"Iimfazwe ezingamanyala azifumaneki kuNove Novemba", nguDiana Davison (I-Post Millennial)

NguDiana Davison (ngoNovemba 21, 2019) LINK KUNYAKA EQALA

In Hayi ngoNovemba, umbuzo othi "Ukutsala okanye ukungaphangeli?" sele uzele yimingcipheko yomthetho. Umceli mngeni we-whimsical we-intanethi ukhule ngokuthandwayo kwiminyaka edlulileyo edabini lezenzululwazi malunga nokuba iphonografi ingaba likhoboka.

Ngexesha eliphakathi ku-Novemba, abo bayakuba ngabanquli abangayithathiyo imiceli mngeni ngokunokwenzeka basilele ukuhlala 'bengabaphathi bezizinda zabo' kodwa imfazwe yezifundo iya kuqhubeka kude kuphele inyanga.

Isazi se-Neuroscientist kunye nesazi ngengqondo kwezesondo uGqirha uNicole Prause ujongene Mbini ukungcola amatyala afakwe kwinkundla zamatyala zaseMelika ngenxa yeli dabi. Kwi-Twitter, u-Prause ubhengeze ukuba ulixhoba lezimangalo ezininzi ze-SLAPP (Strategic Litigation Ngokuchasene Nenxaxheba YoLuntu) emva kweminyaka yokuxhatshazwa okuqhubekayo. U-Prause ukwabango lokuba iintshaba zakhe ezichasene ne-porn ziye zamgxotha, zamsongela ngokudlwengula, kwaye waziphatha kakubi ezibandakanya ukumangalela ngelithi uhlawulwe lishishini elibonisa amanyala.

Isimangalo simangalela uAmtyholwa ngokuxoka ngokuxhonywa, ukusongelwa, okanye ukuphathwa gadalala ngabo nangayiphi na indlela. Iingxelo zesimangalo zithi ezi zizityholo zobuxoki nguPrause kwaye izityholo zakhe zikawonkewonke zezona zinto zibekwa zona. Kwi-afidavithi ehambelana nezomthetho, abantu abalishumi abahlukeneyo, kuquka nabasetyhini abane, bathi bangamaxhoba kaGqr.

Le ayisiyomfazwe ye-Twitter.

Uninzi lwabantu lucinga ukuba izishoshovu ezichasene ne-porn ziyi-feminists enomtsalane UCatharine McKinnon kunye no-Andrea Dworkin, owayefuna ukujonga imifanekiso engamanyala njengokunyhashwa kwamalungelo oluntu kunye nendlela yokurhweba ngabantu.

Kwi twist engaziwayo yeziganeko, kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo, ibiliqela elikhulayo labafana abaye bajikisa umatshini osecaleni wefayile yamanyala kwi-intanethi. Oku kwanda ngokukhawuleza kwenani labantu kuye kwabhubhisa iiwebhusayithi njenge NoFap.com, ukufuna uncedo lwento abaye bazichaza njengesiyobisi i-porn.

Kwezinye iingcali, njengoPrause, ibango lokuba abantu banokuba likhoboka le-porn ayisiyantlukwano ngokwesayensi kuphela kodwa, uthi, kunokuba nobungozi. Abo bayichasayo iphonografi bahlala bepeyintiwa njengabakholwayo besayensi, kwaye bonakalisa ukonakala ebantwini ngokuziphatha okubi ngokwesini kwabantu. Kodwa ezinye iingcali azivumelani.

Umbuzo wokuba ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi ezingamanyala kunokubangela na ukuba umlutha, okunene kubangela utshintsho emzimbeni kuseza kugqitywa. Okwangoku, amawaka amawaka abafana abafuna uncedo kwi-Intanethi idemon njengempazamo yokuchaza iphonografi njengonobangela wokubandezeleka kwabo.

Izikhalazo ezivela kula madoda zibandakanya, kodwa azikhawulelwanga, ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwi-erectile ebusweni beqabane lokwenene, ubunzima bokufezekisa i-orgasm ngexesha lokuthandana, uxinzelelo lwentlalo kunye nokunyuka kwendlela yabo yokubukela ebangela ukuba bafune ngakumbi kunye neendlela ezigqithisileyo yemifanekiso engamanyala ukuze baqhubeke novuko lwabo ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo.

Iindidi zeephonografi ezifumanekayo kwi-intanethi ngokuqinisekileyo zihamba kakhulu ngokubhekisele kwiindawo, ezifana Ukuphambuka kwecala, kwaye uninzi lwabantu ucofa kwiVidiyo enye ukuya kolandelayo banokuza ngokukhawuleza bafumane into eyeothusa.

Xa utshintshiselana nge-imeyile Isithuba seMinyaka Eliwaka, UGqr. Prause uphawule "Siyazi ukuba yindlela yokuziphatha enganqwenelekiyo, abantu abazibandakanyi nokudlala ibhola kakhulu. Ndiyazibuza ukuba zingakanani ezinye iividiyo kwiiwebhusayithi ezingamanyala “ezingcolileyo” ezinokucofa nje ulindele impendulo engokwesini. Oko kukuthi, yonke imifanekiso engamanyala ifuna ukuba ucofe. Yindlela abayenza ngayo imali. Ukuba ubona 'u-Anus uphosile ngaphandle' ndingothuka kakhulu ... kwaye ndinomdla wokwazi. "

Kwabo balwa nomkhwa wokusebenzisa imifanekiso engamanyala abazivayo ngathi bathathe konke ukonwaba ebomini, umdla wabo ukhokelele uninzi lwabo bakholelwe ukuba banokulutha.

Kodwa, kwenzeka njani ukuba le mbambano yemfundo inyukele kwizityholo zoluntu? Kuxhomekeka ekubeni ubuze bani.

Umlo ophakathi kukaNicole Prause kunye neentshaba zakhe ubonakala ngathi uqalisile ngo-Matshi 2013 xa inqaku likaGqr David Ley, lalinesihloko esithi “Ingqondo yakho kwi-porn: ayiyo Addictive, "Yapapashwa Psychology Namhlanje ukukhuthaza isifundo sePreuse esingepapashwa. Emva kwempendulo ebhlogi ebunzi epapashiweyo, Zombini izithuba zazisusiwe ilinde ukupapashwa kophando. Umbhali webhlog yempendulo, uGary Wilson, naye wayengumnini wewebhusayithi ebizwa ngokuba "Ubunzima bakho kwiSono”Elikhankanywe ngegama kwinqaku lokuqala.

UWilson ugqithise impikiswano yeminyaka emithandathu kwiwebhusayithi yakhe kwaye, xa ebeka umgca wexesha, kubandakanya izikhalazo zikaPemuse kwiibhodi ezinamaphepha-mvume kunye nokuzama ukuba abantu badutyulwe ngenxa yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo okanye ubuqhetseba bezemfundo, uninzi lweziganeko zibonakala ngathi ziqalwa nguPrause ngokwakhe. .

Umzekelo, ngoJanuwari 29, 2019, Prause izamile ukuthatha ubunini beempawu zentengiso Igama lewebhusayithi kunye negama lewebhu "IBongo Yakho kwi-Porn." UGary Wilson, obesoloko etyholwa ngokubetha u-Prause, wathatha le ntshukumo njengelinye uhlaselo lomsebenzi wakhe.

Xa ebuzwa ngesi siganeko, uWilson uxelele Isithuba seMinyaka Eliwaka ukuba wafumana inqaku elingaziwayo ukuba uPreuse wafaka isicelo sesizinda sakhe, awayesichasa. Ngaphandle kwale ngcebiso, inokuba ilahlekile iwebhusayithi kunye nomzimba wophando. Ukucengwa ekugqibeleni kurhoxisiwe isicelo sakhe ngo-Okthobha 18, 2019.

Ngeli xesha, ngo-Epreli 2019 iwebhusayithi ebizwa ngokuba "Eyona nto iyiBongo yakho kwiManyala"Kwaye kwenziwa iakhawunti ye-Twitter ehambelana nethe yafunyaniswa ukuba iqhagamshelwe kuNicole Prause, nangona ibhalisiwe phantsi kwegama lomnye umntu. Ukuncoma kunikezelwe Isithuba seMinyaka Eliwaka nengxelo yokugqibela evela kwipropathi enomgangatho ophezulu wokuqonda uphando olwenziwa yi-WIPO kwaye waqinisekisa ukuba le yenye yezenzo ezichasene apha lo kaPemuse ubiza “isuti ye-SLAPP.”

U-Prause wachaza inkuthazo yakhe yokuba afumane iwebhusayithi yeWilson njengomzamo wokuphelisa oko akholelwa ukuba zizityholo ezimanyumnyezi ngaye kwaye azibona njengobungqina bokuziphatha okuxineneyo kwe-cyber. Indawo yewebhu okwangoku ibamba uluhlu oluninzi lweziganeko namaxwebhu apho uWilson ebeka uMthetheleli njengomxhaphazi.

Isimangalo sokuqala sokungcolisa samangalelwa uGqr. Kwagqitywa kufakwa kwi-neurosurgeon uGqirha uDonald Hilton Jr emva kokuba uPrause enxibelelane neyunivesithi apho afundisa njengomprofesa we-adjunct kwaye wenza isikhalazo esithi, phakathi kwezinye izinto, ukuba uHilton wayezibandakanya ekuhlukunyezweni ngokwesondo.

Uphando lukaHilton malunga nokuziphatha kwabo bume ngokwahlukileyo kwisigqibo sikaPrause kwaye bahlala bexabana rhoqo ngenxa yobubi kunye nokusebenzisa imifanekiso engamanyala. UHilton wayengomnye wabokuqala ugxeke Isifundo se-EEG sika-Prause sikhutshwe kwi-2013.

In ityala lakhe, UHilton ukwala ngandlel 'ithile ukuba wamhlukumeza uPreuse kwaye esithi izityholo zakhe zenzelwe ukonakalisa udumo. Ukushukuma kukaPemuse ukugxotha kubonakala kuvuma iziqulatho zee-imeyile azithumileyo kodwa ibanga inkululeko yokuthetha kunye nelungelo lokufaka isikhalazo njengezithethe zakhe.

Igqwetha likaHilton, uDan Packard, uxelele Isithuba seMinyaka Eliwaka ukuba "akukho mntu unokumangalela ngobuxoki umntu ofundela abanye malunga ne-Sexual Harassment kwiinzame zokuzama ukuvala loo mbangi kwaye emva koko azimele ngempumelelo emva koLungiso lokuQala. 'Ukuthetha ngokukhululekileyo' akunakusetyenziswa njengekrele lokuphelisa ingxoxo kunye nengxoxo kwizifundo. ”

An inqaku papashwa ngo isizathu ebuza imibuzo ngendlela uPreuse awakha ngayo amabango akhe okuhlukumeza ngokwesini. Kudliwanondlebe neli nqaku, "Unjingalwazi wezomthetho we-UCLA u-Eugene Volokh, ingcali yoLungiso lokuqala, imibuzo ka-Prause 'yenoveli kunye nengozi entle' yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo. eyakhiwe kwakhona njengehlaselo kuye njenge "nzululwazi yabasetyhini."

Kodwa isimangalo sesibini sihamba kakuhle ngaphaya kwengxabano yemfundo.

Umsunguli weNoFap.com, uAlexander Rhode, uthi kwityala lakhe lokubanjwa wabanjwa kwi-crosshairs emva kokuba evezwe kwinyanga yeKhala 6, 2016, inqaku leNew York Times elibizwa ngokuba yi- “Internet Porn Nearly Ruined Life. Ngoku Ufuna Ukunceda. ”Kwiintsuku ezimbini emva kokuba epapashiwe, uPrause kunye noogxa wakhe, uGqr David Ley, bavele bagculela iRhodes kwi-Twitter kwaye, kwi-tweet esusiyo ngoku, uPrause wachaza iRhodes" njengengubo yomqala. "

Isimangalo sikaRhodes sibonisa ukuba esi sityholo besixhuzuleka kwiminyaka emibini emva kwesi siganeko xa watyholwa nguPrause eqala ukumtyhola esidlangalaleni ngokumgrogrisa nangokumsongela - isityholo awasiphikayo. Kwi- i fidavithi URhode uthi "Andisoze ndizithobe ekunxibelelaneni ngokungeyomfuneko noGqr. Prause."

U-Prause ukwatyhola esidlangalaleni ukuba wafaka izikhalazo ze-FBI ngakuzo zombini iRhodes kunye noGary Wilson kodwa kuzo zombini ezi meko, i-FOI efakwe ngumtyholwa ayizange ivelise ubungqina bayo. Kwelinye icala, uWilson unayo ubungqina obungenisiweyo kwiwebhusayithi yakhe wafaka isikhalazo kuPrause emva kokuthetha nommeli we-FBI ngoDisemba 2018.

Inkqubo yezomthetho isasokola ukufumanisa apho intetho yasimahla iwela khona umgca kungcoliseko olunokwenzeka kwiimpikiswano ze-Intanethi. Umbuzo wokuba ngubani "uyiqalele" ungakhokelela kumngxunya ongapheliyo apho bonke ababandakanyekayo batyholwa "ngoopopayi" (besenza amagama aphambili) kunye nokusasazwa kwe-intanethi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, izinto zihambe kakhulu xa kunxibelelwana nabaqeshi, amatyala enziwa enkundleni, kwaye iqala ukubandakanya i-FBI.

Ugqirha uPrause usandula ukunika ingxelo kwi-fundraiser ejolise ekuncedeni iRhodes ukukhulisa imali ngeemali zakhe ezisemthethweni. Izityholo zokukhalaza, nangona zikhona izinto zomthetho, ukuba le fundraiser inobuqhetseba.

Ngelixa i-akhawunti kaRhode yobuqu ibibekelwe bucala, iakhawunti ye-NoFap ibabhale ngokothusayo ngeziganeko zisithi "Oku kunje ngeshishini lotywala elizama ukuthatha i-Alcoholics Anonymous."

Igqwetha laseRhodes u-Andrew Stebbins unikezelwe Isithuba seMinyaka Eliwaka ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

"Mr. IRhode ihlala kwaye ingumntu othanda ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimpikiswano evusa inkanuko yesini, kwaye yamkela ekuhleni ukugxeka ngokunyaniseka nangokufanelekileyo umsebenzi, izimvo kunye nemibono. Akayi kuvumela ukuba, nangona kunjalo, anyamezele ukuhlaselwa kakubi ngabantu abafuna ukumjongela phantsi, ukumhlazisa aze amenzakalise ngenxa yezimangalo zobuxoki eziyile ukubulala umntu nodumo. Eli tyala liziswa kuphela kwimpendulo, kwaye linikwe umda ngokufanelekileyo, kuhlaselo olunje. "

Ku kutshanje Vice inqaku, Udumo ngu catshulwa esithi "" Ummeli ka-Alexander Rhode kunye ne-NoFap akukho mfanelo yakhe okanye ubungqina bakhe abunasihlahla malunga nam, umlingiswa wam, okanye ishishini lam, "esongeza ukuba iRhodes inelungelo kwimibono yayo, nangona kunjalo ingenalungelo lokusasaza ubuxoki ngam. ukuze azuze imali aze athule. ”

Umbhali ngokufanayo Vice Inqaku ke liqhubeka nokubiza imigaqo-siseko yeNoFap ngokuthi "iyatyibilika," kunye neenzame zokunxibelelanisa iRhodes kwii-supremacists ezimhlophe ngokunika udliwanondlebe luka-Epreli 2016 noGavin McInnes, umsunguli we Abadlali abaziqhenkcezayo, ngaphandle kokuba iqela lasekwa kwiinyanga ezininzi kamva. Ngelishwa, uMcInnes wayengumsunguli we Vice Kwaye ngenxa yoko banonxibelelwano olomelele ngakumbi kupapasho lwabo kunoAlexander Rhodes okanye uNoFap.

Kwaye, ngendlela, esikhokelela kumbuzo wokuqala: Ukufota okanye ukungaphangeli?

Kumawaka abantu, abesilisa nabasetyhini, abazibuza wona kanye loo mbuzo, kuyathandabuza ukuba izinyeliso nezithuko ezivela kubaphandi abaxhasa amanyala ziya kubayeka ukuba batyelele iiwebhusayithi, njengeNoFap kunye neBongo yakho kwi-Porn, abathatha iinkxalabo zabo. ngakumbi nangakumbi.

Idabi lokufunda malunga nokuba ingxaki yabo iluchwechwe okanye alunangxaki, alubalulekanga kangako kubo emva koko bafumane uncedo lokutshintsha umkhwa abaziva ngathi utshabalalisa ubomi babo.