengqondo. Akukho mntu unike isizathu esivakalayo kwaye kwakungekho sisombululo. I-Endocrinologist (emva kwazo zonke iintlobo zohlalutyo) undixelele ukuba ndiye kugqirha wengqondo, kodwa okwangoku "thatha i-viagra kwaye ujoyine 'em, kuba into ongayisebenzisi ekugqibeleni i-atrophies" (konke ngoncumo lwesardon). Ngokusisiseko "yisebenzise okanye uyilahle".
Ndandiphelelwe lithemba, kuba ndaye ndaphulukana nobuntununtunu bam. Ndacinga ngokuthetha noochwephesha wemithambo-luvo kuba ngathi ndiphulukene nonxibelelwano kwilungu lobudoda. Ndazi ukuba yayiyingqondo yam, okanye into enomdla. Ndade ndacinga ukuba oyena nobangela iphonografi. Akukho F ****** oyingcali ondinike isizathu, kwaye i-viagra kunye ne-cialis yandenza ndaziva ndimbi kakhulu kunakuqala. Fu **! Ndiyayazi, ndiyazi.
Ngamanye amaxesha ndandibukela iphonografi kwaye ndiphulula amalungu esini ngamaxesha e-4 ngemini! Ngamanye amaxesha ndandihlaziya i-2 okanye i-3 ngamaxesha ngosuku. Ndandinentombi yonke kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kwaye asizange sibenangxaki yokwabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kokuba ngamanye amaxesha andikwazi ukuphuma emlonyeni. Khange ndikhathazeke nyani malunga noko nangona.
Xa ndaqala ikholeji, ndandisebudlelwaneni obutsha kwaye ekuqaleni sasinobomi obukhulu besondo. Kwaye ngolunye usuku, ngokukhawuleza, ndilahlekelwe ukulungiswa kwam xa ndandelana ngesondo. Ndingu 22 kuphela (24 ngoku) kwaye andinakukuchaza. Andizange ndibe neengxaki zomzimba okanye iingxaki zokuxhalabisa xa kuziwa ngesondo. Ngoko ndazama konke. Iipilisi, i-kegels, ndade ndaya kudokotela. Akukho nto ya sebenza.
Kwaye xa ndiqhubeka nokungafumani ukulungiswa okuqinileyo, kwaye ndaqala ukukhupha kwangaphambili, ndaqala ukukhathazeka kakhulu, okwakungenakunceda. Ngoku kufuneka ndibenentombi yam indinike umlomo ukuze ndifumane ulwakhiwo olomeleleyo ngokwaneleyo. Xa simanga ndingafumana ulwakhiwo, kodwa xa ndingena ukungena kuhlala kunyamalala kwaye kufuneka andinike umlomo. Kwaye xa ndingena, ndingena njengemizuzu emi-2. Iyacaphukisa kwaye iyacaphukisa.
Ngethamsanqa ndinentombazana enenkathalo nenothando kakhulu :). Ndiye ndabona ukuba kukho into engalunganga xa ndingakhange ndifumane ukhuni lwakusasa okanye ii-erections ezizenzekelayo, kwaye iphonografi rhoqo ayizange indivuse (ngamanye amaxesha ukulungiswa kwam kwakuya ezantsi xa ndibukele kwaye ndiphulula amalungu esini kuwo), kwaye andizange ndivulwe intombi yam ngokulula. Ndaphulukana nenkuthazo eninzi ndaza ndonqena, eyayingenguye kwaphela.
Ndifumene iViagra kwaye yandinceda NGAMAXESHA athile. Ndineqela lamaqabane ezesondo kangangeminyaka embalwa. Ambalwa amanyala amabi (uxolo ulwimi lwam) amava. Ndiqaphele ukuba le nto iphazamisekile. Kuya kufuneka ndikwazi ukufumana ilitye elinzima kwimizuzwana embalwa nokuba kwenzeka ntoni. Kodwa umtsalane kumantombazana aqhelekileyo wawungekho. Ndisazi ukuba batshisa njengesihogo, kodwa u-dick wam akazange afune ukuvumelana nam. Ukwenza izinto zidideke nakum, ndisaqhubeka nanamhla ndomelela kakhulu ngomthi wakusasa.
Ndabona ugqirha wam, watyhola yonke into ngoxinzelelo lwentsebenzo, eyayenza ingqiqo 'kuwo onke amava amnandi. Mhlawumbi intloko yam yayingekho. Kodwa njengomntu oqhelekileyo we-PMO, andizange ndiyiqonde ukuba i-dick yam kufuneka ibe nzima njengesihogo ngokulula kunye nomzamo omncinci, kwaye kufuneka ndibe nemvakalelo enamandla apho. Ke ndimamele umfana ndaza ndasebenzisa iziyobisi.
Yonke imini ndivakalelwa njenge-horny. Mhlawumbi unento enokuyenza ngokusebenza emsebenzini wonke ngeenxa zonke ngezithunywa zezulu. Ngabantu abathandekayo, ndingu 30 kwaye, de ndide ndifumene umlutha we-PMO kunye nesi siza, ndandiqinisekile ukuba le nqanaba liye laphela.
Ndithenga kuyo yonke ipropaganda yamayeza asentshona kunye nentengiso yeViagra eneenkwenkwezi kubafana kwi30 yabo. Ngaba nonke niqaphele loo nto? Kubonakala ngathi mva nje iViagra kunye ne-cialis bajolise kubafana abancinci nabancinci. Ngapha koko, konke kuyinyani!
Nangona i-libido pendulum enkulu engqondweni yam ingenakwenzeka kunye nayo yonke into ejikelezayo, ndibona ukuphucuka okuphawulekayo. Namhlanje kwakungenangqondo [ezininzi izinto ezikhethiweyo]. Iintsuku ze-48 kwaye ucinezela. Ndiceba ukuya kwii-90 iintsuku okanye ndide ndive ngathi ukuphuculwa kufinyelele kwi-plateau jikelele.
Kukho, kwaye kusekho, ngaphandle kwesikhokelo esisebenzayo kulo mcimbi. Oko kukuthi, akukho mijelo yezempilo ene-PMO enzima kwiluhlu lwazo ezibangelwa yi-ED.
(Ubudala 26) Inxalenye yokugqibela yebali endicinga ukuba ilapha ndizama ukufumana unyango lokunyanzeliswa kwam, kwaye, njengoko ixesha liqhubeka, i-ED yam isiya isiba mandundu. Ndikhangele ixesha elininzi ukufumana nantoni na eluncedo kwaye ekuqaleni konke endikufumeneyo yayingamanqaku andixelela ukuba ndisebenze ngakumbi (ebengasasebenzi - sele ndisebenze ngaphezulu kunexesha lam), ukutya okunempilo ukuqala ukuthatha ubomi bam), kunye nokuhlambalaza OKUNYE!
Ndandisoloko ndidibanisa i-masturbation kunye noononophala, kwaye ke ndaqala i-PMO imihla ngemihla. Oku kuncede ukulahla ukukhathazeka kwam ngokwesondo ekusebenzeni, kodwa iiseshoni zam PMO zazikho ukusuka kwi-45min ukuya kwiiyure ze-3. Ndiqale ukuqaphela ukuba ngamanye amaxesha bendinobunzima bokufumana ngaphezulu kwe-10-20% nditsho ne-porn. Nditshintshile ndaza ndakhangela intombazana egqibeleleyo (ende enemilenze blonde) ndaya kukhangela imiboniso ethandekayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo kwakungekho monakalo kuloo nto.
Kodwa inkungu yam yengqondo yayiqhubeka isiba mandundu. Imemori yam yangaphambili yemifanekiso ethembekileyo ethe, nangona kungekho nto inomdla, ihlala indinceda ndikhumbule ngokweenkcukacha zemizuzu izinto endizifunayo ukulungiselela iinjongo zemfundo, zasilela ngokupheleleyo. Ewe, emva kweeveki nje ze-3 i-PMO ikhulule inkumbulo yam yaqala ukuphucula ngokuthe ngcembe, ndaqala ukufumanisa ukuba kulula kakhulu ukugxila kwinto endixelelwa ngabantu. Ngethuba lokuqala ebomini bam ndaqala ukuba namabhongo okwenyani, kodwa yinto ekufuneka ndiyenzile. Isibonelelo esinye esinomdla kukuba ukubhala kwam kwakhona kube sekufundeni! Ewe sisiqabu esikhulu ukuba sikwazi ukufumana ii-erections ezinzima kwakhona, nangona ndifumana ulwakhiwo oluzenzekelayo naphi na phakathi kwe-40% ukuya kwi-95%. Kodwa kungcono kodwa, ndinokuphinda ndonwabe nje kukuma nkqo. Khange ndibone oku ukusukela nge 15.
Ndiyakwazi ukucinga ukuba isondo kunye neendlela ezinjengalezi kufuneka zibe (uxolo ulwimi lwam kwakhona, kodwa ndiyesaba ukuba akukho nalinye igama eliya kwenza) ngokumangalisa. Nantsi enye yeeroloji. Akukho kuvuza! Bangaphi abo bafumanayo bafumanisa ukuba abasenakho ukuvuza umchamo emva kokuchama? Akukho mntu wakha wakwazi ukuchaza oku kuvuza kum, ngaphandle kokuba ithi yimilo ye-urethra, kwaye inokuthi "isengwe" emva kokuchama ukuyinqanda, okanye izihlunu zePC zomelezwe ukunceda. Nokuba ndizamile ntoni, andinakuze ndiyeke inani elifanelekileyo lokuvuza kuba ndandineminyaka eyi-15. Ngoku ndiphilisiwe kakhulu kule ngxaki.
Kuya kuba yinto enomdla ukuba nayiphi na enye i-non-PMOers inokuqinisekisa ukuba oku kuyinyani nakubo. Ndiyicinga ukuba i-spunk igxininise ukuhamba komchamo! Ngaba inokuba lula kangako? Ukuba kunjalo kutheni kungekho mntu ucinga ukuyithetha? (Iinyanga ze-2 ngaphandle kwe-porn kunye ne-masturbation encinci) Ngentsasa elandelayo ndicinga ukuba ndilawule i-80-85%, kwaye ndakwazi ukuya ku-O emva kwemizuzu emi-5 okanye njalo. Ukukhululeka okukhulu okulandelwa yimvakalelo yokuba uneminyaka engama-20 ubudala ungayichaza. Emva koko malunga ne-4 okanye iiyure ze-5 saphinda salala ngesondo. Ndingafunga ukuba besikuyo imizuzu eyi-15-20 okanye kunjalo. Uye wandimisa emva kwemizuzu emi-5 esenza ukuba icace ukuba akafuni O ngokukhawuleza, siyithathile kancinci kancinci de wafika kwakhona. Lonke ixesha ndicinga ukuba bendiyi-90% okanye kunjalo.
Ndingatsho nje ukuba kule ndawo kubonakala ukuba kusebenzele mna kugxile kumntu omnye. Ngabo bonke abantu ababhinqileyo apho kunokuba lula ukuphulukana nengqwalaselo yakho, kodwa kufuneka sigxile, kwaye ngethemba lokuba ukugxila akuphelelanga nje.
Ndineendaba kuwe. BONKE i-urologists iya kukuxelela ngokufanayo. Urologists baqeqeshelwa ukunika kuphela izizathu zengxaki ebonakaliswe ngonyango ukuba yingxaki. AKUBA urologists uza kukuxelela i-porn okanye u-masturbation yingxaki kuba oogqirha ngomthetho abakwazi ukukunika izizathu zokucinga.
Ndibonile ii-urologists ezininzi ngexesha lam kwaye bonke bandixelele ukuba kusentloko yam.
Ukukhutshwa koonobumba akuyinto into ugqirha okanye i-urologists inokusombulula ngayo. Ufumene impendulo apha apha kule forum. Kuwe kuwe ukuthatha eli qonga ngokubanzi okanye cha.
Ku-51, ndaya kugqirha ndifuna iimpendulo ze-ED yam. Undixelele into efanayo, "Yonke isentloko yakho", emva kokundibuza imibuzo embalwa malunga nobomi bam ngokwesini (akukho nto malunga nokusetyenziswa kwe-porn, nangona kunjalo). Oo, bendinomsebenzi wegazi owenziwe kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi koko kwaye i-testosterone yam kunye nezinye iihormones zonke bezikwinqanaba eliqhelekileyo.
Undinike iisampulu ezimbalwa zeViagra ukuze "ndibuyise ukuzithemba kwam." Kodwa uthe akaziva ukuba ndifuna ukuba kuyo njengesiqhelo. Kwakuyinyanga ezintandathu ezidlulileyo kwaye ukufumanisa kwam kukuba ayisiyongqondo kuphela. Endikufundileyo kwabanye kule forum, kunye namanye amanqaku oononophala abangela ukuba i-ED ibe yinyani. Ndineentsuku ezimbalwa kude nomhla we-90 (ukuyeka ukuzonwabisa) kwaye ndibona inkqubela phambili emangalisayo. Ukudanisa kancinci kunye neqabane lam kuyanditshisa kwaye kuyandikhathaza ngoku. Kwaye ijoni lam likhahlela!
Xa ndandidla ngokugqithisileyo ngokugqithiseleyo kwimizuzu engama-2 ngosuku, ndaqala ukufumana ubuhlungu obuphantsi, ubuhlungu besisipha, ukulahleka kobunzima bomzimba, ukukhathala, ukunyanzeliswa, ngaphezu kwenkqubo yokukhathazeka (ukuphelelwa amandla), ukukwazi ukulungelelanisa, ukukhumbula kakuhle, ukufunda, njl .
Ugqirha wam wandixelela iingxaki zam iingqondo. ISIKHOKELO ESIFUNDILEYO KUNYE UKUZENZA !!! MASTURBATE KANINZI NOKUBA NGOKUBA 2 IIMI NGESUKU LONKE! Wen watsho njalo, ndambona kwiso kwaye ndamnika ukubukeka okubuhlungu kwe-reaalllllyyy. Watshintsha ngokukhawuleza ukuba ngamaxesha e-3 ngeveki. Wayemisela ukuba ndiyithathwe imihla ngemihla ngaphambi kweseshoni nganye yesigxina (isigxina sepilisi, kabini ngosuku kwiiseshoni ze-2).
[Guy icebisa elinye ilungu leforum] Gcina nje engqondweni bambalwa kakhulu (kufutshane nakunye) abacebisi abaye bafundiswa ngaphakathi kwesi sifundo. Ndaya kwenye. Akazange abonakale eyiqonda le nto. Okanye ubuncinci akazange ayithathe ngokungathí sina kwaye aqhubeke abuyele kumkhwa wam wokutshaya ukhula (ehlekisayo ngendlela endinokuyeka ngayo ngalo lonke ixesha ndifuna, kodwa ndingakwazi ukuyeka iphonografi). Ndicinga ukuba ndiyinyuse kangangezihlandlo ezithathu kwaye sachitha umzuzu omnye kwiincopho zayo. Uqondise nje incoko kweminye imiba, mhlawumbi acinga ukuba ibaluleke kakhulu. Nokuba ezinye izazi zesondo abanalo ulwazi oluchanekileyo malunga noku, nangona abanye benalo.
[Kwiforamu yeMedhelp] Sawubona bafana! Ndingu 27, ndingugqirha kwaye bendifumana ingxaki efanayo nawel. Ndijonge i-porn ngexesha lobomi bam bezesondo. I-orgasm yam yokuqala yayiyeyona ndandiyi-14 kwaye ndandibukele iphonografi xa kusenzeka oko. Intombazana yokuqala ndamanga xa ndandineminyaka eyi-13 kwaye ulwalamano lwam lokuqala ngokwesondo lwenzeka xa ndingu 16 kunye nomfazi ongaqhelekanga kwaye, ngelo xesha, andizange ndifumane ibhoner.
Ekuqaleni, xa i-Intanethi yayingafumaneki, bendihlala ndithenga iiteyiphu, iiDVD zamva kodwa ezi ntlobo ze-porn zihlala zinganiki amava anzima njenge-Intanethi. Umzekelo: ukuba umntwana wakho ulala ebusweni kumfazi, ukuba ukwi-Intanethi, ungaya ngqo kwindawo, kwaye ke ngenxa yoko ufumana i-orgasm ebukhali ngakumbi.
Ewe, ukuqhubekeka nebali lam, ngexesha lokufikisa kwam, ngalo lonke ixesha ndincancisa intombazana endidla ngokufumana ibhonasi. Emva kwento yam yokuqala eyenzakalisayo yesondo (nentombazana engaziwayo) kwiminyaka yam yo-16, ndiye ndafumana intombi xa ndandineminyaka eli-18. Amava am okuqala ezesondo kunye naye ayasilela, kodwa abalandelayo (kwiinyanga ezisi-7 zonke sathandana ) bekulungile. Ulwazi olubalulekileyo kukuba kunqabile ukuba ndifike xa ndingena, ngokufuthi kuye kufuneke ndiyeke kwaye ndiwugqibe umsebenzi ngesandla.
Emva koko, ndaye ndadibana nobunzima kwisikolo se-med kuba kwakufuneka ndifunde kakhulu kwaye phantse ndingabinalo ixesha namantombazana. Amava ambalwa endinawo, ndakwazi ukufumana iibhoner kodwa kunqabile ukuba ndifike kuvuthondaba olungena ngaphakathi (1 okanye 2 amaxesha). Emva kokuba ndandineminyaka engama-22, kwakukho i-boom ye-xvideos yasimahla kumnatha kwaye, njengoko ndandilikhoboka le-porn, ndahamba ngale ndlela, ndisiya ndibukela iimeko zesondo ezibi kakhulu. Njengoko unokucinga, ndaqala ukufumana amava abuhlungu ngakumbi. Ndiqale ukungabinabo boners naxa ndanga amantombazana. Njengoko izinto zimbi kakhulu, i-100% yam i-masturbation yenzeke ibukele i-porn kwaye ndaqala ukuphepha iimeko kunye nabasetyhini kuba ndine-ED.
Kwaye kwafika i-26 yam emva kwexesha apho ndaqala ukukrokrela i-porn njengesizathu sokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile. Ndandikrokrela kuba xa ndenza i-masturbated kwindawo yokuhlambela, andinakukufumana nzima kwaye xa ndikwazi ukuyenza, kwafuneka ndicinge imifanekiso engamanyala ukwenza njalo. Ndizamile nokuthatha iViagra ukuze ndilale nentombazana kodwa ayisebenzi (oku kuqhelekile i-erectile i-dysfunction (PRED)
Malunga neenyanga ezi-5 ezidlulileyo ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyeke ukubukela iphonografi kwaye ndiphinda ndibuyele rhoqo kwenzeka rhoqo. Nangona ndiqinisekile ngemeko yam, iimvakalelo zam zesondo zixhomekeke kakhulu kwi-porno kangangokuba kunzima ukuba ndiyeke. Kodwa ndiqala ukuba neemeko ezingcono ezenzekayo ebomini bam. Kwiintsuku ze-2 ezedlulileyo, ndazisa intombazana kwindawo yam, kwaye ngaphandle kwento yokuba andinayo loo "boner inzima" ndakwazi ukungena okokuqala. Kwakudingeka izandla zam ukuwugqiba umsebenzi. Intombazana yayifuna ngaphezulu, kodwa andizange ndikwazi ukuyifumana nzima kwakhona.
Into endikuxelela ngayo malunga nokukrazula i-PRED yiyo:
1- Mkela imeko yakho
2- Hamba nge-PORN. Ukuba awukwazi ukuyenza, khangela uncedo lwengqondo
3- Zama ku *** kuphela kunye nomfazi onalo
4- Ukuba unzima ukufumana kunye nomfazi, kufuneka uyihlawule. Mxelele ngemeko yakho kwaye ucele uncedo. Ukuba uyingcali, uya kuqonda
5- Yenza ingqondo yakho ibone iipateni ezintsha. Umzekelo, ukuba awukwazi *** ukungena ngaphakathi, musa nje ukwenza ***. Ngexesha, ingqondo yakho iyakuqonda ukungena njengendlela ekufuneka izonwabise ngayo.
I-6- Ukuba awungekhe uphile ngaphandle kokuphulula amalungu esini, ngenxa yokusebenza kwakho ngokweemvakalelo, yenze, kodwa UNGACINGI NGOKWENZA I-PORN xa uphulula amalungu esini.
I-7- Musa ukwenza i-masturbate ngokukhawuleza okukhulu: zama ukwenza ingqondo yakho ibone isantya esisezantsi (njengokungena) njengepateni yesantya ekufanele ukuba ***. Ukuba awukwazi *** ngesantya esicothayo, musa ***.
Ukuba ungayilandela le miyalelo ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba kwiinyanga ezi-3 ubuninzi, uya kufumana indlela eqhelekileyo yobomi bezesondo. Ewe akunakwenzeka ukuba uzilandele ezi zinto, kuba unezithintelo ngokweemvakalelo eziya kuthi ekugqibeleni ziyaphule iiodolo zakho ezisengqiqweni. Kunzima ukuyenza loo nto, kodwa njengoko ndizama, ngokungathandabuzekiyo kuphucula ukusebenza kwam.
Ndiyathemba ukuba amava am anokubanceda abanye benu. Ndithathela ingqalelo imeko yam njengenye yezona zinzima (eyam i-orgasm yam yokuqala yesondo yayikukubukela iphonografi- oku kuyiprinta enzima yeemvakalelo) kodwa ngethemba lokuba ndiza kuba nosuku lobomi obuqhelekileyo ngokwesondo. Yazi abanye ngengozi ye-porn.
Nge-26 ndangena kubudlelwane obutsha (obungazange buhlale ixesha elide. Xa kufikelele kwinqanaba lokwabelana ngesondo nentombazana andikwazi ukuzenza nzima. Ndonwabile kwaye ndinayo yonke into. Kwaye kwakunzima xa sichukumisa kodwa ngandlela thile ithambile xa kufikwa ekungeneni.Nangona inenekazi lindixelele ukuba lilungile kwaye andifanele kukhathazeka bendidandatheke ngokwenene.ndandineentloni kwaye ndidandathekile.
Ndacinga ukuba ngenxa yokuba ndingazange ndilale ngesondo iminyaka eyi-2 ndiye ndavelisa uhlobo oluthile lwe-ED. Le ngxaki ibindikhathaza ngokwenene kwaye ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndenze injongo yokuyilungisa.
Ndaya kugqirha kwaye lonke uhlalutyo lwaphuma lubi. I-prostate gland yayiqhelekile. Intliziyo yam yayilungile. Kancinci yonke into yayilungile ngokwenyama. Ngoko ekugqibeleni icinga ukuba ingxaki yayingokwengqondo. Ngoku, ndiyakwenza ngokucacileyo iinjongo eziphambili zeengxaki zam.
1) Ukubukela ubuninzi boononophelo kuthatha ulwalamano lwakho lwezesondo. Oko kukuthi, ukuba ubukela ubuninzi boononophelo bunjani ukuba uqeqeshe ubuchopho bakho ukuba ujabule kwimifanekiso ebonakalayo yomntu onesondo. Kwaye xa ulala ngesidumbu somzimba wakho kunye nobuchopho bakho asisetyenziswanga kulolu hlobo lwesenzo sesondo. Kukho amaphetheni amanyathelo obuthathaka kumbilini wakho, okwenza ugxininise kwaye ugxila kwizinto ozenzayo kwaye ulahlekelwe yimpembelelo. Ingqondo yakho yenza uxhulumaniso phakathi kokubukela i-movie ye-porn kunye nokuzonwabisa kodwa ukudibanisa phakathi kwesondo nomntu ophilayo kunye nokuzonwabisa kunzima.
I-2) Nangona ukhangele i-porn umbonisi ngokuqhelekileyo akahlali. Ngokuqhelekileyo ubukela i-pornography ngelixa uhleli (ngamanye amaxesha ulala okanye nantoni na). Kukho ukunyakaza komzimba omncinci ngexesha lokuhlaziya umzimba. Kwakhona, umzimba wakho neengqondo zakho zirekhodile le mpawu. Ngoko emva kwexesha elithile umzimba wakho ufunda ukuba isenzo socansi sinxulumene nokuxinzezeleka komzimba. Ukuhamba kwegazi encinane kuyadingeka. Kodwa isondo ngokuqhelekileyo sisisigxina kwaye sidinga ukunyakaza okukhulu kwaye ngenxa yoko igalelo legazi liphezulu. Kufuneka ubeke ikhondom, oyingozi kubahlali abaninzi. Kwakhona, oku kwenza ukuba ugxininise kakhulu kwaye ulahlekelwe ngumthi wakho.
3) Iidemon zingongeza kwixhala lokusebenza. Uqala ukwesaba ukuba ungafikeli iimpawu zabanye abantu. Ngoku, ukucinga emva kwento oku kundenza ndihombe.
ukusombulula le ngxaki? Kuya kufuneka wophule unxibelelwano lwe-neural phakathi kwe-porn kunye nolonwabo kwaye wenze entsha phakathi kwesondo nomntu ophilayo kunye nolonwabo. Olona hlobo kuphela lwendlela yokwenza kukuyeka ukubukela iphonografi kunye nokwabelana ngesondo rhoqo. Ngenxa yokuba usempilweni ngokubanzi, emva kwexesha elithile umzimba wakho uya kwenza inethiwekhi entsha ye-neural. Kwimeko yam ndiye ndaya kukuthandana namantombazana amatsha rhoqo ukuze nje ndilale nawo (ndingakubizeli ukuba wenze okufanayo, kodwa zininzi iinethiwekhi zentlalo kwi-intanethi apho ungadibana khona namaqela anomdla. apho kwaye rhoqo akukho mitya iqhotyoshelweyo).
Ekuqaleni bendisebenzisa i-kamagra gel (i-generic ye-viagra ebiza kakhulu kwaye ifumaneka ngokulula kwi-intanethi). Emva kwenyanga eziliqela andizange ndiyidinge. Umzimba wam wadala iipateni ezintsha ze-neural. Ngokukhawuleza ndabona le ntombazana ikhulula nayiphi na ingubo yakhe ndaya ndonwaba kwangoko. Ngoku, nje ukuba ndibeke ikhondom ndiya kuba nzima kuba ingqondo yam idibanisa ukungena kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ndiphulukene nayo nayiphi na imeko yoxinzelelo-nokuba yeyiphi na. Ndibona intombazana endiyithandayo ihamba ze kwaye ndifuna ukumqhekeza nokuba kwenzeka ntoni. Yonke enye into ingaya esihogweni. Nantsi indlela ekufanele ukuba ibe yiyo.
Ke ukwenza isishwankathelo sabafana. Akukho sizathu sokukholelwa ukuba uneengxaki ze-ED ngaphandle kokuba uneengxaki zempilo okanye ungaphaya kwama-50. Yonke le nto ingumba wiring. Kwaye ungathathi nakuphi na ukusilela entliziyweni. Yindlela eya ekuzitshabalaliseni. Umzimba wakho usenokungasetyenziselwa ukulala nomntu oyintombazana kuba kule minyaka ukuqeqesheleyo ukubukela iphonografi kunye nokubaleka. Uninzi lwamantombazana luyaqonda (ukuba akakho kukho izizathu ezingakumbi zokuvalelisa kuye). Sebenza nje ngokutshintsha le patheni kwaye konke kuya kuthi ngokuthe ngcembe kuza ngokwendalo.
[Ilungu leQonga] Sonke siyazi ukuba oogqirha banee-ajenda zabo njani kwaye babanceda abo banika imali. Ke, ukuba umntu uya ngokungaboni kwezi "ziingcali" ze-ASSECT, uya kucetyiswa ukuba aphulula amaphambili ngokuthanda kwentliziyo yakhe kwaye, ukuba kuvela ingxaki, kulungile… mnumzana .. sineViagra kunye neCialis kunye neLevitra kunye noThixo wazi enye into… “SINESICOMBULULO KWIZO ZONKE IINGXAKI ZAKHO.”
Ekuphela kwento abayilibalayo kukuba oko kubizwa ngokuba “zizisombululo” akusebenzi. Ndiyithetha le nto kuba bendihleli ndiphinda-phinda ukuya kugqirha wezesondo ("olungileyo", njengoko abantu bencomela yena), ndamxelela zonke iingxaki zam ze-ED xa ndandineminyaka engama-25 ubudala. Emva kweeyure ezimbalwa "zokucebisa," endichithe imali eninzi kuzo, ekugqibeleni wandinika iViagra.
Ewe kunjalo, njengabo bonke abantu apha abenza i-porn-eyenze i-ED, YAZI ukuba oku (kwaye akunako) ukusebenza ixesha elide. Ke… (ewe, ndiyinto ehlekisayo apha.)… Mthembe “ugqirha” wakho kwaye ugxothe nabuphi na ubungqina “obungenabungqina” kule ndawo, okanye reddit / nofap okanye rsdnation. Endaweni yokwenza i-damn reboot, qhubeka… hlawula imali kwaye ulahlekelwe LOT yexesha lakho elixabisekileyo kwii-ASSECT PhDs!
Eyona nto imbi kakhulu ndichithe imali eninzi koogqirha nakwiiurologist, ngokusebenzisa imigqaliselo yemiyalelo njl njl. Naxa ndandixelela ugqirha we-urologist ndandiphulula amalungu esini ngesiqhelo okungenani kanye ngemini kwaye bendijonge kakhulu kwaye ndomelele P (wayeqaphele ukukhankanya "akukho nto ingekho mthethweni" njengokuba, ndandingajonganga nantoni na engekho mthethweni kwaye ndingamfuni Ukucinga ngenye indlela!), Kodwa akazange ayikhankanye.
Uye wandicebisa ukuba ndizame ezinye zezempilo zezesondo ezenziwa nguMasters noJohnson (kodwa khange ndikhuphe nokugigitheka xa bendikhankanya ndiza kuzama "inkosi yam johnson noMasters noJohnson), undipakishe ngeesampulu ze-viagra zasimahla wandithumela indlela yam… (ikhonkco)
Ugqibe kwelokuba wenze umsebenzi wegazi kunye nazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo kwaye udibane nogqirha womchamo. Ndathetha naye ukuba abit kwaye wandinika iisampulu zeepilisi ze-ED (sele ndizamile ukusebenza). Ndaphinda ndazisa into malunga ne-porn kwaye u nurse wakhe kinda wahleka wandijonga sorda ngathi ndisisidenge. Ucebise ngento malunga nenaliti yenaliti (ouch?) Ukuba iziyobisi azisebenzi. Okwangoku ndithandaza nje into engalunganga ngegazi lam ukuze ndikwazi ukulungisa ngokukhawuleza.
Ubonise urologist namhlanje. Usuku lonke luyinto engathandekiyo esihogweni.
Molo-ndifuna nje ukuthi akukho Fap isebenza andinakuba nayo i-orgasm nge-PIV. Ukujongana nayo bendizama yonke into. Njengamantombazana ahlukeneyo kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zekhondom / ezenziwayo kwaye ndaya kugqirha wezesondo. Ekuphela kwento endisebenzeleyo ayikuko ukuba iFap inyange ukunyuka okucothisiweyo.
Emva kweenyanga ndizama, ndaya kwi-urologist. Wathi wayenomdla kwaye wayengenayo ingxaki emzimbeni wam. Ndandibhala phantsi. Ndaya kuye ekhaya namhlanje, thabatha iphilisi kwaye ndazama. Ufumana ukulungiswa okubuthathaka kwaye akukho mva. Andizange ndive nantoni na ehla apho.
Ukukhawuleza phambili, sasilwa (emva kwenye inzame) saza saqhekeka. Ndawela enzonzobileni, ndicinga ukuba ndophukile. Ndaya kwisayikholojikhthi kangangexesha elithile, kodwa khange incede. Akukho nto yabonakala ngathi iyanceda. Ndaqala ukunqanda amantombazana kunye nokunxibelelana ngokwesondo. Uqale ukubukela iphonografi ngakumbi nangakumbi. Okwangoku, ukulungiswa kwam, nditsho ne-porn, yayiyi-7/10.
Ndiye ndawanga amanye amantombazana emva koko, kodwa ndinempendulo encinci phaya ezantsi (uninzi lweebhola zangoko kunye neeblue, akukho zilungiso). Ndandisoyika ukuzama ukulala ngesondo kwakhona. Emva kokuba kunye nentombazana e-sexy kakhulu, kwi-19 yam, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndizame ukufumana ingcambu yengxaki yam kwakhona. Uye kwi-sexologyst kunye nenye i-urologist. Ndandihlawula ukubonisana okubiza kakhulu. Ndandivavanyelwe igazi lam kuyo yonke into, kwaye konke kulungile. Emva koko, ndayeka ukumbonisa, andizange ndiqalise. Ndandisoyika ndingenathemba.
Kunyaka odlulileyo, ndaphuma kunye nentombazana ndiza kuphinda ndibeke umngcipheko kwakhona. Saqala ukuncokola mihla le. Ndandihlala kakuhle naye. Bendigula yiyo yonke lento. Ndamxelela ukuba ndiyintombi, kuba andinakuphumla ebhedini. Siqhubeke nokubonana. Kwenzekile ke. Ndandihleli ndedwa ekhaya. Uye wagqitha saqala sazenzela. Kwakhona, uArnold omncinci wayengaphenduli. Uye wandinika isandla, intloko, akhonto. Sazama malunga nenyanga.
Ngenye imini ndandifunda izinto ezithile kwaye ndaya kwisihloko malunga noxinzelelo nokuzilazila. Omnye umntu uthumele i-TEDx Uvavanyo olukhulu lwe-Porn. Andikwazi ukuchaza indlela endivakalelwa ngayo ngevidiyo. Yonke into, zonke iimpawu ziyahambelana. Ndandifana no "EUREKA!".
Kwiveki kamva, ndayiqala. I-NoFap yayikuphela kwethemba lam. Ndaqhubeka ndibona laa ntombazana. Malunga neeveki ezi-2, bendiya kuba nolungelelwaniso kwakhona kwakhona. Malunga neenyanga ze-2, ndafika okokuqala (kunye nentombazana), kodwa i-stil ayikwazi ukungena. Kodwa bekusebenza!
Kuninzi, FLATLINE! Ukukhethwa kwam kwandipha xa ndihamba naye. Kwadlula ixesha elininzi. Ndandisaqala ukulahlekelwa yithemba lam kwakhona, kodwa ndagcinwa, ukufunda izikhundla apha, kwi-YBOP nakwezinye iiwebhusayithi. Xa ndagqiba inyanga ye-6th ngaphandle koononophelo, i-motivation yami yaqala ukuphela. Kodwa ndandingenanto yokulahlekelwa, ngoko ke ndaqhubeka ndihamba. Ngaba abanye babebuya kwakhona (ngaphandle koononophelo, nje M).
I-PLOT-Kule veki ndigqibe iinyanga ze-10 ngaphandle kwe-porn. Ndagqiba kwelokuba ndithathe i-cialis ukwenza into eyahlukileyo kunokwabelana ngesondo nje ngomlomo kunye nentombi yam (ewe, andazi ngokuthe ngqo ukuba nini, kodwa sasisondele nje kubudlelwane obukhulu). Ndifumene ulwakhiwo lwe-10/10 olungenakuphela lilize. Sasabelana ngesondo nge-PIV! Kwakumangalisa!
Kwiintsuku ezimbini kamva, izolo, salala kwakhona. Ngeli xesha ngaphandle kokuthatha nayiphina ipilisi! Btw, kwakungumhla wam. Kwakuyisipho esihle kakhulu. Ngoku ndiyakuthi kwenzeke. Ndiyonwabile njengesihogo.
Ndifuna nje ukuthi ipenisi yam kwaye ndiyakukhumbula ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na into ehlabathini. Besinamaxesha amnandi kunye kwaye bendicinga ukuba soze sohlukane. Khange ndiqonde ukuba andikuphathanga kakuhle, kwaye bendikukhathaza, kwaye ekugqibeleni ndikubulale. Andikwazi ukuyeka ukucinga ngako konke ukonwaba esibe nako kunye namantombazana, ingeyiyo le kuphela esasiyinyama nayo kodwa nendlela owamenza ngayo u-dick wam ukuba ajikeleze kwiibhulukhwe zam xa kwakudlula intombazana eshushu. Ukushiya kwakho uye waziva ngathi inxenye yam iswelekile kwaye ndihambahamba ngokungakhathali nokuba sisidalwa esingaqhelekanga ngaphandle komnqweno wokulala ngesondo, okanye nokuba fap, kwaye i-dickie encinci ayisayi kuze iphinde ivuke.
Ngenxa yokuhamba kwakho, ndiye kwagqirha ndafumana uvavanyo lwegazi ndafumana uCialis, kwaye wandithumela ekunciphiseni ukujongana neengxaki zesini. Akukho nanye kwezi nyikima inokufumana nasiphi na isizathu sokuba ushiye kwaye ndathi ndilungile kwaye ndiphilile, kwaye mhlawumbi yayiyinto engqondweni yam. Ndikukhumbule phantse iminyaka emithathu kwaye ekuqaleni khange ndiqonde nokuba umkile. Ndacinga nje ukuba kukho into engalunganga ngo-dick wam kodwa kwavela ukuba yena, kunye nam, besilahlekile oyena mhlobo wethu-wena!
Ngenxa yokuba ushiye, intombi yam ishiywa. Ngoku ndihlala ndedwa emva kokuba ndifumene ukuba wena kunye naye ushiye ngenxa yoononophala. Ndifuna kukubuyisela ngaphezu kwanto nayiphi na into kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba ufunda le leta kwaye unqume ukuba uza kubuya. Ndiye ndaqonda ukuba ubaluleke kakhulu kum kunye ne-dickie kunanoma yini enye. Ndiyathemba, uza kubuya ngoku ngoku ukuba ndikhuphe ngaphandle kwe-bitch ephosakeleyo kunye nawe kwaye ndinokuphinda ndihlangane kwakhona kwiindawo ezininzi ezintsha.
Ngaphandle kokubhala le ncwadi kuwe kwaye enethemba lokuba uza kubuya ndiyakwazi ukufunda kwakhona le nto ukuba ubuya kwaye ukhumbule ukuba ubomi bufana nani ngaphandle kwakho. Buyela emuva REAL kungekudala !! Uthando uPenis kunye nami.
Re: Ukwazisa kwaye ufuna iNgcebiso
Hahaha! Xa ndixelela ugqirha wam womchamo ukuba andinakukwazi ukuba nzima kwaye andisenamdla kwezokwabelana ngesondo, wathi "kulungile, sukulala ngesondo ngoko". Yeyiphi ehambelana ngokuchanekileyo.
Kungenzeka ukuba ezinye iingcali zilwa nokulutha kwe-porn ngokwazo. Ilungu leforum labhala oku:
Ndisebenza ngokuxhasa iinkqubo zekhompyuter zezinto ezininzi zonyango. Ngamanye amaxesha sidibana ne-porn koogqirha beekhompyuter- kuyacaca ukuba abanye babo bafumana ukulungiswa kwe-porn phakathi kwezigulana. Kuyaphazamisa oku-ngakumbi ukuba ugqirha wakho ukwisondo se-dopamine rush ngaphambi kokuba uthathe intombi yakho uyokumbona ukuba ayokujonga!
[Ngokubhekiselele kwi-prostatis] Ingcebiso yabo kukujula yonke imihla ukucoca iprotrate. Akuzange kundincede kwaye ndinentlungu iminyaka (iintlungu ezinzulu apho uluma khona emithini ukujongana nazo). Iingcali zaseAsia zicebisa ngokuchaseneyo -ukungaxinzeleli iprostate kwaye ungabinayo i-ejaculate. Ngokujonga emva, ndiyakholelwa ukuba zichanekile. Okwangoku akukho ntlungu kwaye ndiziva ngcono ngengqondo, kulawulo kwaye ndasusa inkawu emqolo.
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