Ngaba sixotha umgca phakathi kwabantu abadala kunye nabantwana?
Okwangoku, inkcubeko yethu iyancipha amandla okuthinteka kwaye ukutolika phosakeleyo ukubaluleka kwazo. Oko kukuthi, imikhwa yezesondo ithathwa njengengenabungozi ngenxa yokuba ukuthanda ezesondo kucingelwa ukuba kubenzima kuyo nantoni na oyibonayo. Iingcinga ezimbini zetyhula zilandela le ndawo iphosakeleyo: Okokuqala, sicinga ukuba eyona nto ifikelela incopho yayo ukuveza imeko engaguqukiyo; Okwesibini, sicinga ukuba xa umntu eqala ukufikelela kwincopho yento ethile engalunganga ufumanisa ubunyani bendalo. Ukuqiqa okungalunganga okunje kwavela ngokuyinxenye ngenxa kwezopolitiko eyanikezela ukukhanyela Ukuphanda ngefuthe leplastiki lokuziphatha ngokwesondo kubuchwephesha bomvuzo ojikelezayo womvuzo.
Amava okwenene, nangona kunjalo, ubonisa ukuba ukuvuselela okukhulu kunokutshintshisa izinto ezithandwayo ngokwesini. Ewe, ezinye zazo I-intanethi ye-intanethi yanamhlanje Abasebenzisi bafumana inguqu yokungabikho kolondolozo kwiingqondo zabo kunye neepatheni zokuvusa-mhlawumbi ngoku zichazwe kakuhle ezininzi iimvavanyo kutyhila i iplastiki yengqondo. Ezi zinguqu zinzima ukuguquka ngelixa usebenzise i-pornography. Ngamafutshane, iingcinga zesondo eziqala njengento engabonakaliyo nangenanto engenakunjengeemigubho zingabakho iingcingo, oko kukuthi, zinokubeka iindlela zobuchopho ezijoliswe phambili kuba zidibene nomvuzo omkhulu we-orgasm.
Kumanqaku adlulileyo sibonisile ukuba olu tshintsho lunokuphazamisa kakhulu ukuba lukhona ukuphosakela ngenguqu kwisimo sokuziphatha ngokwesondo esisisiseko. Kodwa banokubangaphantsi kakhulu. Cinga ngamava alo mfo:
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Ukukrazula ingqondo yesicatshulwa esingathandekiyo, umntu kufuneka ayeke ukusebenzisanisa izijikelezo zengqondo-apha kule ngxaki ngokungabonisi ngokukhawuleza. Ukuxhatshazwa ngokuthe ngcembe kwinqabela izijikelezo ezifanelekileyo, nangona kungenakukucima ngokupheleleyo. Ukutshintshwa kwe-Flashbacks akuqhelekanga.
Iibhokhwe kunye neengqondo ezingenasiphelo
Kunyaka ophelileyo, seva ngabesilisa nabasetyhini malunga nolunye utshintsho olunxulumene ne-porn olubangela uxinzelelo. Umfazi waseYurophu wabhala:
Kwimifanekiso engamanyala, imizimba kunye nezitho zangasese zihlala zonakalisiwe, ke umntu ngokuzenzekelayo uzilungiselela imeko yabucala kunye nemizimba engenanwele. Ukujongwa okuqhelekileyo kwezitho zangasese ezonakeleyo emva koko kubangele ukuba iziko lomvuzo wamanyala likwazi ukulandela umvuzo. Uninzi lwezononophelo lubandakanya isondo esisezantsi, ngoko umbukeli naye ulungelelaniswe neempundu njengendlela yokufumana i-orgasm. Nawuphi na umntu ohamba ze, ongezantsi uya kuthi emva koko axhokonxe umnqweno we-orgasm, nokuba yeyendoda, eyasetyhini okanye yomntwana.
Ndiyifumene njani? Ndine ntombazana eneminyaka eyi-2 ehlala ekhayeni lam kwangoko, kwaye uyathanda ukuhamba ehamba ze. Ndineentloni ukusho ukuba ezinye zezikhundla zakhe zenze ukuba ndibe nesimo sengqondo soononophala. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ndiya kuthatha isigqibo malunga nento enokuyenza ngayo kunye (uxolo ukuthetha oko) ukuvusa. Andiyi kuphinda ndenze into.
Kodwa kuyothusa ukuba, nangona ndingakhange ndibukele iphonografi kwisithuba esingaphezulu kweminyaka emibini, izinto ezibangela ukungazi zisekhona, zigxunyekwe kwingqondo yam, kwaye bazityhile ngoku. Kwaye nazi ukuba ndingumfazi! Kuyothusa ukuba andikaze ndibone ngaphambi kokuba iphonografi ibimise imeko yam engacacanga. Ndisakhumbula amaxesha apho abafazi kwilizwe lam bengazange bachebe. Nokuba yimilenze yabo, kwaye akukho mntu wayenokuziva kakubi ngayo. Kwaye ngoku? Uziva ulilizwe lokwenyani ukuba awuchetyi, kunjalo ke.
Kulungile, ngamava omnye umntu lowo.
Ukungabi naswele: isondo esingathandekiyo sesondo
Ngoku kutshanje, indoda ecinga ngokufanayo yachaza eli liva:
Ndaqala ukunomdla kwi-psychology yoonografi ngonyaka okanye odlulileyo xa ndifunda Ubunzima obuziguqula nguNorman Doidge. Ngaphakathi isahluko esinye uxoxisana nomthengi owasebenzisana naye owayenengxaki kwi-intanethi. Le ncwadi ibaluleke kakhulu, kodwa esi sahluko ndenze ndicinga ngendlela ndiza ngayo ukulwa kunye nokusetyenziswa kwam izilo. Ibali lam aliqhelekanga, kodwa mhlawumbi lingaxhomekekanga.
Andizange ndisebenzise iphonografi konke konke de kube malunga ne-28 kwaye nangoko, kwinqanaba eliphantsi kangako ukuba liphantse lingahoywa. Ndatyhilwa ngokufutshane kuyo ndineminyaka elishumi elinesithandathu ubudala, kodwa andizange ndingene kuyo. Ukudityaniswa kwezinto kutshintshe yonke loo nto. Into ephambili nangona yayinabucala kunye nokufikelela ngokulula kumanyala ngecompyuter. Ndiqale ukuyisebenzisa rhoqo kuba mna nomfazi wam sinomntwana wethu wokuqala kwaye ngenxa yoko, imfumba yezinto itshintshile, ezinye zazo bendizilindele, kwaye ezinye azilunganga.
Ndiyathanda ukucinga ngathi njengendoda engumfazi. Ndatshata nomfazi wam kuba ungumfazi onzulu kwaye ndiyamhlonela kwaye ndimthandayo. Ndiyathanda ukuthatha inxaxheba ekukhuliseni amantombazana amabini amantombazana, kwaye sisebenza kanzima ukuba nobuhlobo obunothando nobulungileyo. Kwaye, mna kunye nomfazi wam sidinwe kwiimbopheleleko zethu zabazali endicinga ukuba ndiza kusebenzisa iifrafikhi njengendlela yokuzonwabisa, kwaye ndishiye umfazi ukuba aphele ubuthongo obuthandayo. Saye saxubusha oku, kwaye wayekuyo yonke into.
Andizange ndikwazi oko ndakuzo. Kuye kwaphazamiseka gqitha ukuva utshintsho kwengqondo yam eyenzekayo ngenxa yesandi sokusetyenziswa kwamanyala. Emva kokusebenzisa i-porn, kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezilandelayo ndifumana imifanekiso engacingekanga kunye nemicabango engqondweni yam, eyenziwa ngamava angalindelekanga.
Eyona nto indothusileyo ngamava kwindawo yomhlobo olungileyo ngobusuku obunye, ngelixesha lesidlo sangokuhlwa. Amakhwenkwe am amabini amancinci ayesabelana ngokuhlamba kunye nentombi yabo eneminyaka eyi-8 kwaye ndangena ukuze ndikhuphe abantwana ndatshintsha. Ngequbuliso, xa ndabona intombazana eneminyaka eli-8 ubudala, ingqondo yam yaqala ukuzisa iingcinga zesondo. Ndothuke ndaphuma ndaya ngqo ngaphandle ndacela umfazi wam ukuba angathatha indawo.
Le asiyonto onokuyixelela nabani na. Ezi ayizizo iingcinga endakha ndazonwabela ebomini bam, ukanti, zazikho, zingabikho ndawo. Kodwa ayenzeki nyhani. Ngoku ndiyabona ukuba uninzi lwe-porn ebendijonge kuyo ibonisa abantu basetyhini abangenazinwele ze-pubic- ayisiyiyo into endiyithandayo, okanye bendikhe ndayiqaphela- kodwa, yayinayo, ndingazi mna, ukuba ibethelelekile engqondweni yam.
Inyaniso yokuba iphonografi inokuyenza le nto kum, yandiphazamisa kakhulu, kwaye ngenxa yoko, bendinengxoxo kunye nenkosikazi yam malunga nokusebenzisa kwam iphonografi. Ndithathe amanyathelo okuyilawula, kodwa kunzima kwaye kufuneka ndihlale ndiphaphile. Andazi ukuba uluntu lwethu luzakwenza ntoni ukunqanda le ngxaki. Ndiyazi ukuba kum, ukuba bendingenayo ikhompyuter kunye nokufikelela ngokulula kuyo, ndiyathandabuza ukuba ukusebenzisa kwam iphonografi bekuya kuba yingxaki.
Kuyakhuthaza ukuba ngoku kukho iindawo apho amadoda anokuxoxa ngokuvulekileyo ngobungozi bamanyala kwiimpawu zengqondo zethu. Kungenxa yokuba, ikakhulu kuluntu lwethu, kwaye ngakumbi uninzi lwamadoda, siyakhuthazwa ukuba sihlekise ngento engenamsebenzi, ethi yona isanda, uninzi lwethu luyazi ukuba ayisiyiyo.
Zobuncwane
Iinwele ze-pubic kunye ne-labia minora ebonakalayo ikhula kuphela xa ufikisa. Zombini ziyimpawu yabasetyhini abadala. Amadoda athe tye kwakudla ngokufaka intambo yokutsala kwabo ngokwesondo kubantu abadala ababhinqileyo basebenzisa iindlela ezibonakalayo ezibonakalayo zeenwele ze-pubic kunye neelebhu eziqhelekileyo (phakathi kwabanye). Ewe, amadoda amakhulu kwiforum yethu athi awabafumani abafazi abachebiweyo ngokukodwa. Amava abo okuqala ezesondo ayebonakala enabafazi abaqhelekileyo, okanye iingcinga / iimagazini ezifanayo.
Kwabaninzi, le meko yeklasikhi engaqondakaliyo iyadimaza umdla wokubonakalayo kubantu ababhinqileyo. “Ukuba ayinaboya, akushushu. Yiphose emva. ”
Kwilizwe lanamhlanje lamanyala, nangona kunjalo, "ukuchetywa," njengokwabelana ngesondo ezimpundwini, kunjalo de rigueur. Ngoku siva amadoda amancinci athi abayi kuba nantoni (isondo) ukuba bayenze nabesifazane abangenasiphako. Yintoni eyenzekayo? Abasebenzisi abancinci abancinci abancinci banqanda amazinyo abo kwiindawo zokulwa. Le nto nje xa ubuchopho babo bubuhlungu kakhulu ukuvuza kunye nokuxhuma ngokukhawuleza isondo sabo sovuko kwiinkcukacha ezihambelanayo-kule ngxaki, izicatshulwa ezingenaswele. Le nkqubo inokuchaphazela abanye ababukeli abadala, nabo.
Ingqondo ebuthathaka inokuthi ifowunele kwindawo entsha yesondo kunye ne-orgasms ezimbalwa ezinamandla. Emva koko, ubuchopho obunjalo buya kuphendula kolo luvo (nokuba luvusile okanye lurhoxile) ngaphambi kokuba umnini wengqondo ade ayiqonde le nto. Ngamafutshane, isekethe yomvuzo wobuchopho ibangela impendulo enamandla phambi kwecortex yomntu engaphambili unethuba lokususa isikhokelo.
Kwezinye iibongo, imimiselo yeklasi ibonisa ukuba yinto ephezulu ye-slope ephazamisayo ukuya kutshintsho olusisigxina lomjikelezo wesiphaluka. Ezi zitshintsho zivelisa inqanaba eliphezulu kakhulu lokukhululwa kwe-dopamine kwizicwangciso zobuchopho eziphambili (ukukhuthazwa). Olu tshintsho lugqithiso ludla luhamba kunye jikelele kuncipha kwimpendulo yolonwabo kwengqondo (ukungafuneki). Ngokudibeneyo olu tshintsho olunxulumene nesiyobisi luqhuba iminqweno yokwanda kwezinto ezikhuthazayo.
Umkhwa ongenaboya, ulutsha alulahlekanga kumaqabane ababhinqileyo kwaye banokuba ngamaqabane abasebenzisi be-porn abanobunzima banamhlanje. Basenethemba lokujikela kumaqabane abo aneemeko ezithile. Ngokophando lwe-2010, ilebhu eboniswe kwi-porn ukuqhubela ngaphantsi ngaphezu kwelabi ezichazwe kwiincwadi zonyango kunye neminye imithombo.
Isiphumo? Hhayi nje unyango lwe-wax, kodwa kwakhona ukuhlinzwa ukuphelisa iimpawu zokukhula ngocansi zixhaphakile. Ukusebenzisa ukucheba kunye nokuhlinzwa, abesetyhini bahlaziya ngamabomu izifo zabo zokuzalwa, oko kukuthi, ngokubangela ukuba babonakale bengabantwana, abaselula.
Ngaba siyasilahla ukukhuphaza kwethu ngesondo kunye nabantwana?
Ngaba olu tshintsho kukuthandeka kokubonakalayo okunesimo esisusa isithintelo esiguqukileyo esakha sathintela isondo sabantu abadala nabantwana? Ukuba oku kunokwenzeka, singathemba njani, njengesiqhelo, ukuba sibe nengxoxo evulekileyo malunga noku? Okanye wenze uphando oluthembekileyo? Ngenxa yokuzimisela kwabasemagunyeni banamhlanje ukuba bathathe nayiphi na impendulo yezesondo kwimifanekiso yabantwana kubonisa ukuba umntu uxhaphaza abantwana, ngubani onokuzama ukuxoxa ngeemvakalelo ezinjalo ngaphandle kweforam ye-Intanethi engaziwayo ... mhlawumbi?
Ingxoxo iyadingeka, nangona kunjalo. Abantu abanomtsalane abancinci babone iminqweno yabo zesondo. Kuya kuba bubulumko ukucacisa ukuhlula phakathi zabo imeko kunye ne-randomly wired,phambi kokuba Abasebenzisi bezononophelo abagqithisileyo bephutha ngokwabo kwiiprogram. Amagosa okuthotyelwa komthetho, nawo, kufuneka afunde umahluko:
Anthony: Ndaqala ukujonga iphonografi, rhoqo, malunga neminyaka emihlanu eyadlulayo. Okokuqala kwakukho abafazi abahle, emva koko i-hardcore porn, emva koko ukufakwa okungaqhelekanga, emva koko abagqithisi, emva koko abagxeki, emva koko ii-hermaphrodites, emva koko i-porn yolutsha, emva koko iimodeli ezincinci kunye nentolongo ngoku (kungekudala iza kuhamba). Njengoko iminyaka idlulile ndaba nomdla omncinci ekutshayeni amalungu esini kwaye ngakumbi nangakumbi ndinomdla ekuphandeni "izinto ezintsha". Xa ndijonga emva, andiboni ukuba ndihluleke njani ukuba ndibone ukuba ndinengxaki.
Abantu abafumana iminqophiso engafunekiyo ngokwesondo, baya kulungele ukuwayeka. Ngoba?
1. Ukuxhalabisa ukukhathazeka malunga nesinxeba esingacatshangiswanga ngesondo ngokunjalo fakelwa intambo njengendawo evusayo… ekhokelela kwintlungu, kodwa ivuse, "uvavanyo" olunamandla lokujonga ukuba ngaba impendulo engafunekiyo isekhona na. Uvavanyo ngalunye lomeleza ukujikeleza kwengqondo okufanelekileyo, okwenza umsebenzi wokuphinda ubuye ube ngumceli mngeni ngakumbi. Ngoncedo lokuguqula le OCD, bona umsebenzi we Jeffrey Schwartz MD.
2. Ngokugqwesa ekusebenziseni iphonografi okungapheliyo, ukuthanda izinto ngokungafunekiyo kunokuba qhubeke u kuhlutha esitsha, mhlawumbi emangalisa, izikhokelo.
Ukuguqula ukuthanda kunokuba nzima. Ifuna umonde kunye nokungaguquguquki ngokupheleleyo ekungacingeli malunga, okanye ekuphumeleleni, kwiingxaki ezinengxaki. Ukuthintela i-intanethi ye-intanethi rhoqo kunceda nayo, kuba ukuvuselela kakhulu kunokuqhuba ukunyuka.
Ngaba ukungabi naswele kwi-pornographic?
Usenokuthi ngaphakathi kwakho, “Owu nceda. Ndiyawazi umahluko phakathi komntwana nomntu omdala xa ndibukele iphonografi! ” Ayisiyondawo leyo. Izinja zikaPavlov zazisazi umahluko phakathi kwentsimbi yakhe kunye neAlpo, kodwa emva kwethutyana bayaginyisa xa beva intsimbi yodwa.
Iibhokhwe zeplastiki. Emva kokuba siqhube i-cue, asinayo indlela yokwazi xa iya kubangela ukusabela. Umsebenzisi onobomi obunomdla obonwayo wathi:
I-porn kinda iphambanisa nezinto ozikhethayo. Kukho izinto endandizicekisa zona ekuqaleni, endisazifumana [emva kokuchacha] ndizifumana zibangela inkanuko kwaye zinenkanuko, kwaye ndingazivumeli ingqondo yam ijolise kuyo. Xa uqala ukwahlukana noononophala awukwazi ukukunceda kodwa ucinge ngabo kuba bafana nephepha lodonga lobomi bakho. Endaweni yokuphendula ngokuqatha kwiingcinga ezingafunekiyo, ndizityeshele ngokuzolileyo kwaye ndigxile kwenye into.
Ukuba unamathela kuyo uya kufika kwindawo enje ngokuba wawungubani ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukusebenzisa iphonografi. Ngokomzekelo, ndiyindoda engqingiliyo kodwa ngaphezu kweminyaka yokujonga iifostile ndaqala ukujonga ngokungathandabuzekiyo i-junk guys. I-Porn yenza ukuba ndiqonde ukuba onke la madoda ayenayo i-penises, kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba bajonge ngendlela efanayo ndiza kuhlola umfazi. Andizange ndibuze imibuzo yam yesini, kodwa yandenza ndothuka xa ndizifumana ndifunda ikrakra katitshala wekatala. Ndiza kucinga ngaphakathi kwam, "Yintoni le ndiyenzayo? Andibathandi abafana. ” Esi sisiganeko esinqabileyo kakhulu namhlanje, kwaye asikhathazi kangako ngoku ukuba ndiyayiqonda indlela iphonografi ebangela ngayo utshintsho lweplastiki olungalunganga kwingqondo.
Isibongozo uhambe ngoku ku khuthaza. Ingaba nzima kakhulu kwingqondo ephosakeleyo bejamelene neengxaki lokubuyela kwikhaya le-homeostasis emva kokugqithisa. Nangona kunjalo, iimeko zakho zihlawulela ukucinga kabini ngaphambi kokuxhamla kwi-hyperstimulating, okanye ingenanto yokuchasa. Kungcono ukunyamezela ixesha elingenakonwabatha Ukuxhalaba ngokwesondo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngexesha lokuvuselela kwakho okuqhelekileyo akukwenzeli lona ngenxa yokuba ingqondo yakho ayizange ibuyele kwimvakalelo evamile, kunokuba ubeke umngcipheko ekunciphiseni ukuthanda izinto kwiingqondo zakho ngokunyanzelisa iincopho zezinto eziphathekayo.
Imibutho yokudibana kwezesondo ayazi, kwaye, kwezinye iingqondo kwanezo zingaphezulu ziyomelela. Kokulungileyo okanye okungalunganga, iingqondo zethu ziyiplastiki. Oko kukuthi, imikhwa yezesondo esiyisebenzisayo ukufikelela kuvuthondaba ayisiyonyani, kwaye ukuthanda ezesondo akubekelwanga ematyeni (ngokungafaniyo nesiseko sokuziphatha ngokwesondo). Ngamafutshane, sinolawulo ngakumbi kunokuba besicinga. Lixesha lokuba uyilolonge. Ngubani ofuna ukufumana umntwana ophambi kwexesha lomhlobo ukuphazamiseka kwezesondo?
Amazwana ngabafundi beli nqaku:
Mna kunye nabahlobo bam besincoko malunga nale nto nje iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kwinqaku. Abahlobo bam babecinga ukuba abapapashi kunye neenwele babezihlaziye kumfazi xa ndandicinga ukuba yi-sexy (ekubeni nje igcinwe kakuhle).
Kwaye ndaqala ukuzibuza ukuba kutheni izinto endizikhethayo zahlukile kwezinye? Emva kokuba zonke iinwele zendalo kwaye kufanele ukuba zibe yinxalenye yomtsalane wesini, kude kube lixesha elingamashumi eminyaka emva, abasetyhini babengengabo kangako kwi-waxing yaseBrazil nayo yonke loo nto. Ngapha koko, kwezona ndawo zishushu zaseHollywood.
Ke kutheni le nto ngesiquphe yokucheba yonke into icocekile kwaye emva koko yandibetha, ibindim (mhlawumbi) kuphela kwabahlobo bam abangazange bangene kwi-porn.
Kucacile kum ukuba ubuninzi boononophala butshintsha njani ukuthanda izinto zesondo kunye nezinto ozikhethayo. Ndikhumbula xa ndandithandana ne-ex yam, eneneni kwakufuneka ndicele i-ex yam ukuba ingazixhamli. Kwirekhodi, andidibanisi ukungabi nazinwele kunye nabaselula (nangona ndiyiqonda into efana nayo), kodwa yinto enkulu endicimayo kuba ayisiyiyo indlela indalo eyayinqwenele ukuba ibe phaya ezantsi.
Ndenza izinto kunye nomlingane wam endibonayo kwi-porn ngaphandle kokuyiqonda. Ndiyanyanyiswa yincwadana yakhe ye-pubic nangona ndibiza ukuba ndiyamthanda ubunqunu bomfazi. Idibene kum, kodwa ndiyabona ukuba xa ndiyiqonda kakuhle kwaye ndizama ukuyifumana kwinkqubo yam, kunye nexesha kunye nomonde, ngoko ihamba. Konke kuthatha ixesha kunye nokubuyisa ubuchopho.
Malunga nengxaki yakho "yelungu lobufazi". Bendihlala ndinengxaki efanayo ngenxa yokubukela iminyaka ye-anal porn. Ndifumene ubuchopho bam buxhonywe ezimpondweni ukuze isini sangasese sangasese singabinamdla. Kodwa emva kwexesha lokuqalisa kwakhona elitshintshileyo kum. Ndandisoloko ndifumana ukulungiswa kwi-blowjob okanye kwi-handjob, kodwa xa kwakufika kwisini sangasese sangasese ukulungiswa kwam kwakusoloko kusilela. Ngoku le yinto enzima kakhulu ukujongana nayo, ndinomfazi wamaphupha akho phambi kwakho uhamba ze, ndikulindele ukuba umthathe kwaye ubone kwaye ulungelelanise ukuba kulapho bendihlala ndifuna ukuba khona, kodwa akukho nto yenzekayo ezantsi. Oku kuya kutshintsha ngokuqalisa kwakhona. Gcina up kunye nokuqalisa kwakho kwakhona kwaye wenze konke. Omnye umba ophambili kukuyeka ukucinga.
Ndiphinde ndaqala iintsuku ezingama-77 kungekho pmo kwaye ndazama ukukhusela iingcinga zobufazi nje ukuba zingene. Ukuba ufunda iibhloko zam kunye nezihloko zam endizithumileyo ndiqinisekile ukuba ungafunda okuninzi kwimibuzo yakho emininzi ephendulweyo. Ke ndaye ndaluvavanya olunye usuku ukuze ndibone ukuba ndingavuswa ngaphandle kweenyawo, ubufazi, njl. Ndabona ukuba ukujonga iinyawo zakhe kwandiguqula, kodwa ke xa ndisiya kubanga (konke ngexesha langaphambili) ndaziva ndingavulanga kangako. Ke ndigxile emabeleni akhe, ebusweni nasezimpundwini zakhe ndaqala ukumunca iingono zakhe ndimphuze iimpundu njengoko wayendinika intloko. Ndigqibile ukugcina ipenisi yam kunzima kwaye ndiphume ngaphandle kwengxaki. Ipenis yam yayinzima ukusukela ngexesha lokuhamba ze kwi-massage. Ndiqaphele ukuba ipenisi yam ibinovakalelo xa eqala ukuyinika isandla kwaye ndamxelela ukuba andiyifuni loo nto waqhubeka ngebhuljob. Kwakumangalisa kwaye xa ndandidlala ndicinga ngendlela ipenisi yam evakalelwa ngayo kwaye ndingena ngcinga. Ndisazi ukuba andiphiliswanga ngokupheleleyo kodwa ndiyazi ukuba umnqweno wam wokuzalwa okuluhlaza uye wanyamalala phantse ngokupheleleyo kwaye nokuba ingqondo yam ikulungele ukubuyisela izinto ezilungileyo ngokwenene :). Ukuba ufunda iibhlog zam uyabona ukuba bendinexhala njengawe malunga nomba wobuntwana njengowona ufunxa kakhulu. I-Btw ndingu 23 kwaye ndaqala nge-porn fetish ebusheni eneminyaka eyi-13 eyenyuka yaya kwi-bdsm, ukuhlazeka, ubufazi, i-ballistic, kwaye yaphela nam ndizenza inja yamantombazana. Ke isiphetho sam ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kukuba ndiyakuhlala ndifumana iinyawo ezinomtsalane kuba bendizithanda iinyawo ngaphambi kokuba ndibukele iphonografi, kodwa andizukunikezela ingqalelo njengoko bendisenza kuba kuninzi kakhulu onokukwenza ngesini okanye ngemilomo yamantombazana. kunye namabele kunye namabele. Unokucinga kakuhle ewe ngokuqinisekileyo iyavakala kodwa ingqondo yam ayivuswanga. Ingqondo yakho iyakuqonda ukuba emva kokuba uyekisile iphonografi kunye ne-orgasm yexesha elithile. Ngoku andinayo iminqweno emininzi kwaye ndivuswa kuphela xa ndibona abafazi bokwenyani okanye ndithandana nabo / ndibachukumisa. Ukuba unemibuzo ndinguye, ndingathanda ukunceda umntu. Ndandingumlingisi esikolweni, ndibalulekile ebomini
Kwaye konke kwaye ndizithiyile ukuba ndithobela kakhulu kwigumbi lokulala. Ngoku ndibaninzi
eqhelekileyo
Kwaye akunjalo ngokuthobela.
Ndinebali elichanekileyo njengawe .. Kodwa umahluko kukuba bendingenalo unyawo lomntwana ngaphambi kokuba ndiqale ukubukela iphonografi. I-Ofcourse ndaqala ukubukela i-fetish yonyawo emva kwe-anal anal kwaye yayingeyonto iqhelekileyo yayifana nobufazi kunye neevidiyo ezingaqhelekanga zevidiyo. Ngoku yintoni edidayo kukuba xa ndiyeka zonke ezi minqweno, ndifumana iminqweno yesini malunga namantombazana okwenyani aneenyawo ezintle kodwa ndifumana ixhala kuba khange ndijonge iinyawo ngaphambi koononophala, andazi ukuba ndenze i-fetish yonyawo ngenene, kwaye andazi nokuba kufuneka ndijonge iinyawo zamantombazana okanye hayi kuba ndibona amanye amantombazana kwaye ndifumanise ukuba ndijonga amabele abo, iimpundu ..
Ndifuna nje ukutsho ndonwabile kakhulu ndifumene i-YBOP kwaye ihambelene naloo nto, lo mgca. Iintsuku ze-17 ze-nofap kwaye ziya kuqina.
Ndizabalaza nge-porn-eyenziwe ngu-ED ukusukela ekholejini (ndingu 27 ngoku). Ingcaciso emfutshane kukuba ngethuba leminyaka yam yekholeji, ndafumana ithuba lokulala ngesondo kunye ne-4 amabhinqa amahle kwaye zonke iinzame zaphazamiseka ngenxa ye-ED eyenziwe ngoonobumba. Kwiimeko ezimbalwa iimpahla zavela kwaye andinakukwazi ukwenza, kwaye kwezinye ezimbini ndayeka ngaphambi kokuba ziqale ngokwazi ukuba andizokwazi ukuyifumana. Isandi siqhelekile kuye nawuphi na kuni?
Ngokwembali, ndafumana ekuphela kwendlela endikwazi ngayo ukuyinyusa (kwaye oku kuphela emva kwemizamo eliqela nentombazana enye) ukuba yayingu-1) akukho khondom ibichaphazelekayo -Yilinde- 2) ubukhulu becala okanye wayechebe ngokupheleleyo "ezantsi phaya." Kuphi kwi-fuck endikhe ndayiphuhlisa imigangatho ejijekileyo? Kulungile, ukusuka kwiiyure ezininzi ze-intanethi ndibukele ukususela kwiminyaka yam yokuqala.
Ngokudibana kwam nala mantombazana asekholejini, akukho namnye kuwo ohlangabezana nazo zonke "iimfuno" zam. Akukho namnye kubo owayechebe ngokupheleleyo, kwaye isibini sasikwicala eligobileyo. Emva phayaa, ndandiyikrwelele kwinto yokuba kukho izinto malunga nala mantombazana ayendicimile-ezo zinto ziinwele ze-pubic kunye / okanye amanqatha omzimba- kwaye ndiyakhumbula ngokucacileyo ukuba ezo zinto zindicimile ngokubonakalayo. Ubulale konke ukuvusa, okanye ubuncinci ndicinga njalo. Kwaye oku kwakubuhlungu kakhulu, ngenxa yokuba yayingabafazi abamangalisayo abanemizimba yabo engakhange yenzeke ukuba ifane naleyo ye-pornstar, kwaye bendisazi ukuba baninzi abanye phaya abaya kuwela kolo didi lunye.
Ke umbuzo wam kwabo baphumeleleyo ukoyisa i-porn-eyenzelwe i-ED- kwinto endiyifundileyo kuvakala ngathi ukuqala kwakhona ngempumelelo kuyakuvumela ukuba usebenzise iikhondom (hooray!). Kodwa uthini malunga nezinto ozikhethayo okanye "ukuthanda" okuthethileyo? Ngaba ukhona umntu ngaphandle kwakho owayekade "ecinyiwe" (okanye ucinga ukuba ubuncinci) zizinto ezinje ngeenwele zasesidlangalaleni okanye izibambo zothando, kodwa ukuphinda uqalise kwakhona ukubuyisela ngempumelelo into ekuvusileyo?
Enkosi!
Umcwaningi wesini somfundi yaxela oku kulandelayo:
Ndiyazi ngabafundi ababini abangamadoda abavolontiya ukuba bayayala isondo / bayishiye imeko ye-hook up ngokusekwe kwizinwele zowasetyhini. Omnye uthe uyakuphepha ukulala nomntu obhinqileyo njengoko ukubonakala kwakhe kumkhumbuza udadewabo omncinci awayemkhathalele. Omnye uthe uyala ukubanjwa xa umfazi enenwele, ecinga ukuba "ilungile."
Iifoto zoonografi akuyena kuphela okhohlakeleyo emva kokunyuka kwe-labiaplasty [Oogqirha nabo]
Abasetyhini abasetyhini kufuneka bafunde ukuba akukho nto enjengelibia elifanelekileyo - kungakhathaliseki ukuba bayibona kwi-intanethi
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/nov/15/pornography-culprit-rise-labiaplasty
Ndiye ndadibana namantombazana kwaye ndalala nabo-ngelishwa ndiyaqhubeka nokwenza izinto endizibonileyo kwi-porn nabo. Njengokukhupha kunye nokuzama ukungena emilonyeni yabo okanye ukunyanzelisa i-anal njl.nje ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, akukho ntombazana iye yamkela kwaye ihlala iphelisa ukonakalisa ubudlelwane. Ndizama ukuhlala ndilawula kodwa okomzuzu kubonakala ngathi kuyathatha kwaye ndigqibe ngokuzenzekelayo ndenze oko ingqondo yam "yamanyala" indiyalelayo. Ndidlula njani kule nto? Ngubani omnye ogulayo? Ngaba iqhelekile okanye inqabile?
I-Sexual Sex iyangena kwi-Sex Real ngaphakathi kwigumbi lokulala
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