I-Porn, Intsingiselo kunye ne-Coolidge Impact (2011)

Ngaphandle kweColidge Impact bekungekho i-intanethi ye-intanethi

Igrafu ye-Coolidge Effect

I-Coolidge Effect yinkqubo yakudala yebhayoloji enokongamela ukwaneliseka kwakho okudangeleyo emva kwe-orgasm. if kukho amaqabane amatsha acela ukuchunyiswa. Ngaphandle kwayo, ngekhe kubekho iphonografi ye-Intanethi. Le nkqubo ye-neurological ibona into entsha entsha enokwenzeka-kubandakanya ezo zisesikrinini sakho-njengethuba elixabisekileyo lemfuza, kwaye ikuqhubele esenzweni ngeekhemikhali ze-neurochemical ezinamandla.

Kwenzeka ntoni xa uwisa inkunzi yempuku ekhejini enempuku eyimazi esabelayo? Okokuqala, kukho isiphithiphithi ngokwesondo. Emva koko, inkunzi iqhubeka nokukhathala kuloo mazi. Nokuba ufuna ngaphezulu sele wonele. Nangona kunjalo, buyisela ibhinqa lokuqala kunye nentsha, kwaye Presto! Inkunzi iphila kwaye izama ngamandla ukuchumisa apha. Ungayiphinda le nkqubo kunye neemazi ezintsha de aphantse afe ngenxa yokudinwa. Izazinzulu ziyazi le nto njenge Impembelelo yeCoolidge kwaye kuye kwaba njalo ijongwe kwabasetyhini, naye.

Dopamine

Impuku ilandela ibhinqa ngalinye elitsha ngenxa yokunyuka kwe-dopamine (i-neurochemical) kwingqondo yakhe. Akukho nto yendalo esondelayo ekukhupheni i-dopamine eninzi njengesondo, kuba imfuza yethu ifuna ukwenza indlela yabo kwixesha elizayo ngaphezu kwayo yonke enye into. I-Dopamine surges iyalele ibuzi ukuba ungashiyi iqabane elivumayo lingavundiswanga.

IDopamine "kufuneka ndiyifumane!" neurochemical emva kwayo yonke inkuthazo. Ngaphandle kwayo besingayi kuzihlupha ngokuya enkundleni, sifikelele kuvuthondaba, okanye nokutya. Xa i-dopamine ihla, ngokunjalo nenkuthazo. I-Dopamine ikwalikhonkco kuzo zonke iziyobisi. Ingqondo yekhoboka ikhula kancinci kuyo, kwaye ke, ngokumangalisayo, ukuyilangazelela ngakumbi.

Buyela kwimpuku. Ukulandela ikopi nganye kunye nomntu obhinqileyo ofanayo umvuzo wakhe wokujikeleza ukhupha i-dopamine encinci nangaphantsi. Qwalasela le grafu ingasentla. Ixesha lesihlanu impuku idibana ne enye female kumthatha 17 imizuzu ukuba ehle. Ixesha le-ejaculation liyanda njengoko i-dopamine ikhutshwa kuncipha. Kodwa ukuba uhlala etshintshela kwinoveli yabasetyhini, unokuwenza umsebenzi wakhe ngokukhawuleza onke amaxesha amahlanu. Ingqondo yakhe ivuselela amandla akhe nge-squirts eyomeleleyo ye-dopamine ekuphenduleni iqabane ngalinye elitsha. *

Ukubhanqa izibini

Ngokungafaniyo neempuku, abantu bayabakhonkco ababini. Sinentambo, ngokomndilili, ukukhulisa inzala kunye—kwaye sifumane ulwaneliseko olufanelekileyo kumanyano lwethu (okunokwenzeka). Kodwa i-Coolidge Effect ihleli kuthi, kwaye, kwaye ivuse xa umsebenzi ukhala ngamaxilongo ngokuvakalayo ngokwaneleyo. Ndakha ndancokola nendoda eyayikhulele eLos Angeles. Wavuma esithi: “Ndiyekile ukubala kwizithandwa ezingama-350, yaye ndicinga ukuba kumele ukuba kukho into engalunganga kum kuba ndandisoloko ndiphelelwa ngumdla kubo ngokwesini ngokukhawuleza. Abanye baba bafazi bahle ngenene, nabo. ”

Ngexesha lokuncokola kwethu umfazi wakhe wesithathu wayesandula ukumshiya kwindoda yesiFrentshi kwaye wayedimazekile. Wayengasenamdla kuye.

Iphonografi ye-Intanethi: i-Coolidge Effect kwi-twin turbos

I-erotica ekwi-Intanethi inokuphembelela umsebenzisi ngokungakhathali. Inoveli engapheliyo "amaqabane" agcina i-dopamine ikhula. Omnye umfana waqaphela indlela eyayiyinto entsha ngayo ihuku:

Ndaqokelela amanyala amaninzi. Bendicinga ukuba ndiqokelela uvimba weenkcukacha wolonwabo. Kodwa andikhumbuli ndibuyela emva. Inxalenye enyanzelisayo yinkwenkwezi entsha, ividiyo yenoveli, isenzo senoveli.

Akumangalisi ukuba izifundo ezininzi ezisebenzisa i-porn zibonisa ukuba iimpuku kunye nabantu abahlukanga kangako xa kufikwa ekuphenduleni kwinoveli yokuvuselela ngokwesondo. Ngokomzekelo, nini Abaphandi baseAustralia ubonise ifilim efanayo evuselela inkanuko ngokuphindaphindiweyo, imilungu yezifundo zovavanyo kunye neengxelo ezizimeleyo zombini zibonakalise ukwehla okuqhubelekayo kokuvusa inkanuko yesini. “Indala efanayo” iyadika (indawo yokuhlala, ebonisa ukwehla kwe-dopamine).

Emva kokubukwa kwe-18-njengokuba izihloko zokuvavanya zixubusha-abaphandi baqalisa i-noero yeros for 19th Kunye ne20th ukujonga. Bingo! Izifundo kunye neepenise zazo zaqala ukuqwalaselwa. (Ewe, abafazi babonisa imiphumo efanayo.)

Isiphumo se-Coolidge Novelty spikes dopamine

Izazinzulu ziye zafunda ukuba ukuziphulula amaphambili kwinoveli yamanyala ukwandisa umthamo we-ejaculate kunye ne-sperm motile (xa kuthelekiswa nokuphulula amaphambili kumdlali oqhelekileyo). Kwakhona, ixesha elithathiweyo ukukhupha i-ejaculate lehla kakhulu. Ngamafutshane, into entsha yezesondo iguqulela kwisidoda esichumileyo kunye nokuphuma ngokukhawuleza, okwenza nakuphi na "ukudityaniswa kwesibini" kusebenze ngakumbi, kwaye zibiza kakhulu.

Amaqabane ngesondo anoveli

Isiphumo se-Coolidge sikwabonakaliswe njengomvuzo omkhulu womsebenzi wesekethe xa ubhengezwe kwinoveli iqabane ngokwesondo. I-Dopamine iphakamisa nayiphi na into entsha-ingakumbi ukuba isondo. Uphando luqinisekisa ulindelo lomvuzo kunye nobutsha kukhulisana ukonyusa uchulumanco kunye nokubuyisela ingqondo kwi-limbic. Le ndawo yakudala yobuchopho ayikhathali ukuba sele usabelana ngesondo ngaphezu kokwaneleyo; ifuna iziphumo zofuzo. Umzekelo, uSooty, a inkunzi yehagu, waqhekeza kwindlwana yeemazi ezingamashumi amabini anesine. Kwaqengqeleka iintsuku emva kokubanjwa kwakhe, waphathwa kakubi. (Uphando kwezinye iimpuku lubonisa ukuba ukuchacha ngokupheleleyo kwengqondo kuthatha malunga iintsuku ezisixhenxe, kwaye uphando lwabantu lukwatyhila a umjikelo post-ejaculation ubuncinane iintsuku ezisixhenxe.)

Ufuzo lukaSooty lwaluvuya nangona kunjalo; wazala iihagu ezingama-42. Amathuba anjalo ayekade enqabile kumadoda azo zonke iintlobo, kodwa i-Coolidge Effect iqinisekisa ukuba xa kuvela ithuba, amadoda aya kungayihoyi imida yawo yendalo kwaye ahambe kuyo de awele.

Ixesha lokubuyisela

Ngokucacileyo, amadoda adinga ixesha ukufumana amandla abo kunye namandla emva kokugqithisa iindlela zabo zokwanelisa ngokwesondo nge-dopamine/novelty. Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni kubasebenzisi banamhlanje abangamanyala kwi-Intanethi? Bangaphi abadlulayo kwiindlela zabo zokwanelisa ngokwesondo-ngaphandle kokuzinika ixesha leveki ukuze balulame? Kusoloko kukho elinye “iqabane” elihendayo elifuna ukuqhamisa. Ngokucacileyo, xa amadoda ane-porn-induced erectile dysfunction eyeka ukusebenzisa i-porn. amava angoyikiyo "i-flatline.” Emva kokuba bephakamise unyawo lwabo kwigesi, i-libido yabo ithatha i-nap ehlala iiveki-inguqu egqithisileyo yexesha likaSooty.

Izinto ezintsha zinokwenza amaqabane abonakale engathandeki kangako

I-Dopamine ayikhululwa nje ukuphendula into entsha. Xa kukho into evuselela ngakumbi kunokuba bekulindelwe Umjikelo womvuzo wengqondo ukhupha i-dopamine kunye nomlilo njengokuphambana. Iphonografi ye-Intanethi ihlala ibonelela ngento engalindelekanga, into kinkier.

Ngokwahlukileyo, isondo kunye nesithandwa sakho hayi ihlala ingcono kunokuba bekulindelwe. Kwaye ayinikezeli iindidi ezingapheliyo. Inika ezinye iintlobo imivuzo epholileyo ngakumbi. Ngelishwa, inxalenye yangaphambili yengqondo yakho ithatha ubungakanani be-dopamine ilingana nexabiso lomsebenzi nokuba ayikwenzi oko.

uthando oonodoli kunye ne-Coolidge EffectOkukwintsusa: Uvuselelo oluninzi kakhulu lokwenziwa unokwenza iqabane lakho lifane ne-oatmeal ebandayo. Ngokuka a Ucwaningo lwe-2007, ukuchanabeka nje kuthotho lwemifanekiso yeemazi ezivuselela inkanuko yesini kubangela ukuba indoda ilijongele phantsi iqabane layo lokwenene. Umnika imilinganiselo ephantsi kungekuphela nje ekuthandeni, kodwa nangokufudumala kunye nobukrelekrele. Kwakhona, emva kokusetyenziswa koonografi, izifundo kwi-a Ucwaningo lwe-1988 bachaze ukoneliseka okuncinci kwiqabane labo elisondeleyo-kuquka uthando lweqabane, inkangeleko, umdla wokwabelana ngesondo kunye nokusebenza.

Kwanamashumi ambalwa eminyaka edlulileyo, isondo kunye neqabane elifudumeleyo, elamkelayo libonelela ngokubanzi nge-dopamine ngaphezu kokuphulula amaphambili (kwakhona) kwi-Playmate encangathi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, nje ukuba uMiss Julayi “efakwe isichumisi” ngokupheleleyo, uye wafumana i-dopamine encinci yokubetha kwiigophe zakhe zomoya. Kwafuneka ulinde uMiss August. Kwafika iivenkile zabantu abadala. Kodwa mangaphi amaxesha onokuthi uye kwividiyo enye ngaphambi kokuba kufike ixesha lokuthatha entsha? (Ukuhlawulela iphonografi ... intle kangakanani.)

Ukuzingela okungapheliyo

Iphonografi ye-Intanethi yanamhlanje, ngokuchaseneyo, ibonelela ngeefireworks ezingapheliyo ngokucofa iqhosha. Unokuzingela (omnye umsebenzi okhupha i-dopamine) iiyure, kwaye ube namava amaqabane amaninzi ngesondo rhoqo ngemizuzu elishumi kunezinyanya zakho zomzingeli ezinamava ebomini. I-Dopamine ibethe emva kokuba i-dopamine ibetha inokubangela imeko eguqulwe njengeziyobisi. (Umzekelo, iCocaine, inetyala elikhulu kwi-dopamine egqithileyo ejikeleza ebuchotsheni.) Inamandla ngokwaneleyo ukodlula iindlela zengqondo zakho zokuhlutha ngokwesondo zesiqhelo emva kwe-orgasm.

Ndiye ndadlala i-masturbating kwimifanekiso ye-porn engatshintshiyo ukususela ekubeni ndiselula. Andizange ndibe nengxaki nge-ED de kube malunga ne-6 kwiminyaka eyadlulayo. Ingxaki yaqala ngokufikelela kwimifanekiso engamanyala ye-Intanethi. Njengoko isantya soqhagamshelo sisanda, kukwanjalo nokubakho okungaphaya kokujonga kangangoko ndinako. Ndaye ndagqiba ekubeni ndibuyisele ingqondo yam ukuba ivuke kuphela ngokuphulula amaphambili kwi-porn. Ndisebudlelwaneni nomfazi omangalisayo, omhle kule minyaka mi-4 idlulileyo kwaye ndiqaphele ukwehla kancinci kwi-libido yam kunye nokunyuka kwe-ED.

Amanyala angenabungozi?

Uhlala usiva ukuba, "I-porn ikhona ngonaphakade, ngoko kufuneka ingabi nabungozi." Ukanti eli bango alinantsingiselo xa isiphumo esinamandla sento entsha kwingqondo siqondwa ngokupheleleyo. Iphonografi yanamhlanje ye-24/7 eneentlobo ezingasikelwanga mda ayikuvumeli nje ukuba uthobe inkanuko yakho yesini. Ikuvumela ukuba uye kude ngaphaya loo mnqweno wokutya—mhlawumbi ube nemiphumo engathandekiyo. Kwabanye, ukwenza i-masturbating kwi-porn ye-intanethi iba yinto enyanzelekileyo kunesondo:

Kunokuba nje "ukuxubha," sisifo esihlaselayo sinokuzibandakanya kwisenzo esizibiza ngokuthi "ukuhlela": sizizisa kumda we-orgasm ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngaphandle kokuphuma. Sigcina amanqanaba aphezulu kakhulu okuvusa inkanuko yesini ngokoqobo iiyure. Ndingumthathi-nxaxheba osebenzayo kumaqela amaninzi e-Intanethi agxile ekuphululeni amalungu esini, kwaye umodareyitha omnye.

Abaninzi bethu bahamba ngoku ukuyeka umlingani-wesondo, nangona iqabane lihlala likhona kwaye likulungele. Siye saqulunqa igama elithi "impopho yokuxilonga" kwinto eqhelekileyo yokukwazi ukuyifumana kwi-intanethi, kodwa kungekhona kumlingane.

Yhuu! Indlela yokuguquka ibalwe ukwandisa inzala kunye neentlobo zabo zofuzo zinokuqhuba abasebenzisi be-porn kude kumaqabane okwenene? Ewe, kuba indlela isebenza kwi-dopamine. Ingqondo yakho icinga ukuba ukuba kukho into ekutshisa ngayo, kufuneka ibe lithuba lokuchumisa elithembekileyo kuthixo (nokuba lifanelekile ukuthatha imingcipheko eyingozi, emva kwemini).

Ngaba i-Coolidge Effect ikhokelela "ekubhubheni kwabafana?"

Ngaphandle kokuba uyayiqonda indlela yengqondo efihlakeleyo ye-Coolidge Effect, ekubongoza ukuba unyathele kwirhasi nokuba sele ufumene okungaphezulu kokwaneleyo, kunzima ukudibanisa i-libido enganelisekiyo nento yokuba ingqondo yakho ilungile. ukukhula kancinci ukusabela ngenxa yokugcwala kwe-dopamine. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kunokuziva ngathi i-libido yakho ayinelisekanga. Le meko iyamangalisa kuba i-aphrodisiac enamandla yamanyala ngakumbi ekuqaleni ivakalelwa ngathi impendulo nakweyiphi na inkathazo yokusebenza ngokwesondo.

Inyani, nangona kunjalo, kukuba ukungoneliseki okubangelwa yi-neurochemically-indused deep in the brain kusenokuba kukhuthaza umnqweno wakho wokufuna uvuselelo olungakumbi. Inqaku lokuba i-libido thermostat yakho ihlaziyiwe iya kuba ufuna i-porn ye-Intanethi ukuze ufumane ukwakhiwa okunempilo okanye ukwehla. (Ewe, emva kwemini, abafana babeziphulula amaphambili ngokulula ukuba bafikelele kuvuthondaba hayi amanyala.)

Ezinye izibonakaliso ziya kunyuka ukungazinzi, ukucaphuka kunye nokunganeliseki, umnqweno wesini se-kinkier, ukufumana iqabane lakho lincinci okanye linyanzeliswa ngaphezu kwe-Intanethi, okanye imfuno yezinto ezigqithiseleyo. Iingcali zibiza iziphumo ezinjalo "unyamezelo.” Bangabonisa inkqubo yokulutha emsebenzini kwingqondo.

UFilipu Zimbardo

Umzekelo, jonga oku Intetho ye-TED yemizuzu emihlanu 'Ukuphela Kwabafana?' yingcali ngengqondo edumileyo uPhilip Zimbardo njengoko echaza indlela “ukuba likhoboka lokuvuselela inkanuko” okusichaphazela kakubi isizukulwana siphela. Omnye wabasebenzisi be-porn wathi:

Mna ngokobuqu ndabandezeleka kwizinto ezininzi athetha ngazo kule vidiyo. Ukusukela ekuyekisweni kwephonografi, ukunyanzeliswa komntu kuye kwehlile. Ndidlala iziqhulo ezihlekisayo yaye ndithetha ngokutyibilikayo ngaphandle kokucinga ngoko ndikuthethayo okanye ndinexhala lokuba abanye baya kusabela njani. Ubudlelwane bam nentombi endithandana nayo iye yaba yeyobuqu ngakumbi njengoko ezinye iindonga endizixhomileyo ngoku ziyawohloka. Ividiyo egqwesileyo.

Uninzi lwengxaki luqala nge-Coolidge Effect etyhutyhayo, eqhutywa yinto entsha-imvubu yendalo yokuqinisekisa ukuba uyawenza umsebenzi wakho ukuba amaqabane awamkelayo akhona, nokuba sele usabelana ngesondo ngokwaneleyo. Ufuzo lwakho alukhathali ukuba yintoni ekwenza lula uxinzelelo lwakho, ikhusela impilo yakho, okanye igcina ubudlelwane bakho. Bakubongoza ngokuzenzekelayo ukuba ubambe ukhetho olukhupha eyona dopamine. Xa i-e-hottie ikhala, ingqondo yakho ithatha ukuba ukwishishini lokusasaza imfuza. Leyo yeyona nto iphambili-kungakhathaliseki umonakalo owenziweyo nina.

* Idatha ekwigrafu yokuqala engentla ithathwe kuphando ngeenkunzi zeegusha, hayi iimpuku-ngoko ke iinkunzi kufuneka zifakwe umfanekiso endaweni yoko. Nangona kunjalo, isiphumo esifanayo siye sabonwa nakwiimpuku.