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Akukho mntu waziyo ukuba yintoni unobangela ngokwenene iimpawu ze-post-orgasmic (POIS).
Umntu ophola kwikhoboka le-porn:
Ndingasithatha esi sihloko sibaluleke kakhulu kwabanye abakhotyokisiweyo (kubandakanywa nam), abaye bahlala phakathi kubudlelwane bexesha elide kunye ne-gf yabo (kwimeko yam yiminyaka emi-6). Ndifumana igf yam ingenamtsalane kwaye nam ndingenalo uthando emva Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye ne-Orgasm. Endaweni yoko ndingena kwindlela yokufuna i-dopamine enyanzelekileyo, ndijonge (kwaye ndicinge) okanye malunga namanye amantombazana ashushu, afuna ngakumbi nangakumbi.
Ndizibona sele ndityhalela kude igf yam kangangeentsuku ezithile kwaye ndingafuni nokufuna izinto ezinje ngokubambana. Andikwazi nokunxibelelana; ukudandatheka kunye nexhala lam liphethe. Ngaphandle kwento yokuba andifuni kubuqhawula ubudlelwane bam, ndiyazi kwaye ndivakalelwa kukuba, ukuba neentlobano zesini namanye amantombazana kuya kundishiya – kungekudala okanye kamva – ndinganelisekanga ngokufanayo. Ingxaki yingqondo yam yokufuna i-dopamine enganelisekiyo, ebonakala ngathi ayinakuze ifumane okanye yanele. Kwaye ndiyayithanda i-gf yam, ngoko ndiyazigxeka ngokuziva, ukwenza kunye nokucinga okungaqhelekanga ngamanye amaxesha.
Ukuba no-O kubangela ezi mvakalelo zingafunwayo. Emva kokuba i-OI ibe ne-hangover eyomeleleyo kwaye iphinde ibe namava anamandla okugxotha, oko kunokunditsalela ngokulula kwi-porn, ukuba andikhange ndiphaphe. Imeko iya iba mbi ngakumbi, ukuba ndibuyela kwi-PMO. Ndiyathemba ukuba ndingawulungisa lo mba ngokufezekisa ukuqalisa kwakhona (nokuba kuthatha iintsuku ezingama-200 ngaphandle kwe-PMO). Andifuni kohlukana negf yam – she is in fact ayiyongxaki. Inkqubo yam ye-dopamine eyonakele kakhulu ngokungathandabuzekiyo ibangela oku.
Ndiyazibuza, inoba izophinda ibuyele esiqhelweni ndiphinde ndoneliseke nge normal sex ne gf yam. Ngaphandle kwemiba yam kunye ne-ED kunye ne-PE, isondo kunye ne-O okwangoku akonwabanga kakhulu kuba ndiyazi ukuba iimvakalelo ezingaqhelekanga ziya kubuya ngokukhawuleza nge-IO - kwaye ndiyazonda ngenxa yale mvakalelo. Kodwa andinakuzibamba. Iyamangalisa, yonke le nto yokulutha kwe-PMO…
Abantu ngamanye amaxesha baqaphela ukuba iimvakalelo ezintle ze-orgasm ziphumelela ngeempawu ezingathandekiyo ze-orgasmic, ezihlala zijikeleza iiyure ukuya kwiiveki. Ezi zimpawu ziyahluka ngokubanzi kuzo zombini iziphumo kunye nobunzima. Ezinye zichubekile kangangokuba zichaphazela kuphela isimo sengqondo kunye nokuqonda; abanye babonakala ngokwasemzimbeni.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba wena, okanye iqabane lakho, unokuchaphazeleka ngeempawu ze-post-orgasmic, ndicebisa ezi zimbini zamva nje Psychology Namhlanje zithuba:
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Iimpawu ze-post-orgasm azihlali zifana, nakumntu omnye. Ngokomzekelo, maxa wambi ayahluka ngokuxhomekeke kuhlobo lwesini ubani analo (ukuphulula amaphambili, iintlobano zesini, iintlobano zesini emlonyeni, njalo njalo), indlela adla ngokusetyenziswa ngayo ukuze afikelele incopho, enoba ubani uyazinkcinkca ngomzimba ukuze ahluthe, nokuba kukangaphi efikelela incopho. . Okubangela umdla kukuba, kukho kukhula ko bungqina ukuba i-orgasm kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kunciphisa uxinzelelo olungcono kunezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ngokwesondo, oku kuthetha ukuba ineempawu ezahlukeneyo ze-neurochemical.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba iimpawu ze-post-orgasmic zazo zonke iintlobo zihambelana neziganeko ze-neurochemical engqondweni. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, nangona kunjalo, abaphandi abakhange baphande iziphumo ze-orgasm kwingqondo ngaphaya kwesiqingatha seyure emva kovuthondaba (kwaye kutsha nje usuku kwabasetyhini). Abaphandi baseTshayina wenza fumanisa ukuba ukuphuma kwe-ejaculation kubangela umjikelo wehomoni owandisa ubuncinci iintsuku ezisixhenxe. Kukwakho nentwana yobungqina obuvela kwizifundo zezilwanyana obubonisayo utshintsho lwe-neurochemical emva kokuphuma okanye ukudibanisa ngamandla, ezinye zazo ezibonakala zithatha ixesha ukuya kwiiveki ezimbini.
Ingqondo URichard A. Friedman yabonisa ukuba iimpawu zasemva kwe-orgasmic zokuqaqamba, ukudakumba njalo njalo, azikho ngokwasengqondweni okanye zinxulumene nehlazo, njengoko bekucingelwa ngokubanzi. Waphawula ukuba nezigulana ezisempilweni ngokweemvakalelo zichaza iimpawu ezinjalo. Iimpawu ezinzima kakhulu ngamanye amaxesha zihamba ngegama I-Post-Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS). Iimbangela kunzima ukuzihlukanisa, kodwa i-POIS inokuba sisiphumo esisecaleni samayeza.
Kungenzeka ukuba umjikelo we-neurochemical ojikelezayo emva kokuba i-orgasm yenzeke kuthi sonke, kwaye abantu abayibonayo bafumana inguqulelo enamandla. Ngokomzekelo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba abasebenzisi be-porn abanzima, abo iziphumo zokuvuselela kakhulu zibonakala zinciphisa impendulo yolonwabo kwingqondo, bafumana nje "i-hangover" ye-neurochemical emva kokugqithiswa-enye engathandekiyo ukuba iqhube. babuyela emva ekufuneni isiqabu se-neurochemical kwenye incopho.
Lo mfana waqaphela ukuba xa sele ephumile kwi-porn (ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi) kwiinyanga ze-6, iimpawu zakhe zokuphulukisa i-post-masturbation zancitshiswa kakhulu:
Ndiza kuhamba ngeentsuku ze-56 ngaphandle kwe-PMO. Emva koko, emva kokuba ndiphulule i-masturbated, ndandiziva ndikhululekile: ndingenanto, ndinexhala, ndididekile. Kodwa khawucinge ntoni? Emva kwezi nyanga ze-6 kungekho manyala ndingatsho ekugqibeleni ukuba andinakukhathazeka malunga nokudandatheka okuncinci / okungahleliwe kwakhona. Inkungu encinci yobuchopho kuphela kophawu lwam ngoku.
Lo mfo wabona ukuphuculwa kwexesha:
Ekuqaleni kokuqalisa kwam kwakhona ndiza kuwa ngokunzulu kwi-flatline emva kwe-O. Ngoku andiyenzi. Ndisafumana iziphumo ezingalunganga emva kwe-O ngamanye amaxesha. Ubuso bam buyacaphuka, ngamanye amaxesha amehlo arhawuzelelwa (ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ndisebenzise amathontsi amehlo), ngamanye amaxesha ndiyozela. Zonke ezi zinokuba ngcono, kodwa ndingahlupheka kuhlobo olulula lwe-POIS, ngubani owaziyo, ixesha liya kuxela.
Nazi ezinye iinkcazo ezivela kubasebenzisi besayithi abaye baqaphela utshintsho oluqhubekayo emva kwe-orgasmic.
Xa ndiphulula amaphambili ukuya kwi-orgasm ekuseni intloko yam inenkungu kwisiqingatha sokuqala sosuku. Xa ndisiya eyunivesithi yonke into ibonakala ikude kwaye ingeyiyo yokwenyani. Ingathi ndingumbukeli othe ngcu entlokweni yam ndijonge ngaphandle kwiglasi eqabaka. Xa ndicinga ngayo, ii-orgasm ezimbalwa zokugqibela endikhe ndanazo neqabane lam azizange zibe nasiphumo. Ndaziva ndiqhelekile kakhulu ngaphandle kwexesha elifutshane lokozela emva kwe-orgasm.
Jonga ividiyo ngumfana owayeneempawu ezinjengomkhuhlane eziye zayeka emva kokuba eyekile iphonografi.
Kwezi nyanga zobudlelwane obude ndiye ndaqaphela ngokucacileyo ukuba, xa ndingenzi i-masturbation, uthando lwam kunye nothando lwentombi yam luyanda. Oko ndiyabona kwindlela endimbhalela ngayo nam. Ndinemvakalelo entle kakhulu ephuphumayo yothando evakala ngokubonakalayo kwindawo yentliziyo. Kodwa emva kokuphulula amaphambili kukho utshintsho kuloo nto. Imvakalelo yothando (nangona isekhona) iyancipha, kwaye indlela endibhalela ngayo iyatshintsha, nayo. Ndiba ngumntu ongazithandiyo, kwaye oko kubonakala kumazwi am. Emva kweeveki ezimbini zokungaphululi amalungu esini izinto ziyatshintsha kwakhona.
Ndiyindoda, 33, kwaye ndiyazibuza ukuba kutheni uninzi lwamaxesha emva kokwabelana ngesondo ndiziva ndidakumbile. Isenokuba sesona sondo sikhulu, kodwa emva koko ndidandathekile kwaye andikwazi ukulinda ukuba ndimke kuye.
Ndivakalelwa kukuba abantu be-POIS bakhethekile kuba banxibelelanisa iimpawu zabo kunye ne-orgasm. Andikwazanga ukwenza unxibelelwano de ubukho bayo obunokwenzeka bubonakaliswe kum. Kwakukho ezinye iimpembelelo ezininzi ezichaza ngokuchaseneyo-ukuba okukhona i-orgasms ingcono ngakumbi. ibe! Ndichithe amawaka eedola ndisebenza ngemiba yam engaphantsi kwengqondo. Kuphela ke ukuba kwenzeke into efanayo kwakhona kubudlelwane bam obulandelayo. . . njengewotshi.
Ngoko andizange ndiphulule amalungu esini okanye ndijonge i-porn ngeentsuku ze-124. I-orgasm yam yokugqibela yayiziintsuku ezingama-71 ezidlulileyo. Ukuphela komsebenzi wesondo ngeli xesha bekukunye namantombazana. Inkqubela yam ibindikhathaza. Xa ndiqala ukuziva kamnandi intombazana idla ngokuza. Okanye ndenze iinzame zokufowunela intombi sigqibe singcolisana. Ukujikeleza ngaphandle kwe-orgasm kubangela ixesha le-hangover isibini mhlawumbi ngeveki. Ukuhamba kunye ne-orgasm kubangela ixesha le-hangover malunga neentsuku ezingama-21 zokudakumba okukhulu. Lo mjikelo wenze izihlandlo ezininzi kwaye ubangela ukusetwa kwakhona ngokupheleleyo kokubuyisela. Ibindikhathaza kakhulu into yokuba ndiphinde ndisetwe ngokutsha xa ndiqala ukuziva ngcono.
KHANGELA IFOMU YEPOIS KWISAYENSI YEZE
IIakhawunti ZOBUQU EZINGAKUMBI
KHANGELA ULUHLU LOPHANDO OBUFUMANE UBUNGQINA BE-POST-ORGASM NEUROCHEMICAL SHIFTS
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