imayelana nalokho ekushoyo egameni - ubuchopho bakho ne-porn. Igcinwa ngumzamo weqembu ofaka phakathi amadoda athole ezinkingeni ezihlobene ne-inthanethi. Yasungulwa nguGary Wilson ongasekho, uthisha osethathe umhlalaphansi we-anatomy, physiology & pathology (ngaphezulu ngezansi).
Ungaxhumana nabaphathi be-YBOP lapha. Sicela ungaceli imibuzo ye-YBOP yemibono eqondene nesimo sakho. I-YBOP ayixilisi noma inikeze iseluleko sezokwelapha noma ngokocansi. Bheka ukuyeka izithombe ezingcolile futhi ikhasi lokusekela ukuze uthole usizo ngezinkinga zakho ezihlobene nocansi.
Okuningi ngathi
I-1) Ingabe le sayithi inkolo?
Umsunguli walesi siza ubengakholelwa ebukhoneni bukaNkulunkulu futhi ekhululekile ngokwepolitiki (njengabazali bakhe nogogo nomkhulu). Ukuze uthole okwengeziwe bona lokhu Inkulumo ye-2016 kaGary Wilson nguNowa B. Isonto. Futhi bukela lokhu kuxoxwa kwe2019 lapho uGary noMark Queppet bexoxa khona ukuhlukumeza okwehlisa isithunzi by abaphika isayensi yezocansi owazama ukudicilela phansi isithunzi nokuhlambalaza uGary. (Qala lapha, ngomzuzu 28.)
UGary ushone ngo-2021: isitatimende sephephandaba. Uma ufuna ukushiya ukuphawula endaweni yakhe yesikhumbuzo vakashela https://www.garywilson.life/. Ungakwazi futhi ukubukela lokhu ukuhlangana okuku-inthanethi kusukela ngemva konyaka.
I-2) Ingabe kukhona umuntu owenza imali ku-YBOP?
- Iphuma ku Incwadi kaGary Wilson yiya ekusizeni abantulayo. UGary Wilson akazange amukele imali yokukhuluma. Iminikelo etholwe kusukela eshonile iya nasezinhlakeni ezisiza umphakathi.
- Ufuna isikhulumi somphakathi? (amadoda aphulukile ekudambisweni kocansi okubangelwa ucansi)
I-3) Iyini isimo samanje socwaningo olumayelana nokulutha kwezidakamizwa ze-Inthanethi nemiphumela ye-porn?
- Ukuxilongwa okusemthethweni? Umbhalo wezokwelapha wezokwelapha osetshenziswa kakhulu emhlabeni, I-International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11), iqukethe ukuxilongwa okusha efanelekile ukulutha izidakamizwa: "Ukucindezeleka Ngokuziphatha Ngokwemvelo.” (2018) Isibuyekezo sango-2022 sihlanganisa okulandelayo: “I-Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder ingase iboniswe ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene zokuziphatha, okuhlanganisa ukuziphatha kocansi nabanye, ukushaya indlwabu, ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile, i-cybersex (ubulili be-inthanethi), ucansi ngocingo, nezinye izinhlobo zokuziphatha kobulili okuphindaphindiwe.” (kugcizelelwe)
- Ukulutha kwezocansi/ucansi? Leli khasi libala inqwaba izifundo ezisekelwe kwi-neuroscience (I-MRI, i-fMRI, i-EEG, i-neuropsychological, i-hormonal). Bahlinzeka ngokusekela imodeli yokulutheka njengoba lokho abakutholile kubonisa lokho okutholwe yizinzwa okubikwe ezifundweni zokulutha izidakamizwa. Bona futhi lokhu kubuyekezwa kuka-2022 kukachwepheshe uFrederick Toates: “Imodeli ekhuthazayo yokuluthwa ucansi - Ukuhambisana nempikiswano ngomqondo. "
- Imibono yangempela yezobuchwepheshe ekubhekaneni nocansi / ucansi? Lolu hlu luqukethe inqwaba yokubuyekezwa kwezincwadi namazwana ngabanye bososayensi bezinzwa abaphambili emhlabeni. Bonke basekela imodeli yokulutheka.
- Izimpawu zokulutha umlutha nokukhula kwezinto ezimbi kakhulu? Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-60 ezibika okutholakele zihambisana nokukhula kokusetshenziswa kocansi (ukubekezela), ukujwayela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ngisho nezimpawu zokuhoxiswa (zonke izimpawu nezimpawu ezihlobene nokulutheka). Hlukanisa ikhasi elinokuningi Izifundo eziyi-15 ezibika izimpawu zokuhoxiswa kwabasebenzisi be-porn.
- Ukubheka iphuzu lokukhuluma elingasekelwa ukuthi "isifiso sobulili esiphakeme" sichaza ukulahla ucansi noma ukulutha ngokobulili: Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-25 zikhohlisa isimangalo sokuthi ubulili nemilutha yezocansi "banesifiso sobulili esiphakeme kuphela"
I-porn exhunywe nezinkinga
- Izinkinga zobulili nezinkinga zobulili? Lolu hlu luqukethe inqwaba yezifundo ezixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kocansi/ukulutha ucansi ezinkingeni zocansi kanye nenkanuko ephansi yokuvuswa ucansi.. I-7 yokuqala izifundo ezisohlwini ibangela, njengoba ababambiqhaza baqeda ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi bephulukisa ukungasebenzi kocansi okungapheli. Nokho, abanye ochwepheshe bobulili namanje angikwazi ukuvuma ubufakazi bokuxhumana phakathi kwezinkinga zokusebenza kocansi nokusetshenziswa kocansi.
- Imiphumela yocansi ebuhlotsheni? Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-80 zixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn kuya ukwaneliseka okuncane kwezocansi nokwabelana ngokobudlelwano. Njengoba sisazi konke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zabika ukusetshenziswa okuningi kocansi okuxhunyiwe abampofu ukwaneliseka kwezocansi noma ubudlelwano. Ezinye izifundo zibika umthelela omncane wokusetshenziswa kocansi kwabesifazane ekwanelisekeni kocansi nobudlelwano kwabesifazane, kodwa eziningi do bika imiphumela emibi: Ucwaningo lwezingcingo olubandakanya izihloko zabesifazane: Imiphumela emibi ekuvusweni, ukwaneliseka ngokocansi, kanye nobuhlobo. Phela, manje njengoba izinombolo ezilinganayo zezinsizwa nabesifazane zisebenzisa izithombe zocansi eziku-inthanethi, baningi abesifazane ababikayo ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn okuyimpoqo.
- Ukusebenzisa i-Porn kuthinta impilo engokomzwelo nengqondo? Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-90 zixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kocansi nezimpofu ezingokwengqondo-ezingokomzwelo nemiphumela empofu yokuqonda.
Izithombe zocansi nezocansi
- Ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn okuthinta izinkolelo, izimo zengqondo nokuziphatha? Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-40 zixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn "nezimo zengqondo ezingalingani" ngabesifazane kanye nemibono yobulili - noma isifinyeto kusuka kulolu cwaningo lwe-2016 meta: Imidiya nezocansi: Umbuso woPhando lwezobuciko, i-1995-2015. Umbhalo:
Umgomo walokhu kubuyekezwa kwakungenxa yokwenza umsebenzi wokuhlola uphenyo wemiphumela yokuhlolisisa imidiya. Okugxile ekucwaningweni okushicilelwe ezincwadini zamaphephandaba ezibukezwa kontanga, phakathi kwe-1995 ne-2015. Isamba sezincwadi ze-109 eziqukethe izifundo ze-135 zibuyekezwe. Ukutholakala kwahlinzeka ngokufakazela okuphelele ukuthi kokubili ukuvezwa kwelabhoratri kanye nokwehliswa kwansuku zonke, okuqukethwe kwansuku zonke kulokhu okuqukethwe kuhambisana ngqo nemiphumela eminingi, kufaka phakathi amazinga aphezulu okunganeliseki komzimba, ukuzethemba okukhulu, ukwesekwa okukhulu kwezinkolelo zobulili kanye nezinkolelo zobulili ezingathandeki, futhi ukubekezelela okukhulu kobudlova ngokocansi kubesifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuvezwa kokuhlolwa kwalokhu okuqukethwe kuholela kokubili abesifazane nabesilisa ukuba babe nombono owehlisiwe wokufaneleka kwamakhosikazi, ukuziphatha nokubambisana kwabantu.
Ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi kanye nezithombe zocansi
- Kuthiwani ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili nokusetshenziswa kocansi? Okunye ukuhlaziywa kwemeta: Ukuhlaziywa Kwemifanekiso Yezingcolile zobulili kanye Nemisebenzi Yezenzo Zokuhlukunyezwa Ngokobulili Ezingxoxweni Ezivamile Zabantu (2015). Umbhalo:
Ucwaningo lwe-22 oluvela emazweni ahlukene we-7 luhlaziywe. Ukusetshenziswa kwakuhlotshaniswa nokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili e-United States nakwamanye amazwe, phakathi kwamadoda nabesilisa, nasemifundweni engezansi kanye neyesikhathi eside. Izinhlangano zaziqinisile kunomlomo ngaphezu kokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, nakuba zombili zazibalulekile. Iphethini elijwayelekile lemiphumela lisikisela ukuthi okuqukethwe okubudlova kungase kube yinto ekhudlwana.
- "Kodwa isenzo sokudlwengula asizange sisebenzise izinga lokudlwengula?" Cha, izinga lokudlwengula liye landa eminyakeni yamuva: "Izinga lokudlwengula liyakhula, ngakho-ke ungayinaki inkulumo ye-porn-pro. ” Bona lokhu ikhasi ngaphezulu Izifundo ze-100 ezixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kocansi nokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, ukuphoqelelwa nodlame nokugxekwa okwedlulele kwesimangalo esiphindwa njalo sokuthi ukutholakala kwe-porn kubangele ukwehla kwezinga lokudlwengulwa.
I-Porn nobusha
- Kuthiwani ngokusetshenziswa kocansi kanye nentsha? Hlola lolu hlu ngaphezulu kwezinguquko ze-280 kwentsha, noma lokhu kubuyekezwa kwezincwadi ezikhuluma ngezithombe zocansi nangabantu abasha: ukubuyekeza # 1, buyekeza2, ukubuyekeza # 3, ukubuyekeza # 4, ukubuyekeza # 5, ukubuyekeza # 6, ukubuyekeza # 7, ukubuyekeza # 8, ukubuyekeza # 9, ukubuyekeza # 10, ukubuyekeza # 11, ukubuyekeza # 12, ukubuyekeza # 13, ukubuyekeza # 14, ukubuyekeza # 15, buyekeza # 16, buyekeza # 17, njll. Kusukela ekupheleni kwalokhu kubuyekezwa kocwaningo luka-2012 - Umthelela Wezithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile Ze-Intanethi Kubantwana Abasha: Ukubukezwa kocwaningo:
Ukwandiswa kwe-intanethi yizingane ezisencane kudala amathuba angakaze abe khona okufundiswa ngokocansi, ukufunda nokukhula. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingozi yokulimala ebonakalayo kulezi zincwadi iye yaholela abacwaningi ukuba baphenye ukuvezwa kwentsha ezithombeni ezingcolile ezenzweni zokuzama ukuhlukanisa lobu buhlobo. Ngokubambisana, lezi zifundo ziphakamisa that intsha edla izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ingahlakulela izindinganiso nezinkolelo ezingezona ezingokoqobo zocansi. Phakathi kokutholakele, amazinga aphakeme okuziphatha okuyekelelayo kwezocansi, ukukhathazeka ngokweqile ngokocansi, kanye nokuhlolwa kokuqala kocansi kuhlobene nokusetshenziswa kaningi kwezithombe zocansi…. Noma kunjalo, sekutholakele okuqhubekayo okuxhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwentsha kwezithombe zocansi ezibonisa ubudlova ngamazinga akhulayo wokuziphatha ngokocansi.
Izincwadi zikhombisa ukuhlangana okuthile phakathi kokusebenzisa kwentsha kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye nokuzazi. Amantombazane abika ukuthi azizwa ephansi ngokomzimba abesifazane abababheka ezintweni ezibonakalayo zobulili, kanti abafana besaba ukuthi kungenzeka bangabi yigciwane noma bakwazi ukwenza njengamadoda kule mithombo yezindaba. Intsha futhi ibika ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwazo kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kwehlile njengoba ukuzethemba kwabo nentuthuko yezenhlalo ikhula. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ucwaningo libonisa ukuthi intsha esebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ikakhulukazi ezitholakala kwi-Intanethi, inamazinga aphansi wokuhlangana komphakathi, inyuka ezinkingeni zokuziphatha, amazinga aphakeme okuziphatha okukhohlisayo, izehlakalo eziphakeme zezimpawu ezicindezelayo, futhi inciphise ukubopha okungokomzwelo nabanakekeli.
Ucwaningo olukhombisa ukukhishwa kwendawo
- Ingabe zonke izifundo azihlobene? Cha. Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-90 zibonisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-intanethi nokusetshenziswa kocansi okubangela imiphumela emibi nezimpawu, nokushintsha kobuchopho. Futhi ubone UPaul Wright, i-PhD ibiza amaqhinga angabazeki abacwaningi bezocansi (2021), edingida ukungeniswa kocwaningo oluningi lwe-longitudinal ku-porn kanye nemithelela yalo yokuchaza imbangela.
Ukukhokhisa izangqondo
- Ukuze uthole i-debunking cishe cishe yonke iphuzu lokukhuluma nge-naysayer nokutadisha okuthandwa yi-cherry bheka lokhu kuhlaziywa okubanzi: Debunking "Kungani Sikhathazeke Ngokukhathazeka Ngokubuka Izithombe Ezingcolile?? ", NguMarty Klein, Taylor Kohut, noNicole Prause (2018).
- Indlela yokuqaphela ama-athikili abathandwayo: Bakusho Prause et al., I-2015 (ngokumangalela ukuthi iyayiphuza ukulutha kabi kocansi), ngenkathi ishiya ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-50 zezinkanyezi ezisekela ukulutha kocansi.
I-4) Ingabe uGary Wilson ushicilelwe ezincwadini ezibukeziwe ngabangani?
- Ku-2016 uGary Wilson washicilela amaphepha amabili abuyekezwa kontanga:
I-5) Zikhona yini izifundo ezikhohlisayo imodeli yokulutha izidakamizwa?
- Cha Naphezu kwalokho uthi ungabona emaphephandabeni, abazange. Kulesi sethulo se-2018 uGary Wilson ubonisa iqiniso ngemuva kokufundwa okungaqondakali nokukhohlisayo kwe-5, kuhlanganise nezifundo ezimbili ze-EEG ezingalungile (Steele et al., 2013 futhi Prause et al., I-2015): Ucwaningo Lwezingubo: Iqiniso Noma Izinganekwane?
- Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, i-World Health Organization's medical diagnostic manual, I-International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11), manje iqukethe ukuxilongwa kufanelekile ukubheja kwezicansi noma ukulutha ngokobulili: "Ukucindezeleka Ngokuziphatha Ngokwemvelo.” Inkulumompikiswano isiphelile, nakuba abashokobezi be-APA's DSM-5 beqhubeka nokwenza sengathi abakasiboni isigaba esisha ku-ICD-11.
6) Ingabe odokotela nabahlengikazi bayaqaphela futhi baphatha ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi okubangelwa ucansi?
- Yebo. Leli khasi iqukethe ama-athikili nezingxoxo nabanye ochwepheshe be-150 (oprofesa be-urology, urologists, psychiatrists, psychologists, sexologists, MDs) abavuma futhi baphumelele ukuphatha i-porn-edonswe i-ED kanye nokulahleka kocansi okubangelwa i-porn.
Ngemibuzo yesayensi, igunya leyinkulungwane alifanelekile
ukucabanga okuthobeka komuntu oyedwa. ~ Galileo
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