Ngaba iipolitiki ezithintekayo zisishiya emacaleni entlambo elungileyo?
Khawuzibuze ukuba kutheni le nto iingqondo zabangcakazi be-pathological, iziyobisi kunye neziyobisi kumdlalo wevidiyo ziye zafundwa, kodwa akukho namnye umntu oye wafunda ubuchopho bezilonda ezingamanyala? Ngokuqinisekileyo siye sazibuza-ngakumbi njengoko umntu esiva rhoqo ibango lokuba ukungabikho yezifundo "bubungqina" bokuba iziyobisi ezingamanyala / zesini yintsomi (nangona abathengi nezigulana bezikrokrela ukuba zikhotyokisiwe).
Mva nje, siye safunda ngoba Uphando lwesayensi yobuchopho kwi-porn kunye nokulutha ngesondo alikho. Le nto inomdla yembali ikwabonakalise imvelaphi yesibhengezo esiqhelekileyo sokuba isini kunye ne-porn akunakuze kube likhoboka-kwaye icebisa ukuba siphulukene nendlela yethu.
Kwi-1992, ukukhwabanisa kwezombusazwe kwenzeka kwindawo yezokwelapha, eziye zadimaza ukuqonda okujulileyo ngobuntu besini. Ngokutsho kukaDavid E. Smith MD, umongameli odlulileyo we-American Society of Addiction Medicine (ASAM), ogqirha bartart kude kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukwamkelwa kweziyobisi ngokwesini njengendlela yokusebenza ukuze kulungiswe umngcipheko okhawulezileyo. USmith, ngasendleleni, waseka ikliniki yasimahla yeHaight-Ashbury eSan Francisco ngexesha lehlobo lothando (1967). Usebenze ngokungakhathali ukusukela koko bobabini ukufundisa ubugqirha malunga nokutshintsha kwengqondo yeplasitiki emva komlutha kunye nokuphilisa kunye nokunyanga abaguli ababa ngamakhoboka. Ungumbhali weencwadi ezininzi kunye namanqaku ejenali.
NgokukaSmith, nantsi into eyenzekileyo: UJess Browley kwaye wayenguMthunywa kunye noMnye uMthunywa, ngokwahlukeneyo, kuMbutho Wezonyango waseMelika Indlu yabathunywa kukhangelwa ukuqinisekiswa kwezinto ezintsha ezizodwa: iyeza leziyobisi. Kwaye kwacaca ukuba i-AMA ayizukuvuma ukuvuma okhethekileyo Ngaphandle kokuba isondo alukhutshelwa ngaphandle kuluhlu lweziyobisi ezinokubakho. Ke, baphosa 'umlutha wesini' phantsi kwebhasi.
Oku kungabandakanywa bekungasekelwanga kwisayensi okanye kumava kaSmith osekliniki-zombini ezi zinto zicebisa ukuba indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo inakho ukuba likhoboka phantsi kwezinye iimeko. Oku akumangalisi, njengoko ukuvuswa kwesondo kuyeyona nto inyanzelekileyo kuyo yonke imbuyekezo yendalo kwaye ivela kumjikelo wesekethe yomvuzo (isihlalo sayo yonke into oyikhobokisayo).
Isizathu sasicwangcisiwe. Oogqirha babezimisele ekupheliseni abavelisi becuba. Icuba elikhulu lalikhupha zonke iindlela zokuma ukuze liqhubeke nengcinga yokuba “ukutshaya akwenzi umlutha.” Ibanga ukuba ubungqina beengcali zeziyobisi kufuneka bungahoywa kuba, “iingcali zithi yonke into likhoboka. ”
Ngaphandle kwesondo kwabonisa ukuba oogqirha be be nga Ukuthi yonke into iyakhobokisa. Ngaphandle koko, amakhoboka ezesondo ayenqabile, ngelixa abantu abatshayayo bekho kuyo yonke indawo kwaye bebandezeleka ngokungeyomfuneko. Ngapha koko, umlutha wokuziphatha kwengqondo yesayensi ibingafikanga amanqanaba anamhlanje intembeko kunye nokufezekiseka.
Iziphumo ezingalindelekanga
Ukuziphatha ngokwesini ngaphandle kwendawo yokuba likhoboka nothotho lwezinto ezibonakalayo kuye kwaba neziphumo eziyingozi. Phantse amashumi amabini eminyaka emva kweengcali Ukucima umsi weSpoh, iqala ngamaphepha ecuba apapashwe kwi Umbhalo we-American Medical Association (1994), sisesebusuku obumnyama bokuqonda ubulili.
Isivumelwano se-ASAM-AMA ngokungafanelekanga sikhusele iziyobisi ngokwesini ngaphandle kwamehlo okufuna ukwazi kwabo baphandi bezonyango abanokuthi basikhanyisele kakhulu kwisini esigqibeleleyo ngokwesini: ugqirha wezonyango. Kutheni ufunda into ethi, nge-fiat yonyango, ayikho? Ke, akukho phantse kuphando oluthe ngqo kwi-neurobiology yesini egqithisileyo. (Ngokwahlukileyo, izifundo ezininzi ziqinisekisa ubukho bobuchwephesha bokuchaphazela okunxulumene notywala kwezinye iindlela zokuziphatha.)
Endaweni yoko, uphando lwezonyango lujolise phantse ngokupheleleyo kubufanasini (ukusilela kokuphendula ngokwesini). Ngokuhambelana, sineziyobisi zokuphucula ezesondo kunye nee-vibrators ezimiselwe ngonyango kunye ne-erotica. Oogqirha bade bavavanye ukuveliswa kwemizimba kwiintsiba zabasetyhini.
Ukanti isigulana sikhalaza ngokungakwazi ukulawula indlela yokuziphatha, iphonografi iyayithanda imphambuko ngeendlela ezingathandekiyo, okanye i isidingo sokonyusa ngokwesondo—Abaninzi ugqirha uya kumqinisekisa ukuba ubundlobongela abukho. Kuyinyani nokuba yena uqobo-ichonga njengomlutha. Esinye isazi ngesondo sezemfundo ngokuzingca ngokuzikhukhumeza sichaza ukuba uxelele umfana ukuba aphulula amalungu esini kwi-Intanethi kangangeeyure ezintandathu ngemini ukuba akanamlutha, kodwa yingxaki yokulibaziseka. Ithiyori inokwenzeka, kodwa….
Iingcali zonyango ezibonisa ngenkalipho ukuba uxinzelelo lweempawu unako khokelela kwikhobokisa, kunye nokuzama ukubaphatha abathengi ngokufanelekileyo, bayagxothwa okanye bahlaziswe ngoontanga babo abangamalungisa. Ukugcina le nto engqondweni, ababhali be-DSM-5 ezayo bazimisele Banqande icandelo kwi-hypersexourse kwisihlomelo. [Qaphela: Ngapha koko, i-DSM iphumelele ekulahlekiseni umxholo ngokupheleleyo kwaye ithintele umnxeba wokuqhubeka nokufunda ngokuziphatha kweziyobisi "kwividiyo ye-videogaming" -kwala nokucela ukubiza uqhubeke no "mzali" wayo. iziyobisi (onokuthi ngokwemvelo atshintshe isiyobisi se-Intanethi njengesiqalo sesinye isiyobisi se-intanethi).]
Umbono womhubhe onjalo ubangelwe, kwinxalenye, kumgaqo wembali ekuthethwe ngawo ngasentla. Isizukulwane seencwadi zokufunda sithi (1) impindezelo ngokwesondo isoyikiso sokuqala sokwabelana ngesondo okunempilo, kwaye (2) indlela yokuziphatha unobangela iziyobisi. Uqeqesho kwizifundo ezingekabikho kunye notshintsho olukhulu kwi-intanethi ephezulu kunye nophando lobuchopho kwizidakamizwa.
Umzekelo, sibuze uprofesa wezengqondo kunye nomphandi wezesondo ukuba ucinga ntoni malunga neendaba zovavanyo lwase-Italiya olwalu-odolwe zii-urologists, eziqinisekisile oko sikubonileyo kuxeliwe kumakhulu eentambo zeforum kumazwe angama-25 — oko kukuthi, abancinci, abasebenzisi abanzima be-porn Ukuphuhlisa ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, ephinda ibuye kwisithuba seenyanga zokumisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn. Uye wahleka into yokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu asetyenziswe gwenxa ekusebenziseni iphonografi ebangela ukuzithoba (utshintsho olunxulumene nobuchopho):
Kutheni le nto uninzi lwamabali eendaba angenangqondo eveliswa kwesi sihloko? Hmm, ngaba ibonisa inkxalabo egqithisileyo malunga nento engekhoyo, njengokukhathazeka okugqithileyo malunga nee-unicorn?
Impendulo yakhe iyaqondakala. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ebeqhuba abafundi bakhe iminyaka yokucinga okungachazwanga ukuba indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo, kubandakanya nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-Intanethi, akunakuze kubangele iinkqubo zobukhoboka kwingqondo. Kuba esi sikhundla asixhaswanga sisayensi yokwenyani yobuchopho, iingcaciso ezijikelezayo ziqhelekile: “I-intanethi yamanyala inceda ukuphulula amalungu esini… kwaye akunakubakho nto injengokuphulula amalungu esini kakhulu (kuba isondo alinakuba likhoboka) ... njengokusebenzisa iphonografi kakhulu. ”
Kutshanje oogqirha baqala ukuvala umsantsa wolwazi. In Ubuchopho obuZitshintsha, Ugqirha wezifo zengqondo u-Norman Doidge wachaza imigaqo-siseko yengqondo esekwe ekunciphiseni ukusabela kwezesondo kwizigulana zakhe ezisebenzisa izinto ezingamanyala (kunye nokuphindeka kwakhona). Ukanti uninzi logqirha abangoochwephesha kwi-neuroscience basazivelela emva kwimihla yabo Penthouse sebenzisa kwaye uqhubeke nokujonga ukusetyenziswa kwe-Intanethi njengolwandiso olungenabungozi. Kubonakala ngathi abazi ukuba i-porn yanamhlanje ihambisa kude into eyonyusa ngakumbi iziyobisi ezikhuthaza ukuba usebenze kwingqondo kunangaphambi kokubuka amanyala exesha elidlulileyo, ukuba iingqondo zobuso zi Izilwanyana ze-Intanethi Sele betyhila ubuchwephesha obunxulumene notshintsho oluqhelekileyo, okanye ukuba abantwana banamhlanje basebenzisa i-Intanethi kakhulu ngelixa labo ubuchopho beplastiki ngokukhethekileyo. Oku kuphazamisa kakhulu kunikwe uphando lwakutsha nje lubonisa ukuba ubuchopho bekwishumi elivisayo busesichengeni sokulutha.
Enye into esisiseko sesimo sengqondo sokugxotha iingcali ezininzi kukucinga ukuba, “Ukwabelana ngesondo akunakuba likhoboka kuba abantu bayayeka xa sele benesifo sokwanelisa ngokwaneleyo.” Iingcali zaye zacinga ukuba oku kuyinyani kukutya okumnandi kakhulu, nazo, kodwa thina baseMelika sizibonakalisile ukuba ziphosakele. Iindlela zokusasazeka kwabantu ezibonakala ngathi zisetelwe iintlobo zokutya kunye nezesondo eziguquke nazo. Namhlanje ukutya okumnandi okungenampilo kwaye i-cyber erotica ehlala ihleli inomdla ngokwaneleyo ekugqaleni iinkqubo zokuzonwabisa zendalo kuninzi lwethu.
Ngaphaya koko, ukusetyenziswa kwe-Intanethi nge-intanethi akufuneki kwi-orgasm. I-Orgasm yinto yesibini-yesibini; Ukubukela i-intanethi rhoqo iyaqhubeka iyure… Emsebenzini, esikolweni, nakwezinye iindawo apho ukuphulula amaphambili kunganyanzelekanga. Isiphumo? Njengakokutya okungenamsoco, sinokutya de singabinako ukuphendula kwiziyolo eziqhelekileyo-uphawu lokukhotyokiswa.
Isifo sokuxilonga
Ngeli xesha, uphando lwezenzululwazi kwi omnye Ukuziphatha okugwenxa kuhambele phambili kungathintelwanga kukungakhathaleli okuye kwanceda abo babethengisa icuba bebaninzi. Isikali sobuchopho se-oese, kunye nezikhewu zokungcakaza kunye neziyobisi zemidlalo yevidiyo, zibonisa inyani inguqu enxulumene neziyobisi.
Iimpawu ezinxibelelana notshintsho lobuchopho kwezi ziyobisi zinjalo iimpawu uninzi lwabasebenzisi be-porn banamhlanje ngobuninzi: ukungakwazi ukulawula ukusetyenziswa, inkanuko eziqatha, unyamezelo (ukunyuka), ukunciphisa ukuphendula ngokwesondo, iingxaki zokuxinzezeleka, uxinzelelo, umnqweno ongathandekiyo wokuzihlukanisa, ixhala, ubunzima obukhulu iimpawu zokuhoxiswa Phezu kokuyeka, njalo njalo. Uninzi lwazo luxela ukuba Iimpawu ziyazijija kwiinyanga nje zokuyeka i-Intanethi.
Okwangoku, kwenzeka ntoni ukuba isiguli Ayikwazi yekani ukuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okubi ngokwesini, kwaye nifune uncedo lwengcali? Kwiimeko ezininzi, isiguli sithathwa ngokuba sinokugula okuthile omnye ngaphezu likhoboka lesini. Ilungile lo nto. Ingcali yezempilo ikhetha a hlukile eziphambili, okanye ukubangela, ukugula-kwaye kumgqithisela kwingcebiso, iziyobisi zepsychropic, okanye zombini.
Ukucinga ukuba ikhoboka lokuziphatha ngokwesondo ngokungqongqo luphawu lwesinye isifo esisisiseko kuvelisa ukuxilongwa okulahlekisayo kwabo balwa notshintsho olunxulumene nengqondo. Oku kubandakanya ukuxhalaba kokusebenza, i-ADHD, i-OCD, uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo lwentlalo, ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, uxinzelelo lwentsebenzo (ngesandla sikabani?), Njalo njalo. Okubi nangakumbi kukuba, isigulana esikhobokisayo asixelelwa ukuba sinako ukujika iimpawu zakhe ngokunyamezela ukurhoxa kunye nokutshintsha kwendlela yokuziphatha. Ubuninzi beplastiki busebenza ngazo zombini ezi ndlela.
Abaphandi bayazi kwezinye iziyobisi ekuziphatheni ukuba ziimpawu ziphi ezo omnye Ukuchonga ukuphumla kunokuhlala kungumsebenzi wokulutha ngokwawo (i-anhedonia, iingxaki zoxinzelelo, uxinzelelo olukhulu, njl. njl. Ukubamba kwi omnye Ukuxilonga endaweni yokufundisa umxumi / isigulana malunga nokuba likhoboka kufana nokuxelela isigulana esinomlenze owaphukileyo ukuba sithathe iipilisi zentlungu endaweni yokuyalela umlenze ukungasebenzi kunye nokusetyenziswa kwetrongo.
Ewe kunjalo, abanye abaguli banazo ezi ezinye izifo kunye neemeko endaweni, okanye ukongeza, ekuziphatheni okubi ngokwesini. Kodwa ukuba abakwenzi oko, kunye nokulutha ngokwabo ngokwesondo kungunobangela oyintloko wohaha lwabo, ugqirha usoloko ekutyeshela oko. Uqeqeshiwe hayi Ukuthatha ikhoboka lokuziphatha ngokwesini njengesigulo esisiseko.
Ewe, ingcinga yokuba ezinye iziyobisi zingayinto ephambili, kodwa ulwalamano oluzinzileyo ngokwesini alunako, yi ukungabikho kwemvelo. Kuphela kungabandakanywa ukuba besabelana ngesondo kwintsimi yophando lweziyobisi amashumi eminyaka apho sinokuzikhohlisa sikholelwe kwenye indlela.
Ngayiphi na imeko, ubukho bezinye iimeko abenzi bulolo Ngaphantsi yeziyobisi. Umntu olinxila oxhalabileyo kwezentlalo kusafuneka ajongane nokunxila, kwaye umntu otyebe kakhulu kusafuneka ejongane nokutya okunyanzelekileyo… kunye nama-200 eepawundi ongezelelweyo. Bobabini bafuna uncedo lokutshintsha indlela abaziphethe ngayo ukuze baphinde basebenzise ubuchopho babo.
Ixesha elitsha lokwabelana ngesondo kwabantu
Nge-Agasti yalo nyaka (2011) utshintsho olukhulu lwaselwandle lwaqala. Ukushiyeka kokuziphatha ngokwesondo njengokulutha kunokwenzeka kwalungiswa-hayi yi-AMA, kodwa yi-ASAM. Kwii-FAQs ezinxulumene nesibhengezo sakhe esidlangalaleni, i-ASAM icacisa ukuba,
Sonke sinomvuzo wesiphaluka wezobuchopho obangela ukutya nokulala ngesini. Enyanisweni, le yindlela yokuphila. Kwimpilweni ephilileyo, le mivuzo ineendlela zengxelo zengqondo okanye 'ezaneleyo.' Kumntu onomlutha, isiphaluka siyinto engasebenziyo kangangokuba umyalezo kumntu uba 'ngaphezulu', okhokelela ekuqhubekeni kwemiphumo kunye / okanye ukunceda ngokusebenzisa izinto kunye nokuziphatha.
Enkosi kwinkqubela phambili kuphando lokuziphatha gwenxa, iingcali malunga neziyobisi kunye ne-neurobiologists ngoku banentembelo yokuba isimilo sokuziphatha kakubi ngokwesini sabelana ngesiseko esifanayo sokutshintsha kobuchopho njengolunye uhlobo lweziyobisi. Ixesha lokuxhobisa abaqeqeshi bezempilo ukuba bahambisane nenyani yokuba i-intanethi / izilonda zesini zingasokola ngenxa yenguqu yengqondo ebonwe kwezinye iziyobisi. Ngokuzisa iincwadi zezifundo kunye neeprotokholi zihlaziyiwe, sikhululela ababoneleli bezempilo ukuba basikhokele ngokuthe ngqo kwezesondo ezisempilweni, kwaye sithintele amatyala aziswe zizilonda ezingamanyala ezingamanyala.
Isiteyitimenti se-ASAM sihamba phambili, kodwa kuninzi ekufuneka sikwenzile. Enkosi kumashumi eminyaka yeemfama, abaphandi basengazi nto malunga nobuchwephesha besini balance Ijongeka ngathi, okanye kutheni ikhuthaza impilo-ntle. I-meme yokuba ukugqithisa kukwenza zombini i-linger eqhelekileyo kwaye ingenamngcipheko, ngaphandle kwezilumkiso ze abantu, abafazi kwaye abaselula.
Iimpawu zokuba ingqondo ikhula utshintsho olunxulumene nomlutha kungekudala lunokuba lulwazi oluqhelekileyo, kodwa njengoko oososayensi befunda iziphumo zesondo kwingqondo eneengqondo ezivulekileyo, ezinye izinto ezinomdla kwisini sabantu zinokuvela. Umzekelo, ngaba utshintsho olunxulunyaniswa nokugqitha, nkqu nakwiimo ezinobulali, kuthintela amandla ethu okonwabela ubudlelwane obusondeleyo bexesha elide ngokukhawulezisa ukuhlala phakathi kwamaqabane? Lithini ifuthe lokuncamathisela rhoqo kubuchwephesha bamaqabane?
Ngaba siphoswa zizinto ezibalulekileyo malunga ne-orgasm uqobo? Umzekelo, kukho ubungqina behomoni kunye ne-neurochemical ripples elandelayo ye-orgasm, eya kuba kufanelekile ukuba iphande ngakumbi. Ngaba Zamadoda, Abafazi kwaye abaselula'iingqondo ezahlukeneyo malunga noku? Yenza isondo kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini iziphumo ezahlukeneyo ebuchotsheni?
Uphando lwe-Neuroscience lunokucacisa ngokulula ngakumbi imibuzo enje ngezi-ngoku ukuba ukufundwa kwefizikhi yezesini egqithisileyo kuyabuya kudlalwe.
Umlawuli akazange anxibe umtya wakhe
Isivumelwano sembali ye-ASAM-AMA singaqondanga sakhuthaza isimemo esibi: "Xa kuziwa ekuziphatheni ngokwesini, kubandakanya nokusetyenziswa kwe-Intanethi, akukho nto ininzi kakhulu okanye engaqhelekanga kuba umlutha wesondo awunakwenzeka." Lixesha lokuba usiphule neengcambu le minqweno ngaphandle kokuvumela iingxoxo ukuba zihlanjululwe ngeendlela ezingenanto: “isini xa kuthelekiswa nokwabelana ngesondo,” “ukuthetha ngokukhululekileyo ngokuchasene nomyalelo” okanye “ukwahluka kwezesondo xa kuthelekiswa nezinto ezingafaniyo.” Ayisiyo "into enokwabelana ngesondo" ukudimaza inzululwazi enzima ngesondo, kwaye inyani yokuba inzululwazi idimazekile kubonakala ngathi ineziphumo "zesini esibi" emadodeni: Uphando luqinisekisa ukukhula okukhulu kwi-ED yolutsha.
Endaweni yokugxeka okanye ukukhusela isini ukuziphatha (Ukuziphatha okubi ngokwesini, imixholo yamanyala, indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesini, njl. uphando ngeziyobisi.
Amanye amazwe sele asebenza nzima ephanda ngesiyobisi esine-Intanethi (esiquka ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kwamanye amazwe). Iqela elinye abaphandi bafumene kutshanje Iipesenti ze-18 zabafundi beYunivesithi Ngelishwa, umngcipheko wokuba likhoboka le-Intanethi emadodeni wawuphantse waliphinda kathathu inani labafazi. Baqukumbela:
Ipesenti enkulu yolutsha kubemi abahlupheka ngenxa yeziphumo ezibi zokulutha kwi-Intanethi. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ugqirha wengqondo kunye noochwephesha bezengqondo babenolwazi ngeengxaki zengqondo ezibangelwa likhoboka le-Intanethi [njenge-OCD, xhalaba, noxinzelelo].
Ukuthetha ngokwasemzimbeni, engavamile ayinanto yakwenza nokunqweneleka okanye ukungathandeki kokuziphatha okunikiweyo. Ngumsebenzi wokungalingani kwengqondo / womzimba. Abanye abantu banokuzibandakanya kwizinto ezininzi zesini (okanye ezinye) zokuvuselela ngaphandle kotshintsho lwengqondo oluyingozi. Abanye abanako, kwaye isimilo esinjalo sibangela iimpawu abazifumana zingonwabisi okanye zinganyamezeleki. Ilula ngokwenene.
Ayiyo Intoni senza kwigumbi lokulala, phambi kweekhompyuter zethu, okanye kwindlu yokuhlambela ebalulekileyo. Yindlela echaphazela ngayo ubuchopho bethu beplastiki. Ukuba ubuchopho bomntu busenzeka ukuba buziqhelanise ngokukhawuleza novuselelo olukhulu, kangangokuba ufuna ngakumbi ukukhuthazeka ngakumbi, okanye abonise enye Iimpawu ezinxulumene neziyobisi, ke ingxaki yokuziphatha ibaxekile yenzela Yean. Inokhetho ekufuneka luzenzile. Oku kwahlukile kwindoda engazenzi kakuhle ii-carbohydrate. Kuya kufuneka afunde iziphumo zokutya ezahlukeneyo kwimpilo.
Xa kuziwa ekuziphatheni ngokwesondo, kulapho is into enje kaninzi, kwaye kukho into efana engavamile. Asinakuyifumana nayiphi na ikhowudi yokuziphatha, kodwa oochwephesha bezempilo banokusinceda ukuba sisebenzise i-Cs ezine ezibonisa utshintsho olunxulumene nobukhoboka bengqondo:
- Ukuphulukana ulawulo
- Ukunyanzeliswa
- Ukuqhubeka Sebenzisa ngaphandle kokubi Iziphumo
- Iminqweno - zombini ngokwengqondo / ngokwasemzimbeni
Akuzange nanini na umntu alunge ngakumbi ukuqonda amandla alo okulingana ngokwesondo kunye nokugqitha. Inkululeko yenkululeko yesini iyiphunzile ibhotile. Singajonga kanzima kwiziphumo zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kwingqondo ngaphandle koloyiko lokuphindezela. Masikhuphe iingcinga zethu zangaphambili, ezopolitiko zesondo kunye neziqubulo kuphando lwezesondo, kwaye sisebenzise zonke izixhobo ezitsha esinazo ukutyhila ukuqonda okupheleleyo ngesini sabantu-ubuqaqawuli bayo kunye neendawo zayo ezibuthathaka.
Ulwazi oluninzi luya kuthi luxhobise kuthi abo bathanda isini ukuba balungele iziphumo esizikhethayo ngelixa sihlonipha ukulinganiselwa kwethu. Enye into yokuqhubeka nokubonisa ubungozi bokuziphatha okubi ngokwesini kusishiya sengozini yokuntywila kulwandle lwamayeza amayeza abhekiselelwe iimpawu zesibini-ngelixa oyena nobangela wehaha esiya esiba mandundu, engazi.
Kumashumi eminyaka eyadlulayo besingayiqondi isayensi yokufumana iziyobisi, kodwa akukho sizathu sakungazi ukuba ulikhoboka ngoku.-UDavid E. Smith, MD
Nasi isaziso esivela kwiKinsey Institute (ngo-Okthobha 22, 2015)
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Oktobha 6-8, 2016
IYunivesithi yaseIndiana, eBloomington, Indiana, eUSAIxhaswe ngu:
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IYunivesithi yaseIndiana yaseKinsey InstituteELI BONAKALO ELITSHA LOKUGQIBELA I-CAMPAIGN CAPSTONE iza kudibanisa isini, isini, ezasetyhini, ezempilo, ezemithombo yeendaba kunye nabaphengululi bezesayensi yezentlalo kunye neentshukumo zokuphonononga izimvo kunye nefuthe IKHAMPANI ENTSHA YOKUJONGA, uthungelwano lwengca eyakhiwe kwi2000 ukucela umngeni kunyango lwezokwabelana ngesondo, kunye nokubonisa indlela eya phambili.
EZIPHAKATHI:
- Ukuxilongwa ngokusemthethweni? Incwadi yokusetyenziswa kwezifo zonyango ngokubanzi, Ulwahlulo lwaMazwe ngamazwe (ICD-11), iqulethe uvavanyo olutsha ezifanele ukuxhatshazwa koonwabo: "Ukuxhatshazwa kwezesondo ngokunyanisekileyo. "
- Umlingo woTywala / wesondo? Eli phepha liluhlu Izifundo ze-52 ze-neuroscience (I-MRI, i-fMRI, i-EEG, i-neuropsychological, ihormoni). Zonke zibonelela ngenkxaso eqinileyo kwimodeli yokulutha njengeziphumo zazo zesiphumo iziphumo zonyango lwe-neurological ezichongiweyo kwizifundo zokuthengisa iziyobisi.
- Iingcamango zangempela zeengcali zoononongo / isondo? Olu luhlu luqulethe I-27 yakutshanje ye-neuroscience esekwe kuncwadi kunye neenkcazo ngenye yezinzulu zenzululwazi kwihlabathi. Yonke inkxaso ngenkxaso yomzobo.
- Iimpawu zokuxhatshazwa kunye nokunyuka kwamanqaku angaphezulu? Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-50 zokubika iziphumo zihambelane nokukhula kwezilwanyana (ukunyamezela), ukuhlala kwimiba yezononophelo, kunye nokukhutshwa kweempawu (Zonke iimpawu kunye neempawu ezinxulumene nokulutha). Iphepha elongezelelweyo kunye Izifundo ezili-10 ezixela iimpawu zokurhoxa kubasebenzisi be-porn.
- Ukuxilongwa ngokusemthethweni? Incwadi yokusetyenziswa kwezifo zonyango ngokubanzi, Ulwahlulo lwaMazwe ngamazwe (ICD-11), iqulethe uvavanyo olutsha ezifanele ukuxhatshazwa koonwabo: "Ukuxhatshazwa kwezesondo ngokunyanisekileyo. "
- Ukuxubusha ingongoma engathethiweyo yokuthetha "inqweno yesini ephakamileyo" ichaza ukuxhatshazwa koonobumba okanye ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini: Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-25 zikhohlisa ibango lokuba isini kunye neziyobisi ezingamanyala "banomnqweno ophezulu wesondo"
- Iiduna kunye neengxaki zesondo? Olu luhlu luqulethe iikhompyutheni ze-40 ezidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo / ukuxhatshazwa koononophelo kwiingxaki zesondo kunye nokwenyuka kwe-sexually stimulus. The Izifundo zokuqala ze-7 kuluhlu lubonisa bangela, njengabathathi-nxaxheba baqhelise ukusetyenziswa koononophelo kunye nokuphulukisa izifo ezingasinikiyo zesondo.
- Imiphumo yeSigxina kwimibutho? Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-75 zidibanisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn ukuya kwisini esincinci kunye nolwaneliseko lobuhlobo. Ngokuba sifuna zonke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zaxela ukusetyenziswa koononophelo olunxulumene nalo zihlwempu zesini okanye ukwaneliseka kobudlelwano.
- Ukusetyenziswa koonobumba kunokuchaphazela impilo yengqondo nengqondo? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-85 ezinxibelelanisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn nakwimpilo yengqondo-yeemvakalelo kunye neziphumo ezibi zokuqonda.
- Ukusetyenziswa koonobumba kunokuchaphazela iinkolelo, iingcinga kunye nokuziphatha? Hlola uphando lomntu ngamnye Izifundo ze-40 zidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo "kwiingcamango ezingafaniyo" malunga nabasetyhini kunye neengcamango zesondo -Okanye isishwankathelo esivela kolu hlaziyo lwe-meta ka-2016 yezifundo ezifanelekileyo eziyi-135: Imidiya kunye nokuSondo: I-State of Research Empirical, 1995-2015.
- Kuthiwani ngoxhatshazo ngokwesondo kunye nokusetyenziswa kwezilwanyana? Olunye uhlalutyo lweemeta: I-Meta-Uhlalutyo lweeNzame zoTywala kunye nezoNyathelo zeZenzo zoLwabizo ngokwesondo kwi-Studies General Population (2015).
- "Kodwa ayenakho ukuziphatha kakubi kweentlanzi?" Hayi, amazinga okudlwengula ayenyuka kwiminyaka yamuva: "Amanani okudlwengula aya kunyuswa, ngoko ke uyayigxeka inkohlakalo ye-porn-pro. 'Yabona eli phepha ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-100 ezidibanisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo, ukunyanzela kunye nobundlobongela, kunye nokugxekwa okubanzi kwesibhengezo esiphindaphindiweyo sokuba ukwanda kokufumaneka kwe-porn kubangele ukwehla kwamanani odlwengulo.
- Kuthiwani malunga nokusetyenziswa koonwabo kunye nentsha? Khangela olu uluhlu izifundo ze-270 eziselula, okanye oku kuhlolwa kweencwadi: uhlaziyo # # 1, hlaziya2, uhlaziyo # # 3, uhlaziyo # # 4, uhlaziyo # # 5, uhlaziyo # # 6, uhlaziyo # # 7, uhlaziyo # # 8, uhlaziyo # # 9, uhlaziyo # # 10, uhlaziyo # # 11, uhlaziyo # # 12, uhlaziyo # # 13, uhlaziyo # # 14, uhlaziyo # # 15.
Ukusuka reddit-NoFap
07/27/2012
Ndicinga ukuba sisiphumo se-pendulum swinging kude kakhulu kwelinye icala. Ixesha elide kweli lizwe, isini ngaphambi komtshato, kunye naluphi na uhlobo lwesini esingazalanga, sasithathwa njengesono kunye nobubi. Emva koko kuza "inguquko yesondo", kwaye inkululeko yesondo iba yindlela yokuvukela kwizinto eziqhelekileyo.
I-Flash ikhula iminyaka engamashumi amathathu kwaye ezo hippies bangin 'eludakeni eWoodstock ngabazali, abanini bamashishini, abezopolitiko, njl. Inkululeko yesondo iba yinto exhaphakileyo, kwaye akukho nto ithathwa njengengabalulekanga. Ke ekugqibeleni abantwana babo, uJohnny omncinci kunye noLisa baqala ukuba neentlobano zesini kwi-12, kwaye kuyatsha xa uJohnny pees noLisa beneentsumpa kwimimandla yakhe esezantsi. (ngqo / ngokuthe gca ”) Abantu baqala ukuba nengqondo malunga ne-AIDS. Ukuphulula amalungu esini kuqala ukukhuthazwa njengenye indlela ekhuselekileyo yokwabelana ngesondo. "Iphonografi" ngeli xesha lingaphezulu kwe-Playboy, mhlawumbi izinto ezithambileyo ekufikeleleni kwikhebula, kodwa uninzi lwamakhwenkwe ekuphela kwendlela yokufumana olo lonwabo kukumisa i-VCR yakho NGEXESHA ELILUNGILEYO (khumbula ukuba Cinga nje ngayo ngelixa uchwetheza oku).
Imifanekiso engamanyala- emva kwesigwebo seNkundla ePhakamileyo ebaluleke kakhulu-ikhuselwe ngokupheleleyo sisilungiso sokuqala, ngaphandle kokuba sidlwengula okanye sibonisa amanyala okanye enye into. Ngoku unabantu abayithiyileyo iphonografi, kodwa thatha into ethi "Andiyithandi into oyithethayo kodwa ndiza kulikhusela ekufeni ilungelo lakho lokuyithetha", ndibone nayiphi na inzame yokophula umthetho / yengcinezelo / yokuphendula. Isihogo, kwanabafazi sele beqalisile ukuthi iphonografi inokuxhobisa abantu basetyhini (kunye nezoononopopayi).
Nangona kunjalo, akukho mntu ucinga ngaphambili ukuya embindini ukuya ngasekupheleni kuka-2000, xa uJohnny noLisa bekwazi ukufikelela kuwo wonke umntwana olisikizi kunye -filia kwiNgcaciso ePhakamileyo kwi-nanosecond ene-intanethi ekhawulezayo yokungena kwi-intanethi (Oo mntu… khumbula ukulinda njengemizuzu emi-5 umfanekiso omnye onokuwukhuphela. Ngasekupheleni kweminyaka yama-90's ??? Damn, ukubhala oku kuyandibuyisela!). Isihogo, namhlanje uninzi LWEZIKOLO EZIKUPHAKATHI lunokufikelela kuwo wonke umntwana okrwada oguqulweyo okhe wakho kwimizuzwana ngesixhobo ukuba banokuthi bafanane nefokhethi yabo.
Iinjongo ezininzi "ezilungileyo" ziye zonakala. Imigaqo ekhoyo engenanto ayisoloko inengqondo kwilizwe lokwenyani, kwaye itekhnoloji itshintsha izinto. Abantu baqala ukukholelwa izinto emhlambini, kwaye nabani na obuza ubulumko obuqhelekileyo uyanyeliswa. Oogqirha bayakucaphukela ukuvuma ukuba baphosakele kwaye bayabuchasa ubungqina obuphikisanayo de barhuqele ukukhaba kunye nokukhala kwinyaniso. Ukungayichazanga iphonografi yenye yezona zinto zithunyelwa kakhulu eMelika kwaye iyidola yezigidigidi ngonyaka kushishino (ibonakalisa ingqondo yam ukuba nabani na uhlawula iphonografi, kodwa elowo nalowo).
Kwaye unayo. Uxolo ukuba ube nomoya omde kodwa iposi lakho ndiye ndicinga!
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