Kwi-porn emva koko kwaye ngoku: Wamkelekile kuQeqeshiso lobuGcisa ndijonga ukuba kutheni kwaye kutheni i-porn evela kwi-intanethi inyanzelekile, kunzima kakhulu ukuyeka ukubukela.
Jonga izimvo ezininzi ezingezantsi kwinqaku.
"Ngaba siyisizukulwana sokuqala ukuphulula amaphambili ngasekhohlo?"
Iphosta yeReddit kuthethwa nje, "Ngaba sisizukulwana sokuqala ukuphulula amalungu esini sasekhohlo ngenxa yokuba izandla zethu zasekunene zikhangela iphonografi?" Ewe, sonke isizukulwana siba "yi-ambi-wackstrous" njengoko inqwelo enye yatsho.
Kudala-dala, ukuphulula amalungu esini kufuna iingcinga ezininzi. Yayiqheliselwa eyona nto iyiyo: “Kuqala ndiza kuyenza le… kwaye….” Akusenjalo.
"Ndiyinxalenye yesizukulwana sokugqibela ukuqala ukuphulula amalungu esini ngaphambi kokuba babe ne-Intanethi. Andikwazi ukuqonda ukufikelela kwimbonakalo yazo zonke iintlobo zesondo ngaphambi kokuziva ndinomdla wokuphamba. Xa ndandisengumntwana, sonke sasinomdla wokujonga ii-boobs, kodwa ithuba lavela kuphela ngesihlandlo esinye okanye ezibini ezizukileyo ngonyaka [ngekhathalogu]. Ndiyazibuza ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ii-tits-tap zichaphazela njani izizukulwana ezizayo.
Kuthetha ukuthini oku kutshintsha? Benzisa i-intanethi ngokugqithiseleyo ngokugqithiseleyo i-videogaming kunezesondo zangempela. Idibanisa ii-genes zakho zeNombolo 1 eziphambili-kunye nomvuzo omkhulu wendalo (isondo) -kunye ne-con
Ukutshintsha okumangalisayo, nokuhanjiswa okumangalisayo kwenqaku leWorld Warcraft. Isandla sakho sasekhohlo sisebenzisa uxinzelelo kunye nesantya ngakumbi kunokwabelana ngesondo. Isandla sakho sasekunene sicofa kude "kwimowudi yokukhangela," njengoko amehlo akho ejinga kwiscreen esinye ukuya kwesinye kwaye ukugcuma kugcwalisa iindlebe zakho. Akukho orchestation yokucinga efunekayo.
Iphonografi, kunye nendlela ehanjiswa ngayo kwingqondo yethu, itshintshile. Awu, iingqondo zethu azikenzi uhlengahlengiso, kwaye oku kunokudala iingxaki ezingalindelekanga:
“Ndineminyaka ndisebenzisa iphonografi. Ndithanda nje ukubukela abantu abelana ngesondo. Ingxaki yam yanda malunga neenyanga ezili-18 ezidlulileyo xa ndifumana i-Intanethi ngesantya esiphezulu. Ngequbuliso, ndaye ndasuka ekubukeni imifanekiso kwi-intanethi, ukuya ekubukeni iividiyo kunye nemidlalo bhanyabhanya ekwi-intanethi kwangoko. Khange ndikhe ndicinge nzulu ngayo, kodwa emva kokubukela phantse yonke imihla-ngamanye amaxesha ndide ndibethe iiyure ukuphela ndibukele iividiyo ezingamanyala-ndaye ndaqala ukubona utshintsho kubomi bam bobulili kunye nomfazi wam. Andizange ndibe neengxaki ze-ED ngokwenene. Kodwa ngoku, nanini na xa mna nomfazi wam siqala ukulala ngesondo, andinakufumana ukulungiswa. Ngamanye amaxesha ndiyifumana, kodwa ngokukhawuleza iqala ukuthamba. Ukwabelana ngesondo yinto engekhoyo kuthi. ”
Ahh, iintsuku ezindala:
Ngeentsuku zam zesikolo, unokuba nethamsanqa lokubona iphonografi kwividiyo yeVHS kwakanye kwithuba elithile kwaye babethanda ukuba ngumgangatho woburhabaxa. Nje ukuba ukhawuleze uyidike, ibibuyele ekucingeni ngentombazana endala esecaleni. Abantwana bafuna ukukhuselwa kule intanethi.
Omnye umfana:
"Umahluko phakathi kwe-intanethi yanamhlanje kwi-intanethi kunye nakwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo. Ngoku, ungaya kwiiwebhsayithi ezahlukeneyo kwaye ufumane iphonografi yasimahla kunokubukela xa uyeka umsebenzi wakho kwaye wanikezela ubomi bakho kuwo — konke ngombala ophilayo. Unokukhetha umntwana wakho owuthandayo, nantoni na oyifumana kakhulu, kwaye ubukele ividiyo emva kwevidiyo yayo. Ukuba ubungqongqo buyancipha kwimizuzwana embalwa, okanye uyakruquka kukubukela imizimba efanayo imizuzu emibini ngqo, ungatsiba kwiseti entsha usenza izinto ezintsha. Inokubangela umonakalo omkhulu ekuxabiseni kwakho into yokwenene kunanini na ngaphambili. ”
Ngokuchanekileyo. I-intanethi ye-intlanzi ixhaphaza ngaphezu kwesifiso sesondo kuphela. Iqhuba abasebenzisi ngaphaya I-libido yabo yendalo: Abasebenzisi banokubukela iphonografi kwiifestile ezininzi, ukukhangela ngokungapheliyo, ukujonga ubutsha obutsha, ukukhawuleza ukuya kwiibhithi abazifumanayo zishushu, batshintshele kwingxoxo yesini, batshise izibuko zabo ze-neurons ngesenzo sevidiyo okanye i-cam-2-cam, okanye ukunyuka ukuya kuhlobo olugqithisileyo kunye nezinto ezivelisa ixhala. Yonke isimahla, ifikeleleka ngokulula, iyafumaneka ngemizuzwana, iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, iintsuku ezisi-7 ngeveki, kwaye inokujongwa kwiifowuni nangaliphi na ubudala. Kungekudala, iya kuphuculwa kunye neethoyi zesondo ezilinganisa ukunxibelelana komzimba.
Sondeza kwingqondo
Yintoni ebangela olu phango lungaqhelekanga? Dopamine. Yeyona nto iphambili kwi-neurochemical emva kokufuna umvuzo. Amanqanaba e-Dopamine yeyona barometer apho sithatha isigqibo (kwaye sikhumbule) ixabiso lalo naliphi na amava. Ayothusi into yokuba, inkanuko yesini inyusa i-dopamine ngaphezulu kakhulu kuneminye imivuzo yendalo.
Uninzi lwabantu lucinga nge-dopamine njenge "buzz," "iswekile ephezulu," okanye ukuqhuba ukuya kwi-orgasm. Ngokwenyani, i-spikes ngokuphendula kwisikhuthazo esihambelana neemfuno zokusinda. Ngu Khuthazo. Isitshela ukuba sisondele okanye siphephe kwaye sinike ingqalelo kuyo. Ngaphezu koko, isitsho yintoni okumele uyikhumbule, ngokunceda ukubuyisela ubuchopho bethu.
I-intanethi ye-intanethi iyenzeka nje ukuba ifake i-spikes ye-dopamine zonke yentshukumisa “ephucukileyo” esathi savela ngayo ukuze sijonge:
- Imvakalelo enamandla: ngaliswa, Ukoyika, ukunyaniseka, ixhala
- Inveli: imithombo yokutya entsha, izidlo ezintsha, abatsha abasha
- Ukufuna no ku khangela: ukuhlola indawo, ukutya okanye amathuba okulinganisa
- nantoni oko kwaphula okulindelekileyo: bonanzas ezingalindelekanga okanye iingozi
Amagama ama-Erotic, imifanekiso kunye neevidiyo ziye zadlula ixesha elide. Kwakhona kunjalo ukukhawuleza kwe-neurochemical ukusuka kumalungu omtshato. Sekunjalo i-innovative ye-once-month-month playboy ikhuphuka ngokukhawuleza nje xa uvula amaphepha. Ngaba umntu unokubiza playboy okanye iividiyo ezithambileyo "ziyothusa" okanye "zivelisa uxinzelelo?" Ngaba kungaphazamisa ulindelo lwenkwenkwe efunda ikhompyuter engaphezulu kweminyaka eli-12? Awuthelekisi no "phendla nokufuna" kwithebhu ezininzi zikaGoogle. Uphando luqinisekisa Ukulindela umvuzo kunye novelwano kunye nokwenyuka komnye kunye nokwandisa umdla kunye nokubuyisela ingqondo yomlenze. (khangela le ntambo ye-reddit: Ndichitha ixesha elide ndikhangele ividiyo ye-porn efanelekileyo ke ngoko ndiyichitha).
Ibinzana elithi "Ukwahluka sisinongo sobomi" livela kumbongo kaWilliam Cowper (1785) malunga nomfana othandana nentombazana eyahlukileyo veki nganye. Kodwa i-Intanethi yenza ukuba kube lula ukusasazeka okungapheliyo kwesosi yeTabasco ngohlobo lwe iipopamine spikes. Ukukhangela kwam kuGoogle "i-porn" kufunyenwe nje malunga ne-1.3 zigidi amaphepha (ane "Porn for the Blind" kwishumi lam eliphezulu). Ukukhuthaza rhoqo kunokuphazamisa iifayile ze indlela esicinga ngayo, ngaphandle kwemifanekiso engaqhelekanga. Ngapha koko, izifundo zibonise ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-Intanethi okunyanzelekileyo (videogaming) zibangelwa inguqu enxulumene neziyobisi.
“Kwaya kusiba kubi. Ndiza kuthatha inkukhu ekhaya kwaye ngamanye amaxesha andinakukwazi ukufumana i-d * ck yam ngenxa yokuba i-porn ibuyisele kwakhona ingqondo yam kwaye yayimisa ukuba ibe ne-5-6 amantombazana ngexesha. Enye intombazana, nangona yayizibonele ngawayo, yayingayenzi loo nto. ”
Kutheni i-dopamine yokuvuselela ihlale ingumlutha? Njengengcali ye-neuroscientist David Linden Ucacisa, amagwegwe okutshaya ipesenti enkulu kakhulu yabasebenzisi kune-heroin, nangona i-heroin inika ukuqhuma okukhulu kwe-neurochemical. Ngoba? Umbuzo woqeqesho lobuchopho. Ukukhuhla nganye nganye kwezi zigarethi zingama-20 ngepakethi nganye kuqeqesha abantu abatshayayo ukuba bayacuba. Ngokwahlukileyo, umntu angadubula kangaphi? Kwikhoboka leziyobisi “yokufunda. "
Kwimeko ye-intanethi ye-intanethi, cinga ngesiganeko esinokoqobo, izinto ezixakekisayo okanye ezixhalabileyo, kunye neefowuni ekukhangekeni kwiplutle epheleleyo kunye ne-orgasm njengoko into enamandla. Bobabini qeqesha ingqondo. Nangona kunjalo, siva kubafana ngaso sonke isikhathi nge-porn-eyabangela i-ED, oya kuyeka ukuhlambalaza ukuzama ukuphilisa kunokusilahla i-intanethi ye-intanethi. Bayazi ngokukhawuleza ukuba i-dopamine yokubhobhoza yintoni:
Ndidla ngokucinga ukuba iphonografi yeyona nto ikhuthazayo ibangela ukungasebenzi kakuhle, hayi ukuphulula amalungu esini. Into engaqhelekanga endiyifumanayo malunga nokuzama kwam kukuba ngaphandle koonobumba be-intanethi, andiyiva ngathi i-masturbating. Nangona ndizama, andivuswanga ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndihlaziye. Ingqondo yam ayisacingi ngoku, njengokuba yayisenzeka xa ndandisengumntwana kwiintsuku ezingaphambi kwe-Intanethi. ”
Ukusetyenziswa koononophelo kwanamhlanje kuninzi malunga ne-dopamine hits kunokuba yincopho
I-Dopamine iqhuba yonke into evukisayo, kodwa ukutshintsha ngokukhawuleza kokutshintshisana nokunyusa ukunyuka kwamandla kungumzekelo onamandla kakhulu wokuqeqeshwa kwengqondo kunokuba kunesiphelo sokuhlaziya i-masturbation kwi-orgasm. Yingakho i-erotica ye-intanethi ingenza izilingo ezinamandla kwiibhokhwe ezithile.
Okulusizi kukuba, ubuninzi be-dopamine abalingani. Umyalezo wayo uhlala usithi, "Ukoneliseka kulele kufutshane nekona, ke Qhubeka uhamba! ” Uphando lweziyobisi ekutyeni, ekungcakazeni nakwividiyo ye-Intanethi ibonisa ukuba kuninzi kakhulu dopamine i-numbs impendulo yokuzonwabisa yengqondo. Oku kubonisa ukuba iinkqubo zokulutha zingena ngaphakathi. Ingqondo ebuthathaka ikhokelela kwiminqweno engaphezulu; nkqu nefoto egqibeleleyo ayinakwanelisa. Iphonografi yanamhlanje ayihlangani nje neemfuno zakho; iyazigqwetha.
Ukwenzela mna, ndilumkile ukufuna Imifanekiso engamanyala kwi-Intanethi ibonakala ngathi ikhoboka lokungcakaza. Ndifumana uninzi lwemifanekiso kwi-intanethi enesidima okanye eyenyanyekayo. Kuphela yipesenti encinci yokuvula kum, kodwa kukho imifanekiso "yejackpot" etyhala onke amaqhosha am kwaye enze iiyure zokukhangela "ahlawule". Ke ngalo lonke ixesha ndisiya kwi-Intanethi, ndiyadlala ukuba ndiza kufumana into evusayo, kwaye ndibetha i-jackpot rhoqo ngokwaneleyo ukuze ndiqhubeke ndikhangela, nangona ndiyazi ukuba indlu iyaphumelela kwaye ndilahlekelwa lixesha elininzi.
Ukubukela ukushona kwelanga, ukubetha ikati, nokubukela iqela lakho ozithandayo alifani nokuzonwabisa okukhulu. Ngokuzonwabisa okuqhelekileyo, ufumana izibonakaliso ze-dopamine kwaye ubuchopho bakho buyabuyela ekhaya-homeostasis. Ngokwahlukileyo, ezinye izinto zinezinto ezinokuthi zenze i-dopamine ixesha elide.
Enyanisweni oogqirha baseMelika Society of Addiction Medicine kungekudala ikhishwe ingxelo ucaphula isondo, ukutya kunye nokungcakaza njengezinto ezinokubakho. Zishiya ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo kuzo zonke iziyobisi-nokuba kungotywala, i-heroin okanye isini-ziyafana ngokufanayo. Isazi ngengqondo uPhilip Zimbardo, naye, uye wakhomba kwiingozi zokuba "likhoboka lesini." (Intetho yeTED Ukuditywa kwamaGay?)
Nokuba abafana bayalumkisana malunga ne-intanethi ye-intanethi. Umtya wokwakha umzimba:AKUKHO msonto we-FAP wokuphelisa yonke imisonto ye-fap ” ; Umsonto weReddit: “Buza umfana oyeka ukucola iinyanga ze-2 ngoku nantoni na. ” Baye bafumanisa ukuba i-porn ibangela ukunyuka kunye nokudala ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo:
"I-porn binges iiyure ezingama-4-6 kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo. Kwicala lokudibanisa, kuye kwacaca ukuba i-transexual sex porn ayihambelani nesini sam. Emva kokubukela iiyure ze-30 + ngaphezulu kweentsuku ze-5 ezidlulileyo, iphonografi engamanyala yaqala ukuba yindinisa! Ndaqala ukukhangela ezinye izinto, ezenyanyekayo nezothusayo. ”
Iimpawu ze-intanethi zithintela ingqondo ngendlela ekhethekileyo. Ukongeza ekuvuseleleni rhoqo, akukho mda wendalo ekusebenziseni-ngokungafaniyo nokutya okanye iziyobisi. Ukonyuka kuhlala kusenzeka ngenxa yokuba ubuchwephesha bendalo bokungonelisi kwendalo abukhawulezi ngaphandle kokuba kuvuthondaba elinye — elinokuthi lingabi ziiyure. Nokuba kunjalo, abasebenzisi banokucofa kwinto eyothusayo ngakumbi ukuba baphinde bavuke. Kwaye ne-Intanethi ayizukuphela iyenze isebenze inkqubo yobuchwephesha yendalo ("Andinakukunyamezela okunye ukuluma / ukusela / ukuntywila!"). Ngubani ongakwaziyo ukujonga omnye umfanekiso wenkanuko? Ukuzaliswa yinto ephambili kwezofuzo emva kwayo yonke loo nto.
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Ingxelo yomsebenzisi:
Ndifumene [i-Virtual Reality porn] iyakhobokisa kwaye yandibeka ngaphaya komda, yandenza ndabona ukuba iNyaniso eyiyo iya kuba ngcono kwaye ibengcono kwaye izitudiyo ze-Porn ziya kuba ngcono kwaye zingcono ekuveliseni i-VR ye-porn mhlawumbi kungcono ndiphume ngoku.
Ndandiqala ukwamkela i-VR (i-Oculus DK2 emva kwehlobo i-2014) ke bendineminyaka ephantse ibe yi-1 nesiqingatha se-VR ndisebenzisa i-VR phantsi kwebhanti lam kwaye ngexesha le-2015 ezinye ii-studio zangena ebhodini kwaye izinto zaqala ukushenxisa kodwa kunjalo umlutha wam njengesiphumo. Kwaye ndafumanisa ukuba ndiza kuhlawula iisayithi okokuqala ebomini bam bonke kwaye ndibhatalele i-porn endaweni yokuyihambisa nje! Kuba bendingafuni kulinda i-torrent ukuba ifumaneke!
Yayazi iimpawu zokugqithisa
Inkolelo yokuba "ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-porn akunakubangela monakalo" kwavela ngexesha lenyanga playboy. Njengayo okanye hayi, iphonografi kwi-Intanethi yahlukile kwi-erotica eyadlulayo njengo "Super Mario" uvela kwi-tic-tac-toe. Research kunye neengxelo ezizenzekelayo ziyakubonakalisa oku. Endaweni yokuba "yi-porno", i-intanethi ye-intanethi yinto entsha, apho ukuziphendukela kwemvelo kungakhange kulungiselele ezininzi iingqondo. (Abafana abasebenzisa i-intanethi nge-intanethi ngexesha lokufikisa kwabo bafuna ixesha elide ukuze baphinde babenempilo ye-erectile, bona- Abaselula abasebenzisa izilwanyana badinga ixesha elide ukuze bafumane iMojo yabo. Ibali lesimo sezesondo nge-Intanethi: Intetho kaSeptemba 2015 yeTEDx yindoda encinci efuna ixesha elongezelelekileyo kunye nokufunda kwakhona / ukubuyela umva ukoyisa i-ED kunye ne-anorgasmia-
Ookhokho bakho babengenayo i-Intanethi okanye iinkumbulo kwiibhanki ezisekwe kwi-porn. Ukuba baphulula amalungu esini, i-libido yesiqhelo kunye nokucinga kwabo benza umsebenzi. Ukuba impendulo yakho ngokwesondo iyancipha, okanye ufuna iphonografi ukuya kuvuthondaba, ngoko ke, ngaphezulu kweendlela zakho zengqondo zokutya, kunye nokufaka ingozi yokulutha. Lindela de ubuchopho bakho bubuyele uvelwano oluqhelekileyo. Ukuhoxiswa kunokuba nzima, kodwa iingcebiso kunye nenkxaso zikhoyo.
Ingqondo yakho ayizange iguquke ukuze iphathe i-erotica-kwi-click-yanamhlanje. Ayiboni iividiyo kuphela; iyaqonda amathuba okuchumisa ngokungapheliyo, kwaye iya kusebenzisa "isabhokhwe" sayo sedopamine ukuqinisekisa ukuba uchumisa uninzi kangangoko unakho — nokuba leliphi na indleko. Endaweni yokuqhubeka nokuqhubeka nobomi, ababukeli banamhlanje bahlala beqhubeka ixesha elide ukuba bangahlala bephaphile- bengazi ukuba basengozini yokuba likhoboka okanye iingxaki ukusebenza. NjengoEliezer Yudkowsky wabhala wathi,
"Ukuba abantu banelungelo lokulingwa-kwaye yile nto inkululeko yokuzikhethela-imarike izakuphendula ngokunikezela ngesilingo esinokuthengiswa. Inkuthazo yentengiso iqhubeka ngaphaya kwendawo apho i-superstimulus iqala ukonakalisa umonakalo kumthengi. ”
Funda iimpawu ezibonisa ukusetyenziswa koonwabo ngokugqithiseleyo. (IFunda iingxelo zabanye abantu.) Awungekhe uhambe ngokwenziwa ngabahlobo bakho, okanye ngengcebiso yoochwephesha bezesondo okanye oogqirha. Yiya ngantoni nina saziso.
Emuva ngomhla wokufowunelwa, ndakwazi ukukhuphela umfanekiso (ngamanye amaxesha uthambile) ngenxa ye-Intanethi engalunganga / ecothayo kwaye ndingazi ukuba ndingabufumana phi ubuqhophololo. Kodwa ngoku ngesantya esiphezulu, nkqu nakwiiselfowuni, indenze ndaqhubeka ndibukele ngakumbi nangakumbi nangokusonjululwa okuphezulu. Ngamanye amaxesha iba yimicimbi yosuku lonke ekhangela ogqibeleleyo wokugqibezela. Ayisoze, yanelisa. "Ufuna okungakumbi" ingqondo ihlala isitsho… ubuxoki obunjalo. "
Thumela kwi-r / NoFap - Ukuguqulwa kweTrina
Ukubonakaliswa kwesondo kwakukho ngaphambi kokuba iifayile zifakwe kwiincwadi zenkulungwane yesithathu ye-Kama Sutra kwizithombe ezikwidolophu yasePompeii.
Kodwa sele kuphela kwiminyaka engamashumi amathandathu edlulileyo okanye ukuba i-porno iqale ukusabalalisa njengomlilo womshushu. Iyokuqala yayingumagazini we-Playboy owaqala ukubonisa abantombazana abangenasiphelo ngokusebenzisa imifanekiso engaphantsi kwe-1953. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba emva koko kwakunecala lolwaphulo lokushicilela izinto ezinjalo njengokuba kunjalo noSamuweli uRoth.
Kwakunjalo kuphela xa uLasse Braun kunye neqabane lakhe kwishishini, uReuben Sturman eqala imiboniso yeepipi kunye neefolokhwe zefilimu ukuba ingxaki yokwenyani yaqala. U-Sturman waqala ukuseta ngaphezulu kwe-60,000 peep shows ezazisetwe ngamadokodo angatshatanga abonisa iphonografi kwaye zineebhokisi zethishu ezixhaswayo. Ayesaziwa njengeendawo “zokuhlawula nokutshiza”. Kodwa iividiyo bezingekafiki kwindawo ephambili ngenxa yesigwebo senkundla kunye nokungakwazi ukuzijonga ngasese.
Yonke ishintshile xa i-VHS ifakwe kunye nenkundla yecala le-Miller. Isiphumo sasimangalisa, malunga ne-75% yeetampu zeVHC ezithengiswa e-US kwi-1978 zazingcolileyo.
Ukukhawuleza kwi-1991 kunye newebhu yonxibelelwano jikelele. Imifanekiso esele iyakwazi ukufakwa kwisiboniso sakho ngokukhawuleza ngaphandle kokuphuma kwenye yale miboniso. Kwiminyaka emibini kamva kwaye intanethi yaqhubeka isasazeka kwaye ikhula ngesivinini sayo. Oku kubangela ukukhula ngokukhawuleza kweefografi kunye nokwandiswa kwazo zonke iintlobo. Ngokukhawuleza, yayifumaneke, yabucala kwaye akukho nkcitho kumsebenzisi eyadingekayo.
Zonke iikhrayitheriya zomlutha wokugqibela zazaliseka. Kodwa yayingekuko konke ukukhula okukhawulezileyo kwe-porn okuzisayo, kwachaphazela nemithombo yeendaba kwaye kwaguqula umbono wabantu kwizinto ezithathwa njenge-porn.
Emuva kwii-1960s, ababhinqileyo benganxibanga okanye babonisa ulusu oluthile lwaluthathwa njengamanyala. Jonga ngeenxa zonke kuwe kwaye ngokukodwa kwisangqa sakho semidiya yoluntu. Ukondla kwakho ku-facebook okuvela kubahlobo ukuya kwiintengiso kuye kwaba yinto engamanyala kwi-1960s. Amagama aya kuqhubeka nokusasazeka kwaye kungekudala okanye iphonografi ibe yinto eqhelekileyo kwizizukulwana ezizayo. Enye into ekufuneka uyiqwalasele yimizekelo yanamhlanje evela ku-kim kardashian ukuya kwi-miley cyrus.
Nokuba ividiyo yomculo namhlanje ayinakuduma ngaphandle kokuba kukho ulusu oluchithekileyo okanye inabafazi abaneempahla eziveza amanyala. Umthunywa wakho ngamanye amaxesha uhlaselwa ngamatekisi ukuthenga imifanekiso engamanyala kubafazi abancinci. Abantu kufuneka bavuke kolu hlengahlengiso lubi kwaye bathathe inyathelo. Ukuba siqhubeka nale ndlela yokuzivelela kwezinto, irhamncwa liya kuqhubeka nokukhula kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo andiyikwenzeli izizukulwana zethu ezizayo.
Ezinye iimbali zokucinga malunga nezocografi:
Nge-2012, i-Xvideos ibe yindawo enkulu ye-porn kwiwebhu kunye neembono ze-4.4 zephepha ngalinye kwiinyanga. Ii-Xvideos zaziphindwe kathathu ubukhulu be-CNN okanye i-ESPN, kwaye kabini ubukhulu be-Reddit. I-Pornhub idla iindawo eziqhelekileyo kwaye ihlala eduze ne-google ngokubhekiselele ekusebenziseni isitoreji. Namhlanje, ii-Xvideos yiwebhusayithi ye-43rd ethandwa kakhulu kwihlabathi.
Ngoko ukuyiqokelela, uonografi ukhula kwaye uguquke kunye neendlela zobuchwepheshe (umz. Ukwenene kweNkcubeko), nangona iteknoloji ingasetyenziselwa ukwandisa ulwazi lwethu kwaye lusishukumisele ukuba siyeke ukuziphatha okunjalo.
Thumela kwi-r / NoFap - Kuyamangalisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa koononophelo akukho konke kwi-radar yabazali bethu abaninzi
Ndingumntu ophulula amalungu esini okokoko ukususela kwiminyaka yam yokufikisa. Khange ndibone isihogo sononopopasho oluninzi kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo ngenxa yokusebenzisa ikhompyuter yosapho kodwa ndabona isabelo sam esilungileyo, ukuba sisithukuthezi kunye nokufota kamva kwimifanekiso etshiswe kwingqondo yam. Kodwa ndithe ndakuphuma kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo ndaye ndane laptop yam ndahamba namandongomane. Iiyure kunye neeyure zoononophala imihla ngemihla kunye nokuphindwe kabini ngosuku umkhwa wokuhlambalaza uqhuma ukuya kumahlanu ngosuku. Ndikhethe ukuhlala ndedwa kwaye ndenze i-masturbate kunye nokutshaya ukhula kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ngokucacileyo impilo yam yengqondo yaba mandundu kakhulu.
Emva kwexesha ndabuyela endlwini yabazali bam kodwa ayiyivumeli loo nto ukuba indiyeke ukuba kwi laptop yam ye-porn kangangoko. Abazali bam bebekwicala lam lonke ixesha lokungabinamveliso. Kodwa ngokwenyani bacinga ukuba bendilele ebhedini yam ndibukele iividiyo zeYouTube kwaye zinjalo. I-porn yayingekho kwi-radar yabo kwaphela.
Ukusukela oko ndafumanisa ukuba akukho nto ndiye ndayeka ukuphulula amalungu esini kunye ne-porn kwaye ndiziva ndibhetele kakhulu kangangokuba ndixelele phantse wonke umntu endimaziyo malunga nokuhambisa indlwabu kunye nokusebenzisa iphonografi kunye nendlela endigqibe ngayo Kuquka abazali bam. Ndandisoloko ndicinga ukuba bayazi ukuba ndiyilwaphulo loononophala kwaye andifuni ukuyivuma. Kodwa kuyacaca ukuba abanalo nofifi! Kufana nokuba abawuqondi umkhwa we-porn kuba bakhule ngaphandle kwe-porn. Azange badibanise amachaphaza kwaye babecinga nje ukuba ndonqena. Andizange ndonqene, ndandilikhoboka kwaye nengqondo yam yayiyimush evela kwi-masturbation rhoqo.
Ukusukela ndiyeke iphonografi kunye neMO, ndinomnqweno wokulala nje ngendlela endandiqhele ukwenza ngayo. Andizange ndiyenze loo nto ukuba bekungekho kwi-pornography. Umama wam ebethetha ngonyana womhlobo wam oneminyaka engama-29 kwaye akenzanga nto ngobomi bakhe, usahlala ekhaya kwaye uchitha ubusuku bonke kwikhompyuter. Kwakhona, abazali bakhe abanxibelelananga nokusetyenziswa kwe-porn, bacinga nje ukuba uyonqena kwaye unomdla kwikhompyuter. Ndandi ngathi "molo ?! Ngamanyala !!!! ” kwaye umama wayefana "nyani? Ucinga?"
Ngamafutshane, uninzi lwabantu abadala alunangqondo kwaphela malunga nemikhwa yamanyala / iziyobisi. Abantwana babo bangamakhoboka kuyo kwaye abazali abanalo nofifi kuba abanako ukuzisongela iintloko zabo kuyo yonke le nto iphambili. Abekho ekukhanyeleni, ngekhe nje bangaze bacinge ngayo. Ekuphela kwabo baqondayo ngabo banamava okusebenzisa iphonografi kwaye kunqabile kwisizukulwana esidala. Basenokuba bathenga isikhumba esingaqhelekanga emini kodwa akukho nto ithelekiswa nomnyele we-porn abantwana babo ababukeleyo, mhlawumbi yonke imihla. Kubuhlungu kuba baninzi abazali abakhathazekileyo phaya abaxakaniseka nje ngoonyana babo abangenaziqhamo. Ukuba bayayiqonda imeko ye-porn eya kuthi isindise uninzi lweentsapho ezininzi zentlungu.
Isithuba esigqwesileyo - Ukuqala kobuninzi bobugqwetha ekuziphatheni okubi (okanye kutheni ndiyeka ukugcina impilo yam yengqondo kwaye nawe kufuneka)
(Ukusebenzisa i-akhawunti yokulahla ngenxa yezizathu zobuqu, kwakhona uxolisa oku kufundwa ixesha elide)
I-CW: ingxoxo ye-PMO, udlwengulo, inzala, ukulalana ngocansi, ukuhlukumeza abantwana, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo
Ngaba ukho omnye umntu okuqapheleyo oku? Ndingumlutha kwi-PMO iminyaka emininzi, ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndazi kakuhle i-porn kunokuba ndikhululekile kuyo. Ngaphandle koku, bendikhe ndayijonga ngokuthe ngqo phambili, i-vanilla, indoda / umfazi iphonografi kwaye ndithintele izinto eziyinyani. Ngombulelo andizange ndivelise naluphi na uloyiko olubi okanye olungaqhelekanga kwaye bendihlala ndizifumana ndiziva ndonwabile nangaliphi na ixesha ndikhe ndatyhileka kancinci kuyo nayiphi na into engaqhelekanga. Ndikwanengxaki yokungena ngaphakathi kwaye ndenze umzamo wokuphepha nantoni na enokubangela ezi ngcinga zitshutshisayo.
I-Pornhub ibe yeyona webhusayithi yam endiyithandayo ixesha elide ngoku, kwaye ndiye ndabona kancinci ukujika okujolise kumxholo omnyama kakhulu kwiividiyo ezininzi eziveliswa ziinkampani eziqhelekileyo kunye neevidiyo ezithunyelwe kwiFrontPage (ngakumbi kwi "ethandwa kakhulu" icandelo).
Ndijonge phezulu kwiphepha langaphambili le-pornhub amaxesha aneleyo kunye nexesha elide kangangokuba ndikubonile kusenzeka kuqala: apho bekukho ngokuthe ngqo iivanilla zendoda / zomfazi iividiyo, ngequbuliso iividiyo ezinomdla ngokunzulu Iingcamango ze-fetishitic kunye neetaboos ezifana nokulala, ukulawulwa okanye ukudlwengulwa kwamanye amazwe ziphakathi kwevidiyo ezithandwa kakhulu nezikhuthazayo ezithatha indawo phambi kwewebhusayithi. Ukuthintela olu hlobo lomxholo kuye kwaba ngumsebenzi onzima, kwanezithonjana zibonakala ngathi zigxininisa ekwandiseni ubume beevidiyo.
Izibhengezo ezikwiwebhusayithi zikwimeko embi kakhulu zihlala zinobuntwana obusemilenzeni kunye nemifanekiso yezesondo yabalinganiswa bekhathuni kwaye kwakhona kuhlala kungenakwenzeka ukuthintela ukuboniswa koku ngenxa yentengiso ezenzelwa ukudlala ecaleni kweevidiyo kwaye ivela qho xa umisa ividiyo. (Ngapha koko, ngeendlela ezininzi izibhengezo zezona zinto zimbi, ziyilelwe ukubonisa olu tatoo fetishes ngendlela ekhwankqisayo nenomdla yokubamba umdla ukuze ubambe umdla wabasebenzisi abanomdla kwaye uvuse nosana olungekazalwa olunokuthi umsebenzisi angazazi ngalo. kude kube ngoku).
Ndiqaphele imeko ejongene neenkampani ezininzi ezingamanyala apho iinkwenkwezi ezitsha ze-porn zibonakala ngathi ziya zisanda ngokwanda. Ngoku, oku kunokuba sisiphumo sokukhula kwam (ndiqale i-PMO xa ndandikwishumi elivisayo kwaye ndandiqhubeka ndisiya phakathi kwe-20s) kodwa ndikholelwa ngokwenyani ukuba kukho umzamo kwinkampani ze-porn ekujoliseni omncinci- Ukujonga, uninzi lwabasetyhini abancinci ukuze babhenele kubantwana be-ephebophilia kwaye nokuba bayakuqonda oko okanye hayi ndiyakholelwa ukuba oku kuya kukhokelela ekubeni abaninzi behle ngomendo wobumnyama nongathembekiyo wokwabelana ngesondo kwabantwana / ulutsha okt i-pedophilia / hebephilia.
Emva kokudinwa zi-pornhub (okanye naziphi na iisayithi ezisebenzisa iphonografi) bendicinga ukuba ndiza kujikela kwi-reddit gifs. I-reddit ibonakala iyindawo elawulwa ngakumbi kodwa andinakubala inani lamaxesha ngoku ndicofe i-gif yemixholo yesini ebonakalayo ye-vanilla kuphela ukukhawulezisa ngokukhawuleza emva kweqhosha emva kokubona i-watermark yenye yezi nkampani igxile Olu hlobo lomxholo wethabo kunye nokuqonda ukuba ndijongile ikliphu kwenye yezoohlobo okanye ukulawulwa kwevidiyo. Okanye okubi nangakumbi, i-gif iqala ngokwesiqhelo kodwa kungekudala ityhila imvelaphi yayo njengevidiyo elawulayo kwaye ibonisa umntu wasetyhini ephethwe gadalala ngendlela eyoyikisayo.
Ngoku, ewe, andikholelwa ukuba isizathu solu luhlobo oluthile lweqhinga elenzelwe ukugqwetha isazisi sesini sonke samadoda (okanye mhlawumbi kunjalo, ngubani owaziyo?) Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uzikhumbule ezi nkampani ze-porn Ngamashishini kwaye ishishini lawo elithile alikho emthethweni. Ukuze kugcinwe ukucofa kunye nobulungu kunye nemali ezayo, kufuneka bahlale bezivuselela ngokwabo kwaye bagcine abasebenzisi bezononono bexhomekeke kumxholo wabo. kubo oku kubandakanya ukwehla kweyona taboos imnyama ngelixa ngaxeshanye behamba emgceni wolwamkelo lwentlalo (ngeendlela ezininzi lubonakalisa ukwehla kwabasebenzisi abaninzi be-PMO ukuze bakwazi ukwanelisa inkanuko yabo engalawulekiyo, isizalo sokwanda komntwana oswelekileyo) .
Ndikufumanisa oku ngokunzulu, kunzima. Kubonakala ngathi olu hlobo lomxholo lwalukhe lwangqinwa kwiimbombo ezimnyama ze-intanethi kunye newebhu enzulu kwaye ngoku ngokuthe ngcembe ifumana ukubambeka kwiiwebhusayithi ezisetyenziswa ngokubanzi. Imifanekiso engamanyala endayiveliswa njengomntwana okwishumi elivisayo ibonakala iyinto engaqhelekanga xa ithelekiswa nento abakwishumi elivisayo abakwishumi elivisayo abatyhilekileyo kuyo ngoku. Xa ndicinga ngempembelelo engamanyala ye-porn ebomini bam, ndiba nexhala malunga nefuthe leengqondo eliya kuba nalo kulutsha oluninzi, oluphuhlisayo lwamadoda (nabafazi nabo). Ndide ndafunda inqaku okwexeshana malunga nomntwana omncinci owadlwengula udadewabo emva kokuqhubeka nokuvezwa kukamama / umzali wamanyala kwaye ndothuka kakhulu ngaphandle kokukholelwa, kum esi sisiphumo esinokubakho kwisini esigqwethekileyo esidala abantu abatsha.
Ngenxa yokuba likhoboka lam (kwaye likwangumlutha) kunye nenyani yokuba ndinengxaki yokucinga, ndizamile kaninzi ukwenza iindlela ezintsha nezandayo zokuthintela ukuvezwa kwesi siqulatho singaqhelekanga, kodwa kuhlala kubonakala kungumbungu kwi-psyche yam kwaye ndiza kuqonda ukuba imilinganiselo yam yokuziphatha ayihambelani nezoonografi (kwaye le yinto entle endiyicingayo).
Iminyaka emininzi ndikwazile ukuthethelela ukusetyenziswa kwam kwe-porn ngokwam ubukhulu becala kuba into endandiyibukela yayingeyiyo "imbi kakhulu", okanye ndiziqinisekisa ukuba "wonke umntu olingana nam ubukele oko kutheni ndingafanelekanga?" kodwa ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba iphonografi isebenza ngendlela efanayo "neziyobisi zesango", kuphela iphonografi yindlela yokungena ekonakaleni nasekonakaleni kwengqondo nomphefumlo.
Xa ubukela iphonografi, yonke into iphulukana nobumsulwa bayo, yonke into iyancitshiswa ibe kukuziphatha ngokwesini kwaye oku kuvula indlela eya kwisithuba esingapheliyo sokungaziphathi kakubi kunye nosizi. Zonke iikhathuni ozithandayo njengomntwana kwaye uthathe ixabiso kunye nentsingiselo yazo ngoku zigqityiwe njengombane wovuko lwakho olungenanto. Wonke umntu obhinqileyo odibana naye okanye odlula naye esitratweni ngunongogo. Nditsho nabantu obathandayo banokuncitshiswa bangabikho kwanto ngaphandle kwezinto zesondo ezikhuthazwa ngumgaqo owalelweyo. Andikwazi nokujonga iinyawo zomntu ngoku ngaphandle kokuziva ndinezothe, ndizitshutshisa kunye neparanoia ekhubazekileyo enokuthi ngandlela thile ndivuswe ngabo, ukuze ndide ndibesele ndilele kulo nto ingenanto Ukuziphatha kakubi.
Lonke ixesha ndivezwa yinto enje ngoku, ngenxa yeengcinga eziphazamisayo, ndiziva ngathi ndiye ndadlwengulwa ngokwasemphefumlweni ngandlela thile (kwaye ndiyazi ukuba oko kukungahloniphi kwaye ayilothelekiso olufanelekileyo ke ngoko ndiyaxolisa kakhulu ukuba ukhona umntu ndikhubekile kodwa andinakucinga ngegama elichaza ukungabi namsebenzi kunye nokuzicekisa ngokwaneleyo) Ndiyagula kukuziva ngathi ndingumlinganiswa ophambili webali elifutshane likaLovecraft ngalo lonke ixesha ndigqiba ukuphulula amalungu esini, ngokungathi ndivezwe into engachazekiyo. I-horror (kwaye uninzi lwayo ALUCHAZI, ungasichaza njani nasiphi na isiqulatho, umxholo wesini kunye nomzali okanye ugqirha wezengqondo ongenamava kwi-intanethi, umzekelo?)
Ngombulelo, ndiye ndachasa ukubonwa kwam kwesi siqulatho sonyanyekayo, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba mhlawumbi bakho abo bangakhange babekho. Ndifuna ukukwazisa ukuba akukashiywa lixesha. ukuyamkela njengengxaki linyathelo lokuqala kwaye ukusuka apho unokusebenza ukulungisa umonakalo wengqondo owenzileyo kunye nokwenza iintshukumo zokuphila ubomi obanelisayo nobonwabisayo.
Ndicinga ukuba abaninzi abantu ababa ngabasebenzisi be-PMO banqwenela uthando oluyinyani, oluthandekayo lokufudumala novelwano kodwa iimeko ezihlukahlukeneyo zikhokelela ekubeni sithintele oku, sishiye sikhala kwaye sizama ngamandla ukuyizalisa ngeefografi okanye ezinye izinto ezicinga ukuba ziya kusebenza. Akwenzanga kodwa asikho ngaphaya kwezoncedo, kukho indlela yokuphuma.
tbh, ndandifuna ukuzithetha ngombandela owonakele kakhulu kwaye oko, ndiyakholwa kukulimaza abanye abaninzi.
ukuba uyifundile yonke le nto, enkosi, ndiyathemba ukuba unayo into exabisekileyo kuyo.
tl; dr: Ndiyakholelwa ukuba i-porn ehamba phantsi komendo omnyama wokunyaniseka nokukhupha abanye abaninzi.
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Izifundo ze-22 ezivela kumazwe ahlukeneyo akwa-7 zahlaziywa. Ukusetyenziswa kwakunxulumene nobudlova ngokwesondo kwi-United States nakumazwe ngamazwe, phakathi kwamadoda kunye nabesifazane, kunye nokufundiswa kwexesha kunye nexesha elide. Amanyano ayomelele ngokuthetha ngaphezu kwesondo, nangona bobabini bebalulekileyo. Umzekelo jikelele weziphumo uphakamise ukuba umxholo onobundlobongela unokuthi ube yinto enzima.
- Kuthiwani malunga nokusetyenziswa koonwabo kunye nentsha? Khangela olu uluhlu izifundo ze-200 eziselula, okanye ukuhlaziywa kwe-2012 yophando - Impembelelo ye-intanethi ye-Internet kwi-Adolescents: Ukuphononongwa koPhando (2012). Ukususela kwisiphelo:
Ukwanda kokufikelela kwi-Intanethi ngabafundi abakwishumi elivisayo kudale amathuba angenakuthelekiswa nanto kwimfundo yezesondo, ukufunda nokukhula. Kwelinye icala, umngcipheko wokwenzakala okubonakalayo kuncwadi ukhokelele abaphandi ukuba baphande ukuboniswa kokubukela imifanekiso engamanyala kwi-intanethi ngenjongo yokucacisa olu lwalamano. Ngokudibeneyo, ezi zifundo zibonisa ukuba ulutsha olusebenzisa iphonografi lunokuhlakulela iinqobo zesini kunye neenkolelo ezingezizo. Phakathi kwezinto ezifunyenweyo, imigangatho ephezulu yesimo esivumayo sesondo, inkanuko yesini, kunye nokuvavanywa ngokwesondo kwangaphambili kuye kwahambelana nokusetyenziswa rhoqo kwamanyala .... Nangona kunjalo, iziphumo ezingaguqukiyo ziye zavela ezinxibelelanisa ukusetyenziswa kolutsha ngemifanekiso engamanyala ebonisa ubundlobongela kunye nokunyuka kwamazinga okuziphatha ngokwesondo.
Uncwadi lubonisa unxibelelwano phakathi kokusetyenziswa kwabantwana abakwishumi elivisayo kwimifanekiso engamanyala kunye nokuzazi. Amantombazana axela ukuba azive ephantsi ngokwasetyhini abajongayo kwimifanekiso engamanyala, ngelixa abafana boyika ukuba bangangabinayo intsholongwane okanye bangakwazi ukwenza njengamadoda kwezi media. Abafikisayo baxele ukuba ukusebenzisa kwabo iphonografi kunciphile njengoko ukuzithemba kwabo kunye nophuhliso lwentlalo lukhula. Ukongeza, uphando lubonisa ukuba abakwishumi elivisayo abasebenzisa iphonografi, ngakumbi leyo ifumaneka kwi-Intanethi, banamanqanaba asezantsi okudityaniswa kwezentlalo, inyuka kwiingxaki zokuziphatha, amanqanaba aphezulu ekuziphatheni okunxaxhileyo, imeko ephezulu yokubonakalisa uxinzelelo, kunye nokunciphisa ukubondana ngokweemvakalelo nabanonopheli.
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Njengomnye umntu wathi:
Omnye umfana wathi:
Iposi elivela eMedHelp ngokuthelekisa iphonografi kwi-Intanethi "namanyala amadala"
Kuthathwe kulo mgca kwi-ED kunye ne-Intanethi ye-Intanethi.
I-Broadband iholele ekugqithiseni ubulili
Ukusuka kwenye iforum:
Ingxelo yelungu lebhunga:
Olunye uluvo malunga nokuguquka kweefostile
Kuthunyelwe kwenye indawo kule ndawo
Iingxelo ezivela kwi-Reddit
Iingxelo ezivela kwi-Psychology Today
U-YankieWankie uphawule wathi: "Isibhakabhaka asiwi"
Ukuphawula malunga nesidingo sokuvelisa
thunyelwe nge reddit.com NoFap
LINK
Iphonografi imalunga nokuzingela- kuthunyelwe kwenye indawo
izimvo ezivela kwiforum
Cinga kwiithebhu
Ulwazi olubalulekileyo rhoqo
Hentai
Ukusuka kwenye iforum-iminyaka eyi-38
Ukuchaphazela ikholeji
Ngamaxesha amaninzi Ngaba uyenze ngaphambi kokuba uqale?
Abazali bam bayazi, kodwa akangeze bathethe nam malunga nemikhwa yam
Igqwethiwe, iHorast Bastard ikhoboka le-Porn, uSuku lwe-3 kunye nokuBala…
Ukusuka reddit-NoFap
Yimangalisa indlela u-pornography usenze ngayo
Iphononongo kunye nokungcola
Ingqiqo evela kumntu malunga nokujika i-30
Umbhangqa wamazwana.
Ngaba utsho ukuba
Ingaba ucinga ukuba abantu abathi bathe babonwe ngoonwabo?
Iqabane lam likhankanyiweyo
Iingcamango njenge-Hyper-Real
Nabani na ophawula indlela umhlaba uguquke ngayo kwiminyaka embalwa edlulayo
GUY 2)
ukusuka reddit nofap -
ukulungiswa njenge-barometer- ukusuka kwi-reddit
yaqaphela ngoku nje ukuba iindaba eziphathekayo kunye neentlobo zezobisi ziye zachaphazela njani
Iphonografi ayisiyoNdalo
ukudibanisa ngaphakathi kwintombazana, ngoku ithathwa njengomntwana okhethekileyo
Umntu osebenza naye ufumene iphonografi eneminyaka engama-37… ubomi bakhe buyabhabha
Umntu osebenza naye ufumene iphonografi eneminyaka engama-37… ubomi bakhe buqhekeka phambi kwakhe. Ukuphulula amalungu esini kwimoto yenkampani ngelixa uqhuba.
Uninzi lwethu lujongene nalokhu
Ndingathi iphonografi "imbi" kunokuba ifake
Umhlobo wam i-masturbates njenge-10-15 ngamaxesha ngamaxesha.
Ingaba ukutshintsha ingxaki okanye ngaba i-pornography?
Andizange ndibe neengxaki de ndide ndibe neyokuqala ye-intanethi ye-intanethi
Kukunxibelelana okungalunganga
Ndizame zombini uze uze
Unobungozi bubi, kwaye ndicinga
Bafana, ilungu elitsha
Bafana, ilungu elitsha kwiifom apha apha.
GUY 2)
OP)
GUY 3)
GUY 4)
Ingozi mhlawumbi apha
Esi sizukulwana sokuqala ekuqaleni kwe-Intanethi
Ndiza kuqala ngokuthi mna
Ngaba ikho? Hayi, sisiqalo nje.
I-Pornfree inzima kakhulu kune-nofap
ngekhe ubukele ngaphezulu kwemizuzwana engama-30 yayo nayiphi na iklip
Zingaphi iiginas ozibonayo?
Indlela yokutshatyalaliswa kokutshabalalisa ubomi bentlalo yeentlalo ze-16 ubudala
Ndiyifunde iposi malunga nokuba nezilonda kwi-dick yakho kwaye ngokwenene u-chu
Ngubani na ovakalelwa iimvakalelo ezincinci ngenxa yezobuqu?
I-porno yenza ukuba ubulili bube ngakumbi malunga neetatrics
Ukwabelana ngesondo okwenyani akuzange kuphile kumava am njengendoda kwi-porn
I-NoFap ingenza ndicinge ukuba buhlungu kangakanani ukuhlala kumaxesha ethu.
Uzuze ubomi obukhulu kwaye
Ndiyeka ii-2 iiveki ezidlulileyo kwaye ndivakale.
I-75 Day Report: I-Porn Porn Addiction
Ukulinda (njengami) P-free
Ndiye ndicinga ngale ngongoma (uphuhliso lwezobuchwepheshe
Umnini we 'porn cartel' ebesebenzisa i-porn ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-10
I-porno ephakamileyo ye-streaming iyakhuthaza ngakumbi kunezesondo
I-PORN: Ukuyinikela ngayo kuye kwatshintsha ubomi bam (Ibhulogi)
IPOTA IYAQHUBEKA …….
Ndiyakhuthaza ukuba ndihlaziye ngokugqithiseleyo kunomnqweno wokubheka por
Ndifumanisa i-masturbating ngokwayo.
Iphonografi iyashenxisa kwaye ijija umbono wakho "wesiqhelo"
Ukubuyela ehlabathini lanamhlanje kwiminyaka emininzi edlulileyo kwakumangalisa
Umbono omtsha Kwi-Porn
Ukwandiswa koLuntu
ubukhulu becala ukuba ayizizo zonke izinto ezibuyela kum eziqale ngohlobo olunjalo "lokufuna
Khange ndicinge nokucinga ukuba ndingumsebenzisi osisinyanzeliso…
Ukukhangela i-facebook kwiminyaka yenza izinto ezingaqhelekanga
Bendingazi ukuba ndinengxaki de ndizame ukuyeka….
Amantombazana amane avumile ukuba amaninzi amava abo esondo
Cinga kwi-5-10 iminyaka abantu baya kuqala ukuqaphela ukuba i-porn ha
Ubudala be-50, obhinqileyo obukhe emva kokungeniswa kwi-Intanethi ye-Intanethi
(Iidemon ngoku) Ndisebenzisa iisayithi ezinokhetho olukhulu lweevidiyo… ..
GUY 2)
Akukho mnqweno wokungafani noononophala.
ngu-nullhypo
Ukuthelekisa umlingani oqhelekileyo kwiinkwenkwezi zoononongo zifana
Andizange ndixelele nabani na oko ndiza kukuxelela. Nceda nceda
ukuba umlingo wakho woononondazi uhla kakhulu
qhubeka ngezinye iiyure ngaphambi kokuba ndifumene i-clip epheleleyo ukuba ifap
Ndiza kukhangela kwaye ndiphande kwaye ndikhange ixesha elilodwa ukufumana
Ubomi bam obushushu bubude kakhulu kwimbali yoononophala.
wahleka ebuchosheni bam ngobusuku obunjengokuba wanginika isizathu esingenangqondo
Imibuzo yabantu abatshintshile ukusuka kwiNoFap ukuya kwi-PornFree
GUY 2)
Ndiyicinga ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba i-PMO ngenye yezilungo ezinzima kakhulu
Yonke into endiyithandayo ngokunyuka koononophala
Oku kukukhathazayo ngabantu ababukela izinto ezifana neHenta
Iifayile ze-17 zoononophelo kwisiphequluli sam.
Andiyi kuphila ndisakhula nge-broadband / google / fac
Ndifuna ukubuza umbuzo malunga nefomethi yevidiyo njenge-FullHD
Kuwo onke amalungu amancinci avela kumdala omdala
Izimvo zikaGuy kwiforum
Ndimncinci kuwe, kwaye
mhlawumbi i-OP ngokunjalo. Ndisemdala ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndiqalise i-PMO
iimagazini ze-softcore kunye neVHS kunye namaphephancwadi ama-hardcore. Okubi njengabo
babenjalo (kwaye babesabeka), akukho nto yangilungiselela ukuchithwa
i-cocaine ye-intanethi engenazintambo, i-laptop kunye ne-tube tube. Instant
ukufikelela kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo ezingafaniyo zoononophelo akulungele nabani na kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu kubantu abasele banomdla wokubambisana noonwabo / umlutha ngokubanzi.
Ndine-laptop yokuqala ye-6 kwiminyaka edlulileyo. Iindawo zeThubhu zoThutho zazingumtsha
ngcamango emva koko. Ndandifumana i-P2P kwiminyaka emininzi (kusukela 1999
okanye, nayiphi na itekhnoloji entsha yokusebenzisa iphonografi). Kwakhona, kubi njengaleyo
kwakukho, iifatates ezincinane zifaniswa namaziko e-tube tube. Izigulane
kuthatha ixesha lokukhuphela, kwaye iifayile zikhulu. Ixeshana
ukuxhaswa kunye nokungahlali okungapheliyo kwimizila ye-tube ye-tube kuyingozi kakhulu
ubulili bam kwi-5-6 iminyaka ngaphezu kwayo yonk
20 yangaphambili.
Ndizabalazile ukuba likhoboka lamanyala iminyaka. Ndiyeke ukubanda
ekuqaleni kwe-2012 kwaye isusiwe i-400 + GB yezononografi. Ndaphonsa inqwaba enkulu
kutshisa iiCD kunye neeDVD. Ndaya kwii-90 + iintsuku ngaphandle kwe-PMO, kodwa ekugqibeleni ndawa
kwinqwelo.
Ndizamile kaninzi ukuphinda “ndicoceke”, kodwa ndoyisile
okanye esinye isihlandlo. Ngokungahambi kakuhle, ndiyaphinda ndibuyele kwi-PMO ubuncinane kanye
imini, ngokuqhelekileyo ngaphambi kokulala (kodwa kaninzi ngamanye amaxesha.)
Eli xesha lakutshanje lahlukile. Okokuqala, ndenza nzima
imo. Kunzima kakhulu, umzuzu okomzuzwana. Ngokungaqhelekanga, kulula
kukonke. Ndineempembelelo ezinamandla zokubheka iifoto kunye / okanye
i-masturbate, eyona nto ibaluleke ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na into endiyenayo
waziva ngexesha elidlulileyo. Nangona kunjalo, le nkqubo iye yaye, kunjalo, akunjalo
kulula, kodwa ndiziva ndinolwalathiso olomeleleyo. Ndinokuninzi
wakha ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, mna baye ukuyiqondisa kwindawo ethile
enye into. Ndiye ndaqala ukwenza umthambo kwakhona. Oku kulungele iqela le-
izizathu. Ndifumene ukutyeba kakhulu kwiminyaka yam yamva kodwa ikwa
i-endorphins yokufundisa inikezela uncedo oluphikisana nemfuno ye-PMO.
Kwakukho iposi apha ngenyanga okanye edlulileyo, besithi akukho Fap ayikho
yonke-iphele-yonke impendulo, kwaye yatshitshise intambo kunye nam.
Ukuyeka i-PMO yinyathelo lokuqala ekukulungiseni iqela leengxaki. Jonga nje
ukubuyela kwisikwere esinye, kodwa ukusuka apho unokuqala ekugqibeleni
hambela phambili.
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"Indawo yoomatshini: Kulapho uya khona xa ungekhe ume
Ukuba i-Facebook kunye nezinye ii -apps zinomlutha, cinga ukuba ungaya kude kangakanani kwi-Intanethi ye-Intanethi ye-Intanethi ...
Umda woMatshini: Kulapho uya khona xa ungekhe uyeke ukujonga imifanekiso kuFacebook -Atlantic Mobile
“Abantu bayayithanda iFacebook. Bayayithanda ngokwenene, ” I-Biz Stone yabhala ekuqaleni kwenyanga. "Umamazala wam ujongeka etyhafisiwe xa egqiba ekubeni abeke ixesha kuFacebook."
Akuyena yedwa. I-ComScore iqikelela ukuba i-Facebook idla iipesenti ze-11
lonke ixesha elichithwe kwi-intanethi e-United States. Abasebenzisi balo baye ba
yaziwa ukuba ichithe umyinge weemizuzu ye-400 ngenyanga kwisayithi.
Ndiyazi i-hypnosis, njengoko ndiqinisekile ukuba uyazi, nawe. Uqala ukunqakraza kuyo
Iifoto zabahlobo bakho zabahlobo kunye nento elandelayo uyazi iyure
kudlule. Kuyothusa ngokungaqhelekanga, kodwa ayonelisi. Nje ukuba upelo lube
yaphukile, ndiziva ngathi ndimoshe nje ixesha elininzi. Kodwa ngelixa kunjalo
kwenzeka, ndibanjwe ngaphakathi kumatshini, i-animated GIF yomntu: I. Kulungile.
Ayikwazi. Yeka.
Okanye mhlawumbi iza kuza xa ndikhangela iitweets ebusuku ngaphambili
ibhedi. Andikhe ndicofe amakhonkco okanye ndiphendule ebantwini. Ndilungile
ukucima phantsi, okanye ukugqithisa, ukudonsa phantsi ngesithupha sam, ukulayisha kwakhona,
ulayishe kwakhona.
Okanye ngamanye amaxesha, ndibanjiswa kukuncwina komqolo ongapheliyo weTumblr.
Ngaba la mava, njengeLitye, ngaba nothando? Umhlaba wezobugcisa
ngokubanzi ulinganisa indlela othanda ngayo inkonzo ngexesha elingakanani
kuchitha kuyo. Ngoko ixesha elininzi lilinganayo nothando.
Eyam intuition kukuba olu ayilo thando. Yinto ethe kratya kwezobuchwephesha ukuba i-MIT anthropologist Natasha Schüll umnxeba “indawo yomatshini. "
“Ayizukuphumelela, kodwa ingokungena kule ndawo”
USchüll wasebenzisa iminyaka engaphezu kweyishumi eya eLas Vegas aze athethe naye
abancakazo kunye nabaqhubi be-casino malunga noomatshini benkunkuma, eziye zaqhuma
ekuzuzeni ngexesha le-digital njengabaqulunqi bezemidlalo baye baphucula
ukuba bagcine abantu bedlala.
Oko akufumanisa kukuba uninzi
abantu abadlala oomatshini abekho ukwenza imali. Bayazi
abazukubetha i-jackpot bagoduke. Njengoko uMars waseRoma wayibeka
in isiqendu sakutshanje sesipodcast yakhe esesabekayo, 99% Engabonakaliyo, kuphando lukaSchüll: “Ayizukuphumelela; imalunga nokungena kula mmandla. ”
Intoni
Ngaba indawo yomatshini? Sisingqisho. Yimpendulo yokulungiswa kakuhle
iluphu yengxelo. Kukuphambuka kwexesha elinamandla. Ucofa iqhosha.
Kwenzeka into. Uyibethe kwakhona. Into efanayo, kodwa kungeyona nto
kwenzeka okufanayo. Mhlawumbi uyaphumelela, mhlawumbi awuphumeleli. Phinda. Phinda.
Phinda. Phinda. Phinda. Kuluvuyo lokuphinda, ukhuseleko lwe
loop.
"Yonke enye into iyawa," utshilo uSchüll kuMars. “Uluvo lwemali
xabiso, ixesha, isikhala, nokuba nombono wobuqu utshabalaliswa kakhulu
uhlobo lommandla ongena kuwo. ”
Kwincwadi kaSchüll, Umlingo woKwakha, umngcakazi ogama linguLola umxelela oku: “Ndiphantse ndalala ngomlingo ukuba loo matshini. Kufana nokudlala ngokwakho: Nguwe umatshini; umatshini nguwe. ”
Kukho elo gama kwakhona: hypnotised, njengoMakhulu kaTye. Zininzi
abantu abangcakazayo basebenzise umahluko kwibinzana. "Ukubeka ummandla kumagama,"
USchüll ubhala athi, "abantu abangcakazayo endikhe ndathetha nabo bongeza into engaqhelekanga,
Inkulungwane yeshumi elinesithoba ye-hypnosis kunye ne-magnetism
Iingxelo zekhulu lama-20 zokubukela ithelevishini, ikhompyutha
ukulungisa izinto nokuqhuba imoto. ”
Bathetha izinto ezinje, “Ulele ngxi, uku-autopilot. Umda ngu
Njengomazibuthe, ikutsalela nje uze ubambe apho. ”
Kutheni la magama, ezi zikweko? Asiyiqondi kakuhle into
imeko esiwela kuyo-siziva kuphela ukubanjwa kwayo-ngendlela esiyiyo
izijikelezo ezidibeneyo ezingenanto. Wena ungumatshini; umatshini nguwe.
Kwaye kuyavakala… amagama ayasilela. Ngapha koko, kuvakala ngathi amagama asilele
kuba kusemphefumlweni wamava omntu, ukuphuma kwi-a
indawo ye-cybernetic iboniswe kakuhle kwi-data kunye nekhowudi.
Indawo yomatshini licala elimnyama “Ukuhamba, "U
isimo sengqondo esicetywayo nguMihály Csíkszentmihályi. Ukuhamba
urhulumente, kukho injongo, imigaqo yokufikelela kwiinjongo, kunye nengxelo
iqhubeka njani Ngokubalulekileyo, umsebenzi kufuneka utshatise izakhono zakho, ke
kukho imvakalelo "yolawulo ngaxeshanye kunye nomceli mngeni."
Kwintetho ye-1996,
UCsíkszentmihályi wachaza imeko ngolu hlobo: “Ukuba ngumntu opheleleyo
abandakanyekayo kumsebenzi ngokwabo. I-ego iyawa. Ixesha
iintlanzi. Yonke into, ukunyakaza, kunye nengcamango ilandela ngokulandeleleneyo ukusuka kuyo
yangaphambili, njengokudlala ijezi. ”
USchüll ubona i-twist kule nto
into ebalulekileyo phambi koomatshini abatsha bee-Vegas, ezibandakanya
Izikwele ezincinci zokubonakala zilawula ukuphakamisa impendulo yazo. Kodwa
endaweni yokuzaliseka kunye nenjabulo ukuba uCsíkszentmihályi
ichaza, abaninzi abadlala ingcaka baziva behlaselwe kwaye bebuhlungu malunga nexesha labo
iindawo.
Iimidlalo zixhaphaza umnqweno womntu wokuhamba, kodwa ngaphandle
intsingiselo okanye ubuchule obunxulumene nombuso. Indawo yomatshini apho
ingqondo ihamba njengokuba umzimba uphulukana nomsebenzi. “Ungayicima
bonke koomatshini, ”umngcakazi uxelela uSchüll. “Ungacima
ngokwakho. ”
Unako ukuhamba kuyo yonke indawo kwindawo yomatshini, kodwa kuphela nje ngokuba uhlala khona.
I-Facebook Zone
Xa sifakwe emisebenzini ephindaphindayo kwiikhompyutha zethu, ndicinga ngathi
unokufaka ingxelo ethambileyo yommandla womatshini. Ngokucacileyo, ukuba
ubandakanyeka kubanter kunye nabahlobo okanye uthumela imiyalezo kumama wakho kuFacebook,
awukho kuloo ndawo. Ukuba ufunda ngokusebenzayo kwaye ubhala imibongo
Kwi-Twitter, awukho kuloo ndawo. Ukuba wenza ubugcisa kwiTumblr,
awukho kuloo ndawo. Indawo yomatshini ichasene nentlalontle, kwaye yiyo
ezibonakaliswe ukungabi nxu lumano lwabantu. Unokujonga
abantu xa ukhangela izithombe, kodwa ukusebenzisana kwakho kunye nabo
Iimbalo zedijithali ziyimishini, ziphindaphinda kwaye ziqiniswe
ingxelo yekhompyutha.
Anditsho ukuba abantu "banomlutha" kwi-Facebook. Ezinye ze
abantu abangcakazayo abacatshulwe kuphando lukaSchüll baneengxaki ezinkulu.
Kodwa ndisebenzisa amabali abo njengoSchüll - njengemithombo yobungcali kuyo
ummandla, ukuba bangathethi amava abo kunye noomatshini benkunkuma
njengexesha eliqhelekileyo lomsebenzisi kuFacebook.
Ndiyichaza oko kuba kukho ukuthambekela kokuphosa malunga nombono
umlutha kwiitekhnoloji ezahlukileyo ngokungathi akukho nto inkulu. Kodwa kunjalo.
Konke oku ukutsho: andenzi ngxabano malunga netotali ye
iinkonzo ezinjenge-Facebook. Oku kugxekwa kwimiqobo ethile yokuziphatha
ezinokuvela ngaphakathi kwazo.
Umzekelo omsulungekileyo wokungena kummandla womatshini ucofa
ngokusebenzisa iialbham zeefoto kuFacebook. Akukho nto inomvuzo ngakumbi
okanye unomdla ngayo. Kwaye okwangoku, ndibonise umsebenzisi we-Facebook ongakhange enze njalo
sichitha iiyure kunye neeyure zenza loo nto. Ngoba? Unokufumana indawo.
Cofa. Ifoto. Cofa. Ifoto. Cofa. Ifoto. Kwaye mhlawumbi, kwindawo ethile
apho, ufumana into epholileyo ("Umhlobo wam uyazi umzala wam.") Okanye mhle
("Ikati."). Kakhulu. IJackpot! Cofa. Ifoto. Cofa. Ifoto. Cofa. Ifoto.
I-Facebook yinkonzo enye yokwabelana ngesithombe kwihlabathi. Ngaphakathi 2008, xa isayithi ibe neefayili ze-10 zeefoto ezigcinwe kwirekhodi, abasebenzisi bakhupha 15 zeebhiliyoni ngosuku. Inkqubo yayenzeka kwi-300,000 nge sibini. Cofa. Ifoto. Cofa.
Kwi-2010, i-Facebook yayilayishe imifanekiso ye-65 yeebhiliyoni, kwaye yayikhonzelelwa kuyo izinga eliphakamileyo le-1 yezigidi ngomzuzwana. Ngo-2012, abasebenzisi be-Facebook babefaka Iifayili ze-300 ezigidi ngosuku. Kwasekuqaleni konyaka, i-Facebook yabhengeza abasebenzisi babanikezele 240 zeebhiliyoni.
Ukuba sicinga ukuba isilinganiselo sezithombe ezilayishiwe kwiifoto ezibukweyo azizange ziyeke ngokukhawuleza, abasebenzisi mhlawumbi badonsa iibhiliyoni zeefoto ze-Facebook ngosuku kwisantya sezigidi ngesibini. Cofa. Ifoto. Cofa.
Konke kudibanisa ixesha elide elichithwe kwi-loop. Ngokutsho kwe
Ingxelo ye-2011 ComScore, abasebenzisi basebenzisa ipesenti ze-17 zexesha labo kwisayithi
kuphela iifoto ezikhethiweyo (apho Njengangaphakathi kweengxelo ze-Facebook, ayibandakanyi "ixesha elichithwe kufundwa iindaba zamabali okondla kunye nezaziso eziveliswe ngokufakwa kweefoto").
Ukubeka la manani ngokwembono, iComScore's 2013 Digital Focus
ingxelo yafumanisa ukuba i-Facebook ithathe i-83 ipesenti yexesha elichithwe kuyo * yonke into *
amanxibelelwano ezentlalo kwiwebhu. Oko kuthetha ukuba ngexesha lonke elichithwe
amanxibelelwano ezentlalo, i-14 ipesenti yayo iyenzeka kule ndlela yokuziphatha eyodwa
loop. Ingaphezulu kwalo lonke ixesha olichithe kwiTumblr, Pinterest, Twitter,
kunye ne-LinkedIn kunye!
If
Zonke izinto zobugcisa zinemiyalelo ethile ngaphakathi
kubo, ukuba ngabayilo bangazifaka iinjongo kwizinto abakhayo, Njengakwingcali yezentlalo kaBruno Latour ithiyori, ngoko sinokuthi ezinye iindlela zokubandakanya zichazwe ngakumbi kunabanye.
Intoni
I-Facebook kunye noomatshini bomatshini abelana ngesabelo kukukwazi ukubonelela ngokukhawuleza
impendulo kwizenzo ezilula; bahambisa imivuzo encinci ngokungafezeki
Ishedyuli "yentlawulo" enokuqikelelwa. Ezi ziyinyani ezinyanzelekileyo, ezigqwethekileyo
nokuba yeyiphi na injongo yoqobo yomsebenzisi. Yintoni eyaqala njenge- “Bona a
umfanekiso womntu X "uyaqhubeka nokubona eminye imifanekiso." Inkqubo
ngokwayo iba ngongoma.
Abaqambi-game game -ers, ngenxa yabo, baye bahlangabezana ne-
imiba yokuziphatha ephakanyiswe ngokuxhaphaza indawo yomatshini. Yaye loo nto ibambelela
khange abemhle.
USchüll uthetha ngomklami omnye, uRandy Adams. Ekuqaleni, umxelela
ukuba "ngokuziphatha" uchasene nokuba ngoomatshini abenza ukuba banyanzelwe
indlela yokuziphatha, eyamkelayo ukuba kunokwenzeka ukwenza njalo. “Kodwa
Kweli nqanaba u-Adams wayengangqinelani, ”ubhala watsho. “[UAdams] waqala ngo
Ukufumana iziyobisi ngaphakathi emntwini, esithi 'abanye abantu abakwazi
lawula indawo leyo iguqula ulonwabo iye ekubeni likhoboka. ' Xa ucinezelwe ukuya
Cacisa 'icandelo elijika lisuke ekuzonwabiseni lide libe likhoboka,' uphendule wathi:
'Uyilo lomdlalo, ”emva koko wongeze ukuba olu luphawu
Uyilo "lwalungenanjongo kuthi, kanye ngendlela eyenzeka ngayo
iguquke. '”
Kuthetha ntoni kwiprojekthi yeendaba zoluntu ukuba siyiqonda
ukuba kuqhube iimeko ezifanayo zengqondo kumdlalo wokugembula?
Ngaba abasebenzi baseSilicon Valley babeza kulwa nomkhiqizo wabo ngendlela
bayila ntoni oomatshini bokubeka izinto? Ndiyazi iikhowudi ezininzi kunye nabantu abaye
usebenze kwiinkampani ezahlukeneyo zentlalo; ngokuqinisekileyo abaziboni
njengowomsebenzi ofanayo kunye nekhasino. Uninzi lwabo bacinga
baukwenza kakuhle ngokwenza okulungileyo. "
Njengombono wokucinga, cinga ukuba kukho ubungqina obungenakuphikiswa
ukuba ezithile zeenkonzo zewebhu zenza ukuba abantu bangene kumatshini
ummandla, ixesha eliphindaphindiweyo kwisayithi kwi-subset yabasebenzisi. Ngaba ngabayila
ukuphulaphula ukusetyenziswa kwabo okanye ngaba bonke babeza kusebenzisa iinqhinga zabo
qalisa?
Izinto zingahluka. Indawo ingakhuthaza
ezahlukeneyo zokusetyenziswa. Ukuba yinto encinane: Kutheni ungathumela
sayina emva kokuba umntu ejonge imifanekiso eyi-100 ethi, "Kutheni ungakhe
ubhalele umhlobo okanye ilungu losapho endaweni yoko? ”
Akufanelekanga ukuba ezi zinto ziyinxalenye yeenkampani zewebhu ezicinga ngazo? Hayi
nje ukukhuthaza abasebenzisi ukuba badle ngaphezulu, kodwa bancedise ukuba bayeke.
Ingxaki "yokunika abantu le nto bayifunayo"
Ungatsho ukuba abaqulunqi bamane nje ukunika abantu oko bakufunayo. Idatha ithi abantu bachitha ixesha elininzi bejonga imifanekiso; kunjalo, i-Facebook isebenza kwimifanekiso. Elula njengoko.
Ukubambisana ngokuqhelekileyo kuyimali yenethiwekhi yomnatha woluntu. Ekubeni
Kunzima kakhulu ukulinganisa ukuba ngaba umntu uyayonwabela
amava kunokuba ulinganise inani leminqaku umntu achithayo
okwenzayo, ukubandakanyeka ngokuqhelekileyo kulinganiswa ngethuba. Kwaye, i-Silicon
I-Valley iye yenzele ityala ngokwayo (kunye nabasebenzisi beprogram yayo)
ukuba sivota ngokuchofoza kwethu.
Kodwa kukho ingxaki. Inkcazo "yento efunwa ngabantu" yangeniswa ngokungekho semthethweni
kunye nedatha. Inkcazo iqalisa ngokucacileyo: Abantu baya kumasayithi
bayathanda. Kodwa ke iya kufutshane. Bathi ixesha elide
uchithe kwisayithi okanye inxalenye yesayithi, ngakumbi uyayithanda. Kakade, loo nto
ilukhuphe ngokupheleleyo indima ebonakalayo yinkampani ekwenzeni umsebenzisi
ukuziphatha ukunyusa ukusetyenziswa. Yaye iyanqanda ukuba abantu ngamanye amaxesha
(rhoqo?) Bazenzele izinto abangazithandiyo. Ngubani "othanda"
ukuchitha iiyure ujikelezisa amajelo- kwaye ke ibiyinxalenye ephambili ye-
Amava aseMelika amashumi eminyaka.
Kuthekani ukuba imizuzu ye-400 ngenyanga ichitha i-Facebook ininzi
(okanye nenye inxalenye) esetyenziswe kummandla womatshini, ukuxilongwa, ukuqokelela isikhangiso
ukubonakala kwenkampani?
Nantsi imbambano yam: Ukucinga malunga
indawo yomatshini kunye neloops coercive eqalayo inkulu
amandla okuchaza. Icacisa "ixesha elilahlekileyo" endinalo
iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zonxibelelwano, kwaye ndikhe ndeva abanye abantu bethetha. It
uchaza indlela i-Facebook eyongezelele ngayo ilungiselele iinkonzo zayo, abantu abaninzi
Kubonakala ngathi abathandi amava abaninawo, nanjengoko bengalahli
kubo. Inceda ukucacisa ukuba kutheni abantu baqhubeka bebuyela kwiinkonzo ezondayo
kungene, nokuba bathi abafuni.
Kunceda ndiqonde ukuba kutheni amajelo asekuhlaleni, aqala ngokulungileyo
Injongo yokudibanisa abantu, uye waba ngumxholo onjalo. Phakathi
i-tech savvy, ibonwa njengesenzo sobukroti xa isithi, “Ndiyamthanda i-Facebook. "
kuba
abaqulunqi kunye nabaphuhlisi batolike ukwandisa "ixesha kwisiza,"
"Ukuncamathela," "ukuzibandakanya," njengokunika abantu le nto bayifunayo, bona
wakha inkqubo eyenza iimpendulo eziphosakeleyo ezivela kubantu
zisola emva koko.
Kancinci, ubunzima bommandla womatshini kufuneka ukuba
inxalenye yendlela esithetha ngayo ngokuzonwabisa kwi-Intanethi. Mhlawumbi,
ekuhambeni kwexesha, ezi ngxaki ziya kuzilungisa. Andiqinisekanga,
nangona kunjalo: Ubutyebi bezoqoqosho kwiintlalo zonxibelelwano ezixhaswa ngabantu
ngokuyimfuneko kufuna ukuba baninzi ixesha elingakanani abantu abachitha kwi-site,
ukuvelisa izivakalisi.
Oku kwenzeka nje ukuba umsebenzisi
iipatheni zokuziphatha ezinenzuzo kakhulu kwi-Facebook nakwezinye
Iinethiwekhi zentlalo zichanekile iipateni abazitolikele kuzo
kuthetha ukuba abantu bayabathanda. Kuphantse ukuba bazimisele ukuba yintoni
kuba luncedo kakhulu kwaye emva koko uqikelele indlela yokugweba ukuba njengokuba ukhonza
iimfuno zomsebenzisi.
Kodwa andiyikholelwa loo nto. Unokuthetha ezininzi
izinto malunga noosomashishini, abaqulunqi, kunye namakhowudi abenza uluntu
iinkampani zonxibelelwano, kodwa bayakholelwa kwinto abayenzayo. Baninzi
mhlawumbi babe yiingcamango kuneengqungquthela zemali zengxowankulu. Kwaye
uchithe yonke imini kwi-Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, kunye nePinterest,
naye. Ndibetha ukuba bayayazi indawo yomatshini, nabo. Kungenxa yoko le nto ndinethemba
banokuyeka ukuyila iimbobe.
Kukho nawuphi na, ukulwa
ukungafihlisi okukhulu entliziyweni yale milophu enyanzelisayo kufuneka ibe yinto enye
iinjongo zobugcisa, ukusetyenziswa kunye nokugxeka.
Kwisithethe esikhulu seNtlambo, siza kwenza i-t-shirt: Yithi Hayi kwindawo yomatshini.
izinto ze-amateu kuphela kwaye andinakukwazi ukuzibhokoxa nge-porn befor
Ingaba: umonakalo weentlobo ezahlukeneyo zoononophelo?
into endiyifuna ukuyithetha ngeentlobo zoonografi
IMISEBENZI Dinga uncedo.
Iphonografi ayikho yobugcisa.
Ngesihloko sokungabi nziswanga. (ncinane isihloko)
Iphonografi iyayiphazamisa ingqondo yakho. Ndiyazi kuba ndilapho. Ndiziva ndililolo
i-sexologist yethu ehamba phambili ethetha kubo bonke abaselula
Ukuphela kwe-ED, ndiyazi ukuba andiyi kubuya
Le ndawo iya kuba mkhulu kunawe
nanku umahluko omkhulu phakathi koonografi abashicilelweyo
Ingxenye yesithathu (33%) yamadoda phakathi kweminyaka eyi-18 kunye no-30 mhlawumbi bacinga ukuba bayilwelwe okanye abaqinisekanga ukuba bayayilwa
Utshintsho olukhulu ekubukeni koonobumba kwi-1980es ukuya kwixesha langoku.
Utshintsho olukhulu ekubukeni koonobumba kwi-1980es ukuya kwixesha langoku.
walala ngesidalwa se-porn kwaye akazange akwazi ukuwugcina
walala ngesidalwa se-porn kwaye akazange akwazi ukuwugcina
Andifuni nokuba ndifune ukuqonda, ndifuna nje ukuba ithebhu ivule,
Ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-30 yokunyusa ingqondo yam ngeP.
Le zi zigaba ndidlule ngexesha lokugqibela le-30 + iminyaka. (Epreli, 2015)
ISIGABA 1-Eyona nto ibalulekileyo
Buyiselwa kwi-1981. Konke kwaqala ukulula. Kufumene imifanekiso ephakamisa apha naphandle xa ndandineminyaka engama-11. Xa ndisekhaya ndedwa, kwanele ngokwanelisayo, ngoko kuthetha. Ukubona ezinye iindawo ezibukrekrele rhoqo ngexesha elithile kumabonwakude, ezinokwesikhumbuzo ezaneleyo zokuhamba ixesha elide 🙂
ISIGABA 2 -Iimagazini
Ngexesha apho ucinga ukuba ungenayo ubuncinane ubuncinane bemiagazini ye-Playboy. Ndade ndafaka ezinye iindawo ezikulo eludongeni kunye nobawo bavuma, ndibona njengenkwenkwana enempilo 🙂
Ndisazibuza ukuba ezi magz zaba njani: zi crunchy: - lol
ISIGABA 3 -Iindlela ezithandwayo kunye neVCR
Ngoku uye phambili kwi-1985. Ngethuba lokuqala ndiqaliswa kumafilimu e-porn kwi-Danish yaseNetherlands yeFilimu yeNet Night. Ukususela kwi-23: 00 ukuya kusasa ekuseni le ndawo yayiyindawo ukuba ufune ukubona isenzo esinzima. Sine-subscription kuzo zonke iziteshi. Ngenkwenkwezi ye-15 yeminyaka ubudala, oku kwakungenakulungile ukunyaniseka. Ubusuku obuninzi bokulala kunye neetelesi ezininzi ezimanzi 🙂 Kwaba bhetele xa ndifumene i-VCR recorder yokuqala. Oku kwandivumela ukuba ndirekhode iinkwenkwezi zam intandokazi kwaye ndiyidlale ngexesha lomhla xa ndisekhaya ndedwa. Ndicinga ukuba i-50% yazo zonke iikhathi zam i-P ngelo xesha. Ukufihla ngokucophelela ebhokisini okanye ibhalwe ngokuthi "i-Universe" kunye nezinto 🙂
ISIGABA 4 -I-Intanethi kunye neDVD
Emva koko i-10 iminyaka kamva. 1995. Ubomi bebuhle, intombi enhle, ininzi kunye nezolala ezininzi. Kodwa ngexesha lobudlelwane ndifumene online nekiso. Kwaqala ngeemifanekiso eziqingqiweyo. Xa wayesemsebenzini kwaye i-libido yam isuka kwakhona, ndiza ku-intanethi (kufuneka udibanise ku-:)) kwaye ulande ezinye izinto ezintsha. Iifilimu apho kusenkulu kakhulu ukukhuphela ngokukhawuleza, ngokokuqala ndazigcina kwiimifanekiso eziqingqiweyo. Ukuqeshisa izinto ezinobungqingili kunye nentombi rhoqo ngexeshana, kodwa akazange anditshintshe njengento endikhuphelayo kwii-newsgroups.
ISIGABA 5-Isantya esiphezulu se-Intanethi
Phambili kwi 2005. Umtshato. ULibido waqala ukuhambelana nomfazi. Ukuzalwa kweziza ze-intanethi. Uqale ukukhuphela iifilimu ngoku. UDamn, abaninzi abasetyhini abashushu, ixesha elide. Uqalise ukuqokelela iintandokazi, usebenzise ubuchule bokufumana i-ejac epheleleyo, ogulayo 🙂
ISIGABA 6 -Okutsha, okutsha, okutsha, intuthuzelo, ilizwe eliyiphupha
Ngu 2010. Uqhawulo mtshato. Ndabambeka kwilizwe lam elincinci, ndalahla abahlobo, ndanciphisa i-P yokutya 🙂Ii-Gigabyte kunye neeGigabytes zezinto ze-HQ, ezilungelelaniswe kakuhle 'ngumlingisi', i-PMO phantse yonke imihla, imisebenzi yentlalontle ukuya kubuncinci. Ukuhamba usuka-esileni uye kwi-boobs-man kwaye ubuye kwakhona. Nokuba ingqondo yam ayisayazi eyona nto ndiyithandayo. Ukuba ndibuyele endlwini engenanto, utywala kunye ne-PMO bandenza ndakhululeka. Ngosuku olulandelayo, kwakhona kwakhona.
ISIGABA SE-7 -Iyona nto ingako ayikulungelanga
Ngoku i2014. Ngona amantombazana ashushu kakhulu kumavidiyo akazenzeki ngokuzenzekelayo. Kufuneka babe kwindawo ethile, babe nobukhulu obuthile kunye nokubukeka okukodwa ukuqala ukuvusa. Zonke ezinye "izinto" zikhona nje ukuhlala kwindawo kwi-intanethi yam (ikhulile ibe yi-epic proportions).
ISIGABA 8 - Ngoba? Yeka oku kuhla!
Jan 2015. Ndiphinde kwakhona kwi-PMO binge. Izihlandlo ezintathu kwiintsuku ezimbini. Umzimba wam neengqondo ziphelile. Esikhundleni sokuphuma nokuxosha abafazi, ndihamba ngokuqokelela kwam ngoku ukufumana into enokuyiphilisa intlungu yam ngaphakathi. Xa ndi-ejaculate ye-i-dont-know-ye-1000th-time-time, into ephuka. Ngoba? Ngoba??
Kwaye ngexesha lokukhangela abantu abaneengxaki ezifanayo ndifumana iNoFap. Funda amabali. Yiva intlungu kunye nokulwa nomntu wonke. I-Lurk iiveki ezimbalwa kwaye emva koko ndidala i-akhawunti, thumela ezinye. Yilahla kwakhona i-coz ndiva neentloni. Yakha enye. Yiwise.
Kwaye okokuqala okokuqala ndizama. Ibheji kunye nazo zonke. Iiveki ezimbini. Kwaye ezinye iiveki ezimbini. Kwaye emva kweveki. Okwangoku kwi-4th zama, kodwa ukufumana ukukhawuleza. Emva kwakho konke, i-3 MO malunga nee-6 iiveki yinto enhle kwiqalayo ye-NoFap.
Ngoko, ukwenza ibali elide kakhulu kakhulu elifutshane. Kuya kuba nzima ngaphezu kwexesha kwaye lixesha lokuyeka enye kunye.
I-TL; I-DR: Ndiye ndandisa iP ekwiminyaka eyi-30 + yokugqibela, yazi phantse yonke inkwenkwezi / umdlali, kodwa ngoku ndiyenziwe nale shit 😀
LINK - Ngaphezulu kweminyaka emithathu yokutya kwam ingqondo kunye neP. Almost prehistoric, ngoko ndibize uFapster Erectus
ka -h2o-
Iiyure ze-10 zeeholide lam ziyahamba ngenxa yezocwangco.
Iiyure ze-10 zeeholide lam ziyahamba ngenxa yezocwangco.
Yingakho ukuvuselela okwenziwa ngumbono f *** s ubuchopho bakho!
Yingakho ukuvuselela okwenziwa ngumbono f *** s ubuchopho bakho! UKUPHATHA
Khange ndiqonde ukuba kudala ndathonyelwa yi-Porn
Khange ndiqonde ukuba kudala ndathonyelwa yi-Porn
I ntlekele.
[ICuckolding] ntlekele.
Isithethe sethu sitshintshile ngokungathandabuzekiyo xa kuvela kwi-pornography
Ithebhile ekuchaseni i-porn-free; Kutheni abantu bexhala xa uthetha ngobubi bezononono, kwaye ubhubhane obu bangela
Ekugqibeleni walahlekelwa ubuntombi bam, kwaye ngexesha lo ndicinga ngeefostile
Ekugqibeleni ndilahlekelwe ubuntombi bam, kwaye ngexesha le ndandibukela iifotunu kwintloko yam
Iimfesane kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo sele ikhulu, inamandla ngakumbi, ingabonakaliyo, kwaye iyingozi.
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