Ikhonkco kwisishwankathelo sephepha elingasentla
Njengamadoda ayeke i-porn kwaye afumane i-DYSFROFTS yesondo ngexesha lokubonisa ngokwesondo ukulungisa impendulo yabo yezesondo kwi-intanethi ye-porn kunokuba amaqabane okwenene. Ubunzima babo abukho ngenxa “yobulili obugqithisileyo”. Ngapha koko, amadoda anika ingxelo ngale ngxaki-kanye njengokuba eli phepha lika-2020 licebisa-ngamanye amaxesha "li-hypersexuals" kwaye ngamanye amaxesha akunjalo.
Kukho iindlela ezimbini amadoda afumanisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kubangela ubunzima babo:
- Ukuvavanya ukuba bayakwazi na ukufumana imiqhamo kunye nokuphuma ngaphandle kokusebenzisa iifostile. Ukuba abanako, kodwa unako ukuvuswa xa usebenzisa i-porn, emva koko baye babeka imeko yabo yokuvusa i-porn. 'Yabona Uvavanyo lwe-PIED ividiyo ngengcaciso egcweleyo. Qwalasela olu vavanyo luvela “Ngaba iinthombe zoononopasho ze-intanethi zibangelwa izidakamizwa zesondo? Ukuphononongwa ngeeNgxelo zeKlinikhi. "
Olunye uvavanyo olulula ababoneleli bezempilo abanokusebenzisa kukubuza, "ingaba isigulana sinokufezekisa kwaye sigcine ukumiswa okwanelisayo (kunye nencopho njengoko ifunwa) xa uphulula amaphambili ngaphandle kokusebenzisa iphonografi ye-Intanethi". Ukuba akakwazi, kodwa unokufezekisa ngokulula ezi njongo ngephonografi ye-Intanethi, ke ukungasebenzi kwakhe ngokwesondo kunokunxulunyaniswa nokusetyenziswa kwayo.
- Ukuphelisa i-porn ye-intanethi okwexeshana kunye nokubona ukuphuculwa kwempendulo yabo yezesondo, njengoko izifundo ezininzi kunye namanye amaphepha anike ingxelo. (Ngakumbi ngezantsi)
Ukufumana okungakumbi kwi-porn conditioning bukela le vidiyo yindoda echachisiweyo.
Iphepha elitsha le-2020: alinakusixelela nto malunga neengxaki zesondo ezibangelwa ngamanyala
Iphulo lokushicilela elicwangcisiweyo ngononophelo (kunye nePrause & Ley kwiziko) lenzelwe "ukutolika" eli phepha ngeenjongo zepropaganda njengoko lifumaneka esidlangalaleni. Ngokuqikelelwayo, ngenxa yokuba uninzi lwababhali bolu phononongo ngamalungu a iwebhusayithi ye-pro-porn ngokuphandle (ukuze ndiNONE, yaye Tweets kwaye uphatha uphando olukhethwe ngamatsheri esinika umdla kwishishini le-porn), ipropaganda ehambelana nayo yabhengeza ukuba i-PIED ayivunywanga.
Ukuphendula kweli phulo licwangcisiweyo, isazi ngengqondo tweeted, ephawula ukuba abasasazeli bobuxoki babesebenzisa, “ubuxoki obufanayo nobokuthi inja kaPavlov isakwazi ukuntywila (ngokuvakala kwesandi seentsimbi!), Ngoko ke akukho mpembelelo ilawulayo.” Kutheni eza kuthetha oku? Ngenxa yokuba abaphandi abazange bavavanye ngokufanelekileyo i-hypothesis leyo benzisa iidemon inokumisela impendulo ngokwesondo-kwaye hayi nje "kwi-hypersexuals." Ukanti abo basasaza iindaba zobuxoki benza ngokungathi benjenjalo.
Ke, nangona i-porn shill njengoDavid Ley ibango eli phepha libonelela ngobungqina obuchasene ne-porn-induced sex dysfunction (PIED), eneneni ayisixeleli nto ngayo.
Ukuqala, i-PIED kukungakwazi ukufezekisa ukwakhiwa neqabane. (Kwamanye amadoda, impendulo encitshisiweyo yolonwabo emva kwale meko ikhula kakhulu kangangokuba ekugqibeleni babone impendulo engalunganga naxa usebenzisa i-porn, kodwa oko kuqhelekile kakhulu.)
Inyani yeyokuba amadoda ane-PIED ahlala ekwazi ukufikelela kwi-erection nge-porn. Ngapha koko, ukuvuseleleka kwabo kuxhomekeke kwi-porn! Bangakwazi "ukutshiza intsimbi," kodwa banokuthi bafakwe kwi-pornography kangangokuba banobunzima ngesondo esisebenzisana nabo, okanye bade bafumane ii-erections ngaphandle kwe-porn. Abaphandi abazange bajonge iimeko zokugqibela.
Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, olu phononongo aluzange luvavanye i-PIED. Ivavanye kuphela impendulo yesondo ngelixa ubukele i-porn. Kwaye zonke izifundo (MSM, okanye amadoda alala namadoda) ayengabathengi be-porn - nangona abaphandi abazange babelane ngomlinganiselo abawusebenzisayo ukumisela oku ekubhaleni kwabo.
Ingongoma leyo zombini izifundo kunye nolawulo babesele benalo ithuba ukumisa impendulo yabo ngokwesondo kwi-porn. Akukho zifundo okanye ulawulo oluceliwe ukuba luphelise ukusetyenziswa kwalo ukuze lubone ukuba umsebenzi wabo wesondo uphuculwe (eyona ndlela ithembekileyo yokumisela ukuba i-PIED conditioning isemsebenzini).
Ngokuzenzekelayo, zonke izifundo kunye nolawulo zinempendulo ephantsi ngokwesondo. Qwalasela eli phepha: I-Erectile Dysfunction kunye ne-Ejaculation yangaphambi kokusasaza kwi-Homosexual kunye ne-Heterosexual Men: Uhlolo lokuHlola kunye no-Meta-Analysis of Studies Comparative Studies (2019). Kwaxelwa ukuba amadoda abelana ngesondo namadoda anamazinga aphezulu okungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kunye nokulutha kwe-porn (CSBD).
Ngelixa kunomdla ukuba bekungekho mahluko ubalulekileyo phakathi “kwe-hypersexuals” kunye nabanye, esi siphumo asikuchasanga ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kwimeko yokuphendula ngokwesondo kubathengi be-porn.
Nangona aba babhali beyiphika, iPIED "yinto." Amaphepha asixhenxe oontangandini Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku baye babonisa ukuba xa izigulana ziphelisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn yedijithali, ukungasebenzi kwezesondo ezingapheliyo ziphilisiwe. Kukho ezinye izifundo ze-32 ezongezelelweyo ezidibanisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kwiingxaki zesondo okanye ukuvuswa okuphantsi ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Izifundo ezinezicatshulwa. Ukwengeza, Izifundo ezingaphezulu kwe-75 zidibanisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kukuncipha kwezesondo kunye nolwalamano. (Ngokuba sifuna zonke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zaxela ukusetyenziswa koononophelo olunxulumene nalo zihlwempu zesini okanye ukwaneliseka kobudlelwane.)
Iyaxhalabisa, kodwa ayimangalisi, into yokuba uGqr. Ley nabanye bangayimelanga kakuhle i-PIED kwaye bajije iziphumo ezingabalulekanga kwiipropaganda ezingaxhaswanga. Unguye ihlawulwe lishishini lephonografi ukuqinisekisa abasebenzisi be-porn ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwayo akunabungozi.
Iphepha elitsha ali "phindaphinda" umfuniselo ka-2007
Umzi-mveliso we-porn shill kunye nomlobi weli phepha le-Prause kunye nokukhetha kwakhe Ley ngempazamo ibango ukuba eli phepha elitsha enye njengemifuniselo echazwe ngo-2007 kwi isahluko sencwadi nguBancroft noJanssen (ekwanguye umbhali weli phepha litsha). “I-Psychophysiology yezeSondo., Isahluko: Imodeli yoLawulo oluBini: Indima yokuthintela isondo kunye nokuvuselela inkanuko yesini kunye nokuziphatha.. " Umshicileli: I-Indiana University Press, uMhleli: Erick Janssen, iphe.197-222. Qhagamshelana nesahluko
Eli phepha elitsha alifani novavanyo lwangaphambili, kwaye nantsi umehluko:
Umahluko #1 - Uphononongo luka-2007 ludlan' indlebe namadoda angenako ukuvuswa ngamanyala ukuze avavanye unobangela.
Kuqala, ngokungafaniyo nophando olutsha lowama-2020, abaphandi ngo-2007 baxoxa malunga ne-50% yamadoda aselula (umndilili weminyaka engama-29) abangaziqondanga ukuba bavuswa luvavanyo lwe-porn kwilebhu, kwaye baqonda ukuba ukwanda kokubonisa iphonografi yeyona nto inokubangela. Oosonzululwazi bacacisa ukuba la madoda ahlala evala imivalo apho iphantse yabakho. Kucatshulwe kwisifundo sika-2007:
Xa sisebenzisa olu luyilo (kunye neendidi ezimbini zefilimu yesini, isiphazamiso kunye nemfuno yokusebenza) kule sampula intsha, nangona kunjalo, sidibene nenye into ebingalindelekanga, kodwa inomdla,. Amadoda alishumi elinambini, okanye phantse ama-50% ezifundo zokuqala ezingama-25 (kuthetha ubudala = iminyaka engama-29), awaphendulanga kwisikhuthazo sesini. (okt ukuqina kobunzima obungaphantsi kwe-5% kwizicatshulwa zefilimu ezingafezekiswanga; amadoda asi-8 ayeqinile kwi-0%. Yi le, kulwazi lwethu, esinye sezifundo ezimbalwa zengqondo zengqondo apho amadoda athe athatha inxaxheba aye aqeshwa kuluntu-kwimeko yethu, kwizindlu zokuhlamba, iiklinikhi ze-STD, imivalo, njalo njalo.
Kwezinye iindawo ezi, iingcinga zesondo (kubandakanywa izikrini zevidiyo) zikwindawo yonke, kwaye oku, kudityaniswa namagqabantshintshi abathathi-nxaxheba malunga nokusilela komdla obonakalayo, okhethekileyo ("niche"), okanye ogqithisileyo okanye "kinky", usenze Cinga ukuba kungenzeka ukuba izinga eliphezulu ngokungaqhelekanga labangeneli linxulumene nenqanaba eliphezulu lokuvezwa kunye namava ngezinto ezibonakalayo zesini.s.
Umahluko # 2 - isifundo sika-2007 esamiselwa ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-porn sabangelwa!
Bekwaphawule ukuba, "Iincoko kunye nezifundo ziqinise umbono wethu wokuba kwezinye zazo ukubhencwa okuphezulu kwe-erotica kwabonakala ngathi kubangele ukuphendula okuncinci kwi-vanilla sex erotica kunye nesidingo esikhulayo sokungaboni ngasonye, ukwahluka. "
Ingxoxo kunye nezifundo zomeleza ingcamango yethu yokuba kwezinye iindawo ezikhuselekileyo kwi-erotica kubonakala zibangele ukunyaniseka okuphantsi kwe "vanilla ngokwesini" kunye neyodingo olwandisiweyo lwezinto ezintsha kunye nokuhluka, kwezinye iimeko zidibaniswe nemfuno ethile iintlobo zesistim ukuze uvuse.
Umahluko #3 -2007 uphando longeze uvavanyo lwe-2 olusekelwe kwi-porn-induced low arousal.
Nabaphandi yongeze ulingo lwesibini lokuthathela ingqalelo i-porn-indential arousal ephantsi. Uvavanyo lwesibini lubandakanya izinto ezintsha, ezinde, iziqendu ezahlukeneyo, kwaye wavumela izifundo ukuba zikhethe iziqwengana ngokwazo. Uninzi aluzange luphendule!
Sihlehlise isifundo Ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiphelise ukuphazamiseka kunye nokusebenza kwemfuno yokunyanzelwa kunye nokubandakanya iziqwengana ezintsha, ezahluka-hlukeneyo, kunye neziqwengana ezinde zefilimu. Kwakhona, endaweni yokubonisa izifundo ngeseti ekhethiweyo ("ekhethwe ngumphandi") iividiyo kuphela, sibavumele bakhethe iziqwengana ezibini ngokwazo kwiseti ye-10, apho ukujonga kwangaphambili kwemizuzwana eyi-10 kubonisiwe kwaye kubandakanya uluhlu olubanzi lwezesondo indlela yokuziphatha (umzekelo, isini seqela, isini esithile, i-S & M, njl. Sifumene izifundo ezongezelelekileyo ze-51 kwaye safumanisa ukuba uyilo oluphuculweyo isengama-20 amadoda, okanye malunga ne-25%, engaphendulanga kakuhle kwividiyo ezesondo (ubungqongqo be-penile engaphantsi kwe-10% ukuphendula umboniso omde ozikhetheleyo).
Uvavanyo luka-2007 lwavavanya "abaphenduli abasezantsi" ngokukodwa, kwaye baxela ukuba: "Uhlalutyo lucetyise ukuba njengoko inani leefilimu ezingamanyala ezibonwe kunyaka ophelileyo lenyusa abathathi-nxaxheba kungenzeka ukuba lihlelwe njengomphenduli ophantsi."
Umahluko #4 - 2007 uphononongo aluzange luvavanye i-hypersexuality
Uvavanyo luka-2007 aluzange luvavanye ubungqangi. Isifundo sika-2020 senzile, kwaye sithelekisa iqela le-hypersexuality kulawulo. (Nangona kunjalo kwakungekho luvavanyo lomntu ngamnye lwezinto ezifaka isandla ku-ED, njengakwi-2007). Oko kuthetha, iqela lama-2020 e-hypersexual lalinayo impendulo engeyiyo ngokwesini kwiqela lolawulo:
Ababhali ke baye “balawulwa” ngenxa yezizathu ezithile zempikiswano - ukwenzela ukulinganisa iimpendulo zala maqela mabini bagqibe kwelokuba amaqela awaphendulanga ngokwahlukileyo kwelinye. Iyaqikelela kwakhona, banikwe iingcebiso zabo ze-pro-porn kunye nenjongo yokuvelisa ipropaganda.
Ngoko, lumka i-porn shill ekhwaza ububuxoki. Cinga umthombo, kwaye ujonge ngenyameko kwiziphumo ezisisiseko. Njengoko kuhlala kunjalo, ipropaganda malunga neli phepha ayibonisi umxholo wayo wokwenyani, ongaqukiyo.
Lixesha lokuba uphande i-porn-induced conditioning sex, kwaye uyeke ukuyibhidanisa ngokunyanzelisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn. Abaninzi abaye babeka iimeko zabo zokuziphatha ngokwesondo kunye nokuvusa i-porn abangabasebenzisi abanyanzelekileyo kodwa nangona kunjalo banengxaki yokusabela ngokwesondo ngenxa yokusetyenziswa kwabo koonografi. Ibuhlungu.
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