Ndithanda ukubulela abahlali ngokusinika ulwazi oluyeyona ntsikelelo iphambili kuthi kwaye ngaphandle kwalo besibandezeleka ixesha elide. Ewe ibali lam liqale njengaye wonke umntu. Ngenye imini ndazi malunga noM, waziva ulungile kwaye emva koko waqhubeka esenza. Ezo ntsuku iphonografi ayifumaneki ngokulula kodwa iipics ze-naked zezikhona. Bendihlala ndilungile ngexesha lokufunda kwam (Kwi-3 ephezulu minyaka le) kodwa ndaqala iMing.
Kwimviwo zam zesekondari bezijolise kakhulu kwizifundo so zange ndifumane xesha lininzi likaM. Ngenxa yoko amabakala am aphucula kakhulu loo minyaka ye-2-3, wonke umntu wayendazi ngegama, ndingutitshala wabafundi ababedla ngokunika imizekelo. Ke umbono we-Nofap, ukugcinwa kwakhona kwakungekho nto intsha, ngandlela-thile ndaziva ngathi yinto ephosakeleyo, ukuhambisa amandla am. Ke emva kokufumana amanqaku amahle esikolweni waya ekholejini, kwaye apho waqala khona uMing rhoqo. I-porn nayo yaya emfanekisweni. Ngenxa yoko amabakala abuthathaka, unxunguphalo, ukukhutshwa komsindo, ukungaxakeki konke kuyeza. Ndacinga ukuba ezi zezona zinto ziphambili ebomini ngaphandle kokucinga ukuba i-PMO yayisesona sizathu soko. Ndifumene umsebenzi kamva kwaye ndonyusa i-PMO njengendlela yokonwatyiswa kobomi kunye nomvuzo wakho wonke umsebenzi onzima obekwe ngexesha lekholeji kunye nesikolo. Eli xesha lamandla aphantsi, ixhala kunye ne-M yaqhubeka iminyaka ye-3 kwaye ezinye ze-100 kwiintsuku ezidlulileyo zeza malunga nokubomvu. Emva kokufunda amabali kunye namava amaninzi ndiye ndaqonda ukuba kutheni bendiziva ndilahliwe ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukuthatha ithagethi yeentsuku ze-30 zokugcinwa kwe-Hard Mode kwaye uqhubeke kuloo nto ukusukela ngoko. Namhlanje lusuku lwam lwe-97th kwaye andikaze ndonwabe nangakumbi, kufana nokuthoba ixesha xa ndandikumphezulu wesikolo kwaye yonke into ibonakala ilula, kungekho luxinzelelo namandla eengqondo ezinkulu. Ke nantsi uluhlu lwezibonelelo endizifumeneyo:
I-1) Imvakalelo yokuqaqamba ngalo lonke ixesha.
Kwangoko kwi-PMO bendihlala ndicaphuka kwaye ndisoloko ndifuna izinto ezintsha zokuthomalalisa ingqondo yam ebalekayo. Kwakungathi ingqondo ayinakuphumla, ngokuqhubekayo izama izinto ezintsha ngaphandle kokucinga. Ngoku ndizimisele ngakumbi. Akukho nto indixakayo kangako. Ndiva yonke into izakulunga, iingxaki azibonakali zingenakoyiswa. Ndiza kuphatha nantoni na.
I-2) Ukusebenza okuPhuculweyo kweBongo:
Ngaphambili bendihlala ndisebenzisa ixesha elininzi ndifunda okanye ndenza nawuphi na umsebenzi wengqondo kwaye iziphumo beziphakathi. Ngoku ndifunda ngokukhawuleza, ukuqonda intsingiselo ngokukhawuleza kwaye nokudibanisa amanqaku ahlukeneyo ngokulula. Kwaye andiziva ndityhafile ngelixa ndifunda ixesha elide, ndinokuqhubeka ngokulula kwi-6 hrs eqhubekayo ngokusebenza ngokupheleleyo.
3) Abantu bayandihlonipha kwaye banxibelelana nam ngakumbi:
Abafowunelwa bakudala babelityelwe, ngoku kubonakala ngathi bonke bayandikhumbula amaxesha ngamaxesha, bethumela imiyalezo apha naphaya. Abantu ngoku banditsalela umnxeba amatyeli aliqela ngelixa ezi zinto zingazange zenzeke. Umhlobo wam unditsalele umnxeba kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo kwaye andikwazanga ukukhetha. Somedays later waphinda wandibiza emva koko sancokola. Abantu bandimamele ngakumbi, abanye boyika. Ngenye imini ndaya evenkileni ndathenga izinto zokubhala kwaye umgcini wevenkile wayencumile kwaye endibonisa izinto ezifanelekileyo kwinjongo yam. Umalume okude wandicela ngenye imini ukuba ndiye kuhlala eofisini yakhe. Sincokole malunga nesiqingatha seyure kwaye whl ethetha wandinika inombolo yentombi yakhe. Ungumcwangcisi zimali xa ndifuna naluphi na uncedo kwiakhawunti njl njl. Bendincumile ngaphakathi ndiyigcinile inamba. Abafana ndiyakwazi ukuqhubeka noku kule nto. Kodwa iyandimangalisa indlela abaziva ngayo amandla akho, i-aura kwi-intanethi, iphambene.
4) Umtsalane wamantombazana:
Ndiyazi ukuba esi sisihloko esishushu apha lol kwaye ndiyakhumbula ukuba ekuqaleni kwe-streak yam bendihlala ndifunda onke amabali atsala amantombazana apha lol. Ndandithandabuza ekuqaleni kodwa inkwenkwe ndandingalunganga. Kuphela kwiveki ngaphakathi kwendlela yokuziphatha kwamalungu osapho etshintshileyo, onke esiba mnandi kakhulu kwaye ekhathala. Ngaphezulu kwe-FB, abahlobo abadala ababhinqileyo baqala ukuthumela imiyalezo, beqala ukunxibelelana. Intombazana yade yaqhubeka nokuthumela umyalezo iintsuku ezininzi xa ndingamphendulanga. Bonke baqala ukuziphatha ngokuzithoba kwaye babesoyika u-lol. Abafowunelwa ngamehlo kumantombazana angaqhelekanga kwimarike ngoku yinto eqhelekileyo. Yongeza kwinto yam engento yanto kancinci kodwa andikho kwii-hookups ezingaqhelekanga ngoko ke akukho ndawo. Ndineqela labahlobo ababhinqileyo kodwa emva kokubona ukuba babenobubi kwaye benobuqhetseba, andiphindi ndibanxibelelane nabo. Ezi zizinto zamadoda, ngelixa ugcinwe, uqala ukubona inyani yabantu nezinto. Akukho nto iyakungaqwalaselwa nguwe kwaye xa usazi ukuba abo babizwa ngokuba ngabahlobo bakho bakhonza injongo yabo kwaye abakhathali kangako ngawe, uziva ulusizi.
I-5) Ingqondo yenjongo noxanduva:
Guys esi sesona sibonelelo sibalulekileyo. Xa uqonda ukuxabiseka namandla akho, awusaboni ubummi boluntu okanye nantoni na ekukubambezelayo. Iingcamango zakho zichetyelwa embindini kwaye ubona izinto ngombala wazo wokwenyani. Kwaye ngala mandla angaqhelekanga kunye nokucaca, uziva uxanduva lokufaka into kwabanye. Ngoku ndiziva ndinoxanduva lokugqibezela zonke iinjongo zam kwaye ndibonelele ngexabiso kusapho lwam, kubahlobo nakuluntu. Ndiyakholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba singaguquguquki kwizenzo zethu, sinokufumana nantoni na. Kwaye ngamandla eSemen Ukugcinwa kwicala lethu, yonke into inokwenzeka, yonke into ilula. Yinto kuphela yokuthatha isigqibo kwaye uqhubeke nokwenza into efanelekileyo.
Ngawo onke la mava ibisisifundo sokufunda kubafana bam ebomini. Lilungelo lethu lobuzibulo oko sikuvuyela kolu hambo. Akukho magunya aphezulu, le yindlela izinto ezimele ukuba zezethu. Silapha ukuvula amandla ethu kunye nokufezekisa amabhongo ethu kunye nokugcinwa kwethu ngumgca ongasemva kuyo yonke le nto. Ndithathe isigqibo sokuba ndingaze ndenze uM kwakhona ebomini bam kunye nobudlelwane bezesondo, kuphela kunye neqabane lokwenyani lokwenene.
Ke qhubeka uyenza le nto intle, hlaziya ubukho bakho bonke. Amandla omzimba, ubukhali bengqondo, intombi / inkwenkwe yonke into onqwenela ukuyifumana ilula. Ngamaxesha okusilela, ungazibethi kakhulu, sukuma ngokukhawuleza. Xa kufika iminqweno, yanya indawo yakho ye-pelvic ngaphakathi kwaye uphefumle ngaphandle ngokukhawuleza. Vacuum eyenziweyo iya kunceda ukuhambisa amandla ezesondo ukuya kumphezulu womzimba.
Ndiyaphinda enkosi kakhulu enkosi nonke, amava akho andincedile kakhulu. Zive ukhululekile ukuba ubuze nantoni na, ndiza kubonelela ngokuqonda kwam malunga nomba.
I-PS: Namhlanje, ngaphandle kweblue ndigqibe kwelokuba ndibhale ibali lam lol. Qikelela ukuba lixesha elifanelekileyo lokubhala ngaphambi kwenqaku losuku lwe-100.
LINK - I-97 yeentsuku zokugcinwa kweSemen: Konke kufanelekile
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