Abaselula abasebenzisa izilwanyana badinga ixesha elide ukuze bafumane iMojo yabo

Ngaba isasaza iphonografi, ihanjiswa ngee-tube-sites, iphinda iphinde iphinde ibuyele kwisini?

Kwi-2006-07, xa abafana baqala ukubonisa kwiwebhusayithi yethu iingxaki zentsebenzo zesondo ezihlobene neentlobano zesini, Ngokuqhelekileyo bachacha emva kweenyanga ezimbini bengenazo iphonografi, ukuphulula amalungu esini okanye ubugqwetha, kunye nobuncinci be-orgasm. Uninzi lweewizard zekhompyuter ezazifumene isantya esiphezulu kwi-Intanethi ngaphambi komhlambi-aze aphuhliswe iingxaki zokusebenza ezingasebenzi ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo lokwenyani. Siza kubabiza ngokuba ngamaXesha akudala.

Kungekudala saqala ukuqaphela iindlela ezimbini ezingalindelekanga:

  1. Umkhukula wabantu abancinci (ekuqaleni kwemashumi amabini kunye nabantwana abaselula) baboniswa kunye enye iingxaki ze-erectile-disysction. Ngokukhawuleza, baquka uninzi lweendwendwe kwimisonto emininzi nakwiisayithi apho amadoda ebekhononda malunga neengxaki zokusebenza ngokwesondo, kunye
  2. Aba bafana bancinci ("abafikayo") ngokubanzi bafuna ixesha elide (maxesha ngezinye iinyanga) ukubuyisela kwiingxaki zabo zokusebenza. Enyanisweni, abanye babefuna ukuqhagamshelana rhoqo kunye nomlingani owenene-ethi ibonise ingxaki "yenkukhu kunye neqanda" kwihlabathi lokuzonwabisa okungaqhelekanga.

Oldtimers:

[Ubudala 51] Ndiyi-65 yeentsuku zoononophala mahala kwaye ngoku ndibona iziphumo. Ndine-ED ukusukela ngo-2007. Bekuye kwaya kusiba kubi kangangokuba neViagra khange incede. Ndandiba noxinzelelo kwaye ndiphelelwe lithemba. Kudala ndifuna amayeza e-ED iinyanga. Ndizamile yonke into: ukuyeka i-caffeine, i-DHEA, iivithamini kunye neeminerals, ukunciphisa umzimba, ukongeza ubunzima bemisipha, ukonyusa icholesterol, amayeza. Ndandiqala ukucinga ukuba ndiza kuhlala nayo, ukuba yayiyinxalenye yokuguga kuphela. Ndayeka ukubandayo kwi-porno kwaye khange ndiphoswe. Ukuba iphonografi indiphanga isini sokwenyani ayifanele loo nto.

Ukubuyiselwa kwam kuye kwenyuka kwaye kwehla. Kodwa ukulungiswa kwam kwasekuseni kuye kwahambelana kakhulu kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo kwaye amaxesha amabini okugqibela ndilala ngesondo ndafumana ilitye elinzima endandingazange ndibenalo kwiminyaka kwaye ndaligcina lonke ixesha. Kwaye i-ejaculations iza ngokulula kwaye iziva ngcono kakhulu. Imvakalelo yesini iyabuya nayo. Ngaphambi kokuba ndikwazi ukufumana ukulungiswa okwaneleyo ngesondo ndandiziva ngathi i-penis yayisondele. Ngoku ndiyalizwa ilungu lobufazi lityibilika ngaphaya kwepenisi yam kwaye liziva lingummangaliso.

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I-ED yam ihambe 90%. Ingxaki yam Ingxaki ayikhoyo, mhlawumbi ndize ndifike ngokukhawuleza kuye, kodwa isondo singcono kakhulu. Ndivuka kulungiso olunzima kakhulu kakhulu kusasa nangaphandle kwefantasy okanye ukuthintela, luya ku-20-30 imizuzu. Ndiyiminyaka eyi-49 yokufudumala. Ngubani na ocinga ukuba ibhonerha yam eselula iya kubuya! Ubuhlobo bam ngokwesondo bubhetele ngakumbi kuba ubuhlobo bam bubuhle.

Uhlobo olutsha:

Ndikumhla we-141 wokungabinayo iphonografi. Andizange ndibe neengxaki ze-ED, kodwa ndaye ndalibazisa iingxaki zokunyuka, ukunyanzeliswa okubuthathaka, kunye nokuzithemba okuphantsi / ukungabikho kwezinto ezijoliswe kuzo. Okwangoku, ndiziva i-85-90% kwanasemva kweenyanga ezi-5. Ndenze isondo ngempumelelo kwimpelaveki ephelileyo kwaye yayingamava amnandi. Ndivakalelwa kukuba ndisafuna ukwenza i-rewire (ndicinga ukuba ndiza kufuna iqabane elingaguqukiyo), kodwa ndiziva ndiphilisiwe. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwafika ebusuku kakhulu nasemva kosuku olude lokusela. Ndandinobuthathaka kakhulu, kodwa ixesha lam lokubuyisa lalilungile kwaye yayingamava amnandi kuwo omabini la maqela.

Kutheni le ndlela i-ED yolutsha?

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba le ntlekele sisiphumo sendalo ubuchopho obuthathaka ukudibana kunye ne-highspeed (okt, ukuchithwa kwe-pornography). Uphando olutsha nje, luchaza indlela zombini izazinzulu ezikwazi ukujonga ngayo ubulili be-mammalian kunye ubungozi obukhethekileyo zobungqina bentsha, isekela le ngcamango. (Ngaphezulu ngaphantsi.)

Uyabona, i-Oldtimers iqalile ukuhlaziya i-masturbating ngexesha lokutshatyalaliswa ngaphandle isantya esiphezulu. Kuxhomekeke kubudala babo nakwiimeko zabo baqala imisebenzi yabo yesini sodwa ngekhathalogu, imagazini, ividiyo, iphonografi yeTV, okanye ngokumangalisayo (kubafana abancinci banamhlanje), ukucinga kwabo. Kananjalo babenazo ngokubanzi ezinye ngesondo, okanye ubuncinane, kunye nomlingani owenene ngaphambi kokuba bawa phantsi kwepelingi yezononophelo eziphezulu kunye neempawu zokugqithisa.

Ngamafutshane, ama-Oldtimers aqeqesha ubuchopho babo bokufikisa ngokwahlukileyo kobuTsha banamhlanje-abahlala bejonga ngesondo ngokusebenzisa i-pornography ephezulu (abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-10 ubudala), kwaye bangalokothi bayeke ukusebenzisa.

Ngamanye amagama, ubudala hayi uguquko oluphambili lokubuyisela okufutshane. Ukubonakaliswa kubalingani bokwenene ngaphambi kokuphakanyiswa . Wathi uneminyaka eyi-22 ubudala:

Ndade ndabelana ngesondo iminyaka ngaphambi kokubukela iphonografi kwi-Intanethi okanye ukuphuhlisa i-ED. Ndenza i-masturbated kwi-intanethi ye-intanethi kwiminyaka eyi-2.5 ngaphambi kokuba ndivelise i-ED kwiminyaka eyi-22. Ukususela ngoko ndaya kwiiveki ezi-8 ezichanekileyo ngaphandle koononophala okanye i-masturbation. Andazi ukuba ndibuyele kwi-100%, kodwa ukuba akunjalo kwindawo ethile kwi-90th percentile. Ndigqithe kuyo yonke ixesha lokufa nayo yonke into. Ngexesha lenkqubo ndabelana ngesondo malunga namaxesha e-3. Ixesha le-1 emva kweveki ye-4. Ndonwabile ngokwenene ukuba ndiyenzile yonke le nto. Ngoku ndiyayithanda ipenisi yam ngathi yayingumntu, mhlawumbi ngaphezulu. indlela yokubonisa ukuhleka!!!!

Nantsi iOldtimer:

Ndijonge iphonografi ukusukela ndingu 13 okanye ke (ndingu 47 ngoku). Akuzange kube yingxaki kum de ndifumane i-intanethi ephezulu kwi-2000. Ndiqale ukuqaphela iingxaki zokuba nzima kwaye kubi ukulibaziseka. Kude kube lelo xesha bendihlala ndikwazi ukukhupha umthetho. Nangona kunjalo, emva koononopopayi ephakamileyo ndandinethamsanqa ukuba ndiphume i-40% yexesha. Ukwabelana ngesondo nomfazi wam emva koko kuye kwancipha.

Ihlabathi elinobuqili elinesibindi

Ngamafutshane, izinto zitshintshile. Ukusukela ekufikiseni (okanye ngaphambili), abantu abancinci ngoku benza uninzi lwabo lokuphulula amalungu esini kwi-Intanethi. Abanye abanakucinga ngoxinzelelo ngaphandle kwayo.

Imeko enjalo yesondo yahlukile ekuziveleni kwabantu, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba sichaze ngakumbi malunga nokuhlaziywa, kunye nesayensi ngasemva, loo meko masijonge ukuba kutheni. Ubungqina bentsholongwane bubunzima kakhulu.

Kumiselwe kakuhle ukuba yethu zinkumbulo ezinamandla kwenzeka ngexesha lobudala. Kulo xesha ubuchopho bethu buvuthwa ngokukodwa ekufundeni ulwazi olutsha-ngokukodwa malunga nokuqhathaniswa.

Umthamo weselula ukuya ucingo olutsha kwimibutho yesondo ama-mushroom azungeze i-11 okanye i-12 xa iibhiliyoni ze-neural links (synapses) zenza amathuba angenamkhawulo. Nangona kunjalo, ngobudala Ingqondo yakhe kufuneka ikhwephe i-circuit ye-neural circuitry ukumshiya nge-assortment ephathekayo yokukhetha. Ngemashumi amabini, akanako ukuhamba banjwe kunye nezenzo zesondo ezithathayo ngexesha lokukhula, kodwa zinokuba njengeengcambu ezinzulu kwingqondo-kungekho lula ukungazihoxisi okanye ukuzilungisa kwakhona.

Ulwabelana ngesini ngokoqoboUbungqingili bomntu buhamba ngeendlela ezimbini zokukhula kwe-neuronal: enye utero kunye nakwiinyanga zokuqala eziliqela zokuphila, enye enye phakathi kwe-10 kunye ne-13- nje xa amaninzi amakhwenkwe (kwaye ngoku, amantombazana amaninzi) aqala ukujonga i-intanethi ye-intanethi. Ngokufanelekileyo, ngeli xesha ixesha eliphambili lokuphuhliswa, thina bantu sibonakaliswe kwisimo esifanelekileyo sokuziphatha ngokwesondo. Sifunda indlela yokudlala kunye nokudibanisa kunye nabalingani abangakwaziyo.

Esi sibini ukuphinda sithukuthele kufaka ukuphindaphinda, kwaye ke ku thabatha , uxhumano lwama-neural. Ngokubambisana, iigeni kunye nemeko veza udongwe lwecortex yomntwana. Njengokuba kusetyenziswe-okanye-okanye-ukulahleka, ingqondo ibuye ihlelwe kwakhona kwaye iphuculise ngokwayo:

I-cortex iziqhumane zijikeleze iisekethe ezincinci ezisetyenziswayo, ngelixa ziqinisa iindlela eziqhelekileyo. Iimpawu zeeselonda zamagxobhozo ezindleleni ezithandwayo ziba negazi elingcono kunye ne-myelin, ukwandisa ijubane leempembelelo zentsholongwane. Amasebe amancinci athola imiyalezo (ebizwa ngokuthi i-dendrites) ikhula njengemivini ukuphucula kakuhle uphawu olungenayo. Ukudibanisa phakathi kwama-axon kunye ne-dendrite (i-synapses) yanda kwiisekethe ezinamandla kwaye iphela kwizinto ezibuthathaka. Ekugqibeleni unemikhumbuzo, izakhono, imikhwa, ukhetho kunye neendlela zokujamelana nazo ezima ukuvavanywa kwexesha. (Dobbs, ugxininiso olongezelelweyo)

Ngokwemigangatho engancinci, njengabaselula, sinciphisa iindlela esinokuzenza-ngaphandle kokuqaphela indlela eziphambili ngayo ukhetho lwethu ngexesha lokugqibela, u-pubescent, ukukhula kwe-neuronal. Ngokomphandi Jay Giedd,

Ukuba ulutsha lusenza umculo okanye ezemidlalo okanye izifundiswa, ezo ziiseli kunye nonxibelelwano oluya kubakho lukhuni. Ukuba balele esofeni okanye badlala imidlalo yevidiyo okanye iMTV [okanye iphonografi ye-Intanethi], ezo ziiseli kunye nokunxibelelana okuza kuphila.

Ingaba yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba abafana baqala ngokukhawuleza ukuba baqaphele iingxaki zesingqinisiso zesini zesondo njengoko besondela / bafikelele kubantu abadala? Mhlawumbi akunjalo. Umsebenzi weDopamine, ukulungiswa kwamandla, ziphakamisa kwi abaselula kwaye iyancipha ukufikelela kumazinga abadala ngeminyaka yamashumi amabini. Kulapho aba bantu bathanda ukuqaphela iimpawu ezingenakuphikwa.

Ukwabelana ngesondo kunokubakho ... kude kube livumba lokufa

Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba wena, okanye umntu omthandayo, ngokungalindelekanga uza kufumana isondo, ukudlwengulwa kwemigulukudu, iphonografi okanye nayiphi na into evusayo, ungazibuzi. Kwilabhoratri, umphandi uJim Pfaus usebenzise ngempumelelo umvuzo wee-jollies zesini ukuya imeko yezilwanyana ezincinci uthando cadaverine (iphunga lezinyama ezonakalisayo).

Ngokwesiqhelo iigundane ziyakuphepha ukubola kwenyama. Kuzelwe; asiyondlela yokuziphatha efundwayo leyo. Baza kungcwaba abahlobo babo abafileyo okanye idada elenziwe ngomthi elifakwe kwi-cadaverine. I-Pfaus yatshiza abantu ababhinqileyo abalamkelayo nge-cadaverine, kwaye yawafaka kwiikheyi kunye nabaselula, zintombi bejonge ukuphulukana namakhadi abo e-V. Ngokuqinisekileyo, amadoda ayatshatana kwaye akhupha amatyeli aliqela. Kwiintsuku ezininzi kamva iigundane ezincinci zabekwa kwikheji enkulu kunye nabasetyhini abanuka kamnandi kunye nabasetyhini benuka ukufa. Iigundane zinikwe imeko ye-cadaverine edibene zombini ezi ntlobo zabasetyhini. Amadoda amadala esiqhelo ebengayi kusondela kubantu ababhinqileyo abanuka ngathi kukufa- nokuba utyebile kangakanani.

Ngaphezu koko, iintsuku ezimbalwa kamva amadoda afanelekileyo afumana isithandwa somthi esizaliswe kwi-cadaverine. Badlala nayo, kwaye baninzi banokubamba, njengoko bebeya kuyenza ukuba i-dowel yayilahlekile into endiyithandayo ngokwenene, njengokothokolethi okanye izigcini zangasese.

Ke yintoni enika abaFikayo banamhlanje ezona zikhaba zibalaseleyo zesondo? Akunabo oontanga bokwenene, kodwa i-porn. Njengokuba nje iigundane nabantu bengalithandi ivumba lokubola kwenyama, uninzi lwabasebenzisi be-porn banamhlanje abayithandi ncam baye banyuka baya. "Inzulu."

I-dopamine ephakamileyo kunye noshintsho kwisithandwa sezesondo

Nabu ubungqina obungaphaya bokuba ukuthanda izinto zesondo kunokuphinda kubekwe kwimeko yesiqhelo: Umlinganiso wamadoda unokuba njalo zilungele ukukhetha umlingani wesini esinye ngokubamba i-dopamine yakhe. Kwaye ayithathi thuba lide. Abaphandi bajoba umlinganiso oyindoda kunye ne-dopamine agonist (iyeza elilinganisa i-dopamine), emva koko bambeka ehokweni nenye indoda. Ezi mpuku zimbini zaxhoma kunye usuku. (I-dopamine agonist iphumile kwinkqubo malunga nosuku olunye.) Abaphandi baphinda le 2 amaxesha ngaphezulu, iintsuku ezi-4 ngokwahlukeneyo.

Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva koko, indoda eyabuyiselwayo yahlolwa. Ngaphandle kwe-dopamine agonist kwinkqubo yakhe, wafakwa kwisigodlo kunye nomfazi wakhe wesilisa kunye nomfazi owamkela ngesondo (khumbula i-dopamine yayingaphumi kwenkqubo yakhe). Cinga ukuba yiyiphi ipiliti eyayijika kuyo? Wabonisa impendulo eninzi kwindoda: ukulungiswa okungakumbi, uphando oluninzi lwezesondo, kunye neyesetyhini ezifana nezicelo-ngokuchasene nokuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwindoda.

Isifundo? Amanqanaba aphezulu e-dopamine anokuphinda asebenzise ubuchopho ngamandla kwaye atshintshe ukuthanda izinto zesondo. Abaphandi bagxininise ukuba i-rat yamadoda yayingeyi-gay, njengoko engazange azame ukunyusa enye i-rat. Nangona kunjalo wayetshintshile. Ngokufanayo, ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-porn i-cannnot utshintshe ulwabelana ngesondo, kodwa unokutshintsha uhlobo luni loononophala olukuvakalisa.

Imimiselo yokuqala iyanzima ukucima

Nantsi eyona nto yoyikisayo kwabafikayo: Imeko yokuqala yesondo inokubambelela. Iingqondo zokufikisa zikwincopho yazo (1) yemvakalelo yoku uphawu lwe-dopamine kunye (2) ubungozi bokuxhatshazwa. Inoveli, eyothusayo, evuselelayo inokuthi inyikimise ilizwe labo ngendlela engayi kuba yingqondo yabantu abadala. Le nyani ye-neurochemical primes ubuchopho obutsha. Bafunda ukuyichaza isini ngokwaso nasiphi na isikhuthazo esibonelela ngeyona buzz inkulu yesini. Esi sifundo sinamandla, njengoko kunokubonwa kwiigundane ezazithanda iicadverine ezinevumba elimnandi.

Ngokwahlukileyo, isimo sengqondo sesondo sinamandla ngakumbi xa kwenzeka emva Iipatheni eziqhelekileyo zokubambisana zisekwa. Ngokomzekelo, izazinzulu zenza iqela elimkelekileyo kwindoda kwaye emva komzuzwana, yamgxotha emkhombeni wayo. Oku kwimeko yokumisela ngokukhawuleza kunokuqhelekileyo. Ukuba abesilisa bafunde le patheni ngexesha lamava abo okuqala ngokwesondo, bazinamathele-nangona xa kamva bavunyelwe ukungena ngokungathintekiyo kubafazi.

Ukubona umohluko, abaphandi bafundisa nabesilisa abanamava (ababefunde ngesondo phantsi kweemeko eziqhelekileyo) ukukhupha ngokukhawuleza, ngokufaka abantu ababhinqileyo emva komzuzu. Nangona kunjalo-ngokungafaniyo neempuku ezazinesimo sokuziphatha ngokwesondo kwasekuqaleni-iigundane ezinamava zabuyela kwindlela yesiqhelo yokuzalela xa kuvunyelwe ukufikelela okungaphazanyiswanga kwabafazi.

Olu uphando lugqithisa noko sikuva kubantu abasuka kwi-ED. Abafana abaphuhlisa ubulili babo phambi kokuba Basebenzisa i-intanethi ye-intanethi kuphela badinga iinyanga ezimbalwa ukuze babuyiselwe kwi-ED. Abafana abaqala ukuhlaziya i-masturbating kusasa kwi-intanethi ye-intanethi badla ngokufuna iinyanga ezilisithandathu okanye ixesha elide ukuba banelisekile.

Ulutsha lwanamhlanje luqala ukuqeqesha izakhono zalo zokulinganisa ukuya kwiiphikseli endaweni yamaqabane okwenyani. Uqeqesho lwabo alubalungiseleli ukuba bafumane ulonwabo oluqhelekileyo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo (okanye kwanokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo) kunye neqabane lokwenyani. Kufana nokubetha iibhola zetenisi ukuphucula ukudubula komntu. Abafana baqeqeshelwa umdlalo ongalunganga, ke xa (ukuba?) Batshintshela kumaqabane okwenyani kufuneka bafunde umdlalo omtsha.

Ukuchitha iminyaka ngaphambi kokumanga kwakho kokuqala uzingele isikrini kunye neethebhu ezili-10 ezivulekileyo, ukuqonda izakhono ezithandabuzekayo zokubukela izenzo zesondo utata wakho angazange azive, kunye nokufunda ukuphulula amalungu esini ngesandla sakho sasekhohlo akukulungiseli ukuphuthaphutha indlela yakho kwisiseko sokuqala, vumela eyedwa eyanelisayo yokwenza uthando. Ngapha koko, ulutsha lwanamhlanje lunokuthi ngokungazi luphoswe luphawu ngokupheleleyo, ngokubhekisele kwizakhono zokuthandana kunye nokufunda ngesondo:

(Ubudala 22) Ke, ndithatha intombazana eshushu kakhulu endaweni yam. Wayetshaya ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ndandingakwazi ukulawula naye. Ndatsho ndanxila. Kunyaka emva koko ndadibana nenye intombazana eshushu. Ndandinayo iglasi yewayini kuphela kodwa andikakwazi ukuyenza. Ndityumke. Ngamantombazana waziva nje engaqhelekanga kwaye engaqhelekanga. Ndandikuthanda ukubabamba nokuba kunye nabo, kodwa kwakungekho mnqweno wesini kum, ekucacileyo ukuba ayilunganga. Ndisoloko ndiqhele ukuba ndenze iphonografi yakudala. Ndiyazibuza ukuba le nkqubo yokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo iya kuthatha ixesha elingakanani, kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka. Ndiyakhathazeka kuba kunokuba nzima kakhulu kwingqondo yam ...

Ngaba imeko yezesondo ingachaza ukuba kutheni abaTsha banamhlanje abaphulula amalungu esini kuphela kwiiphikseli kunye nokuxubana okunzima kunzima ukuphinda baphendule ngokwesondo kumaqabane okwenyani kunye nokwabelana ngesondo okuqhelekileyo nasemva kokuba beyekile ukusebenzisa iphonografi? Uphengululo lukaPfaus ngemeko yesondo Ngubani, yintoni, phi, nini (kwaye mhlawumbi nokuba kutheni)? Indlela uMvuzo woTyala odibanisa ngayo ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, ukukhetha, kunye nokusebenza icebisa ukuba impendulo ngu "ewe."

Dilbert - DigisexualIngaba uphando lwezocwangciso zezocansi luyacacisa ukuba kutheni i-Oldtimers engazange iqale nge-intanethi / ukubulala i-sexgrip, kwaye ngubani na olwabelana ngesondo phambi kokuba bavelise i-ED, ngokukhawuleza babuyele ekuphenduleni ngokwesondo-nangona bekhulile kwaye mhlawumbi bengenamanqanaba omtsha we-hormone yesini kunye ne-dopamine?

Intetho kaSeptemba 2015 ye-TEDx yindoda encinci efuna ixesha elongezelelekileyo kunye nokufumana kwakhona / ukubuyela umva ukoyisa i-ED kunye ne-anorgasmia-

Umlutha unokuba negalelo kwiimpawu ezingalindelekanga

Ukulungiswa kwangethuba ayisiyiyo kuphela ingozi kubafana abaqala ngesantya esiphezulu. Uninzi lwabafana abane-porn-eyenziwe ngu-ED ekugqibeleni banika ingxelo iziphathamandla kunye neempawu eziqhelekileyo kwiinkoliso ezininzi, njengoku: ukukwazi ukulawula ukusetyenziswa, ukuthanda, ukuqhubeka nokusetyenziswa nangona ziphumo ezimbi (kuquka i-ED), ukunyuka kweempawu kunye nokukhupha iimpawu xa beyeka. Ezi zimpawu ziyimiphumo yenguqu yeplastiki ebuchosini babo. Njengoko sibonile, ubuchopho bentsha buyi-plastiki kakhulu kunokuba i-brain-adult ishiyakuhlasele ngakumbi amathuba okuphucula izilwanyana.

Ezimbini ezibalulekileyo utshintsho olunxulumene neziyobisi zibizwa ukungafuneki kwaye ukukhuthaza, ngokulandelelana. Ukuxhatshazwa ibhekisa ekucingeni ngokubanzi ekuphenduleni ekuphenduleni kulo lonke ulonwabo… utshintsho olusisiseko. Kusemva kweemvakalelo zokuba, "Andinakufumana ngokwaneleyo". Sensitization ibhekisa kwi-hyper-reactivity / uchulumanco-kodwa kuphela ekuphenduleni imikhondo ethile ingqondo edibanisa nesiyobisi. Yinkumbulo ebalaseleyo yolonwabo, ebangela ukuba kube nzima ukungahoywa iminqweno.

Nye, ezi tshintsho Cacisa ukuba kutheni iphonografi isenza lo msebenzi kwaye umntwana oshushu akasenzi. Abanye abafana baya kufuna iintsuku ezininzi ukubuyisela ubuchopho babo kwiintsebenziswano zangempela.

Kutheni guys isaziso ukuba i-pornography ephakamileyo iphinda iphinde ibuyele ngokobulili?

  1. Ubunewunewu obuqhelekileyo obuphathekayo boononophala kunye nokutshatyalaliswa kubandakanya inamandla, kodwa engavamile, i-aphrodisiac, ngoko abasebenzisi banako rhoqo ukuphuma kwi-porno xa bebukele ngokwaneleyo, okanye ngaphezulu, izinto eziphathekayo.
  2. Ukonakala kwamandla okwakha kuhamba kancinci njengoko ingqondo ikhula kancinci ekuphenduleni kumaqabane okwenyani kunye nonxibelelwano ngokwesondo. Okwangoku, abacingi ukuzama ukuphulula amalungu esini ngaphandle Iphonografi, ngoko ukutshabalalisa kuhlanganiswe.
  3. Ngokuqhelekileyo basebenzisa i-intanethi iminyaka emininzi ngaphambi kokuzama ukulala ngesondo.
  4. Ngelo xesha, abanye ngokunyanisekileyo abazi ukuba yintoni ukuphendula ngokwesini okuqhelekileyo-kuba bavalelwe kwi-porn spiral ukusukela ebusheni, njengabo bonke abahlobo babo.
  5. Xa bengakwazi ukwenza ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo lokwenyani, banokuhlala bebeka ityala kwenye into: utywala, ukhula, iinwele ezingalunganga okanye umbala wesikhumba weqabane labo, ukungabikho kwesondo ezimpundu, nokuba yintoni.
  6. Iingcebiso eziphambili zanamhlanje ziphosisa ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukuba ukuthanda ezesondo akunakuchazeka, iphonografi ayinabungozi, kunye neengxaki ze-erectile kumashumi amabini ngokuqhelekileyo kunye nokungahambisani nokusetyenziswa koononophelo. (Hu?)

Kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukubuyisela kumaqabane oqobo?

Ubude bexesha elinomlutha, kodwa kunjalo nesantya seplastiki. Ubunjani bobugqwetha kwaye babuyela kwizantya ezahlukeneyo.

Cinga ngo iziphumo zokubuyisela umlutha Kweli qela leeprimates. (Qaphela: izazinzulu bezilinganisa ukungafuneki kunye nokuguqulwa kwayo.)

Kwintathu [izibilini] zibonakaliswe kwi-cocaine kuphela Iveki enye, [uphawu oluqhelekileyo lwe-dopamine] lubuyela kwisiseko, amanqanaba angaphambi kweziyobisi kwiiveki ezintathu.

Izifundo ezintlanu ezenziwa yi-cocaine ezilishumi iinyanga zafundiswa ngexesha lokuziyeka kwe-cocaine. Izifundo ezithathu kwezi zintlanu zibonise ukuphulukiswa okupheleleyo [okuqhelekileyo ukubonakalisa i-dopamine] kwiinyanga ezintathu zokuziyeka, kanti enye Izifundo ezimbini azizange zibuye emva konyaka omnye wokuziyeka. Umlinganiselo wokubuyiswa awuzange uhambelane nokutya kweziyobisi ngokubanzi kwiinyanga ezili-12 ze-cocaine ukuzilawula.

Sicinga ukuba Ukuxhatshazwa kwezobisi "inokubuyiselwa" ngakumbi kunekhoboka lecocaine, kodwa akukho namnye owaziyo. Sivele siva kubantu abathintekayo ukuphendula / ukusebenza ngokwesini akufumanekanga ngokupheleleyo emva konyaka.

Akufanele ukuba yi-alarmist, kodwa yonke loo uphando ethathelwe ndawonye ibonisa ukuba abantu abaselula abaye banethemba lokuzonwabisa ngokwesondo kunye nabalingani baqinileyo kufuneka baqonde ukuba

  1. kunokuba ngumngcipheko wocingo ukuphendula ngesondo kukhuthazo olwahluke mpela kwisini sokwenyani, kwaye
  2. ngelixa umngcipheko wokulutha umlutha awukho yonke indawo, yinyani, kwaye utshintsho olunxulumene neziyobisi kwiibhokhwe kunokuba nzima ukuguqula.

Nantsi into ephilileyo ebijongeka njengokuphola kwamadoda

(Qaphela ukuba nangemva kokuba umntu ebuyisela ngokwaneleyo ukuba abe nesondo ngokuqhelekileyo, unokubona ukuphuculwa okuqhubekayo kweenyanga.)

Umntu wokuqala - (Ubudala 18) Ndayeka ukubukela iphonografi kunye nokuhlambalaza (andinayo i-orgasm malunga neentsuku ezili-124 de ndalala ngesondo). Xa ndiqala ukulala ngesondo, ukubuyiswa kwam kwakubuyile, kodwa ndandilibazise ukunyuka kwaye ndandinokwenza i-orgasm kuphela nge-handjob emva kokulala. Ndabelana ngesondo ngokungathi bendiphulula amaphambili kwi-porn. Khange ndijolise kwiimvakalelo. Ngeli xesha nangona kunjalo, ndiye ndakhululeka ngokupheleleyo kwaye ndigxile kwilungu lobudoda bam kunye nemvakalelo. Isebenze kakuhle. Ngokuqinisekileyo intsha kum kwaye ndine-orgasm enhle. Konke okudingayo kukufunda INDLELA yokonwabela isondo kwilungu lobufazi. Kwahluke kakhulu ekuphulula amalungu esini.

Ngokumalunga ne-3 ukuya kwii-4 iintsuku ngoku, ngaphambi kokuba ndilale ngesondo, ndandichukumisa ngokukhawuleza i-penis yam, nje ndiqhuba iminwe yam nge-shaft. Ndagxila kwivalelo ngelixa ndenza loo nto. Ndicinga ukuba oko kundinceda ukuba ndifunde indlela yokugxininisa kwipenisi yam kunye nokuvakalelwa. Izinto ezibalulekileyo zokumisa ukulibazisa ukulibala:

-Indlebe: Umzimba wakho wonke kufuneka uphumule. Yonke imisipha, ngakumbi ipeni yakho. Kufuneka ukwenze ngokucokisekileyo.

-Focus kwivakalelo: Vala amehlo akho ukuba ufanele. Qaphela ukuba uvakalelwa kwaye uzive.

Nciphisa phantsi: Musa ukuziphoqa kwi-orgasm okanye kwi-ejaculate. Yonwabela isibini ngasinye sayo yonke into. Ukunyanzelisa kuthetha ukuba awukhululekanga kwaye awujolisanga kwimvakalelo, kodwa ufikelela kwi-orgasm endaweni yoko. Gxila kuhambo, hayi kwindawo ekuyiwa kuyo. Uya kufika apho ekugqibeleni.

Qhubeka: Ukuba uziva ngathi ukude kwi-orgasm, awujolisanga. Hlaziya, gxila, unciphise isantya, qhubeka kwaye uphinde.

Ndizifezekisile iinjongo zam. Ixesha lokugxila eyunivesithi ngoku.

Umntu wesibini -Ndiye ndaphulula amalungu esini ngokuphulula amalungu esini nge-1/3 yonyaka (ngaphandle kokuphinda ubuye, kwaye akukho nzima). Uvakalelo lwam kukonwaba luyanda. Umzekelo kubomi bokwenyani: Ndihlala ndizithanda izinto eziqhelekileyo njengokumamela umculo wepiyano, ukutya iipesika okanye ukusela iti eluhlaza. Kodwa ngexesha leenyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ulonwabo lukhule ngakumbi. Namhlanje ukutya iipesika ezisuka egadini yethu 'yayifana ne-orgasm' (ngokucacileyo ayinamandla), kodwa ihlala ixesha elide. Kwakungathandeki nje, kodwa kwakumnandi kakhulu kwaye kuyanelisa. I-IMHO esi sizathu sokuba ukuyeka ukuhlaziya i-masturbation kuhlawula ngokwenene.

Umntu wesithathu: Mhlawumbi ndiye ndafumana enye yezona zinto zide zafunyanwa kwi-ED enxulumene ne-porn, eyayindikhathaza, ke ngethemba lokuba ngoku ndingasebenza njengokhuthazo kwabo baphoxekileyo kukungabikho kweziphumo. Okokuqala, ukufumana iqabane elingaguquguqukiyo yayindenzele ntoni. Ngaphambi kolo dano ndandikubona konke. Ukuqala ngenyanga ye-7 emva kokuqalisa kwakhona bendinomntu endiza kudlala ngothando naye, ndilale naye, ndimbambe kunye, kwaye ndimange ngobunono ngaphambi kokuya kwisini. Oku kancinci kwandibuyisela kwakhona. Ekuqaleni ndandinokuba nzima kuphela ixesha elifutshane kwaye kwafuneka "ndileqe" ukungena, kodwa emva kwexesha ngalinye ukonyuka kwam kwamandla. Kananjalo amanqanaba aphezulu okuchama ngaphambi kwexesha aye ancipha njengoko ixesha ligugile — ukuziqhelanisa kuyawenza ugqibelele.

Ndandidlwengula kathathu ngobusuku obubodwa bunzima. Andikholelwa ukuba ndide kangakanani na ukuqala kulolu hambo. Ngoku ndiba nzima ngokumangazela ngothando wam umthandi kwaye ndingenayo imiba yokulungiswa komgangatho. Ndinomnqweno omkhulu wokuphinga. Ndiqinisekile ukuba i-libido yam iya kuqhubeka ukuphucula, kwakunye neendwangu zanga ezingazange ziqaphele ekuqaleni (kodwa ziye zancipha kancane). Nento yonke ethatha ixesha elide kum, ndiyakwazi nje ukutshintsha kwonyaka ukususela ngoku. Iinyanga ze-9 kwaye sele ndiyitshintshile. Fumana iqabane langempela. Thatha ixesha lokuxhuma nomntu (kungekhona nje ngesondo). Kuliva elinamandla kakhulu ukuchaza. Ndiyathemba ukuba akukho mntu ufanele ahambe nento endiyenzayo.

Umntu wesine: (Oldtimer) Ndifakile iminyaka engama-40… ukuya…. Kwaye andikaze ndibenangxaki ye-ED kude kube yiminyaka yokugqibela ye-3.5. I-porn-site ye-porn ibangela iingxaki ezinkulu, kodwa andazi nje. Ndacinga ukuba bubudala, okanye inyani yokuba andimilo, okanye isithukuthezi okanye nantoni na… de ndifunde ukuba kanjani Internet Ukugqithiswa koonobumba kukugqithisa ubuchopho bethu kwaye kusenza singaphenduli kumantombazana okwenene kunye nesondo kunye nabo.

Ngoku, andikho phantsi kobuqhetseba ngenxa yokuba ndihambile iinyanga ezintandathu ngaphandle NONKE I-porn ukuba ngoku ndiyakwazi ukubuyela kwi-intanethi engeyiyo ye-Intanethi. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ndiyaphule ngokusisigxina loo nkqubo. Ke ngekhe ndiphinde ndijonge nakuphi na iphonografi kunokutshaya icuba njengoko bobabini bebeza kundibuyisela kanye kumhlaba wokutshaya / wokutshaya umhlaba. Nantsi umkhabi. Kwiminyaka engama-40 yonke ndaphulwe kwiindlela ezingezizo ze-ED.

  • Ndilindele ukuba bonke abantu basetyhini benze yonke into kwaye andikhathali ukuba abonwabanga… ngokukhala ngokuvakalayo, amawaka amantombazana amanyala ayayenza
  • Ndalindele ukuba bonke abantu besondo babe njengezocansi zesini (ezenza izinto zibe ngabasetyhini kwaye zincinci kakhulu ukuba zinike uthando, isithunzi, intlonipho, ububele, njl.
  • Andizange ndoneliswe ngesondo kunye nawuphi na umfazi… nokuba wenza ntoni, wenza kangaphi, njl
  • Nditshabalalisa ubudlelwane obuninzi ngaphezu kwezi
  • Andizange ndonwabe ngobomi bam ngesondo
  • Andizange ndonwabe kubudlelwane ngenxa yokuba ndingakhange ndisebenze kubo… kwakungekho mfuneko yokuba… ukuba wayenomsindo okanye nantoni na, ndandinabafazi bam abangamanyala ukwanelisa iimfuno zam zesondo
  • Ukwabelana ngesondo nje zange ndizive ndimnandi xa ndandisemncinci emva kokuphulukana nobuntombi bam… ndiyathetha, kwakulungile kakhulu, kodwa hayi ngendlela eyothusayo kangangokuba ndive ukuba zonke iiseli ngaphakathi kwakhe zithinta zonke iiseli ezikum kunye nazo zonke ezo seli zidubula imiqondiso yolonwabo yombane eqhuma apha kum… ngoku iyaphinda…
  • zonke izinto ezonwabisayo ebomini (imibala, umculo, ukuthintela, ingxoxo, ukudibanisa, ukunceda abanye, ukuba nomusa, ukufumana ububele kwabanye, njl. ngoku sele mnandi kakhulu apho apho, iminyaka emininzi loo nto yayingenangqondo.

Iyamangalisa…

Umfana wesibini: Kwikholeji, ndaqala ukuqaphela ukuba bendiphuhlisa i-ED. Ekuqaleni, andinakukwazi ukugcina i-erection ngalo lonke ixesha ndisebenzisa ikhondom, kodwa ndatsho ukuba ubukhulu becala ukusebenza koxinzelelo kunye / okanye ukunxila. Ingcinga yokuba i-PMO kunye ne-ED enxulumene nayo yayingekho, nangona icacile ngoku. Njengoko ixesha liqhubeka, ndaqhubeka ndaya kwi-PMO kwizinto ezinzima. I-ED iya isiba mandundu ngakumbi. Andinakukwazi ukugcina i-erection ngaphandle kwekhondom, ingqiqo, kunye nentombi ekhululekile. Okwangoku ndafumana iyeza lam lokuqala kwiViagra. Khawufane ucinge indlela endandiziva ukuba ndiphuma ngayo kwagqirha ndineminyaka engama-24! Ewe yayigqubuthele kuphela uphawu lwengxaki, kodwa yandivumela ukuba ndilale kwakhona. Esi yayisisiqalo sexesha leminyaka emi-3-4 eliphawula okona kubi ebomini bam. Nangona ndandiphumelela ezifundweni nasemva koko, kwezomsebenzi, ndandixinezelekile kwaye ndineentloni. I-ED engapheliyo kwiminyaka emncinci yayikrazula, kwaye ndandingenayo i-IDEA yoononophala ingxaki. [Jonga iposti yakhe nesiphumo esivuyisayo.]

Umntu wesithandathu: Ndinezikena ezahlukeneyo (njengeMRI), uhlalutyo lwe-cerebro-spinal fluid, uhlalutyo lwe-endocrine, izifundo zokuqhutywa kwe-nerve (i-electromyograms), ndadibana nodokotela wezifo zomchamo, ugqirha wezesondo kunye nengcali yezengqondo malunga ne-ED yam. Akukho namnye owakhe wandibuza malunga nokusetyenziswa kwe-porn. Kodwa emva koko ndazama ukuyeka iphonografi. Ndithintele naluphi na uhlobo lokuchama okanye ukuphulula amalungu esini iiveki ezi-7. Ndadibana nomntu ngeveki ye-7 kwaye ixesha lesithathu esadibana nalo sasilenga nje embhedeni kunye, sithetha kwaye sisondele, kwaye bendinokumiswa okuqinileyo okuye kwaphela i-1 iyure kunye nemizuzu ye-20 ngokungapheliyo. Kwakumnandi kakhulu ungenzi into ecacileyo kodwa ukuhlekisa ngamanye amaxesha endaweni yoko. Ngentsasa elandelayo senza uthando kwaye ekugqibeleni ndaya ngaphaya komda kwaye ndafumana i-orgasm yam yokuqala malunga neentsuku ze-50. Kwakumangalisa ngokwenene, kodwa kwathi xibilili kukufumanisa ukuba kwakungekho buhlungu nangona ndaziva ndishiyeke kakhulu kwiiyure ezimbalwa ezizayo (hayi ukudandatheka kodwa into efana naleyo, njenge-melancholy). Ndaphinda ndakhululeka ukuba ii-erections zaqhubeka kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezizayo kwaye ndenza uthando kuye kakhulu, ndikhupha amaxesha e-3 ngorhatya olufanayo xa ndaphinda ndambona emva kweveki. Ndicinga ukuba ndingatsho ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba ndiphilisiwe! 

Siyathemba ukuba oososayensi kungekudala bazakuqala uphando olusesikweni malunga nobukrelekrele obunokubangela ukungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo, kunye nokuba sesichengeni kwengqondo yobutsha. Okwangoku, yilebhu yakho. Yenza iimvavanyo zakho.

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