Hayi shit! Ewe, le mhlawumbi sisikhundla sam sokugqibela kule forum. Ndililungu ukusukela oko dez 2013 kwaye ngoku ndingatsho ngokuzithemba ukuba i-ED ayisengxaki kwakhona.
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Ndifuna ukwabelana ngebali lam apha njengendlela yokubuyisela eluntwini. Xa ndiqala ukuqala, ndafunda uninzi lwezithuba "kumabali empumelelo" njengendlela yokuzikhuthaza ngamaxesha anzima (aka akges).
Kuqala, ndifuna ukuqala ukuthi akukho bullshit kule nto sixoxa ngayo apha kwaye indlela iyasebenza! Ukuba unengxaki yokwakha ixesha elide kwaye ungumntu osemncinci osempilweni (<50) kwaye ubukele iphonografi kunye nokuhlaziya amalungu esini rhoqo (1-2 iveki), ke kukho ithuba elihle lokuba une-ED enxulumene nokungafuneki kwengqondo yakho .
Imeko:
Kulungile. Ibali elifanayo elidala: Iimpawu ezininzi zokuphulula amalungu esini kwi-Intanethi ye-porn kwiminyaka yokugqibela ye-10-15 kunye nemiba eqhelekileyo ye-ED ngamantombazana enyama yokwenene. Kumntu ozelwe, ukungakwazi ukwenza kakuhle njengoko unqwenela unokukubeka phantsi. Oku kuneendleko ezinkulu kumgangatho wobomi bam kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba ndibuyele ngexesha ukuze ndikonwabele ngcono amashumi amabini eminyaka. Ndingayifumana indibano kwaye ndiyenze, kodwa ndingahlala ngokukhawuleza okanye ndiphulukane nolwakhiwo lwam ngelixa ndenza izikhundla ezithile.
Eyona nto yayikhathaza kakhulu kukuba ndaziva ngathi ukuphulula amalungu esini yinto yindoda. Ukuba ndiyasilela ukwenza ulwazana olululo nentombazana yokwenene, ngosuku olulandelayo ndiza kuzingisa kwi-porn ukuze ndizibonakalise ukuba ndiyindoda eqhelekileyo, ngaphandle komcimbi we-ED nokuba yeyiphi. Isizathu sokuqiqa kwam nge-ED yayikukuba andifumani mantombazana afanelekileyo. Umnqweno wam wokucinga kukuba xa sele ndikunye nentombazana endiyithandayo, bekungafanelekanga ukuba nangxaki ekufumaneni ulwalamano.
Ewe, ndiyifumene ekugqibeleni le ntombazana kwaye ewe, kukho iingxaki ze-ED. Sisenokuba nokulalana, kodwa kwakunyanzeliswa kwaye kwakunzima ukuba ndiyigcine xa ingekho kwizikhundla ezithile. Ubudlelwane abuzange busebenze kwaye ngelixa wayengayithethi, ndiyazi ukuba isondo sidlale umba omkhulu kwisigqibo sakhe sokuyeka ukundibona. Ndandixakiwe ngokwenene ngelo xesha kwaye ndingaqondi ukuba umntu osempilweni onje ngam unokufumana njani umzobo ngomfanekiso okanye nevidiyo kodwa engenayo nentombazana yokwenene eyaziva ilungile kum.
Ekugqibeleni ndithatha isigqibo sokufuna uncedo. Ngaphambi kokuba ndiye kwagqirha ndiye ndayifumana le nto kwaye ndafumana iwebhusayithi esazi ngayo. Ndakhawuleza ndabona ukuba i-porn efaka u-ED yayingumcimbi wokwenyani kum.
Isicwangciso sam:
Into yokuqala endiyenzileyo kukusika iphonografi. Ukucaca, andithethi ukuyinciphisa kodwa ndiyinqumle. Akusekho iisayithi ze-porn kwaye kungasayi kuphinda uphulula amalungu esini kwimifanekiso okanye kwiividiyo nokuba zeziphi.
Kulapho ndaye ndabona ukuba iphonografi ilikhoboka. Ngamaxesha athile adlulileyo ndiyekile ukutshaya kwaye iminqweno yomibini le meko ivakalelwa ngokufanayo!
Qaphela ukuba ingqondo yakho iya kudlala kuwe. Njengomzekelo, kanye emva kwexesha ebusuku ndaziqinisekisa ukuba iphonografi ethambileyo kumabonwakude ayisiyiyo "nyani" iphonografi kwaye ndaye ndagqibela ndibuyele umva kwaye ndihlaziya ngokwam. Ngokucacileyo impazamo endibuyisele emva kweeveki ezithile zokubamba iphonografi. Ngenye imini ndineendaba ezilungileyo emsebenzini kwaye kwakhona ingqondo yam yathi "ndifanele" iseshoni enhle ye-PMO emva komsebenzi. Kuphela eli lixesha alizange lindikhohlise.
Ekuqaleni andizange ndiyeke ukuphulula amalungu e-2-3 ixesha ngeveki, ndinqumle kuphela i-porn. Ndenze oko kuba ukwenza imodi enzima ngelo xesha yayingenakwenzeka. Ndivakalelwa kukuba andisokuze ndikwazi ukuyeka ukuphulula amalungu omzimba ngokukhawuleza.
Emva kweeveki ze-2-3 utshintsho lwalucacile. Ukuphulula amalungu esini emcabangweni wam kuphela kwakulula kakhulu, ii-erections zazinamandla kwaye ndingahlala ixesha elide ukuyenza. Intombazana eqhelekileyo ngequbuliso yaziva inomdla kwaye ndandiqhutywa kakhulu kubo. Ngeli xesha ndandiqala ukuya ngemihla emininzi kunangaphambili.
Ngaphakathi kwe-2-3 iinyanga zengekho ze-porn ndaziva ndingcono kwinkqubo kuba ndibona utshintsho oluhle, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndicothise ukuphulula amalungu esini. Ndigcine ilog apho ndinciphisa khona amaxesha am okumpompa ukusuka kwi-2-3 amaxesha evekini ukuya kwi-1-2.
Ndakuba ndinokuzithemba ngakumbi, ndaqala ukwenza ixesha le-1 ngeveki kwaye ekugqibeleni i-0.5 (ixesha le-1 nganye kwiiveki ze-2). Kulapho izinto zaqala ukubonisa inkqubela. Ndandihlala ndenza imidlalo rhoqo. Kodwa, ngamandla ongezelelweyo bendinokutyhala ngokulula imida yam. Ndiqale ukuqubha ndibaleke yonke imihla. Ngamanye amaxesha ndide ndenze sobabini, ukuqubha ekuseni kwaye ndibaleke emva kwemini emva komsebenzi. Kwaye ndoda, yaziva imnandi! Kwiinyanga ze-1-2 ndaqala ukukhulisa umzimba olungileyo kwaye emva koko izibonelelo. Ndiqale ukudibana nabantu basetyhini abaninzi. Ezitratweni amantombazana ayendijonga ngomdla. Kwimivalo kunye neeklabhu kwakulula kakhulu ukudibana namantombazana.
Emva koko ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiye kwimodi enzima. Kwakunzima kwaye ndaphinda ndabuya kube kanye okanye kabini kwi-MO (ayikho i-porn). Irekhodi lam lalimalunga neentsuku ze45 ngaphandle kokuphulula amalungu esini kodwa ndandinento eninzi yokwabelana ngesondo phakathi.
Imeko ekhoyo:
Okwangoku, ndingatsho ngokuzithemba ukuba andinangxaki kwakhona ye-ED. Ndidibene nentombazana entle kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo kwaye sikubudlelwane obubi.
Ukuba nolwakhiwo kulula kakhulu ngoku. Kwenzeka nje ngokwendalo, njengokuncamisa okanye ukwangana. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukumjonga nje kuya kuhamba. Ubundlobongela bubhetele ngakumbi (ukuvumba, izandi) kunaphambili. Ndingahlala ixesha elide kunangaphambili. Kwaye, kuvakala kamnandi xa ndilele nje emva kwesondo kwaye ndiyabona oko kujongeka kolwaneliseko ebusweni bakhe. Oku kuhle kakhulu kuba bendinendlela ende ngaphambi kokuba ndifike kule ndawo.
Ewe, ndisahlambe ngokupenda ngoku. I-gf yam ihlala kwisixeko esahlukileyo kwaye andiboni mpelaveki yonke. Ndicinga ukuba kufanele ukuphulula amalungu e-0.75 amaxesha ngeveki (kanye ngeentsuku ze-10), ukugcina imibhobho icocekile.
Iphonografi? Hayi kwakhona ngonaphakade..
Ingcebiso zam nakubani na oqala le nkqubo zezi:
- Ungazami ukuba ligorha. Qalisa inkqubo ngotshintsho oluncinci. Okokuqala usike i-porn kwaye xa uziva ulungele, yiya kwimowudi enzima kwaye unqumle ukuphulula amalungu esini
- Unokubuyela umva. Musa ukuba lusizi kakhulu ekubuyeni kwakhona. Ewe iyakucothisa inkqubo kodwa ayisiyiyoyiso jikelele. Ukusuka kwinto endiyifundileyo, uninzi lwabafana oloyise i-ED ekugqibeleni babuyela umva
- Ungangxami. Olu ayilulo ugqatso lomdyarho weembaleki kodwa ngumdyarho weembaleki. Kuya kufuneka uqaphele ukuba okubalulekileyo kukugcina ukuzibophelela kwakho kwinkqubo. Kungathatha i-1-2 iiveki ukubona ukuphuculwa kunye neenyanga ezi-6-8 ngaphambi kokuba uwe ukuba i-ED ayongxaki.
- Gcina ingqondo yakho ixakekile. Fumana umdlalo okanye umdlalo wokuzonwabisa osebenza kuwe kwaye utyale ixesha kuwo. Le yeyona nto ilungileyo yokulwa neminqweno, enokubonakala xa unesithukuthezi kwaye uwedwa.
- Thobeka malunga nayo kwaye uthathe la mava kunye nobomi bakho. Ukuba ukhe wafumana iingxaki kwi-ED uyazi ukuba kunzima njani. Ukuba uyanyangeka, yazi ukuba inokubuyela ngokulula ukuba uqala kwakhona kwi-PMO.
- Nandipha ubomi, ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nokuhlonipha abafazi. Sukuba yinto yokudlala ngalo. Yiba zintle kunye namantombazana, zinokuba zezinye zezinto ezintle ezenzeka kwindoda. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uyamthanda, sebenza nzima ukuze umgcine ecaleni kwakho
- Nxibelelana nabahlobo bakho. Ukuba ucinga umhlobo wakho unokuba unengxaki efanayo, mxelele ngale forum kwaye wenze ingongoma yakho malunga necala elonakalisayo le-porn. Wokubulela kamva ebomini bakhe.
Ndiyathemba nina bafana niyifumana ifundisayo. Ukuba unemibuzo, nceda undazise.
Ngcono,
AG
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