Ndiqale u-M ngo-13, amaxesha amaninzi ngosuku, ngamanye amaxesha u-P kodwa ubukhulu becala.
I lost my virginity at 18 to my gf ngeloxesha. Okona kulungileyo, saba nesondo esiphakathi kwaye kwakungenxa yokuba ndinokuba nzima kakhulu, ndinganeli nantoni na ekhethekileyo.
Emva kwexesha ndiye ndaphelelwa ngamandla okwenza konke...
Bendimane ndiqhwitha ecaleni kwakhe ndilale.. ndineentloni. I was so insecure kangangokuba ndade ndambuza ukuba ngubani ongcono phakathi kwam & ne ex yakhe avumayo ukuba akakho over the way. Wayengaphenduli ngqo (ukuze ayeke iimvakalelo zam).
Bendimane ndi-M ngelixa ndikholelwa ukuba yenza imeko yam ibe mandundu. Kwakungancedi nganto ukuba ngelo xesha ndanditshaya kakhulu yaye ndilinxila . Ekuphela kwento eyandisindisileyo kukuba ndingumdlali wezemidlalo noko kucingelwa ukuba igazi lam lalihamba kakuhle kunomntu otshayayo nosela utywala otyebe kakhulu.
Ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje, andinayo i-rock hard e (okwangoku) Nje ukuba nonke nazi kancinane malunga nam kunye nemvelaphi yam, ndaxhatshazwa ndisengumntwana kwaye ndakhe ndanenyanga kangangexesha elide ndikhumbula. Unanamhla oku, ndinomdla kwiinyawo zomfazi kunayo nayiphi na enye into. Ndandisoloko ndisazi ukuba oku "kungaqhelekanga".
Ndandisoloko ndiziva ngathi ndingumnqa okanye kufuneka ndicinezele indalo yam engaqhelekanga phakathi kwabanye ukuze ndamkeleke. Ndineminyaka engama-26 ubudala, 5'11 kodwa ndibhityile kancinci, ndimhle noko kodwa ndihlala ndingazithembi kwaye ndingonwabanga kakhulu ekuhlaleni ( indlela encinci ngoku, kodwa ixhomekeke kwindlela endiziva ngayo ngelo xesha, iyamangalisa ndiyazi).
Olo kuzithemba kunye nobunzima buguquka kakhulu kodwa ndiyakholelwa ukuba yonke iyinxalenye yenkqubo ye-nofap. Ngendlela, andinakukwazi ukugxininisa ngokwaneleyo, ungabali iintsuku ngoku-1 ngo-1. Iza kugxininisa! Jabulela nje ubomi bakho, hlala uvelisa!
Ngaphambi kokuba ndifunde nge-nofap ndandidakumbile, ndifumana i-ED, ndingazinzanga ngokwentlalo, uyibiza ngegama. Kwaye loo maxesha anqabileyo ndiye ndafumana "ithamsanqa" kwaye ndadibana ngesondo, yayingaphantsi komndilili okona kulungileyo kwaye andizange ndifumane enye.
Kodwa nantsi eyona nto indenze ndafuna ukutshintsha ubomi bam ngeenxa zonke… ..
Ndaphuma (ndedwa) ngobusuku bangoMgqibelo.. kwakukho abafazi ababini ababukekayo behleli phantsi. Ndaya kubo kwaye bandimema ukuba ndihlale nabo (Indlela yam yayiqinile, kodwa andizange ndiwagcine la mandla okuqala / ubuqili).
Kuyo yonke imizuzu elishumi yokuncokola naba bafazi babini, eyona nto ndandinomdla kuyo kunye nomhlobo wakhe bobabini babenikela iingcebiso ezifihlakeleyo, bonke ngaphandle kokundixelela ukuba ndimmemele endaweni yam… babelindele MNA ukuba nditywine isivumelwano.
Ngaxa lithile, wandijonga ndifile ebusweni wathi, “Ndixelele ukuba ufuna ntoni kanye kanye”. kwaye uyiqikelele, ndidlale indima yomfana kwaye ndathi ndifuna intombi. Ndenze loo nto kuba ndicinga ukuba amadoda kufuneka abethe ehlathini kwaye ngokusisiseko axoke ukuze afumane le nto ayifunayo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunjalo. Abasetyhini bafuna ukuba amadoda abe yinyani malunga neenjongo zabo kwaye aqiniseke ngayo
Quick disclaimer Ndifuna umfazi ngenye imini, kodwa njengoko wayesele enomntwana ongowakhe, ndandingafuni ubudlelwane bexesha elide…… kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ndandifuna ukuba neentlobano zesini naye ngelo xesha.
Ibali elide, amantombazana agqiba ekubeni agoduke. Uthathe inombolo yam kodwa nam bendisazi ukuba akazuyisebenzisa. Ndagoduka ngobo busuku ndidandatheke ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Oku kuya kuvakala kuyamangalisa kodwa ndaziva ndingeyondoda…. Inokuba ibibuhlungu ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na intombazana endibiza ngegama lam. Xa sele kuthethiwe, ndonwabe kakhulu ngobu busuku kwenzekile. Yayiyinkuthazo endandiyidinga.
Izibonelelo zeNofap (ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, usuku lwe-36)
Ndiqale i-nofap ukoyisa i-ED kunye nokufunda ukuzithethelela, ndibe yindoda. Ndiqalisile ukuphumeza ezi njongo. Ezinye izibonelelo zomntu endiziqapheleyo:
1.) Ukuqina ngakumbi kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi, ukuzithemba ngakumbi.
2.) Ukujongana nokulahlwa lula kakhulu.
3.) Ngenene lindela ukudibana kwabasetyhini ukuba bahambe ngendlela yam kwaye ukuba abakwenzi ndingaqhubeka.
4.) Okubaluleke ngakumbi malunga nokukhula komntu, ukubuyela kwindawo yokuzivocavoca kwafumana umsebenzi ofanelekileyo (70k / ngonyaka)
5.) Ukudibana kwamehlo kancinci kum kunye nabafazi abahle, akukho malunga nokubajonga phantsi, yinto nje yokungoyiki okanye ukuziva uphantsi. (Ingcebiso, menze ajonge kude ngaphambi kokuba wenze, kodwa ungabakhupheli ngaphandle, ayilulo ukhuphiswano lokujonga)
6.) Intlonipho koontanga. Abantu bafuna ndiphumelele kwaye bakholelwa kum ngokubanzi. Bandicingela phezulu kuba ndinxiba kwaye ndihamba ngenjongo. Ubudlelwane bomntu ngamnye ndibuthatha njengento ebaluleke ngakumbi.
7.) Ukuthobeka kobudoda. Andikhathali ngokususa indlela yokuba umntu adlule ngomnyango kuqala, ndikhuselekile kwaye akufuneki ndithathe amanyathelo amakhulu ukungqina oko.
8.) I-Sex Libido iye yanda kodwa kungekhona kwi-100%
9.) Akukho mfuneko yokungxama kwiingxelo zam. Xa ndithetha, abantu bayaphulaphula. Ndithetha kancinci kwaye ndisabele ngamabom kunokuba ndithethe into nje
10.) Umtsalane ngakumbi .. ilizwi elinzulu, "elikhazimulayo" ubuso, ubukho bobudoda obungaphezulu, ubuncinci obuncinci.
Advice
1.) MUSA ukubala iintsuku ze-nofap ibe nye ngexesha
2.) MUSA ukuzama ukukhohlisa inkqubo okanye umda.
3.) MUSA ukuhlala ubambekile ngoSuku1, nyamezela (i-day1 imo iya kuhlala inzima kakhulu).
4.) MUSA ukusebenza naziphi na izinto ezibangela (akukho zindawo ze-P, ugweme i-Instagram kunye nemidiya yoluntu).
5.) UNGAZIVA udimazekile okanye ucinge ukuba unyangekile ngenxa yenkqubela encinci.
6.) Hlala ukhuselekile, ii-STD zisekho & abantu abaninzi banazo kunokuba ucinga. Awukwazi ukuxelela nje imbonakalo!
7.) Funda amabali okuphumelela afana nalawa KUPHELA ukuba uziva ngathi ufuna. Ukuhlalutya ngaphezulu kunye nokucinga kakhulu kunokukhokelela kwi-PMO.
8.) Qonda ukuba kukho imiba ye-libido yamanye amadoda kunye nabasetyhini. Sukuziva uneentloni.
9.) Zilungiselele ukunyuka kunye nokuhla kumnqweno wakho wesondo, i-PMO ikhuthaza kunye nokuguquka kwemizwelo.
10.) Ngaphandle kwenkqubela phambili yakho, abanye abafazi basazama ukukuthoba. Musa ukuseka ukuzixabisa kwakho kwinto ecingwa yintombazana okanye umfana ngawe. Bangumntu nje.
BONUS.) I-Hansom okanye i-Ugly, iNcinci okanye iMde, zithembe kwaye uzinze ngamaxesha onke. Gxila ekuziphuculeni kwaye abantu baya kutsaleleka kuwe kwaye bakubonise intlonipho ngakumbi bc uyazihlonipha
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